Dating is a lot of work for INFPs, a lot more than other people tend to realize. As an INFP, I find it incredibly exhausting even getting past the first couple of dates when meeting someone new. Not because I dont want to, but because it takes up so much mental energy: I am constantly determining if we would be (or still are) a good match and if our values align, while also simultaneously trying to make sure my date or partner is happy and having a good time with me. Then I go home and end up in a catatonic state for about 3 days while my Fi is processing all the new information I just gathered. Getting any more "info" at that stage is incredibly stressful and can lead to overstimulation and/or a mental breakdown if we cant get that decompression or alone time to process. (Hence the "whiplash" of attention and self-isolation). Rinse and repeat forever lol It takes a lot of work and because our energy is so limited, so we dont give our time - mental or physical - to just anyone. Our minds are running at 100% all the time, and we cant shut it off. 😂 Yes, there are things we could work on like communicating our needs or being better at making compromises. (And we certainly want to do these things for you, too!) But what many types fail to understand is that even if we're not physically doing anything with you, you are constantly on our minds: we are always thinking about you, "feeling" about you, trying to understand you, trying to be our best for you, and working hard to develop a true soul connection with you - all the time - because we care about the quality and depth of our relationship with you. ❤
INFP just need a lot of help getting over the hurdles that they feel. That moment where Bilbo finally goes on the adventure? That is catharsis for an INFP right there. After that, we don't fecking stop. Not many people can handle those two extremes in one person, and walking on the eggshells to see which side you'll get of us. Timid sweethearts, or emotionally fueled determined ball of energy that cannot be contained, unless loved properly lol
Ive always wondered what this would be like. I always think who is supposed to be the ...responsible, .. not selfish one? Lol. 😂 I def want a judger. I would like a few ENFJ boyfriends.
It was painful to date a turbulent INFP. Heaps of love followed by . . . radio silence and disappearance. It ends up looking like a lack of sincerity. From an ISFJ
My mom’s an ISFJ. We clash like the Titans. Generally, INFPs and ISFJs aaaaren’t a terribly good match, but there are exceptions! I’m a WAY (92%) assertive INFP, though…
@@ameliadeshane9192 We're not that tricky. But if you're into flaking out all the time, or spontaneously suggesting bungy jumping or flying tomorrow to Brazil, it's possible yes we might not be a good choice. From an ISFJ
@@guybeauregard baaaabe!!! I literally ask every man I meet when we are going sky diving or on a hot air balloon ride!??. Haha!! Its an opening question. I want to know if you will have child like FUN with me, is the core of it. I havent had any men take me seriously and plan a hot air balloon date, but I did find an INTP that bought tickets to see Metallica in Seattle on a whim. I didnt even know him very well but he showed he will have fun with me. Because its expensive, thoughtful, genuine, spontaneous, I will keep most future dates easy, cheaper, fun. I will create the experience and give freely to this relationship if I can trust and flourish with him. Fun is a must. Isfj = safety, security, to me. Stability. I love this about ISTJ too. But with safety, planning, frugality, comes predictability and NO fun to a high Ne user. Thank you all for being stable pillars of society. We need you. Isfj male find an esfp/esfj if you can catch an esfp, they will bring rational fun to your life. Esfj will be a good partner long term.
As an ENTP, I probably would never date an INFP. Let's be real. Eggshells are meant to be broken. Makes them stronger, but would probably ruin most if not all my chances with INFP's.
IDK I disagree in few of the things you've said. I have alot of infp's around me and they like to roam around they like to interact with new people. Maybe they don't open up as often but they're always up for going out side and enjoy.
@@Lu_cidshere If you want an INTJ to fall instantly head-over-heels (how very un-INTJ!) and lose the ability to tell up from down, show us an INFP. It's a very common pairing. And with so many sad endings.
@@Lu_cidshere us INTJ having weird relationships with INFP is a feature, not a bug. They feel the world sucks 50% of the time, we know it 100% but willing to make an exception for them 🤣
With us INFPs being kn own Hobbits, are we sure Edgar Allen Poe and Hans Christian Andersen are ones? Emily Bronte, most definetly, but Poe and Andersen traveled a lot, ESPECIALLY Andersen. Not to mention, Poe had a lot more lovers than Andersen (though Hans tried his hardest). Just that tuberculosis was, is and always will be a witch.
intp: I've not left my room or bothered to socialize in "real space"... Ever..; so I do it all online... I've never met anyone besides istp, estp, esfp (my guesstimation of them) as even online, I don't seem to have luck socializing. I know this is just a fun video for lulz, but even for as much time as I spend in my own head, I don't think I could do with infp's internal world, what with it being so contrast from my own given what little I understand of them. Emotions = I'm walking away :D
I'm a confirmed ESTJ and here are my thoughts on the content of the video: - Isn't it a good thing that INFPs aren't compatible with many people? It lessens competition. - Inconsistency does annoy me, but I also like my space and have moments where I don't like being alone, so I get it. - How sensitive INFPs can be can be annoying asf especially when they act passive aggressive instead of confronting you about it. I once had someone legit believe I hated him just because I corrected his spelling, he's an ISFJ though. - The misspelling of the word do was a bit annoying, but I think it was intentional like due because they never do anything so everything is always overdue and if that's the case, I think that's really cool. I also prefer to stay at home, there's a lot you can do in regards to dating at home, watch a movie, make ice cream sundaes, contact spirits with a Ouija board, there's many possibilities and best of all they're cheap and don't involve going to places with unfamiliar people and uncomfortable atmospheres. Staying in for the win. As for my thoughts on INFPs outside this video: I actually love talking to them, I can talk to INFPs for hours upon days, that is until I accidentally offend them. Then they become scary asf and passive aggressive. It happens out of nowhere too, it'll seem like everything is fine, and then they'll hate me out of seemingly nowhere. When I ask them what their problem is they're like "You should know." Idk why they have to be so cryptic and why they can't just tell me when the issue first arises so we can sort it out before it becomes a problem. If I had to rate an INFP: 4.5/10.
@@Shale240 I’ve often had the “you should know” moment with an ESTJ and I’ll explain it to you this way: the way you think someone should know how to spell a word correctly because it’s basic, is similar to the way an INFP thinks someone should know how to avoid offending people, because it’s also basic. You might say, “well, ok but I tell the person they misspelt a word, rather than being passive aggressive” but that in itself is a basic emotional mistake. If you’re going to criticize someone, you need to do it tactfully and reflect on how important it really is in the context, and sometimes it’s better to enable others to learn for themselves. So in the same way you take care to learn how to spell properly and to a high standard, you also need to make sure you learn how to communicate on an emotional level and to a high standard when talking to an INFP. I hope that explains it clearly and without being passive aggressive and is helpful. Just like learning to spell correctly, it may take some time and means you’ll have to work on developing your Fi. If you have an INFP in your life they will likely be happy to teach you, but as with any other teacher you need respect them and follow their lead as well as to really want to learn in order to develop these skills properly.
@@laron2239 Thanks for the advice. I get why I need to develop my Fi, because stuff that doesn't affect me might affect other people a lot, but if I don't know how it affects me, I may not know how it affects other people, like people correcting my mistakes doesn't upset me, if I'm wrong I'm wrong, I correct it and move on, and I appreciate the fact that I didn't remain looking like an idiot. I'm not rude when correcting people though, the conversation with my friend went he misspelled the name of someone I know because he was writing a story about him. I said "Interesting story but his name is spelled with an e at the end, and not an o." I'm not sure what about that lacks tact.
@@Shale240 ok, so let’s unpack that. You say that people correcting your mistakes doesn’t upset you, you correct and move on. But…here you didn’t accept you may have offended your friend, learn and move on, but instead you defend your action and claim nothing was wrong. So to me, it sounds like the idea that you may have made a mistake with your friend does upset you, but you’re not aware of it, trying to solve it with an organized defense rather than engaging with the critique in order to learn. Now, I don’t know what happened with your friend and words alone don’t tell the whole story - what was your tone like? Did you make sure you pointed out the mistake gently with words like “oh btw no big deal, but there’s a small typo in the name just in case you didn’t catch it :)” sort of thing? You say you don’t mind having a mistake pointed out to you because you don’t want to look like an idiot, but bear in mind that’s exactly how someone feels when a mistake is pointed out to them. If it’s done in a way that also makes that person feel safe and respected then great - it’s constructive and helpful, but it’s very important that that is done properly, otherwise you’ll make that person hurt and it will also hurt your relationship with them. Finally know that when you’re not tactful, in some people’s eyes you will look like an idiot, because they may perceive it tact as a basic human skill - and that is of course what you are trying to avoid. One last thing - your Ne is really helpful here. Think not just about how you would feel or the facts of the situation but also the POSSIBILITIES - has your friend had a bad day? Is spelling a sensitive subject for them? Do they feel insecure with you? Once you’re aware of the possibilities and incorporate them into your interpretation of reality, tact becomes much easier.
@@laron2239 The tone was neutral because it was done over text, and no I didn't use those extra words because I don't see the need for them, it annoys me when people do that, my brother will be like "Can you please come do me a favor and come take out the trash?" I'd rather him just be like "Can you take out the trash?" As for when people correct me, I'd rather they not butter me up beforehand because if they're just doing it to soften the blow, it feels a bit fake. That's just my perspective though, and I know that my perspective is vastly different from theirs. I also don't care if I appear like an idiot in the eyes of other people, I just don't wat to appear like an idiot in the eyes of myself. There are different perspectives and different types of intelligence, so to some people I probably do seem like an idiot, but in turn I think they're an idiot for thinking that, because I excelled academically without even trying and I have really good common sense as well. To add more clarity to the situation regarding my friend, he's extremely sensitive, he holds himself back because he's worried people will make fun of him, a lot of his problems are self caused because he misreads people's intentions and is too afraid to confront them, someone will say something, he assumes they meant something negative, assumes they hate him, and never clears it up with them. Instead, he tells other friends, or posts about it on server discords about how people hate him. I like him but he really needs to get it together, he's 29 and I'm 18, I think it's kind of pathetic that he's so intimidated by me. He's not the only person intimidated by me though, so this isn't a him problem. However, I am really annoyed by the people who are intimidated by me, it doesn't make any sense. I'll be honest, I am a bit annoyed that you seem to be having misconceptions about me, but rather than painting a defense for myself, I say let's continue talking and you can see the kind of person I am, because this conversation is fun so far. I'm guessing you're an INFP or are you an ENFJ?
I am exactly like you 😂 woman infp💅 The problem is I'm attracted to this perfect ENTJ or enfj I will never have or fell worthy of.. I need to find another infp maybe😂
Looks like highly emotional couples can either make a goodsense of their own and their partner emotion and rank up the ladders of life meaning together, either in the opposite be a poison of randomness in each other's lives
INTJ here. I dated an INFP. TrebleKnight I thought you said you were an ENTP in a last video? Here is weather you know you and an INFP are good for you... -Is there communication -is there not communication (What is that communication??) -communication with INFP means VIBE. just vibe -Imagine if you will communicating with a giant fluffy animal. They don't speak your language, they need an insurmountable amount of training, and they love to shit in the living room aka (doing things their way mostly). -How do you know if an INFP is good at all? Do they have will power, or do they not have will power? -If they have will power, they are more able to communicate and [vibe]. -If they don't have will power, in my case, they are going to call themselves ugly and say because "I" am ugly, not right in the head, you are a loser for being with me. (They blame themselves on everything including their future issues, even your issues).
Many infps feels unworthy of attention, maybe it has to do with society, they don't appreciate our strengths. Anyway, a person who doesn't feel comfortable with themselves they are going to sabotage their relationships
@@kssgpv I understand. I appreciate INFP's. The issue I found I had when talking to someone about it was that some things were a low-key emotional test or "shit-test". Shit tests happen when your emotional authenticity is tested through verbal or non verbal communication. A lot of communication is through emotions. I have low EQ or Emotional Intelligence. Maybe some INFP's have issue with AQ Adversary Quotient. They have issue with adapting to the reality they live in because the fantasy world is mush better than the real world.
Hello TrebleKnight what's good? I am ENTP. I feel like INFPs may be too sensitive for a guy like me. There are very specific people I know: People I know I can trash talk, or say whatever I want to them in a joking way and they won't get hurt they will just laugh and come up with a comeback, and people who probably are sensitive to that. But I always make sure I am around people enough to understand their personality before I get the "freedom to say whatever you want to this person card". Of course, I don't make jokes about overly sensitive things, such as losing someone, cause that's wrong, but some people are more open to joking than others...so.....I guess people should just watch their vocal cords or annihlate them. lol.
I can kinda relate. I'm an ESTJ and I dated a couple of INFPs before, they were both extremely sensitive and like the video said you had to walk on eggshells around them, even if you were joking, because they'd be like "There's a grain of truth in every joke." It wasn't a fun time. Also, I usually fall into the first category of people.
Idk I'm an INFP and I enjoy going out and doing pretty much anything with my partner when I'm in a relationship. I agree with the texting a lot and suddenly disappearing tho, although I normally just disappear for naps
@@TrebleKnight - NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! LOL, as if... Try all you want, INFPs can't turn to the dark side anymore than fish can get dry. Even if we do turn to the dark side, it's for good reasons!!!
Fifi MAX swimming in irrational abstract chaos (Ne 2nd), will remember everything you did wrong (Si 3rd) AND they are not going to do anything about it (Te inferior)
It's kinda funny/strange that I'm conflicted on some things regarding dating someone, and then this video appears in my feed. What's even funnier is the fact that they're an ENFP which is really close to an INFP lol.
@@TrebleKnight Also i'd like to ask you if you could make more videos on the Enneagram system or other typology. I've heard that the Enneagram system could be actually more beneficial on real life and i really like to learn more about it by watching your interpretation, it's really fun to watch your videostyle.
Dating is a lot of work for INFPs, a lot more than other people tend to realize. As an INFP, I find it incredibly exhausting even getting past the first couple of dates when meeting someone new. Not because I dont want to, but because it takes up so much mental energy:
I am constantly determining if we would be (or still are) a good match and if our values align, while also simultaneously trying to make sure my date or partner is happy and having a good time with me.
Then I go home and end up in a catatonic state for about 3 days while my Fi is processing all the new information I just gathered.
Getting any more "info" at that stage is incredibly stressful and can lead to overstimulation and/or a mental breakdown if we cant get that decompression or alone time to process. (Hence the "whiplash" of attention and self-isolation).
Rinse and repeat forever lol
It takes a lot of work and because our energy is so limited, so we dont give our time - mental or physical - to just anyone. Our minds are running at 100% all the time, and we cant shut it off. 😂
Yes, there are things we could work on like communicating our needs or being better at making compromises. (And we certainly want to do these things for you, too!)
But what many types fail to understand is that even if we're not physically doing anything with you, you are constantly on our minds: we are always thinking about you, "feeling" about you, trying to understand you, trying to be our best for you, and working hard to develop a true soul connection with you - all the time - because we care about the quality and depth of our relationship with you. ❤
Omg same😭 are we all the same person??
This seems like the perfect partner 😅.
Other than both of us dying of hunger, I don't see any negatives here 😂.
-INTP
Hey! On the bright side, at least you'll most likely survive a zombie outbreak.
Me too, also INTP.
As INFP myself I came here to be jokingly offended, but what he said hits home too much to cpmplain. He told only the truth
INFP just need a lot of help getting over the hurdles that they feel. That moment where Bilbo finally goes on the adventure? That is catharsis for an INFP right there. After that, we don't fecking stop. Not many people can handle those two extremes in one person, and walking on the eggshells to see which side you'll get of us. Timid sweethearts, or emotionally fueled determined ball of energy that cannot be contained, unless loved properly lol
😢love this
*Raises Hand*🤚Um... I would actually like a video on why I should date an INFP, please.
Because we are kawaii uwu bunny rabbits 🤭
@@EarthenCavy...yup.
And *I* fear no _elil,_ so...
...
*Silflay **_hraka,_** Fiver.*
@@E4439Qv5 don’t you talk to my Fiver that way!! 😭
Is your gf talking to you after watching this
But, he is an INFP as well 😜
Ah yes, I too am in an INFP in an INFP-INFP relationship. I send my regards. 😅
I'm INFP as well and I don't understand why I would want to date another INFP. Can you give some examples?
@@dwsel I never had an interest but at the risk of being corny and narcissistic, it’s like seeing the best and worst of yourself in someone else.
Ive always wondered what this would be like. I always think who is supposed to be the ...responsible, .. not selfish one? Lol. 😂 I def want a judger. I would like a few ENFJ boyfriends.
Damn I feel called out. You know how many time I pissed off my husband this past week because I didn’t want to go anywhere? Like 15. Lmao
going places is lame lol
Agreed.🤣
INFJ’s probably have a dating desert as well. Great video btw.
It was painful to date a turbulent INFP. Heaps of love followed by . . . radio silence and disappearance. It ends up looking like a lack of sincerity. From an ISFJ
My mom’s an ISFJ. We clash like the Titans. Generally, INFPs and ISFJs aaaaren’t a terribly good match, but there are exceptions! I’m a WAY (92%) assertive INFP, though…
I would not date an ISFJ. I have a hard time maintaing a friendship with them.
@@ameliadeshane9192 We're not that tricky. But if you're into flaking out all the time, or spontaneously suggesting bungy jumping or flying tomorrow to Brazil, it's possible yes we might not be a good choice. From an ISFJ
@@guybeauregard baaaabe!!! I literally ask every man I meet when we are going sky diving or on a hot air balloon ride!??. Haha!! Its an opening question. I want to know if you will have child like FUN with me, is the core of it. I havent had any men take me seriously and plan a hot air balloon date, but I did find an INTP that bought tickets to see Metallica in Seattle on a whim. I didnt even know him very well but he showed he will have fun with me. Because its expensive, thoughtful, genuine, spontaneous, I will keep most future dates easy, cheaper, fun. I will create the experience and give freely to this relationship if I can trust and flourish with him. Fun is a must.
Isfj = safety, security, to me. Stability. I love this about ISTJ too. But with safety, planning, frugality, comes predictability and NO fun to a high Ne user. Thank you all for being stable pillars of society. We need you. Isfj male find an esfp/esfj if you can catch an esfp, they will bring rational fun to your life. Esfj will be a good partner long term.
I got myself an ENFJ… fancy that. 😅 My INFP princess butt NEEDS SOME SAVINGfrommyselfohlawd
Well for being a humanoid, INFP is pretty genuine (INTJ)
^No wonder you guys despise each other, y'know? (INTP)
@@E4439Qv5 nah. You are pretty cool too.
As an ENTP, I probably would never date an INFP. Let's be real. Eggshells are meant to be broken. Makes them stronger, but would probably ruin most if not all my chances with INFP's.
that's fair
IDK I disagree in few of the things you've said. I have alot of infp's around me and they like to roam around they like to interact with new people. Maybe they don't open up as often but they're always up for going out side and enjoy.
That's fair. I get out sometimes too, but when you are comparing INFPs to other types they don't tend to get out as often.
Maybe you should do a special warning video for us INTJs. INFPs -- we can't help ourselves. 😞
thanks for the idea
wait what do you mean by that
(Im a INTJ and I have a …interesting… relationship with my INFP friend
@@Lu_cidshere If you want an INTJ to fall instantly head-over-heels (how very un-INTJ!) and lose the ability to tell up from down, show us an INFP. It's a very common pairing. And with so many sad endings.
@@Lu_cidshere us INTJ having weird relationships with INFP is a feature, not a bug. They feel the world sucks 50% of the time, we know it 100% but willing to make an exception for them 🤣
With us INFPs being kn own Hobbits, are we sure Edgar Allen Poe and Hans Christian Andersen are ones? Emily Bronte, most definetly, but Poe and Andersen traveled a lot, ESPECIALLY Andersen. Not to mention, Poe had a lot more lovers than Andersen (though Hans tried his hardest). Just that tuberculosis was, is and always will be a witch.
intp: I've not left my room or bothered to socialize in "real space"... Ever..; so I do it all online... I've never met anyone besides istp, estp, esfp (my guesstimation of them) as even online, I don't seem to have luck socializing.
I know this is just a fun video for lulz, but even for as much time as I spend in my own head, I don't think I could do with infp's internal world, what with it being so contrast from my own given what little I understand of them.
Emotions = I'm walking away :D
This really sounds like ESTJ critique of INFPs.
I'm a confirmed ESTJ and here are my thoughts on the content of the video:
- Isn't it a good thing that INFPs aren't compatible with many people? It lessens competition.
- Inconsistency does annoy me, but I also like my space and have moments where I don't like being alone, so I get it.
- How sensitive INFPs can be can be annoying asf especially when they act passive aggressive instead of confronting you about it.
I once had someone legit believe I hated him just because I corrected his spelling, he's an ISFJ though.
- The misspelling of the word do was a bit annoying, but I think it was intentional like due because they never do anything so everything is always overdue and if that's the case, I think that's really cool.
I also prefer to stay at home, there's a lot you can do in regards to dating at home, watch a movie, make ice cream sundaes, contact spirits with a Ouija board, there's many possibilities and best of all they're cheap and don't involve going to places with unfamiliar people and uncomfortable atmospheres.
Staying in for the win.
As for my thoughts on INFPs outside this video:
I actually love talking to them, I can talk to INFPs for hours upon days, that is until I accidentally offend them.
Then they become scary asf and passive aggressive.
It happens out of nowhere too, it'll seem like everything is fine, and then they'll hate me out of seemingly nowhere.
When I ask them what their problem is they're like
"You should know."
Idk why they have to be so cryptic and why they can't just tell me when the issue first arises so we can sort it out before it becomes a problem.
If I had to rate an INFP:
4.5/10.
@@Shale240 I’ve often had the “you should know” moment with an ESTJ and I’ll explain it to you this way: the way you think someone should know how to spell a word correctly because it’s basic, is similar to the way an INFP thinks someone should know how to avoid offending people, because it’s also basic. You might say, “well, ok but I tell the person they misspelt a word, rather than being passive aggressive” but that in itself is a basic emotional mistake. If you’re going to criticize someone, you need to do it tactfully and reflect on how important it really is in the context, and sometimes it’s better to enable others to learn for themselves. So in the same way you take care to learn how to spell properly and to a high standard, you also need to make sure you learn how to communicate on an emotional level and to a high standard when talking to an INFP. I hope that explains it clearly and without being passive aggressive and is helpful. Just like learning to spell correctly, it may take some time and means you’ll have to work on developing your Fi. If you have an INFP in your life they will likely be happy to teach you, but as with any other teacher you need respect them and follow their lead as well as to really want to learn in order to develop these skills properly.
@@laron2239 Thanks for the advice.
I get why I need to develop my Fi, because stuff that doesn't affect me might affect other people a lot, but if I don't know how it affects me, I may not know how it affects other people, like people correcting my mistakes doesn't upset me, if I'm wrong I'm wrong, I correct it and move on, and I appreciate the fact that I didn't remain looking like an idiot.
I'm not rude when correcting people though, the conversation with my friend went he misspelled the name of someone I know because he was writing a story about him.
I said
"Interesting story but his name is spelled with an e at the end, and not an o."
I'm not sure what about that lacks tact.
@@Shale240 ok, so let’s unpack that. You say that people correcting your mistakes doesn’t upset you, you correct and move on. But…here you didn’t accept you may have offended your friend, learn and move on, but instead you defend your action and claim nothing was wrong. So to me, it sounds like the idea that you may have made a mistake with your friend does upset you, but you’re not aware of it, trying to solve it with an organized defense rather than engaging with the critique in order to learn. Now, I don’t know what happened with your friend and words alone don’t tell the whole story - what was your tone like? Did you make sure you pointed out the mistake gently with words like “oh btw no big deal, but there’s a small typo in the name just in case you didn’t catch it :)” sort of thing? You say you don’t mind having a mistake pointed out to you because you don’t want to look like an idiot, but bear in mind that’s exactly how someone feels when a mistake is pointed out to them. If it’s done in a way that also makes that person feel safe and respected then great - it’s constructive and helpful, but it’s very important that that is done properly, otherwise you’ll make that person hurt and it will also hurt your relationship with them. Finally know that when you’re not tactful, in some people’s eyes you will look like an idiot, because they may perceive it tact as a basic human skill - and that is of course what you are trying to avoid. One last thing - your Ne is really helpful here. Think not just about how you would feel or the facts of the situation but also the POSSIBILITIES - has your friend had a bad day? Is spelling a sensitive subject for them? Do they feel insecure with you? Once you’re aware of the possibilities and incorporate them into your interpretation of reality, tact becomes much easier.
@@laron2239 The tone was neutral because it was done over text, and no I didn't use those extra words because I don't see the need for them, it annoys me when people do that, my brother will be like
"Can you please come do me a favor and come take out the trash?"
I'd rather him just be like
"Can you take out the trash?"
As for when people correct me, I'd rather they not butter me up beforehand because if they're just doing it to soften the blow, it feels a bit fake.
That's just my perspective though, and I know that my perspective is vastly different from theirs.
I also don't care if I appear like an idiot in the eyes of other people, I just don't wat to appear like an idiot in the eyes of myself.
There are different perspectives and different types of intelligence, so to some people I probably do seem like an idiot, but in turn I think they're an idiot for thinking that, because I excelled academically without even trying and I have really good common sense as well.
To add more clarity to the situation regarding my friend, he's extremely sensitive, he holds himself back because he's worried people will make fun of him, a lot of his problems are self caused because he misreads people's intentions and is too afraid to confront them, someone will say something, he assumes they meant something negative, assumes they hate him, and never clears it up with them.
Instead, he tells other friends, or posts about it on server discords about how people hate him.
I like him but he really needs to get it together, he's 29 and I'm 18, I think it's kind of pathetic that he's so intimidated by me.
He's not the only person intimidated by me though, so this isn't a him problem.
However, I am really annoyed by the people who are intimidated by me, it doesn't make any sense.
I'll be honest, I am a bit annoyed that you seem to be having misconceptions about me, but rather than painting a defense for myself, I say let's continue talking and you can see the kind of person I am, because this conversation is fun so far.
I'm guessing you're an INFP or are you an ENFJ?
I am exactly like you 😂 woman infp💅
The problem is I'm attracted to this perfect ENTJ or enfj I will never have or fell worthy of.. I need to find another infp maybe😂
Looks like highly emotional couples can either make a goodsense of their own and their partner emotion and rank up the ladders of life meaning together, either in the opposite be a poison of randomness in each other's lives
INTJ here. I dated an INFP. TrebleKnight I thought you said you were an ENTP in a last video?
Here is weather you know you and an INFP are good for you...
-Is there communication
-is there not communication (What is that communication??)
-communication with INFP means VIBE. just vibe
-Imagine if you will communicating with a giant fluffy animal. They don't speak your language, they need an insurmountable amount of training, and they love to shit in the living room aka (doing things their way mostly).
-How do you know if an INFP is good at all? Do they have will power, or do they not have will power?
-If they have will power, they are more able to communicate and [vibe].
-If they don't have will power, in my case, they are going to call themselves ugly and say because "I" am ugly, not right in the head, you are a loser for being with me. (They blame themselves on everything including their future issues, even your issues).
lol I don't think I said that. Maybe I misspoke or something.
Many infps feels unworthy of attention, maybe it has to do with society, they don't appreciate our strengths. Anyway, a person who doesn't feel comfortable with themselves they are going to sabotage their relationships
@@kssgpv I understand. I appreciate INFP's. The issue I found I had when talking to someone about it was that some things were a low-key emotional test or "shit-test". Shit tests happen when your emotional authenticity is tested through verbal or non verbal communication. A lot of communication is through emotions. I have low EQ or Emotional Intelligence. Maybe some INFP's have issue with AQ Adversary Quotient. They have issue with adapting to the reality they live in because the fantasy world is mush better than the real world.
Hello TrebleKnight what's good? I am ENTP. I feel like INFPs may be too sensitive for a guy like me. There are very specific people I know: People I know I can trash talk, or say whatever I want to them in a joking way and they won't get hurt they will just laugh and come up with a comeback, and people who probably are sensitive to that. But I always make sure I am around people enough to understand their personality before I get the "freedom to say whatever you want to this person card". Of course, I don't make jokes about overly sensitive things, such as losing someone, cause that's wrong, but some people are more open to joking than others...so.....I guess people should just watch their vocal cords or annihlate them. lol.
I can kinda relate.
I'm an ESTJ and I dated a couple of INFPs before, they were both extremely sensitive and like the video said you had to walk on eggshells around them, even if you were joking, because they'd be like
"There's a grain of truth in every joke."
It wasn't a fun time.
Also, I usually fall into the first category of people.
You sound like an ENTP to me, and yeah I think an INFP, ENTP relationship could work, but it would be a struggle for sure.
Im a INTJ, and i have the same problems as you, that shows just how little the thinkers get along with INFPS
I don't know any entp I like, unfortunately they look like misogynists or misanthropists and very untrustworthy men, charlatans
Everything is spot on.. And I am INFP..
Thanks for saving an ENTP 🚶
Byeee😂
Idk I'm an INFP and I enjoy going out and doing pretty much anything with my partner when I'm in a relationship. I agree with the texting a lot and suddenly disappearing tho, although I normally just disappear for naps
Are you battling Kenobi or just training?
Just training for now, gotta make sure I learn how to make sure he doesn't get the high ground when I turn to the dark side.
@@TrebleKnight - NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
LOL, as if...
Try all you want, INFPs can't turn to the dark side anymore than fish can get dry.
Even if we do turn to the dark side, it's for good reasons!!!
Why am I (INFP) watching this 😂
it's good to get your daily dose of self hate lol
@@TrebleKnight 😂 true lol 🗿
Can you make a video about stop believing you're edition with INTP ?
I have a mile long requirements list, it’s easy going to super Harvard than get into our heart for real 😂😅
Why you and your intp girlfriend broke up?
Well that's a bit personal, but I'll say thing ended on good terms.
Eek ! WAY too much FiFi
Fifi MAX swimming in irrational abstract chaos (Ne 2nd), will remember everything you did wrong (Si 3rd) AND they are not going to do anything about it (Te inferior)
YES.
would
It's kinda funny/strange that I'm conflicted on some things regarding dating someone, and then this video appears in my feed.
What's even funnier is the fact that they're an ENFP which is really close to an INFP lol.
"School of huh!?" - Steve Harvey, probably
(I'm guessing this was a mistake)
omg XDD Yeah I meant knocks. This is why gimp needs a spell checker :P
@@TrebleKnight Yeah, indeed. It did seem a little off-brand :P
What happend to your INTP GF
we split up a while ago. It was sad at the time, but life moves on
@@TrebleKnight Yeah i expected you to answer that just making sure...
@@TrebleKnight Also i'd like to ask you if you could make more videos on the Enneagram system or other typology. I've heard that the Enneagram system could be actually more beneficial on real life and i really like to learn more about it by watching your interpretation, it's really fun to watch your videostyle.
@@justmahir2754 Thanks! I want to make more enneagram videos at some point. It's just a mater of then I get around to it lol
Maybe a video of differences between infp and intp girlfriends 😅
All the infp out there when they see this☠️
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Why?
haha k