Sadness Vs. Depression
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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Depression is like wanting to go home but already being there.
Bernard I cannot tell you the amount of times I have said out loud, “I want to go home”. And I am home. And then I register I am home and then realize what I meant was to feel like somewhere I felt .....something positive.
Yes , a homeless soul
This explains me
This is pretty accurate
Exactly
When you are sad, you cry, cry and cry till your heart desires. When you are in depression, you wanna cry but tears don't appear and the pain gets accumulated in your heart.
This should be a famous quote
right! i agree with this one. i wonder about fake tears though; where you force yourself to cry hmm...
That’s true to me.. I don’t understand what’s happening, i feel broken inside and feel like crying my heart out but the tears won’t come out. It frustrates us and affects our relationships with friends and family.
Wow me too it's hard
Sometimes I cry cuz I can't hold it anymore on me
Depression and anxiety is like being scared and tired at the same time. It’s the fear of failure but have no urge to be productive. it’s wanting friends but hate socializing. it’s wanting to be alone but not wanting to be lonely. it’s like a big ass whole that just gets bigger and bigger no matter what you feed it-it’s needy and very unsatisfied. it’s feeling everything at once and then feeling paralyzingly numb.
Holy fuck I actually felt this comment on a whole new level, no one has ever understood me like this comment, this LITTERALY explains me
Panic attacks too
That sounds like being lazy lol
It's strange when a stranger knows how and what u r going through
@@levinoshoujo1474 u arent the only one with struggles, so no big surprise
*When you're so scared to die but too tired to live*
Just true...
@@Riiareader you're a good person
Wait this is accurate..
You're saying facts,i don't think it can be so relatable
This
Depression is like giving up before even trying. It holds you back and keeps you from completing any tasks.
So true
Unmotivated 24/7
Literally and it's so hard to deal with that I just wanna give up :)
My final exams are coming but i can't study
I want to
But I can't
I like in bed all day doing nothing
Feeling empty all the time
@@kratis2384 exactly what I am going through right now
People think if your depressed you want to die. Not always. I'm to scared to die.
And just like that, I live like a mannequin no matter how tired I am of living.
It's not that all depressed people necessarily want to die. They just want the pain to end & most believe that's the final option. Sad how depression is still seen as a correlation/link to wanting to die though
It’s like I’m stuck. Some days I don’t wanna die, other days I wanna die. And no matter how much I talk, pray, take a walk, or workout, nothing makes me truly happy. I can have a good moment once a week. When I’m alone there’s just something that feels like it’s eating my insides. But i never knew it could be depression, because I started feeling it when I was about 7/8. I’m 13 now.
It takes me so long to get out of bed, it physically and mentally drains me. One day I stood up and fell right to the floor and cried for no reason.
I stopped playing the piano, stopped drawing and stopped playing on a basketball team. Those didn’t interest me anymore.
I haven’t been diagnosed, but I took a test at the doctors and she said she was a bit concerned..? I don’t know I do have many symptoms, but I don’t know if I have it.
@@user-kl9hv6xb3n They can do the things that made them happy before but with their situation, those things do not have an effect on them anymore. That's how it is.
I wanna die and end this pain but I'm not scared of dying, I'm scared that I could relive that pain for eternity in hell
Telling a depressed person "You can't be depressed, you have everything!" is like telling a deaf person "You can't be deaf, you have ears!"
Yeah, It’s not because there ungrateful
It’s because they’re born that way
Wrong quote, ears are a necessity, not a desire. "You can't be deaf, you have hearing aid" will sound correct.
@@sidharthballavmohanty3340 You don't get it, do you
Actually, disregard this reply. Have a nice day.
@@xpedro2960 yes I do get it.
when you've been depressed for over 5 years now and professionally diagnosed with severe depression but your parents still think you're just "sad"
WunderFly 😔
I can relate
WunderFly I've had depression for about 2and a half years but only my best friend knows he also has depression
Melanin Q I see what you're trying to say here but if you think what you eat is the cause of having depression you're wrong
WunderFly yes thank you. And it gives me more anger cuz they dont get me
I can't tell if I'm sad or genuinely depressed. I stay awake at night because I can't sleep, I'm very rarely invited out places with my friends anymore but when I am I can't stop overthinking and feeling so down, I end up wanting to go home early or I end up going home early. Idk it's things like that and it never stops. It feels like it never stops or will never end. Sigh:( I wanna open up but I know my parents will probably tell me "you're just hormonal" "we all get sad" "you think your life is so tough?" "Stop feeling sorry for yourself" etc.
i'm figuring out that it could be a single trigger event or specific situation that caused the onset of depression. might be a long and complex event but there's usually something. hanging out with people helps to distract us, but doesn't help us work through the cause or find a solution.
I feel the same way about my parents which is why I gave up on trying to tell them and instead focused on telling people who I know will understand - psychologists or people who have a basic understanding of psychology. By telling a psychologist I don't have to deal with my parents and all the drama that ensues and I can focus on getting proper help.
I suggest you do the same but having a support system of friends and family is important too.
Girl A hello I've been losing weight even though I eat I've lost 5 close friends because " you've changed you don't talk to us or hang out any more" and things that I usually like to do don't make me feel good any more positive thinking and meditation isn't working. is this depression?
Why are people telling others to fucking kill themselves!! you should not joke about that!!! it's immature and you need to fucking grow up.
Same.. it just sucks..
Depression is like being dead,while your body is alive.
Valerie Angell That's right..
Yep
Are you dead?
*only on the inside*
That sums it up so precisely!!
Agreed I have felt that many times.Also I say and feel that I am not alive I just exist which is the same to what you said or pretty close.
I just want to know what being mentally stable is like for one minute again..
oh my god. the comments are soo sad. this one blew me up. im crying. im sure you will. i hope
i feel the same way....... i cant remember what it feels like to be happy, i wish i could...
I'm so sad. That's all I can say. But it's deeper and darker than what I can put to words. I often say I'm sad to people to not put weights and pressure on anyone. They'll think she'll be happy again, this sadness won't stay long. But I didn't feel happy in a long time already!
Guys really felling very sad for all of you😢
I wish i could help you all but I can't
But i suggest you , You should try spirituality
same.
Remember; depression doesn't mean that the person cannot feel happiness. People with depression can laugh, they can smile, but often it won't last. Unless the person with depression is trying to hide their actual feelings.
Da Dragon Durp exactly. Depression is like you have long dips in mood but small spikes to “baseline” where you aren’t depressed but not truly happy either. Maybe a small bit of happiness will come every once in a while, but the depression tends to last longer/override the good times
There you are, in all the videos I watch
Da Dragon Durp it’s so me and I really don’t know how to get over it
True
Thank God someone understands I tried to explain it to my friend once but she didn't get it I guess not all people can comprehend it but that's okay I'm glad someone can understand and that multiple people can relate I go to school and there was this dude that makes me laugh all the time he's my friend he's funny and I like hanging out with him I laugh with him I laugh with my other funny friends but that doesn't mean that feeling lasts forever and it doesn't last forever
Depression;
Having a heart that tries to live with a soul that tries to die
It’s actually more like: Having a heart that tries to live with a dead soul.
Depressed people don't all want to die
@@skkaws We want to end the pain
Depression is more like when you are in a crowded room full of people still u feel alone and more like empty, thinking how ur existence matters, it's like everyday you are alive but you have lost the meaning of living. It makes you question why did your parents bring you into this world, and you don't want to do anything nothing excites you and you see no valid point in living but still you have to live silently coping with all the feelings that only make you feel more worst than you did the previous day....
The thing is parents don't understand depression
They think it could just be cured but that's not the case
@@crazyfournier2978 if parents could really understand depression don't you think half of the people who have depression would have been cured I mean they say they understand but the fact is unless u r in a person's shoe u don't really know how they feel, they can only pretend to understand
ღ Rose Cathedral ღ happiness is a high fever that will break.
ღ Rose Cathedral ღ yep
Depression is being around so much happiness but cannot feel it
Same
I can relly relate specially on school or outside
That's me in school. My classmates and friends are very positive and outgoing people. And they always find a way to make each other laugh. But I can't feel the same way.
I feel that....😢😢😔😔
*exactly how i'm feeling right now, thank you for letting me know i'm nit the only one
Lots of power and love towards you
May God bless you ameen*
Yes, when I am around someone happy it make me cry because I want to be happy😭
Depression is like listening to a sad song but you can’t hear it. Your own thoughts are louder than it and your chest hurts.
Shining DreamLight
Huh.
Hi army I hope u’re doing well, and if not, I promise it’s gonna be better. I purple u with all my heart💜
Me every night
Couldn't have said it better.
Jesus Loves you, don't give up.
me sending this to my friends who fake depression, glorify depression, self diagnosed themselves, and make it a competition.
@Not even wrong ?
@Not even wrongno.. people do fake depression they’re people who use depression as an excuse to problems and say that their more “depressed” than others as if its a competition, and they glorify depression as if its a personality trait. I agree that mental health is a hard topic to talk about but there are people out there who fake mental illnesses to feel invalidated and to feel more “special.”
@Not even wrong are you clinically diagnosed with depression? If not you can’t really diagnose yourself with depression, depression is a mental illness is something that shouldn’t be taken lightly, if you suspect you have depression you should seek help. Please don’t think your the only person suffering because your never alone, I relate to you. Ever since I was little I had suicidal thoughts because of my toxic family.
@Not even wrong I think you just don’t believe in yourself, I don’t know if your making efforts like making yourself busy starting a new activity or hobby doing something that makes you feel the happiest and feel like you have some kind of hope in life instead of feeling hopeless. You can try trauma art, I heard it can help.
@Not even wrong yea give it a try! And tell me if it works. I gotta start working through my ptsd after my exams this month. Ptsd hit me real hard this year, so now the straight A student is trying to somehow pass this exam :D
Me: open up with one of my friends about what I feel.
Her: here we go again.
Me: never open up again to someone.
It's so sad to hear those things from friends.
@@koriroti Yes. It was sad but as a person you need to understand them too because you know there's no person who haven't a problem. Maybe they are tired too. :) thats why I understand them and I try not to open up them again because I feel that it will be burden to them.
They're not real friends if they say shit like that to u
I have a friend that might have depression and every time she talks about it with me I try to comfort her and cheer her up but it is not effective at all ! I am trying my best but I feel useless and it saddens me that I am not able
to help :(
@@abeliever6022 Tomorrow comes so that we have a chance to be kinder than yesterday, fill more love around you. That's ultimate goal in life. So, do what you are doing. It's not sad. I'm happy you are trying to help her. It will be alright. Believe that in you.
One of my teachers described deppression as 'long lasting sadness'
That was the first class I ever did with her and I dislike her already.
I'm giving up
yes.. I mostly let it all out when I had an argument with my parents. I go in my room and think/cry about all the time where i felt alive, where I was happy, a happy girl. with alot of friends, everyday was an happy day but now it feels like I am lost, I've lost something. I feel like it wasnt me who lived that fun time, it feels like thats another person. or You can make me a beautiful gift, it doesn't makes me happy....(anymore). Then I often think ''why I am still alive? Life is so much pain"
that happens to me too. i sit and think to myself... what’s the point of living. the same cycle keeps repeating over and over again. nothing exciting, no friends, there’s really nothing. then i begin to think about useless things and it leads to suicidal thoughts
I had so many little reasons, that I didn't know....what happened
@@ibakaddicted You cry. Nothing makes me happy or sad anymore
@@ibakaddicted same thing happens to me
it's a horrible feeling when you're just going through the everyday routines of life completely numb to everything and nothing interests you anymore
Yo
My life
omg i really hope that anyone who’s going trough this get over it, i’ll be praying for you, i love you, someone loves you :(❤️
Appreciate it..... But advice if u know someone who suffers from depression, don't day things like "get over it".
This made me smile 😭🤧
@@fatematharoo7537 yh things take time 😶
Jesus Loves you, don't give up.
thanks! thank you so much your words mean the world to me.
Thank you, usually when I say "I'm sad" people tell me "Stop faking depression". Like, what? I never said I was depressed I said I was sad... and then I even got cancelled in a discord server for "faking depression"
When people who are depressed commit/attempt suicide they don't want to die they just want to stop feeling that emptiness
true .....
but no one understand
they still call you selfish
and it hurts
True
@@mehakgill5134 i think thats because many people fake depression these days.. so everyone thinks now that depression is not serious
@@mehakgill5134 true I have had thoughts about it. im trying to not do it.but the world would be better without me in it....
Edit:I feel like people won't care...yes I have 3 bffs,yes I have siblings,parents,pets but I feel that nobody would care
@@rx5830 im sure ure wrong, i love u
I hate it when people are like "oH mY gOd iM sO dEpReSsEd!" When they are feeling sad. I also hate it when you are actually depressed and you laugh once and people are like "uR nOt dEpReSsEd!" When you are but you just found something funny. It drives me crazy!
Also if you are depressed I know it may be hard to speak to someone. I completely understand. Don't think you're are worthless. Someone does love you and wants you to be happy. I want you to be happy. Please take care.
BTW I'm not looking for any likes I just want people to be happy with themselves. ☺
You made me cry
So true...
@the henchman you are the reason why depressed people cant open up. Grow up lmao
So true the other day I said something sad as a joke (I didnt mean to make it sad btw) just because I try to act happy so I don't worry people but then my sister was like "stop acting so depressed" like what? Im not mad at her but she just probably doesn't see how I feel
My friends and family sometimes consider me as a useless person.
But y’all shouldn’t define or decide if someone actually has depression. Ppl are struggling differently n you’re definitely not a doctor to declare if someone is faking it or not. I’ve seen many in the comment section like
Fake depression: blah blah
Real depression: blah blah
Not because you experienced depression in a certain way means others should experience the same to confirm that they are suffering the same mental disorder. Not everyone experiences depression the same way.
Thank god, someone is wise. There are different forms of depression and what you may suffer from, others may not.
They may suffer in a different way.
Seek Help from a psychiatrist, if you think you have depression. Don't let a youtube comments decide your health.
If you feel the same, seek help.
If you don't feel the same and the comments say that you are faking it, SEEK HELP. they are not doctors and you may have different symptoms.
@The Mighty can you please pin this comment on top. So that those who may conclude they don't have depression reading the rest of the comments and not seek help. A loss of life can be avoided if they know that different forms of depression exist and they should seek help. Please.
yep, wise words sensei
Romans 10:13 "For whosoever shall call upon the name of The Lord (Jesus Christ) shall be saved!" God bless, much love to you all. Just wanted to share some love that God leads us to instead of the hate that is so often portrayed in the world :) I mean no disrespect or harm to anyone or their beliefs, even if they are different from mine. God bless and may you give Jesus a chance sometime! xoxo
You also shouldn’t self diagnose your self with depression without a doctors help. It’s hard to believe every single person in this comment section has actual depression. Depression is not a mood it’s an actual illness.
Depression is like a shadow- it always follows you wherever you go
Literally me :
I want to die because of depression but I'm too scared to die because of anxiety
This is so relateable...
that was me when i had depression lol
Yeah true
Gacha_ gwihan i have a friend like this and she’s desperate. She really want to die and trust me. She lives in a horror movie. I want to meet her so bad and to take her out of that think but i’m still a seventeen y old child that can’t even feel a sentiment at all. But all i know is that i want to get her out of there. Really quick.
Gacha_ gwihan the only reason I’m alive is because I’m afraid the only reason I’m afraid is because I’m alive 🙃
when you’re classmates say they’re depressed when they’re really just sad
Way TOO relatable even teachers and when I tried covincing them they were like ignoring it or basically persuading me to commit suicide instead of helping
Sad isn't good either cuz it can also lead to depression
Wølfy-Gacha definitely true
What pisses me off is, my family uses Depression as a joke.
Whenever i dont have the energy to hide my depression, they say, "wHy aRe yOu dEpPreSsEd?" With sarcasm.
It pisses me off because depression is not something to joke about, and its not something to be said with sarcasm.
i fully agree
Also in loads of cases there’s unlikely to be a ‘reason’
Yeeaah,they might need to be confronted or something,because Joking about Depression is disgraceful! I--I'm near the lesson about Emotions in a class of mine,and It seemed like your parents...have forgotten about it...Their teachers must be so disgusted,even beyond the grave because of how their ex-students treated their child.
If anything,THEY'RE the joke,not your depression.Please seek someone to talk about.
Bruh same I literally have to fake being okay or else my mom thinks I’m not okay, like I literally wasn’t okay in the first place but honestly the reason why I have to fake it is because she just tells me I need to read my Bible more and get closer to God so it goes away. She thinks me reading my Bible will make me be happy all the time and doesn’t understand why I’m actually depressed. Like religion may work for her, but it’s not exactly for me, I’m okay with it but she’s like a hardcore Christian and thinks everything is demonic. I don’t have anyone else to talk to so she’s the closest person to me even though she dislikes a lot of the things I enjoy. Man, idk what to do anymore.
I agree. People at school are like "OoOoHhHh ThAtS dEpReSsInG" and don't really think about if somebody really does have depression.
I suffer from (professionally diagnosed) depression and this is very true, but many of us feel depression as something else. Yes it does feel like numbness but things that have helped me have been taking nice warm baths, putting on makeup, going for walks, folding warm clothes, just mundane actions that normally help get me back in sync. 
Marina Martin yeah same....i am not able to focus on my studies because of that
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i always thought that because i can never cry it’s because i’m not truly depressed, but i know now it’s because i’m so numb
My depression when I have fun:
"Why are tou having fun? Aren't you supposed to be depressed? You have lots of problems"
Omg this is me everyday.... whenever im in my "supposedly" happy moment, i become too scared to be happy bcs i knew if im being happy something bad are awaiting me. I mean- whats the point of being happy anyway if youre just gonna be sad all over again.
snatzira 27 thé point of being happy is that even tho you’re going to experience sadness again, you can always cherish those few moments, at least for a few seconds
same here
look up atypical depression
That’s the devil honey pray to Jesus and you will find happiness
*Depression is like being locked up in a pitch dark room and you don't know where the exit is*
I have been gone through depression last two years ...but now I'm feeling it was because first I didn't work as I should and after that I regret that why I didn't done this work ...and then comparing to others makes it more worst ....one day I believe that there is only God and me....and I don't have to worry bkz God is with me all time.....every thing happened to me had a reason...and now it's me and God ..no comparing....no depression let's work and make this life worthy and helpful for others💫❣
To people who fakes depression, look at this!
This reminds me of a picture I saw it said:
:( this is what sadness looks like
:) this is what depression looks like
It's true
Rose Gold when your sad you have a frown or a blank face depression you do have those faces but you hide them when your depressed you act like your ok
Lucinda Luci did you see this picture on tumblr or Ifunny perhaps?
unfortunately this is true..I always feeling so down by myself..in front of my friends I was like always cheerful and funny..but in the end.. the emptiness just came back..I was too embarrassed to talk this issue with my friends, I always thought what they may say like "meh..not my problem" so until now, I just keep it to myself
Not really. Whether you show it or hide it depends on who you are as a person, not on whether you're sad or depressed. imo.
Yoshiki X I told my best friend and she said exactly that, that it's not her problem...she also said that she can't stand me anymore this way and she has to think about herself and her happiness with the boyfriend she's always wanted. She said I had to solve my problems first, and only after we could be friends again. She also deleted from instagram every single photo with me, as if it was enough to erase someone from your life. But my other friends stayed close to me instead, they didn't leave. They're there to listen to me and try to help as they can. So it all depends on who's standing in front of you. Try to overcome this fear and talk, it really helps. But in doing so be careful who you decide to trust. You can do it💪🏼
I suffer from depression and social anxiety😶
Kristina Sirk so do I, and I also have extreme anxiety, to the point where it all just makes me cry, even when what usually makes me happy is not making me happy whats so ever:(
@@alayna5696 im suffering through it right now, im getting a diary this week so i can just spill all my feelings on paper and hope for this to stop because its really affecting me at home and in class. What one thing that keeps me from being completely empty is the bible and praying, when i have done a prayer or read some passages it feels like everything was back to my normal self before all the saddeness and emptiness happend but after a while i just go back to being.....empty. i hope god stops making me suffer through all this.....
bullet ghost exactly, I should probably get a diary too.
@@alayna5696 You should, i feel like spilling all my problems or things that go on my mind that make me empty on paper rather than to one of my "friends" or a therapist, but i do feel like if depression keeps becoming worse and wose you should see one, espcially if your young though i bet its going to be hard to tell your parents, i havnt yet considering i want to see if this helps for at least 2 weeks, hope you feel better today.
bullet ghost yea, but my mom just says I'm just "sad". I have been "sad" for 3 months already, and I have anxiety plus I feel like nobody likes or understands me:(
"I provide wisdom, advice and give love, I wish to find some myself but I get none"
Me: *watches depression videos from recommended*
Depression: *gets worse*
how are you, my dude?
Same tho, i watch them so that maybe i can feel something, other than just emptiness. When you can't feel happiness, the next best option is sadness. At least then you can cry until you begin to forget, instead of sitting like a boiling pot about to spill over.
I don’t always feel numb when depressed, I feel tired, I feel teary (alot, even for months on). Whenever I feel numb though, I self harm or try my hardest to put myself to sleep because I can’t stand it, I can’t stand being awake and feeling nothing, feeling like I have no purpose, lacking self esteem and it is even worse when followed with random panic attacks. I just feel so tired of it all, I want to escape and never go out again but I know I have to the next day or there will come even worse consequenses leaving me more depressed than now. I am exhausted.
Ayy my conditions
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- A possible friend.
Have a magical day I am so sorry for you. Remember God gave this problem to solve. To see our strength. Remember you have a purpose. You dont know it yet but you soon will. Good Luck with your adventure! If you need someone to talk to I am here. Also dont self harm it wont take the pain away. We all around you dont hate you.
Sylvia's Channel i want u guyz to noe u r beautiful souls
Have a magical day you just put into words how I feel ALL THE TIME and I’m so exhausted by feeling this way.
And what makes it even worse's the fact that You tell your family about your depression and They tell you to make yourself happy.
I was told to cheer up once. The moment they saw my reaction they never said it again😂it’s difficult because they find it hard seeing you like this too. I do try and put myself in both situations to understand why people don’t understand
I don't know why but every time I watch video about depression, I remember me beeing in depression and I cry, cause I know the "pain". When you cry without any reason, when you wanna feel even worse, when you hurt yourself. And you can laugh cause the joke you just heard was really funny, but it doesn't make you happy. Every time you are gonna go for a walk with your friends, you think it'll help you, but it doesn't. Love saved me. That girl didn' love me, but I loved her. I was suprised that I am able to feel happiness again. That were bad realations, but it was worth it. Guys you are not alone. And even now I can't hold my tears, because I know how hard it is for you.
Hey,
I am going thru depression and I feel u bud. I was exactly thinking the same, I was asking God for LOVE...its such beautiful thing u can understand only if u have been thru it.
sigh.. im glad some of us can be happy, it's not impossible, just very hard. Happy for u:)
Depression is like endlessly falling in a void of your own thoughts and never reaching the ground
I am already dead , just living life physically ........
Depression or sadness ..
.. Feels like drowning but not being able to die
I never want to drown
Yes... Its pretty difficult to open up to someone about your state..... And yes... We need people to listen...
I pray for all depressed people. It horrible, I have faced depression and schizophrenia together many years . thanks God now I have recovered from last two years.. I can understand the pain of my sweet fellows.. May lord give you happy, healthy and prosperous life..Aameen
@@kyraphillips5915 it may sound stupid but meditation can really help
@@ΓιαννηςΠ-η3π for some
@@mr.unlucky2675 If it works it works for everyone but because we are all different for some people it may take longer as meditation is a bit hard to get good at but its the only real solution to start taking control of your mind without the help of medication
@@ΓιαννηςΠ-η3π Well. Funny that it takes *too* long for some people. Then they do something, they would regret, or not, depends on the circumstances.
Romans 10:13 "For whosoever shall call upon the name of The Lord (Jesus Christ) shall be saved!" God bless, much love to you all. Just wanted to share some love that God leads us to instead of the hate that is so often portrayed in the world :) I mean no disrespect or harm to anyone or their beliefs, even if they are different from mine. God bless and may you give Jesus a chance sometime! xoxo
Oh man, so you know what I hate most about depression? Having generally good friends that seem to have absolutely no grasp of your situation. Ya know, say you haven't talked to them in a while and then you call them up or whatever and you're like "Sorry man, I've just been really depressed lately and it sucks. I'm a liitle better today though. Hopefully I'll get it together soon". And then they're like "That does suck... Hope you feel better... Oh, and I'm so glad your back, we haven't hung out in a while! I was so worried!! **bla bla bla** And it'd really be great if we hung out more often... **bla bla bla** no offense, but your abscence is kind of made the collab/project/whatever fall behind so maybe you could help me out with it... **bla bla bla**." I know it's hard for some people to understand others feelings, but jeez! It makes you want to call them out on it, but you know that'd you'd just end up blatantly insulting them because they clearly don't realize what they're doing wrong..
Not only that, but now you know that you couldn't possibly talk about your depression with them further, so now you REALLY don't feel like calling them up again... And then you start feeling like a selfish ass because youre letting your problems ruin someone else's day...
To fucking true.
That One I called my friend out on it and it just mad everything worst and now all of my friends hate me idk why tho 😭
OmgItsVicky that's not true friendship and BTW, you'll have lots of friends in life... Not everyone is meant to be a lifelong friend and that can actually be really rare... If it bothers you, pick the friend you get on web the best and just ask them to tell you if you scare them and check in with yourself to see if you're own expectations are too high... Tell them what you need when you're in the black... None of us have ESPN and you know, everyone's involved in their own lives too and they might even have troubles they're afraid to talk to you about because they're worried it will harm you somehow... So it's on to talk about what you can tolerate, what they can, and focus on feeling better Wether they are around or not :)
Your friends may know how you feel even if they don’t express it. I have a few friends that have depression and they constantly lean on me for support. I also have depression, generalised Anxiety and social anxiety. I don’t talk to my friends about my mental illnesses so they assume that I don’t have any. Working on projects is often very difficult because I’m battling with my own demons without much support. When I’m doing a project with someone else who’s depressed I’m constantly check on them. They don’t always realise the pressure that they are putting on me. People who have depression often feel alone like nobody understands them. I feel this way all the time but the truth is often people do know how they feel. It may seem like your friends don’t understand how you feel but they may understand. If you try to see things in their perspective you’ll realise they aren’t being that selfish.
Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: it is easier to say, ‘My tooth is aching’ than to say, ‘My heart is broken.’ 🙂
A cop once walked by my brothers car and noticed a bunch of medication (for my brothers depression and other illnesses) so he knocked on the window. The cop started questioning my brother about what all the pills were for and my brother told him that they were for his crippling depression and other things. Then the cop said “So, what are you depressed about” and my brother tired to explain that it’s a mental illness that causes things that people without it don’t understand. The cop didn’t believe him so searched his car and tore out a part of it to look for more pills/“drugs”. This made me so angry!! The cop didn’t even apologize for tearing apart his car or giving him a hard time about his mental illnesses.
Kirsten Martin If they were all Rx, and with his name on them, the cop never should have searched his car. That's not right.
You know you could have taken legal action right
Exactly! Don't just stand there. Take action!
Depression is like being extremely sad because everything’s going just fine ..
Yeah and something that hurts is when you see everyone all happy, having a great and fun time while your just there feeling sad,that’s happen to me a lot
Feels like grief but no one has died
It feels numb... Like being in a very, very, very huge room surrounded by darkness. There's always that small candle light somewhere, that momentary happiness that helps you wonder around the room, looking for the damn door and the second you're almost there... It's gone and there you are again, left to wallow in your inner darkness along with monsters until the candle light appears somewhere else.... And the process goes on and on and on...
XOTWOD This is very accurate
How accurate this is really hurts 💔....
This is my life in a short paragraph💔.........
Hailey Love we gotta hold on... No matter how hard it gets, how bad... I believe others better
At least before it shatters all over again right 😶
I’m pretty sure I’m depressed but I don’t feel like that, I’m comfortable being alone and numb all by myself
Depression is like when you're not interested in what you love again, you dont have motivation to do anything, you want to be alone all day, no talking, just lay in bed all day
I've been in my depression when in high school and it feels so bad, everyday i wish i was never born and i wanna die but i dont wanna die, everyday in school i just keep quiet sit in my chair and do nothing, no talking, just keep quiet, i feel everything was uninsteresting. But no one could understand what's happen with me, they're just ignoring me and calling me a freak, that's just make me more lonely
Thanks for the concept of sadness and depression, because there are some people that don't know the meaning of that and think that they both are the same.
Something I can't get over is I once told my friend I was felling depressed and she said "you're not depressed. But [name] ARE depressed, she's even taking meds!".
That really hurt me, and it crosses my mind so many times per week..
For me depression isn't crying all the time-I rather find it hard to cry, I feel numb, or something is wrong with me, and the silliest comment or post can make me burst into laughter, but I'm not fine. And I have no one to talk about it to either.
If you're feeling depressed -
Talk with me. I'LL BE A FRIEND. 😄
"How can strangers be friends?"
-See my name. Best if luck. I'll be a good listener.
"What's your purpose?"
-My purpose is I wanna feel a depressed person is smiling. What can be greater than this?😄😊
@@shrenalforever2135 haha omg I looove this, the introduction is *chefs kiss* ✨gold✨!
Thank you that's very nice of you 🥺😇
Everyday I act like it's ok,
I put up with everyone and act as if I AM ok,
In school I'm basically a happy person,
Although no one really knows what goes on inside my head.
It's just emptiness, I lay awake at night remembering all the pain.
I just usually bottle it all up until one night when everyone is asleep I finally let it all out...
And then the next day I act as if I'm very happy,
Then I bottle it up and then let go after a few days...
And repeat every single week.... 😭
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This is how i act im always so happy and people think my life is perfect but on the inside its really not i just cry sometimes
This is my life. Litterly the same.
been doing this for 6 years.
I know this is a kinda late reply but I've been feeling the same too... And especially because I don't have a best friend right now :( and I'm afraid to tell it to my parents because I hear the same things over and over again.. I also watch BTS and I think they're the only ones who make me smile and I wish I could have friends like BTS... It's like midnight right now.. Sorry.. :( Even the people whom I thought were my real friends seem to go farther away.. T_T I feel like God is punishing me and I don't know why.. I hate to cry in my sleep because it's obvious when I wake up.. Yea that's it
I just want to share
The feeling of sitting next to the closed window while its raining
Really calms me
With the thunder and all , it creates an atmosphere that brings warmth to my heart , i’ve got a childhood of just sitting and staring
It was really calm
I like to lay in the grass while it's raining and storming
Thunder is louder than the voices in my head
Same i rather walk at night so that people can't see my face and the Rain makes me feel a little better.
I tried telling, nobody listened, and i don't blame them, how do you describe something you yourself don't understand?
GOD I feel you
the only response I got was "you are imaging it. It will go away. I don't understand you. Why are you making such a drama. Calm down. Don't make everyone around you "depressed" as well with your mood."
Honestly, it's better to have no one who listens that someone who says this...
Even if you can't describe it and even if they don't understand just giving you the feeling they are listening and trying to understand could change a lot...
You always have someone who you can talk to. You’re never alone, despite what you think.
I cannot express myself because I don't understand my feelings too
GOD this is what the internet is for. Find people who are dealing with the same struggles as you. You are not alone. Help each other through the struggles and you’ll feel satisfaction to fill the emptiness that the depression has caused. Help someone
VulKus Having someone to talk doesn't help if she doesn't know how to help
Depression is like when you're scared to live and you're scared of dying.
yes
Exactly 😭
emptiness and tiredness is all I’ve been feeling these past 2 years...
The last time I told someone I'm depressed they told me it's just bad spirits and it's all in my head, that I'll get over it
Sounds exactly like my parents
You'll get through it
May God heal both, the depressed and the sad. Aameen.
When im in class i feel so empty i just wanna leave the classroom and cry in the bathrooms.. When my teacher tells me to read somthing out loud i get very anxious and start crying.. Depression feels like you are in an empty room and a knife called depression stabs you over and over again. one time in class i had suicidal thoughts and on a page i drew my self cutting my hands with a knife.. I just really want to stop it. 😢
lisa osuagwu explains me
@YT_InSpace Lol, you made me laugh. 😂. Okay, seriously? I'm having a bad time but you enlighten me up.
lisa osuagwu me too
you can stop it. NEVER GIVE UP.
i have been diagnosed with major depressive disorder and anxiety disorder. it’s torture everyday. i wake up not having the will to get up but having the burning fear of being late, my parents yelling at me, etc. not having the will to eat but being scared to death of someone hearing my stomach gurgle. not having the will to do work but having crippling anxiety of failing. being scared of being alone to the point i have anxiety attacks but i dont have to energy to talk to people. i hate it when people say they are depressed when they watch a sad show or cried over a song. i hate it when they say they have anxiety over a test. sadness and being nervous are normal. but living with depression and anxiety is torture that is inescapable
Sadness is also very serious. Many people gets traumatised and cant seem to Work probably though out the Day.
Yeah... sometimes it's hard to get out of bed or you just stay in bed all day. Missing classes. Then feeling bad about that.
My best friend has depression. I wish I could help her, I try my best, but no matter what I do, I feel like I didn’t do anything. I just wanna make her feel better, and make her happy at least for a little while, even if it’s just a little chuckle.
Me: *:(*
Friends: Hey what's wrong?
Me: **points at myself**
(edit: bruh I didn't know having emotions and not liking yourself is a billie thing nowadays, shit my bad)
Chuuwuya l billie vibes
Mood
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What's the problem?
*Points to self*
"I understand that you're sad, but you'll feel better if you eat healthy, work out, socialize, and just do everything else your depression prevents you from doing." -.-'
That's usually the response we get when we tell someone about our depression... :/
Jiawei Zhang exactly
Carrorolen we can't just do things or feel better by eating healthy, working out and socializing it doesn't work like that if it did then life would be so much easier.suffered with depression for 10 years and counting.
Carrorolen well that's not working and at this rate I'm going to underweight
i hate when people say that. It always triggers me immediatly.
Depression is what keeps me up at night wondering if I’m ever good enough
Depression is something that can never be described in words
Depression is something that doesn’t magically go away
If your kid has depression you can’t just say ‘get over it’ like how mine did. Once you realize you have to be there for then and give them the space they need. If your significant other has problems don’t ignore them. Help them and give them the space they need if they need it.
*Depression is like You are there, but you can't find yourself there*
Welcome to another episode of This Was In My Recommended
And welcome to the daily news of this says a lot about your watch history... :00
-but tbh I'm always here for those who wanna talk or be friends woo-
I also have Depression but. I try my best I Do yoga meditation listening music reading books. Dress up nicely . This thing make me feel better.
It's not entirely true for everyone. I suffer since 10 years from a heavy depression, diagnosed by two different psychiatrists, and I have no problem to talk over it. The difference is that I won't take 'good' advices from people, unless they are Doctors, because everyone thinks that they are an expert for depression.
But those "professional" experts have usually not experienced what their patients did and are always trying to help with theoretical methods they learned from a book lol which is why many therapys don't work so well or at all. I'd much rather get help from somebody that was depressed for a couple of years and got out of it sucessfully than some *expert on the sheeds*
I’ll offer the same advice to you. Request to talk with a trained PSYCOLOGIST! They know how to listen and specific information for your unique situation and will allow for you to bring in a trusted parent or family member. So they can sit down and listen to you and also hear suggestions made by them to you.
Rebellious Amvs has someone survived depression?
“Don’t say, I’ve been sad too”
It’s not the same, if you say that to someone who’s trying to ask for help, it only makes things worse.
Febreze you smell great but sadly I ran out of you but I got no money ;(
I have Generalised Anxiety disorder and I find it the same when people try to say they get anxious too
At first i thought i was just sad but when i realized that i was feeling empty and that i didn’t wanted to cry and even i thought i wasn’t making an impact in the world that’s when i realized i felt that i was depressed and i wasn’t believing in it at first and i didn’t wanted to be depressed cause i know how much it can change the person. The more and more time that i was keeping all my reason why, the more the pain was painful. And i’ve came to point which, if i would’ve told anyone, i would’ve probably die and killed myself and that hurt to talk about it but i managed to talked to someone and it really really helped. I wish for everyone who go through this right now to talk to someone. It may be to a close friend or to a therapist. It’s gonna help and i know it takes time to take the steps. I don’t want people to feel the same pain and the same path as i did. I love you all and you matter to the world. If u were born that means u have an impact to this world that u may not know now but one time u’ll see it
I opened up to my bestfriend of 5 years, I sent her a long message of my pain and suffering and how I felt, hoping she could comfort me. She told me to go get therapy. I said I tried and even if I did they said they would have to inform my parents, which i don't want because my parents are unaware of me being like this. I said it was hard and finally I just said never mind. She got mad and started saying "oh my goddd" and was all annoyed. After that, she ignored the situation and continued like nothing is wrong, I ignored her for weeks now. She still doesn't understand why, she doesn't want to understand why.
felt very bad to hear that as if she is your real freind then she would definitely help you but the truth is infront of you.finally i wll say that god bless you .
my cousin reacted the same way :\
but dont worry we will get through this and even tho i dont know you,i love you and you will be okay trust me it will take time but in the end its all worth it,so just stay strong and keep your head up
Hi, i read your comment. And i want to say that leave those persons who dont care about you. She is ignoring youur problem because she herself is not into your shoes. Be brave you are superb and awesome and perfectly perfect and magical and fantastic.... May god bless you and take away all your pain.😇
The moment that I go outside feeling that no one's gonna care bout you and you're home expecting something big but no one's there for you... No one really cares,they don't know how you feel. Keep in mind you the only great thing for your life
I want to keep quiet but i keep talking
I want to cry but i cant, i keep smiling
"Corporate needs you to find a difference between this picture and this picture"
14 y.o girls going through a phase: They are the same picture
I am a 14 yo girl and has been diagnosed with depression. Please, a young girl can also feel dead inside, no matter the age, same for the boys.
@@sibylline- I know that. I'm just making fun of the 14 year olds who go through a phase and sald diagnose them with depression.
By the way, I wish you the best and I hope you can get through with it
@@stevepensando2593 Yeah, sorry.. I shouldn't have said that, I'm too sensitive 😅 Sorry
Thank you very much, I appreciate it 😊
I am 14, depressed and cannot even open up about my problems to anyone. Nice
young people can have depression, things like this is the reason why half them don't tell anyone they need help, nobody believes a thing.
Came back to this video years later.
I get pain right in my chest, when I hear the word depression
Sorry past me 🙂, I couldn't make you stay the same 💔, the girl who used to laugh now barely laughs, and when she does it's fake 🙂
I’m better now but when I was mildly depressed I didn’t feel sad, I felt alone and as if there was no point to anything anymore. I wasn’t able to explain anything g and crying felt so good. I felt sick to my to get out of bed but I had to because of school.
Indian parents have entered the chats saying, "it's all in your head!"
And mums be like: this is all because of that damn phone
Damn damn damn i feel it on spiritual level.
My mom saying 'Arre beta tum roz subah jaldi utho, nahao, khana khao sab apne aap theek ho jayega'
@@meenakshisaluja4043 relatable bro😀✋
@@meenakshisaluja4043 is she right?
“The worst type of depression is the kind you can’t explain”
Depression is like u need to escape from yourself ... something in you trying hard to go but cant
When your depressed you feel like you wanna do something when you already are and nothing is making you happy it's like the ultra level of sadness when your depressed its like your just gonna stand there and you wanna cry but can't you can't do anything u just feel like standing there or laying in bed your only feeling is sadness all u can do is worry about depression and all u can do is just go to the therapist or doctor depression is such a pain I know what it's like
*Everyone in the comment section has depression OMG*
I know right lol most of them are like 12 lmao
@@sensationalcece actually, you CAN have depression at the age of 12. It's not as likely, but it is possible.
@@JoellieMSP yes, but most of them are just quirky
@@sensationalcece
Yeah, but how many of them are actually depressed when most of them have gachaverse pfps and use depression as a 'quirky personality' trait
Laiser ikr I. Ant take them seriously with their gacha pfp 😒
i dont like the word depression. it scares me.
it's just a word for a mental illness.. people have over used it and turned it into a massive thing. it can be scary and I understand. but remember, it's all just words and noises that mean something to us. all depression is different.
@@nicolebarrett777 it scares me because i have it and it haunts me
@@janicec7518 ahh.. it scares me too. I know my friends love me and don't hate me but my head says "they would be better off if you were gone, they think you're annoying".. depression is an asshole
I understand that. it makes it feel more permanent (at least for me). stay alive, it’s worth it. I promise ||-//
Dr Dickinson uhhh years upon years of medical and psychology testing and research beg to differ but okay
Listen to them. Just listen. Don't say anything. Move to give them a hug. Don't say anything. Just let the person feel the comfort.
Hit me up anytime if you feel like talking. Talking wouldn't solve anything, it just makes it easier to handle your emotions. Vent out.
Honestly, a hug isn't enough. That's a cure to sadness. Depression is a long battle. Just support them through that period of time
moyera agarwal why do you have to make it so dramatic not the topic but the way you wrote it out
NeonMangos a hug is not a cure to sadness
I want to share my story from everyone and to those people who are depressed.
I suffered from depression for the last 3 years of my life and all I can say is that it's hard to feel anything at all. Depression feels like your world is falling down and you're just staring and you don't know what to do. Depression is a very very hard problem for everyone. It is also very dangerous because depression can sometimes lead to suicidal actions. People who are depressed can sometimes feel that everyone around them doesn't understand what they've been through. Depression is a very big problem and you need to ask for help. But in my story, no one helps me and people around me think I'm crazy and different. I really need there help. I just realized that I was just alone. No one supported me and helped me. It was just me. And I feel like my world is falling apart. I can't take it anymore. I wanted to give up. I can't explain the exact words to describe what I'm feeling. That moment I wanted to close my eyes forever and act like it was just a bad dream. But I realize now how precious life is. Sometimes in our lives, we win and sometimes we fail. We give up and we fight. And light can't shine without darkness. Everything happens for a reason. An important REASON. Depression is not FOREVER. It's like a cycle. Not all the times you will be happy, not all the times you will be sad. It is all balance and that's what life is too. And don't think about suicide. Because you are not born in this world to get sad. You live because you need to. If you're either sad or depressed, just smile and act like nothing happened. Positivity is the best medicine. And remember, EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE HAPPY. I hope you guys enjoy my story :)
You know what's the worst?
When you are with them but still you are alone.
Thank you for bringing awareness in this matter
My depression is also physicals. My body aches all over. Every day my back ache so much, I can't move an inch. I got tired like I've run 200 km marathon by just thinking about walking. Anxiety attacks everyday without triggers. I sleep a lot but I never feel rested. Favourite activities I used to love and enjoyed becomes meaningless. I can't taste food. Everything tastes bland. I can't feel emotions like being hungry or sleepy. Even emotions like love ,sadness ,empathy etc is not present. You're just numb. You don't want to do anything because even the moving drains you .
Depression is the worst suffering and I will never wish in on anybody not even on my enemies
How would you feel if you was 15 and your mum did not believe you when you said you were depressed?
How would u feel if ur mum laughed at u because you said youve tried to commit.
Stefania Pn my mom thought it was just me trying to be edgy
My friends think I don’t have it because I always laugh
My dad doesn’t believe me because I never cry (I try to, but I can’t, but I want to.)
Depression is the worst kind of feeling. To me it’s not wanting to be here anymore and being fine with dying but being afraid of death itself. Depression feels like an endless black hole that never ends. I feel like if I tell someone that I think I have it, they’ll ask “why, what’s so wrong with your life” “your life isnt hard at all”
It’s not about life being just hard, it’s emotional drainage and emptiness. It’s nights and days where all you think about is how badly you want to end it all.
But you can’t or you won’t.
I cry like all the time, and when my teachers Ask what it is, i cant really explain why. They all just assume that if i cant explain it, its not anything serious. Im pretty sure i have depression...
Dont worry thats what every 14 year old girl thinks
If you're really struggling, tell your parents or someone and get a diagnose to be sure.
That happened to me last year, and I couldn't explain why
Ashley Sharpe
She’s not some 14 year old girl that self diagnose. She’s going through this and probably confused (not to be rude) so stop assuming
you are worth it! Don't let depression and sadness get over the fact that you are a precious human being and you have so much to give.(i spammed 5 of these so if you see this its a sign.)
Yeah. It's the weight that keeps you in bed. Like, the normal things you usually enjoyed before, now you can't even. Like, idek
I am feeling the same way too. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxious levels. I am also glad to be a part of this family. Got some microdosing products from @nhr_syndicate. It changed my life to a new one
This whole thing is pretty new to me, can I contact nhr_syndicate for guidance?
He is on in$ta
yes, he ship discreet and anonymous.