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I feel the most important thing is look in girl side is character of "would be Mother in Law". if she is sweet spoken, have patience, hard working, takes responsibility, high value moral character. then 70 % chances are that your marriage will be great.
Men need to understand that women marry to upgrade their lifestyles. They love their children and nothing else. Men make the mistake of thinking that women love exactly like men. They don't. They love the advantages that being married give them. The husband is a way to the means. They have no love for him.
Youths are loosing confidence in institute of marriage and its required at this juncture... Freedom earned with revolution and sacrifice, free mai to Goro ne bhi nahi diya hai hame...
ऐसा इसलिए ताकि बाद मैं मोटी रकम एल्युमनी मैं वसूल कर सके। इसलिए तो गुरुजी कह रहे है अपने से बहुत कम कमाने वाली से शादी करोगे तो एक दिन वो तुम्हे कंगाल कर देगी। नहीं तो इसी लड़की ढूंढो जो भले ही कुछ न कमाती हो मगर दिल की अच्छी हो, लालची और स्वार्थी न हो। इसके लिए आपको उसे शादी से पहले काफी दिनों तक ऑब्जर्व करना होगा।
Ya maybe if she is to take a 2-3 year break to take care of the kids till they go to school. Financial security, personality of the guy and how caring/respectful he is something they consider. Nothing wrong with that specially if the girl is atkeast 3 of these - good looking, highly educated, earning and belong to a good family, understanding. @@Ashishjaj
It is all about a person having better EQ than IQ, as problems can occur in anybody's life due to any person ( husband, wife, parents etc), at any time, but how a person handles these problems, is important, being practical and with calm and wise thinking, the problems can be overcome.
Whoops! my gf qualifies for 2/3. My salary is 1.7l and my gf salary is 0.5l , but she’s working on it. Having said that, She takes care of me amazingly when I’m sick or injured, cooks amazing food, loves my parents, good character… doesn’t give me any insecurities… soft spoken, her family is good.
I saw posts on instagram - boy's family faced false cases based on new law BNS when he broke off engagement. The girl filed false case on basis of false promise of marriage. Sir, this is also a dangerous situation where laws are misused alot
Sir, being a girl all qualities were there in me as if these are to be taken care of, still i am in the process of divorce why becuause still people live in 1960's with their mother at home, tum apne ghr bhu ya kisi ki beti nhi lae , lae ho khrid k naukr, mtlb tum jo bolo vo kre to thik vrna bna bnaya khana bhi fek k marenge, aur fir nikalege glti ldki aur uski maa ki, he said you will no talk to anyone in this world including your family, there should be only my family and me in your mind. Dare not thinking of going to your home or anywhere until i permits, and for that application it takes min. 15 days. I know i am weak emotionally but only when i loved that person and thinks of him as husband, only thing i wanted was respect in front of society mine and my family, baki ghr me marta, peet ta rh beshq, itna bhi nhi hua usse, all your philosphy will be in vain unless a person ignores their intution while getting into marriage. Just one thing don't be desperate about marriage by looking at your surroundings and trust your intution. As now i will be an earning qualified beautiful divorcee who will be looked as vamp in society Aur dubara shadi to bhool hi jao aajkl k jmane me, 1 baar to mushkil se krte h log talking about arrange marriage in tier-3 cities.
Very bad, such things are happening in the 21st century India, no one should put up with this, as if a woman is not a human being. A marriage should be a partnership between both man and woman, helping and respecting each other and forming a family together, then only all, husband, wife and children can have a decent and peaceful life ( and definitely parents on both sides shouldn't interfere).
If your son earns this much, then tell him to marry a girl from common/poor but respected family. Or better marry a non-working girl from known family. Tell him to buy properties on mother's name.
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यदि संयुक्त परिवार है, बड़ा परिवार है भले ही कम पढ़े लिखें लोग हों, संस्कार अच्छे हैं तो घणी निभेगी। यदि टीवी सीरियल्स और फिल्मी जीवन जीते हो तो नकली जीवन जीते हो कभी सुखी नहीं रह सकते ☝️। यथार्थ मे जियो, सच्चाई को स्वीकार करो। लोग दिखावा मत करो।
First of all the feminist laws need to be amended. We are a society where everyone gets distracted by popcorn taxes and Atul Subhash sacrifice's discussion lost steam 😢
If she is great cook, and shows great love and care for children / elderly or a great homemaker, then we do not need her salary or being employed. Above skills and aptitude is greater than earning criteria.
Who is "we"? If it's you speaking as someone from the groom's family then that's a red flag, it comes with a lot of implicit expectations. The girl might want to live separately for one ( hardly know a girl who doesn't prefer it that way), girls don't want to be held accountable by the whole family. Your "we don't care about the girls earning capacity" comes with a lot of riders which even you are not aware of.
Agar ladki earnings karthi hai, tho ladka ghar pe kithna help karega?? Bachchon ko kitna khayal rakhega?? Ladka tho koi responsibility share nahi karta!
I m lady of 50 yrs , still watching this video,for my son, although my husband have an illegal relation with his PA and badly physical and mentally abuse by my husband and living with him as I don't have any earning and for better future and studies of my children im living with my husband ,and he is continuing his illegal relation ,but don't give any financial problem to us ,😢😢😢
चाहे कितनी अच्छी लड़की ले आओ शादी करके, जब तक ससुराल वाले अपनी सोच और व्यवहार नहीं सुधारेंगे तब तक तलाक बढ़ते रहेंगे। क्योंकि लड़की चाहे कमाऊ हो या गृहणी अब वो पति और ससुराल वालों की नॉनसेंस नहीं सहेगी। और ज्यादा कमाने वाली लड़की तो बिल्कुल नहीं। और अगर पति और ससुराल वाले अच्छे होंगे तो कैसी भी लड़की ले आओ अच्छी ही रहेगी। परेशानी ये है कि भारत में रावणों को भी सीता चाहिए। 😮
Acha ji aajkal ki ladkiya bhi overdemanding hai aukat se badh kar ladka chahiye Khud receptionist ki job karti hai par ladka CA, software engineer ya Cfa chahiye 😂 sasural wale ache nahi hai my foot
Dono ladka ladki ko basic sabzi daal chaawal and roti banani aani chahiye. Washing machine chalani aani chahiye. Approx 1 BHK area .. ie ek bedroom living room and kitchen area jhaadoo se saaf karne ki aadat honi chahiye. This takes pressure off the spouse if there is no domestic help.
My friend earns 4 lakh per month and has a wife who used to work (50k) before the marriage. The friend is looking for a house in Mumbai, he wants a dedicated room as office/workspace in his new home. He will contribute 100% of the amount as wife is not working. But his wife insists that she also needs one office room 😂. Though she has not worked in the last 5 years, she thinks the situation is temporary and that she is contributing equally to the household by doing household work. Their zomato spends are like 15k per month. They have a maid, he pays all the bills, rent etc. This is not an equal contribution. Proportion of contribution matters and the ratio gets very skewed once the husband is earning in lakhs. Bonus: She wants the house to be a joint ownership so that she can also claim HRA, remember she has not been working at a job and even if she joins one she can leave it job without much thought if she doesn't like it.😂 So how dependable is her contribution going to be in the EMI even if she gets a job?
Zyadatar ladko ko apne pasand ki sundarta wali ladki nahi milta. Wo hum ladko ko samaaj kehte hai na, we should look into her heart not her body. To maa baap jisko bhi laate hai usi ko accept karna parta hai. jinko love story hota hai wo school college time se hi rehta hai 27 28 saal me pyar karne keliye kaafi late hai.
Women are more unemployed in this country how can man expect earning 60% of income then that man have to marry from other developed country or cannot find women here in this country
He is giving these things for middle class and upper middle class ....where atleast 40 to 50 percent women are employed ....is income group me apko working women mil jayegi
Right ,I saw such types of cases ,where boy,s parents were thought that when girl is less qualified ,less beautiful ,non earning then she will be classical Bharatiya Nari ,but later on they felt that It was very worst choice ,they are in pain ,
Dr Amitji, No one is perfect in d world. There got 2 b comprises here n there. But there cums a time even at d slightest accident of life, things can go wrong or take a different turn. Nothing last fr long. But one got 2 b iron himself/herself. Here adjustments n compromises on certain issues need 2 b done. But not at the cost of endangering d lives of others or ruining one's life. If nothing can b achieved / got frm dis world full of tumult, then hw can one progress in life? Ladoo khaye toh bhi phhtaye, nahi khaye toh bhi phhtaye ya phhtana padta hai? You need 2 to run a Ship --- One at d steering n another 2 see in which direction it is going --- Monitor d weather changes n changing it's path? Love is not only having 2 ❤ each other but 2 look at things in d same direction where it is leading one n then making adjustments / comprises 2 attain it's goal. ❤nRgds Iona
Salary don't matter for me,,as a boy,, My salary is 20000 if my dint work no problem because she is working in my home,,which u cant effort with any amount nt of money
Bhai 20k is a very small amount, so in relative terms ghar ka kaam is a good contribution by wife even assuming market rate of cook and maid. However when you are earning 2-5 lakh a month then this comparison doesn't make sense. Bhai abhi ye bol ke aap khudko bade dilwale samjh rahe honge but when you will be in an argument, she'll be like I am contributing EQUALLY! And you will be like WTF! My friend earns 4 lakh per month and has a wife who used to work (50k) but left job. The friend is looking for a house in Mumbai, he wants a dedicated room as office/workspace in his new home which he will pay 100% amount of. But his wife insists that she also needs one office room 😂. Though she has not worked in the last 5 years, she thinks the situation is temporary and that she is contributing equally to the household by doing household work. Their zomato spends are like 15k per month. They have a maid, he pays all the bills, rent etc. This is not an equal contribution. Proportion of contribution matters and the ratio gets very skewed once the husband is earning in lakhs. Bonus: She wants the house to be a joint ownership so that she can also claim HRA, remember she has not been working at a job and even if she joins one she can leave a job without much thought if she doesn't like it.😂 So how dependable is her contribution going to be in the EMI even if she gets a job?
Sir mera bhai 30 ka hogya h due to parent separation and father toxicity shadi nhi horhi...jaato ki marriage m wse b dikkat horhi h aaj kl ...is topic pr prakash daliye jra
I did make a video on Section 69 made some analysis there regarding this. I think criminal antecedents, history of cheating and abu$e and the kind of people she hangs out with or for that matter idolizes also how she values spends money. Goes for both men and women however since this video is for men this is what they should watch out for. Bilkul sahi bola hai aapne.
Agar ladki 60% salary of ladka contribute kare...thoda ladke ko bi 60 % contribution karaooo...household cores me....though we can hire people for this work...but responsibility to hai na....in househelps ko manage karne ki....aur aap pregnancy and parenting ka responsibility and pressure bhul rahe hain shayad....humara India abi tak itna advance nai e ki...baap ki baapta se kaam chalale....childrens are still mother's responsibility....but Indian females do it happily out of love....they don't nag...50 60 or whatever percentage they have to contribute in all these...so many women sacrifice their education and careers just to look after their kids n family...I believe instead of these percentage game....dear men embrace her femininity and you will be a king of all times always..
If there is any problem in marriage, it is better for both boys as well as girls to mediate, sit across and find an amicable solution which is reasonable, as going to courts is a totally waste of everything, and it is expensive, mentally draining and time consuming. Also it is said that in court cases, no one wins, both the boys and girls ultimately become losers, remember that.
जब लुगाई घर का काम करती है तब मोट्यार कभी नहीं कहता कि आज काम करणे की इच्छा नहीं है। पण जिस मोट्यार को रसोई का सारा काम आता है उसकी लुगाई घणी बार बीमार ही रहती है, सिर दर्द तो बणा ही रहता है 😊
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Nepal se kese kharide sir. Koi upai btaye mujhe.
Aabadi ghatani hai isliye aise kanoon ban rahe hai..
Looks wali baat galat hai sir
Sir Jaato k risthey muskil s horhe h haryana m....is topic p bt kro
Sir ladke aur uske parivar me Kya dekhe Shaadi se pehle ye bhi bta dijiye🙏
Thanks!
I feel the most important thing is look in girl side is character of "would be Mother in Law". if she is sweet spoken, have patience, hard working, takes responsibility, high value moral character. then 70 % chances are that your marriage will be great.
Agreed
what if she is impatient?
70% chance is still a liability.
@@kamalpanchal3709 financially independent
@@kamalpanchal3709 I feel education of mil most important
Men need to understand that women marry to upgrade their lifestyles. They love their children and nothing else. Men make the mistake of thinking that women love exactly like men. They don't. They love the advantages that being married give them. The husband is a way to the means. They have no love for him.
Perfect bro
As a woman as a mother, sister, friends = humanity I support pre marriage Consultation and prenup policy ❤
Pre nup ambani hein sab 😂
Love this
Youths are loosing confidence in institute of marriage and its required at this juncture...
Freedom earned with revolution and sacrifice, free mai to Goro ne bhi nahi diya hai hame...
Aisi hee form chahiye sangwan g!
Great guts.
Credit should be given where credit is due. It was high time you rouched this topic for young men. Thank you for raising this issue
All 3 points are important and spot on. Lucky to have found them all in my wife❤
Sundarta /personality
Family Background
Girl should be earning at least 60% of ur salary
@@himanshiahuja73 sorry phir toh girl ko maid wagera bhi rakhna chahiye.Why not 100 percent of salary?
@Apar-1-2 i have just summarised.
Ask question to sir🙏🏻
I'm 29 and next year in may turning 30 still unmarried but happy
❤
U are not
@@xyyzz well you don't know me in person
Comment happy at the age of 50 unmarried 😅, you will get your answer in future
I thought u will turn 45 next year if you wouldn't have shared 😂
Now i started respecting you. You are now on the right track
Lol. As if he was waiting for your respect
Tu insult bhi karta unhe koi pharak nahi parta
Right bhai
Kyu bhai phle bhi kya krdiya tha sir ne aisa??
Banao aise vdos, highly needed! 🎉
Great video Guru ji.
But jo ladki 1 lakh earn karti hai,vo 2 lakh vale se nahi ,4-5 lakh vale se karna chahti hai.
😂
Haan to 4-5 lakh wala bhi 1-2 lakh wale se hi karna chahte hai. Jab dono ko ek dusre se koi problem nhi to tumhe kyon hai ?
ऐसा इसलिए ताकि बाद मैं मोटी रकम एल्युमनी मैं वसूल कर सके। इसलिए तो गुरुजी कह रहे है अपने से बहुत कम कमाने वाली से शादी करोगे तो एक दिन वो तुम्हे कंगाल कर देगी। नहीं तो इसी लड़की ढूंढो जो भले ही कुछ न कमाती हो मगर दिल की अच्छी हो, लालची और स्वार्थी न हो। इसके लिए आपको उसे शादी से पहले काफी दिनों तक ऑब्जर्व करना होगा।
Ya maybe if she is to take a 2-3 year break to take care of the kids till they go to school. Financial security, personality of the guy and how caring/respectful he is something they consider. Nothing wrong with that specially if the girl is atkeast 3 of these - good looking, highly educated, earning and belong to a good family, understanding. @@Ashishjaj
Yeah true that, have seen in our long distant relatives , end up in marry in age of 35'
Raw and Real Sango 😉
It is all about a person having better EQ than IQ, as problems can occur in anybody's life due to any person ( husband, wife, parents etc), at any time, but how a person handles these problems, is important, being practical and with calm and wise thinking, the problems can be overcome.
Whoops!
my gf qualifies for 2/3.
My salary is 1.7l and my gf salary is 0.5l , but she’s working on it.
Having said that,
She takes care of me amazingly when I’m sick or injured, cooks amazing food, loves my parents, good character… doesn’t give me any insecurities… soft spoken, her family is good.
To kab kr rhe ho shaadi
U could still find better woman who could even pay dowry
U r lucky....
Marry her
Key is Woman should earn minimum 60 % of Man's Income, else no way. Else man will suffer.
Absolutely...else she will leave her job n eat usurp your pay 😢
60 percent ghar kaam bhi share karlo.. in laws ko diplomatic hoke handle karo..
Diplomatic works to an extent but then youre taken for granted so put uour foot down before that stage starts becoming visible @@simhadri56
इस तरह के वीडियो आज की सबसे बड़ी आवश्यकता है।
Thanks sir🙏
I saw posts on instagram - boy's family faced false cases based on new law BNS when he broke off engagement. The girl filed false case on basis of false promise of marriage. Sir, this is also a dangerous situation where laws are misused alot
Very Good Sir! Aap ka video bahut accha laga. Aap prayas jaree rakhein.
It is my advise to all boys, don’t get married until you get a girl who have same qualities in all scenario which you have.
Sir, being a girl all qualities were there in me as if these are to be taken care of, still i am in the process of divorce why becuause still people live in 1960's with their mother at home, tum apne ghr bhu ya kisi ki beti nhi lae , lae ho khrid k naukr, mtlb tum jo bolo vo kre to thik vrna bna bnaya khana bhi fek k marenge, aur fir nikalege glti ldki aur uski maa ki, he said you will no talk to anyone in this world including your family, there should be only my family and me in your mind. Dare not thinking of going to your home or anywhere until i permits, and for that application it takes min. 15 days. I know i am weak emotionally but only when i loved that person and thinks of him as husband, only thing i wanted was respect in front of society mine and my family, baki ghr me marta, peet ta rh beshq, itna bhi nhi hua usse, all your philosphy will be in vain unless a person ignores their intution while getting into marriage. Just one thing don't be desperate about marriage by looking at your surroundings and trust your intution. As now i will be an earning qualified beautiful divorcee who will be looked as vamp in society Aur dubara shadi to bhool hi jao aajkl k jmane me, 1 baar to mushkil se krte h log talking about arrange marriage in tier-3 cities.
Very bad, such things are happening in the 21st century India, no one should put up with this, as if a woman is not a human being.
A marriage should be a partnership between both man and woman, helping and respecting each other and forming a family together, then only all, husband, wife and children can have a decent and peaceful life ( and definitely parents on both sides shouldn't interfere).
Ek 3 factors women need for man selection wali video bhi bnao taki mjhe pta chle mjhe kya krna h apni trf se
Sir, my son's package is around 50LPA, but after Haring the case of Atul Subhash is has dropped the plan of marrying. Now I do not know what to do
If your son earns this much, then tell him to marry a girl from common/poor but respected family.
Or better marry a non-working girl from known family.
Tell him to buy properties on mother's name.
Meri bhi job lagwa do
Kindly marry a girl who earn equally to your son and girl should be from rich family
Guruji aap aage badho hum apke saath hain..... Yes WE NEED A SEPARATE GROUP (Men Only)
Sir requesting you to not use these thumbnails, let it remain sober and simple
Without such thumbnails, nobody will watch the video
@S7evn201 his wise personality doesn't fit with these cringe thumbnails
बात यह है, sangwan जी आजकल लड़के online models ,actresses , escorts ke video and photo देख देख कर, वास्तव में सुंदर सुशील लड़की की पहचान खो देते है। आप तो सही समझा रहे है, लेकिन compatibility, mutual liking उनकी लिस्ट में है ही नही😢
Instagram ne market kharaab kar diya hai 😂😂😂
Social media is just an advertisement media...😢
Aaj kal ki ladkiya aur unke gharwale Sirf paise ke bhookhe hai yeh bhi ek sachai hai
Maja aa gaya Guru ji you are savior mere IRON MAN
I am a woman and really appreciate this video
Gender batana jaruri tha kya
Being a girl but still watching 😅
Aabadi ghatani hai isliye aise kanoon ban rahe hai duniya bhar mei
Same 😂😂😂
yaha streeyan antidote taiyar karne k liye dekh rahi hai ya apne family ke male member ko bachane k liye
You want to know the secrets 😮
you look so young
यदि संयुक्त परिवार है, बड़ा परिवार है भले ही कम पढ़े लिखें लोग हों, संस्कार अच्छे हैं तो घणी निभेगी। यदि टीवी सीरियल्स और फिल्मी जीवन जीते हो तो नकली जीवन जीते हो कभी सुखी नहीं रह सकते ☝️।
यथार्थ मे जियो, सच्चाई को स्वीकार करो। लोग दिखावा मत करो।
Guruji on 1st jan I watch this particular video 4 times to dilute those clarity suggestions in my blood
Thank you 🙏
Sir please continue these type of educational videos, we 20-30 years age group needs it
First of all the feminist laws need to be amended. We are a society where everyone gets distracted by popcorn taxes and Atul Subhash sacrifice's discussion lost steam 😢
If she is great cook, and shows great love and care for children / elderly or a great homemaker, then we do not need her salary or being employed.
Above skills and aptitude is greater than earning criteria.
That are obvious thing.
Who is "we"? If it's you speaking as someone from the groom's family then that's a red flag, it comes with a lot of implicit expectations. The girl might want to live separately for one ( hardly know a girl who doesn't prefer it that way), girls don't want to be held accountable by the whole family. Your "we don't care about the girls earning capacity" comes with a lot of riders which even you are not aware of.
Agar ladki earnings karthi hai, tho ladka ghar pe kithna help karega?? Bachchon ko kitna khayal rakhega??
Ladka tho koi responsibility share nahi karta!
I love u so much uncle. Please hum ladko ke sath rehna hamesha ❤
thanks guru ji please make more videos like these because we need your guidance. This will improve the quality of married life for girls too.
Very true, life long decision can only be taken when things are transparent between bride and groom.
Sir much needed series. Bring it on sir. Eagerly waiting🙏🙏
It is dependent on your reference point, you are very right 👏🏻
Though I am a woman I agree with you 💯
Thank you, we need more people like you Guru ji... who can speak about problems that the youth and middle class are facing.
Actually, only the second point about family is important and practical for sustainable marriage.
What you talk is SUBSTANCE.
WE GET WHAT YOU SAY STARIGHTLY!!
Good❤
Now thistrack is right
I m lady of 50 yrs , still watching this video,for my son, although my husband have an illegal relation with his PA and badly physical and mentally abuse by my husband and living with him as I don't have any earning and for better future and studies of my children im living with my husband ,and he is continuing his illegal relation ,but don't give any financial problem to us ,😢😢😢
Many women are watching this positively
Shows their empathy ❤
While Men are triggered when they are targeted
All ears... bring it on !!!
thank you sir much needed, we are with you.
Great informational video,keep it up.❤🎉😊👍🧠👑👏💯🤩😊🙂🤠😃👌🙌
Yes
चाहे कितनी अच्छी लड़की ले आओ शादी करके, जब तक ससुराल वाले अपनी सोच और व्यवहार नहीं सुधारेंगे तब तक तलाक बढ़ते रहेंगे। क्योंकि लड़की चाहे कमाऊ हो या गृहणी अब वो पति और ससुराल वालों की नॉनसेंस नहीं सहेगी। और ज्यादा कमाने वाली लड़की तो बिल्कुल नहीं। और अगर पति और ससुराल वाले अच्छे होंगे तो कैसी भी लड़की ले आओ अच्छी ही रहेगी। परेशानी ये है कि भारत में रावणों को भी सीता चाहिए। 😮
Quite apt 👍
Bahut sahi 👍
I support your point as a mature woman.
Lekin aaj kal bahut saari Shurpanakha khud ko Sita samajh rhi hai. Unko Ram chahiye. 😮
Acha ji aajkal ki ladkiya bhi overdemanding hai aukat se badh kar ladka chahiye Khud receptionist ki job karti hai par ladka CA, software engineer ya Cfa chahiye 😂 sasural wale ache nahi hai my foot
We need to save ourselves from such golddiggers ❤
Good Quality Videos
Young boys must watch
I am watching as this could be useful for my sons.🎉
In my marriage my mother n my husband's mother is main lead role
Ridiculously good 👍
Sir Membership review plz
Thanks sir for this video as men are really worried about their future
Yaha toh ladki hi nahi mil rahi chacha 😢.. achhi-buri to baad ki baat hai.
Beggars r not choosers😅
khud ko beggar batate ho itane nichle star par, jis din kisi badtameez wali se hojayegi tab rote rehna
Better to be single than be with someone who makes you miserable
Dono ladka ladki ko basic sabzi daal chaawal and roti banani aani chahiye. Washing machine chalani aani chahiye. Approx 1 BHK area .. ie ek bedroom living room and kitchen area jhaadoo se saaf karne ki aadat honi chahiye. This takes pressure off the spouse if there is no domestic help.
My friend earns 4 lakh per month and has a wife who used to work (50k) before the marriage. The friend is looking for a house in Mumbai, he wants a dedicated room as office/workspace in his new home. He will contribute 100% of the amount as wife is not working. But his wife insists that she also needs one office room 😂. Though she has not worked in the last 5 years, she thinks the situation is temporary and that she is contributing equally to the household by doing household work. Their zomato spends are like 15k per month. They have a maid, he pays all the bills, rent etc. This is not an equal contribution. Proportion of contribution matters and the ratio gets very skewed once the husband is earning in lakhs. Bonus: She wants the house to be a joint ownership so that she can also claim HRA, remember she has not been working at a job and even if she joins one she can leave it job without much thought if she doesn't like it.😂 So how dependable is her contribution going to be in the EMI even if she gets a job?
Zyadatar ladko ko apne pasand ki sundarta wali ladki nahi milta. Wo hum ladko ko samaaj kehte hai na, we should look into her heart not her body. To maa baap jisko bhi laate hai usi ko accept karna parta hai. jinko love story hota hai wo school college time se hi rehta hai 27 28 saal me pyar karne keliye kaafi late hai.
I made my gf at 34 n later married her in a year
@Venom_always aap dono PhD wale honge.
@@Venom_alwaysso why are you here?
Women are more unemployed in this country how can man expect earning 60% of income then that man have to marry from other developed country or cannot find women here in this country
He is giving these things for middle class and upper middle class ....where atleast 40 to 50 percent women are employed ....is income group me apko working women mil jayegi
@GalaxyImpact200 what are the income range you term to be middle class and upper middle class society
@@qbm7579 for middle class it may range from 30000 to 50000 and for upper m c it's 80000 to 1.5 lakh
Right ,I saw such types of cases ,where boy,s parents were thought that when girl is less qualified ,less beautiful ,non earning then she will be classical Bharatiya Nari ,but later on they felt that It was very worst choice ,they are in pain ,
Dr Amitji,
No one is perfect in d world. There got 2 b comprises here n there. But there cums a time even at d slightest accident of life, things can go wrong or take a different turn.
Nothing last fr long. But one got 2 b iron himself/herself. Here adjustments n compromises on certain issues need 2 b done. But not at the cost of endangering d lives of others or ruining one's life.
If nothing can b achieved / got frm dis world full of tumult, then hw can one progress in life?
Ladoo khaye toh bhi phhtaye, nahi khaye toh bhi phhtaye ya phhtana padta hai? You need 2 to run a Ship --- One at d steering n another 2 see in which direction it is going --- Monitor d weather changes n changing it's path?
Love is not only having 2 ❤ each other but 2 look at things in d same direction where it is leading one n then making adjustments / comprises 2 attain it's goal.
❤nRgds
Iona
Perfect video. Need more such content for Male
Sir, young men should not be expecting anything from anyone. No expectation from father, mother, brother, wife or children.
👍💯 Agree sir.
Hamare beta , beti dono hn.
Log in baato ko khule taur pe accept karen.
Thanks a lot sir 🙏🙂
जय हो गुरुदेव 🙏 🌸
Very nice video sir , at least aapne accept kiya ki marriage khatre me hai
Be the Avenger India needs 😮😅😊
Salary don't matter for me,,as a boy,,
My salary is 20000 if my dint work no problem because she is working in my home,,which u cant effort with any amount nt of money
Bhai 20k is a very small amount, so in relative terms ghar ka kaam is a good contribution by wife even assuming market rate of cook and maid. However when you are earning 2-5 lakh a month then this comparison doesn't make sense. Bhai abhi ye bol ke aap khudko bade dilwale samjh rahe honge but when you will be in an argument, she'll be like I am contributing EQUALLY! And you will be like WTF! My friend earns 4 lakh per month and has a wife who used to work (50k) but left job. The friend is looking for a house in Mumbai, he wants a dedicated room as office/workspace in his new home which he will pay 100% amount of. But his wife insists that she also needs one office room 😂. Though she has not worked in the last 5 years, she thinks the situation is temporary and that she is contributing equally to the household by doing household work. Their zomato spends are like 15k per month. They have a maid, he pays all the bills, rent etc. This is not an equal contribution. Proportion of contribution matters and the ratio gets very skewed once the husband is earning in lakhs. Bonus: She wants the house to be a joint ownership so that she can also claim HRA, remember she has not been working at a job and even if she joins one she can leave a job without much thought if she doesn't like it.😂 So how dependable is her contribution going to be in the EMI even if she gets a job?
Sir mera bhai 30 ka hogya h due to parent separation and father toxicity shadi nhi horhi...jaato ki marriage m wse b dikkat horhi h aaj kl ...is topic pr prakash daliye jra
Got some clarity for marriage...awesome this is
Much needed, please bring more such videos.
YES GURU JI WE WANT THIS CONTANT AND GROUP AND WE ARE WITH YOU
Bahut Acha banaya h video informative 👌
I did make a video on Section 69 made some analysis there regarding this. I think criminal antecedents, history of cheating and abu$e and the kind of people she hangs out with or for that matter idolizes also how she values spends money. Goes for both men and women however since this video is for men this is what they should watch out for. Bilkul sahi bola hai aapne.
Agar ladki 60% salary of ladka contribute kare...thoda ladke ko bi 60 % contribution karaooo...household cores me....though we can hire people for this work...but responsibility to hai na....in househelps ko manage karne ki....aur aap pregnancy and parenting ka responsibility and pressure bhul rahe hain shayad....humara India abi tak itna advance nai e ki...baap ki baapta se kaam chalale....childrens are still mother's responsibility....but Indian females do it happily out of love....they don't nag...50 60 or whatever percentage they have to contribute in all these...so many women sacrifice their education and careers just to look after their kids n family...I believe instead of these percentage game....dear men embrace her femininity and you will be a king of all times always..
Bohoy badhiya...thks fr pointwise clarity and 3 most imp thngs reqd to be checked... very nice video as usual... thks guruji
Thank you soooo much sir your concept is needed
Bahot achha kam kar rahe ho sirji...badhiya❤❤❤😊thank u..man ki bate. Jo bolne ko hichkichhate hai ladke
Sir foriegn settlement par final video upload kariye please
Love u uncle ❤️ aise bano or video bhot informative h and please ek videos dating in starting 20s with balance of career pe bhi lots of love 🫶🏻
Awesome clarity ❤
Justice for Atul
We need Gender equality law
Iron Man Guru ji...Good Initiative
I am married but still watching
Just wanted to check maine jo soch k shadi ka decision lia tha inke hisab se jitna shi kia😂
Great video! Would love to watch more of such kind in the future.
If thereis doubt there is no doubt nice
Please Bring Video ❤❤
what about another factor : NATURE or Mindset Match ?
Shi kha,nature or mindset match hi sabse important hai
Baki sab match ho bhi jaye tho farak nhi pdta hai itna
This is the Main factor for which he is not telling about..... focusing on mainly beauty only....bhai beauty lekr kya kroge jb mindset hi n match kre
If there is any problem in marriage, it is better for both boys as well as girls to mediate, sit across and find an amicable solution which is reasonable, as going to courts is a totally waste of everything, and it is expensive, mentally draining and time consuming. Also it is said that in court cases, no one wins, both the boys and girls ultimately become losers, remember that.
Bring it on Guruji 🙏
Yes sir please make the same contents of this videos
Practical,need of such kind of videos is more
We strongly support you sir. I enjoy watching your videos.
Truth which no one speaks. People mistly say looknat heart but everyone knows besuty also matters a lot
जब लुगाई घर का काम करती है तब मोट्यार कभी नहीं कहता कि आज काम करणे की इच्छा नहीं है। पण जिस मोट्यार को रसोई का सारा काम आता है उसकी लुगाई घणी बार बीमार ही रहती है, सिर दर्द तो बणा ही रहता है 😊
Thank you so much sir for making this video! Much needed guidance for youth.
Thank you Sir for your advices
Thank you for your advice!