She need to go to Jesus because she said, her family is Christian. Tia needs to repent and build a real personal relationship with Jesus Christ, like many of us.
Married friends that would hold her accountable, married friends that would help her to be a better wife and mother. Married friends that would helped her to stay married.
@@Reformed_3 women have to understand that you have to vet your potential female friends based on how it aligns with your life. Tia are these women, one in the same .They're a bit shallow, fake and out of touch. These females are the women good men won't pick. Tia don't know that the enemy is sometimes the closest to you. Mature refined women would never coax her to behave in this way. Once she said she made a mistake they should have asked her why and helped her make the right decision for herself. They're not mature enough to even know the complexity of marriage. Men hate women who listen to their hate'n ass friends with no man who want to see her lonely like them. Tia doesn't know who she is and she chose females who are without character. This is truly the worst mistake she ever made. That man loved her and didn't take jobs because she was feeding into that feminist bs. He was trying to appease her by not outshining her so she would not turn on him even more. She loves attention and is always in acting mode. She allowed her demon "frienamies" to influence her. She's now one of them. She's ruined her image. He was a good man. She lost a fortune when she left him for nothing.
@realbeautyness25 yeah, I heard and I am very empathetic to how people get to the mental and emotional place they arrive at in life as an adult however, she can articulate everything and everybody else. She isn't retarded and it doesn't explain how and why she dragged Corey indirectly consistently to appear to be the victim. On this case, I have zero sympathy. She not stupid even if she was sheltered. She's very successful and an actress. The actress part is very important....self explanatory.
I think she can't see it because she wants to confirm and validate her decision as being the right move when really... Well, whatever midlife crisis she may have been experiencing at that moment would've been passed by now. Instead she is sitting in the midst of "friendship circles" that consist of "friends" that are indifferent or would've wanted to trade places with her because for what it's worth, she carried herself differently (wasn't out and about in the streets dating multiple men) and she gained a husband at first take, and made a family with him for over a decade whereas they were "out there" still not settled down as they would've liked and not really in a stable livelihood compared to Tia.
😯SAY WHAT??? R u saying that ppl should be friends w others who don't always agree w their shenanigans & provide different opinions??? 🙅🏾♀️ NOPE, we can't do that... we gotta cancel them!!! (sarcasm) 😂
These "females" are not her friend. Once they have completely wrecked her life, they will be gone! They were there for the ride including being on TV. She should have listened to Tamara and her mom; not her "fake sisterhood".
No, they will be "gone" with Tia's husband! Many of them are trying to get a person out of the way, and then they swoop and scoop! Swoop in, and scoop up your ex!
Watching this is just confirmation for me, not having any real female friends was a blessing. I tried to have friends but it never worked out, I could never relate to them. It's very hard to find friends you can relate to, who are trustworthy and care about your best interests. I'm sure I avoided so much bs, backstabbing and drama by keeping to myself. Those women are not friends, they're frenemies.
Story of my life. I was a tomboy and I didn't grow up valuing what a lot of girls valued growing up so I just couldn't relate. It took me 27 years to find my first real friend and once I knew what to look for, I found a few more. They're all different, they're all unique and they all mind their own business (their lives and families) so no one is envious. I'd do anything for them and they always have a safe place with me. We can go months without talking and catch up like nothing ever happened. I learned a lot of hard lessons when I was alone and didn't have good purpose driven female friends to warn me.
Amen. My husband grew up with his cousins (grandparents watched them after school while parents worked). The women in his family are “misery loves company”. When I learned that all they wanted to do was wreck my relationship, I stopped interacting with them, declined invites. Of course they took it personal we’d felt disrespected but my relationship was more important. I was the butt of their jokes, they only wanted to info gather and have ammunition to talk ish. I later talked to a woman 10 years older than me that said they were jealous because out of all the men in that family (guy cousins, the girl cousins’ husbands), my man was the only “successful” one with his career. I was too and the female cousins had their own careers, too but none or the other male cousins or the female cousins husbands had a career. The older woman told me that some women get jealous about that. I never knew…
Y’all lack empathy and end up looking just as bad as Tia remember life happens to everyone you should show the same empathy to people cause you never know what will happen too you and I’m sure you wouldn’t want people watching and laughing at your human error. But go off
This show was an epic fail for Tia. What you said about the company you keep being vital is 1000% correct. Misery loves company, and sometimes your so-called friend should just be a person you know/associate with, because not everyone wants what's best for you, some want what's best for them at the moment. Let one of these chics get boo'd up and be happy, watch how that vibe changes! I don't even put my family in my marital business unless it's absolutely detrimental to me.
Tia won't ever take the advice of her sister bec she looks down on her. She thinks she's the better, edgier more urban twin. The same things/energy these "friends" are doing to Tia, Tia has done to Tamera.
At the age of 46, she she facing 50. Why does she have so many friends? Some of them you can see are half her age and she took advices from them? No I blame Tia for her own foolishness.
All of them are half her age except Jackee’ and Essence. Terrell is 33, Natasha, 30, Ciara, the same age. She said she and Natasha have been friends for 12 years. She would have been 18 and Tia 34. Idk if she’s just really immature or if she thinks she needs younger friends to make herself feel younger.
@@Carolina_girl86 Thanks, with this information I can boldly say that it means TIA IS THE BAD FRIEND to her young friends. She failed to be a good influence.
When I was married, my ex-wife would listen to her best friend over me, even though that same friend openly admitted she envied her for having a man’s support. Ironically, this was the same friend whose man ghosted her with just a letter, moved out while she was at work, and ensured she had no way to reach him. Now that we're divorced, guess who she’s living with? That friend. I had to learn from my own mistakes, taking advice from my single male friends, but then I asked the same question to a happily married female friend of over 25 years. Her perspective showed me how off-base I was, helping me see things through a woman's eyes and realize where I had gone wrong taking advice from my single male friends.
You almost had it until the last part, don’t focus on if the men are single or not men give the best advice bc it’s always coming from a place of logic and women are always going to advise you in the direction of feelings and emotion even while married, a woman being married even if for a long time doesn’t suddenly make her the perfect candidate for relationship advice, it’s all about if she’s “wifing” the correct way that can make her advice more valuable
I think you can still get wise counsel from someone who is single. Being single doesn’t inherently mean you are any more emotionally stable or healthy than a married person. Exhibit A? Your ex wife. A ring doesn’t make a person any less toxic, wisdom and maturity is the only solution to healing that. The issue is, people don’t always know the motives of those giving the advice, be it a single friend or a married friend, if that person does not have your best intentions at heart the advice will always be stale.
@@marvingoinsI disagree. You can say men are logical all day, but some men are truly foolish. Pay attention to there fruit. And remember Anger is an emotion. The Emotion that’s most men show often out of all the others .
@@marvingoinsjust the fact that you used the term “wifing” disqualifies you from this conversation. Like seriously? How old are you? Wifing? That’s something I’d expect to hear from a single 23 year old bachelor, juggling 3 to 4 women on a Saturday night. If you’re at a place where you’re asking for counsel in your marriage, you’re not describing a woman as “wifey” or “wifey material” much less “wifing.” Furthermore, to focus only on what a woman brings to the table without equal focus on what the man is bringing to the table is a set up for divorce. Marriage is a partnership. If you don’t know that, then once again, you shouldn’t be here in this conversation.
The funny thing is that her life WAS together. She had the American dream and she chose to destroy it. All for what? Likes on SM? She deserves the misery she’s in.
She really must get her ish together. In my opinion she must go and work 😢things out with her husband, for her sake and most importantly the sake of her children. She must admit to herself that she made a very big mistake, and the issues she had were from within herself. Clearly the grass is not greener on the other side.
@@thala40 Corey shouldn’t take her back tho. She showed how fickle she is. Turned on her husband just cuz she was feeling FOMO. And FOMO for what? Getting D in them streets? She just can’t be trusted.
@@seriejohnson698”husband or the man is the catch” culture maybe? I do not believe her friends would do this either nor do I believe her ex would as well. People love drama.
You are absolutely CORRECT! Its sad to watch her. She thinks she is like them but she is not, and she doesn't know it. I feel for her and she won't talk to people who have her real back. She needs to distant herself from these hyenas ASAP!!!
@@Mike_M. Yessss! You have to look at everything and see the kind of woman you're dealing with. Tia isn't stupid. She knows how to stay relavent. To think women are influenced by her. That's why God said " let there be no other Gods before me" feminism has destroyed the black community.
They encouraged her to be single instead of encouraging her to fix her marriage . They wanted her single and miserable like them ! She is a weak follower
Very true... they aren't "friends," apparently. Yet Tia should have the capability to decide how she's going to move as far as her life is concerned and if this is the direction she's choosing to take, well...she's really satisfying her "friends" though. Too bad she isn't making better choices in the "friends" arena.
I had the same problem before, having bad friends. Bad or just lacking maturity and direction. Which is why now at my age (30) I’m only interested in having friends that are older than me and that are where I want to be in life: happily married, with or without kids, serving their community in some meaningful way.
These 2 women look like better looking versions of Tia, therefore I suspect they were jealous of her having Corey. Keep them snakes from around me, I mow my grass daily!
My mother died about 4 years before I got married and I'm so glad that she left with me with a bunch of advice for the future. A few things were to not take marriage advice from unmarried people or lesbians and not to let people who haven't raised kids ( or raised good kids) tell you ish unless they're telling you where THEY went wrong.
Check the persons intention before anything. I'm in my 40s, never married, no kids. At church I gave a lady advice once (she has 3 kids under 3) and everything about her body language said, 'and you'd know how?' Fast forward 2 Sundays later and I saw her practicing the very thing I advised her to do. She actually goes out of her way to find me and talk to me now. Discern the heart's intentions above everything else.
@@Heyu7her3you get advice from stable couples and great parents. Not jealous fools who don’t have what you want. ❤ You shall know them by their fruit. Withered, bitter or barren women give selfish relationship destroying advice because that’s all they know how to do.
I’m single too and married or coupled people are always seeking my advice… I have life experience and common sense and I can discern things. People always think I’m married or have kids because of the advice I give or how I treat people and children. I have wisdom and certain things I can just see. Being married is not a flex because I know married people that are in toxic relationships. Husband abusing them, cheating, house out of order. I know single Christian men who counsel couples and they are ordained and are a psychologist and they counsel couples. I feel like men when they counsel couples and single, people listen to them but if you’re a single woman, people don’t want to listen. I like Rivah and a lot of her points and wisdom is good but it’s the delivery sometimes and I this channel caters to a lot of men and you can tell how they feel about women, by saying females. I get on women too and hold them accountable with love and when God drops spiritual wisdom in me. A lot of men and women be projecting. It’s ok for Tia to get regret her decisions, she’s human and learning and growing and discovering who she is outside of being a mom and wife. A lot of women have this fantasy or being a wife and mother and that’s fine if you want that. But I’m not going to talk with such strong conviction on a person I don’t know. I got rid of all my back stabbing so called friends married and single because it was them, not their relationship status. A old friend told I should have a baby with my ex for government assistance and other when they knew I knew people that were well known in the industry, they wanted me to talk to these men, just for money. And because I didn’t they called me crazy and stupid for not wanting to use a man.
Living vicariously through her to misguide, disrupt, and ultimately defile herself but they won’t say that part out loud while grinning and smiling. Rivah is spot on 🎯
This is what men are talking about when we say women are confused! You have women who get married early that get in their 40s and decide they missed out ! Then you have women who partied all they life and want to settle down but can't!
@@abiyah3176 men don’t go through this in midlife crisis! We buy a motorcycle or fast car ! And we don’t worry about being 304s ! We do our oat sowing once we become financially stable ! We get our mind right same as when we get our money right!
@zephyrrrrrrrrrrr she made that mistake because they kept throwing things out there. We don't know what transpired, but this show is not helping her situation.
I grew up practically Catholic, I was told very young that married people hang out with married people. Vice versa, single people hang out with single people. I was taught by elders to understand the meaning of "Equally Yoke".
Tia, these fake jealous poor excuse of ladies are not your real true friends at all. The young lady on the left side in the satin gold outfit is married and the neice of Sandy "Pepper" from the Rap group "Salt & Pepper". They are haters and never wanted Tia to be happy in her marriage and with her husband at the time. Be careful of the people who are in your life and who you take counsel from. The best thing for you to do is seek God, fast and pray, and let God direct you and tell you what to do instead and give you some wisdom.
I really don't understand Tia's so called friends, I could see you burning your wedding dress if your marriage was toxic or physically, emotionally or verbally abusive. You would think Cory was a horrible person which isn't the case, not everyone who say's they are a friend is a friend. Instead of ditching Cory, she should've ditched these so called "friends". Wake up aTia, they are not your friends and they don't mean you any good. You trashed a good Man, I guarantee if Cory tried to holla at one of them, they would jump at it. Thank goodness Cory doesn't appear to be that type of man but you need to get rid of these skanks.
They never was her friends. I hate how they sit back and laugh at her when she seems to really be going through something. The pressuring her to date when they see she isn’t even over Corey was a huge red flag for me… I hope she gets back close with Tamera. These friends mean her no good and she’ll see that as she elevates and heals herself in this journey.
I'm grateful that even though I don't have a lot of friends I know the friends I have don't set me up for failure and they support me and I support them.
I agree, I'm the same way. I don't have alot of friends, but I'm very careful about who I have around me. I don't listen to anyone who just blindly supports anything I do, and doesn't question anything. Your friends are supposed to hold you accountable too.
She wouldn’t know. She was sheltered for so long and then lived & married the only man she ever dated. In that situation When a woman puts all of her trust in a man & he betrays it, it is devastating beyond words…. It too me 10 plus years to even KNOW what happened to me… healing… coming to terms, reclaiming self confidence…. That will be years without a miracle. She was left adrift and has been struggling in ways those “ friends “ can’t even begin to comprehend….she needs a GODLY wise m motherly counselor/mentor/friend.
I only watched half of one episode. I was immediately turned off, by " her so called friends ". These immature Women are not her friend's. Tia needed Therapy intensive and Jesus to help her. Subsequently, if she had good solid people like Essence . However, these immature mean spirits she had around her - is also her demise. I learn more and more as i get older be careful who you call your friends . Not everyone is for you. Rivah, your videos are all good and very informative- ive been watching your vids for a few months now. Thank you
I wish more women understood how vital it is that you pray for God to expose and real who are friends and who are enemies. You literally have to be careful who you label a friend. I do not trust 99% of women.
They was definitely talking about her, she took her employee’s to Vegas to act 20 something at 46, and she went to BED early like an old lady!!👵🏾🤦🏾♀️🤣😂😂😂
I've said this multiple times..... "Tia's so called friends are NOT her friends." I hope she can look back on this show and lift the blinders from her eye's.
I have a feeling the reason isn’t flattering. It would be easy to assume Cory cheated, but I believe both Tia and Cory have said that wasn’t the case. So given how much Tia sides steps this conversation, I have a feeling she got bored and had a mid life crisis -which were continuing to see play out. Tia even from her choice playing on the Game, has always been someone who’s strived to be famous, in the limelight, wanting to be popular and liked, be in the “in crowd” and Tamera has always been the down to earth one, happy being wife and a mom and out of the spotlight. I think that’s why she and Tia don’t see eye to eye anymore cuz Tia is still chasing Hollywood and wasn’t focused on her marriage and family.
Well, this is just my opinion I think married women should stop taking the relationship advise from single women because it gives off this motive of "misery loves company" type vibes.
Proverbs 14:1 "A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands". Occasionally, it's with the added help of a few girlfriends. You can't fault Tia's friends completely. There's wide line between inexperience and stupidity. This isn't peer pressure. Tia is simply doing what she wants to do. At some point in the future, her 2 children will be able to view their mother's actions and hear her comments, along with every other kid at the schools they attend.
There's many "Tias" out there..a Tia are women who had a good man, but wanted to be emancipated, and listened to mom, sisters, cousins and friends and let their ideas influence their relationships .. which in essence in really is their fate.... that means your life and future is being decided by people who may or may not be their when those decisions backfire...
I got no idea how you got me so wrapped up in her business but here i am with a hot cup of tea . This is my new addiction and i absolutely agree with your take on how messy and twisted her "friends "are.
This gives credence to several commonly referred to adages... 1. "You become the company that you keep"; 2. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer"; 3. "Misery loves company"... No true friend would let you make a complete fool of yourself in public for the entire world to see... Let alone encourage you to do so... Not only is she damaging her personal respectability... She's damaging her professional career... On the other hand... Maybe this is who she was and/or wanted to be all along... Not many reputable brands want to be represented by this type of moral degeneracy... Not to mention the fact that it's being displayed by a woman that's closer to 50 than she is to 40... I guarantee you, given the opportunity anyone of these women she calls friends would take her place without giving it a "first" thought... She needs to sit alone for a few minutes and look in a mirror and ask herself... How many of these people are really my friends??? And how many of them are only there to drag her "down" to their level??? In my opinion this is actually more therapeutic for them than it is for her... Ushering her into their pathetic reality only benefits them... I thinks it's safe to assume that if her marriage wasn't officially over before this "girls" trip... It's more than likely officially over now... And what about the kids... Cory needs to get his kids... This has to be psychologically and emotionally damaging for them... And she doesn't seem to care...
When I was miserable, I had friends left and right, trying to meet someone's expectations when I just wanted to be me. Then, I stopped meeting their expectations and focused on me, my goals, my marriage, my business, my family, and I didn't just lose one or two but 100% of all those friends. Their thinking was always 5 years behind from my own thinking. I still have "friends," but if they can't accept me for me... then c-ya girl. ❤
Another woman fooled into thinking leaving their marriage where there were no real issues was the answer…sad. They always tell you when you get married, get married friends.
Facts on top of Facts Rivah 💯. And this just dawned on me. Tia probably listened to these no-good friends more than her sister Tamara. I'm almost certain Tamara tired to talk some sense in Tia and told her not to divorce her husband and she dismissed her. But listened to her friends instead!!
Absolutely, but the fact that Tia was talking to these women for year's about her and Cory private marriage shows that Tia is selfish and disrespectful and Cory had to endure Hell, Cory has found a peace that he will never give up.
If Cory was to slide in any of Tia’s ‘friends’ DMs, they would creep with him on the low while smiling in Tia’s face lmao
Don't doubt it one sec ❤
I don't think so, these women want attention so bad, they probably would blast him with screenshots on social media to try and get some clout.
Facts!!!!
Agreed
The way they don’t want him back with her my first thought was one of them may want him for themselves. Sneaky snakes.
"... Women understand women, and they hate each other."
-Al Bundy
A legend among men.
Real talk…..💯
For a minute I thought you were quoting Ted Bundy 😂😂
@@shawnbrown9336 And that my sistren maybe 🤔 the reason ✨
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A public show is not needed. Private therapy is.
That's what she did at 1st and this is how all this crap got started
She need to go to Jesus because she said, her family is Christian. Tia needs to repent and build a real personal relationship with Jesus Christ, like many of us.
Only thing we need is Jesus. God said trust no man. That means no human. But only put our trust in HIM.
Yes this has been a train wreck and the show was just hollyweird making a buck off the disaster.
Amen!
Who needs enemies when you have friends like these?
Exactly
Those are demons
Definitely not her friends
@@zayinseven7923Exactly Correct Correct I thought I was the only one who saw that.
Cory use to post stuff on his story about " watch the friends you keep or watch ur circle " n now I believe he's talking about her lol
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Most definitely! He knew what time it was. They act like guys dont have intuition. Cory obviously got more intuition than most.
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Absolutely true
He was trying to warn us and subliminally tell her
She had single friends. When your married, you need married friends
Was looking for this comment!
Married friends that would hold her accountable, married friends that would help her to be a better wife and mother. Married friends that would helped her to stay married.
Facts!
@@Reformed_3 women have to understand that you have to vet your potential female friends based on how it aligns with your life. Tia are these women, one in the same .They're a bit shallow, fake and out of touch. These females are the women good men won't pick. Tia don't know that the enemy is sometimes the closest to you. Mature refined women would never coax her to behave in this way. Once she said she made a mistake they should have asked her why and helped her make the right decision for herself. They're not mature enough to even know the complexity of marriage. Men hate women who listen to their hate'n ass friends with no man who want to see her lonely like them. Tia doesn't know who she is and she chose females who are without character. This is truly the worst mistake she ever made. That man loved her and didn't take jobs because she was feeding into that feminist bs. He was trying to appease her by not outshining her so she would not turn on him even more. She loves attention and is always in acting mode. She allowed her demon "frienamies" to influence her. She's now one of them. She's ruined her image. He was a good man. She lost a fortune when she left him for nothing.
That’s what I said why were all of her friends single. I don’t understand. Then they all of them were younger than her. Tia’s in her late 40s
These friends secretly envied her.
Truth
yep. women either have secret haters or competition. Friends? nope
They not really friends
They were never her friends they were hanger on.
@fc775 right she didn't even know them like that
Tia exposed herself. I think she cheapened herself after Corey.
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SHE WAS VERY SHELTERED IN LIFE
@realbeautyness25 yeah, I heard and I am very empathetic to how people get to the mental and emotional place they arrive at in life as an adult however, she can articulate everything and everybody else. She isn't retarded and it doesn't explain how and why she dragged Corey indirectly consistently to appear to be the victim. On this case, I have zero sympathy. She not stupid even if she was sheltered. She's very successful and an actress. The actress part is very important....self explanatory.
Misery loves company. These are not her friends. Sad she can’t see that
"Misery loves company" we grew with our parents telling us that and it is so true
I think she can't see it because she wants to confirm and validate her decision as being the right move when really... Well, whatever midlife crisis she may have been experiencing at that moment would've been passed by now. Instead she is sitting in the midst of "friendship circles" that consist of "friends" that are indifferent or would've wanted to trade places with her because for what it's worth, she carried herself differently (wasn't out and about in the streets dating multiple men) and she gained a husband at first take, and made a family with him for over a decade whereas they were "out there" still not settled down as they would've liked and not really in a stable livelihood compared to Tia.
Love this 💕
😯SAY WHAT??? R u saying that ppl should be friends w others who don't always agree w their shenanigans & provide different opinions??? 🙅🏾♀️ NOPE, we can't do that... we gotta cancel them!!! (sarcasm) 😂
Yes yes and yes!
These "females" are not her friend. Once they have completely wrecked her life, they will be gone! They were there for the ride including being on TV. She should have listened to Tamara and her mom; not her "fake sisterhood".
100%
They are the treacherous twins, they for the streets and they are there for clout
what advice did Tamara and her mom give her?
No, they will be "gone" with Tia's husband! Many of them are trying to get a person out of the way, and then they swoop and scoop! Swoop in, and scoop up your ex!
@@kyoshi8441they the evil step-sisters in Cinderella wishing they were the main character
Congratulations Tia you played yourself!!
And another one!
@@statusboom-x6348 💯💯
😂fact
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Tia went from the model wife to this debauchery. Tamera WOULD NEVER have these type of women in her circle.
That's right. And that's why Tia kicked Tamera out of her circle. Can't have any good influences around.
@@tdogg65they never had the same type of friends.
You're right, Tamara has a bigoted ,racist husband, and that's why she focuses on palm color people.
“Friends, how many of us have them ?”
"Friends, ones we can depend on."
"As you call 'em, they call you when they need something
Trees for the blunt, the g's for the front"
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@@sheranda77 the youngsters won't understand but you're right
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Watching this is just confirmation for me, not having any real female friends was a blessing. I tried to have friends but it never worked out, I could never relate to them. It's very hard to find friends you can relate to, who are trustworthy and care about your best interests. I'm sure I avoided so much bs, backstabbing and drama by keeping to myself. Those women are not friends, they're frenemies.
Story of my life. I was a tomboy and I didn't grow up valuing what a lot of girls valued growing up so I just couldn't relate. It took me 27 years to find my first real friend and once I knew what to look for, I found a few more. They're all different, they're all unique and they all mind their own business (their lives and families) so no one is envious. I'd do anything for them and they always have a safe place with me. We can go months without talking and catch up like nothing ever happened. I learned a lot of hard lessons when I was alone and didn't have good purpose driven female friends to warn me.
My mother always says, "If you want a friend, call me."
Amen. My husband grew up with his cousins (grandparents watched them after school while parents worked). The women in his family are “misery loves company”. When I learned that all they wanted to do was wreck my relationship, I stopped interacting with them, declined invites. Of course they took it personal we’d felt disrespected but my relationship was more important. I was the butt of their jokes, they only wanted to info gather and have ammunition to talk ish. I later talked to a woman 10 years older than me that said they were jealous because out of all the men in that family (guy cousins, the girl cousins’ husbands), my man was the only “successful” one with his career. I was too and the female cousins had their own careers, too but none or the other male cousins or the female cousins husbands had a career. The older woman told me that some women get jealous about that. I never knew…
Yes!!! Same!
Welcome to the club! I’m my own bff. There! I said it.
Remember guys, she GRADUATED. Which means she is supposed to be at a better stage. Let's enjoy the show
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Respectfully
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TF does that even seriously how to GRADUATE from a marriage, she really just be talking for the sake of sometimes
Y’all lack empathy and end up looking just as bad as Tia remember life happens to everyone you should show the same empathy to people cause you never know what will happen too you and I’m sure you wouldn’t want people watching and laughing at your human error. But go off
This show was an epic fail for Tia.
What you said about the company you keep being vital is 1000% correct. Misery loves company, and sometimes your so-called friend should just be a person you know/associate with, because not everyone wants what's best for you, some want what's best for them at the moment. Let one of these chics get boo'd up and be happy, watch how that vibe changes!
I don't even put my family in my marital business unless it's absolutely detrimental to me.
Very true. Once they get boo'd up, they are nowhere to be found. 😅
exactly
Tia's sister is a better influence than these friends that are looking to be famous.
Much better.
Tamara ain’t letting no one effin up her marriage I don’t blame her
I agree. She is the married friend that I would appreciate.
@@christines1821agreed
Tia won't ever take the advice of her sister bec she looks down on her. She thinks she's the better, edgier more urban twin. The same things/energy these "friends" are doing to Tia, Tia has done to Tamera.
Tia's friends: Tia, look at that bus.
[Tia looks]
Tia's friends: [Boot to Tia's back]
They love a single Tia. Access to resources and clout.
yep
They're gonna make sure she destroys herself before they let her beg Cory to take her back
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I’m definitely worried for Tia because she has these people around her and her so called friends are younger than her 😳
At the age of 46, she she facing 50. Why does she have so many friends? Some of them you can see are half her age and she took advices from them? No I blame Tia for her own foolishness.
All of them are half her age except Jackee’ and Essence. Terrell is 33, Natasha, 30, Ciara, the same age. She said she and Natasha have been friends for 12 years. She would have been 18 and Tia 34. Idk if she’s just really immature or if she thinks she needs younger friends to make herself feel younger.
@@Carolina_girl86😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you
@@Carolina_girl86 Thanks, with this information I can boldly say that it means TIA IS THE BAD FRIEND to her young friends. She failed to be a good influence.
Single women keep women single... Classic example😢
At this rate Tia’s gonna make Rivah a million dollars worth of content 😂😂
lol…best post message AWARD on this topic.. I had no idea Tia’s new show would be this personal outing
It’s getting weird. She has ran out of content with Tia after this. Now she’s gonna start making stuff up
For real because when I log on to UA-cam, Rivah is so invested.
@@lifeisbeautiful9455there are just so many gems from her tv show though.
You are so right, a good girlfriend will support you in working it out, reasonably.
The same ones who told her to leave a good man...lol played yourself.
Ayo I need you to tag Tia and send this to her. She needs to see this. These women aren’t her friends.
Agreed I’m worried for her and their younger than her😳
I disagree Tia seeks validation. She can’t survive without yes man, will in this case yes women!
Tia see what we see, she doesn’t care
😂😂u aint shit lol 🤣
They are definitely not her friends, but she did this to herself and it’s sad all the way around. Spot on assessment as always Rivah
When I was married, my ex-wife would listen to her best friend over me, even though that same friend openly admitted she envied her for having a man’s support. Ironically, this was the same friend whose man ghosted her with just a letter, moved out while she was at work, and ensured she had no way to reach him. Now that we're divorced, guess who she’s living with? That friend.
I had to learn from my own mistakes, taking advice from my single male friends, but then I asked the same question to a happily married female friend of over 25 years. Her perspective showed me how off-base I was, helping me see things through a woman's eyes and realize where I had gone wrong taking advice from my single male friends.
You almost had it until the last part, don’t focus on if the men are single or not men give the best advice bc it’s always coming from a place of logic and women are always going to advise you in the direction of feelings and emotion even while married, a woman being married even if for a long time doesn’t suddenly make her the perfect candidate for relationship advice, it’s all about if she’s “wifing” the correct way that can make her advice more valuable
@@marvingoinsMarvin STFU and I’m sure this mature man won’t listen to an idiot like you I hope they ban people with low IQ’s from speaking cause wtf
I think you can still get wise counsel from someone who is single. Being single doesn’t inherently mean you are any more emotionally stable or healthy than a married person. Exhibit A? Your ex wife. A ring doesn’t make a person any less toxic, wisdom and maturity is the only solution to healing that. The issue is, people don’t always know the motives of those giving the advice, be it a single friend or a married friend, if that person does not have your best intentions at heart the advice will always be stale.
@@marvingoinsI disagree. You can say men are logical all day, but some men are truly foolish. Pay attention to there fruit. And remember Anger is an emotion. The Emotion that’s most men show often out of all the others .
@@marvingoinsjust the fact that you used the term “wifing” disqualifies you from this conversation. Like seriously? How old are you? Wifing? That’s something I’d expect to hear from a single 23 year old bachelor, juggling 3 to 4 women on a Saturday night. If you’re at a place where you’re asking for counsel in your marriage, you’re not describing a woman as “wifey” or “wifey material” much less “wifing.” Furthermore, to focus only on what a woman brings to the table without equal focus on what the man is bringing to the table is a set up for divorce. Marriage is a partnership. If you don’t know that, then once again, you shouldn’t be here in this conversation.
Tia seriously needs to get her life together
The funny thing is that her life WAS together. She had the American dream and she chose to destroy it. All for what? Likes on SM? She deserves the misery she’s in.
Like seriously
Nope Tia's living her best life. She told us so. lol
She really must get her ish together. In my opinion she must go and work 😢things out with her husband, for her sake and most importantly the sake of her children.
She must admit to herself that she made a very big mistake, and the issues she had were from within herself. Clearly the grass is not greener on the other side.
@@thala40 Corey shouldn’t take her back tho. She showed how fickle she is. Turned on her husband just cuz she was feeling FOMO. And FOMO for what? Getting D in them streets? She just can’t be trusted.
Rivah you’re 1,OOO% accurate.
The sad fact is that if either one of them could have her ex-husband, they would jump at the opportunity.
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Women always want what other women have. The greedy and narcissistic...
Truth
Haaa, why he isn’t all that. He looks ok and has an ok career. His attitude always seemed shitty.
@@seriejohnson698”husband or the man is the catch” culture maybe? I do not believe her friends would do this either nor do I believe her ex would as well. People love drama.
You are absolutely CORRECT! Its sad to watch her. She thinks she is like them but she is not, and she doesn't know it. I feel for her and she won't talk to people who have her real back. She needs to distant herself from these hyenas ASAP!!!
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The fact that Tia considers these women as "friends" is a red flag within itself.
@@Mike_M. Yessss! You have to look at everything and see the kind of woman you're dealing with. Tia isn't stupid. She knows how to stay relavent. To think women are influenced by her. That's why God said " let there be no other Gods before me" feminism has destroyed the black community.
Note: They did nothing to Tia. Tia did it to herself.
Around just to watch
@ravenshouseb8273 Why wouldn't they?
They encouraged her to be single instead of encouraging her to fix her marriage . They wanted her single and miserable like them ! She is a weak follower
Very true... they aren't "friends," apparently. Yet Tia should have the capability to decide how she's going to move as far as her life is concerned and if this is the direction she's choosing to take, well...she's really satisfying her "friends" though. Too bad she isn't making better choices in the "friends" arena.
I had the same problem before, having bad friends. Bad or just lacking maturity and direction. Which is why now at my age (30) I’m only interested in having friends that are older than me and that are where I want to be in life: happily married, with or without kids, serving their community in some meaningful way.
These 2 women look like better looking versions of Tia, therefore I suspect they were jealous of her having Corey. Keep them snakes from around me, I mow my grass daily!
They look better with all that makeup!
She didn't even want Cory
I can't wait to escape michigan so iCAN run up in that space💯 😍
Bingo. They may appear better looking but they been single for a reason. Misery loves company and Tia found out what that means
Tia hangs around fake folks
My mother died about 4 years before I got married and I'm so glad that she left with me with a bunch of advice for the future. A few things were to not take marriage advice from unmarried people or lesbians and not to let people who haven't raised kids ( or raised good kids) tell you ish unless they're telling you where THEY went wrong.
Then that would means no one should seek or give advice, which is unwise as well
Check the persons intention before anything.
I'm in my 40s, never married, no kids.
At church I gave a lady advice once (she has 3 kids under 3) and everything about her body language said, 'and you'd know how?'
Fast forward 2 Sundays later and I saw her practicing the very thing I advised her to do. She actually goes out of her way to find me and talk to me now.
Discern the heart's intentions above everything else.
I get your mom's intentions, but ...🙄
@@Heyu7her3you get advice from stable couples and great parents. Not jealous fools who don’t have what you want. ❤ You shall know them by their fruit. Withered, bitter or barren women give selfish relationship destroying advice because that’s all they know how to do.
I’m single too and married or coupled people are always seeking my advice… I have life experience and common sense and I can discern things. People always think I’m married or have kids because of the advice I give or how I treat people and children.
I have wisdom and certain things I can just see. Being married is not a flex because I know married people that are in toxic relationships. Husband abusing them, cheating, house out of order.
I know single Christian men who counsel couples and they are ordained and are a psychologist and they counsel couples. I feel like men when they counsel couples and single, people listen to them but if you’re a single woman, people don’t want to listen.
I like Rivah and a lot of her points and wisdom is good but it’s the delivery sometimes and I this channel caters to a lot of men and you can tell how they feel about women, by saying females. I get on women too and hold them accountable with love and when God drops spiritual wisdom in me.
A lot of men and women be projecting. It’s ok for Tia to get regret her decisions, she’s human and learning and growing and discovering who she is outside of being a mom and wife. A lot of women have this fantasy or being a wife and mother and that’s fine if you want that. But I’m not going to talk with such strong conviction on a person I don’t know.
I got rid of all my back stabbing so called friends married and single because it was them, not their relationship status. A old friend told I should have a baby with my ex for government assistance and other when they knew I knew people that were well known in the industry, they wanted me to talk to these men, just for money. And because I didn’t they called me crazy and stupid for not wanting to use a man.
Tia show is finally over now that’s a graduation 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
best comment today
@@shenafrancis4249 🤣🤣🤣 facts!🤣🤣🤣
Living vicariously through her to misguide, disrupt, and ultimately defile herself but they won’t say that part out loud while grinning and smiling. Rivah is spot on 🎯
I pray she does NOT defile herself.
@@robina3443 in one episode she let her assistant bring a person who does witchcraft. I'm glad Tamera wasn't there.
@@n.g.l. so sad , I didn't know that happened, such a nasty world
She clearly needs 🙏🏾.
Absolutely, wise words and sharp mind ❤
@@robina3443 I no longer watch her show, Holy Spirit let me know. That stuff can defile anyone. I really hope she knows the Lord
This is what men are talking about when we say women are confused! You have women who get married early that get in their 40s and decide they missed out ! Then you have women who partied all they life and want to settle down but can't!
One side believes that they missed out on something. The others realize that they wasted valuable time doing nothing.
@@traycee2404and neither side knows what the truth is
This goes for both women and men. We used to call it a mid life crisis back in the day.
@@abiyah3176 men don’t go through this in midlife crisis! We buy a motorcycle or fast car ! And we don’t worry about being 304s ! We do our oat sowing once we become financially stable ! We get our mind right same as when we get our money right!
Those two “friends” are such mean girls. They are jealous of her and are enjoying watching her self destruct.
I am shocked, shocked...well not that shocked 🤣🤣🤣
A zebra cannot give a lioness advice on ANYTHING!!!
Agreed and well said.
I’d say these pseudo friends are more like hyenas
I love that line!
I am an older woman listening to you. You are very wise and giving us some wisdom. Everybody that says you are their friend isn’t.
You're absolutely on point Rivah!!
None of these women are Tia’s friends.😂 Why all this hate for her ex husband? This guy didn’t do anything wrong.
Honestly nine of us know anything about ANYof these entities.
The "sisterhood" will always find a reason to blame the man
It seems like Tia talked about him to them alot….
@zephyrrrrrrrrrrr she made that mistake because they kept throwing things out there. We don't know what transpired, but this show is not helping her situation.
@@sharieannpryce9127 SHE "graduated". stop this.
I grew up practically Catholic, I was told very young that married people hang out with married people. Vice versa, single people hang out with single people. I was taught by elders to understand the meaning of "Equally Yoke".
Catholics mess with lil boys.
I hope she watches that show and in hindsight sees these “friends” for who they really are
nope. She will blame Corey in time and those "friends" will help her blame him. It's a matter of time.
Oh she will cringe and feel even worse!
I wouldn't be surprised if any of these "friends" hit on Corey before. These are sharks.
Right cause being loose and lost ain't it
Vultures.
Rivah you are so on point!..and those are NOT REAL FRIENDS. And you are correct, none of them have what Tia wants.
Tia, these fake jealous poor excuse of ladies are not your real true friends at all.
The young lady on the left side in the satin gold outfit is married and the neice of Sandy "Pepper" from the Rap group "Salt & Pepper".
They are haters and never wanted Tia to be happy in her marriage and with her husband at the time. Be careful of the people who are in your life and who you take counsel from. The best thing for you to do is seek God, fast and pray, and let God direct you and tell you what to do instead and give you some wisdom.
I really don't understand Tia's so called friends, I could see you burning your wedding dress if your marriage was toxic or physically, emotionally or verbally abusive. You would think Cory was a horrible person which isn't the case, not everyone who say's they are a friend is a friend. Instead of ditching Cory, she should've ditched these so called "friends". Wake up aTia, they are not your friends and they don't mean you any good. You trashed a good Man, I guarantee if Cory tried to holla at one of them, they would jump at it. Thank goodness Cory doesn't appear to be that type of man but you need to get rid of these skanks.
@@iriswhite1220 💯💯💯
Tia didn't burn her dress though, she started crying saying she wasn't ready for that. Her marriage had good memories, like her babies.
Rivah, stay on these misguided chicks asses and keep giving people this work.
They never was her friends. I hate how they sit back and laugh at her when she seems to really be going through something. The pressuring her to date when they see she isn’t even over Corey was a huge red flag for me… I hope she gets back close with Tamera. These friends mean her no good and she’ll see that as she elevates and heals herself in this journey.
I'm grateful that even though I don't have a lot of friends I know the friends I have don't set me up for failure and they support me and I support them.
I agree, I'm the same way. I don't have alot of friends, but I'm very careful about who I have around me. I don't listen to anyone who just blindly supports anything I do, and doesn't question anything. Your friends are supposed to hold you accountable too.
One of the girls that is playing Tia’s “friend” is Tee Tee. She was in Growing Up Hip Hop, and she is married.
THAT IS HER .WAIT A MINUTE SHE IS MARRIED AND HAVE A BABY
I wonder how she (tee tee) feels about black men 🤔
@@kooolio007 I remember her. She couldn't get Dame Dash son so she settled for the white dude
Yea when I realized that was her my alarms really started going off and I wish Tia could have heard them. She will see there through colors very soon.
@@DannyDoGoodDame Dash has a son old enough for a woman Tia's age?
At 40+++ Tia should know better….These girls are no friends of hers
Right, they’re all in their early 30’s and under. What does Tia at almost 50 even have in common with them?
She wouldn’t know. She was sheltered for so long and then lived & married the only man she ever dated.
In that situation When a woman puts all of her trust in a man & he betrays it, it is devastating beyond words…. It too me 10 plus years to even KNOW what happened to me… healing… coming to terms, reclaiming self confidence…. That will be years without a miracle.
She was left adrift and has been struggling in ways those “ friends “ can’t even begin to comprehend….she needs a GODLY wise m motherly counselor/mentor/friend.
And NO consideration for her standing & reputation with her children…
45+++
It’s sickening how Tia allowed friends to influence her decisions. Sad to see an old chick thinking she’s young 😳
She grew up sheltered and lacked life experience. She also got married really young. She didn't know who to listen to for advice.
@@vintagejaki751mm she married when she was around 30 so it wasn’t like really youbg
Men being in women's business and calling them "chicks" = suspect
So many women do it to fit in. Nope, I’ve never been a follower. So I walk solo.
The saying has never rang truer. Women keep women single
Women like them are truly fake to one another
Tia Mowry is the gift that keeps on giving.
I only watched half of one episode. I was immediately turned off, by " her so called friends ". These immature Women are not her friend's. Tia needed Therapy intensive and Jesus to help her. Subsequently, if she had good solid people like Essence . However, these immature mean spirits she had around her - is also her demise. I learn more and more as i get older be careful who you call your friends . Not everyone is for you. Rivah, your videos are all good and very informative- ive been watching your vids for a few months now. Thank you
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Rivah you're always on point I love your commentary keep up the great work.
@@mr.maurice8323 🤣
I wish more women understood how vital it is that you pray for God to expose and real who are friends and who are enemies. You literally have to be careful who you label a friend. I do not trust 99% of women.
Tia I’m sending prayers 🙏🏾✨to you.. I’m sending you discernment, light, and perseverance 🫀🌑
Thank you so much for this comment, it's so sincere I wish Tia would actually see this ❤.
Rivah be spittin I swear. I love how she says a general point and plays a clip of them doing exactly that. It really helps to bring the point home.
Tia is pushing 50. She should have known better than to do any of that degrading junk. She allowed herself to look goofy.
Interestingly enough, Tia was laughing at her own sister crying, etc. - NOW LOOK HOW TABLES HAVE TURNED 🤔🤔🤔
OH, THE IRONY!
Great commentary! Tia does not get it. She lacks emotional intelligence and she’s not a critical thinker. I agree with everything you said ❤
They are just as corny and misguided as Tia smh. True birds of a feather. 🤦🏾♀️
They was definitely talking about her, she took her employee’s to Vegas to act 20 something at 46, and she went to BED early like an old lady!!👵🏾🤦🏾♀️🤣😂😂😂
I've said this multiple times..... "Tia's so called friends are NOT her friends." I hope she can look back on this show and lift the blinders from her eye's.
These are not her friends:
Friends for TV or for the year….
Somebody give Tia a quarter, she played herself 😂😂
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Shes being a TERRIBLE role model for her kids
Am I the only one who Still doesn’t know why She got divorced? I really don’t know 😮
Because her friends where unhappy being single and they caused TIa to break up with him.
I have a feeling the reason isn’t flattering. It would be easy to assume Cory cheated, but I believe both Tia and Cory have said that wasn’t the case. So given how much Tia sides steps this conversation, I have a feeling she got bored and had a mid life crisis -which were continuing to see play out. Tia even from her choice playing on the Game, has always been someone who’s strived to be famous, in the limelight, wanting to be popular and liked, be in the “in crowd” and Tamera has always been the down to earth one, happy being wife and a mom and out of the spotlight. I think that’s why she and Tia don’t see eye to eye anymore cuz Tia is still chasing Hollywood and wasn’t focused on her marriage and family.
Tia doesn't know either. The call of the streets was too loud so she decided to graduate
@@rmak2950but she can’t stop crying, deep down inside she probably knows she made the wrong decision
@@calenajackson8772this 💔
After watching this video l'm convinced they were in her ear and talked her into graduating from her marriage. They are typical "HATERS"!
About time she figures it out she’ll be depressed and in a terrible relationship !
Well, this is just my opinion I think married women should stop taking the relationship advise from single women because it gives off this motive of "misery loves company" type vibes.
It's like The blind leading The blind! LoL!
Proverbs 14:1 "A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands". Occasionally, it's with the added help of a few girlfriends. You can't fault Tia's friends completely. There's wide line between inexperience and stupidity. This isn't peer pressure. Tia is simply doing what she wants to do. At some point in the future, her 2 children will be able to view their mother's actions and hear her comments, along with every other kid at the schools they attend.
When her younger friends find a man, they are going to abandon her. Cold blooded
Teetee already has a man though, she is married
@ wow, I don’t keep up with this. I’m curious to understand what her husband thinks of this.
There's many "Tias" out there..a Tia are women who had a good man, but wanted to be emancipated, and listened to mom, sisters, cousins and friends and let their ideas influence their relationships .. which in essence in really is their fate.... that means your life and future is being decided by people who may or may not be their when those decisions backfire...
Also some women have this complex that they're superior than they really are and think they can find a man that is better than the one they have.
This video makes me happy I don’t have close female friends 😅
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A woman who was clearly jealous of tias success so she pretended to be a friend while planting seeds of destruction in her head💯
_"Single women keep women single."_
*- Kevin Samuels*
Yesssss Single Single Single Life 💃🏿 🤪
As a man, I stay away from ninjas who always have something negative to say about women
I understand that I definitely stay away from Simps that put 304's on a pedestal and don't hold them accountable!! 🤯
@@pitbullmrwhat73thank you bc the original comment sounded beta asf
You are who you hang with.
This is why Tia needs to be in the company of her sister. Tia up here trying to prove her “blackness”
If the concept of a "girls trip" was a show, it would be tia's show. Fulfilling the stereotypes that make men not wanna get married smh
Neicey Rivah you are wise beyond your years. Much blessings to you .
I got no idea how you got me so wrapped up in her business but here i am with a hot cup of tea .
This is my new addiction and i absolutely agree with your take on how messy and twisted her "friends "are.
You were 100 percent correct. These women more than likely envied what she had. You are correct when you say the company you keep.
This gives credence to several commonly referred to adages...
1. "You become the company that you keep";
2. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer";
3. "Misery loves company"...
No true friend would let you make a complete fool of yourself in public for the entire world to see...
Let alone encourage you to do so...
Not only is she damaging her personal respectability...
She's damaging her professional career...
On the other hand...
Maybe this is who she was and/or wanted to be all along...
Not many reputable brands want to be represented by this type of moral degeneracy...
Not to mention the fact that it's being displayed by a woman that's closer to 50 than she is to 40...
I guarantee you, given the opportunity anyone of these women she calls friends would take her place without giving it a "first" thought...
She needs to sit alone for a few minutes and look in a mirror and ask herself...
How many of these people are really my friends???
And how many of them are only there to drag her "down" to their level???
In my opinion this is actually more therapeutic for them than it is for her...
Ushering her into their pathetic reality only benefits them...
I thinks it's safe to assume that if her marriage wasn't officially over before this "girls" trip...
It's more than likely officially over now...
And what about the kids...
Cory needs to get his kids...
This has to be psychologically and emotionally damaging for them...
And she doesn't seem to care...
EXACTLY
When I was miserable, I had friends left and right, trying to meet someone's expectations when I just wanted to be me. Then, I stopped meeting their expectations and focused on me, my goals, my marriage, my business, my family, and I didn't just lose one or two but 100% of all those friends. Their thinking was always 5 years behind from my own thinking. I still have "friends," but if they can't accept me for me... then c-ya girl. ❤
I absolutely LOVE how her show is devaluing and degrading her. It's what she begged, absolutely BEGGED for.
Another woman fooled into thinking leaving their marriage where there were no real issues was the answer…sad. They always tell you when you get married, get married friends.
I wonder if these are the same women that were at her wedding
Excellent review Rivah!!! They got on my last nerve!!!!!! Tia better wake up and realize she had a good one.
Facts on top of Facts Rivah 💯. And this just dawned on me. Tia probably listened to these no-good friends more than her sister Tamara. I'm almost certain Tamara tired to talk some sense in Tia and told her not to divorce her husband and she dismissed her. But listened to her friends instead!!
Absolutely, but the fact that Tia was talking to these women for year's about her and Cory private marriage shows that Tia is selfish and disrespectful and Cory had to endure Hell, Cory has found a peace that he will never give up.
@@geegeebugs2678 Facts
Rivah you tell the truth and I'm here for it!!!
This graduation party is great 😂
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Whenever Rivah gets into her Tia bag, I tune in straight away and bring out the popcorn lol. Analysis is A1
They act stuck up asf 😒 those are not real friends they act like stuck up air heads
I’m glad somebody said it because I thought I was crazy seeing that they aren’t genuine friends!! She really needs her sister!!!
I Love Rivah she’s always on point
Get em @Rivah.