Life Has Been Very Hard Lately

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  • Ernest W. Stokes,Jr. (Mr. Bucky) 9-21-1938 7-7-2019

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  • @lilactreehouse
    @lilactreehouse 2 роки тому +58

    Phyllis, you would be so proud of your son who has taken the reigns of your channel and doing a wonderful job. You are missed by many.

    • @sharonmores8697
      @sharonmores8697 2 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ miss you

  • @StinkyButton
    @StinkyButton 4 роки тому +681

    Miss Phyllis is with Mr. Bucky and her daughter now. Rest In Peace beautiful lady. We love you forever.

    • @debbiedejohn1069
      @debbiedejohn1069 4 роки тому +6

      StinkyButton Lord have Mercy..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️

    • @MxSelenite
      @MxSelenite 4 роки тому +5

      What happened to her daughter? :(

    • @windhorse4straveler647
      @windhorse4straveler647 4 роки тому +8

      @@MxSelenite Her daughter died of lupus. I can't remember which video they talked about it.

    • @brens2crazy4pugs
      @brens2crazy4pugs 4 роки тому +6

      Her daughter passed away too?

    • @StinkyButton
      @StinkyButton 4 роки тому +4

      Danielle Selenite I believe she died as the result of a car accident. Miss Phyllis mentioned her daughter in a few videos.

  • @theresabollman8061
    @theresabollman8061 4 роки тому +495

    We grieved with her then, and we grieve for her now...may they rest in peace with Jesus for eternity.

    • @hannahsutherland8170
      @hannahsutherland8170 3 роки тому +5

      In the Bible, God promises that his Son Christ Jesus will call all those to wake up to a life of resurrection here on earth. There righteous and unrighteous. Such good news.

    • @Starlightskipper
      @Starlightskipper 3 роки тому +2

      Amen

    • @selenahadlow9700
      @selenahadlow9700 3 роки тому +3

      😭😭😭so very sorry

  • @texastiger1210
    @texastiger1210 4 роки тому +581

    Rest In Peace Ms. Phyllis. Can’t believe you and Mr. Bucky died 6 months apart. I will miss you terribly.

    • @belgiumgirl8970
      @belgiumgirl8970 4 роки тому +27

      Jumpybacon 1 so terribly sad...they were so connected that their passing was only months apart🙁 their together with Renee....🙏

    • @007Vixenful
      @007Vixenful 4 роки тому +36

      I just watched her sons video. So very sad....She wasn't the same without him, they needed to be together in heaven ❤

    • @zeenatmustapha2240
      @zeenatmustapha2240 4 роки тому +21

      I 😢😢 looking at this video she was a sweet lady still got her recipes in my phone Mr Bucky was so loved

    • @ingenunis5003
      @ingenunis5003 4 роки тому +5

      Jumpybacon 1 ❤️😩

    • @TFCFMINNISTRY12
      @TFCFMINNISTRY12 4 роки тому +13

      The same happened with my parents.They were married for more than 50 years. They were two great people.

  • @NYCRhythm
    @NYCRhythm 5 років тому +333

    You are loved more than you’ll ever know, Mrs. Phyllis.

    • @scotishcovenanters
      @scotishcovenanters 5 років тому +16

      So loved is right! I don't think you have any idea how unique you are, Phyllis. I know you don't realize it because otherwise you wouldn't be such a beautifully humble, godly woman. I can hardly wait to ask Jesus, face to face, if I could meet you on the New Earth--prepared for all those who love God and place their faith only in Him--those who had faith before the cross, and all those with faith after the cross and who in Him alone, not their own goodness to get to heaven. ("Abraham was saved by faith.") You are just precious, smart, talented and the kindest lady ever.

    • @lisareaume3857
      @lisareaume3857 5 років тому +2

      @@scotishcovenanters I could NOT have put it any better!

    • @honeyloujohnsonson8570
      @honeyloujohnsonson8570 5 років тому +2

      So sorry for your loss. RIP MR Bucky.

    • @bonnieoliver427
      @bonnieoliver427 5 років тому +2

      @ scotishcovernes
      WELL SAID
      PERFECTLY SAID...
      I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER.... YOU NAILED IT AND THANK YOU FOR IT...
      SHE'S THE MOST KINDHEARTED, HUMBLE PERSON WITH A HEART OF GOLD, AND HER LOVE FOR OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR SHINES THROUGH!! I JUST LOVE HER...
      I'M WORRIED ABOUT HER BEING ALONE Y'ALL... ESEP FACING CHEMO AND ALL ... ID TAKE CARE OF HER IF I LIVED CLOSER I SWEAR IT WOULD BE MY HONOR TO DO SO......GOD BLESS HER!!

    • @bonnieoliver427
      @bonnieoliver427 5 років тому

      @ scotishcovernes
      WELL SAID
      PERFECTLY SAID...
      I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER.... YOU NAILED IT AND THANK YOU FOR IT...
      SHE'S THE MOST KINDHEARTED, HUMBLE PERSON WITH A HEART OF GOLD, AND HER LOVE FOR OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR SHINES THROUGH!! I JUST LOVE HER...
      I'M WORRIED ABOUT HER BEING ALONE Y'ALL... ESEP FACING CHEMO AND ALL ... ID TAKE CARE OF HER IF I LIVED CLOSER I SWEAR IT WOULD BE MY HONOR TO DO SO......GOD BLESS HER!!

  • @nanaobx
    @nanaobx 2 роки тому +41

    Phyllis and Mr Bucky...two of the most precious people to grace earth and now heaven. Sorely missed by all of us.

  • @jennyj5687
    @jennyj5687 4 роки тому +572

    I THINK FIGHTING HER SICKNESS, AND MISSING MR. BUCKY WAS TOO MUCH FOR HER...MAY GOD PREPARE A RESTING PLACE FOR THIS SWEET SOUL, AND MR. BUCKY.

    • @Moore2Lifepantrylovinprepper
      @Moore2Lifepantrylovinprepper 4 роки тому +16

      I have to agree. She is at peace now

    • @mamabear8879
      @mamabear8879 4 роки тому +26

      This is a real life love story. When one goes, the other follows shortly after.

    • @jojo-ir9um
      @jojo-ir9um 4 роки тому +14

      Precious lady.

    • @janetbrowning9089
      @janetbrowning9089 4 роки тому +25

      I think Mr. Bucky went ahead, so he could prepare a place for them both in Heaven. I do think between her illness & losing Mr. Bucky it was just too much for Mrs. Phyllis to get over. May they both RIP now. I will love & miss them both forever; I don't think I've ever missed someone this much, that I never got to meet in person. 💖🙏💖

    • @gratitude1181
      @gratitude1181 4 роки тому +4

      🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @suzanneribas3746
    @suzanneribas3746 2 роки тому +10

    Still miss both of them in 2022....rest in peace.

  • @jordanw6918
    @jordanw6918 5 років тому +1728

    I’m a 20 year old kid and I’ve been a subscriber of yours for quite some time now. I’ve always loved your videos, and you’ve always reminded me of my grandmother. Both of y’all are the sweetest ladies on the planet.
    So when I saw this video it honestly just broke my heart to see you in such pain. You shouldn’t be lonely like that. I know it’s inevitable that you will feel that because nobody can replace Mr. Bucky. But I just want to say y’all have made such an impact on me (not to mention so many others) and I love you for that Miss Phyllis.
    You are such an inspiration ma’am and to think that you are going to try to continue the videos is that much more inspirational. My heart goes out to you and your family and I am deeply sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain right now. You are in my prayers Ms Phyllis!!!

    • @marcnshawny
      @marcnshawny 5 років тому +3

      Bless you for those kind words I'm sure Miss Phyllis needed to hear right now. They're wonderful and I'm sure heartfelt. I'm one of her and Mr. Bucky's older viewers who remembers and appreciates the way things were done when I was growing up, the way I learned to cook and memories of the great meals that so few today enjoy. I also enjoyed watching the love, respect and Godliness in their home and toward each other. There are many things we've learned together and much more she has to teach us. Strength and perserverence are hard to come by when you're greiving but she is strong and called and blessed. She's lonely but not alone. Thank you again for taking the time to let her know.

    • @marthacarrigan8349
      @marthacarrigan8349 5 років тому +122

      Very well said. Thank you for you speak for us all ❤️😪❤️

    • @robynd.7503
      @robynd.7503 5 років тому +74

      So sorry Phyliss you are in our thoughts and Thank you Jordan for posting how we all feel. 💔

    • @christybrian223
      @christybrian223 5 років тому +58

      God bless you 🙏 these are words from the heart she will cherish🌹

    • @happynanny6375
      @happynanny6375 5 років тому +55

      Amen. Very beautifully stated.

  • @kimberlylholt
    @kimberlylholt 5 років тому +103

    Dear Phyllis I am so sorry about Mr. Bucky. I lost my husband 3 years ago. I know your pain. My husband also passed in his chair with a look of peace on his face.
    Take your time. Lean on the LORD.
    We love you Mrs. Phyllis.

    • @rkng1
      @rkng1 5 років тому +10

      May Jesus hold you in the palm of His hand. Losing a loved one is always hard.

  • @SusieSynth
    @SusieSynth 4 роки тому +515

    This woman was incredibly sincere and beautiful. A true Christian and they are both together now. Love you always 🌹

    • @purpleprincessang6812
      @purpleprincessang6812 4 роки тому +8

      Yes!! Amen!!!! Beautiful person and Mr.Bucky!!!💘🙏😥

    • @myinfocla9521
      @myinfocla9521 4 роки тому +10

      I’m new hear. What happened to this nice lady? She passed away?

    • @AnthropoidOne
      @AnthropoidOne 4 роки тому +6

      @@myinfocla9521 last month.

    • @kellykeller9640
      @kellykeller9640 4 роки тому +12

      I've read one of her books called, GOING UP...it's her experience of God taking her up in the spirit to heaven a few times...she saw her daughter there...it's a must read and can be read in one sitting...It gave me much happiness that she is finally there to stay...I think one of Mr.Bucky books he talked about going up in the spirit also...they can be found on Amazon and only cost $5.99...

    • @tarras3292
      @tarras3292 4 роки тому +7

      Susie Synth oh my goodness I have subscribed to her channel and when did she pass, prayers for her and her family 💞💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @jimthornberry6774
    @jimthornberry6774 4 роки тому +235

    She passed away about 6 months later. God bless them, the lord has 2 more sitting right beside him at his table. I'm sure of it, 2 genuine, honest, good people . What a loss for humanity, not to many good people like this anymore. Rest in peace Mr.Bucky and lovely Phyllis. My heart is heavy with sorrow.

    • @2lipz4eyez
      @2lipz4eyez 4 роки тому +18

      I couldn't have said it better. I just started watching her videos a few days ago and I sensed the beauty, grace and kindness in her. She was down to earth and felt like I'd known her all my life. What a beautiful soul.

    • @kathyblount7477
      @kathyblount7477 4 роки тому +5

      I'm Was So Deeply Sorrowed To Hear About Mr. Bucky And Miss Phyllis Passing I Loved Mostly All Her Recipes And Have Cooked A Few Them My Sincere Deepest Condolences To Y'all Family Members May You Both Rest In Heavenly Peace !

    • @vickijohnson6125
      @vickijohnson6125 2 роки тому +4

      Rest in peace Ms Phyllis and Mr Bucky 🙏. I found them recently and have enjoyed every post. Thank you for continuing their legacy. Sincerely,
      Vicki J.

  • @careenlonghurst5607
    @careenlonghurst5607 5 років тому +193

    Oh, Phyllis.. Cry... just cry because it does help. I speak from experience. Do not try to stop it when it comes.. just let it flow. God Bless and Prayers for your full recovery. We never get over the loss of loved ones. We only learn to manage.

    • @loriholman6125
      @loriholman6125 5 років тому +12

      She knows,she lost her daughter. Just too much right now. I feel so sorry for her.

    • @ohjalapeno
      @ohjalapeno 5 років тому +10

      Lori Holman when did she lose her daughter? You should never have to bury your child.

    • @shirleyshipman-johnson4592
      @shirleyshipman-johnson4592 5 років тому +5

      Careen Longhurst oh my Lord. I’m so sorry to hear she lost her precious daughter. My prayers are with her.

    • @rt3156
      @rt3156 5 років тому +5

      Charlotte Rhubottom If God can lose his only begotten Son, we too are subject to the same losses. Christ conquered death and took the sting out of it for us.

    • @patriotamazon189
      @patriotamazon189 5 років тому +2

      And eat lots of comfort food. It really helps. Crying and eating and talking to him. That's what I do. Tapioca. Banana pudding. Hot chocolate pudding and cream. Baked Greek Macaroni. Spoil yourself rotten.🌷🐏

  • @StringShredder05
    @StringShredder05 5 років тому +141

    I know and rejoice that Mr. Bucky stood before our LORD and heard the words, "Well done my good and faithful servant".

  • @dayumdave2959
    @dayumdave2959 4 роки тому +366

    Such a bittersweet moment as I watch this now...bitter because this sweet lady has left us but sweet because she is again with Mr. Bucky! Thank you Ms. Phyllis for sharing your heart with the world. May you rest in Peace and forever rise in Glory. 🙏

    • @theajones6080
      @theajones6080 4 роки тому +12

      Bless you, your words are lovely.

  • @lisaendress724
    @lisaendress724 4 роки тому +49

    The world has lost a couple of good, genuine, honest loving people! There not enough like them in todays world! Breaks my heart! 💔😭

  • @aujkalenic4203
    @aujkalenic4203 5 років тому +81

    Oh my dear Phyllis, my heart is so grieving with you.
    I thank Jesus that He welcomed Mr Buckey
    to our forever home. One day we
    will meet in that beautiful place. Christ is our blessed hope.
    Heal Your precious daughter Father God, God's blessings sent and Love!

    • @anne-marietruax6037
      @anne-marietruax6037 5 років тому +8

      I am very sorry for your lose.Please take care of yourself,You are loved by many

    • @lorraine3048
      @lorraine3048 5 років тому +2

      God bless you sweetie.
      I'm sooo sorry for your loss 😔I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers 🙏💖

    • @beverlyeversole9524
      @beverlyeversole9524 5 років тому +3

      I am so sorry Miss Phyllis for your lose, so sorry to hear this right now for you, Jesus will be with you, am lose with words, Be praying for you sweetheart. Lord be with her amen

  • @KFromCali
    @KFromCali 5 років тому +244

    I'm watching this video and my heart just breaks for this beautiful woman who lost the love of her life. I know you have your own physical challenges right now. But I pray all of us can come together and support you. Use youtube, we can never fill the void of Mr. Bucky... But we can love you and show you your not alone. I Pray for Peace, Comfort, and Strength. Every married woman knows this fear. Please stay in touch with us. I'm here for you Phyllis.~ Karen

    • @Marionana2
      @Marionana2 5 років тому +13

      Beautifully said Karen❤

    • @godzdaughterh1180
      @godzdaughterh1180 5 років тому +6

      @@Marionana2 AMEN😍🤗🙇‍♀️

    • @KFromCali
      @KFromCali 5 років тому +4

      @@Marionana2 Thanks love!

    • @KFromCali
      @KFromCali 5 років тому +3

      @@godzdaughterh1180 Amen!!! I hope you have a peaceful weekend love!

    • @billiefurlow1585
      @billiefurlow1585 5 років тому +6

      K FromCali
      Your post to Phyllis was so thoughtful and kind. May God bless you and yours also.
      Gaye Furlow

  • @gordonharris7020
    @gordonharris7020 4 роки тому +47

    That lady went through so much before her own passing. May she rest in peace.

  • @Mrs.TJTaylor
    @Mrs.TJTaylor 4 роки тому +176

    He went ahead to make a place for her.

    • @mcc9040
      @mcc9040 4 роки тому +5

      I was thinking the same thing ~

  • @DavidHernandez-oc1oz
    @DavidHernandez-oc1oz 5 років тому +30

    Dear Miss Phyllis, you are in my prayers. Mr Bucky left to be your guardian angel. He is still with you.

  • @badams2927
    @badams2927 5 років тому +285

    If you haven't seen Phyllis video titled "Our Story" please go and view it, it's a true love story and shows how wonderful Mr Bucky was and how much he loved his wife.

    • @onebzbzbee
      @onebzbzbee 5 років тому +22

      I watched it today. It truly put my marriage woes into perspective. I want Ms. Phyllis and Mr. Buckie's kind of love♡

    • @nadarawortham2901
      @nadarawortham2901 5 років тому +12

      B Adams do you know her mailing address. I have a card I want to send her and I can not find the address.

    • @lizo2986
      @lizo2986 5 років тому +10

      @@nadarawortham2901 I was also wondering how to send her a card and if she has a Box Number to send it to? This has turned out to be such a terrible and tragic year for her.

    • @SageTheRage
      @SageTheRage 5 років тому +16

      @@lizo2986 PLS HELP ME TO PASS ALONG TO OTHERS WHO ASK. I ALSO POSTED IT IN MY COMMENT BOX BUT AM TRYING TO ANS. THOSE WHO ASK WHO MISS MY POST. THX, SAGE
      Phyllis R. Stokes
      3007 Bridge St.
      Saint Matthews, SC. 29135-1468
      *USA (if you are mailing outside of the United States)

    • @roxyfur
      @roxyfur 5 років тому +9

      I was thinking the same thing, it really shows how much love they had for each other and their family and friends. Another favorite is "A Little Disagreement" Sweet hilarity ensues.

  • @lindauribe6872
    @lindauribe6872 4 роки тому +37

    I lost my husband a year ago and I was married 38 years. It was hard not to cry. I am so sad she is gone now. So hard.

  • @ShawnPlusOne
    @ShawnPlusOne 4 роки тому +139

    Miss Phyllis I will miss you and I’m glad we have your UA-cam videos to see you and mr Bucky in life. R. I.P miss Phyllis 1-25-20 and R. I.P mr Bucky 7-7-19 Back together in eternity. Love you my sister and brother in Christ. 💔😢😞🙏🏾

  • @craftyme5348
    @craftyme5348 5 років тому +84

    So sorry Miss Phyllis. My heart breaks for you. We will miss Mr. Buckey's sweet smile and gentle nature.

    • @JOS4015
      @JOS4015 5 років тому +4

      Take care of yourself sweet lady.

    • @marilynwright6204
      @marilynwright6204 5 років тому +8

      heartbreaking news, we all feel your pain.
      Mr Bucky was such a gentle sweet soul as are you. I love you and pray for your strength.

  • @user-pm4ef8yu7w
    @user-pm4ef8yu7w 5 років тому +83

    My heart aches for you.
    May we all pass the way Mr. Bucky passed.
    ❤️

    • @gsabo1000
      @gsabo1000 5 років тому +4

      Amen to that!

    • @ccMomOfJays
      @ccMomOfJays 5 років тому +2

      *Amen*
      *Best comment I've read in a long time* !

  • @executivecoup1825
    @executivecoup1825 4 роки тому +18

    Sweetheart I know your pain well.
    I lost my wife of 40 years to cancer at 62.
    I thought it would kill me.
    But know this darling.
    We still need you and we all just love you.
    You still have so much to offer us.
    I know it's hard honey.
    In honor of your love for him I will pray for you.
    I whispered these words to my passing mother from a favorite song of mine. By the Moody Blues.
    When you stop and think about it, you won't believe it's true.
    That all the love that you've been giving has all been meant for you.
    Love and a huge hug.
    Bob😚❤❤❤❤❤❤💚💙💛💜

  • @crystalbqueen4341
    @crystalbqueen4341 4 роки тому +34

    Now they are together again. And God shall wipe away all of our tears.

  • @karenshepard4984
    @karenshepard4984 5 років тому +28

    Oh Mrs. Phyllis I know there's nothing I can say to ease your pain. Mr. Bucky was a good and faithful servant of the Lord. May the Lord bless you with peace, comfort and healing.

  • @thegreenmarblelover5281
    @thegreenmarblelover5281 5 років тому +93

    Oh dear Lord. I surely did not expect this! I wish I could hug you, dear lady, who means so much to so many. You two had a marriage, truly, made in heaven and lived out on Earth. What a shining testimony you both were/are. Mr. Bucky was surely the perfect husband -- kind, funny, smart, capable, patient, and very handsome I might add.
    No wonder you are suffering so badly... you were so close and loving. You have hard and long days ahead but Jesus will keep you, as always, in His strong and powerful hand. It is amazing that you are still sleeping! Even through this. That is a miracle right there. I love your spirit..."I'm coming back" you said at the end, referring to your videos ( which are indeed a ministry). I have no doubt you will and look forward to it. One final thought ...never think that your videos are simply instructional about cooking. They show a way of life that is to be desired and sought after...lives of true Christians and what a marriage can and should be through Him.
    God bless you, sister.

    • @dianetucker2711
      @dianetucker2711 5 років тому +16

      Marcella Osteen Exactly what I wanted to say......it was always more than cooking. Although I have to say, the cooking was a plus😜😉❣️🥰

    • @patriciaredick9849
      @patriciaredick9849 5 років тому +11

      Absolutely, beautifully stated.

    • @Southern_Scenery
      @Southern_Scenery 5 років тому +8

      So beautiful. I know this will bring her some comfort.

    • @1943ofour
      @1943ofour 5 років тому +5

      This is a lovely statement. My heart goes out to Ms. Phyllis.

    • @LindsayKipka
      @LindsayKipka 5 років тому +5

      This is exactly what I wanted to say without even knowing it yet. Thank you. And Mrs. Phyllis I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you!

  • @bearball49
    @bearball49 4 роки тому +93

    So sad to hear of her passing but those hard times are behind her now. RIP Phyllis.

  • @marijuanacannabis6958
    @marijuanacannabis6958 4 роки тому +30

    PHYLLIS PASSED ON 1/25/2020 AND NOW THEY ARE TOGETHER...BLESSED ANGELS TOGETHER FOREVER!!

  • @wruttman
    @wruttman 5 років тому +53

    Phyllis, I am so SORRY about Mr. Bucky. My heart breaks for you. I wish I could hug you. ❤️

    • @karenslone7624
      @karenslone7624 5 років тому

      phillis,I love you I lost my husband,I know it feels like your in. a bad dream,in time it get easier to accept,you know Jesus takes the ones now to help him prepare a wonderful place in heaven for all of us....so Jesus needed Mr.Bucky so just keep that in your heart ok.your the most precious person that I have ever known,I love you so much,I been preying for you ....from your good friend Karen,from Asheville, N.C.

  • @ancientsgate
    @ancientsgate 5 років тому +50

    RIP Mr Bucky. You were loved, you were blessed, and now you're with your God. Life is good. Eternal life is even better.

  • @theresamarie3456
    @theresamarie3456 4 роки тому +70

    Aww .... Miss Phyllis 😢😢😢 I prayed & prayed for healing. Thank you for all the time & lessons you've graciously given. Its been an honor to be apart of you & Mr. Buckys life. You will be forever remembered . Much love friend
    Godspeed🙏🙏🙏

  • @carolynjohnson5322
    @carolynjohnson5322 4 роки тому +46

    You and Mr. Bucky are the sweetest couple!The Lord has you both now!Your both have been a blessing to us! Rest in the arms of God!

  • @djterry1218
    @djterry1218 5 років тому +65

    You need to continue with the videos because we are your family and know it or not, we love you deeply. I am crying for your loneliness.

  • @sagrammyfour
    @sagrammyfour 5 років тому +59

    We share your grief and pain. Prayers for you.

    • @barbaralincoln8542
      @barbaralincoln8542 5 років тому +3

      So sorry for your loss prayers for your family sweetie take care of your self God bless.

    • @susanleatherwood22
      @susanleatherwood22 5 років тому +5

      Praying for you. Crying is ok, after all GOD gave us tears. Please take care of yourself. I wish I was there to help you. You, my friend are sooo loved!

    • @tmelch100
      @tmelch100 5 років тому +2

      I feel your pain as I hear your loving story of your love of your life I will lift you up in prayer that Jesus will wrap his arms around you and you loving pets. So sorry for the sad news of Mr. Bucky. Sister you are so sweet Mr. Bucky was a very Blessed Man to have you in his life. I pray he will visit you in your dreams which will be of great comfort. God Bless you, Sister in Christ, Debi

  • @rena6895
    @rena6895 4 роки тому +60

    😢 I’m afraid you are no longer with us I am sad for your family and friends; but are now home face to face with Jesus and beside your best friend. The pain is all over now Phyllis, thank you for your service to us. ❤️

  • @marymesquita2564
    @marymesquita2564 Рік тому +4

    May God bless her and family and everyone reading this.

  • @mysticalheart8107
    @mysticalheart8107 5 років тому +51

    Mr. Bucky has such a beautiful soul; He loved his Jesus, now they are together forever. Alleluia!

  • @nurturetheearth
    @nurturetheearth 5 років тому +43

    Oh noooooo 😭 you are a strong woman Phyllis, a true inspiration of fortitude, love and compassion.

  • @tannerwallis1447
    @tannerwallis1447 4 роки тому +105

    RIP Mr. Bucky and Ms. Phyllis. Together again. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lindaberg9960
    @lindaberg9960 4 роки тому +9

    Eyes leaking as I watch & hear our sweet Phyllis tell us this. Phyllis and Mr. Bucky are surely in glory with their Lord and Savior💗💗✝️✝️. Blessed to have met them(after they both passed), gotten to know them, and continue watching their "reruns"! Beyond thankful to Steven Ritter for maintaining this🙏💗 God Bless you!

  • @BonnieLeah
    @BonnieLeah 5 років тому +69

    Oh My... Phyllis, I am so very sorry... I know there are no words that will help you at this moment in your life, but just know that you are LOVED and we are praying for God to hold and comfort you dear, sweet lady.. God bless you.. 😪

    • @bernadetterawles8150
      @bernadetterawles8150 5 років тому

      U have my utmost sympathy .Be strong and of a good courage for God has said I will never leave you or forsake your father and your mother may leave you but I have your name written in the palms of my hands.Be comforted by these words of God and other like minded believers. I look forward to seeing u return doing more cooking videos.Peace be with you.🙏🏽.My husband of 42 years has been with the Lord now seven years July 31,2012.

  • @deniseheitz9208
    @deniseheitz9208 5 років тому +73

    Every time I see a box of Whitman's Sampler, I'll smile and think of Mr Bucky! My deepest sympathy.

  • @annem2576
    @annem2576 4 роки тому +19

    now dear miss phylis is promoted to glory along with her darling! i loved her very much, at least we have them on video one day i will see them on the new earth.. thanks Lord!

  • @yvonnehouston4893
    @yvonnehouston4893 4 роки тому +43

    Deeply saddened by the loss of this dear lady. God's comfort and deep mercy for the family during this sad time and days ahead.

  • @alabamajenny8751
    @alabamajenny8751 5 років тому +126

    It sounds as if Mr Buckey passed away as all of us would want. A Peaceful transition. Im so sorry, you lost your best friend. I prayed for you this morning after hearing the news. Know you are loved and lifted up in prayer by many. God bless you sweetheart. I hope you feel the love. ❤️ From Alabama

  • @mattiec7137
    @mattiec7137 5 років тому +73

    Oh Miss Phyllis,
    I'm so sorry for your loss..my heart breaks for you Hon..
    Wrapping you in prayer at this time....

    • @jimmyshelton3876
      @jimmyshelton3876 5 років тому +2

      I AM SORRY PHYLLIS, BUT COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS FOR THE TIME YOU HAD TOGETHER. JIMMY

    • @the_anchor_holds
      @the_anchor_holds 5 років тому +1

      I am so so sorry. Praying for God to bestow upon you His Peace that passes all understanding. Praying for your loneliness to subside and your chemo to be easy. My 43 year old daughter was diagnoised with 2, stage 4 breast cancers Jan. 2018. She had a port for her chemo and still does. This is a lady that from birth has been terrified of needles but LOVES her port. Doesn't bother her in the least for them to use it for chemo, blood work and test. She says everyone should have one. LOL. 😀 Looking forward for more recipes. This 67 year old gal can always learn new things about cooking.

  • @mrsgalindo7
    @mrsgalindo7 4 роки тому +92

    May you and him RIP . My heart is hurting so much, you were like a grandmother to me. I just watched the video of your son saying you passed away. 😭😭😭 I just wanted to say my peace and give my respect on here because I couldn't comment on the other video your son made. (Comments disabled)with that being said may God bless all who read this. You will be greatly missed Phyllis and I will continue to watch your videos all over again until your channel is gone.💔💔💔😭😭😭

  • @katiemclaughlin3682
    @katiemclaughlin3682 4 роки тому +4

    I just found her channel, and now to learn she and her husband passed away....how very sad. I loved her voice, her laid back style and her deep faith. May she and Mr. Buckey RIP.🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ShesInLosAngeles
    @ShesInLosAngeles 5 років тому +50

    "Come to me, all you who labor and are overburdened, and I will give you rest. Shoulder my yoke and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble of heart, and you will find rest for your souls. Yes, my yoke is easy and my burden light." 🙏🌹

  • @TwentyThree-23
    @TwentyThree-23 5 років тому +568

    This is VERY painful to watch. I send you love and healing and I'm very sorry.

    • @SUPERNOVA-sunrise
      @SUPERNOVA-sunrise 5 років тому +19

      😔💔

    • @loriholman6125
      @loriholman6125 5 років тому +10

      💜

    • @nicoliarmstead9487
      @nicoliarmstead9487 5 років тому +21

      Hello, Ms.Phyllis. I actually discovered Mr. Bucky's channel this morning July 20, 2019. The first vid was on Angels and the other on how he got his nicknames. I also took the time to view some of the comments as others told of how much they had learned from him. I had truly decided today that I would take time to watch all his vids. Because one subscriber had been taught from his words of wisdom to write down their prayers in a book and leave it open. For the Angels would carry the messsge to the throne of God. Well that sparked my interest in wanting to know more secret nuggets for my christian growth. Well here I am agian tonight looking at christian videos and your vid on almond/ garlic string bean recipe pops up. By the way thanks for the recipe I will try it , I love string beans. .... .. I am writing as someone who has just been introduced to an amazing family by the Holy Spirit. God does remarkable things all the time. And it is not by coincidence that the father gave me such a gift / blessing. I do not take this moment in time for granted. So I will pray, Lord give my sister peace. Remind her that you are there with her. And that she can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens her. Holy Spirit strengthen her where she is weak and allow her to press on supernaturally. Allow this time of moaning to be understood and respected by others. Keep her in your arms dear Father and love on her as never before. Lord bring her joy in the memories and what lies ahead. I thank you for being her first love. Therefore we are confident she shall not want for no good thing. Shine your face upon her and grant her peace. You are loved Ms. Phyllis. Victory

    • @elainecox8398
      @elainecox8398 4 роки тому +3

      Praying for you.

    • @bettylane6982
      @bettylane6982 4 роки тому +2

      Q

  • @ebonystrother6020
    @ebonystrother6020 4 роки тому +64

    Now you two can be together for ever, Rip to you both🌷🌷🌷

  • @geripangelinan5788
    @geripangelinan5788 4 роки тому +89

    Rest in peace Mr and Mrs Stokes.

  • @susanf8136
    @susanf8136 5 років тому +53

    My heart is broken at this news. He is at peace with the Lord.

  • @BB.halo_heir
    @BB.halo_heir 5 років тому +41

    Miss Phyllis, i have no words, only a heart full of feelings and prayer. 👑❤

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon 4 роки тому +64

    When you love someone as much as she and Mr Bucky loved each other and you’re together all those years and then 24/7 for 10 years, you just can’t tolerate being apart for too long. Though we will miss them both, they’re finally together again, never to be separated.

    • @hummingbird275
      @hummingbird275 4 роки тому +1

      Captcha Neon They were the sweetest and cutest couple ever. It was so easy to see , they adored each other.

  • @BeraMoss
    @BeraMoss Рік тому +2

    Phyllis, it’s November 2022 and I just found your UA-cam channel. I know by now, you and Mr Bucky have already passed away. I miss you the same as if I had known you personally for many years. You touched my heart in a profound way. This is one South Carolina girl to another. May you and Mr Bucky Rest In Peace and your son find comfort knowing you are in Gods hands. 🙏

  • @jumpoffa5011
    @jumpoffa5011 5 років тому +44

    Ms. Phyllis I am so sorry for your lost. Mr. Bucky Loved you so very much. God Bless him and I and my family will keep him and you in our prayers. If there is anything we can do for you please just ask us and we will be there for you.

    • @jumpoffa5011
      @jumpoffa5011 5 років тому +6

      @@fluffylittlebunny845 I believe everyone's heart is broken for Ms. Phyllis and Mr. Bucky. I know mine is.

    • @Heidishereandthere
      @Heidishereandthere 5 років тому +3

      @@jumpoffa5011
      Jumpoff,
      Such sad news. My husband and I have been watching Miss Phyllis and Mr. Bucky for 3 years now, and they are such wonderful people! We will be sure to lift her up in prayer, for peace and comfort, and health. 🙏💖 Nice bumping into you; considering.
      Take care!

    • @jumpoffa5011
      @jumpoffa5011 5 років тому +3

      @@Heidishereandthere Thank-You and don't be a stranger. :-)

    • @Heidishereandthere
      @Heidishereandthere 5 років тому +1

      @@jumpoffa5011
      Bless you! 🙏

  • @kathyirwin6854
    @kathyirwin6854 5 років тому +60

    Oh my gosh Phyllis I can’t believe it. I’m so so sorry honey... who is taking care of you? How can we help you?? I don’t care how far you are anything I can do I will. Please reach out. I will keep you in my prayers. I’m so worried about you. Rest In Peace sweet Mr. Bucky🕊

    • @janmudron1114
      @janmudron1114 5 років тому +9

      Kathy Irwin .... so many of us are worried. Wished a few of her Utube family lived in or near Mathews SC

    • @lovepeaceandhappinesstheha8702
      @lovepeaceandhappinesstheha8702 5 років тому +7

      Me too ! How can we help ? We love you dearly

    • @lorrainet5324
      @lorrainet5324 5 років тому +6

      Does anyone know tbe mailing address to send cards?

    • @donna6368
      @donna6368 5 років тому +8

      @@lorrainet5324 The address I was given is
      Phyllis Stokes
      3007 Bridge Street
      St. Matthews, SC
      29135

    • @domma17b2000
      @domma17b2000 5 років тому +4

      I can’t tell you the shock I felt when I heard the sad news. You and Mr Buckey are like family. My husband was upset as well. We admired him for the Godly man he was , and you as a Godly lady. I hope you have family with you . It worries me how you are getting to your treatments?I lived in West Columbia for 39 years and then moved upstate where my mother was raised and lived at the time. I leave near Clemson university in a small town near Westminster SC. We have a natural burial ground very near us. So very peaceful. Please take care and know you are loved and prayed for🙏🏼♥️🌹✝️

  • @louisenurse1234
    @louisenurse1234 2 роки тому +3

    I visit these videos because I miss Miss Phyllis. A lovely lady. Thankful for Steve keeping us connected to her lovely videos of life teaching and great recipes.

  • @sophialove7245
    @sophialove7245 4 роки тому +22

    My heart is breaking for you. I can't imagine the pain, you are the sweetest lady. 😥

    • @pattyklein4394
      @pattyklein4394 4 роки тому

      Letha Lauenborg no more videos ( food)

  • @Emily-cv2yf
    @Emily-cv2yf 5 років тому +71

    My heart is breaking for you. There is never enough time with those we love.

  • @brandonmorris358
    @brandonmorris358 5 років тому +62

    I don't know why you're going through these trials, I don't know why God allows things, but I DO KNOW...he says he wont put on us more than we can bear. You're a strong woman, and I'm praying for God to comfort you and your family through this time. Through your healing, (In Jesus' mighty name). I pray he gives you peace, rest, and heals your heavy, broken heart. We all know y'all loved each other dearly. My heart is broken for you. You're forever in my prayers

    • @bacino2552
      @bacino2552 5 років тому +2

      Beautifully said ❤️

    • @marlene6139
      @marlene6139 5 років тому

      The Lord will supply His grace (to us) for trials, yes....But that He will not allow more them we can bear is a stretch of scripture i think. I'm not trying to insult you Brandon please know this, i just don't like ppl stretching the Word of God when it can lead to disappointment. 💞

    • @frankotts5528
      @frankotts5528 5 років тому +1

      God is not to blame for our suffering. It started back in the garden of eden when Eve listened to the devil. Satan is to blame. God doesn't try us. We get sick because we are imperfect and sinful. The wages sin pays is death says Romans 6:23

    • @brandonmorris358
      @brandonmorris358 5 років тому +2

      @@frankotts5528 didnt blame God lol. Everything goes through the father FIRST. satan wants us dead, daily...God only allows certain things...trials, tribulation, etc. The devil has to go to God bc God will only allow what he wants and albeit, whether its thru us being sinful or whatever else the case may be. God is ruler creator and maker over all things. And he has the final say, though we are of free will and mind to do as we please whether it's to serve him or spend an eternity in hell if we decide to turn away from God.

  • @beckyb.1545
    @beckyb.1545 4 роки тому +5

    Together forever in paradise. The both of you will be sadly missed. Thank you for everything that you gave.

  • @patriciac4858
    @patriciac4858 4 роки тому +15

    You & Mr Bucky are in such a sweet place now, all you pain and heartsick behind you. You are in His presence, in His pure Love ❤️
    We miss you but rejoice for you.

  • @judygagnon3553
    @judygagnon3553 5 років тому +67

    So very sorry for your loss Phyllis. It appears Mr Buckey had some kind of premonition and in those hours before he transitioned, his thoughts were for you. My love and prayers sent to you.

    • @---om5vg
      @---om5vg 5 років тому +7

      My thought too that he was leaving instructions and thanking Phyllis on paper but why didn't he go to the emergency room if he had a premonition or was feeling ill.
      It's so sad for everyone his dogs and wife and other family members.
      What happened poor Mr Bucky. Phyllis:( get well.

  • @oracleofdelphi-4059
    @oracleofdelphi-4059 5 років тому +89

    When I saw the thumbnail my heart sank. Oh Ms Phyllis, I'm so so sorry.

  • @mjrussell414
    @mjrussell414 4 роки тому +3

    I can’t believe it’s been a year since Mr. Bucky has passed... They were both blessings to the world. Lovely, gentle, kind, generous people. The kind we can only try to aspire to become.

  • @deeholler1
    @deeholler1 3 роки тому +5

    What a beautiful soul. I wish I had known her before tonight, when I just happened to find this channel. What a lovely love story... what a great life.....well lived. God is so faithful and blesses in unexplained ways when we put our faith and trust in Him.

  • @glo9547
    @glo9547 5 років тому +28

    Dear sister, your faith is going to do more than sustain you. Our hearts are with you, Phyllis. This is hard to hear

  • @babcic900
    @babcic900 5 років тому +70

    Rev 21:4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”
    God bless you, dear Phyllis. May the knowledge of our Lord’s unfailing and inestimable love for you be ever-present in your mind and heart.
    Big hugs, darling Sister in Christ. Praying for you every day. Xoxo

  • @adelaidacandelaria1326
    @adelaidacandelaria1326 4 роки тому +3

    I recently found Phyllis on UA-cam with her old school cooking and baking. But after listening to this video, I didn't realize how much more there was to her. What a beautiful soul she was. I'm so blessed to know that this mighty woman of God existed with the love of her life, Mr. Bucky. They were a perfect picture of "until death do we part" kind of marriage. She was a blessing!

  • @naty2530
    @naty2530 4 роки тому +3

    What a beautiful lady you are, Phyllis. RIP for both you and Mr. Bucky and may God be with you!

  • @SnazzyBoxx
    @SnazzyBoxx 5 років тому +102

    R.I.P. Mr Bucky 😔❤️ I think he had a feeling he was going, so he wrote you that letter. What a wonderful husband he was to you , and you were an amazing wife to him..True love and a beautiful marriage one could only hope for. All the best for your chemotherapy, Phyllis, and I pray you stay in the best of health. ❤️❤️

    • @kategoley9601
      @kategoley9601 Рік тому +1

      They were a beautiful couple, its ashamed, but they're at rest and with God. Miss her videos alot.

  • @daveanddeb5629
    @daveanddeb5629 5 років тому +71

    You two are a wonderful example of Christian love. God bless you Phyllis. Mr. Bucky was loved by many people!

    • @deleneyzelle4879
      @deleneyzelle4879 5 років тому +9

      Hi Phyllis. So sad about Mr Buckly. You have been in my thoughts so much. Wondering how you were getting on after your diagnosis and operations. Now you still have chemo to go through. I do hope you have friends and family to help you through that. You will continue being in my thoughts and looking forward to having you back and watching your videos. Best wishes Delene from South Africa

  • @peggyrodgers3274
    @peggyrodgers3274 4 роки тому +14

    My heart breaks for miss Phillies. The way she cried made me cry. god Bless you miss. Phillies.

  • @zoeemiko8149
    @zoeemiko8149 4 роки тому +33

    Mr Buckey & Miss Phyllis were soul mates if there ever were any. I think many of us knew it wouldn't be long before she went to join him. They've moved to the next phase of their lives together. Bon Voyage both of you.

  • @lauraacosta5515
    @lauraacosta5515 5 років тому +27

    Ms. Phyllis, is ok to cry. I love you and I will be praying for you.
    I wish I can hug you.
    Send you love and big hug.

  • @kurtsteffen6387
    @kurtsteffen6387 5 років тому +41

    Thank you for sharing your grief. Your brothers & sisters in Christ are praying for you.

  • @PassionFlower4599
    @PassionFlower4599 5 місяців тому +3

    This breaks my heart as much as it did when I first watched it. But I am so glad we can still spend time with Phyllis and Mr Bucky here. I adored both lovely people and their loving outlook and I loved her cooking and her thoughts on general life and how to be a bit wiser. I really do miss her gentle company. Thank you for not allowing your beloved dad and mom to disappear. They will hopefully always be alive here as they will always be in our hearts

  • @hv7894
    @hv7894 4 роки тому +17

    R.I.P Miss Phillis. You will be sadly missed by many.

  • @OH2TNMOMof5
    @OH2TNMOMof5 5 років тому +29

    Oh Phyllis, our hearts break for your sorrow and loss. You are not alone, we are here for you! Mr. Bucky's funeral sounds beautiful. Your grief is ours. You are beautiful! Prayers and hugs for you!❤😔🙏

  • @simplyjen8150
    @simplyjen8150 5 років тому +41

    Phyllis, you and Mr. Bucky had such a great love story, and I'm so sorry for your grief. I lost my husband in 1995, when we were only in our 40s. I understand the tears and the grief. Please let yourself cry when you need to. Tears are healing. My prayers are with you for comfort and sweet memories.

  • @ChieftuckabuckawaysWife
    @ChieftuckabuckawaysWife 4 роки тому +11

    Oh Miss Phyllis, Rest in Peace. Thank you for posting all of these videos for us! Now you are watching all of us. Please don't let me burn anything 😘😘. Another Guardian Angel for all of us.

  • @trulyc56cw
    @trulyc56cw 4 роки тому +5

    You were such a Blessing Miss Phyllis. I will miss you greatly. Well done thou good and Faithful servant.

  • @floridakathy5169
    @floridakathy5169 5 років тому +40

    I'm so sorry Ms.Phyllis. You and Mr. Bucky have become like family. I too will miss him. God Bless you.

  • @robinfrady5257
    @robinfrady5257 5 років тому +83

    On to Higher Ground Mr. Bucky. May you find comfort in your memories Phyllis. May God wrap his arms around your sweet soul.

  • @vikkinicholson2300
    @vikkinicholson2300 4 роки тому +16

    When two people who love each other have all that time together as husband and wife they often leave this old world together as the one left behind wants to be reunited with the one who passed. Phyllis you made a mark on so many hearts and we feel like we know you. Poor doggies must be so lost I pray now that they are doing okay. RIP dear Phyllis and Bucky.

  • @asmrcalmingvibes
    @asmrcalmingvibes 4 роки тому +12

    I'm so sad that both of you are gone now. My heart is broken. RIP 😭🙏💔

  • @lainebajanie
    @lainebajanie 5 років тому +28

    Oh Phyllis! I am heartbroken! I am praying for peace and comfort for you!🙏

  • @pattywatson6826
    @pattywatson6826 5 років тому +98

    Absent from the body he's present with the Lord ... What a beautiful passing ... Prayer's for you

  • @montanacrone8984
    @montanacrone8984 Рік тому +2

    Dear Phyllis. I know you’re happy on the other side with Mr Bucky. Thank you for all the time you shared with us. You’re never forgotten and are still held in many thoughts and hearts. You made a difference in many lives. You taught us so much. You’re remembered, and will be remembered for a long time. Mr Bucky was a special man and I’m so happy you two found one another. I believe you’ll meet again on the other side. Much love.

  • @mariannechambers1989
    @mariannechambers1989 4 роки тому +2

    You and Bucky have always brought something special to my life as I’m sure you also have to the others viewing your show, and to the American spirit. You take good care of yourself as I’m sure that’s what Mr. Bucky and the children would want for you. I wanted to send you some flower seeds to grow at your mountain retreat home, but I have no address for you. You all will always be in my prayers !!! Signed: m.

  • @rufinaperez8500
    @rufinaperez8500 5 років тому +110

    Isaiah 4:10 fear not (PhyllisP), for I am with you;
    be not dismayed, for I am your God;
    I will strengthen you, I will help you,
    I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
    Fear not Phyllis, stay strong God is always with you.

    • @iVenge
      @iVenge 5 років тому +1

      Rufina Perez Amen.

  • @peridoteyes3728
    @peridoteyes3728 5 років тому +30

    If Jesus didn't have a job for him to do Mr. Bucky would never have left your sweet face.. He will walk with you everyday until you meet again.. Until then sweet Mrs. Phyllis you have a job to do also, teach us how to cook...The world is mourning with you, I hope you have comfort knowing thousands are waiting to keep you company no matter where in the world we are were waiting for you...😇I will pray for you to feel comfort and see all the people you and Mr. Bucky mean to us.. tonight thousands weep for you. 💖💗❤👄

  • @ancientsgate
    @ancientsgate 3 роки тому +1

    I miss you more than if I tried to count the stars in the night sky. Put on this earth to be a blessing to everyone you encountered, all of us here on You Tube were so blessed to have this contact with you. I'm so happy for you now that you've gone to your reward, you're with Mr. Bucky and your daughter Rene, and the lord Jesus is making it right for all 3 of you as can be. RIP, my friends.

  • @janespal2729
    @janespal2729 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you, Steven, I really miss your Mom and Dad and the dogs.Please keep sharing with us..