EP2! Who should pay on the first date? Thoughts!

Join us on the hold on a sec podcast as we delve into the age-old debate of who should pay on the first date. We explore the nuance of splitting the bill vs one person paying! subscribe now and never miss an episode of the Hold on a sec podcast!
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[@NtarindwaEdson]

Benii always provide that's it rata don't let them change your mind 💯

[@undefeated794]

"'ntuguze bro"😂😂 mans was ready to die for it

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[@kellyarsene6841]

Kelly pipe down my guy😭😂😂

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Benitha is a walking Green flag

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Kelly kelly 🔥

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[@busy505]

????

[@Lyonkabera]

37:47 factos 🔥

[@Holdonasecpodcast]

Brenda did not seem convinced!😂

[@Yanee__]

Brenda telling Bucura ngo "Emera request yange" had me out😭😂

[@Holdonasecpodcast]

she was too invested in the whole going live thing😭😂

[@nzizaines]

🔥🔥😂

[@hodmorgan6799]

Guys being broke is one thing, falling in love is another. Girl these days don’t understand falling in love. They are interested in being impressed. If there’s no impression then there’s no love, really? In this century this mindset should be getting old

[@Holdonasecpodcast]

It’s not about impressing her, most of the times the guy invites the girl on the first date so it’s just right that he takes care of the bill since he initiated the date!

[@hodmorgan6799]

I agree . But what i don’t agree with brenda jazz who said that if you’re broke love is not for you. Well these days things are changing. Men are now interested in ladies who have something that can add up to building something. I agree with bennitha though. Love is something else. Its not about money. Ability is one thing, affordability is another. Brenda should learn that. At least bennitha understands the difference. Love is the ability, while Finance or money is basically affordability. Therefore Brenda has a standard that she’s needs someone who can afford that which is not the same tk everyone

[@Holdonasecpodcast]

@@hodmorgan6799I get what you’re saying but we were talking strictly about the first date. Not to say broke guys can’t love but if you’re so broke that you can’t even afford a date, you should probably be focusing on the grind!

[@hodmorgan6799]

Can’t change your mind but consider that some people most especially those who are aren’t exposed to urban lifestyle, it still applies to them. You guys all of you are bound under modern poverty. The poverty where you look at a brand of a phone, dressing code, i agree to all this, but take falling in love out of the equation. Poverty is one factor, falling in love is another factor itself. In your next episode there should be really a deep dive in what poverty you’re talking about. We are all different and going on dates doesn’t mean going to mariott. Even going to nyamirambo can be a good date😂😂😂, but its a date to two people which is on their level. No offense but you should be differentiate poverty from what modern poverty looks like

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46:27 kelly chill bro🤣

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Benitha aragusekeje?😂

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The guy next to Ines didn't introduce himself 😅

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[@busy505]

Kelly thirsty af 😂

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Nah fr😭😂😂

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Let bro take them shots in peace😂