If a highly privileged kid wants to work in customer service, they should be able to. It would teach her so much about what it’s like to work in the entry levels of the customer service industry.
thats how i thought! everything else was kind've odd but major kudos to her if she wants to work in customer service shes going to learn a lot in the long run
She should have to sign a contract stating she will work 20 hrs a week for at least a full month to get the full experience. No quitting when things start to suck!
Totally agree. Yes she talking about things that the common person would never even be able to consider an option to buy. But if she were talking about a $100 car she sounded quite grounded for a kid who has been raised in such luxury. She's willing to get in there and eager to learn and work. And doing a basic hospitality job would let her learn so much, in all different aspects of personal and business interactions
Agreed, the fact that she WANTS to work even if she doesn't need to means her parents are doing something right! One day she'll learn of the hardships in life, let her be young.
For the 1st girl shes actually right about online schooling , especially if she is in a larger school. My school was massive with 4,000 kids in the highschool. The teachers were overwhelmed, understaffed & underpaid. I ended up graduating a year early just by switching to cyber & i retained a lot more information those years of schooling than i did in public achooling, but everyone learns differently & every area handles schooling differently
Yup! I have a kid with ASD who was moved over to an alternative branch of the school. The main school has 5k kids. The alternative school has 85 kids (none w/discipline issues). The curriculum is flexible & fast covering 2yrs of credits in 1 yr while still allowing for half days, wfh, and even counting some types of actual work as credit. The students do mostly online courses with teachers present to help with any questions/ concerns, and small teaching modules that cut to the chase. It has really opened our eyes to how much time is wasted in traditional schooling.
I’m a firm believer in “if you’re at the point of giving your partner an ultimatum, your relationship is over” but the girl in that video is a damn queen. This MF really trying to say “but baby, we’ve been together 10 years!!!!” Ok and where tf was that passion when you cheated you POS?!?! Like men who cheat are SO STUPID. She wants a divorce that’s clear, she’s giving him the option of the open marriage cause she KNOWS he’s not going to go for that, he wants to keep hooking up with randos and still come home to a doting wife who is feeding him and taking care of his kids, that’s the mentality of all these men out here that do this then act like the woman is crazy when she finally puts her foot down and won’t be a door mat anymore. In her mind she’s done and she wants the divorce but giving him the option for the open marriage is so she’s not made a fool or over and over again when this bastard doesnt change his cheating ways, he knows straight up within a few months she’d find someone basically immediately that will love and respect her and actually be a partner to her instead of a man child. You can hear the terror in his voice but it’s just hysterical all the reasons he’s listing not to have an open marriage should’ve been the reasons to stop his gross butt from cheating, like sorry not sorry dude turnabout’s fair play.
I see nothing wrong with a rich kid working in a restaurant, fast food, or retail. They're gaining experience working in the real world and what is required of them, and learning how to treat those "under" you (yes, y'all know that happens). One of the richest kids in my high school worked at McDonalds her Junior Year of High School (age 16-17). I think it really opened their eyes to how "the other half" lives, and how entitled some can be - therefore stopping that behavior at that generation. (Hopefully)
@@chrystiafreelandscankles548 I think she'd be the first to tell you it opened her eyes. She worked for a while after college, raised kids for a while, then started working at a charity - so something positive switched on. She's basically volunteering now, and helping her community - which is great!
i am very empowered by the woman giving her husband ultimatums! as a newly married person who is feeling emotionally betrayed a little bit by my spouse I am inspired by seeing and hearing people say things like this.
Girl, remember that leaving the marriage doesn't mean you failed, it means you chose yourself and not wasting years on being unhappy. I hope it works out for you two and if not I wish you the strength to walk away with your head held high❤
My husband had two fiancee's prior to me. The first one got into a car accident while on vacation and suffered catastrophic brain damage leaving her an invalid. He wanted to stick around but the parents told him to move on. Reluctantly he did. He met his next fiancee a few months later and after 7 years together she had a seizure and passed away 😢. She was a beautiful woman who lit up rooms. He was alone for 7 years before our paths crossed again and we became a couple. We've been together for 12 years, married for 1 and we talk about Jen and Ocean often, because they were a huge part of his life prior to me. He is a rare completely faithful man who takes his love very very seriously. I just wanted to share this.
I mean, I know people who talk openly about a deceased partner with/in front of their next partner (especially if they have a kid with the deceased), but that isn't the same. Memorializing a person online whom you had an affair with is WAY different.
Ok but the story in the video Is about him cheating on his wife With this woman who knew he was married , And the later died , That's nowhere near the same thing as your Partner.
My ex-husband left me for his bosses daughter. She treated my kids horribly. She even went so far as to withhold medicine from one of my daughters when she got mad at me. I did everything I could to prevent them from getting married, including one thing I am really not proud of. They did end up getting married, and a year later, my ex discovered she was cheating on him. They ended up getting divorced. Later I found out that she had passed away from a bad asthma attack. While I am not happy that she died... I AM happy that I don't have to worry about her evil hijinks anymore.
It's ok, you can be happy that she died. People die, and it's not your fault, you don't have to be sorry for someone that hurt you and your kids. Karma is a b*tch and people don't get suddenly good just cause they died.
At the time she was withholding medicine it was because she was mad at me for telling my kids that it was not appropriate for them to call her "mom" when she and my ex were not even engaged yet. She had been telling them that they should.
Exactly what I thought 🤦♀️ trying to threaten her with “we have so much history, you can’t ruin our marriage like this!” And post it so other people tell her the same thing. What narcissistic behavior.
The fact that the Uber driver was brave enough to make the video on a public street and then play it for his passengers is so crazy he deserves 5 stars and whatever I can tip him. It ain’t the best rap or the best music, but he’s just trying to make his way and spread good vibes and I am here for it! Even if we say nothing else until the end of the ride, seeing that would make my day/night and he would absolutely be getting a 5 star review from me
Uber drivers work for themselves and can absolutely set whatever rules they want for their customers. They don't have to put up with bs from others in their car and they decide when your ride is over. You break the rules or do something after they ask you not to, and they can 100% pull over and tell you to get out. Plus, he handled it in a funny and nonconfrontational manner. I'd probably give him five stars for the song and a clean vehicle. If I was in a bad mood that would probably turn it around tbh. Sometimes a little silly is a good reminder to not take yourself so seriously.
It’s no different than watching the preflight safety and it handles all of the things he’d like to communicate in a light hearted way that riders are more likely to be receptive to and engage with. One thing I learned teaching high school. Make it fun and make it slap or there will be chaos and drama.
For the first girl, I'll admit, she didn't exactly complain. She said what things were going down in her day, ups and downs. Yes, she lives an extremely privileged life, but it didn't come across as being bratty. How many of us felt the same way when we were in high school? I know we can't be the only ones that had teachers that only read off slides
The fact that she admitted that she was getting a used car even though she would have preferred a new one puts her miles ahead of a lot of the other spoiled brats you see online.
Her rant about school was so relatable! Though luckily for me I don't really have to deal with it in highschool since I'm doing virtual learning it's so much easier than doing in person learning, it's truly amazing that she wants to work! Many kids who refuse to work
NO WOMAN is gonna be sad that her husbands almost mistress died. Not even a drop of sadness. Actually they would be happy, the level of happy is almost off the happiness chart. 😊
I love that she wants a Starbucks job. Best place for her to get some empathy for others, and a bit of a reality check. But - the fact that she knows she can learn more shadowing her dad at work than staying at school shows that she has what it takes to actually follow in his footsteps, not just spend his money.
Also let her see the pay an average person brings in for the amount of crap they have to get from Karen who is pissed that her coffee isn't exactly 147.8 degrees.
@@krystalkerns1294Hmm, and if the job isn’t to her liking and fun she’s going to stick it out because she has bills to pay just like other kids of non-wealthy parents who need to work to pay bills. Um, yeah right.
I really have started to think that everyone should have to work some sort of customer service job at some point in their lives. Give them a sense of the real world and what it's like to work minimum wage and try to live off that. See how they enjoy dealing with entitled, rude people who treat you like you are beneath them.
Dude, I'm actually proud of the first girl wanting to look at Starbucks. It'll be a culture shock for sure, but I bet she'll be a lot better of a rich person if she experiences being a normal person first.
Easy to quit a job you don’t need. She’d last to a lunch break in any customer service. It’s also a green screen and a lie, girl isn’t rich at all (rather, her parents aren’t).
She's also not saying things like 'just buy it if you want it' or 'why do you need a job' or one of those get rich quick things that is mostly just asking for money from your parents.
And she isn’t being super condescending! If you take away the pricey and brand name stuff she’s basically just describing normal teenage things: Being disappointed the car she wanted to buy was sold & she’ll have to wait a year to get one, & feeling that she is wasting her time in school learning things she feels aren’t useful to real life & could be learning an actual job instead. She may be entirely wrong about working at Starbucks, but hey, at least she wants to try working!
Honestly I think her problems are the same as any teenager, the things she wants are just flashier and more expensive. Yea, she sounds a bit clueless, but I mean, you want what you want and if you can't get it in the time period you were hoping for, it's disappointing, but I also like that she wants to try to work an ordinary job, it may give her some perspective and give her a glimpse of the real world. She's not being a spoiled brat, like "I want an oompa loompa now daddy!" she's just disappointed but willing to wait for the thing she wants, which is more than some people with money.
Even if she only worked a couple hours, at least she'd have more an idea of what the average person has to put up with. Rich kids who don't work end up being AH rich adults who think poor ppl are just lazy and scream at customer service jobs
Loved that 1st creator. 100% agree with her about her assessment of school. It is a complete and total waste of time, horrible teachers and students. To this day I always say I would have gone to on-line school had it been available (lol just missed it). The fact that she wants to learn business with her father is on pointe. The second one is nauseating.
As someone that comes from a pretty affluent but HUMBLE family, I appreciate the fact that she actually wants to work. The part when she said she wanted to go to work with her dad to learn about business is something I can relate to.
But she ridiculed teachers acting like they had nothing to teach her....she's 16! The fact she's so full of herself to think teachers don't have anything to teach her is very conceded. She covering it up saying she wants to go to work with her dad but she thinks she's special and doesn't need to "waste" her time going to school....her own parents don't agree.
@@mmwtcasmalltown I'm not rich or aything but I kinda do relate with how she feels about school. I do better self studying, and if I'm confused I'll just go on my phone and search. Internet made education easier to access in alot of areas. maybe that girl learns better in a different way.
@@mmwtcasmalltown oh please. Let’s not take what she said out of context. She’s saying exactly what I’m sure you said or at least felt when you were in her shoes. She’s sixteen! No sixteen year old is going to say the opposite of what she said.
the woman who said we open the marriage or we get a divorce, i was like that's manipulative and awful! but then she said he cheated first and she's just doing what he did? honestly she's a better person than me for even thinking about staying married and letting him keep his marriage and his kids and his home. that's actually a good deal because he won't have to fight to see his kids and he won't have to pay child support. AND she's being honest and giving him fair warning that she's going to start seeing other people, and how they move forward is up to him but that point is non-negotiable. i see this as completely fair.
Yeah, that gave me some whiplash. Honestly, if he is going to be watching the kids while she goes out too, it’s better for his relationship with the kids as well. He’s just scared she is going to find someone better and leave him! She knows it wasn’t a one-off that he cheated, she is literally trying to keep some trust in the relationship! He set a new boundary, she decided to match it and set her own. Respect!
I don't think it's inherently awful because what she's saying is either we split, or we just continue doing what you were already doing anyway, but we both do it because why am I the only one that has to be devoted like that? Tonally it does seem pretty nasty. There's 100% more to it, but yeah. Do agree with you though. I just didn't initially think it was awful, since it felt like a response to something deeper. But good lord is she pissed. Lol
@@slsthewriter1299 maybe I've just heard too many reddit stories on rslash and mark narrations channels where one partner manipulated the other into opening the relationship and that's why I initially thought what she was doing was awful ¯\_.(ツ)._/¯ I definitely changed my mind on that once she said he cheated first though
That part about the emotional affair is really similar to a situation I was in. My husband had an emotional affair, even brought the woman home for me to take care of, because she was having a hard time. I did take care of her, because that's how I'm wired. I did tell him he had to make a decision, because he wanted more from her. He chose me, I'm so lucky. 😒🙄 A couple of years later, she died, and he was really distraught, and we both went to her funeral. I don't know if I'm an idiot or not, but he put me through quite a bit of pain, and I let him. I actually got a knot in my stomach watching that Tiktok - I should have just told him to go, and gotten on with my life.
This kinda turned into an essay, so grab a snack and get comfy. 😅 I'm not sure if "softer" is the issue because it can be ridiculously hard to say no and break away from an abusive relationship. Looking in from the outside other people are happy to tell you what you should have done, but they weren't there in the relationship. They weren't the ones getting abused and probably gaslit into being controlled by the other person. I think sometimes emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse because it usually takes more time to develop, you often end up trying to explain to yourself that it isn't how it seems, how you're not actually being abused because there are no marks, others can't see the damage and often don't know to help, and the emotional scars can be deep and last for decades because emotionally abused people often do seek out therapy. I'm not downplaying physical abuse; I have a friend who suffered from physical and emotional abuse from her own mother growing up, and then multiple partners. Her mother still emotionally abuses her and I'm really trying to get her to go no contact because of how much it hurts her and how little she gets from the relationship. She didn't breathe a word of the abuse until we were grown, and I kick myself for not noticing and not helping her get away from her abusive partners at least. In the 90s and 2000s society didn't really address emotional abuse. A lot of it was generational and we thought that was just how things were. Your parent(s) treat you like crap? Their parent(s) probably did the same to them and so on, or your partner learned it from watching their parents relationship. Boomers like to say, "Well, that's how I was raised! I didn't know any better!" Well, at some point they did know, and they didn't change. Dont lie about it to make yourself feel better. Fortunately now later generations, usually millennials and younger, are realizing that what they went through was not okay and that they refuse to treat their own partners and children that way. I kinda got off course a little, but I think it's relevant. Was the woman he cheated on you with someone that he was good friends with before the affair? I could understand him getting upset about a childhood friend who passed, but if it was a coworker, someone he met online, or something like that then he shouldn't go as far as attending the funeral, and if you had felt strong enough to say no then you definitely shouldn't have either. I can understand going along with what your abuser tells you to do because I had an emotionally abusive partner after a childhood of emotional neglect and abuse. Building yourself up afterwards, setting healthy boundaries and not being a doormat, saying no, etc, are difficult things to cultivate when you've never known otherwise. My default response to hearing a complaint about something, even if I wasn't involved at all, is STILL, "I'm sorry," but at least now it's less of an apology for fear of wrongdoing but is instead, "I'm sorry that happened to you," or "I'm sorry you went through that." It changes the whole meaning. You can feel bad for someone else's suffering without taking the blame for it, but it can be pretty difficult to break, and many people who were abused in that way never do get past it. I hope that you are in a better place, and I'm sorry you went through that. ❤
Open marriage or I’m leaving like her. Honestly when a person cross me it’s hard to let it go. I go into male mode really quick on a guy and make him seem like he’ll never be enough and everything is nagging or annoying
I also lived with the other woman for a bit.. it was horrible, i was young and could not bring myself to leave even though my entire being wanted to, so many times i cried in the bathroom trying to find the courage to leave but it hurt so much that the pain and anxiety of dealing with his shit was somehow easier to bear.. never again, I swore I would never again let someone get to me that way..
At 16 years old, it's the perfect time to learn about how others in the world live. She's at that age to absorb everything and learn about the world and how the other 99% of us actually live. No hate, just the ability to really open her eyes and then think about the world.
Love how open marriage lady nails her man to the wall.. “We’ve been together 10 years, you cheated, now it’s my turn, because you are going to feel what I’m feeling.. and he tries to justify himself? 😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻good for her
the videos on tiktok are insane. Apparently he cheated on her with at least 17 different women and he keeps going "Oh, but you're embarrassing yourself" "You already forgave me for that" "You're supposed to forgive me", like EXCUSE YOU?!
No. She can still love him after a divorce. You don't get revenge on your partner for cheating. Revenge is only going to cause hurt feelings and teach your children that it's okay to stay with someone who hurt you as long as you get to hurt them back. That is sooo effed up. He did her wrong, apparently a lot, and he doesn't deserve to get to stay with her, and their kids deserve better examples of a healthy relationship. My parents divorced when I was a teen. They may not romantically love each other anymore, but they're able to still be friends and do all of the holidays and stuff together. They stopped fighting and were able to respect each other at arm's length. My ex and I split after three years because we were fighting a lot and not happy in the relationship, but he came over the other night to just hang out and catch up as his last delivery that day was nearby. He lives an hour away from me and doesn't get out here a whole lot. We still love each other, but the relationship just didn't work. So now we're just good friends. Honestly, he's putting more effort into our relationship as friends then he did with us being partners. Sometimes it doesn't pay to cling to a relationship like a life preserver at sea because you're afraid of letting go. Let go. Tread water or float on your back for awhile until a boat comes along, or perhaps there is no boat and you're forced to swim to shore on your own.
And by “Good for her” , I mean good for her in not accepting his gaslighting attempts, his double standards, and his narcissistic dismissal of her as a person with feelings that he has hurt. He didn’t want her to be available to other men, like he made himself available to other women..Men like him don’t see a woman as a person with feelings. Men like him see women as interchangeable property, about like shoes. They’ll try you on, wear you out, slip you off, back into the closet you go, in the dark, while he goes and acquires as many more as he can get.🙄 His game is keeping you in the dark, and seeing how good he is at keeping his collection in the dark, unaware of all the others. This is NOT someone you can successfully coparent with.this is someone who will use your children to try to control you.🤷🏻♀️
honestly, about the rich girl, i feel this is a prime example of "don't like it, don't watch it". she's not doing anything bad to anyone, she doesn't even sound insufferable, she's just sitting there talking about herself and her little problems and i don't see anything wrong with that. yes, other people have bigger problems but there are always people with bigger problems
I don’t know. I grew up in a pretty well off family and one thing I was taught very early on is never talk about how much money you have and you can always tell new money from how much they brag about getting expensive stuff. Also I don’t all the pictures I saw on this video, her house looked super empty 😂😂😂 I wouldn’t be surprised if she was one of these influencer who pretend to have more money by renting a place for a couple of hours just to film a bunch of content. It’s a bit weird and 16 is old enough to learn about manners. No need to send her hate but let’s not pretend that every comment that isn’t positive is “hate” but if you are gonna be a content creator and your content is just complaining about living a privileged life then let’s be honest she’s not an idiot she knows its gonna get people talking. And if you gonna do content you got to expect people talking shit about your content. Especially if your claim to fame is just talking about expensive stuff you buy and not things creative you are doing. People who want everyone to know their name but can’t live with people giving criticism is really funny to me.
Ok I understand feeling some sort of way about the out-of-touch lambo woes, but why would anyone be upset that the first girl wants to work at Starbucks? Teenagers having jobs is good to teach them responsibility to someone other than themself. That’s good for all teenagers regardless of wealth! I’ve seen all these Help Wanted signs; there’s more than enough of those types of jobs to go around
I wondered that too! It's possible the Starbucks where she lives is a really upbeat place and the people working there are genuinely happy with their jobs. In that case, working there probably would be a lot of fun.
As a non-rich person - I too wanted to work at Starbucks when I was younger because it looked like a fun place to work. Sooooo.... Also, I weirdly enjoyed listening to her problems. I'm living vicariously through her okay! lol
Right can’t hate her everyone has there own problems might not be as important to you but if it was there child they would love to hear that that was a problem 😂😭
I thought she was sweet, she wasn’t rude or anything. Didn’t see much content, but she seemed down to earth and def a job in customer service would help her as a business owner
I have never seen a woman offer that level of compromise before, and I have to say it's a very refreshing view and idea! She went "you already decided it was gonna be open for _you_ so now you either accept it's open for _both of us_ OR we call it all off". She's not gonna sit there like a fool being loyal to one man whilst he gets to have an open relationship. So good for her! And if he was smart, he'd take the open marriage and not complain, but he cheated so he's probably dumb enough to get offended at the idea and end up with the divorce, weekend visitation and child support payments rather than having a family and clearly a good woman in his life.
For the death one.... I immediately started giggling because of the circumstance. Not that the girl is dead. But I have a very dark humor and I know and accept I'm going to hell 😂😂 If rich girl wants to work at Starbucks, let her have her own reality check. She may actually enjoy it (working and earning her own money as well) As for girl saying open marriage or divorce is amazing 😂😂😂
Maybe, she should volunteer at a soup kitchen. She would get a practical education in the form of cooking lessons and perhaps learn how tough life is for many people.
A round of applause👏👏 for how many times Charlotte made the statement "Please let's not go send hate to this creator, she's only 16 so let's not send her any hate please bc she may not know any better!" If for any reason it happens.. At least you'll kno u tried ur best Char! 😉🙃
"cosplaying as a working class person" might be the weirdest phrase I've ever heard - ESPECIALLY when it comes to someone wanting to work...like she's a teenager and getting a "working class" job could be a really good experience for her. Yes, it's fun if there is no financial stress involved, but she'll also make friends with people from different backgrounds, learn the normal people value of a dollar, and gain experience working in customer service - which is humbling/growth fueled for everyone.
It’s really a dumb thing to get mad about. Working class people aren’t the only people with jobs. Some people take the terminology they hear in other situations and inappropriately apply them to one’s like this. She’s out of touch and annoying but she’s not hurting anyone.
I would have definitely laughed. And I agree, it's not the wife's problem that woman died ... and it shouldn't be her husband's either. Him wanting to post a tribute tells me that they never stopped cheating together, and now I'm leaving.
I've been taking ubers to and from work for around 8 months now, and I'm honestly contemplating writing a book about all the craziness and amazing stories i've had with my drivers. But my favorite was the driver who picked me up at 7AM and was READY TO GET THE DRIVE STARTED!! He played a video of his previous rider, to explain that he was a life coach and if I gave him permission, he wanted to record our ride. I wasn't even awake, but I'm always up for adventure, so, sure, He then proceeds to record. "Alright!! We have 22 minutes until our destination! ARE YOU READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE?!?!?!?" and he proceeded to bombard me with questions about my life path. He'd randomly shout things like, " How do you feel? I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!! HOW DO YOU FEEEEL?!" and would make me match his energy and volume level. I got to work and was completely out of spoons, but his enthusiasm, even though i'm not a morning person, still makes me smile sometimes.
She wants to work and she has no problem with a second hand vehicle. Considering her level of privilege, that says a lot about her character. She might actually turn out ok 👍 What bugged me most was her not tying her hair back to do her skin routine lol
Agreed! She was excited about something that fell through. Just because she was born into a wealthy family, doesn't mean she's not allowed to have a normal response of being disappointed.
I was born to family with multi generational wealth and got a trust fund. I also went to college, got a few degrees, and invested my money into a private business so now I'm self employed. My money has surpassed my trust fund. I'm not mad at a teenager for talking about problems that only she can relate to. No one should be. Your financial problems are not her problem. Neither are the world's problems. If you don't want to see it then don't.
If you have a literal job, you’re not ‘cosplaying’ the working class. Youre working. No matter how much money you have in the bank. I think it’s actually shockingly impressive she WANTS to work even when she’s obviously not being forced to.
That's what I thought too; she actually wanted to get a job at Starbucks or wherever. I'd rather well off people want to work than not...I do give them a little credit there.
I think even if she only worked there for a month or two she could learn how to budget her own money and learn how to deal with people, both essential life skills. If rich people in general just learned what the general public is like then we'd all be better off
Y’all fr choosing to miss the part where she said “it would be fun” she’s literally cos playing she doesn’t have to work or trying to work to get money herself she thinks it’s “fun” please be fr
Y’all have such a low bar for her! I hope you’re this sympathetic and ready to fall over each other for the regular people in your lives! And not snickering and shit talking when the person holds less power and status. That would give me some faith.
@Uchihasasuk5 lmfao she's 16, of course I have a "low bar" for her. And yes I am this sympathetic to people I actually know. Everyone has a journey in life and it sucks. Being kind costs nothing
The podcast ladies talking about the woman who wrote in about her husband's mistress passing away, pretty much summarizes how any of us would feel about the situation...PC or not... Just the way it goes 🤷🏻♀️ 😂
Not sure anyone should applaud "You hurt, me so I get to hurt you" especially when kids are involved. And revenge sex is definitely the worst reason to start an open relationship.
@@certs743 Would you say the same thing if it was the other way around?! Can't you see that this marriage is already over?! And yes SEX IS IMPORTANT, one of the reasons that people would go for open relationships is because they want more sex with different people. If he's going to be hurt by that let him be who cares?! He's the one in the wrong for starting the bullshit of cheating, breaking the trust and hurting his wife first "especially when the kids are involved". If he doesn't like the sound of that deal, he can simply divorce. He gotta make his choice rather than being greedy for all the options that benefit him and feed his ego that needs to be broken and as Charlotte said "you can't have your cake and eat it too". And this cheater doesn't want to divorce because he wants to keep what he has until he finds "the better one", doesn't want anyone to touch "his supposed to be wife" and doesn't want the open marriage because he perfectly knows that in straight open relationships, the woman will be always getting the better end of that decision since women easily gets more men than men getting women and eventually, she'll find someone who is better and more deserving of a partner to commit to than this piece of trash. If you can't maintain a monogamous relationship and you know that you're going to cheat, don't be in one. And let this man takes some of his own medicine.
@@Blank_Horizon It is amazing how many people use infidelity to justify doing literally the same thing and being just as toxic. This is not about an open relationship. The fact the wife suddenly out of nowhere wants that suggests they were either already thinking about cheating too and now has the perfect excuse to have her cake and eat it too or they are using it as an excuse for revenge sex. They are both toxic AF. Most of us learned as children two wrongs don't make a right. Furthermore getting more people involved in their "open marriage" is just going to bring more people into their toxic chaos. And for her to claim she loves her husband but in the same breath make it clear revenge is more important than fixing their relationship says alot about her too. It also tells me their relationship is not going to work no matter how many people are involved. I pity their kids and anyone dumb enough to get involved in their drama. As far as I am concerned neither of them are capable of a healthy adult relationship and should both be single.
I just wonder about the timing... I mean, he's a pos for cheating, we all agree to that but I feel we lack context to judge... Imagine he cheated 10 years ago, when they barely started together, still it's bad but it's not like cheating after having three kids... And the thing is, they both look like they want a divorce but the perks of having the family, probably housing and money wise so it's hard to judge from that clip alone...
For the first video, I appreciate that a girl who lives a highly privileged life, wants to work at starbucks. It would teach her to have empathy for others. BUT the fact that she knows she can learn more about the business industry by shadowing her dad shows that she has what it takes to follow in his footsteps and not *actually* spend his money dry.
She strikes me as rich, but not spoiled or entitled. She seems well grounded for a girl who has never had to want for anything and has probably been relatively sheltered all her life so her only problem is that she lacks perspective.
At 16, the only experience she has is the one she lives. She doesn’t know any other experience and that’s not her fault. Belittling her because she was born to advantage is not fair. Additionally, her attitude is in the right place, she is not really upset about buying a used car, because it’s exactly what she wants without the wait. She is annoyed with school because she would rather work and learn her father business. Seems like she’s pretty grounded for her having money. Trust me, having money comes with its own unique set of disadvantages.
Ahhh the excusing entitlement. At 16, I understood there were people my age that had it much better than me and much worse. I worked full time, attended high school, and took college courses. I wasn’t making excuses that “mommy I can’t make my bed cause I’m so sad I didn’t get the $180k car I wanted”. Oh boohoo. There are countless ways she can understand the experiences of others. She’s too entitled to do so. Also having money comes with its own disadvantages. Lol ok, so tell that to a single mom working three jobs, living in a one bedroom apartment in order to keep her kids feed. Just a delusional as that whinnying spoiled teen.
@@silveritea I don't think that's the dig you wanted to. elle woods chose to go into a difficult field and she made it. The whole point of clueless is that it doesn't matter how much money her daddy has she's still a smart girl and she can make it on her own. Yea she had to learn but this 16 year old has a better grasp on her life and the future she sees for herself.
Just so you know, these kids are so impressive ! I happen to be awestruck at how these kiddos have handled the last 3years. How many of us would have survived , basically, 3 years of lockdowns,face masks , and isolating? When I was 16, if someone told me that I could graduate and not have to put in the school work, I would have used that time differently. These kids have adapted to what they were given,(life on-line) and they rock it! Take a minute and really talk to them and see how bright they are. This young lady is clearly well off but is speaking to us as she would talk to her friends. I like her :)
Frankly the girls reading the 💀 mistress post, I’m 💯here for their energy. Not only would I have had to fight the urge to laugh in his face, I would’ve given him permission to post something as I contact a divorce attorney. He won’t have a wife but he will have audacity.
With the husband having the emotional affair and the girl dying… honestly my reaction would probably be like the girls who read it. Like, okay, that’s sad for her friends and family but don’t expect sympathy from me when she had an affair with my partner. We can’t all be the bigger person during a situation like that, especially when your partner wants to put an RIP post up when they don’t even talk about you or your child… hard pass from me.
Have to admit,I would be cold. Hubby: Emotional AP died. Me: So what. Hubby: I want to post a memorial piece. Me: Ok,so you want a divorce because you lied to me and you're not over that B. Pack your crap and GTFO.
Yeah, no sympathy to be found here. Especially when it seems the husband is not over her and wants to homage his mistress in social media, like get a clue dude, your wife forgives you and you pull this crap. If I was the wife, I would be dancing on the dead girl's grave.
I wouldn’t be happy about the girl dying and I would completely understand my husband grieving (I have exes I don’t have any lingering romantic feelings for, but I would still feel sad if they died) however, there’s no social media in hell, so what is the point in posting a memorial??? If he wanted to attend her wake/memorial etc I would support it, but why would he have to embarrass me online for?
@@Polishedandperfectedyou're definitely the bigger person because I don't think I could tolerate him attending the wake/funeral of his mistress. I would see that as just as humiliating as him posting a tribute online. But I seriously give you props if you can handle that. I think id honestly be done if he brought that up to me. I know that sounds awful. But we worked through this issue (so I thought) which is not easy to work through, and now I have to comfort you as you grieve your mistress? 😬 I don't think I have that in me 😬 I wish I could be better about that but I'm pretty sure id see red lol.
LOL I would totally give that Uber driver a huge tip. He was smiling and laughing the whole time, he rigged his car with LED lights to match his silly rap video- those rules are actual Uber rules anyway, so that's a cool way to tell people :D I love it.
That opened marriage one was fire. Honestly I wish all women would do this to the guys who cheated on them. The guy doesn't like it because he already knows his wife is smoking hot. And that she will get way more dues than he ever will women. Dude knows he fucked up big time. In fact I gotta ask does anyone know her number? 😅
I wish I had the guts of the open marriage or divorce lady. I “forgave” the cheater. Turns out he did not respect me for doing that. I should have kicked him out and/or made him watch me go out with other men.
I’ve often thought I’d kick my husband out. Divorce immediately. Now tho, after having kids and finances so entwined, nah. We’ll stay married but it’s an open marriage now. Ground rules about the house and the kids and a lot of discussions before any more big changes plus a budget for dating. While I’m making some dating profiles!
I almost rolled off the couch laughing at the last one where she was reading for the part. But that whole thing was very entertaining. I don't know how you do this on the daily.
Yes - I've been scrolling comments for ages looking for someone who thought that last girl was hilarious. Honestly I'm still giggling and I watched it 10mins ago.
I'm gonna give the first girl some credit for saying that she wants to work, that she wants to learn about business and get a head start. That shows, to me, that her parents have taught her something good. She, as a 16 year old, does NOT deserve the hate, especially since she seems to genuinely want to try. I don't think that she understands why people are upset, genuinely understand, as she grew up this way. So yes, i will give her credit for obviously wanting to learn how to earn her own living
The shaver dad was seriously contemplating how many years for taking the basket and wrapping round his son’s head. The son should be thanking his mum and any other siblings, the grandchildren, etc; the dad’s love for them saved him jail time.
It doesn't matter how great your life is or how bad your life is - someone else's problems being "worse" than your problems doesn't negate your feelings and your problems.
This is a big problem when you grow up in bad situations and get out of it. You always feel like “well, my parents had it worse” or “it was a lot worse before so I’m not allowed to be upset about x now.” It’s a toxic way of thinking and robs you of joy because you just add guilt and shame on top of the stress from whatever problem you are currently having. When I have issues stupid issues like that, I call them “first world problems”. Yeah, they are issues and causing me stress and I give myself permission to complain about them while acknowledging that it could so much worse. Can’t find a babysitter to show up so I can work for extra money for savings? First world problem. Can’t find a babysitter to show up so I can work for money to pay my bills? Serious issue that might require a lifestyle change
Hi Charlotte, Dr. Thomas here (huge fan) I’m a criminologist and I just wanted to clarify that he was not speaking to the ankle bracelet. They do not have that high-quality of bracelets. He was speaking to someone on the phone most likely his parole officer while pointing the camera at the ankle bracelet, he was likely trying to bring light to the fact that those are not real-time GPS monitors, they only give intermittent signals with a radius of where he is in general. It’s a little known fact that those are hugely ineffective and thousands of victims die every year because of it. It’s very likely that he was able to evade the police even with the bracelet on.
Oooh the open marriage one, ugh, my ex was poly and I said cool. He started flirting with a bunch of people not fully understanding the poly is when both partners agree with an additional one. So we essentially decided to open the relationship up because he really liked all these other people. This went on for months without me actually looking at anyone I did not go out and make an effort to build myself a harem the way he was trying to do. I was getting kind of lonely and let him know I was going to put myself up on a dating app. He got super upset, pulling the am I not enough for you card. and I was just like bro you burnt a bridge on one of your friendship for your harem ideas and are flirting with six different people. I ended up dumping him and am currently on the dating app looking for people in my area. Think I might have actually found someone who is super nice AND he loves animals!
Good luck! And also absolutely agree. That thing he didn't have anything to do (or doesn't sound to me like that) with poly at all in my opinion. Sure, I admit I don't know much about it, but sure I know some basics to understand that this type of relationship is both-sided, and not only one-sided. Anyway, hope your date will be successful and will be happy in the future
Ugh, this happened to me. My ex-fiance of seven years kept cheating on me, and eventually gave a huge sob story about how he was poly, and he wanted to open the relationship. I relented, and he brought home as many young women he could (he was like 19-20 tryna date 15-16 year olds which I would regularly try to stop because ick). Eventually, I met a person who treated me like an actual human, and we started dating. My ex tried to pull the 'him or me bullshit', and I told him that's not how polyamory works, then left him. Six years later, I'm in a happy and healthy poly relationship, and my wife and boyfriend make everyday so much better. It gets better, babe!!
In Quebec we say ''le beurre, l'argent du beurre et le cul de la fermière'' which translates to ''the butter, the money from selling the butter and the milkmaid's ass''. I didn't know there was an english version to that saying :P
We have a similar saying in French : You want the butter, the money for the butter, and the female butter maker's ass. A little vulgar but always efficient 😅 (le beurre, l'argent du beurre et le cul de la crémière).
I would take the "furniture" job for that money without a doubt!! I have two kids, and we struggle to make ends meet and also need a car. When you're a parent pride disappears.
No it doesn't. How am I supposed to teach my daughter self respect and pride if I don't live by it my self? I'm not doing everything and anything for money.
No amount of money is enough to be demeaned like that. At that point, you might as well be a prostitute, at least they are still seen as persons and not furniture.
@@77yggfe12ujn I understand your perspective and that's something that I want to encourage to my daughter too, I'm just saying that while in need and no other choice this is not the worst thing to do for money. It would be great to be able to afford a car now, maybe a computer for my kids or even new clothes or shoes that aren't thrifted for once.
I love the fact that that girl actually wants to work, despite her having a lot of money. She isn't "cosplaying" at all, I commend her for wanting to gain real world experience.
Because she thinks it’ll be fun shut upppppp be proud of the millions of kids who have no choice but to work and take care of themselves or help out their home not an entitled rich white girl 😌
She wasn't lying about school! If they had online school back when I was in high school, I'd have loved to learn at my own pace, and not have to deal with high school BS!
My ex, we were together 13 years, left me for another woman in a very dramatic fashion that wound up with my MIL pursuing charges on the mistress for car theft and my ex jumped me because he couldn't hit his mom and went to jail. While he was in jail, the mistress was released on bond. She proceeded to do a butt-ton of drugs and drinking and chose to then drive. Down in South Louisiana, there are deep canals that run between opposing lanes of traffic, people dock their shrimp boats, and other boats in some of the canals. She drove off into a canal while high and drowned. I called the jail and asked the chaplain to give him a free call so I could inform him of a death in the family. I told him his new witch was dead and now he had no one and told him Karma is real. 2 months later his mother passed so I called the jail again and told him about her death and told him now he truly had no one left who loved him except himself. Don't feel sorry for him, though. He's abusive in every way imaginable. He got out of prison in 2019, and in 2020, during the pandemic, he spit in a strangers face and went back to prison. I don't hear about him anymore, I moved 4 states away to get as far away from him as I could afford to move.
I think the same. She even said she'd rather spend her time with her dad at his job so she can learn about business. Obviously she wants to be successful in her own right instead of living off her trust fund. So, Obviously her parents are teaching her something right.
She might also learn that some of the "gossip about unimportant stuff" that her teacher purportedly does is actually USEFUL information. This kid needs a year away from entitlement where nobody knows (or would believe that) her folks are rich but she may already be far too spoiled/indoctrinated for such an experience to do any good. The Starbucks comment just shows how she's already become tone-deaf - she may have been completely sheltered from the kind of world outside her ivory tower and have NO clue about life for the majority of humanity.
I think she SHOULD work at Starbucks because it might expose her to the world that her parents clearly aren't showing her. It's not too late for her to get to understand that not everyone has the issues she has. She doesn't seem like a bad person and it's good that she wants new experiences.
I worked with 2 wealthy girls at a restaurant when I was in high school. They were extremely nice and very hard working. Their step sister wasn't as nice and acted entitled. Oddly enough, it was the 2 girls father that was extremely wealthy not the step mom.
6:00 I would do that job for 10k a month if I could. If someone asked me what my job was I'd say I'm a model/waitor for an artistic high-end restaurant. If it's demeaning to wear a cheese hat and suit... then what is it to be a hooters girl for drunk idiots? I'd make sure customers would ask for me and my fondue sombrero every time they came back
It’s gross how nepotism is bragged about in this country. Her dad probably didn’t work for his money either so she might only learn how to avoid the inheritance tax.
@@kamikazecassidy I just agree with her on the fact that school isn't what it used to be, and work experience might teach her better. Like damn, this is the first time I've heard a nepo baby talking about wanting to work and learn. Other nepo babies could learn from that 😂
@@kamikazecassidyHow do you know that? It takes work and discipline to invest money and run businesses without running them into the ground, so even if he inherited the business or some money, so? It sounds like he works and isn't just sitting around, in which case she could learn plenty about work ethic from him. But seriously, I'm not even convinced this tictok is real. The pictures of her in her house looked photo shopped and too bare, not enough furniture or decor. I think it's a troll.
@@kamikazecassidy jealous much? The father has his daughter set for life. That is any fathers DREAM for their children to be ok and well off. And it is work to manage businesses. Are you saying if my father had 10+ apartments being rent out and is making bank, that it is wrong for the father to teach his child to do the same? Going to school IS a waste. I learned practically nothing from school, and I had great grades in all grades as well as college. college is an absolute JOKE. Especially now. I honestly learned more just reading and doing my own research than the 22 or whatever years it was being in schools. Not to mention when you do your own research, you can weed out the biased articles and only look for truth. Schools put what they want in their curriculum, and its usually leaning in one direction and very biased. College is only worth it if you want to be a doctor, a lawyer, maybe business. I'd do anything to have an opportunity like this young lady. If I was the father i'd want my child to be the boss, not be a wage slave his/her entire life. I wish I were her... and I am sure you wish that too. But getting angry over someone having this amount of luck to be born into a wealthy family is silly.
To literally everyone. My comment said nothing about defending schools 🙄 I just think it’s sad how much nepotism is rewarded when it very potentially hasn’t been earned. Notice nothing I said was in absolutes. Breathe, people. Go touch grass.
Sometimes people deal with death with hysterical laughter. It doesn't even necessarily mean that they don't feel sad. Of course this is a given that she really isn't grief stricken.
Honestly, the best thing for a rich kid is to experience the same type of work that the working class has to deal with. She is never going to understand the struggles that other people face if she remains so disconnected from the real world.
How is she disconnected? She is just saying that there are some up and downs but it's fine and her saying she is wanting to work is amazing, and the school thing is true
@@crossanddream2 disconnected in that she doesn't understand the struggles of the average person because she has never experienced a life with responsibilities other than school. I actually think it's great that she wants to work, and wish that more young people in her family's tax bracket were motivated to do the same.
As a 16 year old slapped in the face with reality for 90% of the population( yep, the wage gap is that extensive) , good luck dealing with the fact that people die for want of what the cost of your silly life style is. Your skin care routine?! At 16?! The fact that so many people are ok with this is frightening. There is a finite amount of wealth. The more one has , the less many have. I’m not bashing a 16 year old, she’s obviously not living in the reality most HAVE to. But her reality is so delusional, it allows the continuance of the obscene growth of wealth and the downward spiral of most Americans.
I just want to say that fresh&fits commitment to never admitting that they’re the problem is the only consistency they’ve shown so far. At least the crop circles are gone now
That may be, but I don't think removing their platform on YT will help. Freedom of speech also means speech you dont agree with. If you are right about them, than de-platforming them will only make people feel sorry for them!
@@phobos_0935 they're not even deplatformed tho ? From what he said all that happened is they got their partnership taken away aka money. Sure freedom of speech all ya want but that doesn't mean youtube has to pay you for it, s what we call consequences for our own actions.
@@phobos_0935That kind of speech on a private platform has consequences. Our right to free speech pertains to being able to disagree with our government. Private business can accept or deny objectionable speech.
The husband might wear the pants. But the wife that says their going to have an open marriage definetly controls the zipper. She's also probably thinking "sigh" It's hard to soar like an eagle when your husband acts like a turkey.
despite the fact that she's super rich and doesn't need to work, and the fact that she thinks it will be "fun" to work, it's admirable that she wants to and i do think that experience will teach her a lot. i've heard a lot of people say "everyone should have to work in retail or the service industry at some point in their life" and i kind of agree. i agreed even before i ever had a job. i didn't need a job in either industry to teach me how to treat people like human beings, which i believe is what that quote means, but i do think it's a good life experience that everyone needs. also i'm starting a new job (coincidentally at starbucks lol) on friday :)
The most affluent of teens I have known had good work ethic, were not ashamed of working entry level jobs, and were beyond kind. Now whenever I hear someone call a kid spoiled, I correct them and say, you mean abused. A spoiled child is missing out on some sort of love, guidance, attention. The kids I’ve seen who’s parents gave them lots of attention and were treated with care and respect did not turn out “spoiled” or “sensitive” they came out hard working and caring and emulated how they were treated when interacting with other people. Be kind ppl.
The girl does need to understand that the rest of the world wouldn't appreciate her 'problems'. Her parents should be teaching her that. But, no reason to hate on a child 😂
She’s not even saying those are her problems. Just her ups and downs. There’s literally nothing wrong with what she said. That’s just her life. No only that but she is quite self aware on her future and her opportunities. Her want to work a job will also give her experience that she needs to know how we experience life.
@@ladycobrana852 didn't say there was. What I am saying is... say she takes a job at Starbucks. While shooting the shit at work with people who clearly don't own the company, someone asks her 'how's it going'? It might be in poor taste for her to say, 'Ugh, have to wait a year for my lambo'. My point (missed) is that I'm hoping her parents are teaching her that what she has is a blessing and that 99% of the world does not have it 😊
I’m only 90 seconds in and I’m already thinking “How much crap is she putting on her face?!” I can almost hear acne knocking at my front door if I tried that skincare routine! 😨
My grandson graduated at 16 by doing his last two years of HS in one year on-line. He just turned 21 and has had a full-time job 5 years at the same place and been able to move up in this job. He's happy and responsible and I'm so proud of him ❤.
I don't have much issue with the first girl. The life she's had is the one she knows and it's actually nice to see a rich kid for once to want to actually work, even if it's at Starbucks or her dad's business, and I think that's commendable. Yes, she was born rich, but she's seems to be learning to be responsible with what she's been given =)
My ex asked to open our marriage, which I was fine with. He got super pissed off when I was the only one getting neck deep in ladies and he was home alone 😅
I worked at Starbucks for six years, and I can tell you that if that first girl got hired, she would probably be gone after one shift. But that’s a huge if, because we also have to assume that she got an interview in the first place. Some managers won’t look at your application if your availability is so limited. It’s not worth it putting in that much time and money to train you, when you only want to work two days a week for four hours, and neither of those days are weekends.
You’re like one of the few people that have the ability to consider this from different angles. Maybe she’ll make it maybe she won’t but the height of the praise she is getting for doing something that millions of people have no choice but to do everyday is crazy
@@Uchihasasuk5 thank you. I worked with a lot of teenagers over the years, and for the most part they understood that this is a job, and you have to actually work. There were a few that just didn’t seem to understand no matter how many times I told them to get off their phones. Also don’t call my job “fun.” That’s people’s livelihoods. You can say, “I have a fun job,” but that doesn’t make the job itself fun. I feel like if I was her parents and she said this to me, I’d be like, “okay you want to work for ‘fun.’ How about we raid the stakes.” Like if she wants to do online school fine, but when she’s not “at school,” she’s working. She has to find a job where she can either walk to, or take public transportation, because she’s not driving a Lamborghini to that, and also she’s not getting a car until she values it. She has one month, and after that any money she makes from her job is how she pays for the things she wants. Now if she still thought the idea of having a job was, “fun,” I’d be impressed.
For the one where the guy had the emotional affair then wanted to post something online: if he was okay with having an affair of any kind, than I feel like he could have some social media his wife doesn't know about. She might say it's not okay to post anything, but who's to say he won't post it on an account she isn't aware of? That's just my thought though.
We are definitely struggling right now but I have no issues with other people having money if they worked for it. We work hard for ours and even though we struggle to pay rent and get groceries, I know there are people who might look at our life and wish they had it. I mean…we have a roof over our heads, beds to sleep in, wonderful kids, happily married since 1999, cats, a turtle…etc. I think being grateful for what you have regardless of how much is what’s important. God has truly blessed us!
That first girl, she seems like she would actually go out and work. Like a lot of teens, she didn't school, but the fact that she suggested going to work (instead of school) with her dad and learning from him. To me at least, that says a lot. Most other "Privileged" videos, they're not talking about working, more whining then anything else
Lil girl who got upset about not getting her car: Listen, we've all been in a situation where we've been really looking forward to something and it didn't happen how we thought. We have all been crushingly disappointed and felt bad for a while, even though there were other solutions. It's about perspective and she has every right to be upset, especially as a 16 year old who is still going through so much emotional development.
If a highly privileged kid wants to work in customer service, they should be able to. It would teach her so much about what it’s like to work in the entry levels of the customer service industry.
Agreed! The fact that she wants to honestly says a lot
thats how i thought! everything else was kind've odd but major kudos to her if she wants to work in customer service shes going to learn a lot in the long run
She should have to sign a contract stating she will work 20 hrs a week for at least a full month to get the full experience. No quitting when things start to suck!
Totally agree. Yes she talking about things that the common person would never even be able to consider an option to buy. But if she were talking about a $100 car she sounded quite grounded for a kid who has been raised in such luxury. She's willing to get in there and eager to learn and work. And doing a basic hospitality job would let her learn so much, in all different aspects of personal and business interactions
Crap, lol. I just posted the same, then saw your comment. You're right.
Can I just say any rich child who desires to work. Even if it’s for “fun” deserves that life experience. It would open her eyes
Agree. Or volunteer 40/hrs a week at a shelter. She could use the experience.
Agreed, the fact that she WANTS to work even if she doesn't need to means her parents are doing something right! One day she'll learn of the hardships in life, let her be young.
I’m all for rich kids working and I would go even further and have them work more labor intensive jobs like farm work and animal care too
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Absolutely.
For the 1st girl shes actually right about online schooling , especially if she is in a larger school. My school was massive with 4,000 kids in the highschool. The teachers were overwhelmed, understaffed & underpaid. I ended up graduating a year early just by switching to cyber & i retained a lot more information those years of schooling than i did in public achooling, but everyone learns differently & every area handles schooling differently
Yup! I have a kid with ASD who was moved over to an alternative branch of the school. The main school has 5k kids. The alternative school has 85 kids (none w/discipline issues). The curriculum is flexible & fast covering 2yrs of credits in 1 yr while still allowing for half days, wfh, and even counting some types of actual work as credit. The students do mostly online courses with teachers present to help with any questions/ concerns, and small teaching modules that cut to the chase. It has really opened our eyes to how much time is wasted in traditional schooling.
I’m a firm believer in “if you’re at the point of giving your partner an ultimatum, your relationship is over” but the girl in that video is a damn queen. This MF really trying to say “but baby, we’ve been together 10 years!!!!” Ok and where tf was that passion when you cheated you POS?!?! Like men who cheat are SO STUPID.
She wants a divorce that’s clear, she’s giving him the option of the open marriage cause she KNOWS he’s not going to go for that, he wants to keep hooking up with randos and still come home to a doting wife who is feeding him and taking care of his kids, that’s the mentality of all these men out here that do this then act like the woman is crazy when she finally puts her foot down and won’t be a door mat anymore. In her mind she’s done and she wants the divorce but giving him the option for the open marriage is so she’s not made a fool or over and over again when this bastard doesnt change his cheating ways, he knows straight up within a few months she’d find someone basically immediately that will love and respect her and actually be a partner to her instead of a man child. You can hear the terror in his voice but it’s just hysterical all the reasons he’s listing not to have an open marriage should’ve been the reasons to stop his gross butt from cheating, like sorry not sorry dude turnabout’s fair play.
I see nothing wrong with a rich kid working in a restaurant, fast food, or retail. They're gaining experience working in the real world and what is required of them, and learning how to treat those "under" you (yes, y'all know that happens). One of the richest kids in my high school worked at McDonalds her Junior Year of High School (age 16-17). I think it really opened their eyes to how "the other half" lives, and how entitled some can be - therefore stopping that behavior at that generation. (Hopefully)
Agree 100%.
She’s damned if she does (work), damned if she doesn’t?
@@chrystiafreelandscankles548 I think she'd be the first to tell you it opened her eyes. She worked for a while after college, raised kids for a while, then started working at a charity - so something positive switched on. She's basically volunteering now, and helping her community - which is great!
@@revgurleythat’s fabulous! The world could use more people like her 😊.
She sounds awesome!
i am very empowered by the woman giving her husband ultimatums! as a newly married person who is feeling emotionally betrayed a little bit by my spouse I am inspired by seeing and hearing people say things like this.
Girl, remember that leaving the marriage doesn't mean you failed, it means you chose yourself and not wasting years on being unhappy. I hope it works out for you two and if not I wish you the strength to walk away with your head held high❤
My husband had two fiancee's prior to me. The first one got into a car accident while on vacation and suffered catastrophic brain damage leaving her an invalid. He wanted to stick around but the parents told him to move on. Reluctantly he did. He met his next fiancee a few months later and after 7 years together she had a seizure and passed away 😢. She was a beautiful woman who lit up rooms. He was alone for 7 years before our paths crossed again and we became a couple. We've been together for 12 years, married for 1 and we talk about Jen and Ocean often, because they were a huge part of his life prior to me. He is a rare completely faithful man who takes his love very very seriously. I just wanted to share this.
I mean, I know people who talk openly about a deceased partner with/in front of their next partner (especially if they have a kid with the deceased), but that isn't the same. Memorializing a person online whom you had an affair with is WAY different.
Lovely story, you had me right up until you equated 'faithful man' to 'rare'
Ok but the story in the video Is about him cheating on his wife With this woman who knew he was married , And the later died , That's nowhere near the same thing as your Partner.
🥂 Here's to many more beautiful years for you guys
@@perfectlyimperfect9129yeah and this person wanted to share a positive story. They didn’t say it was the same thing, just that they wanted to share.
My ex-husband left me for his bosses daughter. She treated my kids horribly. She even went so far as to withhold medicine from one of my daughters when she got mad at me. I did everything I could to prevent them from getting married, including one thing I am really not proud of. They did end up getting married, and a year later, my ex discovered she was cheating on him. They ended up getting divorced. Later I found out that she had passed away from a bad asthma attack. While I am not happy that she died... I AM happy that I don't have to worry about her evil hijinks anymore.
It's ok, you can be happy that she died. People die, and it's not your fault, you don't have to be sorry for someone that hurt you and your kids.
Karma is a b*tch and people don't get suddenly good just cause they died.
Wow she sounds terrible. Withholding medicine, she took evil stepmother to heart.
At the time she was withholding medicine it was because she was mad at me for telling my kids that it was not appropriate for them to call her "mom" when she and my ex were not even engaged yet. She had been telling them that they should.
@@ruthrudd1I'd do the gen x thing and go pee on her grave
All I saw was my ex-husband and just disliked because no one cares
I love how, in the open marriage scenario, he's bringing up their 3 kids, etc but he didn't think of all that when he was cheating.
With 17 different women
@@susanstohelit3114nooooooo
@@HoneyQuint the longer video is on tiktok, it's insane
Exactly what I thought 🤦♀️ trying to threaten her with “we have so much history, you can’t ruin our marriage like this!” And post it so other people tell her the same thing. What narcissistic behavior.
Cheaters always be acting like it's not their fault.
The fact that the Uber driver was brave enough to make the video on a public street and then play it for his passengers is so crazy he deserves 5 stars and whatever I can tip him. It ain’t the best rap or the best music, but he’s just trying to make his way and spread good vibes and I am here for it! Even if we say nothing else until the end of the ride, seeing that would make my day/night and he would absolutely be getting a 5 star review from me
unless I was already in a sour mood the uber video would make my night better. Its pure comedy. It would be the uber edition of Cash Cab
@@jerdtgg lol
Uber drivers work for themselves and can absolutely set whatever rules they want for their customers. They don't have to put up with bs from others in their car and they decide when your ride is over. You break the rules or do something after they ask you not to, and they can 100% pull over and tell you to get out.
Plus, he handled it in a funny and nonconfrontational manner. I'd probably give him five stars for the song and a clean vehicle.
If I was in a bad mood that would probably turn it around tbh. Sometimes a little silly is a good reminder to not take yourself so seriously.
💯 I would love it. I love that he found a fun way to go over his rules.
It’s no different than watching the preflight safety and it handles all of the things he’d like to communicate in a light hearted way that riders are more likely to be receptive to and engage with. One thing I learned teaching high school. Make it fun and make it slap or there will be chaos and drama.
For the first girl, I'll admit, she didn't exactly complain. She said what things were going down in her day, ups and downs. Yes, she lives an extremely privileged life, but it didn't come across as being bratty.
How many of us felt the same way when we were in high school? I know we can't be the only ones that had teachers that only read off slides
Or just hand you a packet, expecting you to know the information.
Yeah it looked like a vlog. People are projecting a lot.
The fact that she admitted that she was getting a used car even though she would have preferred a new one puts her miles ahead of a lot of the other spoiled brats you see online.
Her rant about school was so relatable! Though luckily for me I don't really have to deal with it in highschool since I'm doing virtual learning it's so much easier than doing in person learning, it's truly amazing that she wants to work! Many kids who refuse to work
This is exactly what I was gonna say
NO WOMAN is gonna be sad that her husbands almost mistress died. Not even a drop of sadness. Actually they would be happy, the level of happy is almost off the happiness chart. 😊
I love that she wants a Starbucks job. Best place for her to get some empathy for others, and a bit of a reality check. But - the fact that she knows she can learn more shadowing her dad at work than staying at school shows that she has what it takes to actually follow in his footsteps, not just spend his money.
Also let her see the pay an average person brings in for the amount of crap they have to get from Karen who is pissed that her coffee isn't exactly 147.8 degrees.
Yes! That comment made me have a bit of hope for her that’s she’s not just an entitled brat. That she actually wants to learn things
I feel she would work for 1 hr before she would walk out to her Lambo & never work a 'normal' job another day!
@@krystalkerns1294Hmm, and if the job isn’t to her liking and fun she’s going to stick it out because she has bills to pay just like other kids of non-wealthy parents who need to work to pay bills. Um, yeah right.
I really have started to think that everyone should have to work some sort of customer service job at some point in their lives. Give them a sense of the real world and what it's like to work minimum wage and try to live off that. See how they enjoy dealing with entitled, rude people who treat you like you are beneath them.
Dude, I'm actually proud of the first girl wanting to look at Starbucks. It'll be a culture shock for sure, but I bet she'll be a lot better of a rich person if she experiences being a normal person first.
Easy to quit a job you don’t need. She’d last to a lunch break in any customer service. It’s also a green screen and a lie, girl isn’t rich at all (rather, her parents aren’t).
She's also not saying things like 'just buy it if you want it' or 'why do you need a job' or one of those get rich quick things that is mostly just asking for money from your parents.
And she isn’t being super condescending! If you take away the pricey and brand name stuff she’s basically just describing normal teenage things: Being disappointed the car she wanted to buy was sold & she’ll have to wait a year to get one, & feeling that she is wasting her time in school learning things she feels aren’t useful to real life & could be learning an actual job instead.
She may be entirely wrong about working at Starbucks, but hey, at least she wants to try working!
Honestly I think her problems are the same as any teenager, the things she wants are just flashier and more expensive. Yea, she sounds a bit clueless, but I mean, you want what you want and if you can't get it in the time period you were hoping for, it's disappointing, but I also like that she wants to try to work an ordinary job, it may give her some perspective and give her a glimpse of the real world. She's not being a spoiled brat, like "I want an oompa loompa now daddy!" she's just disappointed but willing to wait for the thing she wants, which is more than some people with money.
Even if she only worked a couple hours, at least she'd have more an idea of what the average person has to put up with. Rich kids who don't work end up being AH rich adults who think poor ppl are just lazy and scream at customer service jobs
Loved that 1st creator. 100% agree with her about her assessment of school. It is a complete and total waste of time, horrible teachers and students. To this day I always say I would have gone to on-line school had it been available (lol just missed it). The fact that she wants to learn business with her father is on pointe. The second one is nauseating.
As someone that comes from a pretty affluent but HUMBLE family, I appreciate the fact that she actually wants to work. The part when she said she wanted to go to work with her dad to learn about business is something I can relate to.
My friends family is like that. They put most of their money in real estate and vacation condos; they dress nicely but not like flashy.
But she ridiculed teachers acting like they had nothing to teach her....she's 16! The fact she's so full of herself to think teachers don't have anything to teach her is very conceded. She covering it up saying she wants to go to work with her dad but she thinks she's special and doesn't need to "waste" her time going to school....her own parents don't agree.
@@mmwtcasmalltown I'm not rich or aything but I kinda do relate with how she feels about school. I do better self studying, and if I'm confused I'll just go on my phone and search. Internet made education easier to access in alot of areas. maybe that girl learns better in a different way.
@@mmwtcasmalltown oh please. Let’s not take what she said out of context. She’s saying exactly what I’m sure you said or at least felt when you were in her shoes. She’s sixteen! No sixteen year old is going to say the opposite of what she said.
What does your family do for a living??
the woman who said we open the marriage or we get a divorce, i was like that's manipulative and awful! but then she said he cheated first and she's just doing what he did? honestly she's a better person than me for even thinking about staying married and letting him keep his marriage and his kids and his home. that's actually a good deal because he won't have to fight to see his kids and he won't have to pay child support. AND she's being honest and giving him fair warning that she's going to start seeing other people, and how they move forward is up to him but that point is non-negotiable. i see this as completely fair.
Yeah, that gave me some whiplash. Honestly, if he is going to be watching the kids while she goes out too, it’s better for his relationship with the kids as well. He’s just scared she is going to find someone better and leave him! She knows it wasn’t a one-off that he cheated, she is literally trying to keep some trust in the relationship! He set a new boundary, she decided to match it and set her own. Respect!
I don't think it's inherently awful because what she's saying is either we split, or we just continue doing what you were already doing anyway, but we both do it because why am I the only one that has to be devoted like that? Tonally it does seem pretty nasty. There's 100% more to it, but yeah. Do agree with you though. I just didn't initially think it was awful, since it felt like a response to something deeper.
But good lord is she pissed. Lol
@@slsthewriter1299 maybe I've just heard too many reddit stories on rslash and mark narrations channels where one partner manipulated the other into opening the relationship and that's why I initially thought what she was doing was awful ¯\_.(ツ)._/¯ I definitely changed my mind on that once she said he cheated first though
@@KansasNotTheBand Which is honestly fair enough. xD There's too many stories out there where the former happens.
@@slsthewriter1299 Further in that TikTok, it's revealed he has cheated on her a total of 17 TIMES in their time together.
That part about the emotional affair is really similar to a situation I was in. My husband had an emotional affair, even brought the woman home for me to take care of, because she was having a hard time. I did take care of her, because that's how I'm wired. I did tell him he had to make a decision, because he wanted more from her. He chose me, I'm so lucky. 😒🙄 A couple of years later, she died, and he was really distraught, and we both went to her funeral. I don't know if I'm an idiot or not, but he put me through quite a bit of pain, and I let him. I actually got a knot in my stomach watching that Tiktok - I should have just told him to go, and gotten on with my life.
Oh honey, you really should have! You still can.
@@evelynkirishko5407 Looking back, I really should have, but I was softer back then.
This kinda turned into an essay, so grab a snack and get comfy. 😅
I'm not sure if "softer" is the issue because it can be ridiculously hard to say no and break away from an abusive relationship. Looking in from the outside other people are happy to tell you what you should have done, but they weren't there in the relationship. They weren't the ones getting abused and probably gaslit into being controlled by the other person. I think sometimes emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse because it usually takes more time to develop, you often end up trying to explain to yourself that it isn't how it seems, how you're not actually being abused because there are no marks, others can't see the damage and often don't know to help, and the emotional scars can be deep and last for decades because emotionally abused people often do seek out therapy. I'm not downplaying physical abuse; I have a friend who suffered from physical and emotional abuse from her own mother growing up, and then multiple partners. Her mother still emotionally abuses her and I'm really trying to get her to go no contact because of how much it hurts her and how little she gets from the relationship. She didn't breathe a word of the abuse until we were grown, and I kick myself for not noticing and not helping her get away from her abusive partners at least. In the 90s and 2000s society didn't really address emotional abuse.
A lot of it was generational and we thought that was just how things were. Your parent(s) treat you like crap? Their parent(s) probably did the same to them and so on, or your partner learned it from watching their parents relationship. Boomers like to say, "Well, that's how I was raised! I didn't know any better!" Well, at some point they did know, and they didn't change. Dont lie about it to make yourself feel better. Fortunately now later generations, usually millennials and younger, are realizing that what they went through was not okay and that they refuse to treat their own partners and children that way.
I kinda got off course a little, but I think it's relevant.
Was the woman he cheated on you with someone that he was good friends with before the affair? I could understand him getting upset about a childhood friend who passed, but if it was a coworker, someone he met online, or something like that then he shouldn't go as far as attending the funeral, and if you had felt strong enough to say no then you definitely shouldn't have either. I can understand going along with what your abuser tells you to do because I had an emotionally abusive partner after a childhood of emotional neglect and abuse. Building yourself up afterwards, setting healthy boundaries and not being a doormat, saying no, etc, are difficult things to cultivate when you've never known otherwise. My default response to hearing a complaint about something, even if I wasn't involved at all, is STILL, "I'm sorry," but at least now it's less of an apology for fear of wrongdoing but is instead, "I'm sorry that happened to you," or "I'm sorry you went through that." It changes the whole meaning. You can feel bad for someone else's suffering without taking the blame for it, but it can be pretty difficult to break, and many people who were abused in that way never do get past it.
I hope that you are in a better place, and I'm sorry you went through that. ❤
Open marriage or I’m leaving like her. Honestly when a person cross me it’s hard to let it go. I go into male mode really quick on a guy and make him seem like he’ll never be enough and everything is nagging or annoying
I also lived with the other woman for a bit.. it was horrible, i was young and could not bring myself to leave even though my entire being wanted to, so many times i cried in the bathroom trying to find the courage to leave but it hurt so much that the pain and anxiety of dealing with his shit was somehow easier to bear.. never again, I swore I would never again let someone get to me that way..
At 16 years old, it's the perfect time to learn about how others in the world live. She's at that age to absorb everything and learn about the world and how the other 99% of us actually live. No hate, just the ability to really open her eyes and then think about the world.
Love how open marriage lady nails her man to the wall.. “We’ve been together 10 years, you cheated, now it’s my turn, because you are going to feel what I’m feeling.. and he tries to justify himself? 😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻good for her
the videos on tiktok are insane. Apparently he cheated on her with at least 17 different women and he keeps going "Oh, but you're embarrassing yourself" "You already forgave me for that" "You're supposed to forgive me", like EXCUSE YOU?!
What happens when their CHILDREN SEE IT? Because they will. Incredibly bad parenting.
No. She can still love him after a divorce. You don't get revenge on your partner for cheating. Revenge is only going to cause hurt feelings and teach your children that it's okay to stay with someone who hurt you as long as you get to hurt them back. That is sooo effed up. He did her wrong, apparently a lot, and he doesn't deserve to get to stay with her, and their kids deserve better examples of a healthy relationship.
My parents divorced when I was a teen. They may not romantically love each other anymore, but they're able to still be friends and do all of the holidays and stuff together. They stopped fighting and were able to respect each other at arm's length.
My ex and I split after three years because we were fighting a lot and not happy in the relationship, but he came over the other night to just hang out and catch up as his last delivery that day was nearby. He lives an hour away from me and doesn't get out here a whole lot. We still love each other, but the relationship just didn't work. So now we're just good friends. Honestly, he's putting more effort into our relationship as friends then he did with us being partners.
Sometimes it doesn't pay to cling to a relationship like a life preserver at sea because you're afraid of letting go. Let go. Tread water or float on your back for awhile until a boat comes along, or perhaps there is no boat and you're forced to swim to shore on your own.
And by “Good for her” , I mean good for her in not accepting his gaslighting attempts, his double standards, and his narcissistic dismissal of her as a person with feelings that he has hurt. He didn’t want her to be available to other men, like he made himself available to other women..Men like him don’t see a woman as a person with feelings. Men like him see women as interchangeable property, about like shoes. They’ll try you on, wear you out, slip you off, back into the closet you go, in the dark, while he goes and acquires as many more as he can get.🙄 His game is keeping you in the dark, and seeing how good he is at keeping his collection in the dark, unaware of all the others. This is NOT someone you can successfully coparent with.this is someone who will use your children to try to control you.🤷🏻♀️
@@Just1Nora get out of here with that anti-revenge BS. However, she should’ve just gotten divorced.
honestly, about the rich girl, i feel this is a prime example of "don't like it, don't watch it". she's not doing anything bad to anyone, she doesn't even sound insufferable, she's just sitting there talking about herself and her little problems and i don't see anything wrong with that. yes, other people have bigger problems but there are always people with bigger problems
I don’t know. I grew up in a pretty well off family and one thing I was taught very early on is never talk about how much money you have and you can always tell new money from how much they brag about getting expensive stuff. Also I don’t all the pictures I saw on this video, her house looked super empty 😂😂😂 I wouldn’t be surprised if she was one of these influencer who pretend to have more money by renting a place for a couple of hours just to film a bunch of content. It’s a bit weird and 16 is old enough to learn about manners. No need to send her hate but let’s not pretend that every comment that isn’t positive is “hate” but if you are gonna be a content creator and your content is just complaining about living a privileged life then let’s be honest she’s not an idiot she knows its gonna get people talking. And if you gonna do content you got to expect people talking shit about your content. Especially if your claim to fame is just talking about expensive stuff you buy and not things creative you are doing. People who want everyone to know their name but can’t live with people giving criticism is really funny to me.
Ok I understand feeling some sort of way about the out-of-touch lambo woes, but why would anyone be upset that the first girl wants to work at Starbucks? Teenagers having jobs is good to teach them responsibility to someone other than themself. That’s good for all teenagers regardless of wealth! I’ve seen all these Help Wanted signs; there’s more than enough of those types of jobs to go around
I wondered that too! It's possible the Starbucks where she lives is a really upbeat place and the people working there are genuinely happy with their jobs. In that case, working there probably would be a lot of fun.
As a non-rich person - I too wanted to work at Starbucks when I was younger because it looked like a fun place to work. Sooooo....
Also, I weirdly enjoyed listening to her problems. I'm living vicariously through her okay! lol
Right can’t hate her everyone has there own problems might not be as important to you but if it was there child they would love to hear that that was a problem 😂😭
I thought she was sweet, she wasn’t rude or anything. Didn’t see much content, but she seemed down to earth and def a job in customer service would help her as a business owner
Proud AF of that woman opening the marriage once the cheater was outed.
Yeah, apparently he cheated on her with 17 different women at least
SEVENTEEN??@@susanstohelit3114
She is my new hero lol love her energy
She seemed so sane and reasonable in the face of a crazy making relationship!@@andreafleet
I have never seen a woman offer that level of compromise before, and I have to say it's a very refreshing view and idea! She went "you already decided it was gonna be open for _you_ so now you either accept it's open for _both of us_ OR we call it all off". She's not gonna sit there like a fool being loyal to one man whilst he gets to have an open relationship. So good for her! And if he was smart, he'd take the open marriage and not complain, but he cheated so he's probably dumb enough to get offended at the idea and end up with the divorce, weekend visitation and child support payments rather than having a family and clearly a good woman in his life.
For the death one.... I immediately started giggling because of the circumstance. Not that the girl is dead. But I have a very dark humor and I know and accept I'm going to hell 😂😂
If rich girl wants to work at Starbucks, let her have her own reality check. She may actually enjoy it (working and earning her own money as well)
As for girl saying open marriage or divorce is amazing 😂😂😂
I also laughed😂😂 "that's actually not my problem"😂
Maybe, she should volunteer at a soup kitchen. She would get a practical education in the form of cooking lessons and perhaps learn how tough life is for many people.
@lisathaviu1154 I agree with that as well. She should do both, to see how others have it, and learn to earn her own.
does anyone know their podcast name? looks like a good watch
@@theolee8304closet confessions
A round of applause👏👏 for how many times Charlotte made the statement "Please let's not go send hate to this creator, she's only 16 so let's not send her any hate please bc she may not know any better!"
If for any reason it happens.. At least you'll kno u tried ur best Char!
😉🙃
"cosplaying as a working class person" might be the weirdest phrase I've ever heard - ESPECIALLY when it comes to someone wanting to work...like she's a teenager and getting a "working class" job could be a really good experience for her. Yes, it's fun if there is no financial stress involved, but she'll also make friends with people from different backgrounds, learn the normal people value of a dollar, and gain experience working in customer service - which is humbling/growth fueled for everyone.
It’s really a dumb thing to get mad about. Working class people aren’t the only people with jobs. Some people take the terminology they hear in other situations and inappropriately apply them to one’s like this. She’s out of touch and annoying but she’s not hurting anyone.
I would have definitely laughed. And I agree, it's not the wife's problem that woman died ... and it shouldn't be her husband's either. Him wanting to post a tribute tells me that they never stopped cheating together, and now I'm leaving.
I've been taking ubers to and from work for around 8 months now, and I'm honestly contemplating writing a book about all the craziness and amazing stories i've had with my drivers. But my favorite was the driver who picked me up at 7AM and was READY TO GET THE DRIVE STARTED!! He played a video of his previous rider, to explain that he was a life coach and if I gave him permission, he wanted to record our ride. I wasn't even awake, but I'm always up for adventure, so, sure, He then proceeds to record. "Alright!! We have 22 minutes until our destination! ARE YOU READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE?!?!?!?" and he proceeded to bombard me with questions about my life path. He'd randomly shout things like, " How do you feel? I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!! HOW DO YOU FEEEEL?!" and would make me match his energy and volume level. I got to work and was completely out of spoons, but his enthusiasm, even though i'm not a morning person, still makes me smile sometimes.
She wants to work and she has no problem with a second hand vehicle. Considering her level of privilege, that says a lot about her character. She might actually turn out ok 👍
What bugged me most was her not tying her hair back to do her skin routine lol
Agreed! She was excited about something that fell through. Just because she was born into a wealthy family, doesn't mean she's not allowed to have a normal response of being disappointed.
I couldn't even listen to her, I got so distracted by the 150 spray bottles and creams she used... 😂
@Barking_Schnauzer lol it was a lot
Has no problem with a second hand vehicle? She was complaining about it.
@@empath9814she was complaining that she didn’t get her first choice but happy she got a car
Lets get one thing clear here, she isn't rich, her parents are.
You don’t know that!! 🤷🏻♀️
👏🏻 Thank you! Another person who gets this
Exactly !!
@rikkedandanell2846 actually, we do. It's her parents money. She isn't the one with money.
Am I the only one that thinks the pictures look photoshopped?
I was born to family with multi generational wealth and got a trust fund.
I also went to college, got a few degrees, and invested my money into a private business so now I'm self employed. My money has surpassed my trust fund.
I'm not mad at a teenager for talking about problems that only she can relate to. No one should be.
Your financial problems are not her problem. Neither are the world's problems.
If you don't want to see it then don't.
Not only would I do that for $10K a month, I would chew up the food and feed it to them like a momma bird!!
😂😂
🤣 LMAO I KNOW RIGHT!!!
🤣 At least nobody will know it's me, I don't care. I will do this for a year and have it made for the rest of my life.
Golden goose comment! 😹😹😹
😂😂😂
If you have a literal job, you’re not ‘cosplaying’ the working class. Youre working. No matter how much money you have in the bank. I think it’s actually shockingly impressive she WANTS to work even when she’s obviously not being forced to.
That's what I thought too; she actually wanted to get a job at Starbucks or wherever. I'd rather well off people want to work than not...I do give them a little credit there.
I think even if she only worked there for a month or two she could learn how to budget her own money and learn how to deal with people, both essential life skills. If rich people in general just learned what the general public is like then we'd all be better off
Y’all fr choosing to miss the part where she said “it would be fun” she’s literally cos playing she doesn’t have to work or trying to work to get money herself she thinks it’s “fun” please be fr
Y’all have such a low bar for her! I hope you’re this sympathetic and ready to fall over each other for the regular people in your lives! And not snickering and shit talking when the person holds less power and status. That would give me some faith.
@Uchihasasuk5 lmfao she's 16, of course I have a "low bar" for her. And yes I am this sympathetic to people I actually know. Everyone has a journey in life and it sucks. Being kind costs nothing
That last one almost reminded me of Mama Odie from Princess and the Frog with a dash of Gollum🤣
The podcast ladies talking about the woman who wrote in about her husband's mistress passing away, pretty much summarizes how any of us would feel about the situation...PC or not... Just the way it goes 🤷🏻♀️ 😂
Wow, men be cheating but expecting the wife to stay faithful. I applaud her clearly stating her boundaries and expectations.
I feel like more women should take this approach because honestly it seems like when couples do it the women gets most of the options haha
Not sure anyone should applaud "You hurt, me so I get to hurt you" especially when kids are involved. And revenge sex is definitely the worst reason to start an open relationship.
@@certs743 Would you say the same thing if it was the other way around?! Can't you see that this marriage is already over?! And yes SEX IS IMPORTANT, one of the reasons that people would go for open relationships is because they want more sex with different people. If he's going to be hurt by that let him be who cares?! He's the one in the wrong for starting the bullshit of cheating, breaking the trust and hurting his wife first "especially when the kids are involved". If he doesn't like the sound of that deal, he can simply divorce. He gotta make his choice rather than being greedy for all the options that benefit him and feed his ego that needs to be broken and as Charlotte said "you can't have your cake and eat it too". And this cheater doesn't want to divorce because he wants to keep what he has until he finds "the better one", doesn't want anyone to touch "his supposed to be wife" and doesn't want the open marriage because he perfectly knows that in straight open relationships, the woman will be always getting the better end of that decision since women easily gets more men than men getting women and eventually, she'll find someone who is better and more deserving of a partner to commit to than this piece of trash. If you can't maintain a monogamous relationship and you know that you're going to cheat, don't be in one. And let this man takes some of his own medicine.
@@Blank_Horizon It is amazing how many people use infidelity to justify doing literally the same thing and being just as toxic.
This is not about an open relationship. The fact the wife suddenly out of nowhere wants that suggests they were either already thinking about cheating too and now has the perfect excuse to have her cake and eat it too or they are using it as an excuse for revenge sex. They are both toxic AF.
Most of us learned as children two wrongs don't make a right.
Furthermore getting more people involved in their "open marriage" is just going to bring more people into their toxic chaos.
And for her to claim she loves her husband but in the same breath make it clear revenge is more important than fixing their relationship says alot about her too. It also tells me their relationship is not going to work no matter how many people are involved.
I pity their kids and anyone dumb enough to get involved in their drama.
As far as I am concerned neither of them are capable of a healthy adult relationship and should both be single.
I just wonder about the timing... I mean, he's a pos for cheating, we all agree to that but I feel we lack context to judge... Imagine he cheated 10 years ago, when they barely started together, still it's bad but it's not like cheating after having three kids... And the thing is, they both look like they want a divorce but the perks of having the family, probably housing and money wise so it's hard to judge from that clip alone...
The last one really caught me off guard 😂😂😂 she's amazing and I would hire her too
For the first video, I appreciate that a girl who lives a highly privileged life, wants to work at starbucks. It would teach her to have empathy for others. BUT the fact that she knows she can learn more about the business industry by shadowing her dad shows that she has what it takes to follow in his footsteps and not *actually* spend his money dry.
She strikes me as rich, but not spoiled or entitled. She seems well grounded for a girl who has never had to want for anything and has probably been relatively sheltered all her life so her only problem is that she lacks perspective.
At 16, the only experience she has is the one she lives. She doesn’t know any other experience and that’s not her fault. Belittling her because she was born to advantage is not fair. Additionally, her attitude is in the right place, she is not really upset about buying a used car, because it’s exactly what she wants without the wait. She is annoyed with school because she would rather work and learn her father business. Seems like she’s pretty grounded for her having money. Trust me, having money comes with its own unique set of disadvantages.
Ahhh the excusing entitlement. At 16, I understood there were people my age that had it much better than me and much worse. I worked full time, attended high school, and took college courses. I wasn’t making excuses that “mommy I can’t make my bed cause I’m so sad I didn’t get the $180k car I wanted”. Oh boohoo. There are countless ways she can understand the experiences of others. She’s too entitled to do so. Also having money comes with its own disadvantages. Lol ok, so tell that to a single mom working three jobs, living in a one bedroom apartment in order to keep her kids feed. Just a delusional as that whinnying spoiled teen.
She’s the girl in Clueless - she’s a kid, these are her problems.
@@silveritea I don't think that's the dig you wanted to. elle woods chose to go into a difficult field and she made it. The whole point of clueless is that it doesn't matter how much money her daddy has she's still a smart girl and she can make it on her own. Yea she had to learn but this 16 year old has a better grasp on her life and the future she sees for herself.
Just so you know, these kids are so impressive ! I happen to be awestruck at how these kiddos have handled the last 3years. How many of us would have survived , basically, 3 years of lockdowns,face masks , and isolating? When I was 16, if someone told me that I could graduate and not have to put in the school work, I would have used that time differently. These kids have adapted to what they were given,(life on-line) and they rock it! Take a minute and really talk to them and see how bright they are.
This young lady is clearly well off but is speaking to us as she would talk to her friends. I like her :)
Frankly the girls reading the 💀 mistress post, I’m 💯here for their energy. Not only would I have had to fight the urge to laugh in his face, I would’ve given him permission to post something as I contact a divorce attorney. He won’t have a wife but he will have audacity.
Laughing at someone's death? U r twisted. Selfish and shallow. Forgive ur enemies. The brightest example of how low u r
With the husband having the emotional affair and the girl dying… honestly my reaction would probably be like the girls who read it. Like, okay, that’s sad for her friends and family but don’t expect sympathy from me when she had an affair with my partner. We can’t all be the bigger person during a situation like that, especially when your partner wants to put an RIP post up when they don’t even talk about you or your child… hard pass from me.
Have to admit,I would be cold.
Hubby: Emotional AP died.
Me: So what.
Hubby: I want to post a memorial piece.
Me: Ok,so you want a divorce because you lied to me and you're not over that B. Pack your crap and GTFO.
Yeah, no sympathy to be found here. Especially when it seems the husband is not over her and wants to homage his mistress in social media, like get a clue dude, your wife forgives you and you pull this crap. If I was the wife, I would be dancing on the dead girl's grave.
I wouldn’t be happy about the girl dying and I would completely understand my husband grieving (I have exes I don’t have any lingering romantic feelings for, but I would still feel sad if they died) however, there’s no social media in hell, so what is the point in posting a memorial??? If he wanted to attend her wake/memorial etc I would support it, but why would he have to embarrass me online for?
@@Polishedandperfected she was not an ex, she was someone the husband cheat with while he was married.
@@Polishedandperfectedyou're definitely the bigger person because I don't think I could tolerate him attending the wake/funeral of his mistress. I would see that as just as humiliating as him posting a tribute online. But I seriously give you props if you can handle that. I think id honestly be done if he brought that up to me. I know that sounds awful. But we worked through this issue (so I thought) which is not easy to work through, and now I have to comfort you as you grieve your mistress? 😬 I don't think I have that in me 😬 I wish I could be better about that but I'm pretty sure id see red lol.
LOL I would totally give that Uber driver a huge tip. He was smiling and laughing the whole time, he rigged his car with LED lights to match his silly rap video- those rules are actual Uber rules anyway, so that's a cool way to tell people :D I love it.
That opened marriage one was fire. Honestly I wish all women would do this to the guys who cheated on them. The guy doesn't like it because he already knows his wife is smoking hot. And that she will get way more dues than he ever will women. Dude knows he fucked up big time. In fact I gotta ask does anyone know her number? 😅
I wish I had the guts of the open marriage or divorce lady. I “forgave” the cheater. Turns out he did not respect me for doing that. I should have kicked him out and/or made him watch me go out with other men.
I’ve often thought I’d kick my husband out. Divorce immediately. Now tho, after having kids and finances so entwined, nah. We’ll stay married but it’s an open marriage now. Ground rules about the house and the kids and a lot of discussions before any more big changes plus a budget for dating. While I’m making some dating profiles!
The guy with the Uber id laugh so hard 🤣 5 stars!!
I almost rolled off the couch laughing at the last one where she was reading for the part. But that whole thing was very entertaining. I don't know how you do this on the daily.
Yes - I've been scrolling comments for ages looking for someone who thought that last girl was hilarious. Honestly I'm still giggling and I watched it 10mins ago.
That husband not liking that his wife will sleep around too is hilarious lol
that uber rap was fantastic. love it. 10/10
120 grand a year to sit there and gather shameful stories on people who forget you're there? I'd do it.
AND you don’t have to talk to anyone?!?! ABSO-FREAKIN-LUTELY!!
Sign me up!😂
@@kylebrown5633right?! That was totally my thought
Where do I sign up?
I get to sit there, be furniture, do basically nothing, and get 120k a year? Hell yeah!
Those two ladies laughing over the situation with the passing *HILARIOUS* 😂😂😂
I'm gonna give the first girl some credit for saying that she wants to work, that she wants to learn about business and get a head start. That shows, to me, that her parents have taught her something good. She, as a 16 year old, does NOT deserve the hate, especially since she seems to genuinely want to try. I don't think that she understands why people are upset, genuinely understand, as she grew up this way. So yes, i will give her credit for obviously wanting to learn how to earn her own living
The shaver dad was seriously contemplating how many years for taking the basket and wrapping round his son’s head. The son should be thanking his mum and any other siblings, the grandchildren, etc; the dad’s love for them saved him jail time.
😂😂
LOL when the kid took a few steps away I was thinking he definitely saw that look on his dad's face lol
It doesn't matter how great your life is or how bad your life is - someone else's problems being "worse" than your problems doesn't negate your feelings and your problems.
This is a big problem when you grow up in bad situations and get out of it. You always feel like “well, my parents had it worse” or “it was a lot worse before so I’m not allowed to be upset about x now.” It’s a toxic way of thinking and robs you of joy because you just add guilt and shame on top of the stress from whatever problem you are currently having.
When I have issues stupid issues like that, I call them “first world problems”. Yeah, they are issues and causing me stress and I give myself permission to complain about them while acknowledging that it could so much worse. Can’t find a babysitter to show up so I can work for extra money for savings? First world problem. Can’t find a babysitter to show up so I can work for money to pay my bills? Serious issue that might require a lifestyle change
Hi Charlotte, Dr. Thomas here (huge fan) I’m a criminologist and I just wanted to clarify that he was not speaking to the ankle bracelet. They do not have that high-quality of bracelets. He was speaking to someone on the phone most likely his parole officer while pointing the camera at the ankle bracelet, he was likely trying to bring light to the fact that those are not real-time GPS monitors, they only give intermittent signals with a radius of where he is in general. It’s a little known fact that those are hugely ineffective and thousands of victims die every year because of it. It’s very likely that he was able to evade the police even with the bracelet on.
Oooh the open marriage one, ugh, my ex was poly and I said cool. He started flirting with a bunch of people not fully understanding the poly is when both partners agree with an additional one. So we essentially decided to open the relationship up because he really liked all these other people. This went on for months without me actually looking at anyone I did not go out and make an effort to build myself a harem the way he was trying to do. I was getting kind of lonely and let him know I was going to put myself up on a dating app. He got super upset, pulling the am I not enough for you card. and I was just like bro you burnt a bridge on one of your friendship for your harem ideas and are flirting with six different people. I ended up dumping him and am currently on the dating app looking for people in my area. Think I might have actually found someone who is super nice AND he loves animals!
Good luck! And also absolutely agree. That thing he didn't have anything to do (or doesn't sound to me like that) with poly at all in my opinion. Sure, I admit I don't know much about it, but sure I know some basics to understand that this type of relationship is both-sided, and not only one-sided. Anyway, hope your date will be successful and will be happy in the future
Ugh, this happened to me. My ex-fiance of seven years kept cheating on me, and eventually gave a huge sob story about how he was poly, and he wanted to open the relationship. I relented, and he brought home as many young women he could (he was like 19-20 tryna date 15-16 year olds which I would regularly try to stop because ick). Eventually, I met a person who treated me like an actual human, and we started dating. My ex tried to pull the 'him or me bullshit', and I told him that's not how polyamory works, then left him. Six years later, I'm in a happy and healthy poly relationship, and my wife and boyfriend make everyday so much better. It gets better, babe!!
Men like this are the most jealous
The phrase “You wanted to have your cake, eat it too, and fuck the baker.” Has been living in my head rent free.
In Quebec we say ''le beurre, l'argent du beurre et le cul de la fermière'' which translates to ''the butter, the money from selling the butter and the milkmaid's ass''. I didn't know there was an english version to that saying :P
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We have a similar saying in French : You want the butter, the money for the butter, and the female butter maker's ass. A little vulgar but always efficient 😅 (le beurre, l'argent du beurre et le cul de la crémière).
@@misscrackwoodJ’ai jamais entendu la version complète de ça !
I would take the "furniture" job for that money without a doubt!! I have two kids, and we struggle to make ends meet and also need a car. When you're a parent pride disappears.
Absolute facts!
No it doesn't. How am I supposed to teach my daughter self respect and pride if I don't live by it my self? I'm not doing everything and anything for money.
Lost all sense of shame during labor and delivery 😂 might as well make some money
No amount of money is enough to be demeaned like that. At that point, you might as well be a prostitute, at least they are still seen as persons and not furniture.
@@77yggfe12ujn I understand your perspective and that's something that I want to encourage to my daughter too, I'm just saying that while in need and no other choice this is not the worst thing to do for money. It would be great to be able to afford a car now, maybe a computer for my kids or even new clothes or shoes that aren't thrifted for once.
I love the fact that that girl actually wants to work, despite her having a lot of money. She isn't "cosplaying" at all, I commend her for wanting to gain real world experience.
Because she thinks it’ll be fun shut upppppp be proud of the millions of kids who have no choice but to work and take care of themselves or help out their home not an entitled rich white girl 😌
She wasn't lying about school! If they had online school back when I was in high school, I'd have loved to learn at my own pace, and not have to deal with high school BS!
My ex, we were together 13 years, left me for another woman in a very dramatic fashion that wound up with my MIL pursuing charges on the mistress for car theft and my ex jumped me because he couldn't hit his mom and went to jail. While he was in jail, the mistress was released on bond. She proceeded to do a butt-ton of drugs and drinking and chose to then drive. Down in South Louisiana, there are deep canals that run between opposing lanes of traffic, people dock their shrimp boats, and other boats in some of the canals. She drove off into a canal while high and drowned. I called the jail and asked the chaplain to give him a free call so I could inform him of a death in the family. I told him his new witch was dead and now he had no one and told him Karma is real. 2 months later his mother passed so I called the jail again and told him about her death and told him now he truly had no one left who loved him except himself. Don't feel sorry for him, though. He's abusive in every way imaginable. He got out of prison in 2019, and in 2020, during the pandemic, he spit in a strangers face and went back to prison. I don't hear about him anymore, I moved 4 states away to get as far away from him as I could afford to move.
Wow😮 that's insane! Good on you for moving away from all that! Hope you're doing better!
I think itd be good for her to work at starbucks. Might be a ncie bit of reality check for her to experience and hear about other peoples realities
She wouldn't last 10 minutes
Or buy the Starbucks and learn about ‘business ‘😂
I think the same.
She even said she'd rather spend her time with her dad at his job so she can learn about business. Obviously she wants to be successful in her own right instead of living off her trust fund. So, Obviously her parents are teaching her something right.
Doubt it, when reality of work starts knocking she’ll quit. Thess people are usually soft as hell.
She might also learn that some of the "gossip about unimportant stuff" that her teacher purportedly does is actually USEFUL information. This kid needs a year away from entitlement where nobody knows (or would believe that) her folks are rich but she may already be far too spoiled/indoctrinated for such an experience to do any good. The Starbucks comment just shows how she's already become tone-deaf - she may have been completely sheltered from the kind of world outside her ivory tower and have NO clue about life for the majority of humanity.
The lady laughing is actually really hilarious 😂😂 not the dying part but her whole reaction .. ya I’m going to hell
I love how Charlotte rightfully laughs at these but tries to maintain that she isn't a bad person.
You aren't! We are laughing too!
I would have hired that voice actress on the spot, not for that voice but because they clearly have talent.
She not they😂
I think she SHOULD work at Starbucks because it might expose her to the world that her parents clearly aren't showing her. It's not too late for her to get to understand that not everyone has the issues she has. She doesn't seem like a bad person and it's good that she wants new experiences.
I loved the last bit. The commitment. She definitely needs a part for some cartoon.
I worked with 2 wealthy girls at a restaurant when I was in high school. They were extremely nice and very hard working. Their step sister wasn't as nice and acted entitled. Oddly enough, it was the 2 girls father that was extremely wealthy not the step mom.
6:00 I would do that job for 10k a month if I could.
If someone asked me what my job was I'd say I'm a model/waitor for an artistic high-end restaurant.
If it's demeaning to wear a cheese hat and suit... then what is it to be a hooters girl for drunk idiots?
I'd make sure customers would ask for me and my fondue sombrero every time they came back
Honestly the rich girl has a point. If your dad makes money like that, I'd wanna learn some things from him too 😂
It’s gross how nepotism is bragged about in this country. Her dad probably didn’t work for his money either so she might only learn how to avoid the inheritance tax.
@@kamikazecassidy I just agree with her on the fact that school isn't what it used to be, and work experience might teach her better. Like damn, this is the first time I've heard a nepo baby talking about wanting to work and learn. Other nepo babies could learn from that 😂
@@kamikazecassidyHow do you know that? It takes work and discipline to invest money and run businesses without running them into the ground, so even if he inherited the business or some money, so? It sounds like he works and isn't just sitting around, in which case she could learn plenty about work ethic from him. But seriously, I'm not even convinced this tictok is real. The pictures of her in her house looked photo shopped and too bare, not enough furniture or decor. I think it's a troll.
@@kamikazecassidy jealous much? The father has his daughter set for life. That is any fathers DREAM for their children to be ok and well off. And it is work to manage businesses. Are you saying if my father had 10+ apartments being rent out and is making bank, that it is wrong for the father to teach his child to do the same? Going to school IS a waste. I learned practically nothing from school, and I had great grades in all grades as well as college. college is an absolute JOKE. Especially now. I honestly learned more just reading and doing my own research than the 22 or whatever years it was being in schools. Not to mention when you do your own research, you can weed out the biased articles and only look for truth. Schools put what they want in their curriculum, and its usually leaning in one direction and very biased. College is only worth it if you want to be a doctor, a lawyer, maybe business. I'd do anything to have an opportunity like this young lady. If I was the father i'd want my child to be the boss, not be a wage slave his/her entire life. I wish I were her... and I am sure you wish that too. But getting angry over someone having this amount of luck to be born into a wealthy family is silly.
To literally everyone. My comment said nothing about defending schools 🙄 I just think it’s sad how much nepotism is rewarded when it very potentially hasn’t been earned. Notice nothing I said was in absolutes. Breathe, people. Go touch grass.
7:43 this was very wholesome & clear! No one can say they didn’t know the 5 rules
Sometimes people deal with death with hysterical laughter. It doesn't even necessarily mean that they don't feel sad. Of course this is a given that she really isn't grief stricken.
Honestly, the best thing for a rich kid is to experience the same type of work that the working class has to deal with. She is never going to understand the struggles that other people face if she remains so disconnected from the real world.
How is she disconnected? She is just saying that there are some up and downs but it's fine and her saying she is wanting to work is amazing, and the school thing is true
@@crossanddream2 disconnected in that she doesn't understand the struggles of the average person because she has never experienced a life with responsibilities other than school. I actually think it's great that she wants to work, and wish that more young people in her family's tax bracket were motivated to do the same.
As a 16 year old slapped in the face with reality for 90% of the population( yep, the wage gap is that extensive) , good luck dealing with the fact that people die for want of what the cost of your silly life style is. Your skin care routine?! At 16?! The fact that so many people are ok with this is frightening. There is a finite amount of wealth. The more one has , the less many have. I’m not bashing a 16 year old, she’s obviously not living in the reality most HAVE to. But her reality is so delusional, it allows the continuance of the obscene growth of wealth and the downward spiral of most Americans.
Hell to the No about social media tribute to a woman he cheated on his wife with! He's got some nerve even brining it up to begin with. 🤬🤬🤬🤬
7:35 Hey that was low-key lit tho lol 😆
I just want to say that fresh&fits commitment to never admitting that they’re the problem is the only consistency they’ve shown so far. At least the crop circles are gone now
That may be, but I don't think removing their platform on YT will help. Freedom of speech also means speech you dont agree with.
If you are right about them, than de-platforming them will only make people feel sorry for them!
I’ve never heard of them lol
@@phobos_0935 they're not even deplatformed tho ?
From what he said all that happened is they got their partnership taken away aka money.
Sure freedom of speech all ya want but that doesn't mean youtube has to pay you for it, s what we call consequences for our own actions.
@phobos_0935 YT is a private company and is not bound by the 1st amendment. Floppin fat can go get bent.
@@phobos_0935That kind of speech on a private platform has consequences. Our right to free speech pertains to being able to disagree with our government. Private business can accept or deny objectionable speech.
The husband might wear the pants. But the wife that says their going to have an open marriage definetly controls the zipper. She's also probably thinking "sigh" It's hard to soar like an eagle when your husband acts like a turkey.
That first clip was chaos. Such a ramble.
despite the fact that she's super rich and doesn't need to work, and the fact that she thinks it will be "fun" to work, it's admirable that she wants to and i do think that experience will teach her a lot. i've heard a lot of people say "everyone should have to work in retail or the service industry at some point in their life" and i kind of agree. i agreed even before i ever had a job. i didn't need a job in either industry to teach me how to treat people like human beings, which i believe is what that quote means, but i do think it's a good life experience that everyone needs. also i'm starting a new job (coincidentally at starbucks lol) on friday :)
Good luck at your new job!
@@dubblebubbletoilandtrouble6646 thank you! ☺️
Congrats! It's a great place to work! I hope you have a wonderful experience and make the best out of it! 😊
@13:31 I loved how he followed 'saved my life' with 'my girl makes s/wiches now' -like are the two related? 🤣
The most affluent of teens I have known had good work ethic, were not ashamed of working entry level jobs, and were beyond kind.
Now whenever I hear someone call a kid spoiled, I correct them and say, you mean abused. A spoiled child is missing out on some sort of love, guidance, attention.
The kids I’ve seen who’s parents gave them lots of attention and were treated with care and respect did not turn out “spoiled” or “sensitive” they came out hard working and caring and emulated how they were treated when interacting with other people.
Be kind ppl.
The girl does need to understand that the rest of the world wouldn't appreciate her 'problems'. Her parents should be teaching her that. But, no reason to hate on a child 😂
Right! It’s not the baby’s fault she lives a life of luxury and problemless problems😂
She’s not even saying those are her problems. Just her ups and downs. There’s literally nothing wrong with what she said. That’s just her life. No only that but she is quite self aware on her future and her opportunities. Her want to work a job will also give her experience that she needs to know how we experience life.
@@ladycobrana852 didn't say there was. What I am saying is... say she takes a job at Starbucks. While shooting the shit at work with people who clearly don't own the company, someone asks her 'how's it going'? It might be in poor taste for her to say, 'Ugh, have to wait a year for my lambo'. My point (missed) is that I'm hoping her parents are teaching her that what she has is a blessing and that 99% of the world does not have it 😊
I’m only 90 seconds in and I’m already thinking “How much crap is she putting on her face?!” I can almost hear acne knocking at my front door if I tried that skincare routine! 😨
My grandson graduated at 16 by doing his last two years of HS in one year on-line. He just turned 21 and has had a full-time job 5 years at the same place and been able to move up in this job. He's happy and responsible and I'm so proud of him ❤.
I don't have much issue with the first girl. The life she's had is the one she knows and it's actually nice to see a rich kid for once to want to actually work, even if it's at Starbucks or her dad's business, and I think that's commendable. Yes, she was born rich, but she's seems to be learning to be responsible with what she's been given =)
My ex asked to open our marriage, which I was fine with. He got super pissed off when I was the only one getting neck deep in ladies and he was home alone 😅
SAME!! He kept pushing for threesomes with the women I dated, but none of them wanted him either. I should've taken that as a sign.🫠
I worked at Starbucks for six years, and I can tell you that if that first girl got hired, she would probably be gone after one shift. But that’s a huge if, because we also have to assume that she got an interview in the first place. Some managers won’t look at your application if your availability is so limited. It’s not worth it putting in that much time and money to train you, when you only want to work two days a week for four hours, and neither of those days are weekends.
You’re like one of the few people that have the ability to consider this from different angles. Maybe she’ll make it maybe she won’t but the height of the praise she is getting for doing something that millions of people have no choice but to do everyday is crazy
@@Uchihasasuk5 thank you. I worked with a lot of teenagers over the years, and for the most part they understood that this is a job, and you have to actually work. There were a few that just didn’t seem to understand no matter how many times I told them to get off their phones. Also don’t call my job “fun.” That’s people’s livelihoods. You can say, “I have a fun job,” but that doesn’t make the job itself fun. I feel like if I was her parents and she said this to me, I’d be like, “okay you want to work for ‘fun.’ How about we raid the stakes.” Like if she wants to do online school fine, but when she’s not “at school,” she’s working. She has to find a job where she can either walk to, or take public transportation, because she’s not driving a Lamborghini to that, and also she’s not getting a car until she values it. She has one month, and after that any money she makes from her job is how she pays for the things she wants. Now if she still thought the idea of having a job was, “fun,” I’d be impressed.
Those two women reacting had me dead. Her accent was awesome. 😂
For the one where the guy had the emotional affair then wanted to post something online: if he was okay with having an affair of any kind, than I feel like he could have some social media his wife doesn't know about. She might say it's not okay to post anything, but who's to say he won't post it on an account she isn't aware of? That's just my thought though.
We are definitely struggling right now but I have no issues with other people having money if they worked for it. We work hard for ours and even though we struggle to pay rent and get groceries, I know there are people who might look at our life and wish they had it. I mean…we have a roof over our heads, beds to sleep in, wonderful kids, happily married since 1999, cats, a turtle…etc. I think being grateful for what you have regardless of how much is what’s important. God has truly blessed us!
The last clip is the funniest. This girl does have a talent. She is cute and talented.
A job where I get to just stand with food on me and get paid?! Absolutely. Getting rich people sick would just be a bonus 🤩
Omg yes. I’d NEVER take a sick day unless I couldn’t leave the bathroom. Tonsillitis? Sinus infection? I’m sharing the love 😂
That last one never gets old to me lmao that girl is hilarious 😂
That first girl, she seems like she would actually go out and work. Like a lot of teens, she didn't school, but the fact that she suggested going to work (instead of school) with her dad and learning from him. To me at least, that says a lot. Most other "Privileged" videos, they're not talking about working, more whining then anything else
It is a very dark day here where I live. Charlotte's bright light and sense of humour always helps ♥️
this person was first!
She is definitely a light on a dark day right? hope you get through your troubles friend
I hope your day gets better ❤
if it's dark just turn on the light switch or light a candle 🤓
@@me2ontube Smoke from all the fires have darkened the sky, and am very worried for all those who have fled and have lost so much.
I'm glad you watch and react to these so I know what I´m not missing.
That girl is using more face products in one morning than I've used in my entire 45 years.
Lil girl who got upset about not getting her car: Listen, we've all been in a situation where we've been really looking forward to something and it didn't happen how we thought. We have all been crushingly disappointed and felt bad for a while, even though there were other solutions. It's about perspective and she has every right to be upset, especially as a 16 year old who is still going through so much emotional development.
LIVING for the Uber dude! Pure Hilarity and brilliance!