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You should talk about how to describe our innerworlds to others. Even further so as to understand how to let them come into it with us to take the journey together.
I'm definitely an Introvert, can't do with talking 'broken biscuits' i need good intelligent conversation, cannot abide Loud people who are 'full' of themselves! 😬
I am an introvert and I dislike people telling me I need to get out and do things. I like being alone and staying home. Get out of your comfort zone they say. Theres nothing wrong with my comfort zone I like it.
I so agree with you. It actually pisses me off when someone does that, like my life can’t be good if I’m not getting out there and ‘doing something’. It’s judgy and also tells me low key that they have issues with their own life…
Group chat is my worse. My family has a group chat. My sister made the group and I couldnt stand it. They expect me to contribute in a conversation. I had to leave the group.
I'm an introvert who HATES to be around bossy, loud, attention seeking people. unfortunately I have a close family member like this and I can't stand to be anywhere around her. I've gritted my teeth and bared it for years. it's become too much lately
It's the same thing with me i too have a family member similar to my age that just wants me to do what he likes and takes away all my private time, i too am tired of facing him form years and now i am almost going to cut him off and i recommend that you too do it it's better for yourself to be away from those kind of people and try being with people who are more like you
I am an extrovert. What if it is just their personality? One thing about extroverts is sometimes we tend to be more tolerant and understanding and patient with people that get loud. That is not to say that even as an extrovert that I do not get annoyed with really loud extroverts. Even extroverts have varying degrees of being extroverted.
We as introverts love our space and solitude. We're more creative and productive this way. We especially don't like other people's problems jumping in line of the personal problems we already have. We refuse to let outsiders own or assess our situations. We hate crowds because it's not within us to be part of any herd. We don't want to fit in or prove anything with "cliques or entourages" because we "know" we don't have to. We prefer to be our own leader. We are careful when accepting suggestions but not good when it comes to following others. We prefer being around people who don't need to be told what to do. Everyone be careful out there!
Im an introvert too. and I LOVE solitude. My mom and my sister usually go to my grandmas like everyday and they stay really late, especially during the pandemic. My mom likes going there because she enjoys watching Finding your Roots, and SNL, or Call of the midwife. Anyway, thats great because I enjoy having the house to myself. I function a lot better and I don't have to worry about a curfew that much, as I enjoy going to the boat ramp or taking walks on the bike path. And I can focus a lot better on writing my books. And nobody bothers me. Plus I can shout, sing, voice act, repeat lines from movies, and talk to my self. I do pace around the living room a lot, contemplating about my anxieties, squeamishness, and about my stories I write, as my room is too small for that. Yup, its really a whole lot of fun. My cousin got a dog probably a week ago, and she often asks my sister to watch it while she off working. And my sisters happy about it. So she packs her stuff and goes to hang out in her apartment to watch the dog. At first my mom was a little annoyed because this dog business cuts into their time of going to her parents house. Sometimes my cousin doesn't come back from work until really late and at that point my mom and sister just decide not to go. Granted, there were quite a few times they didn't go to grandmas. But that that was a once in a while kind of thing. On top of that theres been small family conflict at my grandparents house recently. And my mom hasn't been going there much. I don't really mind my sister baby-sitting my cousins dog, because she likes being in her apartment, and she would stay there literally all day and night if she had the option. While she's doing that mom would be still going to her parents house and I get to have the house to my self. Anyway Im super pissed by this, because for some reason I have trouble functioning as well as Im used too when my family is home. Not to mention they watch tv loudly and they can often hear what i'm saying in my room. And I don't really feel like going out for walks at night when there home. I don't feel like telling this to my family because I'm afraid it might make me come off as being whinny and selfish. Besides being an introvert, Im more reserved and don't express myself at full capacity very often. I really hope this doesn't become a regular thing.
I don't know I work with an introvert at a work station where it is just me and him all day long and he is the farthest thing from being his own leader. Sure he acts like he doesn't want to talk and and all that crap and doesn't want to hear about anybody's problems unless this dip shit has something going on then he thinks that everybody should just stop what they are doing and give him our undivided attention and basically hold his little hand and walk him through life instead of learning things on his own like the rest of us had to do and when it comes to doing things he is always looking to me for advice and how to do things even simple tasks. If I don't tell him how to do it he will leave the work station and go to another one and ask somebody there. He is very annoying and everybody hates him. I hate that I am the one who had to get stuck working with this moron. He can't think for himself his parents do everything for him and he is in his thirties that sure as heck doesn't sound like any kind of a born leader to me. If it weren't for other people being there to wipe his ass and change his diapers he just be a big blubbering mess and wouldn't know anything.
What I don't like is when people ask me why I'm so Quiet 🤐🤫. What these people don't understand is that I only Speak 🙊🗣️ when I have something to say . Most of the Time I just like to sit there and Listen 👂 to what others are saying
Im a introvert and I profusely hate when ppl drop by my house unexpectedly. I like being alone and try to limit as much social interaction because it drains me. Im married to a extrovert who knows how i am and how i feel but nonetheless he still just invites ppl into our home without even asking me or consider how it affects me. I also hate loud noises so much so it triggers my anxiety and it takes hours for me to to recover. Frankly, I dont like being around anyone outside of my small tribe. I especially hate being around loud, overbearing extroverts who think they can change how i am.
Drop-bys are inconsiderate. I may be undressed, Or just got out of the shower, or maybe I already have company, or I'm in a hurry to leave for an appointment.
My husband invites the family to stay and this summer it’s three weeks long. After a week I went ballistic; a full rage. I keep telling him the stay needs to be limited (5-7 days) but to him and them it sends an ‘unwelcoming’ message. For me, it was like I was suffocating and the rage just erupted. Husband wasn’t happy, what to say… I’ve got two weeks left on this visit. It feels like I am being punished. I just want my space back.
Introverts aren't stuck up, antisocial, we just think differently. I'm definitely one. Yes, everyday pressure can exhaust us to where we just don't "want" to interact, would rather go home, call it a day, meditate, read, however I like music in my alone time. & yes, we are confident, independent & VALUE ourselves, we just happen to care to much. I'm definitely more attracted to Introverts as well. More mysterious & shy/quiet is a turn on.
Right! Something to consider is that human nature factor of others complaining about an introvert, possibly due to their own subconscious jealousy. Tricky arenas of the mind/soul/body connections.
@@josephcaldwell1513 Welll I'm an introvert. Lol. Definitely not boring, just cautious & we aren't into messy drama, don't like negativity. Misery loves company. I say that about my family all the time. Lol. I'm the black 🐑 & definitely ok with that, bc good God all mighty blessed me with that above. Lol. 🙏
I'm an introvert and I hate it when people expect a quick answer and I end up stammering over my words. I hate the fact that it's always the same people who expect a quick response every time. Another thing I can't stand is small talk. I think it's a waste of time.
I’m quiet and don’t talk very much with groups of people. I’m an observer in life and can see fake people very easily. Psychology is very important to me. I like watching people and try to figure out who they truly are. I’m misunderstood a lot.
@@erwinvangrinsven9345 you clearly don't understand how this introvertness works. Also when your house is on fire and the caller finds you not answering, don't you think they would come knock on your door or something?
I am an introvert. What I had the most is gossip and nebby people. If I want you to know something I'll tell you. Otherwise mind your own business. I guess I'm a private introvert. Does anyone else feel this way?
I'm an introvert. Don't like being around lots of people. I don't like 'having' to chat. Don't mind phone calls so much because I can say goodbye when I want.
I hate when people just stop by. Don't tell you they're coming, I notice as I get older and kids gone, husband dead, I I need a drink to be around some people. It's getting harder to get away from people. People want to talk to me everyday. I hate it. Disconnect my phone sometimes, they don't understand. It is stressful.
Pretend you have a cold. Put your coat on and pretend you're going out. Get a dog who hates people. Move house with no forwarding address. The options are limitless 😊
Another thing about introverts is we hate being pushed to do things.....we need our space...time.....to be fully focused on things......for me i can't handle pressure....it makes my brain go crazy.....even if we are to have a conversation don't mount pressures on me it affects my brain .......
People never cease to disappoint me. I don't have patience for the drama they bring with them. I'm perfectly happy being introverted. I'm Certainly more at peace alone than I would be if there were people in my life.
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To fit in, I have gone to New Years' Eve parties with large numbers of people. This is an Introvert's worse nightmare. I know now to just say no and stay true to myself.
Once you learn to be selfish, saying no get easier. People can't even call me selfish because they'd be hypocrites. I just let it be clearly known that I have boundaries and refuse to have them broken. And if you break them then it goes in my memory bank of how I deal with you, if I continue to deal with you.
I'm an introvert and I love to sit back and watch and analyze others. I dislike large crowds. As far as friends are concerned, I prefer one on one close knit who listens and understand me.
i recognize myself in so many ways in all these comments... good to know i'm not alone in this case... good to know i'm not a freak or a crazy person, but just...simply human :)
We allso like to be alone .we use our alone time to study nature.sharpen our descernment wisdom.knowledge an understand .introvert are real people but it take time to understand them.
@@somewhereoutthere8405 what bro.......😂 What is the purpose of solitude? Our “alone time” also allows us time to plot how NOT to kill the vast majority of humanity.. this can't be the at least real anwser.....because most dangerous serial killer lived alone time ....dude
I have a random question for introverts back when they were kids if they can remember at all; by any chance did one of your parents ever do something like hand you the phone with out warning and tell you that one of your adult relatives was on it,thus forcing you to talk to either grandma or grandpa about how school was going?
God YES ! My Mother even tried it when I was in my early 50’s ! She was calling to me and I was in her garage. I heard her opening the door and dove behind her car and waited it out till I was sure the phone call had ended. She asked me if I heard her calling me and I said no 😂
Part of why I HATE Mondays is the small talk about weekends. Most people don't do anything exciting, so most people don't actually care how everyone's weekend went. Its just asked to waste time in the stupid greeting ritual humans perform every week. So annoying.
I hate when people come right up in my face and start asking all sorts of personal questions. I'm an introvert and a misanthrope since the age of 18 when it dawned on me how awful people are.
i was told that i can only be very successful if meet a lot of people, make a lot of relationship, non stop trying and challenging myself to do the things that i couldn't do. i got very offended because it literally mean that us introvert people couldn't achieve success if we can't be on par with the extroverts when it comes to socializing and making relationship connections. us introvert can be very successful too without having those so called connection. I hated the society always painted introverts who are quiet and isolated as being a loser.
OMG, yes! Our team lead is an extrovert and has achieved his higher position by being a great presenter and performer but not having enough output workwise to justify it. He was constantly pushing me (introvert) and stating I won’t go far unless I change to be more like him. He’s constantly networking but not getting things done. This can only go so far and he’s maxing out his strategy. While I’m succeeding my way, my introverted way.
I would refer to this as a form politicking and manipulation of people around you to gain success. In the current climate, our culture values bragging rights and an in your face attitude. In Eastern cultures humility and being soft spoken, was a trait of being considerate.
What gets me we introverts are hired to do a task. The extrovert thinks we’re there to nurture their social needs. That’s why we leave the organization it’s not because of the work, it’s because of the people.
My supervisor always call out the quiet/shy employees when we have the kind of job where we don’t talk to people throughout the day. She’s an idiot. I consider it harassing.
Our extrovert team lead has singled me (introverted) out for his special brand of “development”. Recently had several discussions with our bigger boss to address this as it became harassing.
Calling all introverts! Brace yourselves for "10 Things Introverts Extremely Hate"! I can already feel the anticipation building. Finally, someone's addressing the misconceptions and frustrations we face on a daily basis. Get ready to nod your head in agreement and let out a collective "Yes, that's so true!" It's time to debunk those introvert stereotypes once and for all. Let's dive in and show the world what we're made of!
My Utopia would be living in a hobbit house and having ZERO connection with people at all…unless on my terms - when I could leave their company at the drop of a hat and not hurt their feelings. I also LOVED Lockdown. I do not use my phone unless absolutely necessary and I do plan for having to take or make any calls! I am an empath. I was born this way and will die this way. I find extroverts and other folk as “weird” as they find me. Noise and chaos drive me insane and sap my energy within minutes and panic is a norm for me. I am NOT abnormal - just reserved, quiet, private and full of love for many people and many lovely things in our world.
@@samanthasims7123 There are different grades of introversion. I forgot that. I suspect my level of introversion is rather on the high end of the scale. This semi-anonymous UA-cam rant is the only online existence I have online and the only vague version of socialising I do, if it can be considered true social interaction.
@@samanthasims7123 By the way, the last social function I attended was on the 8th of August 2000. It was a fair. I enjoyed the rides and games. I hated the enormous amount of people. It was there I found out my girlfriend and my, "friends," were a bunch of liars, backstabbers, and users. My girlfriend even admitted it. There is no chance of anything like that every happening to me again, not even 1%. This is why I attend no social functions, will never get a girlfriend again, nor ever make friends again. Nothing is worth what I went through happening again.
I thought it was just me who hated phone calls and the panic everytime my phone rings. Anytime time I tell my friends that phone calls low-key make me anxious, they find it weird/funny. I'm just realising I have too many extroverted friends😂😂
As an introvert i also hate when Im having a panic atac or anxiety and I stutter I don't like to be in the spot light I want to stay home but there are people that don't understand that and force me to go out and do things
I'm an introvert but I don't mind when people interrupt me when I'm talking because, to me, it means they are into the conversation and I'm not boring them to tears.
As an extrovert I can tell you that it might be due to their enthusiasm. I know there are times where I might interrupt but it is only because I am enthusiastic to share my insights because I am confident that the introverted person I am talking to will enjoy and appreciate those insights.
The part of change of plans I can relate to. Specialy with Dr.s appointments. I get happy when the clinic cancels my appointments. Then again it has to be rescheduled. I don't like my daily routine to be disturbed. I can relate to taking phone calls, also same with texts.
I know that as a deep introvert, I hate it when people say, “Oh I hate people, so I’m an introvert” knowing that there is no correlation, and only reinforcing bad stereotypes.
I'm so happy I came across this video because I didn't realise how much of an introvert I am...I was just always conflicted by how I love people yet I enjoy my solitude. I felt bad for loathing last minute guests, long phone calls and unsolicited facetime😅this is so important to share with people in your life if you're an introvert too so that they understand you better.
The one about being spontaneous is not exactly true. Things that happen like suddenly taking off with your partner for a drive in the Miata and overnight stay somewhere that wasn't planned out in advance can be cool. It just has to be "our partner/best friends/or our own" sudden idea that mean something intimate or special to us. We just don't like having to adapt instantly to changes in group plans/ideas that involve the opinions and lifestyles of MANY people. We don't like the idea of people being unhappy even though they deal with it on the surface just fine. Tiny very tight knit group spontaneous is fine.
I don't like last minute things. I plan things that i want to do. Like going somewhere. I don't like phone calls as well. I like to be oraganize, I'm not a phone person. I'm a highly sensitive introvert.
Completely true about being uncomfortable not knowing what’s going to happen in different situations. It feels out of control and causes major anxiety. I feel that for sure. Then your mind makes up scenarios of all the things that could happen.
I finally found a video that understands me and can explain EXACTLY how I feel. I was even finishing some of the sentences before the narrator. My top 5 of these 10 are 1.talking on the phone, 2.loud noises (and especially getting overwhelmed easily) 3.large crowds (for me, any group larger than 3 people) 4.being forced to give an immediate response, and 5.small talk. Thank you so much for validating what I feel. It is wonderful to know that there are others out there who understand.
The interrupting in conversation is something I dislike but I've been forcing myself to wait, listen, and then say what I wanted to say earlier after they're done talking. It's better to at least speak than to say nothing. It's something I notice people do not intend to interrupt, it's a lot of times it's a mistake, and they think you're done speaking even if you were just trying to think what to say and take a long pause. It's something I've heard if you get interrupted all the time, some people may see that as a form of weakness, and will try to abuse it. If do wait and say wanted you to say, people will see you're confident and patient, and that you listen to what they are saying. I try to do this now, it may work all the time, but when it does it feels good.
I’m an introvert but I prefer phone calls because texting takes way too much time and extra energy. But I only talk to people who are close to me on the phone most of the time.
I am an introvert and I don't mind short calls to my friends but not family. Large groups of people, in a mall or grocery store, gives me an anxiety attack
I am easily overwhelmed. Arguing people, even if I don't know the people, make me feel crazy. Like, I could NEVER watch Jerry Springer. I do enjoy talking to people, but I love being at home! Concerts were always hard to take. Crowded malls, or any crowded store (Walmart, Target) can make me want to jump out of my skin.
l am not introvert but i enjoyed 2020 because l explored and reconnected to myself in painting that i never did before.. lt was a gift to realise who l was..
I'm introvert. Happy to be here. Now I understand myself why I'm being like this all along. Inevitably I have to make sacrifices for getting along with other people but of course I do not impose these sacrifices upon other introverted people.
My fellow introverts; Chances are, as far as extroverts r concerned, wese(introverts) are "not where the action is". And That's one ten-fold. And we're Nobody to mess with neither.
Introverts needs their time and to be able to think well..... our brain and minds are different from extroverts. ...we hate being pushed to talks....just leave us alone to think and we'd talk with you
I also know that as an introvert, I don’t like talking to a lot of people mainly because I know they will engage in small talk, which I think is a waste of time.
Good video! As an introvert myself, I''ve started a podcast to address the many misconceptions about introversion and to spread more awareness about introverted personalities.
⭐💜💟 Brilliant. You "nailed it." I am an introvert with P.T.S.D. and "a language processing disorder." I don't "do" telephone voicemail. 💜💟💜💟 I very much like being an "introvert"; rather than feeling "like a freak of nature." 💜 Thank You.
Am currently living as an introvert and i tend to trust people easily.......i don't really get along with people well cos most of my time am always alone....and some people call it pride..... so thankful i now have my self esteem to talk to people
Superficial daily relationships like that between co workers is a hot bed for personal information leverage. What ever you say will be repeated and twisted especially if it potentially could have value to the person you are speaking to even if simply reflecting or expressing an opinion. So I've learned after decades of self induced social pain to keep my mouth shut at work. If someone has it out for you, juicy tidbits, even when transmitted well outside the context of its original intent, can put your livelihood in jeopardy especially if "sharing" will boost themselves an attack boy brownie point. Shallow suck ups, two faced bullies, and passive aggressive ogres are everywhere.
Introvert here. You NAILED it on every point!!!!! One thing I would add is I am very literal, that is I take what you are saying 90% literally. Which can be very disheartening when I realize someone is playing with me. I’m 68 yo and have basically given up on socializing or trying to have friends. It’s heartbreaking when you think you finally might have a friend, then you find out they’re NOT.
Phone calls: I keep my phone on silent. If I notice a phone call coming in, I usually ignore it. If it's important to them, they can leave a voicemail. If they don't, I assume it wasn't important. If they do leave a VM and they are family, I call them back.
There's also the pause to gather thoughts that so many people treat as the end, and then it looks like the introvert is interrupting the other person when it comes to finishing their thought.
Kittos. Overwhelming is an understatement. I can't handle being in or close to large groups or loud environments. It's physically painful and draining so I treat concerts, theaters and the like as a disease. As to people that won't stop talking and actually listen, 3 strikes and I walk away. My sincere thanks. For years I thought it was the result of my injuries but now I understand why things are sometimes emotionaly overwhelming to the point of serious fatigue.
I hate weddings or any social gathering where dancing is in the equation. There's always that one a-hole that has to preassure you to "get out there". I don't dance. Live with it.
As a primarily introverted person, I must say that this is the VERY BEST video on the topic I have ever seen! Almost all of these are things I hate. The only thing I would change about the video is where they have the introverts looking sad most of time. In a couple of spots that is properly applied, but as an introvert I am generally not sad or depressed. The video, but not audio, here would make you think that introverts are sad. The audio is pretty much spot on about how I feel.
This seems like an overlap between introversion and autism. I am both a highly sensitive introverted autistic. It’s extremely difficult to start conversations and I never know what to talk about. I have to wait for someone else to start or I stay quiet. I also have trouble reading body language and other social cues. I 100% enjoy being alone although I still desire a relationship, but It’s difficult to emotionally connect with others.
I've always thought that anxiety was the cause for me hating the phone. It turns out that is the other way around. No wonder my stomach does a summersault everytime my phone rings, and lately it's closer to a panic attack. Now I'll work on that from another perspective. Thanks!
INTJ Sigma. The big quiet guy in the booth in the back of the restaurant. Very selective about the company I keep. Interesting past. Over and over - waitress ignores me like I don't exist. Until Thanksgiving or Easter or Christmas day, when every booth is full. Then she shrieks at you across the room "hey, James, were you ever in the Army?" Try describing a career in a military intelligence unit out loud. Have a blunt instrument handy. Just do not attract attention to an introvert. It's an antagonistic act.
Being an introvert, I'm keen to get your thoughts both from introverts and extroverts. 1- Question to Introverts: To avoid being misinterpreted, have you told at a workplace setting that you're an introvert? If so, did it help you? 2- Question to Extroverts: Do you think if one of your work colleagues told you that he/she is an introvert, what would you have thoughts about it and do you think it would have helped your relation?
I am an extrovert. I do feel that being open about being an introvert would help the relation. It would help me to know how to interact with and approach that person. Most extroverts such as myself want the introvert to be as comfortable as possible and to be themself. In the workplace though there are too many other dynamics besides extrovert and introvert when it comes to how to deal with coworkers. It is way more complex per se. Especially depending on the type of job, profession or occupation. I feel that the extrovert/introvert dynamic might be more paramount working in fast food rather than a more professional setting where personalities take backseat to the more professional setting of the occupation.
As an introvert myself, i greatly appreciate how well this video was created. I frequently use it as a tool to help my friends and family gain a better understanding
As an Introvert, I hate people that can not mind thier own Business and barge in my life to dismantle it, because they don't accept nor respect boundries or how I live my life. They Claim to mean well, but they don't realize how much they hurt me. Nor do they listen to the end. These people are called Extroverts. Not all, are this bad, unfortunatly the Most I have met are exactly like this, and had me screaming at them. Afterwards I Ghost them, and they have never heard or seen me again.
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You should talk about how to describe our innerworlds to others. Even further so as to understand how to let them come into it with us to take the journey together.
I'm definitely an Introvert, can't do with talking 'broken biscuits' i need good intelligent conversation, cannot abide Loud people who are 'full' of themselves! 😬
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Hi from Australia 🇦🇺 I totally agree with you! I never got Covid either! It was definately a relief like you said 😂😅❤
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I'm a hardcore introvert . What I hate the most is fake people .
Very glad to see I'm not alone
@@miketesla8550 You are not alone . We stand together .
I prefer real hate over fake love any day. At least you know where you stand, opposed to the fake ones smiling & lying in your face.
@@miketesla8550 me too , I hate fakes
It's the inauthenticity for me.
I am an introvert and I dislike people telling me I need to get out and do things. I like being alone and staying home. Get out of your comfort zone they say. Theres nothing wrong with my comfort zone I like it.
I am an introvert and I dislike people ….the end ..
Every time I get out of my comfort zone, I hate it, and then go back to my comfort zone
I so agree with you. It actually pisses me off when someone does that, like my life can’t be good if I’m not getting out there and ‘doing something’. It’s judgy and also tells me low key that they have issues with their own life…
I'm an introvert as well. I don't like too many people. I like small groups. I hate phone calls. I hate being interrupted
I hate being interrupted too.
Phone call, oh God they scare me most of the time.
Group chat is my worse. My family has a group chat. My sister made the group and I couldnt stand it. They expect me to contribute in a conversation. I had to leave the group.
I am this way too.
I’m the same 💯‼️
I'm an introvert who HATES to be around bossy, loud, attention seeking people. unfortunately I have a close family member like this and I can't stand to be anywhere around her. I've gritted my teeth and bared it for years. it's become too much lately
It's the same thing with me i too have a family member similar to my age that just wants me to do what he likes and takes away all my private time, i too am tired of facing him form years and now i am almost going to cut him off and i recommend that you too do it it's better for yourself to be away from those kind of people and try being with people who are more like you
I feel like those loud relative suck enegy out of me.
I am an extrovert. What if it is just their personality? One thing about extroverts is sometimes we tend to be more tolerant and understanding and patient with people that get loud. That is not to say that even as an extrovert that I do not get annoyed with really loud extroverts. Even extroverts have varying degrees of being extroverted.
can be very draining
Unfortunately such people gravitate towards introverts.
People distract me . People annoy me . People irritate me .
this is your second comment and it’s disturbing.is obvious you are not happy with your current situation then do something.🧨
@@wellnesscoach73 shut up extrovert
I like animals alot better than people
It depends on my mood and who the people are.
LoL. Understand. 😂
The only sudden change of plans that an introvert likes is when an event is cancelled. That leaves time to stay home and be comfortable.
Yes 100% when something stressful is cancelled, it is such a relief.
I'd trust an introvert before an extrovert.
Never trust anyone who can't handle being alone with their own thoughts.
That's pretty much all of humanity
I like being alone with my own Thoughts . What I don't like is being around a big Crowd
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They don't like the person they're alone with.
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We as introverts love our space and solitude. We're more creative and productive this way. We especially don't like other people's problems jumping in line of the personal problems we already have. We refuse to let outsiders own or assess our situations. We hate crowds because it's not within us to be part of any herd. We don't want to fit in or prove anything with "cliques or entourages" because we "know" we don't have to. We prefer to be our own leader. We are careful when accepting suggestions but not good when it comes to following others. We prefer being around people who don't need to be told what to do. Everyone be careful out there!
Im an introvert too. and I LOVE solitude.
My mom and my sister usually go to my grandmas like everyday and they stay really late, especially during the pandemic. My mom likes going there because she enjoys watching Finding your Roots, and SNL, or Call of the midwife. Anyway, thats great because I enjoy having the house to myself. I function a lot better and I don't have to worry about a curfew that much, as I enjoy going to the boat ramp or taking walks on the bike path. And I can focus a lot better on writing my books. And nobody bothers me. Plus I can shout, sing, voice act, repeat lines from movies, and talk to my self. I do pace around the living room a lot, contemplating about my anxieties, squeamishness, and about my stories I write, as my room is too small for that. Yup, its really a whole lot of fun.
My cousin got a dog probably a week ago, and she often asks my sister to watch it while she off working. And my sisters happy about it. So she packs her stuff and goes to hang out in her apartment to watch the dog. At first my mom was a little annoyed because this dog business cuts into their time of going to her parents house. Sometimes my cousin doesn't come back from work until really late and at that point my mom and sister just decide not to go. Granted, there were quite a few times they didn't go to grandmas. But that that was a once in a while kind of thing.
On top of that theres been small family conflict at my grandparents house recently. And my mom hasn't been going there much. I don't really mind my sister baby-sitting my cousins dog, because she likes being in her apartment, and she would stay there literally all day and night if she had the option. While she's doing that mom would be still going to her parents house and I get to have the house to my self. Anyway Im super pissed by this, because for some reason I have trouble functioning as well as Im used too when my family is home. Not to mention they watch tv loudly and they can often hear what i'm saying in my room. And I don't really feel like going out for walks at night when there home. I don't feel like telling this to my family because I'm afraid it might make me come off as being whinny and selfish. Besides being an introvert, Im more reserved and don't express myself at full capacity very often. I really hope this doesn't become a regular thing.
Yes. Iam definitely creative & like to lead my way. Not play "follow the leader" I'm fine with being an introvert.
I don't know I work with an introvert at a work station where it is just me and him all day long and he is the farthest thing from being his own leader. Sure he acts like he doesn't want to talk and and all that crap and doesn't want to hear about anybody's problems unless this dip shit has something going on then he thinks that everybody should just stop what they are doing and give him our undivided attention and basically hold his little hand and walk him through life instead of learning things on his own like the rest of us had to do and when it comes to doing things he is always looking to me for advice and how to do things even simple tasks. If I don't tell him how to do it he will leave the work station and go to another one and ask somebody there. He is very annoying and everybody hates him. I hate that I am the one who had to get stuck working with this moron. He can't think for himself his parents do everything for him and he is in his thirties that sure as heck doesn't sound like any kind of a born leader to me. If it weren't for other people being there to wipe his ass and change his diapers he just be a big blubbering mess and wouldn't know anything.
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What I don't like is when people ask me why I'm so Quiet 🤐🤫. What these people don't understand is that I only Speak 🙊🗣️ when I have something to say . Most of the Time I just like to sit there and Listen 👂 to what others are saying
I don't even like listening to other people. I don't know how you do it.
When someone calls me with endless small talk, eventually I don't hear a word they said.
Im a introvert and I profusely hate when ppl drop by my house unexpectedly. I like being alone and try to limit as much social interaction because it drains me. Im married to a extrovert who knows how i am and how i feel but nonetheless he still just invites ppl into our home without even asking me or consider how it affects me. I also hate loud noises so much so it triggers my anxiety and it takes hours for me to to recover. Frankly, I dont like being around anyone outside of my small tribe. I especially hate being around loud, overbearing extroverts who think they can change how i am.
I don't answer the door unless I am expecting someone. I am particularly bothered by unnecessary noises, such as when someone plays music too loudly.
Drop-bys are inconsiderate. I may be undressed, Or just got out of the shower, or maybe I already have company, or I'm in a hurry to leave for an appointment.
He still invites people without noticing you? Then why did you marry him, aunty? Or did his behavior change after marriage?
My husband invites the family to stay and this summer it’s three weeks long. After a week I went ballistic; a full rage. I keep telling him the stay needs to be limited (5-7 days) but to him and them it sends an ‘unwelcoming’ message. For me, it was like I was suffocating and the rage just erupted. Husband wasn’t happy, what to say… I’ve got two weeks left on this visit. It feels like I am being punished. I just want my space back.
@ComplexityUnveiled could you try talking to him about your needs as an introvert?
Introverts aren't stuck up, antisocial, we just think differently. I'm definitely one. Yes, everyday pressure can exhaust us to where we just don't "want" to interact, would rather go home, call it a day, meditate, read, however I like music in my alone time. & yes, we are confident, independent & VALUE ourselves, we just happen to care to much. I'm definitely more attracted to Introverts as well. More mysterious & shy/quiet is a turn on.
Right! Something to consider is that human nature factor of others complaining about an introvert, possibly due to their own subconscious jealousy. Tricky arenas of the mind/soul/body connections.
@@josephcaldwell1513 That is true. Lol.
@@josephcaldwell1513 Welll I'm an introvert. Lol. Definitely not boring, just cautious & we aren't into messy drama, don't like negativity. Misery loves company. I say that about my family all the time. Lol. I'm the black 🐑 & definitely ok with that, bc good God all mighty blessed me with that above. Lol. 🙏
Agreed Amanda
I'm an introvert and I hate it when people expect a quick answer and I end up stammering over my words. I hate the fact that it's always the same people who expect a quick response every time. Another thing I can't stand is small talk. I think it's a waste of time.
That's why I don't answer the phone, especially if it is one of those people.
So hard to put the answer into a nutshell, and as soon as you start to answer they’re already talking about themselves or asking the next question
I’m quiet and don’t talk very much with groups of people. I’m an observer in life and can see fake people very easily. Psychology is very important to me. I like watching people and try to figure out who they truly are. I’m misunderstood a lot.
My rule: I pay the phone bill, my phone is for MY use only. I'm not obligated to answer my phone.
And then the neighbors call your house is on fire……..
@@erwinvangrinsven9345 you clearly don't understand how this introvertness works.
Also when your house is on fire and the caller finds you not answering, don't you think they would come knock on your door or something?
I am an introvert. What I had the most is gossip and nebby people. If I want you to know something I'll tell you. Otherwise mind your own business. I guess I'm a private introvert. Does anyone else feel this way?
Nebby? Are you from Pittsburgh or Pittsburgh area? I only every heard this term used there 😊
I'm an introvert. Don't like being around lots of people. I don't like 'having' to chat. Don't mind phone calls so much because I can say goodbye when I want.
I hate when people just stop by. Don't tell you they're coming, I notice as I get older and kids gone, husband dead, I I need a drink to be around some people. It's getting harder to get away from people. People want to talk to me everyday. I hate it. Disconnect my phone sometimes, they don't understand. It is stressful.
An an introvert myself,I definitely understand that 💯💯‼️
I think both introverts and Extroverts should have that trait
I keep my cell phone on mute and people say why ?? Because I want to I'll call you back when I get a chance 🤨🥴
Pretend you have a cold. Put your coat on and pretend you're going out. Get a dog who hates people. Move house with no forwarding address. The options are limitless 😊
I am the same.
When pandemic hit alot of people said it was terrible and I was confused cause it was blessings. That was when I didn't know i was introvert
Another thing about introverts is we hate being pushed to do things.....we need our space...time.....to be fully focused on things......for me i can't handle pressure....it makes my brain go crazy.....even if we are to have a conversation don't mount pressures on me it affects my brain .......
People never cease to disappoint me. I don't have patience for the drama they bring with them. I'm perfectly happy being introverted. I'm Certainly more at peace alone than I would be if there were people in my life.
Just to let you know ,your comment showed up 50 posts down the thread after many posts done a year or more ago.Your post was read by very few people likely. UA-cam does this to me too after someone flagged one of my politically incorrect comments. Censorship at work.
I feel.the same. For some strange reason, I people always acted dramatically to Me, so I cut them out of my life.
I am at my best when alone .
To fit in, I have gone to New Years' Eve parties with large numbers of people. This is an Introvert's worse nightmare. I know now to just say no and stay true to myself.
Once you learn to be selfish, saying no get easier. People can't even call me selfish because they'd be hypocrites. I just let it be clearly known that I have boundaries and refuse to have them broken. And if you break them then it goes in my memory bank of how I deal with you, if I continue to deal with you.
I'm an introvert and I love to sit back and watch and analyze others. I dislike large crowds. As far as friends are concerned, I prefer one on one close knit who listens and understand me.
i recognize myself in so many ways in all these comments... good to know i'm not alone in this case... good to know i'm not a freak or a crazy person, but just...simply human :)
We allso like to be alone .we use our alone time to study nature.sharpen our descernment wisdom.knowledge an understand .introvert are real people but it take time to understand them.
We are not unhappy with our alone time except happy than we also value our alone time.
Our “alone time” also allows us time to plot how NOT to kill the vast majority of humanity..
@@somewhereoutthere8405 what bro.......😂
What is the purpose of solitude?
Our “alone time” also allows us time to plot how NOT to kill the vast majority of humanity..
this can't be the at least real anwser.....because most dangerous serial killer lived alone time ....dude
Weak
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I have a random question for introverts back when they were kids if they can remember at all; by any chance did one of your parents ever do something like hand you the phone with out warning and tell you that one of your adult relatives was on it,thus forcing you to talk to either grandma or grandpa about how school was going?
God YES ! My Mother even tried it when I was in my early 50’s ! She was calling to me and I was in her garage. I heard her opening the door and dove behind her car and waited it out till I was sure the phone call had ended. She asked me if I heard her calling me and I said no 😂
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No I'm not.
Yes!
The Covid lockdown taught me who could and couldn't stand their own company lol. Introvert for life love my alone time
I’m over explaining nothing is wrong, or why I’m so quiet. I’m not here to entertain you. Find someone who likes to talk, and respect boundaries.
Part of why I HATE Mondays is the small talk about weekends. Most people don't do anything exciting, so most people don't actually care how everyone's weekend went. Its just asked to waste time in the stupid greeting ritual humans perform every week. So annoying.
These greeting rituals are totally pointless for me too
I hate when people come right up in my face and start asking all sorts of personal questions. I'm an introvert and a misanthrope since the age of 18 when it dawned on me how awful people are.
I understand in all levels it’s so annoying
People do that?
i was told that i can only be very successful if meet a lot of people, make a lot of relationship, non stop trying and challenging myself to do the things that i couldn't do. i got very offended because it literally mean that us introvert people couldn't achieve success if we can't be on par with the extroverts when it comes to socializing and making relationship connections. us introvert can be very successful too without having those so called connection. I hated the society always painted introverts who are quiet and isolated as being a loser.
OMG, yes! Our team lead is an extrovert and has achieved his higher position by being a great presenter and performer but not having enough output workwise to justify it. He was constantly pushing me (introvert) and stating I won’t go far unless I change to be more like him. He’s constantly networking but not getting things done. This can only go so far and he’s maxing out his strategy. While I’m succeeding my way, my introverted way.
I would refer to this as a form politicking and manipulation of people around you to gain success. In the current climate, our culture values bragging rights and an in your face attitude. In Eastern cultures humility and being soft spoken, was a trait of being considerate.
What gets me we introverts are hired to do a task. The extrovert thinks we’re there to nurture their social needs. That’s why we leave the organization it’s not because of the work, it’s because of the people.
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I Like being Introvert and not easily get into Friendship that may lead into critical issues
If I had my life to live over I'd stay away from 95 percent of the people I've associated with.
My supervisor always call out the quiet/shy employees when we have the kind of job where we don’t talk to people throughout the day. She’s an idiot. I consider it harassing.
Our extrovert team lead has singled me (introverted) out for his special brand of “development”. Recently had several discussions with our bigger boss to address this as it became harassing.
@@Blondie77128 Good. Let me know what happens.
Yes I am an intervert so am told and I like it. Don't like small talks, large crowds people who are slow, one word answers and loud people!
I do not fit in , i never did , i never will .
me either..
@@phylliscurtner5578 That makes you exceptional . You are a very special person .
I so agree with you, brother... We will never understand society, and society will never understand us...
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I feel you, I am exactly the same.
As an introvert, I was laughing at this video because at first I thought it was satire....until I realized its all true lmao!
If I get interrupted 2 or 3 times, I'm done. Then I interrupt with a reason to end the conversation.
Calling all introverts! Brace yourselves for "10 Things Introverts Extremely Hate"! I can already feel the anticipation building. Finally, someone's addressing the misconceptions and frustrations we face on a daily basis. Get ready to nod your head in agreement and let out a collective "Yes, that's so true!" It's time to debunk those introvert stereotypes once and for all. Let's dive in and show the world what we're made of!
Being an introvert is good for me
Me too😊
My Utopia would be living in a hobbit house and having ZERO connection with people at all…unless on my terms - when I could leave their company at the drop of a hat and not hurt their feelings. I also LOVED Lockdown. I do not use my phone unless absolutely necessary and I do plan for having to take or make any calls! I am an empath. I was born this way and will die this way. I find extroverts and other folk as “weird” as they find me. Noise and chaos drive me insane and sap my energy within minutes and panic is a norm for me. I am NOT abnormal - just reserved, quiet, private and full of love for many people and many lovely things in our world.
We hate all social functions.
Not all
@@samanthasims7123 There are different grades of introversion. I forgot that. I suspect my level of introversion is rather on the high end of the scale. This semi-anonymous UA-cam rant is the only online existence I have online and the only vague version of socialising I do, if it can be considered true social interaction.
@@samanthasims7123 By the way, the last social function I attended was on the 8th of August 2000. It was a fair. I enjoyed the rides and games. I hated the enormous amount of people. It was there I found out my girlfriend and my, "friends," were a bunch of liars, backstabbers, and users. My girlfriend even admitted it. There is no chance of anything like that every happening to me again, not even 1%. This is why I attend no social functions, will never get a girlfriend again, nor ever make friends again. Nothing is worth what I went through happening again.
@@indridcold8433 wow
Same here, it feels like being suffocated.
I thought it was just me who hated phone calls and the panic everytime my phone rings. Anytime time I tell my friends that phone calls low-key make me anxious, they find it weird/funny. I'm just realising I have too many extroverted friends😂😂
Same with me. I prefer texting over talking. Lengthy phone conversations exhaust me.
I keep my phone on do not disturb perpetually.
I am introvert and everything you say is totally correct all..most oftenly we are being hurt because extrovert dont understand us...
As an introvert i also hate when Im having a panic atac or anxiety and I stutter
I don't like to be in the spot light
I want to stay home but there are people that don't understand that and force me to go out and do things
I don't wear my introversion like a badge and I hate it when I'm exposed if I'm put on the spot or caught on the back foot in a social situation 😊
I'm an introvert and I know an extrovert who just speaks like 'blah, blah, blah' and I haven't got the slightest care of what he is talking about.
I'm an introvert but I don't mind when people interrupt me when I'm talking because, to me, it means they are into the conversation and I'm not boring them to tears.
As an extrovert I can tell you that it might be due to their enthusiasm. I know there are times where I might interrupt but it is only because I am enthusiastic to share my insights because I am confident that the introverted person I am talking to will enjoy and appreciate those insights.
If I'm interrupted I want to smash their face in.
The part of change of plans I can relate to. Specialy with Dr.s appointments. I get happy when the clinic cancels my appointments. Then again it has to be rescheduled. I don't like my daily routine to be disturbed. I can relate to taking phone calls, also same with texts.
I know that as a deep introvert, I hate it when people say, “Oh I hate people, so I’m an introvert” knowing that there is no correlation, and only reinforcing bad stereotypes.
I'm so happy I came across this video because I didn't realise how much of an introvert I am...I was just always conflicted by how I love people yet I enjoy my solitude. I felt bad for loathing last minute guests, long phone calls and unsolicited facetime😅this is so important to share with people in your life if you're an introvert too so that they understand you better.
As a introvert i hate eye contact, that is something that kills me
I'm really glad I grew up as an introvert before the internet, before the annoying "smart" phones started distracting.
The one about being spontaneous is not exactly true. Things that happen like suddenly taking off with your partner for a drive in the Miata and overnight stay somewhere that wasn't planned out in advance can be cool. It just has to be "our partner/best friends/or our own" sudden idea that mean something intimate or special to us. We just don't like having to adapt instantly to changes in group plans/ideas that involve the opinions and lifestyles of MANY people. We don't like the idea of people being unhappy even though they deal with it on the surface just fine. Tiny very tight knit group spontaneous is fine.
I don't like last minute things. I plan things that i want to do.
Like going somewhere. I don't like phone calls as well.
I like to be oraganize, I'm not a phone person.
I'm a highly sensitive introvert.
Extroverts are annoying AF.
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Yesss!!!!!
They are attention seekers and lack self awareness.
This is so bizarrely accurate it’s unsettling. How could I not have known I actually fit into a category of any kind?
Completely true about being uncomfortable not knowing what’s going to happen in different situations. It feels out of control and causes major anxiety. I feel that for sure. Then your mind makes up scenarios of all the things that could happen.
... but above all, they absolutely hate senseless ads interrupting informative, well-made videos about introversion!
I finally found a video that understands me and can explain EXACTLY how I feel. I was even finishing some of the sentences before the narrator. My top 5 of these 10 are 1.talking on the phone, 2.loud noises (and especially getting overwhelmed easily) 3.large crowds (for me, any group larger than 3 people) 4.being forced to give an immediate response, and 5.small talk. Thank you so much for validating what I feel. It is wonderful to know that there are others out there who understand.
I’m usually in deep thought when I’m in a discussion with other people and I’m afraid to contribute to the conversation.
i like being alone. no headaches from other neighbors dramas. im happy tho.:)
The interrupting in conversation is something I dislike but I've been forcing myself to wait, listen, and then say what I wanted to say earlier after they're done talking. It's better to at least speak than to say nothing. It's something I notice people do not intend to interrupt, it's a lot of times it's a mistake, and they think you're done speaking even if you were just trying to think what to say and take a long pause. It's something I've heard if you get interrupted all the time, some people may see that as a form of weakness, and will try to abuse it. If do wait and say wanted you to say, people will see you're confident and patient, and that you listen to what they are saying. I try to do this now, it may work all the time, but when it does it feels good.
I’m an introvert but I prefer phone calls because texting takes way too much time and extra energy. But I only talk to people who are close to me on the phone most of the time.
I'm an older introvert who embraces texting; don't call me unless there's a scheduled conversation for both of us to anticipate
I am an introvert and I don't mind short calls to my friends but not family. Large groups of people, in a mall or grocery store, gives me an anxiety attack
I am easily overwhelmed. Arguing people, even if I don't know the people, make me feel crazy. Like, I could NEVER watch Jerry Springer. I do enjoy talking to people, but I love being at home! Concerts were always hard to take. Crowded malls, or any crowded store (Walmart, Target) can make me want to jump out of my skin.
Introverts enjoy real intimacy in every way, and our need for it make extroverts uncomfortable because they don't like to get to personal.
l am not introvert but i enjoyed 2020 because l explored and reconnected to myself in painting that i never did before.. lt was a gift to realise who l was..
I'm introvert. Happy to be here. Now I understand myself why I'm being like this all along. Inevitably I have to make sacrifices for getting along with other people but of course I do not impose these sacrifices upon other introverted people.
I'm a ultra-introvert and being interrupted has nearly got flying in to a rage sometimes but I've just sat there and thought "feck you, you halfwit".
My fellow introverts; Chances are, as far as extroverts r concerned, wese(introverts) are "not where the action is". And That's one ten-fold. And we're Nobody to mess with neither.
Introverts needs their time and to be able to think well..... our brain and minds are different from extroverts. ...we hate being pushed to talks....just leave us alone to think and we'd talk with you
I also know that as an introvert, I don’t like talking to a lot of people mainly because I know they will engage in small talk, which I think is a waste of time.
Good video! As an introvert myself, I''ve started a podcast to address the many misconceptions about introversion and to spread more awareness about introverted personalities.
Well done.Keep it up!!!❤
“When you hear the word introvert, what first comes to mind?”
me: *myself*
A badass guy wearing a hoddie
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Brilliant.
You "nailed it."
I am an introvert with P.T.S.D. and "a language processing disorder."
I don't "do" telephone voicemail.
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I very much like being an "introvert"; rather than feeling "like a freak of nature."
💜 Thank You.
Am currently living as an introvert and i tend to trust people easily.......i don't really get along with people well cos most of my time am always alone....and some people call it pride..... so thankful i now have my self esteem to talk to people
I am an empathic introvert…and I never considered why I hate crowds. I feel way too much energy
Superficial daily relationships like that between co workers is a hot bed for personal information leverage. What ever you say will be repeated and twisted especially if it potentially could have value to the person you are speaking to even if simply reflecting or expressing an opinion. So I've learned after decades of self induced social pain to keep my mouth shut at work. If someone has it out for you, juicy tidbits, even when transmitted well outside the context of its original intent, can put your livelihood in jeopardy especially if "sharing" will boost themselves an attack boy brownie point. Shallow suck ups, two faced bullies, and passive aggressive ogres are everywhere.
As an introvert what do I most dislike? Humans.
I’m a ambivert so I understand both introverts and extroverts so I understand both sides which is good because you got a balance
This is so accurate! Like u were learning and studying me my whole life
I'm an introvert too and I enjoy being alone
Mind numbing - Couldn't find a better description for small talks!!
Very accurate video. Thanks.
Introvert here. You NAILED it on every point!!!!! One thing I would add is I am very literal, that is I take what you are saying 90% literally. Which can be very disheartening when I realize someone is playing with me. I’m 68 yo and have basically given up on socializing or trying to have friends. It’s heartbreaking when you think you finally might have a friend, then you find out they’re NOT.
Phone calls: I keep my phone on silent. If I notice a phone call coming in, I usually ignore it. If it's important to them, they can leave a voicemail. If they don't, I assume it wasn't important. If they do leave a VM and they are family, I call them back.
I do that too. Even if it is someone I know, I often don't answer because I expect them to ask a question for which I don't have an immediate answer.
There's also the pause to gather thoughts that so many people treat as the end, and then it looks like the introvert is interrupting the other person when it comes to finishing their thought.
Kittos. Overwhelming is an understatement. I can't handle being in or close to large groups or loud environments. It's physically painful and draining so I treat concerts, theaters and the like as a disease.
As to people that won't stop talking and actually listen, 3 strikes and I walk away.
My sincere thanks. For years I thought it was the result of my injuries but now I understand why things are sometimes emotionaly overwhelming to the point of serious fatigue.
I hate weddings or any social gathering where dancing is in the equation. There's always that one a-hole that has to preassure you to "get out there". I don't dance. Live with it.
As a primarily introverted person, I must say that this is the VERY BEST video on the topic I have ever seen! Almost all of these are things I hate. The only thing I would change about the video is where they have the introverts looking sad most of time. In a couple of spots that is properly applied, but as an introvert I am generally not sad or depressed. The video, but not audio, here would make you think that introverts are sad. The audio is pretty much spot on about how I feel.
This seems like an overlap between introversion and autism. I am both a highly sensitive introverted autistic. It’s extremely difficult to start conversations and I never know what to talk about. I have to wait for someone else to start or I stay quiet. I also have trouble reading body language and other social cues. I 100% enjoy being alone although I still desire a relationship, but It’s difficult to emotionally connect with others.
I've always thought that anxiety was the cause for me hating the phone. It turns out that is the other way around. No wonder my stomach does a summersault everytime my phone rings, and lately it's closer to a panic attack. Now I'll work on that from another perspective. Thanks!
I'm an introvert that loves to be around other introverts. The bad part is that we're extremely hard to meet.
INTJ Sigma. The big quiet guy in the booth in the back of the restaurant. Very selective about the company I keep. Interesting past.
Over and over - waitress ignores me like I don't exist. Until Thanksgiving or Easter or Christmas day, when every booth is full. Then she shrieks at you across the room "hey, James, were you ever in the Army?" Try describing a career in a military intelligence unit out loud. Have a blunt instrument handy.
Just do not attract attention to an introvert. It's an antagonistic act.
Being an introvert, I'm keen to get your thoughts both from introverts and extroverts.
1- Question to Introverts: To avoid being misinterpreted, have you told at a workplace setting that you're an introvert? If so, did it help you?
2- Question to Extroverts: Do you think if one of your work colleagues told you that he/she is an introvert, what would you have thoughts about it and do you think it would have helped your relation?
I am an extrovert. I do feel that being open about being an introvert would help the relation. It would help me to know how to interact with and approach that person. Most extroverts such as myself want the introvert to be as comfortable as possible and to be themself. In the workplace though there are too many other dynamics besides extrovert and introvert when it comes to how to deal with coworkers. It is way more complex per se. Especially depending on the type of job, profession or occupation. I feel that the extrovert/introvert dynamic might be more paramount working in fast food rather than a more professional setting where personalities take backseat to the more professional setting of the occupation.
Introvert: It usually does not work at all
As an introvert myself, i greatly appreciate how well this video was created. I frequently use it as a tool to help my friends and family gain a better understanding
As an Introvert, I hate people that can not mind thier own Business and barge in my life to dismantle it, because they don't accept nor respect boundries or how I live my life. They Claim to mean well, but they don't realize how much they hurt me. Nor do they listen to the end. These people are called Extroverts. Not all, are this bad, unfortunatly the Most I have met are exactly like this, and had me screaming at them. Afterwards I Ghost them, and they have never heard or seen me again.