Claiming our Space, Taking our Time, and Playing Big |
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- Опубліковано 26 кві 2024
- The Projector journey is all about claiming our space instead of looking to others to give us the space we need to feel nourished and thrive.
In this video, I talk about taking my space and giving myself time - instead of always thinking I need to be 'doing'. My true gift as a Projector is my presence. I can only be present with someone if I am present with myself and that requires giving myself space and time to return to my essence.
Looking back at my life, I recognize that I have given more of myself than I could in certain moments. I experience that as feeling 'hollow' in my body, or completely saturated. I have been working with anger and acknowledging the power and sacredness of this life force energy. Anger allows me to be assertive with my boundaries and to speak my truth in any situation.
It's all about playing big, and you cannot play big without claiming your space and giving yourself permission to take your time and do things your way.
If you are ready to start playing big, check out my website:
www.codedtothrive.com
Check the 'Free Your Dragon' Podcast and the episode about shame (and Anger) as a gateway to power and freedom:
• Shame as a Gateway to ...
Also, follow my other channel 'Coded to Thrive' for more content around playing big, letting your natural life force energy, and freeing your inner dragon and the latent power you hold inside you!
/ @codedtothrive
What is your experience with claiming your space?
How do you experience resistance around playing big?
Please share your insights, opinions, perspectives, and experiences around playing big (and small).
Thanks for sharing!
Love,
D
P.S.: Thanks for bearing with me on my camera work. It was tough not having an extra free hand ;)
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This was fantastic, I love the visualisation of claiming the room, that clicked within me! Keep these updates coming when you feel them coming!
Thanks for the love and encouragement :)
Happy to hear that the visualisation clicked!
*i guess I’ll be the first comment and 5th like on this one*
Omg, so weird, the vlog that I have scheduled to release on Tuesday 30th April is about claiming/taking my space and essentially playing big in it.
Ultimately, I failed, which is part of the vlog but being able to claim my space and be freely myself in that space is an experience that just happened to me after I healed myself from my traumas and triggers, etc.
@2:03 double checking to see if you recording 😂 omg, vlogger problems hahaha (happened to me few times where the recording stopped or I pushed something and it ended recording the entire thing in slowmo!!)
It’s so interesting. Since I’ve found your channel I was sure that I must be a *projector* but ever since I’ve been healed, I don’t absorb people’s auras at all. Even though I’m a seasoned *loner*, comfortably spending weeks and occasionally months without outside contact, I can socialize for extended periods of time in the midst of a lot of people and not feel mentally fatigued.
So I must not be a projector, I guess? Even though, I’m a big *be-er* lol.
I “be” rather than “do”. Like I’ve never forced myself to do anything socially or otherwise if it feels like I’m going against what I feel naturally. My husband, on the other hand, is intrinsically such a “doer”.
I feel very comfortable being me in almost any situation.
But I realize that my state of being comfortable in my own space and taking up space and feeling free in whatever I’m feeling/experiencing can be triggering for others.
But my husband and I have been working together to heal ourselves so that I can incorporate more “doing” and he can incorporate more “being” and it’s been so wonderful for the past 5 years to realize how much our brains are capable of exploring, learning, adapting to dormant parts of our brains because I think we’re all capable of *being* a kind of balance between both.
To the points that you make in your video though, which is a bit different from the space I took in my upcoming vlog, the points about communicating through texts, etc, claiming my space applies to that as well. I don’t rush responding to others if I don’t feel it. I guess what I’m saying is, there are very few instances where I feel anxiety over interactions with others and I think in part because, by the time I was 30 years old (I’m 36 now) I realized that we waste precious time and energy worrying about so many things that haven't occurred yet.
*And realistically, so many things ultimately work out. Even when they don’t!* ☺️
And i say that in the context of having 30 years of my life on this planet buried in trauma and awful situations. And I imagine the same is true for most of us.
I always take the space to write you the most obnoxiously long messages 🤭 since I’ve discovered your channel recently without official permission. And I have no expectations for when and how your responses come because I accept whatever the outcome is 😊
Thanks for this video. I wish I knew what an HD person would label me as 😁 It’s all so very interesting and thought-provoking.
I always appreciate you sharing your thoughts, taking your space, and leaving long messages! You had me chuckling at that :) You do you!
I love how you unapologetically give yourself permission to be fully You. That's what life is all about. That's what I get from your messages and also from your YT channel (you gained another subscriber ;) ).
It's funny, I am at a point now where I am like, 'why am I upholding these behavioral patterns?'. It's almost like I'm not even doing it for me, but for others. To uphold an image for others. Now I'm like "fuck that!". I lovingly accept that some people will fall out of my life - and they already have. That's totally ok. They may return at some point, and if they don't, that's ok too.
I have never been happier and more at ease with myself and the universe. I have clarity on how I want to be of service to others, and I am surrounded by soul family - people who see me and recognize me deeply. My tribe is gathering and we're seeing each other all over the world. Case in point, my soul tribe from Costa Rica somehow found there way to me here in Spain. I'm honestly blown away by life.
I appreciate the way you invite me to share! Much love to you, my friend :)
Also, if you want to find out what your human design is, it's based on your time, date, and place of birth. You can search on google. There are a bunch of websites that allow you to plug in the information and get your design for free. My website doesn't have that capability yet, but planning for that in the future.
Much love,
D
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thank you for this informative video! "Claiming your space" is a NEW concept to me and I wonder if you could explain more on "taking space in your body"? i have sleeping problems and I always feel very tense so I am particularly concerned about this.
I get the idea of taking space such as spending time alone and living in the present, but I don't get the concept of "taking space in my body", perhaps because I don't have a close connection with my body. Would appreciate it if you would kindly explain more. Thanks.
Taking space in your body really means setting boundaries. It means that you only feel your energy in your body and not everyone else's. As Projectors, we absorb other people's auras, so it is important that we clear out this energy. One way I've found that's helpful is to dance, asking our body how it wants to move and then following it's cue.
Let me know if that is helpful.
Love,
D
@@ProjectorProject Thanks for your reply. Do you mean that dancing can help clear other people's energy that we absorbed? i rarely dance and this insight is really interesting!