the part of you that goes 'I didn't deserve to be sad' is the part that loves and cares about you! recognising that you deserve to be happy doesn't mean you have a victim complex, it shows that you're healing x
I relate so hard to this Flossie, I'm 24 and this year was very difficult with friendships/triggers even family stuff. You are not alone and I and many others appreciate your transparency. We are all in this together even if we've never met ❣
Thank you so much flossie for posting this. I am currently in an anxiety flare up and it really helped me to hear that youre going through the same thing - I didnt know you had anxiety. Please dont apologise for sharing, we love it! Also very nice that youre journalling - i can relate to this. Would love to watch a video where you share some of the knowledge / resources u spoke about in this vid that helped u get out of depression xx
I related to this video so much. This time of year is so tuff and I find it so hard to enjoy this time of year because so many aspects of it reminds me of when I wasn’t ok or when life wasn’t good. And I find it so tricky to figure out if I’m actually sad or if I’m upset about what happened. It’s all confusing but thank you for being so honest Flossie ❤
Flossie don't ever think people are becoming sick of hearing you talk about how you feel, it really helps so many people i don't think you realise !! It helps me so much hearing you speak what I can't put into words and it makes me feel safe that others can feel like this also.
I think that a toxic thing in society at the moment is "manifesting", because everyone (including myself) is interpreting it wrong. It's important to have a positive overall outlook and goal on/for your life, but it is OKAY to feel negative emotions and process things - it is completely normal. What's not okay is to put pressure on yourself and blame yourself for "bad things happening" because you "didn't have a constant positive mindset". It's not your fault, the universe can't be this strict on us and expect us to never feel bad and process our emotions! Life has its ups and downs naturally and it's already mapped out, whether you're strictly manifesting or not. Knowing I have no control helps me relax cause then you can sit back and enjoy the ride rather than be anxious about your every move. Hope that helps! xxx
That last bit about the triggers was so relatable, I feel like as soon as summertime is over I get this cloud of anxiety over me until it starts to get warm again and I can be bothered to do things without having to cry myself to go out
I don't consider you talking about mood as complaining or being annoying. You're just being honest about how you're feeling and it's more relatable than you think!! This makes you a real and genuine person, thank you for showing your vulnerable side
hey flossie, i also deal with an anxiety disorder and hearing other people talk about it is always nice as i know how much it helps to talk about it and it makes me feel less alone so i’m writing this to also tell you you’re not alone and you’re healing and it’s okay to be anxious and okay to have triggers from the past and still be sad about it, it’s completely normal. You’ll get through it we always do, lots of love ❤
It is really refreshing to see you talk about your anxiety or just even when you're having a bad day. I think it does a lot to help dispel the idea that everyone has it perfect and ideal all the time. And it's also lovely to see you have a good day or several good days - it's just very honest and human and something of this world and I really appreciate you sharing this. Hope you have lots of lovely days and nights ahead and wishing you the best as you work through this season x
I’m exactly the same about being scared of ending back up in headspaces and for a very long time avoided triggers, music, smells, places ect. You’re so right that you’ll make new memories and good things will happen. Remembering when bad things do happen during this time, it’s okay and it’s not defining you and it’s not a step backwards. You’ll keep moving forward. You’ve got this girly, see all of this as a form of growth. Recognising that you’ve come so far. Trust me, you’re doing all the right things and saying all the right things ❤️
Hi Flossie, I’ve never commented before but wanted to say this! I had a very difficult time where i felt the worst id ever felt throughout December-January two years ago. And last year when that time came round again I felt EXACTLY the same. I kept getting flashbacks from that time and feeling anxious that the same would happen again or that I’d sink to that low place again. Thankfully I didn’t and it was actually completely fine! And now that it’s almost that time this year I don’t feel anxious or scared because It was fine last year. I think because this is the first year since, it might be worse. But next year and the years to come you’ll heal even more and have more normal or positive memories from that time to prove to you that this time of the year won’t always be that way. Sending love and hugs ❤
Hey Flossie! I totally get where you are coming from with the run up to things that previously had a negative affect when we think about them, I’m in the same kind of situation but the way I see it know is that is how far we have came, you managed to come out the other end! You wake up every morning and start the day even if it’s good or bad and that’s take strength!I know you feel anxious and down and that’s okay! I feel so proud of you since been watching your videos! We have our good days and bad days. You are stronger than you give credit for! It will ease, it’s just takes time, baby steps! Keep smiling! Keep your head up! Shine bright baby gal❤️
The nausea and dizzyness/light-headedness is so real. I find the physical anxiety symptoms personally fill way more for me than the mental, cus my body reacts before my brain even gets a chance to comprehend. The things that helped me the most are: -Having a weekly plan (Morning, Afternoon, Evening) to create structure and make sure I give myself actual breaks -Breaks doesn't always mean lying in bed or meditating, it can just be whatever you like to do to recharge mentally/physically -Working on allowing oneself to adapt if one's routine changes and looking for the third option if feeling cornered -Doing what you can to make a situation that is triggering more comfortable (removing oneself physically, saying how you feel in a way others can comprehend. like you need some fresh air/your head is foggy/you didn't sleep well, if you know a busy situation stresses you - adjust the factors you can, put on headphones, sit down on a bench etc.) -Setting boundaries (aka stating your needs to friends/work/loved ones and not forming it as a question) is super empowering, cus it helps you assert control (boundaries can be verbal og physical) -If something is bothering/stressing you weeks in advance, try and remove just 1 thing that is stressing you -If things are going well, that means you have the right balance of stuff going - doesn't always mean you should add more stuff to juggle -If you start comparing yourself to your previous self/others and getting negative thoughts, try and do the opposite and find actual evidence that opposes these negative thoughts -Do not enter a competition with yourself, it's important to be aware how times/situations make you feel but it is so much pressure to expect oneself to be over something/not be affected by something (we don't have that control, wanting to be anxiety free is a sure path to anxiety) -Instead of thinking today/this year I'm going to do it better, it can be a win to say this time I'm gonna do it different or I'm not going to particpate in comparing myself The small practical things are your greatest tools in triggering situations cus often anxiety comes from feeling overwhelmed or under pressure.
Thank you Flossie for allowing us to see some of the raw, unfiltered parts of your life. Also, remember that you aren't alone when dealing with the stresses of life, so please keep relying on those people who genuinely love and care for you and immerse yourself in hobbies that'll keep your mind active, distracting you from the bad times.
It’s completely valid to have old wounds and negative feelings resurface, even if you’ve already worked through it, it’s perfectly okay. I know that feeling these things can make us beat ourselves up a bit and feel bad about it but I think it’s important to know you can accept these feelings for what they are even though they are hard and we don’t want to have to go through these things again, but I guess in a bittersweet way, it’s a reminder of what we learned through those times, the growth we had through learning those lessons and taking hold of that strength again. Even when it feels like everything’s going wrong it’s good to try find anytime to sit with the emotions and just let them be there, acknowledge them etc, of course it’s hard with an overactive mind but just taking a few moments to sit with it and connect to your body and your heart can help even in small amounts. I always thought I’d failed when I would overthink about old wounds again but that’s not the case it’s just about realising it’s normal and reconnecting back to that inner strength like I said before
we are not and will not be bored of hearing you talk about your LIFE. that’s what we are all here for, the good & the bad, we will always be your constant 💙
I don't really watch UA-cam but when I do I always come to flossies channel , she just relatable and I feel like she's one of the few who show real raw life and its comforting to know that influencers that we look up to and inspire us don't always have it perfect . I feel like I can really connect to these videos
i’ve suffered with anxiety since i was young and believed that it had gone away once i saw someone and lived years without feeling anxious. now being 20, i’ve realised that it never truly disappears. it’s a sad reality and it can be so hard because sometimes there is absolutely no reason for feeling anxious, but our brains just react in that certain type of way. it’s a part of who we are, and it’s just about coping with it in the moment, rather than dwelling on the why. yet it also doesn’t define who we are. you are flossie even with anxiety, it doesn’t take away from you as a person.❤
That wave of nausea/light headedness you get in the mornings is deffo a symptom of anxiety! I used to throw up every morning before school and uni when I was mega anxious. You’re doing the right things getting up earlier so you’re not rushing, I always found toast and butter the easiest thing to eat when I felt nauseous- I hope it eases soon as it’s nasty!
i have the same thing whenever the season changes i get reminded of how i felt last time it was that season it’s SO hard to explain but i think it’s similar to what you’re describing
This is your opportunity to make it a happy time so that next year Flossie and look at Halloween and Christmas and say yayyyy last year was better. It will get better and better. Let your triggers become your testimonies! The only way to get through it is so go through it and I know you can! You’re doing amazing sweetie!
No ones deserves to feel anxious and sad, but it is important to realise that nobody is going to save you from it. As long as you do the work to heal and improve, no matter how small the steps you're taking are, you should be proud of yourself💓
thank you so much for being honest about anxiety/mental health. I feel like for so many people autumn and winter can make anxiety and other mental health stuff feel much more intense, my health anxiety has been really intense lately and for some reason I've just felt more overwhelmed lately. I do feel like I'm quite a strong person but this shit really do be different tbh. I'm trying to allow myself to feel how I need to feel rather than running away from my emotions but it feels really hard at times
i like to wade around in my bath after adding the bubbles to help the bubble to water ratio :) also love you flossie I’m so grateful to see you being so real and open and honest about your mental state, it really helps me feel less anxious posting about my own online as well ❤❤ sending love and hugs your way
I know you’re Mum, Emma. She must be so proud of you; always reach out for support. You are valued, you are heard, you are very special, Flossie. And yeh to Emma and Howard for raising such WONDERFUL human being.
There is a spot in the city that I broke down crying in for hours and hours 6 years ago… I walk past it most weeks and it still reminds me of that day BUT I am reminded of how far I’ve come and how much life has changed, I’m able to walk past grateful and with a smile, thinking “if only you knew how good it gets”. You don’t have to change the memory of the place or forget where you have been to move forward, the past is an amazing reminder of your strength and courage
the nausea in the morning could be acid reflux induced by anxiety, only made worse that you're worried about the Paris incident repeating :( I feel u girl happens to me ! gaviscon is my best friend
Paula's Choice has so many great products! I love their CALM range & they just renewed it, so I reordered my faves: the repairing serum & BHA lotion exfoliant + picked up a new one...the milky toner, which I'm super excited to try out! I'm glad you found some that're helping your skin out ❤
this video was so relatable, at this time of year my anxiety always worsens and i feel like im not in control. It so important to just take time out to do nothing and spend time with yourself. xxx
I send you so much love ♥️ anxiety is awful, dont ever feel bad for saying how you feel 🙏♥️ you cannot take away the past, but you can work on your future ♥️God Bless 🙏♥️
I used to suffer crippling anxiety just like yourself so I can completely identify and I think you're awesome for sharing it online. Honestly the NUMBER of people who will feel less alone because they see you sharing will be more than you know !!
Love ur videos so much. I do kind of think thought at the moment you are being quite self deprecating and u don't need to be! Is so gorg and j think u jsut need to start feeling more positive about yourself and outlook in life x
Re the shoes (lol), don't tell them off the bat that they're the display pair. Just say you bought them and they're different colours and that you want a replacement. Only say they're the display pair if they ask you!
Hey.. It will be okay.. I remember that after i moved out of the area i grew up in, i would always get anxiety going back there.. Because alot happened there.. I felt like i couldn't go back there... And yeah.. Had to give myself some time.. And one day i decided that i would make better memories back home... Whatever happens happens..
i commented on the vid on your spam already but i completely get everything you said! its so hard to be reminded of a dark place (especially when its by things you cant really avoid). its fine to feel how you are right now! also not to sound like the most patronising person ever but 10000000% in bad times of anxiety i really recommend dropping caffeine! it always makes me feel so so much worse in the long run bc im pretty sure there's a link between caffeine and spikes in anxiety (idk the science tho soz queen x) youve got this my luv
Girl I absolutely love that green sweater!! If you want it to last longer you shouldn’t hang it because the material stretches. Knitted clothes last longer if you fold them:))
Thanking the universe for these long videos Flossie!!!! Tbh if they were an hour long I’d be happier HAHA lol nah but I’m adoring it and I adore u from a gay 2 a gal, your videos rejuvenate my soul ❤
the fact that i can’t afford to pay my £620 rent this month and am getting kicked out of my home because of it and flossies just spent that on headphones 🙈
The reason why you feel ill in the morning might literally be because of anxiety. Anxiety literally makes you physically exhausted, which could make you more tired. Anxiety affects you physically more than you realize.
Hi Flossie! It is so evident how strong you are and how much healing you’ve accomplished. There is nothing wrong with showing us this, we love and appreciate your authenticity. Carry the lessons you’ve learned through last winter and each will get easier, knowing from experience, she may be s.a.d but she’s still a baaaad bitch. We love you. You’re not alone. P.s. vitamin D supplements have really helped me
I have the sick nauseous thing too, extremely frustrating, especially when waking early/ travelling. Let us know if you figure out what it is, as I still can't figure it out! Was thinking about getting hypnotherapy for it!
Personally I think perhaps living in the same city and apartment brings back all these feelings of anxiety. You should move to the countryside and you’ll be happier
Just regarding 34:22 ... You are obviously a spiritual person but be careful what spirit is behind what you are practicing. Manifesting is powerful and its basis is witchcraft. Manifesting generally doesn't end well for people. I know I sound crazy but just wanted to message anyway because I genuinely care xx
Could you explain more about this please? (Not trying to discredit you or say you’re not right, I just am genuinely interested and would love to know more!)
@@gemcockrell I’d love to chat to you more if you’re keen. I could give you my number for a WhatsApp text chat or send you UA-cam videos to explain myself further? Sadly we can’t DM on UA-cam or else I’d just do that!!
Was it the Olivia fall out that was the “ sad “ part in her life ? She’s making it sound like her mum died or something like qhat could possibly be so bad in her life
I have never heard anyone talk about this before. I have dealt with this all my life and it’s been really hard to vocalize what the mental state is. I would cry from time to time saying “why can’t I just be happy”, “why can’t I just let it go”, etc. I’ve struggled making sure I feel my emotions and make them valid whilst I also don’t want to have a victim complex. Anyway, thanks for speaking on this, I don’t feel so alone now🤍
the part of you that goes 'I didn't deserve to be sad' is the part that loves and cares about you! recognising that you deserve to be happy doesn't mean you have a victim complex, it shows that you're healing x
her videos give me so much comfort
Me too Omg!! 💙
I relate so hard to this Flossie, I'm 24 and this year was very difficult with friendships/triggers even family stuff. You are not alone and I and many others appreciate your transparency. We are all in this together even if we've never met ❣
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I’ve been in a funk bad this year!!! Her saying she thinks she deserves it broke me. I’ve feel it too. 😢😭💜
@@JocelynLowary nobody deserves it. She’s too hard on herself sometimes but aren’t we all. We just need to support each other always x
Expect she is able to rent a really nice flat in London and do a job she enjoys without having to work a 9-5 x
Thank you so much flossie for posting this. I am currently in an anxiety flare up and it really helped me to hear that youre going through the same thing - I didnt know you had anxiety. Please dont apologise for sharing, we love it! Also very nice that youre journalling - i can relate to this. Would love to watch a video where you share some of the knowledge / resources u spoke about in this vid that helped u get out of depression xx
I related to this video so much. This time of year is so tuff and I find it so hard to enjoy this time of year because so many aspects of it reminds me of when I wasn’t ok or when life wasn’t good. And I find it so tricky to figure out if I’m actually sad or if I’m upset about what happened. It’s all confusing but thank you for being so honest Flossie ❤
Flossie don't ever think people are becoming sick of hearing you talk about how you feel, it really helps so many people i don't think you realise !! It helps me so much hearing you speak what I can't put into words and it makes me feel safe that others can feel like this also.
I think that a toxic thing in society at the moment is "manifesting", because everyone (including myself) is interpreting it wrong. It's important to have a positive overall outlook and goal on/for your life, but it is OKAY to feel negative emotions and process things - it is completely normal. What's not okay is to put pressure on yourself and blame yourself for "bad things happening" because you "didn't have a constant positive mindset". It's not your fault, the universe can't be this strict on us and expect us to never feel bad and process our emotions! Life has its ups and downs naturally and it's already mapped out, whether you're strictly manifesting or not. Knowing I have no control helps me relax cause then you can sit back and enjoy the ride rather than be anxious about your every move. Hope that helps! xxx
That last bit about the triggers was so relatable, I feel like as soon as summertime is over I get this cloud of anxiety over me until it starts to get warm again and I can be bothered to do things without having to cry myself to go out
I don't consider you talking about mood as complaining or being annoying. You're just being honest about how you're feeling and it's more relatable than you think!! This makes you a real and genuine person, thank you for showing your vulnerable side
hey flossie, i also deal with an anxiety disorder and hearing other people talk about it is always nice as i know how much it helps to talk about it and it makes me feel less alone so i’m writing this to also tell you you’re not alone and you’re healing and it’s okay to be anxious and okay to have triggers from the past and still be sad about it, it’s completely normal. You’ll get through it we always do, lots of love ❤
It is really refreshing to see you talk about your anxiety or just even when you're having a bad day. I think it does a lot to help dispel the idea that everyone has it perfect and ideal all the time. And it's also lovely to see you have a good day or several good days - it's just very honest and human and something of this world and I really appreciate you sharing this. Hope you have lots of lovely days and nights ahead and wishing you the best as you work through this season x
It’s a sign of self-love that you’re sad about past you going through depression 💜
I’m exactly the same about being scared of ending back up in headspaces and for a very long time avoided triggers, music, smells, places ect. You’re so right that you’ll make new memories and good things will happen. Remembering when bad things do happen during this time, it’s okay and it’s not defining you and it’s not a step backwards. You’ll keep moving forward. You’ve got this girly, see all of this as a form of growth. Recognising that you’ve come so far. Trust me, you’re doing all the right things and saying all the right things ❤️
I relate so much to this flossie, this weeks been really hard for me. I’ve been so anxious and low and I don’t know why i’m like this
Hi Flossie, I’ve never commented before but wanted to say this! I had a very difficult time where i felt the worst id ever felt throughout December-January two years ago. And last year when that time came round again I felt EXACTLY the same. I kept getting flashbacks from that time and feeling anxious that the same would happen again or that I’d sink to that low place again. Thankfully I didn’t and it was actually completely fine! And now that it’s almost that time this year I don’t feel anxious or scared because It was fine last year. I think because this is the first year since, it might be worse. But next year and the years to come you’ll heal even more and have more normal or positive memories from that time to prove to you that this time of the year won’t always be that way. Sending love and hugs ❤
Hey Flossie!
I totally get where you are coming from with the run up to things that previously had a negative affect when we think about them, I’m in the same kind of situation but the way I see it know is that is how far we have came, you managed to come out the other end! You wake up every morning and start the day even if it’s good or bad and that’s take strength!I know you feel anxious and down and that’s okay! I feel so proud of you since been watching your videos! We have our good days and bad days. You are stronger than you give credit for! It will ease, it’s just takes time, baby steps!
Keep smiling! Keep your head up! Shine bright baby gal❤️
The nausea and dizzyness/light-headedness is so real. I find the physical anxiety symptoms personally fill way more for me than the mental, cus my body reacts before my brain even gets a chance to comprehend.
The things that helped me the most are:
-Having a weekly plan (Morning, Afternoon, Evening) to create structure and make sure I give myself actual breaks
-Breaks doesn't always mean lying in bed or meditating, it can just be whatever you like to do to recharge mentally/physically
-Working on allowing oneself to adapt if one's routine changes and looking for the third option if feeling cornered
-Doing what you can to make a situation that is triggering more comfortable (removing oneself physically, saying how you feel in a way others can comprehend. like you need some fresh air/your head is foggy/you didn't sleep well, if you know a busy situation stresses you - adjust the factors you can, put on headphones, sit down on a bench etc.)
-Setting boundaries (aka stating your needs to friends/work/loved ones and not forming it as a question) is super empowering, cus it helps you assert control (boundaries can be verbal og physical)
-If something is bothering/stressing you weeks in advance, try and remove just 1 thing that is stressing you
-If things are going well, that means you have the right balance of stuff going - doesn't always mean you should add more stuff to juggle
-If you start comparing yourself to your previous self/others and getting negative thoughts, try and do the opposite and find actual evidence that opposes these negative thoughts
-Do not enter a competition with yourself, it's important to be aware how times/situations make you feel but it is so much pressure to expect oneself to be over something/not be affected by something (we don't have that control, wanting to be anxiety free is a sure path to anxiety)
-Instead of thinking today/this year I'm going to do it better, it can be a win to say this time I'm gonna do it different or I'm not going to particpate in comparing myself
The small practical things are your greatest tools in triggering situations cus often anxiety comes from feeling overwhelmed or under pressure.
Thank you Flossie for allowing us to see some of the raw, unfiltered parts of your life.
Also, remember that you aren't alone when dealing with the stresses of life, so please keep relying on those people who genuinely love and care for you and immerse yourself in hobbies that'll keep your mind active, distracting you from the bad times.
It’s completely valid to have old wounds and negative feelings resurface, even if you’ve already worked through it, it’s perfectly okay. I know that feeling these things can make us beat ourselves up a bit and feel bad about it but I think it’s important to know you can accept these feelings for what they are even though they are hard and we don’t want to have to go through these things again, but I guess in a bittersweet way, it’s a reminder of what we learned through those times, the growth we had through learning those lessons and taking hold of that strength again. Even when it feels like everything’s going wrong it’s good to try find anytime to sit with the emotions and just let them be there, acknowledge them etc, of course it’s hard with an overactive mind but just taking a few moments to sit with it and connect to your body and your heart can help even in small amounts. I always thought I’d failed when I would overthink about old wounds again but that’s not the case it’s just about realising it’s normal and reconnecting back to that inner strength like I said before
we are not and will not be bored of hearing you talk about your LIFE. that’s what we are all here for, the good & the bad, we will always be your constant 💙
I don't really watch UA-cam but when I do I always come to flossies channel , she just relatable and I feel like she's one of the few who show real raw life and its comforting to know that influencers that we look up to and inspire us don't always have it perfect . I feel like I can really connect to these videos
i’ve suffered with anxiety since i was young and believed that it had gone away once i saw someone and lived years without feeling anxious. now being 20, i’ve realised that it never truly disappears. it’s a sad reality and it can be so hard because sometimes there is absolutely no reason for feeling anxious, but our brains just react in that certain type of way. it’s a part of who we are, and it’s just about coping with it in the moment, rather than dwelling on the why. yet it also doesn’t define who we are. you are flossie even with anxiety, it doesn’t take away from you as a person.❤
Thank you for being open and honest, it will help so many people not feel alone in their struggles!
That wave of nausea/light headedness you get in the mornings is deffo a symptom of anxiety! I used to throw up every morning before school and uni when I was mega anxious. You’re doing the right things getting up earlier so you’re not rushing, I always found toast and butter the easiest thing to eat when I felt nauseous- I hope it eases soon as it’s nasty!
i have the same thing whenever the season changes i get reminded of how i felt last time it was that season it’s SO hard to explain but i think it’s similar to what you’re describing
This is your opportunity to make it a happy time so that next year Flossie and look at Halloween and Christmas and say yayyyy last year was better. It will get better and better. Let your triggers become your testimonies! The only way to get through it is so go through it and I know you can! You’re doing amazing sweetie!
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No ones deserves to feel anxious and sad, but it is important to realise that nobody is going to save you from it. As long as you do the work to heal and improve, no matter how small the steps you're taking are, you should be proud of yourself💓
Flossie had got to be one of the most raw and honest UA-camrs🫶🏼 relatable queen xx
thank you so much for being honest about anxiety/mental health. I feel like for so many people autumn and winter can make anxiety and other mental health stuff feel much more intense, my health anxiety has been really intense lately and for some reason I've just felt more overwhelmed lately. I do feel like I'm quite a strong person but this shit really do be different tbh. I'm trying to allow myself to feel how I need to feel rather than running away from my emotions but it feels really hard at times
Listening to your perspective helps me so much to be patient w myself🥺
i like to wade around in my bath after adding the bubbles to help the bubble to water ratio :) also love you flossie I’m so grateful to see you being so real and open and honest about your mental state, it really helps me feel less anxious posting about my own online as well ❤❤ sending love and hugs your way
I know you’re Mum, Emma. She must be so proud of you; always reach out for support. You are valued, you are heard, you are very special, Flossie. And yeh to Emma and Howard for raising such WONDERFUL human being.
Yes yes yes!!!! We love an honest girl🤩
There is a spot in the city that I broke down crying in for hours and hours 6 years ago… I walk past it most weeks and it still reminds me of that day BUT I am reminded of how far I’ve come and how much life has changed, I’m able to walk past grateful and with a smile, thinking “if only you knew how good it gets”.
You don’t have to change the memory of the place or forget where you have been to move forward, the past is an amazing reminder of your strength and courage
the nausea in the morning could be acid reflux induced by anxiety, only made worse that you're worried about the Paris incident repeating :( I feel u girl happens to me ! gaviscon is my best friend
Paula's Choice has so many great products! I love their CALM range & they just renewed it, so I reordered my faves: the repairing serum & BHA lotion exfoliant + picked up a new one...the milky toner, which I'm super excited to try out! I'm glad you found some that're helping your skin out ❤
this video was so relatable, at this time of year my anxiety always worsens and i feel like im not in control. It so important to just take time out to do nothing and spend time with yourself. xxx
it's super brave of you to be open like this! you're a huge inspiration x
I send you so much love ♥️ anxiety is awful, dont ever feel bad for saying how you feel 🙏♥️ you cannot take away the past, but you can work on your future ♥️God Bless 🙏♥️
I used to suffer crippling anxiety just like yourself so I can completely identify and I think you're awesome for sharing it online. Honestly the NUMBER of people who will feel less alone because they see you sharing will be more than you know !!
Don’t discredit yourself and your triggers are absolutely understandable, continue being patient you are doing so so well 💗
love theseee kind of vlogs- also your walk in wardrobe is beautttt and i would love a self care routineeee
I’m sorry you’re having a hard time xx sending you LOTS of love. You’re an amazing person and deserve to receive as much love as you give to us ❤
This is probably my favourite vlog of yours that you've done x
Quitting caffeine and alcohol can help reduce anxiety 😊 Getting lots of sleep too 😘
You have no idea how much I loved this video!!
love you floss, how people behave is their issues gal, keep glowing x
Love ur videos so much. I do kind of think thought at the moment you are being quite self deprecating and u don't need to be! Is so gorg and j think u jsut need to start feeling more positive about yourself and outlook in life x
Re the shoes (lol), don't tell them off the bat that they're the display pair. Just say you bought them and they're different colours and that you want a replacement. Only say they're the display pair if they ask you!
omg the morning yawns while trying to talk😂😂 adorable and relatable
I just saw the Tik tok of Flossie dancing and stepping on her laptop and she’s wondering why it isn’t working 😀💅🏽✨
40 mins of Flossie 💕
Hey.. It will be okay.. I remember that after i moved out of the area i grew up in, i would always get anxiety going back there.. Because alot happened there.. I felt like i couldn't go back there... And yeah.. Had to give myself some time.. And one day i decided that i would make better memories back home... Whatever happens happens..
i commented on the vid on your spam already but i completely get everything you said! its so hard to be reminded of a dark place (especially when its by things you cant really avoid). its fine to feel how you are right now! also not to sound like the most patronising person ever but 10000000% in bad times of anxiety i really recommend dropping caffeine! it always makes me feel so so much worse in the long run bc im pretty sure there's a link between caffeine and spikes in anxiety (idk the science tho soz queen x)
youve got this my luv
42 mins ok the flossie movie
you were hurt, it triggers a lot of emotion, you feel deeply. it's a good thing you are feeling and not numb
Girl I absolutely love that green sweater!! If you want it to last longer you shouldn’t hang it because the material stretches. Knitted clothes last longer if you fold them:))
Your so strong floss💓
I can’t be the only one who will never buy a casetify case bcos of how overly advertised they are
They’re super good though 😂 but I know wha T you mean
THANK YOU FOR THIS VLOG
Thanking the universe for these long videos Flossie!!!! Tbh if they were an hour long I’d be happier HAHA lol nah but I’m adoring it and I adore u from a gay 2 a gal, your videos rejuvenate my soul ❤
gorgeous gorgeous girl 42 minutes of Flossie ❤️❤️xxx
the fact that i can’t afford to pay my £620 rent this month and am getting kicked out of my home because of it and flossies just spent that on headphones 🙈
what eyelash serum do you use?? sending lots of love to Flossie & everyone in the comments/ reading this 🥰
The reason why you feel ill in the morning might literally be because of anxiety. Anxiety literally makes you physically exhausted, which could make you more tired. Anxiety affects you physically more than you realize.
Floss is there a possibility you might be experiencing anemia? Low energy, nausea... maybe get on some iron supps xx
Hi Flossie! It is so evident how strong you are and how much healing you’ve accomplished. There is nothing wrong with showing us this, we love and appreciate your authenticity. Carry the lessons you’ve learned through last winter and each will get easier, knowing from experience, she may be s.a.d but she’s still a baaaad bitch. We love you. You’re not alone. P.s. vitamin D supplements have really helped me
this made me cry I understand you 100
your pain is valid lovely
I have the sick nauseous thing too, extremely frustrating, especially when waking early/ travelling. Let us know if you figure out what it is, as I still can't figure it out! Was thinking about getting hypnotherapy for it!
Those glasses are so sleekxx
OMG IS THAT MY CHILD DANNY LOMAS fashion icon king of fred perry??? I MISSED HIM SINCE PAQ
Personally I think perhaps living in the same city and apartment brings back all these feelings of anxiety. You should move to the countryside and you’ll be happier
where are your gold bracelets from?
Sending love and light ❤
“If you’re looking for a first designer bag” pretty much sums up how out of touch influencers are nowadays 😭no hate it’s just funny
i promise Floss Boss itll get better trust me
Just regarding 34:22 ... You are obviously a spiritual person but be careful what spirit is behind what you are practicing. Manifesting is powerful and its basis is witchcraft. Manifesting generally doesn't end well for people. I know I sound crazy but just wanted to message anyway because I genuinely care xx
Could you explain more about this please? (Not trying to discredit you or say you’re not right, I just am genuinely interested and would love to know more!)
@@gemcockrell I’d love to chat to you more if you’re keen. I could give you my number for a WhatsApp text chat or send you UA-cam videos to explain myself further? Sadly we can’t DM on UA-cam or else I’d just do that!!
@@gemcockrell ua-cam.com/video/HRxWGRocxYg/v-deo.html
@@sherbetstraw thank you!
also the irony of manifesting is that people say it’s spiritual but I was brought up spiritualist and we are not aloud or supposed to manifest
She doesn’t know what anxiety is and it’s funny
Yay my fave ❤
Anxiety sucks big time.
I hate it.
It could be covid
At first I thought this was India Grace
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You never showed us what you brought 😩
also try vomitting in a busy train station in london… i wanted to die
it’s getting boring that you only post to add in a casetify ad
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Was it the Olivia fall out that was the “ sad “ part in her life ? She’s making it sound like her mum died or something like qhat could possibly be so bad in her life
I think she just went through a lot during that time, the Olivia fall out being one of those things x
even things that don’t seem like that big of a deal can seriously trigger mental illness, and usually that’s harder to deal with than the event itself
I have never heard anyone talk about this before. I have dealt with this all my life and it’s been really hard to vocalize what the mental state is. I would cry from time to time saying “why can’t I just be happy”, “why can’t I just let it go”, etc. I’ve struggled making sure I feel my emotions and make them valid whilst I also don’t want to have a victim complex. Anyway, thanks for speaking on this, I don’t feel so alone now🤍
Where is the jacket from?