I cannot put up with such man, I was once married to that kind of man ,that can bring his mistress to the house without feeling any remorse, I really go through a lot, coming to my street to pay a house for his girlfriend because I told him not to try it next time by bring his mistress to my house, I don't wish my enemies such a men, your mental health, your blood pressure, I am alive today is a big testimony, my advice to every women out there please get something doing, be an independent woman very important.
The worst and weakest men are those that bring their mistresses into their matrimonial home. Real men marry their mistresses, and get another home for them while still keeping and maintaining their first wife.
@@mysteriouslytrue Hope real women can do same by marring their alternative male partners and giving them another home too .This your description of what a real man does is really funny oo😀
Women that are already used to millions and billions will rather die in an abusive marriage (emotional or physical) than leave and have a less luxurious life!
May Edochie is a class apart barrister Neze, she moves like a boss lady and graceful like a queen, she is the kind of woman I find inspiring 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. I believe in women who stand tall and even when their crowns are shaken, they stand up and fight. That’s my kind of inspiration and Queen May wears it perfectly
A boss lady only succeeds if she ensures she doesn't get passed around by various men sharing all their beds. For example, Tiwa savage, can be classed a boss lady but since getting a divorce she's being passed around by almost 3 men as we saw one of them in a past leaked s^x tape with her. What kind of boss lady is that? So its too early to call May Edochie a boss lady.
We don't care who she sleeps with. She is free. Please direct that message to the one who committed adultery. No one has the right to tell a single person how to satisfy themselves.😂@@mysteriouslytrue
@@mysteriouslytrueDo you see how biased you are!! The men that are sleeping around with different ladies, why don't you term the men as being passed around different women's bed? When a man sleeps around, you don't term him as being passed around. But the moment a woman dates 3 men at several stages of her life, you judge her as being passed around.
@mysteriouslytrue This man your comments are not too logical oo... you dey reason like Yul Edochie, this is your second comment I'm seeing in this comment section, and it's not logical at all..weydone sir
Trinibagonian here. Same here and I've taught the same to my daughters. I've always had my own. The lifestyle I have I can afford.. If my husband acts out or leaves. I'm still shining.
My mother was very strong, smart, hard working independent and and versatile. She taught every female child to be same..even without sparing my brothers. She teamed up with my father to make us very strong. She will always be my heroine
There is nothing as sweet as working for your own money, especially as a married woman! Its the biggest flex in my.opinion. Greetings from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪
Tears are flowing 😢, dropped out from school, ✂️ off from relations,friends, etc, all in the name of marriage 😂. Ask me my stand today, Neze 😮 I will watch this over and over again . A big lesson for all. It’s a terrible thing to love without loving back 💔 . I so much appreciate our new generation. They understand what love really is than us in our 60's. "U 1st not man," May made or took the right decision, and i loved her 4 that . Neze, u are talented, and I ❤️ you
These stories are very relatable. It's good to note, though, that it is not always all white and black, so many grey areas. I am that woman who knew I couldn't sacrifice my career, my family depended on me even as a single girl. I am still that woman who let go of her thriving banking career because it became too unbearable, coping with pregnancy, a toddler, and an unsupportive working environment..... but ofcourse, it was to go into civil service. Not to come sit at home. I am that woman that stayed through so much abuse in marriage cos I knew that it'll be financially straining for me and the kids alone and their father wouldn't lift a finger once I walked out. Yet, I am that woman that walked out and, today, at 38, civil servant and a single mother of 3. Through it all, alhamdulillah. Nobody goes into marriage with divorce as a goal but God has different paths for us all. As cliche as it sounds, I stayed for the kids and when I left, I left for the kids. I didn't care too much for my own feelings at the time cos for years, I already lived like a single married woman so I knew that there won't be any negative difference in leaving for me. For the kids that didn't asked to be brought into the situation, I thought I owed them some childhood memories with a father figure in it. I quickly realised though that there was no way to win in my situation. Because a father figure is good but what kind of father figure? The wrong kind of father figure or idea of a father figure can be very detrimental to directing the kids path in life too so, I took that decision. Its been a tough 3months so far but hey! We are still here. Definitely taking time for a much needed healing journey and the kids are happy and thriving so I know I'm well on my way to joining them there😊. Thing is, once you find yourself in a situationship of a marriage and there are kids, and you're in nigeria😂 it's a lose-lose situation. You just have to choose your loss.
You have done well.. Congratulations. It is well. It will get better. I did exactly like you. Made a decision to wait for my youngest to turn 18! I waited for 10 years while living a single married life.. I was the main bread winner. When my youngest son joined Uni.. I left!!.. It is 8 years now and no regrets!.. I wanted my kids to have the best childhood memories and I made sure peace reigned during the waiting period for them.. With that decision I had to take a lot of sh^t but I was not bothered at all... And when I left my kids wondered why.. because to them it was all bliss.. And that is when I knew my goal was achieved!!.. So, as Neze said, we all can make choices depending on our circumstances. Take in only what you can.. And while at it, dont cry wolf!.. Just take your medicine like a pro!..😀 If you see yourself hurting, crying and complaining, then just know you have to leave.
I love the way you adress your conversations with so much respect and ensuring that your follows and audience don't troll or judge the victims this is such a flex receive your flowers from Kenya
I dated a man recently,who was so blunt and unapologetic. He told me all he wanted in the relationship as none of his vision did not align with mine, I respected myself and left the relationship peacefully
@@ysho2248indeed I Dodged a bullet because he wanted to have access to my finances,he asked if I can take a bank loan for him or be a guarantors for him.He would complain over me not calling him or finding out if he’s hungry to send food to him and finally he would tell me how he loves se* and he wants constant intimacy in the relationship before marrying me so I simply told him I have been celibate for years . Oga said I was unserious and wasn’t ready for marriage so I just respected myself by deleted his contact . Ah relationship that hasn’t reached a month ,Oga wants to use marriage to brainwash me
Oh Neze, God bless you! My hubby was that type who would drop things everywhere. Right from the beginning, I said no ways, honey, we can start like this ooo. Today, I smile when I see how he is so particular about his environment. It is truly marvelous to see, and I'm happy I refused to pick up after him.
Mary is teaching young women about choices, life lesson to many, we are no longer endurance wives. Ladies your mental health is of outermost importance , choose wisely.
All the 3 men are popular figures artists actors and Musicians… I thought you were going to point that out Chineze( all along I didn’t realize Neze was Chineze😊) The popularity of the men tries to drown the women… but I speak of the oldest for now….May refused to be drowned. I salute you Neze …I salute Queen May too.
I'm with you Neze, my peace of mind is golden, but paramount in all this is your relationship with God. God is the only one who can give you joy hope and strength to face another day.
Prayers to Annie,!... May she Overcome by getting out of that toxicity... Loh!.. You can feel the agony she carries in her voice... It's chilling... 🙏🏾
May is a beautiful and blessed woman and a mother sometimes god remove people out of your life for you to get where he needs you to go look at the blessings that she gets for her and her kids god is good all the time bless to you dear may one love respect 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲
Nezeville , you are such an Amazing woman filled with wisdom. God will continue to uphold May Edochie with happiness and fulfillment. I have never commented on anything about her , but I was pushed by the way you had a critical analysis about her situation. We keep learning each day. Jisike Nwannem.
Fantastic. An awesome piece. Our dear Neze, you’re not just a good lawyer and a captivating storyteller; you’re also a proper women’s rights advocate and a really good marriage/relationship counsellor. You thoroughly understand the roots of domestic violence - emotional abusers and the mindset of a perpetrator. I salute you for the seriousness and the depth of your research and analysis of important social issues. Thanks immensely because just one video by you has the capacity to save lives and teaches much more than several women’s rights workshops can. You’re a gift to our world!
You are absolutely right, Neze. The approach of the man really matters a lot. MAY was publicly humiliated and disgraced by the so-called husband. She has no choice but to leave. I love her decision so much.
This woman ehhhhh, your sense of humor is top-notch. Many women suffer after a breakup or divorce if they are not financially stable. Build your life ladies, it is very important. Make genuine friendship and relationships. God bless you Neze ❤
Neze, you’re a wonderful and intelligent woman, I pray for more strength and wisdom for you. You have said it all, I must confess these are my admonitions to my children, as iam a victim of all that you enumerated, but I thank God . I didn’t quit but what I did was to travel out to meet one of my children abroad, start to earn a living. I now have peace, my relationship with God deepened. To God alone be all the glory
The story you shared is for me. I’ve been threatening to leave my job because of my Velcro baby and working from home. Job that adapts to my conditions o and i can work at anytime but because it’s tough with a baby i keep telling my husband I want to quit. My take home is not every uncomfortable situation I throw in the towel (this has been me for a while ) this video is the wake up call I needed. Every point needs to be incorporated into my life Thanks for sharing and btw you look amazing
My grand mother used to always say, know in every women there is a time when she has to face a cross, when that time comes you need to know what of U is being targeted. This will arm you for the kind of battle ahead and what you need to do to overcome and thrive.....
Absolutely, I think the three women's stories are different. May was a bread winner, Yul Edochie wants May to use her own money to fund his polygamy lifestyle which is crazy.
The enemy of a woman is another woman! Must we applaud concubine women like Judy? Mocking your fellow woman who is mourning on top of the scattering her home :(
@mercyeffiong6822 No May wasn't the bread winner read their story again but regardless she chose herself her sanity and her children. Her light shines brighter when she chose her peace
I think the upbringing and family background a woman has plays a pivotal role in her decision making as an adult. Women who had a father that loved them dearly, siblings especially brothers that showered them with love hardly find themselves in a messy relationship with a man because they have a reference point. A lady that grew up in an environment where her father loves her mom and proves it will hardly settle for less. The devil understands that family plays a very crucial role in how adults are made so he does everything to attack it. If you are unfortunate or fortunate not to have grown up in such homes, there is hope. Build yourself with books, learn from others, get yourself involved in meaningful social networks. Let your relationship with God be topnotch because he demonstrates what true love should be for any lady out there. Once you see God, love him and understand how he works, you wouldn't want less for yourself also. A healthy self esteem and good personality can be built irrespective of your background. It only takes more work compared to those who came from backgrounds where the tone was already set. Love yourself! It is not selfishness when it is healthy and you are not in human. ❤❤❤
A person that the parents smoke either end up smoking or hate smoking. No ,it doesn't determine anything. We are soul, and thus are independent of choices and have the agency to decide
Chioma left Davido for 2 years when he got his baby momma in London while with her and that showed him that no every woman can take nonsense bcz he is a superstar and she was doing well had ambassador deals and even bought herself a house so now that they got back together he knew what she can do hence he is trying to be a best husband he can be
Neze you never see professional men are CHEATERS and DECEITFULY and they can pretend for AFRICAN ooh as a hole. Those guys are good at what they do and it runs in their blood and they hide their attitude like never before. On till they are good to strake. My sister those characters both genders have it when it comes to that. If your partner has another Motive WOMEN'S WAY OF HIDING THEIR CHARACTERS: 1) CHILD ISSUES LIKE SHE NEVER HAVE HER OWN CHILD, SHE MARRIED HIM FOR REVENGE OR SHE BEAR A CHILD FOR HIM OR A MALE CHILD AND THE OTHER DID HAVE ) SOME BECAUSE MONEY WHY THE MAIN REASONS OF MEN HIDING THEIR CHARACTERS: ARE FAME, AND IF THE LADY HAS MONEY AND POWER
@TheBestinMe143 Have you caught him?. You guys are praying for Davido to have another cheating scandal, so you can celebrate. No one is perfect, including you, Davido is trying to be a better person.
I truly appreciate the way you share your stories. It brings me joy to learn about what’s happening with May Edochie. I admire her resilience and the grace with which she navigates the challenges that have come her way🙏🏿❤️🇺🇸.
I do not know how women tolerate cheating expecially when married. They have my utmost respect to forgive n move on. Was cheated by just an ex, not husband n i could not see him the same way. We have tried to come back 3 times, but i just cant move past the cheating. These are strong women
I rarely subscribe to UA-cam channels but I did not think twice to subscribe to yours with few videos. Your ideology on this issue is same as mine. Financial independence is very important for any woman. Develop yourself as a woman, be valuable, it reduces abuse. The first principle is identifying urself and knowing what you want. Indeed we all have choices, I cannot also marry a man who does not want me to have my source of income no matter how rich he is; I will also discourage my daughters to be 100% dependent on their spouses. May also took that decision to ignore the man and face her children until the death of her first son. I love her decision, she moved on with her kids. I only discourage women that leave their kids.....
Neze you are doing a good job , educating our sisters and daughters,.let the wise get some wisdom and the others open their ears, life is a one way journey, no turning back,use your eyes dear ladies, when you see the red flag, run, for dear life, life is short , but worth living, live your life. a word to the wise is enough,
In most cases, men will not say it outright. They have waaays of saying it and they don’t start playing up until you are totally dependent on them. When they know you can’t just jump up and go back to work.
He won’t tell you outright even if that is what he believes. But just like Neze said, during courtship,you intentionally dig to know what your partner’s ideologies are. THAT IS ACTUALLY THE ESSENCE OF COURTSHIP.
Well done Neze, you have done justice to this topic and I enjoyed every moment of this of this episode. You are spot on and constantly doing doing a great job
I've said this a million times before; you are such a phenomenal storyteller and there's so much wisdom in your podcast/ videos I literally have to watch it multiple times and even taking notes. God has you here for a purpose you are not only very comical when needed rested when needed but filled with so much wisdom and life experience. I truly truly truly thank you for providing such videos
Neze you are something else. I was coming to hear wahala gist about these women, instead it became a "sit down and listen" case study extraordinaire. This video was well thought out, sensitive, non-judgemental, educative and relatable to everyone woman. Thank you for your poised and wisdom. You are a smart woman like Kamala Harris.
The three women stories ate different. May was a bread winner to the marriage, Tuface and Davido has money. Tuface and Davido has never come to social media to humiliate their wives. Yul Edochie behavior shows he didn't love his wife May, but was there for May money.
Thank you Neze for your usual powerful message and dare I say sermon. As women we need to double up our hustles because anything can happen. My mother will say be the type of woman that a reasonable man will think twice before leaving you!! Need I say I took her words literally.
Wow! Always a joy yo watch 👀 your videos, cause there is so much to learn. A woman should be indeed independent, not dependent. Thank you God bless you. Love you loads ❤❤❤
Human beings are social currency, don’t cut people off! That’s one thing I believe strongly in and keep sounding in my children’s ears. Build and maintain valuable relationships.
May's case is quiet unique and different. These other women fully understood what they were getting into and their men so far have not publicly dishonored their marital vows. They are all trying to manage their men past weaknesses which they were very much aware before walking down the aisle. I have never seen any man have a mistress, get her pregnant, and come out in the public to declare they are marrying their mistress without prior discussion with their legally married wife. That's the highest level of disrespect and disloyalty a man can give to his 18 years of marriage with 4 grown children.
Neze, you just blessed me with this video. Indeed we all have the ability to make a choice.❤ As painful as it may be, I would have to make mine to walk away from a four year marriage with a 3 year old and a two month old baby. I know that I would be glad that I did in a few years to come. It will only hurt now, but the hurt will go away with time😭
This is very educative, and I am sharing it on social 4 women to learn. U are right about weapons fashioned against that person. Like you said, if you can .my experience was different, but l was able to walk away from the marriage . It was painful, and the betrayals were scary . I left Nigeria and went back to my base . I have never returned or visited snice then. People are scary .
Very true Neze. While courting, I’ll bring out vegetables and I’ll host with my husband to be and we’ll both pick the veggies. I’ll keep gisting and give him onions to cut. It became a pattern, doing various household chores down to this day. I believe what goes on in courtship extends to the marriage. I’ve tried this with a previous relationship and he complained and never wanted to do anything- I run o! Plus his temper, I 🏃♀️ 😂😂😂. I’m happy with my best friend, boo, Obi’m 😂😂😂😂. Pray, use God given wisdom and I believe It will work out at least.
I heard this saying a long time ago,mother got ,father got and blessed is the child that has their own.Women should not allow marriage to make them ,or keep them dependent but rather try to help them selves in any little way that they could.I don’t think anyone goes into marriage to have it break but thing happen,be prepared.
Neze please keep giving us this types of wholesome contents. I am seeing a different side of you that I’ve absolutely fallen in love with. More of lessons than seeming ‘gossip’ content. Gosh! you are so beautiful❤
The truth is if you have ever had the unfortunate luck of meeting a narcissistic man you will know that men can really hide their true intentions, it's not a one size fits all situation when it comes to these things. But I totally agree that a woman must try her best to have her own work and genuine source of income.
I cannot put up with such man, I was once married to that kind of man ,that can bring his mistress to the house without feeling any remorse, I really go through a lot, coming to my street to pay a house for his girlfriend because I told him not to try it next time by bring his mistress to my house, I don't wish my enemies such a men, your mental health, your blood pressure, I am alive today is a big testimony, my advice to every women out there please get something doing, be an independent woman very important.
The worst and weakest men are those that bring their mistresses into their matrimonial home. Real men marry their mistresses, and get another home for them while still keeping and maintaining their first wife.
@@otavieeinaman4396 Davido never brought another woman home like your husband, he respects his wife so much.
@@mysteriouslytrue Hope real women can do same by marring their alternative male partners and giving them another home too .This your description of what a real man does is really funny oo😀
@@mysteriouslytrueThere is nothing real about a man that marries his mistress.
@@omalicha7388She's being sarcastic about it. She knows that it doesn't make sense. 💕
Financial independence is a must for every woman. Even if you have to sell akara, do it and have your own source of income.
Women that are already used to millions and billions will rather die in an abusive marriage (emotional or physical) than leave and have a less luxurious life!
That's bitter but hard truth being independence is a key for every women 💯
May Edochie is a class apart barrister Neze, she moves like a boss lady and graceful like a queen, she is the kind of woman I find inspiring 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. I believe in women who stand tall and even when their crowns are shaken, they stand up and fight. That’s my kind of inspiration and Queen May wears it perfectly
A boss lady only succeeds if she ensures she doesn't get passed around by various men sharing all their beds. For example, Tiwa savage, can be classed a boss lady but since getting a divorce she's being passed around by almost 3 men as we saw one of them in a past leaked s^x tape with her. What kind of boss lady is that? So its too early to call May Edochie a boss lady.
We don't care who she sleeps with. She is free. Please direct that message to the one who committed adultery. No one has the right to tell a single person how to satisfy themselves.😂@@mysteriouslytrue
@@tierraokonkwo6671I love you!!!
@@mysteriouslytrueDo you see how biased you are!! The men that are sleeping around with different ladies, why don't you term the men as being passed around different women's bed?
When a man sleeps around, you don't term him as being passed around. But the moment a woman dates 3 men at several stages of her life, you judge her as being passed around.
@mysteriouslytrue This man your comments are not too logical oo... you dey reason like Yul Edochie, this is your second comment I'm seeing in this comment section, and it's not logical at all..weydone sir
I am a jamaican and my mother always taught us to never depend on a mans pocket always work for our own money and we grow up and see our mom working
Trinibagonian here. Same here and I've taught the same to my daughters. I've always had my own. The lifestyle I have I can afford.. If my husband acts out or leaves. I'm still shining.
Am a Nigerian. I believe your mother and mine should be sister's
My mother was very strong, smart, hard working independent and and versatile. She taught every female child to be same..even without sparing my brothers. She teamed up with my father to make us very strong.
She will always be my heroine
@meemee1849
Mine their other Sister. 😂
I have thought the same to my only daughter who l know will pass same to her lovely daughter too .
Same with my mom..they should be sisters.
My mom said if you happen to say in a compound house, don't ask for salt and marches from your neighbor
There is nothing as sweet as working for your own money, especially as a married woman! Its the biggest flex in my.opinion. Greetings from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪
Yes ooh
Tears are flowing 😢, dropped out from school, ✂️ off from relations,friends, etc, all in the name of marriage 😂. Ask me my stand today, Neze 😮 I will watch this over and over again . A big lesson for all. It’s a terrible thing to love without loving back 💔 . I so much appreciate our new generation. They understand what love really is than us in our 60's. "U 1st not man," May made or took the right decision, and i loved her 4 that . Neze, u are talented, and I ❤️ you
These stories are very relatable. It's good to note, though, that it is not always all white and black, so many grey areas. I am that woman who knew I couldn't sacrifice my career, my family depended on me even as a single girl. I am still that woman who let go of her thriving banking career because it became too unbearable, coping with pregnancy, a toddler, and an unsupportive working environment..... but ofcourse, it was to go into civil service. Not to come sit at home. I am that woman that stayed through so much abuse in marriage cos I knew that it'll be financially straining for me and the kids alone and their father wouldn't lift a finger once I walked out. Yet, I am that woman that walked out and, today, at 38, civil servant and a single mother of 3. Through it all, alhamdulillah. Nobody goes into marriage with divorce as a goal but God has different paths for us all. As cliche as it sounds, I stayed for the kids and when I left, I left for the kids. I didn't care too much for my own feelings at the time cos for years, I already lived like a single married woman so I knew that there won't be any negative difference in leaving for me. For the kids that didn't asked to be brought into the situation, I thought I owed them some childhood memories with a father figure in it. I quickly realised though that there was no way to win in my situation. Because a father figure is good but what kind of father figure? The wrong kind of father figure or idea of a father figure can be very detrimental to directing the kids path in life too so, I took that decision. Its been a tough 3months so far but hey! We are still here. Definitely taking time for a much needed healing journey and the kids are happy and thriving so I know I'm well on my way to joining them there😊. Thing is, once you find yourself in a situationship of a marriage and there are kids, and you're in nigeria😂 it's a lose-lose situation. You just have to choose your loss.
Sending you hugs 🫂
You have said it all. Real life, very relatable situation. Keep going sis!!! God has got you (us).
You have done well.. Congratulations. It is well. It will get better. I did exactly like you. Made a decision to wait for my youngest to turn 18! I waited for 10 years while living a single married life.. I was the main bread winner. When my youngest son joined Uni.. I left!!.. It is 8 years now and no regrets!.. I wanted my kids to have the best childhood memories and I made sure peace reigned during the waiting period for them.. With that decision I had to take a lot of sh^t but I was not bothered at all... And when I left my kids wondered why.. because to them it was all bliss.. And that is when I knew my goal was achieved!!.. So, as Neze said, we all can make choices depending on our circumstances. Take in only what you can.. And while at it, dont cry wolf!.. Just take your medicine like a pro!..😀 If you see yourself hurting, crying and complaining, then just know you have to leave.
Apt to a T Maam
hmmmmm. While having a father figure is good, the real question is, what kind of father figure? Very deep. Nurture trumps nature most times.
I love the way you adress your conversations with so much respect and ensuring that your follows and audience don't troll or judge the victims this is such a flex receive your flowers from Kenya
I dated a man recently,who was so blunt and unapologetic. He told me all he wanted in the relationship as none of his vision did not align with mine, I respected myself and left the relationship peacefully
Best decision you ever made. You dodged a bullet there. 😂
I have always believed people will open there mouths and tell you who they are. ❤
@@ysho2248indeed I Dodged a bullet because he wanted to have access to my finances,he asked if I can take a bank loan for him or be a guarantors for him.He would complain over me not calling him or finding out if he’s hungry to send food to him and finally he would tell me how he loves se* and he wants constant intimacy in the relationship before marrying me so I simply told him I have been celibate for years . Oga said I was unserious and wasn’t ready for marriage so I just respected myself by deleted his contact . Ah relationship that hasn’t reached a month ,Oga wants to use marriage to brainwash me
My sister ,don’t regret ,quitting that man, you won the battle and the war equally.wish you the best life ❤️
May the only one get it. She chose herself and her kids! 😊
Period
Oh Neze, God bless you! My hubby was that type who would drop things everywhere. Right from the beginning, I said no ways, honey, we can start like this ooo. Today, I smile when I see how he is so particular about his environment. It is truly marvelous to see, and I'm happy I refused to pick up after him.
Mary is teaching young women about choices, life lesson to many, we are no longer endurance wives. Ladies your mental health is of outermost importance , choose wisely.
All the 3 men are popular figures artists actors and Musicians… I thought you were going to point that out Chineze( all along I didn’t realize Neze was Chineze😊) The popularity of the men tries to drown the women… but I speak of the oldest for now….May refused to be drowned. I salute you Neze …I salute Queen May too.
They are 3 amazing women ...... I love them ..... May God continue to bless and protect them 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen
Amen
Amiina and Amen and Ameen 🙏🙏🙏😍😍😘🥰❤️
Amen
Barrister Neze you are feeding us goood these days ooo… back to back content! Loveeeee to see it!
Yeah
Every lady needs to watch this📌📌📌....thank you Neze. Love from Uganda 🇺🇬
I'm now addicted to this channel.
You have to🗣🗣
Ever since yesterday's video of may I dedicate my watsapp status to her for a full week walaii
Watching this as a young lady hustling..I won't give up if I marry..I pray about this..Thank you neze❤❤🔥
Prayer are too Important 🇬🇧
I hope one day you start podcast and invite May.
I'm with you Neze, my peace of mind is golden, but paramount in all this is your relationship with God. God is the only one who can give you joy hope and strength to face another day.
It’s obvious May is a praying woman!
Prayers to Annie,!... May she Overcome by getting out of that toxicity... Loh!.. You can feel the agony she carries in her voice... It's chilling... 🙏🏾
No one is different,Everyone has the right the make their own choices
May is a beautiful and blessed woman and a mother sometimes god remove people out of your life for you to get where he needs you to go look at the blessings that she gets for her and her kids god is good all the time bless to you dear may one love respect 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲
Nezeville , you are such an Amazing woman filled with wisdom. God will continue to uphold May Edochie with happiness and fulfillment. I have never commented on anything about her , but I was pushed by the way you had a critical analysis about her situation. We keep learning each day. Jisike Nwannem.
Fantastic. An awesome piece. Our dear Neze, you’re not just a good lawyer and a captivating storyteller; you’re also a proper women’s rights advocate and a really good marriage/relationship counsellor.
You thoroughly understand the roots of domestic violence - emotional abusers and the mindset of a perpetrator.
I salute you for the seriousness and the depth of your research and analysis of important social issues.
Thanks immensely because just one video by you has the capacity to save lives and teaches much more than several women’s rights workshops can. You’re a gift to our world!
Wow wow wow,my PERSONAL LAWYER,you NAILED IT,like I keep saying money well spent on your education,thank🥰you mummy & daddy😊.
This three women's they are very strong people'❤❤❤
You are absolutely right, Neze. The approach of the man really matters a lot. MAY was publicly humiliated and disgraced by the so-called husband. She has no choice but to leave. I love her decision so much.
Love that she did it quietly and with grace. She is killing it, like a boss that she is. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
This woman ehhhhh, your sense of humor is top-notch. Many women suffer after a breakup or divorce if they are not financially stable. Build your life ladies, it is very important. Make genuine friendship and relationships. God bless you Neze ❤
Everyone has a "CHOICE " Thank you Barr. Neze Nwanyi Oma 🎉
Neze you the queen of Apiriko. Love you.
A Blunt But Hinest Truth. Let Him who Has Ears Hear It And Be Properly Guided.Thank You @Nezeville For Your Well Of Wisdom!
Neze, you’re a wonderful and intelligent woman, I pray for more strength and wisdom for you. You have said it all, I must confess these are my admonitions to my children, as iam a victim of all that you enumerated, but I thank God . I didn’t quit but what I did was to travel out to meet one of my children abroad, start to earn a living. I now have peace, my relationship with God deepened. To God alone be all the glory
Neze you are deposited with wisdom,sense and reasoning.Many old women don't have what you have 🤞🏾....🇿🇦✊🏾
The story you shared is for me. I’ve been threatening to leave my job because of my Velcro baby and working from home. Job that adapts to my conditions o and i can work at anytime but because it’s tough with a baby i keep telling my husband I want to quit. My take home is not every uncomfortable situation I throw in the towel (this has been me for a while ) this video is the wake up call I needed. Every point needs to be incorporated into my life
Thanks for sharing and btw you look amazing
My grand mother used to always say, know in every women there is a time when she has to face a cross, when that time comes you need to know what of U is being targeted. This will arm you for the kind of battle ahead and what you need to do to overcome and thrive.....
We can't judge any women for we have not walk in their shoes
Absolutely, I think the three women's stories are different. May was a bread winner, Yul Edochie wants May to use her own money to fund his polygamy lifestyle which is crazy.
The enemy of a woman is another woman! Must we applaud concubine women like Judy? Mocking your fellow woman who is mourning on top of the scattering her home :(
@mercyeffiong6822 No May wasn't the bread winner read their story again but regardless she chose herself her sanity and her children. Her light shines brighter when she chose her peace
Facts
Hmmmmmmm! I Keep learning ooo not married yet but all your advice and lectures, one can never go wrong. You worked with Access Bank nwanyi Odogwu.
I think the upbringing and family background a woman has plays a pivotal role in her decision making as an adult. Women who had a father that loved them dearly, siblings especially brothers that showered them with love hardly find themselves in a messy relationship with a man because they have a reference point. A lady that grew up in an environment where her father loves her mom and proves it will hardly settle for less. The devil understands that family plays a very crucial role in how adults are made so he does everything to attack it.
If you are unfortunate or fortunate not to have grown up in such homes, there is hope. Build yourself with books, learn from others, get yourself involved in meaningful social networks. Let your relationship with God be topnotch because he demonstrates what true love should be for any lady out there. Once you see God, love him and understand how he works, you wouldn't want less for yourself also. A healthy self esteem and good personality can be built irrespective of your background. It only takes more work compared to those who came from backgrounds where the tone was already set.
Love yourself! It is not selfishness when it is healthy and you are not in human. ❤❤❤
You said the absolute truth, God will help those of us who didn't know or feel what love really is while growing up.
A person that the parents smoke either end up smoking or hate smoking. No ,it doesn't determine anything. We are soul, and thus are independent of choices and have the agency to decide
So sorry to hear about Annie AGAIN!! 😢. I pray she finds her peace in this life (and to think about the children quite sad..) 🙏🏾
I love your longer videos, very satisfying. You said it all dear Nezeville❤
It's the happily married now for Chioma hopefully by God's grace for me 😂 Neze 😅😅😅
Great minds discuss ideas, how do we call the minds that discuss people????
Petty minds I guess 😂😂😂
Bar Neze u have said it all,
A word is enough for the wise.
Financial independence is very very important dear ladies.
Great advice
Some would even go to the extent of cutting their relatives off in the name of marriage.
Very sad.
Total madness honestly my family are my support system although he wants to cut me off from them but I stood my ground
Chioma left Davido for 2 years when he got his baby momma in London while with her and that showed him that no every woman can take nonsense bcz he is a superstar and she was doing well had ambassador deals and even bought herself a house so now that they got back together he knew what she can do hence he is trying to be a best husband he can be
Lol...
Absolutely, this is the reason Davido has cut off with his baby mama.
Davido still cheating what are you saying 😂but if she smart she should summon as all the wealth she can from Davido
Neze you never see professional men are CHEATERS and DECEITFULY and they can pretend for AFRICAN ooh as a hole. Those guys are good at what they do and it runs in their blood and they hide their attitude like never before. On till they are good to strake. My sister those characters both genders have it when it comes to that. If your partner has another Motive
WOMEN'S WAY OF HIDING THEIR CHARACTERS: 1) CHILD ISSUES LIKE SHE NEVER HAVE HER OWN CHILD, SHE MARRIED HIM FOR REVENGE OR SHE BEAR A CHILD FOR HIM OR A MALE CHILD AND THE OTHER DID HAVE ) SOME BECAUSE MONEY
WHY THE MAIN REASONS OF MEN HIDING THEIR CHARACTERS: ARE FAME, AND IF THE LADY HAS MONEY AND POWER
@TheBestinMe143 Have you caught him?. You guys are praying for Davido to have another cheating scandal, so you can celebrate. No one is perfect, including you, Davido is trying to be a better person.
I truly appreciate the way you share your stories. It brings me joy to learn about what’s happening with May Edochie. I admire her resilience and the grace with which she navigates the challenges that have come her way🙏🏿❤️🇺🇸.
I do not know how women tolerate cheating expecially when married. They have my utmost respect to forgive n move on. Was cheated by just an ex, not husband n i could not see him the same way. We have tried to come back 3 times, but i just cant move past the cheating. These are strong women
Love from Camair Nezeville. You are a great woman. You too get sense ma friend.
I rarely subscribe to UA-cam channels but I did not think twice to subscribe to yours with few videos. Your ideology on this issue is same as mine. Financial independence is very important for any woman. Develop yourself as a woman, be valuable, it reduces abuse. The first principle is identifying urself and knowing what you want. Indeed we all have choices, I cannot also marry a man who does not want me to have my source of income no matter how rich he is; I will also discourage my daughters to be 100% dependent on their spouses. May also took that decision to ignore the man and face her children until the death of her first son. I love her decision, she moved on with her kids. I only discourage women that leave their kids.....
Neze you are doing a good job , educating our sisters and daughters,.let the wise get some wisdom and the others open their ears, life is a one way journey, no turning back,use your eyes dear ladies, when you see the red flag, run, for dear life, life is short , but worth living, live your life.
a word to the wise is enough,
If you can, STAY!! If you can't GO period 🤷 💯.
So much wisdom in one video. Well done Neze
If i am in a relationship and the man tells me not to work that is the day the relationship ends
In most cases, men will not say it outright. They have waaays of saying it and they don’t start playing up until you are totally dependent on them. When they know you can’t just jump up and go back to work.
He won’t tell you outright even if that is what he believes. But just like Neze said, during courtship,you intentionally dig to know what your partner’s ideologies are. THAT IS ACTUALLY THE ESSENCE OF COURTSHIP.
@mamaosun3587 From the start of the relationship i am lying my card on the table for a relationship is a partnership not a maid ship
Bam
You are so wise Neze❤
Thank you Neze, this is an educative talk show, so interesting, may God bless you for wisdom
God bless the child that has its own. I raised my girls to be independent and look for partners with equal ideals and values.
Let us hit that thumbs up, guys for Nezenwa
Well done Neze, you have done justice to this topic and I enjoyed every moment of this of this episode. You are spot on and constantly doing doing a great job
It is so detailed and very educative. This is the first time that I actually listened and paid my full attention on this page. Love it. Thanks alot.
I've said this a million times before; you are such a phenomenal storyteller and there's so much wisdom in your podcast/ videos I literally have to watch it multiple times and even taking notes. God has you here for a purpose you are not only very comical when needed rested when needed but filled with so much wisdom and life experience. I truly truly truly thank you for providing such videos
Neze you are something else. I was coming to hear wahala gist about these women, instead it became a "sit down and listen" case study extraordinaire. This video was well thought out, sensitive, non-judgemental, educative and relatable to everyone woman. Thank you for your poised and wisdom. You are a smart woman like Kamala Harris.
The three women stories ate different. May was a bread winner to the marriage, Tuface and Davido has money.
Tuface and Davido has never come to social media to humiliate their wives.
Yul Edochie behavior shows he didn't love his wife May, but was there for May money.
Love her?😂😂😂. It's who he is it's not because he didn't love her. He is just classeless
I won't throw my friends and family away too♥️♥️
This is eye opening
This one has entered my brains, my nervous system, bones, and digestive system .... thank you so much, sister 💗
Thank you Barr. Neze. You've been a blessing to our generation and to in particular. May God richly bless you.
Yes PEACE is the ultimate, that is the best threshold dear Angelic Queen Barrister NEZE.
Thank you Neze for your usual powerful message and dare I say sermon. As women we need to double up our hustles because anything can happen. My mother will say be the type of woman that a reasonable man will think twice before leaving you!! Need I say I took her words literally.
Neze, I like your tonation in the way you spoke about this subject. I know it is because it's a sensitive topic that affects a lot of people.
God bless u Barrister Neze
Wow! Always a joy yo watch 👀 your videos, cause there is so much to learn. A woman should be indeed independent, not dependent. Thank you God bless you. Love you loads ❤❤❤
Annie Sunk
Chioma is floating
May is Swimming
And you are doing what
@@onyinyeakachukwueze3058no mind them
@onyinyeakachukwueze3058 aunty, that's my opinion. Feel free to leave yours and move on.... don't menstruate under my comment!
😂😂😂@@Jtol88
We all have a story to tell, whether we whisper or yell
Human beings are social currency, don’t cut people off!
That’s one thing I believe strongly in and keep sounding in my children’s ears. Build and maintain valuable relationships.
May's case is quiet unique and different. These other women fully understood what they were getting into and their men so far have not publicly dishonored their marital vows. They are all trying to manage their men past weaknesses which they were very much aware before walking down the aisle.
I have never seen any man have a mistress, get her pregnant, and come out in the public to declare they are marrying their mistress without prior discussion with their legally married wife. That's the highest level of disrespect and disloyalty a man can give to his 18 years of marriage with 4 grown children.
Thanks, Nezenwa, for these eye-opening narratives of your.
You are on point Neze. Divorce from your heart and enjoy your life. Why on earth should one expect another person to make him or her happy?
Neze, you just blessed me with this video. Indeed we all have the ability to make a choice.❤ As painful as it may be, I would have to make mine to walk away from a four year marriage with a 3 year old and a two month old baby. I know that I would be glad that I did in a few years to come. It will only hurt now, but the hurt will go away with time😭
Please give it a second thought 🙏 God will see you through and guilde you to make the right decision. It is well my sister❤
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May God be with Annie, she has tried like a woman. Please God be her strength .
BRILLIANT ADVICE 🎉🎉🎉.
You’re so bright intelligent gifted with wisdom. I love your mind 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
Listening to you is one of my hobby💯
Well spoken Neze i have no words im just speechless you made an amazing analysis 🎉
This is very educative, and I am sharing it on social 4 women to learn. U are right about weapons fashioned against that person. Like you said, if you can .my experience was different, but l was able to walk away from the marriage . It was painful, and the betrayals were scary . I left Nigeria and went back to my base . I have never returned or visited snice then. People are scary .
I am so encouraged by your own testimony ❤️😊
Thanks so much for your advice,am impressed
Very true Neze. While courting, I’ll bring out vegetables and I’ll host with my husband to be and we’ll both pick the veggies. I’ll keep gisting and give him onions to cut. It became a pattern, doing various household chores down to this day. I believe what goes on in courtship extends to the marriage. I’ve tried this with a previous relationship and he complained and never wanted to do anything- I run o! Plus his temper, I 🏃♀️ 😂😂😂. I’m happy with my best friend, boo, Obi’m 😂😂😂😂. Pray, use God given wisdom and I believe It will work out at least.
This video is fully pack of wisdom and lessons to learn thank you so much sis ❤
Very rich content , wonderful booster to me personally .❤ Neze, you have nailed it
WELL SAID NEZE AS ALWAYS!!!!
I heard this saying a long time ago,mother got ,father got and blessed is the child that has their own.Women should not allow marriage to make them ,or keep them dependent but rather try to help them selves in any little way that they could.I don’t think anyone goes into marriage to have it break but thing happen,be prepared.
This is a very good conversation. Thanks Nezee
Great stuff. I wish I can like this a million times Neze Nwanyi Oma ❤
God abeg, I need your grace for genuine people and godly support system around me. Amen!
Thank you Neze for pouring wisdom, hope more women watch this video. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing these nuggets of wisdom.
Neze please keep giving us this types of wholesome contents. I am seeing a different side of you that I’ve absolutely fallen in love with. More of lessons than seeming ‘gossip’ content. Gosh! you are so beautiful❤
You nail it.... Kudos to you
This is a very good and detailed video. Neze.
It pricked a nerve in me.
Thank you so much, beautiful, Neze
The truth is if you have ever had the unfortunate luck of meeting a narcissistic man you will know that men can really hide their true intentions, it's not a one size fits all situation when it comes to these things. But I totally agree that a woman must try her best to have her own work and genuine source of income.