Pearl Davis interviews Paul Elam
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2023
- My thanks to Pearl Davis for allowing me to post this video on my channel.
Pearl is an American Christian conservative anti-feminist cultural commentator who moved to London two years ago and has since built up a subscriber base of 1.8+ million people for her UA-cam channel Just Pearly Things www.youtube.com/@JustPearlyTh..., and her channel is still growing rapidly. She plans to move back to the US shortly.
This video has been watched by 138,000+ people on Pearl's channel since it was published two months ago:
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I'm baffled by some of the comments criticising Paul. Pearl Davis has also interviewed Janice Fiamengo and myself, we were all pleased by our treatment, how we were able to explore matters at length without interruption (never happens in the MSM). Over the course of just two months 138,000+ people have been exposed to Paul's views over 80+ minutes, I'd wager many of them for the first time.
Just a few days ago I was in a TV discussion about the resignation of Luis Rubiales, the Spanish Football Association president, in connection with the feminist witch-hunt following his kiss of a female Spanish soccer player after her team won the Women's World Cup. The discussion had a format that's only too familiar to me - a feminist-compliant host (usually a woman, but a man in this case) and three (female) feminists. The host interrupted me and allowed the feminists to interrupt me, while not allowing me to interrupt anyone. Compare that with how Pearl treats Paul here. Paul has kindly agree to me posting the discussion on this channel in due course.
Pearl reaches many people that MRAs struggle to reach. Frankly I take the attitude that for now - and probably for many years to come - there's no such things as bad publicity for the Men's Rights Movement.
You're not bothered by the fact that she said she does the for money and entertainment. That when put on the spot Pearl is unable to defend her positions because all she really knows how to do is memorize some talking points and men are stupid enough to believe she came up with it on her own.
Embarrassing.
@@jestcurses9963How is it any different than appearing in the MSM? At least Pearl allows them to actually speak. Everything else you claim to be concerned about is irrelevant. Get your priorities in order and focus this criticism at the people out there actually attacking boys and men.
@@jestcurses9963 138,000+ views. She's helping to get the word out there. That's what matters. The global MSM ignores us at best, and is hostile at worst, so what do you suggest to raise public awareness about men's issues and the toxic creed of feminism?
@@dispositionguise7467 Thanks - great point!
I agree. I wrote a little something in the comment section pertaining to this very notion.
In short, Paul would do GREAT on something like Timcast or culturally similar outlets.
Its a real shame that Paul Elam doesn't have the same platform and reach that Pearl does. A truly great man.
Saw this some time ago on pearls channel. Maybe it'll help to draw attention to Paul's channel.
That’s because she is a female and Paul is a male. Simple.
Humbled by your words, sir.
@Ligerpride it's all about Neoteny. Karen Straughan talked about her time going through the same thing.
Right? Pearls channel reaches... But I personally can't stand her. I'm glad that Paul got his incredible voice on her channel.
Paul's content saved me when I encountered a BPD relationship and had no clue what I was dealing with. Lessons I'll have for the remainder of my life. Thank you Paul.
I second this. Same situation, same lessons & same appreciation for Paul & his messages. Saved my bacon and turned this ship around.
me too. hes a great guy.
I dated a woman for 2-3 weeks and then realized something was seriously wrong w her. I very, *very* gently and carefully disengaged without any collateral damage.
Some time later, I watched Paul's video reviewing the DSM's diagnostic criteria for BPD. I was dumbfounded when I realized that woman scored 9 for 9, and what a bullet I had dodged.
We missed you Paul
Paul is a Pioneer. It's not in the nature of most men to defend themselves from malicious gossip.
I'm grateful to Paul For standing up and saying what needs to be said.
'Imagine they had a gender war, and the men showed up.' - Paul Elam
The men did show up: in the simp batallion of feminist allies.
@@goonofhazard2203Those don't count as men.
@@DaMaster012exactly. I met a guy that pees sitting down. Men have been utterly emasculated
@@andrewsmith3257Why were you in a cubicle with him?
@@Nickelodeon81😂
“There are no victims, just volunteers.” -Paul Elam
Paul is the Mens Rights OG. He deffinently helped me grapple with my own emotional impowerment.
Wish Paul was my Dad growing up. I learned the lessons on my own very quickly. Thank God I didn't cave to chix.
@kinnymonster me too..same on those self learned lessons. Don't cave friend...it's not worth it.
Of all the misspellings of the word "definitely" I've ever seen, this one has to be the most creative.
@@giovanniviglietta731 thank
@fermentillc you may also want to try "defiantly". It's another popular one, and my personal favorite before you came up with "deffinently".
HI PAUL💪❤. You are the OG "red pill-er" that saved my life...... Your CRAZY book nailed my then-wife to the T.... Thanks to you I never got falsely accused, arrested, or kicked out of my house ! Now happily divorced and "living" for the first-time in a long time 🙏 All the married men on my block I feel sorry for.... They have no idea what is coming ! Alcoholic, post-menopause, dried-up, nagging and ragging and then the divorce g-rape process...
What’s the name of his book? Is it in audible?
@@elmersicllacanales1441 "Say goodbye to Crazy..." 2015, its on Amazon BUT I don t know if its on Audible... IT SAVED MY LIFE 🛟... I wish you the Best ❗
For the past 11 years, I've been single and it's been great. I'm also 50 years of age and partially retired. It's amazing how much money can be earned and saved when you don't have a woman sucking you dry, and not in a good way.
You know what ? I managed to live alone for 4 years and got cash and home and car . Bye bye marriage 😮😆
Without a wife you practically have 50 percent discount on everything.
@@Slickhubert absolutely I agree 👍 😆
@@Slickhubert 75% 😉
@@totallycv2388 how is it 75 percent????
@@totallycv2388 should it be 99 Percent lol
I’m 53 years old and in hindsight the smartest thing I have ever done is never get married. I have seen so many go down in flames
Paul I miss you so much. Thanks for the battles you've started that can't be reversed anymore.
I always enjoy to listen to Paul. I followed red pill advice all my life and it has really paid off. After 24 years my wife is still crazy about me. A dog couldn't show more affection.
Really?
Your wife is "crazy about me" too!
What a coincidence
Time for a younger model dude .
Wow, the legend himself. So happy to see this interview.
Paul's knowledge has helped me. Living a much better life now.
I wish the new lot of men who are getting newly introduced to the Red Pill knew about MRA and MGTOW legends like Paul, Barbarossa, Spetsnaz, Colttaine, Hammerhand, Lazarus, Stardusk, TFM, IncelTV etc.
Those were the days!
Go read "On Women" by Arthur Schopenhauer for the ultimate red pill essay. 170 years ago.
I promise you, this interview will be the gateway for some men to find other red pill content and a new life.
@@_Brennus Can you summarize the bottom line of the book, tried reading a few pages and it was a little dense ? I may still buy it !
Paul giving Pearl some pearls of knowledge 😃
Thank you Paul for another wake up call, or refresher. You woke me up 5 years ago, unfortunately for those 5 years I was still asleep. 5 years ago i should have listened to you, I understood your lessons but I decided to try to work things out with a shallow possessive woman. I tried in vain. I wasted that time. Thanks again for the refresher. Your fan from Kuwait.
Wow i guess you are a muslim brother they always push men to be patient and not divorce gynocentrism has destroyed the muslim men today its even worse in the west
I hope Pearl spreads the word to more content creators to interview Paul.
Also, I hope Paul is interested in this idea, he is after all “an ear for men” and a great one at that.
I would LOVE to see Paul on Timcast or something culturally similar.
God speed and good journey!
Paul should go on Timcast. I agree. I loved you on Timcast Pearl, and you will always be a Ten for me! Love ya girl.
And Modern Wisdom!
I have really enjoyed watching this interview.... thank you for wisdom
I watch an ear for men from the early days, many years ago now, and it helped me so much. Thank you Paul. And thank you Pearl for keeping the dialogue moving forwards.
"Telling her no" great advice
I'm approaching 40 without ever having a GF, & am completely Black pilled on relationships, the dating market isn't a market at all, our society has been transformed into a cult of conformity to a completely self defeating set of illogical maneuvers or no participation whatsoever(where I reside). All the talk about equality when I was young enough to date led to the assumption that women would for example approach men(which happened once), but it was not the case, & is only worse now with the advent of Internet dating which boils down to swiping away 99% of average men in their delusional hopes to hit the lottery.
The solution is to not be "average" within as many metrics as are possible for you.
I'm not tall. Within every other metric (those which are controllable), I am in the range of "above average" to "truly exceptional".
Forget the equality, forget the blame, and forget the self-pity. If you want something, it is your responsibility to reach for it and get it. More importantly, it is within your power to do so.
Do you go to the gym?
Are you in shape?
Do you look after your diet?
Have you put in the effort to become a high-earner (e.g. building a business or working your way up in one somebody else has built)?
Do you own useful things?
Do you have interesting hobbies?
Are you an interesting and impressive man, who has the respect of other interesting and impressive men?
If you answered "no" to any of the above, you know what to work on, so go and do it.
Seriously, man. The bar for "average" these days is so low, that even the bare minimum amount of effort will put you above it.
Do 5 chin-ups and you're already better than the vast majority of men. Most can't do any.
Run a mile without gassing out.
Start a business. You don't even have to make a profit. Just starting is something most haven't bothered to do.
Learn to play an instrument.
Don't fidget when you talk to people (especially women).
It's not as hard as you're making out.
And don't give me the bull that it's too late because you're 40.
If you're in doubt, check how old Leonardo Da Vinci was when he finally started getting recognition for his exceptional works.
@@DangerRifai I'm beyond familiar with all that you're putting out, & agree with it generally, but the devil is always in the details which ruins the questionnaire of what "I'm doing". The fact of the matter is 40 is too late for men, just like 30 is the wall for women, men who don't reach a certain threshold by 40 also reach a wall, can't just start from scratch, if they even reach that age to begin with bcuz the subconscious is already screaming they're not who they should be when it is apparent nothing is going right in their lives(the mental illness epidemic), personally I dealt with all this stuff last decade, only able to bring myself to where I should've been 20 years earlier, but content with the fact I did the best with what I had, which was basically nothing at every moment of of importance, & that's the biggest issue with most people who hear genuine struggles in a world of manufactured victimization, everyone is so quick to assume those who are suffering deserve to in this society that has instructed them in irrationality, irresponsibility, envy, & a government who purposely kept as much quiet as possible. Only people who are guided correctly(or at all) make something of themselves the rest are discarded, & fair enough, we all have our own set of problems, but it's dramatically understated how most of us were bate n switched at best by liars, or given the shaft by god it seems especially when death is involved.
@@DangerRifai So you have to try 100 time harder for modern hoes that your grandfather did for a virgin? No thanks. MGTOW.
@@DangerRifai Oh please....Not another Jordan Peterson style "Clean your room" speech. Nothing you say is wrong, but for a great many men, it simply isn't realistic. You have no idea how much damage a life of rejection does to a man. You have no idea the effort it takes to try to improve and STILL get rejected. That pain cuts to the core and makes the next attempt even more difficult. The impact of fear of rejection is easily underestimated. It can make real progress of this type next to impossible.
For a lot of men, the demands women set are simply too high. For a lot of men, their own fear makes it impossible for them to get out of their own way long enough to matter. And then they are the poor guys who are on the spectrum. This idea that they can make the changes necessary is akin to telling Danny De Vito that with some hard work he too can play in the NBA.
Having dealt with these issues myself, I know the only viable solution for many men and self improvement is a very minor component.
The whole flaw with the self improvement argument should be pretty obvious. Most men are ALREADY good enough. It is not our fault that women set unrealistic standards. The "Clean your room" argument assumes women are blameless and that their standards are correct. This argument, like everything blue pilled, refuses to hold women accountable for their choices and puts women on a pedestal.
Once you understand that you really are good enough and that it is Western women who are lost, it is much easier to feel confident as well. No longer do you need to feel like you are not good enough. Instead, you now can realize that finding women who appreciate a good man without insane demands is the challenge. Doing that is possible, but very difficult. More on that later....
So here is the basic outline of what men who are struggling in the dating market need to do.
1. You need to heal. You need to grieve. This is FAR from easy, but unless you do, you simply won't be in a good enough mental space to have a good experience with dating. That aspect of being broken is more or less impossible to hide and it will drive women away.
2. You need to find women who are interested in what you have to offer. If you happen to be almost a fit with the women in your life, then the "Clean your room" approach might just work. But if you are meeting heavy resistance, you need to realize that you are not the problem. The problem is the insane expectations of so many women.
3. If the women in your life are simply not interested, you need to meet DIFFERENT women. I am assuming you live in the West. If so, your best bet is to simply meet women who are not from the West. You will be amazed at the difference this can make. For me, it was literally like night and day. I went from being ignored to being a guy who could EASILY get dates. I went to the Philippines and just used dating apps. I met a great woman and we have been together for almost 6 years now.
@@ligafftheindifferent3495thanks for saving me the time of responding to that guy. It’s incredible how much men have to give and give and give with less return everyday, but women can just shoe up and be themselves and get pats on the back for it. Truly pathetic. Paul is right though, we have enabled a lot of this behavior and as men we NEED to stop. Although it’s probably already too late
This man changed and saved my life in more way than even he know !!
❤Paul Elam❤
Thanks for all the wisdom, Paul. You've given us a lot of valuable knowledge over the years.
Thanks, Pearl, for letting men be heard about our problems via your platform.
This is for Paul.
I was once lost but now I'm found.
Fucking long road and somebody heard me and here I am.
A new journey begins but I'm afraid it will be fiery, chaotic and filled with blood, sweat and tears.
I raise my sword in defense of my brothers!
Paul Elam and Tom Leykis are two of the progenitors of the Manosphere and Red Pill Community👍
I miss Tom.
Agreed, I've also loved old school guys like; Stardusk, Barbarossa, etc
@@danx1216 agreed
@@TheJabawake Leykis has become a left wing idiot bisexual
@@danx1216 Sandman is a SIMP...he says thinga that are true but he cucks to wo-MEN anyway....he beilves Weinstein's accussers! In fact Weinstein was FRAMED.;;.; his 2 main accussers were banging him for 5 years sometimes of their mothers house
This needed to be heard.
No-Fault Divorce Law in the 1970’s changed everything. Before the 70’s a woman who committed adultery was considered an “unfit” mother. The father got full custody of the children and the mother paid him child support.
Amazing interview. Thank you very much.
Paul the church of the painful truth! 😂
Once thing, I learned , is men from most of the world regardless of colour, origin or religion treated badly by the system in favour of women . In in Middle East and African we suffer too under feminist ideology.
I’m starting to see changes in the narrative in a pretty large scale amongst men, even those who are not quite red pilled yet are at the very least learning way more about the many topics MRAs have covered for years thanks to Paul and others who got the ball rolling and spoke out when it was so much harder and riskier to do. I was messaging Pearl over and over for a few months here and there amongst others who did the same to get Paul on the show not sure if she read it and had planned on inviting Paul anyway but it was great to see him on there and I hope she does it again cause she gets a lot of views on her vids. Next step let’s get Paul to be Trumps secret advisor on men’s rights.
Better Paul than two Team$ Trump, aka Frater Warpspeed.
As socialism progresses (and what is socialism if not the archetype of the devouring mother?) men will increasingly realize the cards they are being dealt by the mommy state. But men are really slow.
8:39 I think what pearl meant by that rambling word salad was that it used to be understood that almost all human interaction, including male- female relationships, is based on mutual benefit. Now, with society's approval, the bare minimum for a woman to bring to a relationship to benefit a man is THE POSSIBILITY of regular sexual activity, and most of them, that is ALL they bring. They have become a liability, rather than an asset. They are so solipsistic that the more of a liability they become, the more valuable they BELIEVE they become.
solipsistic...Had to look that one up. We used to call that a 50 cent word.
@@gilreamit’s common language in the red pill. Probably since the early 2000s. But it’s good you looked it up.
I enjoyed your videos Paul, was an eye opener for me. thank you.
Adil/ London
Thank you for doing this interview
WoW! 1/3 have had an abortion! I thought knowing several women who had one was rare, guess not.
What a wonderful chat.
So needed these days!
I had major relationship problems 10 years ago, dealing with psychologically abusive & manipulative behavior. I was almost totally ignorant as I had been told my entire life things like: dont piss off a woman, dont make a woman angry, accomodate, accomodate, accomodate, reason, reason, reason, etc.
Anyway, I thought I was the crazy one. Paul Elam and Tara Palmatier helped me alot. I could more readily assess my situation once the blinders were off.
I had a buddy who did just that. He went and got a girl in the Philippines and bought her back to the states and she got westernized very quick like Paul said. She took him straight to the cleaners. Took him to court and got half his shit
Nice to see you Paul. Thank you. 👍
We miss you Paul. Grew up on Paul’s weekly letter bites man were those writings awesome.
Great interview Paul!
55:00 "Do not have a child unless you're prepared for the distinct possibility of that child hating your guts, because he or she has been alienated from you." .... damn ... I wish I knew ... I'm there with my elder daughters 😢😢
I'm in the same boat with my adult children. Your not alone. It's far more common than most people think. Think about what's best for you and move on as best as possible. Best of luck!
You are on a crowded island my friend
Walk away.
Wish you knew? Ecclesiasticus 16:3 says it all. "....and better it is to die without children, than to have them that are ungodly." The Bible is the biggest red-pill if we'd read it.
I really appreciate Paul's balanced approach, and how he calls out men for their own failures. The need for men to stop thinking with the little head is imperative; but damn difficult to do because of the power of mother nature's programming.
Perhaps that's the silver lining of porn: by giving men a way to 'get the poison out' (without having to deal with modern, entitled, delusional women who aren't viable long term partners), those men opting out of dating are dodging the bullets.
Ideally, these young men would direct their energy towards self improvement, and setting healthy boundaries with women instead. But a silver lining is a silver lining, nonetheless.
Paul, your the man, thanks for all your work.
I initially thought that all these women (such as Pearl, Shoeonhead....) were grifters, and maybe in the end they are. But at least the male loneliness is being brought up and talked about more often now
They might not "get" it, or be directly affected by it like many men are. But at least it's being talked about more.
I applaud them for that 👏
Women are wholesale *incapable* of understanding what men have to suffer through. It's not just that they well and truly do not care (though that is the case for many, most likely the majority of them), it's that it is impossible for them even to fathom having to carry the world on their shoulders and have it be a thankless job, to be expendable, and to be unloved.
This is best typified by Norah Vincent's profound book, _Self Made Man,_ where she disguised herself and lived as a man for a year and a half. Only when she role played as a man did she realize how no one cares about men and how lonely they are. Unfortunately, in part due to the trauma and psychological scars she inflicted upon herself in her experiment to better understand men, Norah had herself euthanized in 2022.
Really let that sink in; it's impossible for women to fully empathize with men until they experience the life of a man for themselves, and when they do it drives many of them to suicide.
Always here, you helped me a lot back in the day.
Wisdom from an older man! This is what American boys need to hear to become strong men and for the country to prosper.
You both are great 👏👏👏
You are the G.O.A. T Paul - your work is the foundation from which the main stream can understand the message and the cause .
Without your explanations - I wouldn’t have been able to make the journey I have made - and you were right all the way along
Where I am now is about as good as it gets with all the trimmings of a good women and my boys - self actualized work and red pill freedom puts all the blue pill misery in the rear view
relentlessly enforcing boundaries on my girl and ready to have her “walk out the door” worked - always vigilant but she has stopped so much of the parasitic manipulation because I shut it down hard each and every time
What a paradox / irony this whole “thing” with women is -
Thank you Paul as always
It's a really great sign, when one of the newer, rising youtubers like Hannah here, is actively willing to seek out and interview, the key, foundational MHRAs like Paul - Mike Buchanan- Janice Fiamengo, not to mention interact directly (and heavily) with them and other MHRAs on twitter....something that literally cannot be said for the likes of Lauren Chen -Daily Wire - PragerU et al...and especially, for those who observed the drama of the rise of Hannah/Pearl, the revealing of the false tradcon MRAs (or "self declared, stalker former MRAs shall we say😉") , who continue to advocate for men to:
"get married as that will help society (whilst flagrantly ignoring all the increasing risks to the gents)" whilst also, trying to claim that "they speak for their faith", whilst attacking the likes of Paul (Christian) - Hannah (Christian) and Rachel Wilson (submissive Christian) et al.
It's like Paul and Peter Wright repeated recently:
"With feminists, they're at least honest misandrists....however, with the Tradcon-Right, they're Insidious misandrists, who pretend with their left hand to care about men and boys issues, but actually, with their right, embrace Male Disposability all the same",
(as the elites always have (and built their fortunes upon the blood and backs off).
Great interview and love watching your mutual interactions/advocacy on Twitter (and all the right people, being peeved off) :)
Paul Elam you are the father I never had. And your advice and videos help enlighten me. Keep spreading the word. I wish you well my friend😊
I love Paul Elam. Very intelligent and to the point.
Loved it!
Paul's an OG, and most people havent heard of him. God bless you.
I’ve been waiting for this since her first short form interview. I remember going to court flor possessing a cs I’m going to get punished and he was out there. 2005-07 about. The brochure was life altering. I had thought about working it out either way with my now ex. After her angry reaction to his protest of cs court. He’s mysoginistical oh is he. Can you think of a reason he’s not. Yes the meaning changes with the winds. 10 years I waited. Listening to this and other men has made me happy and in a good mental space.
Fantastic interview...Pearl is just pure awesome, as is Mr. Elam. I hope to see more of these "Between the 2 P's" (Paul and Pearl, or Pearl and Paul)
ANY hint of vindictiveness? Well, that eliminates ALL women. Literally, all of them. There's no women out there NOT like that! wow
A few, but their in their 90s likely
It generally dissipates after a woman's reproductive years but they have accumulated more baggage in other areas by then. Depends allot on what type of slop your willing to eat.
The woman I've dated for two years now, has never shown the slightest hint of vindictiveness. And I've been in one twenty year relationship/marriage, and another 8+ year relationship, plus plenty of dating. I'm not new to the game, but I've found a unicorn. They do exist.
@@rhenriksen...she is until she isn't then you are destroyed.
@@lionandlamb9465 I'm not married, not would I without a prenup. And no kids - we're in our 50s. You don't have to project your pessimism over everyone else.
Love you Paul!
Proud of the work you do for all of us!
Paul Elam's videos helped me so much!
Amazing human being
I dated a borderline for almost 5 years , broke up with me every few weeks and like an idiot , I kept going back. Until I found Paul's content. I'm hard headed and was extremely codependent, so it took a long time before his message etched it's way into my grey matter. Paul is a blessing and a voice of reason , to the world of men
I'm not jaded. I'm educated.
Paul you have saved many men over the journey, simply listening can create a spark with many man to explore further. Curiosity is empowering for many men in this sphere. Your work is greatly appreciated.
Paul, it was through watching your videos 10 or 11 years ago that got me well and truly red-pilled in these matters.
In realising the truth about women I realised a lot about myself. Your wisdom and thoroughly researched insight in to the dynamics between men and women is without peer, in my opinion, especially when it comes to the actions and mentality of a lot of men. Changed my views on so many things.
I know many people give Pearl a lot of grief, but she's passionate and I admire the fact she's not afraid to admit she doesn't know something, that she's still in the process of learning and is obviously hungry to keep learning.
I wish her well.
Fantastic interview
What a brilliant discussion.
Standing Ovation!!!
Yes! Can't wait to hear this later when working through my Bluetooth
Good to see your doing good Paul 👍
Thank You Paul.
This is a great meeting of minds across generations and cultures.
Awesome stuff man!
Paul is the all time hero. But on the other hand ... what does a woman contribute to a mans life in these days? And also vice versa. There must be benefits for both to stick to a long termrelationship. And Sex is NOT the answer. Who brings what to the table.That is important and I fear that woman have to step up here!
The wisdom in this interview is "OFF THE CHARTS".... 💪✝
That was great
Immeasurable value to hear Paul's insight. A 'Divine Intervention' no doubt!
Good to see you back, Sir Elam. 🙏
Paul, thank you for what you do. I admire your intelligence and kindness. Please take care.
80 % of Merica women are so damn Americanize..
Amid my life transition - from naïveté to realistic - I first encountered Mr. Paul Elam (& Dr T. Palmatier) like angels sent from Above. Mr Elam is an excellent source of motivating Men to rethink their path & purpose.
This is seminal. Mr Elam is a legend. Truth teller. 🎉
Paul is truly a great man. Read his book. Helped a lot. Thanks Paul
I think the term loser girlfriend should become more popular.
A big part of the reason why men pander to women is because that is what men are taught to do in the western world, and fear is often used by other men to teach that lesson. Look at the way that we’re censored just for calling out double standards in favor of women. It’s because the people in power feel like there are supposed to be hypocritical double standards in favor of women, and that you’re some sort of social outcast if you don’t support those double standards. I will say that I encounter this more from older guys and from people in power more than I do from average women. They’re often spoiled and they just want to have their way and get what they want, but they don’t actually believe the pseudo intellectual underpinnings used by the people in power. They just know that they want to get their way.
15:50 Excellent Video! I definetly ignored red flags, and a lot of her past was hidden until after marriage. 😮
... after marriage discovery. This happens to many of us. Can't take full responsibility in such a case. You don't know what you don't know.
Probably one of the best videos about men and women relationships
This going to be good.
I think Pearl inadvertently explained why women get 60% less time than men in the United States. It really comes down to men's innate desire to protect the children. Many courts likely consider that a lot of these women who potentially face jail time have kids. If these women are incarcerated for too long, their children might end up in bad situations, or if they are young, the courts don't want to take the mother away for an extended period. As a result, they inadvertently give women lower sentences, aiming to reunite them with their kids. Often, women are protected from the full consequences of their actions because they nurture children, and there is nothing of higher priority for most men than protecting kids.
I Live in Roanoke. Can't wait to meet you in person Paul.
Paul Elam spits fire
We've missed you Paul
🎉🎉🎉🎉 two great great humans.
I've had 2 different wmn, that i know were raging fmnsts, tell me they wanted a 'traditional' Man and relationship. I ask one question, have the dvrc laws changed? I always get the same look of shock and frustration. They know full well wmn have thoroughly poisoned marriage/relationships. I end the conversation by saying if I decide to gamble my lifes work I'll do it in Vegas not in the marriage/dvrc scam
Very good James. That's the way to do it!!!
Fair play to Pearl, just watching her, she listens, doesnt react, tries to understand the other perspective, and doesnt take it personally rather generally, realising society has issues. Just this opening of the mind is enlightening to see.
Paul. You're the man
she is vice pres of usa , because she is one of klaus schwabb`s WEFyoung leaders
We need to eliminate the tax credit for married couples. All tax credits should be based on individuals, not couples.
Pearl and Paul in an interesting talk.
We went from women offering their maidenhead to just offering head.😂
Remember 9 out of 10 modern women are absolutely offended when you ask them what do they bring to the table remember they are the table😂😂😂😂