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- Опубліковано 31 гру 2024
- This week Moshe and Natasha recount their daughter’s recent dirty jokes, debate if they’re both allowed to wear lightly tinted sunglasses indoors, and react to your spirited responses about tipping from last week’s show! They give advice to one caller who wants to cut off communication with an ex and another whose partner hasn’t said “I love you” yet.
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I liked the matching looks (Moshe's sunglasses). I don't think it's too much if both people use them. It's like saying if Natasha wears vintage dresses, Moshe can never wear an old-fashioned suit.
i am obsessed with my blue tint lense from Amazon
I came from the podcast app to UA-cam just to see Pablo. Thank you Natasha for sharing the mic. Don’t let Pablo be silenced
Keep the sunglasses, both of you! Power couple vibes.
I have a mantra id like to share for the 2nd caller: Do things from love, not for love.
Are you telling him you love him because you want to lock someone down to make you feel more stable and secure- or any other reason besides just wanting to express to someone you love them?
I agree, maybe give him 3 more months and see if he progresses along with you in the relationship. If him not saying he loves you by that point is a deal breaker for you- then you what to do. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now. Have fun with the person you love and bring light and positivity to the relationship and that’s what you’ll receive back. If you’re always wanting to have serious heavy chats and trying to convince or guilt him to do what you want then that will never lead to a long lasting strong partnership.
Well said
I'd argue the 2nd girl is actually not that confident. If she was she wouldn't feel the need to control the situation, including setting monthly checkins, and wouldn't hesitate to live her own life naturally with or without him... If you have to question that much about whether someone feels the same as you do, they probably don't & you should keep it moving.
Tip and earn with confidence! get that good karma (aim to always do 20% and just mentally assume its part of the rate!)
Get that clarity as to what you can actually afford, and act your wage (NO SHADE, no judgement just real talk), and you won't step on as many toes. For example: if you cant actually afford a massage WITH a tip for the massage therapist, buy a $30 massage wand online. There are options! The fact is, we're all underpaid until we're not anymore (like ppl w/ several streams of income developed after years of investing, gaining financial strategy and education). Also let's fight for a better system for everyone!
I could not deal with a monthly “check in” for a relationship that’s new. Seems insane
Sounds like they're her idea and if so, she's treating him like an employee. Both of them need to run in the opposite direction. I get why he wouldn't want to tell a person he loves them when she started the relationship with, "I don't know how long I want to do this."
I want an update on this couple. I bet he still hasn’t said I love you because I don’t think that he feels it. Men are so stupid. Why is he leading this poor girl on?
33:22 to skip all that tipping talk
I like when you both wear them!! Love you guys 🖤
1:10:49 yeah, and you have the sign above your bed to prove it!
I lost it at Pablo randomly hacking
It’s a vibe, both of you guys should keep them
Natasha needs to be nicer to the dog. Moshe did an amazing thing adopting and saving a dog and he’s even more amazing for not giving him up when times are tough. Dogs are our friends, not just pets.
Family! I think she loves the dog deep down and just likes venting and complaining about things
Right? I would take Pablo if I didn’t have my own 15 year old dog with a lot of health problems
It's called comedy hun
100% with natasha on everything she brought up about sunglasses, especially her point about Elton John
Both of them should keep wearing the glasses because it makes them look like the ultimate cool, 70’s couple and I’m loving it
They're not too matchy matchy! you can both wear them. Also Moshe is right about not tipping the owner of a business.
Moshe, you look better with regular glasses. And Natasha, you are definitely rockin' the suns.
Natasha gets to wear the indoor sunglasses on the main episode and Moshe wears his on the secret dumps.
Natasha is the tinted glasses queen. One of her all time lewks. She is a goddess I. Those glasses. She gets the glasses Moshe gets Burning Man.
Coffee: do you tip 20% for both a drip coffee and a cappuccino? One obviously takes more effort.
Hotels: tip the maid the same amount whatever hotel you are at. No percentages. Also depends on how often they turn down the room.
Definitely tip the housekeeper! The bellman and valets get regular tips but the poor housekeepers rarely get anything.
Also Pablo may be in pain, that may be why he is biting suddenly. I would go to vet
My thoughts exactly. Or he may be having some neurological problems. Or he's just getting to crumudgeon old man time and if he's only biting Natasha and not anyone else, he may sense she doesn't care for him although I'm sure she loves him.
I used to do in-home computer work in the west LA area. Tips were welcome and made the job worth it. They also felt deserved since I went above and beyond what was required. Never expected though! I later transferred to Glendale…. The tips pretty much stopped, cuz… Glendale. . I quit that job pretty soon after that.
Can someone tell me the brand of moshes sunglasses so I can be the Elton John in my relationship
Aw, I'll take Pablo. Poor lil guy.
I think both of you wearing the glasses is really cute. Why, if you both like them, fuck everyone else.
For work like plumbing, I feel comfortable tipping if they are contracted by my home warranty and they “hook me up” with a good repair/replacement under the warranty.
Natasha x Vintage YSL forever! 🔥
Queen shit!
Dearest Natasha and Moshe, I think you both look great in the tinted indoor sunglasses and support the option of you both continuing to wear them! I understand what Natasha is saying about wanting to cary on wearing glasses like that well into her old age and I believe that in the long-term the trend will in fact be "Natasha's thing" but I also think its nice to see Moshe wear them too, as I trust that his style (as well as Natasha's) will evolve. You two are super stylish, wise, and hilarious. Much love to the entire family.... ALOOOOOOHAAA!🤙🏽
the dog goin to town on himself during the everlywell ad
Where all the glasses you need! Moshe with the double glasses
Moshe go to Japan, no tips allowed. 😆
I'm late to the tipping discussion, for good service at a sit down restaurant, 20%. For carryout, 10%, for personal services(massage, hair, nails,etc.) at your discretion but probably 15-20% AND, I absolutely hate the swivel to pay bs with all the tip amounts conveniently displayed, it's a bit much to tip for someone pouring you a coffee or hand you a donut.
I’m a house call massage therapist and with in home massage as the sole proprietor vs working for a massage app- it would ideally be nice if I could charge extra/whatever I feel I deserve but I have to compete with the apps. The apps offer you a subscription and the convenience of being able to book a therapist whenever you want- even last minute. As the only therapist and sole proprietor you don’t have as much availability to offer people. That’s the big difference I see. I have to be able to still get business, I can’t be charging people more than the apps would when people have to book a week out with me instead of being able to book day of the second their back starts hurting.
Can Moshe also please wear his rose colored glasses? Don't bully him! Natasha!
All of the arbitrary rules on tipping is why things just need to cost what they cost without going down this road at all. Then people paying don't have to agonize over politeness math, and the workers don't have to wonder if they're going to have a good month or a bad month due to inconsistencies in tipping. But America loves tipping and hates the metric system, so what are you gonna do. I need more sunglasses.
Christ. I laughed so hard when she gave the dog the mic
I AM ONCE AGAIN ASKING FOR A CUTIE CAM. ONE CAMERA THAT DOCUMENTS ALL THE CUTENESS THE MAYOR GIVES US
Please don’t just tip 20% everywhere! It encourages bad service. I have had servers give me such poor service that others brought my food and drinks. I tipped Them not my original server. Be gracious with a well deserved tip but don’t reward bad service. I’d rather tip 30% to good service to encourage that behavior instead. Also if your job gets tips Be Good at it and Friendly to a fault. Fake doesn’t count.
i just thought it was really bright in ya'lls house lol
Natasha looks amazing in the glasses, amazing
Moshe’s non tinted may be my favorite frames of his.
Absolutely. Been loving Moshe’s excellent sunnies since he first wore them a few months ago. And Natasha’s spec go so well.
Keep ‘‘em both!
@@Steel4Kay she said she like his 'non-tinted'...not the sunnie's 🙏🏼🌷
Not gonna lie I noticed the both sunglasses immediately, so I get where Natasha is coming from, but you both look great, keep rocking them.
Natasha is right. 20% pretty much everywhere.
Even at a bar? If the glass of wine is $10 or $25 why should the worker get more money for doing the same amount of work just because the owner charges more for it? I like Moshe's idea of $1-2/drink better, (unless it's an intricate cocktail and requires more work than handing over a beer or pouring wine)
Love the sunglasses; Natasha looks like a glamourous Italian movie star; Moshe is heading toward Karl Lagerfeld territory, wait till he turns grey!
Ugh is there a cooler looking couple? But I do think Natasha wins the indoor tinted glasses look, however it’s fine if they both rock it, glasses are different enough in style.
You are missing an educational opportunity. Book a family tour to the local sewage treatment facility. ❤️🇨🇦🌲
Everyone looks mahvahlous !! , simply mahvahlous !!!...
The second caller is giving anxious attachment style. Being “anal” about love feels harmful.
I think most people mainly tip for things where the result is instant, performance based, whereas with a plumber or handyman, you really don't know if the job was done well until you've seen the problem has resolved & the fix has held up a good amount of time. Although, my Dad tips the plumber & handyman, but they show up for emergencies pretty quickly, give him a decent deal, & fix the issue. I never tip for takeout or if I'm not satisfied with the service. (like if they effed up my hair or something & aren't offering to fix it.)
You both rock your shades. Natasha has dibs though🤷♀️
You two are hilarious.
Natasha Serpico rocked it first and better lol😆🙌
Once you get to the level of invoices, the tips stop
LMAO Natasha's cool with going on TV in matching Kimono's but similari-sh glasses is where she draws the line
Great advice for the old girlfriend. 💜
The kid talk is killing me! 😭😭😭
You two are freaking hilarious!! You give me hope for the possibility of marriage in this crazy world because you have this beautiful blend of adoration for as well as irritation with one another that is the perfect balance for a really good time not only for your listeners but also in a marriage! Thank you so much from someone who wants in 5th grade said the last thing she would ever want to do is get married! 😮😊😂🎉🎊🎇🎆👏😎
"DIAPER BLOW OUT!" LMFAO... Love you both.
Hint: If you order doordash and WANT your food on time, don’t $0 tip. Drivers only get $3 no matter where you live (pay goes up as drivers decline it).
Natasha gets the sunglasses.
Lmao Tash look like them 2 year olds with glasses strapped to their faces 😲 seeing their parents for the first time 🤣that shit makes me sad everytime looks good on you though Tash slay
I’m a good tipper, 20% minimum a lot of time I break into the 30+ because I know the servers need it. However, I absolutely hate tipping on to go orders where I go to the restaurant, go inside, and pick up the food myself.
It’s an imperfect world but Natasha is 99% right. 20 % standard across the board (even your morning coffee). If service is good enough for you to COMPLIMENT the server/worker, 25%. It’s not a guessing game; it’s pull your calculator app out from the phone you’re probably already on and total bill x .20
10000% thought Natasha was wearing chic goggles bc the barrettes 😂
I love you both so much, you all just make my day 💘
If the service or food was 10-20% more expensive I'd still buy it so who cares if you give it to the worker.
Also if you tip someone who services you regularly, theyre just gonna give you better service the next time you use them.
and i think you both look good in the glasses, maybe moshe needs another pair so he can switch em up like natasha does
Popped over from Apple podcast just to comment 2 things. 1. I love Natasha’s vibe with the glasses. However, Moshe rocks those tinted glasses. I also think they compliment each other well so you can get by with you both wearing them. 2. The tipping debacle. $1 per drink or 20% per tab I agree with. I think if someone is serving you & making less than min wage you should tip though I HATE the required 20% thing. Businesses should pay a living wage and tips should be extra not the tip BEING the living wage. That’s ridiculous. Also, coffee shops (at least where I am) don’t take tips 90% of the time and they pay min wage or over. Hosts who put together takeout orders make min wage or more so depending on the place I don’t always tip on takeout. 🤷🏻♀️ I’ll always think it’s dumb but people need to eat. 3) poor Pablo deserves love and Moshe is his human- hopefully it’s semi an act from Natasha.
i like the vibe in the podcast of you both wearing the tinted glasses... but if i saw it in real life, it would be cheese.
Natasha gets to keep the glasses.
You both look great, you match. 👌💖
Moshe looks hotter in the shades. (And with his lil hair whisp hanging down like the last secret dump)
20% is the standard for service... Food and as someone commented if someone handles personal items or puts their hands on you... If you don't have enough to tip 20%, get less... Eat or drink less... Get the lesser service... Get a shorter massage... 20% ... Go, Tash! LOL!
Moshe, your purposeful erasure of princess peach when discussing Mario and Luigi was painfully soul crushing. How can you live with yourself for forgetting one of the biggest female video game characters. Do better
you guys looks like a Wes Anderson movie. Keep the glasses.
i tip the same amount as the sales tax if i’m going to pick up the food i ordered. if i eat there, 20%
I always thought the fashion rule was look in the mirror before leaving the house and remove one accessory because less is more and often you’re wearing too many things. Natasha loose the chains glasses or barrettes you’re too much today given the pattern on the dress coupled with her personality.
I dig the glasses on both but you're wrong about Elton John not smelling like a diaper blowout. He's admitted to wearing and using diapers during long concerts.
To the second caller: At first I thought he doesn't love or respect you, that he's not emotionally evolved and it doesn't sound like he's interested in examining that. I still think those things are true but you're in a relationship, not a business. Formal monthly check-ins? How could he be joyful about the relationship when he has dreaded monthly meetings with his boss/girlfriend?
Love you guys!
I'm sorry, I can't take caller #2 seriously with that sign taped up over her bed that you judiciously ignored. Geez!
On tipping: I've started going to a local bowling alley for their $2/game special on Tuesdays. I pay $12 total for 3 games, shoe rental, and bottle of water. The employee picks and turns on a lane for me, gives me my shoes and water bottle. Receipt comes out a tip line. Do I tip? If so, how much?
No, that's just basic job duties rather than a service. No tip.
Sorry Mosh, but the dog choking was hilarious...
Lay off the auto tune and I’ll love you. 😍😂🤣😂😂
Natasha wins the glasses debate
Natasha needs to stop bullying the dog :(
Geez, the arguing gives me PTSD. Definitely makes me happy to be single.
Everyone was arguing, based on different rules and standards, no one was understanding each other and in the end, NOTHING was resolved regarding tipping. This was the most annoying, frustrating and aggravating episode of the show I've ever heard.
you are both just copying bono, give credit where credit is due c’mon guys
Mose keeps them - Natasha is wearing hers like swim goggles
6 months is too soon to know you if you love someone, & that is a sign of emotional immaturity & neediness.
11:08
Stop stressing him out on a weak spot .
If moksha tips well but then Natasha has to hear his dissecting the service he tipped for hours bringing clouds in the house, maybe it's best she tips when he's not looking and he continues whatever he's been doing since poverty
2 comedians that discuss poop on their podcast on the regular don't understand why their child says poop all the time. 🤣 Natasha is Elton. Also, Chez Maggy was delicious! Thanks for the recommendation. ❤️
Oof I cannot listen to Natasha talk about tipping anymore
I agree with mosha on tipping... I'm female from the US of assholes if that matters. 😁
* Also, poor dog 🤣🐕
The glasses are your signature BUT you gotta wear that glare free when on the pod, lady
You definitely look better in them, Natasha. Moshe looks great too (in his own way,) but it's like when you put the real deal next to the knockoff version... It's like, Natasha is the Rolls Royce Phantom and Moshe is the Chrysler 300.
Love the podcast and love these two but Moshe going from saying “no one person is right, everyone on the internet thinks there is only one answer to everything” to “you’re wrong, Natasha” is SO Moshe. I couldn’t even believe he was saying the first thing when he is the king of “I’m right and you can’t change my mind” 🤦🏼♂️
Haha as someone who agreed with moshe but is a contract installer. the contractor hate is annoying. “They’re ripping you off” they have a rate and are specializing in something that you don’t know shit about. This is some jackassery.
American’s are insane with the tipping. We only tip waiters and food delivery peoples in S. Africa. Everyone else is doing their job so we pay the amount quoted.
I disagree about closure. Neurodivergent people have close friends and lovers disappear all the time with no warning. That takes a toll on someone over time. I think it’s cowardly for people to not break up in person at the time and at least give a reason. It’s quick and let’s people know what happens. Those of us with obsessive thoughts and different brains won’t obsess over it and we can heal quicker. I think it’s immature to not just say “ hey, I don’t like you and don’t want to see you anymore.” That closes the door for me and the message is clear. Please don’t promote flakiness. Neurotypicals may not care, but many of us experience constant abandonment and have high risk of things because of how people treat us. Not excusing toxic people. Breaking from toxic or abusive people is different. But to treat everyone like that is wrong and toxic /abusive in itself
Jesus - People who put so much importance to the "I love you" sentence are so lost in a highschool musical
Natasha looks better!