Coming Out | Justin and Nick

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  • Опубліковано 29 жов 2024

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  • @BrokebackBob
    @BrokebackBob 7 років тому +7

    You two are fantastic!!! I'm a 61 year old gay man and it makes my heart full to 2 such happy, smart, handsome young men spreading the good word. Your kitty is SO beautiful and yes I am a cat person. Keep the videos coming. You are wonderful to listen to.

  • @raygranados1132
    @raygranados1132 7 років тому +7

    I hope you guys continue making videos like this. You have no idea how these kinds of videos help people when they are feeling helpless, lost, and alone. Continue reaching out and spreading the love. You may not think so but you guys are a huge inspiration to so many! Much love.

  • @lindah.p.7506
    @lindah.p.7506 7 років тому +2

    I'd finally had enough and left class in college, called my mom(best friend) crying and told her I was Bi. She was so supportive and that blew my mind. What really made me loose it is that my dad took the day off the next day and they both came out to hug me and tell me that they will always love me. They were most happy about me finally being me. I love your coming out stories, love you babes!

  • @GlynRobinson
    @GlynRobinson 5 років тому +13

    Justin is so handsome, said everyone ever!

  • @Motownbob96
    @Motownbob96 7 років тому +2

    You guys are awesome. Supportive, heartfelt, and realistic!
    You're the kind of people I would have wanted to see on social media when I was younger and struggling through it all.

  • @MattSmith-lp6ut
    @MattSmith-lp6ut 6 років тому +29

    My family asked if I was gag at Thanksgiving dinner and when I said yes everyone was dishing out money from bets they made with other family members, including my mother😂.

    • @zitto1107
      @zitto1107 6 років тому +5

      Quinten Obvious that sounds so cute

    • @paulortiz8063
      @paulortiz8063 6 років тому +2

      sounds like a well adjusted, roll with the punches, practical kind of family to me!!
      to bad there aren't more families like yours around.
      (and you do know how really, really lucky you are, don't you!!???!!!)

  • @tgurch
    @tgurch 3 роки тому +1

    I love you both so much. You’ve both done so much for the community and I thank you.

    • @lukaszv137
      @lukaszv137 3 роки тому

      It’s so sad they broke up :(

  • @peggyesquibel8353
    @peggyesquibel8353 4 роки тому +3

    Two beautiful souls!

  • @nalteri02
    @nalteri02 7 років тому

    I love how frequently you guys are posting! You guys have great stories to share. Spread that love! Keep it up!!

  • @loveya1956
    @loveya1956 7 років тому +1

    I love nick's sound and Justin's face, OMG m dead bye 😩

  • @paulandrews298
    @paulandrews298 7 років тому +7

    My best friend and guy that I had a major crush on called my parents and told them I was gay, after he and I had a falling out, Surprise! Not the preferred way I wanted my parents to find out, but kinda glad it happened, my parents were super chill about it and, in fact, joined PFLAG and took in kids who got kicked out of their homes because they were gay. And that was in the mid 70's when gay wasn't cool?

  • @raikiribiru1889
    @raikiribiru1889 7 років тому +3

    Awhh when Nick puts his forehead on Justin's shoulder >||||

  • @shanejohnson6931
    @shanejohnson6931 7 років тому +6

    Great coming out stories, guys!!
    🇿🇦n fan ⭐️

    • @shivan4219
      @shivan4219 7 років тому

      Shane Johnson me too!!!

  • @thecavekooks
    @thecavekooks 7 років тому

    Your videos give me the warm fuzzies I need after seeing my news feed.

  • @lorenjones3491
    @lorenjones3491 7 років тому

    Love you guys so much. Thank you both for sharing your stories and letting people know it's ok to be the real you and not put on a mask.

  • @ricardolopez9371
    @ricardolopez9371 7 років тому

    Subscribed after the first video I saw which was Q&A1; you guys are awesome and easy to connect with! As a HP fan myself, the HP content is just a bonus! Looking forward to your videos! ❤️

  • @tayloraverett1841
    @tayloraverett1841 6 років тому +4

    You two are so adorable! Both as a cute couple, and your stories and demeanor! Hugs!

  • @Snowydog123
    @Snowydog123 7 років тому

    Wow, you guys really get right down the emotional heart of your experience. Brilliantly done! One of the finest coming out videos I've ever seen, and guys I came out before you guys were even thought of.

  • @PauloVictor-hw6ed
    @PauloVictor-hw6ed 7 років тому +1

    You guys are just amazing, love you ❤️✨ 🇧🇷

  • @pradeepanuraggade4064
    @pradeepanuraggade4064 6 років тому +1

    OMG!
    The way Justin was looking at Nick was sooooo damn cute. Love you guys! I came out recently to my biggggg Indian Family.

    • @Ewilandu7241
      @Ewilandu7241 6 років тому +1

      How is it now ? (I have a boyfriend who is indian and I don't know if a day he will do his coming out... )

    • @pradeepanuraggade4064
      @pradeepanuraggade4064 6 років тому +2

      It’s good! I enjoy a great sense of freedom now.
      Initially it was very tough.. I would say my family and whole extended family is a typical very closely knitted Indian family.. my Dad had a very bad emotionally low time. And I have almost 20 cousins and We are all close to eachother.. they all were sad first..But things are getting way better with friends and family.
      In times of dealing with all the difficult times of coming out.. I tell myself that I’m just being true to myself and honest with others. So there’s nothing wrong in it.
      All is well!
      Hope your boyfriend can make it through!
      Wish you and your boyfriend a fantastic time together.

    • @Ewilandu7241
      @Ewilandu7241 6 років тому +1

      I'm happy that you had a good experience.
      I hope it too...
      Thank you a lot for sharing.

  • @savedaveocean
    @savedaveocean 7 років тому

    The outro is the cutest!!!

  • @tplmic5866
    @tplmic5866 6 років тому +2

    Thank you for such an understanding perspective. You are blessed for the support you have received.
    Happy New Year.

  • @lukemorrison4791
    @lukemorrison4791 6 років тому +2

    Beautiful video. It's really hard to come out. I can relate to Nick. I'm also close to my mom. I always tell her everything and she gives me advice and love in return. She's been there for me since day one. The only thing I'm afraid to tell her is coming out. I think she knows bc just like nick, when I was kid I like playing with my sister dolls, watching girls shows etc. I think she's waiting for me to tell her in person or maybe she's afraid to find out. I'm super close to tell her but I'm waiting for the right moment. Great video and thanks for sharing.

  • @pultangs
    @pultangs 7 років тому +1

    Always wanted to hear your voices and now i can live happily haha

  • @arjunroychowdhury8839
    @arjunroychowdhury8839 7 років тому

    Love you both! Loads of love to you guys! Such a cute couple!😍😍😍😘😘😘

  • @JavaDebo
    @JavaDebo 7 років тому +1

    That doll story XD I need Nick to do a story time video.

  • @Marcktazz
    @Marcktazz 7 років тому +2

    Love you guys! Hugs from Mexico!

  • @ahmedzone100
    @ahmedzone100 7 років тому

    Another great video guys I love it 😘

  • @gordonsmith9153
    @gordonsmith9153 4 роки тому +2

    You guys so awesome!!!

  • @naimishkeswani
    @naimishkeswani 7 років тому +3

    Gonna work 14 hours everyday because that face is 14/10

  • @desertwaterdemon
    @desertwaterdemon 7 років тому

    Awww! So cute!!!
    Maria!!! 🐈

  • @eliohuang6674
    @eliohuang6674 5 років тому +5

    I wanna tell my parents so many times but the thought of I may stress both of me and my parents stopped me I came out to my friends and cousin already, i feel so terrified hiding this from them also can't being the real me in front of them,they're the world to me really just wish to wait till able to handle if bad consequences happens .

  • @tonybpoole2330
    @tonybpoole2330 6 років тому +1

    You guys look so awesome together I just love seeing good relationship continue doing good works I give you guys all my blessings🙌🙌🙌🙌💚💚🙌🙌

  • @anggidaud
    @anggidaud 4 роки тому +1

    You guys noticed something?? Their skins absolutely gorgeous 😘😘

  • @bluelan7152
    @bluelan7152 7 років тому

    You guys finally settle here! lots of love

  • @wiguy3
    @wiguy3 4 роки тому +2

    Guys! We need updates. What's happening? Are you ok? We're so ready to see some new vlogs. It is June 11, 2020.

  • @Tripper111
    @Tripper111 6 років тому +2

    Awesome Guys...

  • @afnanzainal
    @afnanzainal 7 років тому

    never thought click ur vid so fast...love you guys...:) :)

  • @RaulFonsecaOfficial
    @RaulFonsecaOfficial 7 років тому

    I love you guys !! 😍😍

  • @fernando8389
    @fernando8389 7 років тому

    guys i love you ❤✨

  • @stephenlin3594
    @stephenlin3594 7 років тому

    Sweet video, love you two~

  • @ticklinjules
    @ticklinjules 7 років тому +1

    oh my god at 7:25 i literally died of cuteness

  • @isaaclalrinfela8158
    @isaaclalrinfela8158 6 років тому +2

    justin i love you

  • @prideolea
    @prideolea 4 роки тому +1

    Freakin love you both!!!

  • @maurotorres1211
    @maurotorres1211 7 років тому

    It is so nice to hear your voices. I have been following you guys on instagram cause you are super potterheads as well as me. All the Luck for you guys.

  • @were-all-human9427
    @were-all-human9427 6 років тому +2

    Im late, sorry... just found your latest video, jumped to your 1st, checking out your stories here now, then lotta lotta catching uptodo lol - luving you guys - hugs from UK

  • @rhubbard1987
    @rhubbard1987 7 років тому +2

    I'm really excited to hear Justin went to WVU! Lol

    • @justinandnick428
      @justinandnick428  7 років тому

      Ralph Hubbard let’s go, Mountaineers! :)

    • @MattSmith-lp6ut
      @MattSmith-lp6ut 6 років тому

      Omg my cousin goes there😂. Graduates in May.

  • @adolfosilva18
    @adolfosilva18 4 роки тому +4

    Nick is beautiful ....

  • @kevinlantz880
    @kevinlantz880 7 років тому +1

    You two are so cute!

  • @medsgh9932
    @medsgh9932 7 років тому

    I died when Maria cameoed, omg

    • @justinandnick428
      @justinandnick428  7 років тому +1

      mohamed sghaier She demanded compensation. She is a diva 😹

    • @medsgh9932
      @medsgh9932 7 років тому

      Justin & Nick She obviously is the decision-maker in the household, and I have no complaints haha

  • @alejandrodave1175
    @alejandrodave1175 7 років тому +1

    Soy de latino y me gustaría que sus videos tuvieran subtitulos... Lo poco que pude entender me gustó mucho... Gracias por su testimonio ... Los felicito

  • @hyunghoba
    @hyunghoba 7 років тому +1

    It would be a change to see Nick without the beard.... But you look hot asf with the beard too.
    Love you both, love your videos and love your stories! Keep up the good work! 😘😘 Much love to you guys❤❤❤❤

  • @romeomarks8344
    @romeomarks8344 6 років тому

    You two are too adorable lol how cute is this

  • @paulmiller6647
    @paulmiller6647 2 роки тому

    Great video.

  • @obartel
    @obartel 7 років тому +6

    You guys are so cute 🏳️‍🌈❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @WOLFFISM
    @WOLFFISM 7 років тому

    You guys are so great! Subscribed!

  • @kefaad
    @kefaad 6 років тому +5

    Lovely! Nick you are so cute and damn hot at the same time! Keep up the good work!

  • @magdalenaburgos3905
    @magdalenaburgos3905 6 років тому

    thank you guys look great

  • @tongyunxian8439
    @tongyunxian8439 7 років тому +3

    7:27 awww....

  • @kevon-wilson
    @kevon-wilson 7 років тому +2

    I look forward to a day when we never have to 'come out' but rather just live our lives and everyone accepts us just as we are. Coming out signifies that we are different and not normal and we need to let people know that. If we are accepted as we are then our lives will speak for us.

  • @kyle_tekehe
    @kyle_tekehe 7 років тому

    Lovely video, keep it up!

  • @kilik1532
    @kilik1532 6 років тому +5

    Justin has puppy eyes

    • @icarrus4u
      @icarrus4u 4 роки тому

      He's so gorgeous huh! I love his eyes and his laugh.

  • @flemingian1415
    @flemingian1415 7 років тому +4

    It's easier for you guys to come out in a country where the lgbt community is legal but for us who live in homophobic country the risk being an lgbt community is just way too much. Anyway, I really like you guys :)

    • @mht_octopenis
      @mht_octopenis 7 років тому

      fleming ian Where you from? Middle east? The rest of Africa?

    • @flemingian1415
      @flemingian1415 7 років тому

      Franken Frank somewhere in southeast asia

    • @mht_octopenis
      @mht_octopenis 7 років тому

      fleming ian OMG me too
      I'm from Vietnam
      Which country?

  • @GeovaneOliveira48642
    @GeovaneOliveira48642 7 років тому +5

    Damm. Nice beard!

  • @johni0666
    @johni0666 7 років тому

    Great video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shawonrahman5935
    @shawonrahman5935 7 років тому

    I am very proud of you.....I love you guys..... You guys are my role model....I am gay too and I’m always proud of me.....I wish you guys are always happy and make me happy by your amazing superb videos.....❤️❤️❤️💕💕😍💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️

  • @igneo.s4554
    @igneo.s4554 7 років тому

    Did he just say A-BOUT?! AYE-BOUT? EYY-BOUT?

  • @lukaszv137
    @lukaszv137 3 роки тому

    So sad they broke up!

  • @zacminnette8304
    @zacminnette8304 7 років тому

    I'm like Nick, really.

  • @sandbox1803
    @sandbox1803 7 років тому +2

    Cool video. Like u guyz.

  • @williamm8240
    @williamm8240 7 років тому

    Very nice.

  • @sitinij
    @sitinij 7 років тому

    Can you do video, where you both are with short 2-3 days stubble?

  • @brianfontenot8264
    @brianfontenot8264 2 роки тому

    I am from Louisiana and im gay, my family is very religious and my family was not accepting of a person being gay. My parents passed away a little over 4 years ago and i had one brother that was younger and died over 11 years ago. I am gay. I could never come out and say that i was gay because of my family would totally reject me. I never told my parents but i think my mom kind of knew. MY sister found out i was gay and was attracted to guys and she started calling me all kinds of names and texted me and said she was so disgusted and i was to never text her or call her ever again and she also said for me to never call her my sister ever again. I am so floored and depressed all the time that i live alone with juvenile diabetes and had seizures in the past now I'VE not only lost my only brother to cancer and my mom to bone cancer and my dad to heart failure but now I'VE lost my sisters in the process. I am constantly depressed nand crying all the time and i hardly have any friends and people who come by and see me at all. I cant drive anymore because of my seizures and vision problems. So i am home alone all the time but i try to keep busy but at times its so hard to do anything. Sometimes i wished that i was the one who died and my brother and parents lived. It would have made things so much easier on my family if they survived and i didn't.

    • @ramryn592
      @ramryn592 Рік тому

      There s no one who can leave u now anymore. U already experienced the worst. From now on keep on going forward and thrive. Also, how wrird is ur sister: she s disgusted because u like guys but.....she also likes guys...

  • @tao26899
    @tao26899 7 років тому

    จัสติน กับ นิก 😍

  • @mariec334
    @mariec334 5 років тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤😘

  • @DADDYART1
    @DADDYART1 7 років тому +2

    You have a very sexy beard Nick. You should get Justin to grow his out more. Wooof!!

    • @paulandrews298
      @paulandrews298 7 років тому

      Humm, I like the clean cut Justin 😍😍

  • @sourabhjadhav3596
    @sourabhjadhav3596 6 років тому +1

    Wow Nice pink color Wow

  • @gnparticle
    @gnparticle 7 років тому +1

    well thank you very much for letting us know your brother's IG handle ^_^

  • @inisaifu772
    @inisaifu772 6 років тому

    Justin is look like cesc fabregas, am i wrong?

    • @sivxb
      @sivxb 6 років тому

      Go Green that’s true 😂😂

  • @zacminnette8304
    @zacminnette8304 7 років тому

    But I haven't came out yet. Well, I did come out to my friends (some) but not to my family. so, technically, am i still closeted?

    • @Ontir
      @Ontir 7 років тому +1

      Zac Minnette You're on the journey. It's yours & goes at your own pace. Don't rush it. Don't worry about labeling yourself as out or closeted. The thing no one told me is that coming out never ends. It's something you will have to do repeatedly in various situations. It gets kinda easier.

  • @facb9615
    @facb9615 6 років тому +5

    I always thought they had deep voices lol

    • @timd381
      @timd381 6 років тому +1

      Same! It doesn’t matter, but same. Kinda like how I felt when I heard David Beckham talk for the first time. Lol

  • @desertwaterdemon
    @desertwaterdemon 7 років тому +1

    "You ok?"
    Hot!

  • @likeuspublishing7420
    @likeuspublishing7420 6 років тому +2

    Hello Justin and Nick, my name is Michael Ferrante and I am the founder of Like Us Publishing. Our company’s mission is to tell peoples’ real-life experiences and stories. We believe that coming out is one of the hardest things a person can do. We feel there are still people, even today, who are scared and ashamed to be who they are. We want to help them feel more comfortable about accepting themselves. This is where we need your help. Many people from around the world have already shared their coming out stories with us, in order to help others with acceptance. We would be honored if you would share your story and allow us to publish it in our next publication “This is Who We Are.” If you or any of your friends/family/followers would like to help our mission by submitting your coming out story, please email us at likeuspublishing@gmail.com or message us on Facebook facebook.com/LikeUsPublishing/. Thank You!

  • @nu9had
    @nu9had 7 років тому +1

    Nick ..Nick.. Nick Can you be anymore cuter #loveya

  • @chuot7668
    @chuot7668 7 років тому

    Vietnamese so beautyful. Do you came here?

  • @bambangsetiawan1361
    @bambangsetiawan1361 3 роки тому +1

    Handsome copplle

  • @BusinessTrainings
    @BusinessTrainings 3 роки тому

    you guys are the most beautiful couple ,,,,wish you have a great life ever ,,, even my family love me soo much ,,but if i tell iam gay ,,,they will kill me

  • @tarunkumar-kg4xh
    @tarunkumar-kg4xh 6 років тому +4

    Nick do something with your beard bro:)

    • @justinandnick428
      @justinandnick428  6 років тому +2

      I did! This is such an old video 😂 apparently I was going for grizzly realness haha

    • @pandabear153
      @pandabear153 3 роки тому

      I'm always envious of your beard Nick! Love from Minnesota 😍

  • @paulortiz8063
    @paulortiz8063 6 років тому +2

    after watching a ton of these coming out videos i still do not get the point of it all. never told anyone i am gay. if they can figure it out on their own, fine. if they can't, fine. WTF??
    i lived and worked in San Francisco. never came out to co-workers. and i certainly didn't care if they were gay. why would I? how was it even germane? doing a code to save a guys life I was much more concerned about someone's competancy than who their main squeeze was going to be that night. consequently I told folks strictly on a need to know basis. so, like, my boyfriend knew I was gay. and the guys at the power house, the eagle, and daddy's obviously knew, being gay bars. But this need to tell my family, friends, et al just was never 'a thing' for me. how is it their business? or important for them to know? If they ever asked me I'm not sure what I would have said. As in, why were they asking? I would have thought it strange. obtrusive. meddling.
    I was brought up to be an independent, stand on your own two feet kind of guy and was in the US army during the war. actually i figured out i was gay after 7 months of 'working for the defense dept' ( as I sometimes put it) and at the time the army was not so hot about gay men (Or women) serving, so fine, I can keep a secret. so i did. I played THEIR game. no big deal. And i don't have poor self-esteem from "cognitive dissonance" should folks think about that kind of stuff or know what it is. i figured it all out, the gay thing, on my own. it took a while but I did it. so while playing war games, i was regular, US, army, issue! And in my off time i was the non army me!! maybe there wasn't so much difference between the two. But i knew the army was just a short term gig so I could do whatever they wanted of me to do. perhaps if it had been a whole, big, long career it might have been played differently. But it was only a couple of years, so no big deal. I'm tougher than that, to be broken by their short sighted foolishness in the short time of a few years. it wasnt going to last for ever so I would be (and was/am) fine!!
    my parents have passed away and I don't regret NOT telling them anything. I went to college for 8+ years, became a medical professional, bought a great house, and i do my thing. i don't need approbation as I'm internally controlled. I was always there for my parents, always did all I could for them. absolutely no regrets at all.
    perhaps i am just a private person! all these coming out vids are fascinating, and some are truely tragic, but i can not really identify with any of them. I took the opposite approach from the get go. but, truth be told, it can work out well for either group, whatever the approach taken. I think it might (would!!) be helpful for folks to record stories of NOT coming out and show how things turned out in their lives so those considering all of this can see two viable options to pick from. And perhaps there are even more options available, so I want to hear what others have done to see what else is possible. perhaps there are a number of ways of doing this beside what we see here.
    and for those who come out and it doesn't go as planned I feel a huge amt of sympathy for them. It hurts me and upsets me to hear their hurt. I wish I could hold them in my arms until they stopped hurting!! And I would! to need approbation so badly but not recieve it, and then to also be scorned --- is heart breaking! for those folks i wish all of them-- only the very best, always!!
    Big hugs,
    Paul

    • @tomj4731
      @tomj4731 5 років тому

      You say you don't understand why people tell their soling out stories or even why people bother to come out.....look at the long thing you posted....you obviously had the need to tell your story. The only difference is that your story is about not coming out. It's all the same.

  • @sethleong6562
    @sethleong6562 7 років тому +1

    Your older brother is a daddy 👅

  • @sourabhjadhav3596
    @sourabhjadhav3596 6 років тому +2

    Wow Nice boyfriend..... Wow

  • @lalolanda6409
    @lalolanda6409 7 років тому +2

    Sub spanish please🙏

  • @cool_blue6422
    @cool_blue6422 7 років тому +1

    who is the top

  • @Mohgbloodlordnihil
    @Mohgbloodlordnihil 7 років тому +2

    Gay......

  • @aswinsshibi9677
    @aswinsshibi9677 5 років тому +7

    *Nick is the bottom of their relationship😍*

    • @justinandnick428
      @justinandnick428  5 років тому +12

      Guess people will never knowwwwwwww 😊😊

    • @aswinsshibi9677
      @aswinsshibi9677 5 років тому +2

      Omg haii im your biggest fan ...Love u justin and nick ..You are my inspiration..Love u guys😍😍

    • @guilhermesoares8815
      @guilhermesoares8815 5 років тому +1

      Good god, girl, get a grip!@@aswinsshibi9677

  • @jslasher1
    @jslasher1 7 років тому +4

    That beard is so ugly. You are probably handsome under all that facial hair.

    • @zsoltoroszlany7172
      @zsoltoroszlany7172 7 років тому +1

      jslasher1 I personally really like his beard.

    • @sitinij
      @sitinij 7 років тому

      What he must do in your opinion? Remove stubble completely or leave short stubble?

    • @obartel
      @obartel 7 років тому

      Option are like assholes. Great to see you and opinions have something in common 😳

    • @brama100
      @brama100 7 років тому

      jslasher1: They showed a pic of him recently w/out the beard and it was shocking how much better he looked and how the beard now ruins his attractiveness.

    • @sitinij
      @sitinij 7 років тому

      Where is that picture where he is without beard?

  • @xadam2dudex
    @xadam2dudex 5 років тому +3

    I wonder whatever happened to them they kinda disappeared off the face of the earth ... I hate when channels just stop posting .. 😟

    • @lukaszv137
      @lukaszv137 3 роки тому

      Yes sadly they broke up :(

    • @xadam2dudex
      @xadam2dudex 3 роки тому

      @@lukaszv137 oh crap really ?? How sad .. How did you find out ? Did they ever get married ? Last I saw they were engaged