I watched this video and became truly concerned.An Igbo adage says,you can’t beat a child and tell them how to Cry. James who cheated and it led to their marriage and home being destroyed,should not have the right to detect for Lily how and when to move on with her life.Narcissistic like James can deploy any means to try and control their victim.What James is doing is called emotional blackmail and is very wicked of him.Lily made a video explaining that their divorce was over months ago and they only made it public 3weeks ago.James ran to the public and tried using it to his advantage to front Lily negatively.Please let’s not help him accomplish this evil agenda of his.The only place,I fault Lily was after the divorce having intimacy with James. What it shows is that Lily have not yet stopped loving James, and it pained me that he found that weakness of hers as a weapon to use against her.The bond established during the 12yrs of marriage is still holding Lily but to James it’s nothing. It was James refusal to attend his daughter’s Bday and performance that made the new boyfriend to come public. Clearly they been dating during the separation and that is not cheating.James caused the demise of the marriage by Cheating.Lets not traumatize Lily by allowing James to have any input on how she should move on with her life.This is part of the reason why women stay and die in Toxic relationship,worrying about what people will say.Emotional abuse is a killer,so let’s not help with it.
I watched this video and became truly concerned.An Igbo adage says,you can’t beat a child and tell them how to Cry. James who cheated and it led to their marriage and home being destroyed,should not have the right to detect for Lily how and when to move on with her life.Narcissistic like James can deploy any means to try and control their victim.What James is doing is called emotional blackmail and is very wicked of him.Lily made a video explaining that their divorce was over months ago and they only made it public 3weeks ago.James ran to the public and tried using it to his advantage to front Lily negatively.Please let’s not help him accomplish this evil agenda of his.The only place,I fault Lily was after the divorce having intimacy with James. What it shows is that Lily have not yet stopped loving James, and it pained me that he found that weakness of hers as a weapon to use against her.The bond established during the 12yrs of marriage is still holding Lily but to James it’s nothing. It was James refusal to attend his daughter’s Bday and performance that made the new boyfriend to come public. Clearly they been dating during the separation and that is not cheating.James caused the demise of the marriage by Cheating.Lets not traumatize Lily by allowing James to have any input on how she should move on with her life.This is part of the reason why women stay and die in Toxic relationship,worrying about what people will say.Emotional abuse is a killer,so let’s not help with it.