Why Over Pursuing Turns Her Off

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  • @davidp2888
    @davidp2888 4 роки тому +505

    When she goes cold, walk away and don't look back. If she's sincerely interested in you, she'll seek you out. Never stop working on your mission and purpose, in good times and bad.

    • @robertcollins7034
      @robertcollins7034 4 роки тому +12

      Amen brother

    • @davidp2888
      @davidp2888 4 роки тому +29

      @jballs squirrel I've learned a lot from Coach's videos, but the one thing that's stuck with me is "the power of the walk away." If you're not being treated right, you tell her "When you're ready to treat me with the respect I deserve, give me a call" and then you walk. Let her think about it and if she reaches out, good. If she doesn't, you're already on your own path so keep going. A woman who values you and is worth it will pursue you and work for your attention.

    • @Papagiorgio153
      @Papagiorgio153 4 роки тому +13

      "If you blow chunks and she comes back, shes yours, but if you spew and she bolts, it was never meant to be" - Wayne Campbell

    • @bvresplendor3169
      @bvresplendor3169 4 роки тому +17

      The problem is we care too much about girls, we should not bother so much, you should learn what coach is teaching but if she's treating you like a 2nd class citizen, just forget her, not worth it, most importantly you should not care, not have a single thought about her, that's the only way to not let these girls get to our head, but well if she likes you, she's gonna make a way to see you, seems pretty straightforward guys

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 роки тому +2

      @@bvresplendor3169 Amen brother!

  • @FranciscoSanchezXO
    @FranciscoSanchezXO 4 роки тому +157

    For all your guys reading the book (10-15 times lol) I made a playlist with all the Videos that the coach lists in his book for us to watch IN ORDER. I made it public because its very useful. The playlist is called "Corey Wayne Book Video Recommendations in Order" Although I feel like i should've called it "Come on, man" lol

  • @kingsbasketballclub5251
    @kingsbasketballclub5251 4 роки тому +158

    Almost texted this girl I have been on 2 dates with today. Our last date was 2 days ago. All i could hear was Coach Corey saying Cmon Man. She texted me tonight and we have a date Thursday night.

    • @danisirooszadeh7305
      @danisirooszadeh7305 4 роки тому +5

      I'll press "f" to pay respect to you ma man

    • @tubenachos
      @tubenachos 4 роки тому +16

      Don't listen to that little devil on your shoulders

    • @jamest681
      @jamest681 2 роки тому +1

      What happens if her dating coach is telling her not to text first either. How is the empasse broken then.

    • @fuadahmed6060
      @fuadahmed6060 2 роки тому +4

      @@jamest681 Women are more emotional and tend to break before a real man does that. She will eventually break and reach out, u just have to outwait and outwit her a little more than she does.

    • @topshelfbullys7889
      @topshelfbullys7889 Рік тому +3

      @@jamest681 she ant watching no coach. Remember. Women chose

  • @exquizit_d
    @exquizit_d 4 роки тому +280

    Telling her he was gonna go see other girls was horrendously cringy. He might as well have taken a selfie of him crying and sent it to her.

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 роки тому +14

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @carnalgonzo7712
      @carnalgonzo7712 4 роки тому +4

      He should just don't anything after she told him she was going to dinner with her family . But normally when a woman do that they got another dude or ex

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 роки тому +2

      @ Dino and Juan...... Ya ever done that before?

    • @exquizit_d
      @exquizit_d 4 роки тому +15

      @@frankiegunnz8066 Take a selfie of me crying and send it to a girl? No. Get butt hurt when a girl doesnt immediately reply to me and my response to it is to tell her I'm gonna see other girls? No. Not saying I've never been butthurt in my life, I've just never done that lol.

    • @carnalgonzo7712
      @carnalgonzo7712 4 роки тому +3

      @@frankiegunnz8066 yea I have and never heard from that woman again . But I learned the hard way if a girl opens her legs I won't contact her first till I now she's really in to me that would take like a month we're she always calls me first

  • @casperincityboy867
    @casperincityboy867 4 роки тому +62

    Look fellas im 25 and have had alot of experiences with woman, they like the idea of chasing you but get turned off when you get soft and start being too nice so they shit test you every once in a while to see if they got you whipped so the key is to never be too nice but be a gentleman and let them know you are never putting them on a pedestal . You are the prize and are willing to walk away if they dont act right.

    • @Nina-jc3be
      @Nina-jc3be 4 роки тому +2

      If you are the prize, then you will get the emotionally unstable woman who will constantly have her happiness depend on you. Talk about being full mode beta. A strong woman, who is emotionally warm and caring won't stay with you.

    • @johnnycalderon9951
      @johnnycalderon9951 4 роки тому +1

      @@Nina-jc3be 😭😭😭 good answer

    • @Nina-jc3be
      @Nina-jc3be 4 роки тому +2

      @@johnnycalderon9951 that's just common sense and experience in life. It just works that way psychologically.

    • @johnnycalderon9951
      @johnnycalderon9951 4 роки тому +1

      I just want both of us to be the prize

    • @Nina-jc3be
      @Nina-jc3be 4 роки тому +4

      @@johnnycalderon9951 absolutely. That is the whole point. Give 100%. Either you are in or you aren't. If the other person doesn't see that, you win because they're not right for you in the first place. The moment someone is cold with me, I get the f out of there. Don't entertain playing games and you won't have games to play then. I vet people that way, and always have healthy relationships. But it is hard, since people are way entitled in 2020.

  • @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546
    @socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546 4 роки тому +53

    Hi Mr Wayne I got shown your work 5 years ago and bought your book and obviously read it 20+times so I’m only here to keep up as I’m in a happy relationship where I am the man hope your audience realise how good 3%man works 💓 from a happy customer

  • @nicklily4033
    @nicklily4033 3 роки тому +7

    love how real this man is. I'm 15 and I'm getting this helpful info young and early! thank you so much, so helpful!

  • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
    @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 роки тому +35

    This man that changed my life, a little over 2 months ago my ex left me and I found this mans work. I started working on my purpose, created my UA-cam channel and started traveling and working. Guys I begged and pleaded with my ex to come back but after I found my purpose in life, now i don’t want my ex back.

    • @UngdommensMonopol
      @UngdommensMonopol 4 роки тому +2

      Banks da Lone Traveller Exactly my situation.
      No pressure, no diamonds. I have had the best year of my life since practicing his material. Everything in life happens for a reason. Expect to win every day. Repetition creates your reputation.

    • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
      @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 роки тому

      In The Mix thanks bro. Keep moving on too bro.

    • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
      @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 роки тому +1

      In The Mix Just little update, soon after posting this comment, my ex’s mom sent me a message to say ( God bless you) from nowhere. Someone I haven’t spoken with since the breakup and she was there when my daughter called police for me. I don’t even know she will have my number. Guys it just crazy. I wasn’t expecting anything especially from her.

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 4 роки тому

      I am glad to hear you are better and alive my friend and that u found Corey! Stay strong and healty !

  • @russr5128
    @russr5128 4 роки тому +23

    I was familiar with your work several years ago but I didn’t apply it in my last relationship and made tons of mistakes. This stuff is for life!

  • @oznearerl3255
    @oznearerl3255 4 роки тому +14

    A woman sometimes seems to want to be the most important thing in her man’s life. However, if she is the most important thing, then she feels her man has made her the number one priority and is not fully dedicated or directed to divine growth and service. She will feel her man’s dependence on her for his happiness, and this will make her feel smothered by his neediness and clinging. A woman really wants her man to be totally dedicated to his highest purpose-and also to love her fully. Although she would never admit it, she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of his highest purpose.
    -The way of the superior Man

  • @lloydbeal613
    @lloydbeal613 4 роки тому +92

    Dude just talk to more than one woman, until it's time to just talk to one..he just got whipped too easily..

    • @hyperwarrior908
      @hyperwarrior908 4 роки тому +11

      Easier to said if we were before the era of Covid19!

    • @ModernValorDating
      @ModernValorDating 4 роки тому +3

      Truth! Guys like that need to learn how to SCREEN. It's a very underrated topic that doesn't get brought up enough in men's dating.

  • @robertcollins7034
    @robertcollins7034 4 роки тому +66

    We cant date now with chrona virus !! But perfect time read / listen to the book many times !! So wiser for the future.

  • @deshawn1801
    @deshawn1801 4 роки тому +47

    Been listening to you since I was 23 in 2017 I’m 26 and man you’ve helped me so much I’m glad i discovered you at such a young age most guys don’t get this stuff till they’re 40 smh keep up the good work bro !

    • @champinatorr
      @champinatorr 4 роки тому +1

      same age and same time as me

    • @gilGames82
      @gilGames82 4 роки тому +1

      21 right here, I feel fortunate as hell

    • @deshawn1801
      @deshawn1801 4 роки тому

      We are the lucky ones

    • @jasinbiggs7189
      @jasinbiggs7189 4 роки тому +1

      31 here and discovered corey at 29.

    • @s2003katalin
      @s2003katalin 2 роки тому +1

      We didn’t have access to this information the same way you guys do today. Take advantage.

  • @nickg4252
    @nickg4252 4 роки тому +4

    I’m 20 yrs old and I’ve been watching ur videos since I was 17

  • @peter-simonejike6282
    @peter-simonejike6282 4 роки тому +44

    Girl: I have been admitted to the hospital hospital from car accident leaving me with with a fracture on my right arm.
    Corey student: okay that's fine, so when are you going to be free to meet up?

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 4 роки тому +45

    "If a woman really want you, they will go all out and pursue you once you both at least exchanged phone numbers" - #RaphaelOnochie

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 роки тому

      Who's Raphael?

    • @Vickiluv
      @Vickiluv 4 роки тому +1

      If that woman is masculine she will

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 роки тому +1

      @@Vickiluv That's you?

    • @Vickiluv
      @Vickiluv 4 роки тому +3

      Frankie Gunnz hardly, but I notice a lot of “men” are looking for a “woman” in her masculine energy so he can in the feminine role and be courted and pursued..the whole role reversal.

    • @Vickiluv
      @Vickiluv 4 роки тому +1

      Frankie Gunnz hardly, but I notice a lot of “men” are looking for a “woman” in her masculine energy so he can in the feminine role and be courted and pursued..the whole role reversal.

  • @ThomasGrdv
    @ThomasGrdv Рік тому +1

    I love the videos and the value you give them man, every time I watch I learn something new. You’ve helped me so much in this journey of dating I can’t thank you enough. The best coach there is!

  • @samsmith6279
    @samsmith6279 Рік тому +1

    I have this exact situation as email 1.
    I was going to shoot my shot and reach out to coach, but this first email answered all my questions!
    I know this video is half a decade ago but those are Coach Corey Wayne gems!

  • @AIRJAC33
    @AIRJAC33 4 роки тому +22

    First story was like watching a train slowly approaching a car on the tracks and the driver doesn’t know.

  • @Stuntkrazy929
    @Stuntkrazy929 4 роки тому +25

    Coach Corey you should get a mug that says “10 -15 Times”

    • @bigounce1292
      @bigounce1292 2 роки тому

      He should sell it too, would buy

  • @aquemeni1979
    @aquemeni1979 4 роки тому +4

    I’ve read your book 1 1/2 times so far, so I’m like an 80% man so far. Thanks for the coaching sir

    • @Larrybird1980
      @Larrybird1980 4 роки тому +1

      Keep going man. Changed my life. On my 14th time over about a year and a half. One day it just clicked. That was about 7 months ago.

    • @aquemeni1979
      @aquemeni1979 4 роки тому +1

      John Apple thanks for the encouragement brother. I’m a slow learner but I hear that repetition is the mother of skill lol. He’s definitely helped me with my texting skills and looking at myself more positively, I believe that has historically been my major deficiency.

    • @Larrybird1980
      @Larrybird1980 4 роки тому +2

      BeeBeeInn hahhahahahhaha it is the mother of skill. You’ll soon be able to give a presentation on this book from front to back. It becomes you. Remember get right to the point, the phone is for setting dates, not getting to know. Also, if a girl texts you, instead of responding with a text,. Try calling her, you’ll be surprised it will catch her off guard. (Sets you apart from 97% of guys) lol.

  • @gthang8978
    @gthang8978 4 роки тому +18

    😂 “C’mon Man!” Awesome!

    • @mav7804
      @mav7804 4 роки тому +1

      G Thang hahahahhaha

  • @srdjanix
    @srdjanix 4 роки тому +47

    Coach just keep the beard bro. Looks great on ya!

  • @juliobucio2036
    @juliobucio2036 4 роки тому +9

    For those of you worrying about COVID19 affecting Corey Wayne’s philosophy: you obviously don’t know it well enough. The approach should not change. Instead of an in-person date, try and set up virtual (Skype, FaceTime) dates. This will obviously work better if you’ve already met them in person. Once she reaches out after your virtual date, use that as an opportunity to set up your next “date.” This is the best way to go. Otherwise, as some have already mentioned, avoid dating all together and use this time to work on yourselves. Remember, there is no scarcity of women. Love yourselves!

    • @MattDiGi
      @MattDiGi 4 роки тому +2

      facetime doesn’t sound like a fun filled opportunity for sex to happen

    • @juliobucio2036
      @juliobucio2036 4 роки тому +2

      @@MattDiGi which is why I mentioned that this is best for those who have already established an in person relationship. Webcam sex is always a possibility. Otherwise, as was also mentioned, refrain from dating during this time and work on yourself.

    • @voltinur
      @voltinur 4 роки тому

      @@juliobucio2036 what about invite her over to your place? Stay at home and order some food online

    • @juliobucio2036
      @juliobucio2036 4 роки тому +6

      @@voltinur I believe this all depends on the current stage of your relationship and what the current government guidelines are in your area. If you've already been intimate, I would float the idea and get her thoughts and go from there. The pandemic is serious, you don't want to prioritize seeing her during a time like this, especially if the relationship is in the early stages. Remember your purpose.

    • @tubenachos
      @tubenachos 4 роки тому

      😃🤯

  • @ricardoset5390
    @ricardoset5390 4 роки тому +3

    The GOAT is back thank god please continue to upload new content it’s certainly helpful in such a difficult time More Life Corey Wayne 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kimberlys4075
    @kimberlys4075 4 роки тому +6

    Very informative, even for us ladies...

  • @itsjustnopinionok
    @itsjustnopinionok 4 роки тому +2

    I'm all over your book. On my 2nd of what will be 15 readings over this year. I already feel better. And had a chance to put some of your work in action and got a positive responce. 1 day at a time. Thanks.

  • @knkpro011
    @knkpro011 4 роки тому +4

    Wow. I am currently watching "Why chasing women causes rejection" as recommended from the book. Now I will watch this to learn more.

  • @victorsenna5729
    @victorsenna5729 4 роки тому +2

    Hi Coach Corey, I'd like to tell you that this intro music blasts my eardrums hard everytime, but I love your content, thanks!

  • @stilldreaming56
    @stilldreaming56 4 роки тому +66

    4:58 Just happened to me. A few weeks ago. Stings like a bitch. I never struggle with getting girls until I find a "unicorn." Then I just change who I am gradually without noticing, over pursue, scarcity mindset, etc. You've got to treat every woman the same. Shame I missed out on that "unicorn" but at least I figured out what went wrong. I'm on my third read through of your book. Thank you Corey!

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 4 роки тому +4

      Read It 10x more dude!

    • @stilldreaming56
      @stilldreaming56 4 роки тому

      @@frankiegunnz8066 Will do man!

    • @MMKnight_1
      @MMKnight_1 Рік тому +1

      Lost my unicorn a few weeks ago aswell... =(. I also over pursued and was a little vague when asking her out which was probably what turned her off.

  • @evanhiggins7298
    @evanhiggins7298 2 роки тому +2

    I had a similar experience, but I didn't go that far. I was too confident with my late success, so I re-listened to the book and wrote it off as experience. Its definitely more challenging when you have gotten together with or talk to someone you're more interested in

  • @EternalLife91
    @EternalLife91 4 роки тому +17

    Hi Corey, hope you are doing well and staying safe!

  • @ALLWEDOISVIEW
    @ALLWEDOISVIEW 4 роки тому +6

    Although I read the book plenty, the robotic thing happened to me at first and I blew it. A little bit more practice and you'll get it down pat. It's a balance of understanding the principles while still being yourself. It will become natural soon, no worries! You're on to the NEXT!

  • @sanatatemasculinadrn
    @sanatatemasculinadrn 4 роки тому +5

    This is why is important to have more women at the same time in your life until you accept to be exclusive with the one that earns your heart.

  • @ultragoldcoin8780
    @ultragoldcoin8780 4 роки тому +4

    Before you listen to this; I wanted to tell you, that you are beautiful and exceptional. Also your a phenomenal human being; I love you and I hope positive experiences will start happening in your life, if they haven't already. Keep moving forward my friend; start adopting positive and beneficial habits & behaviors. Eat healthy and treat yourself with kindness, in addition to others also. Fair well my friend; God Bless you 💖

  • @joeyjummati6809
    @joeyjummati6809 4 роки тому +3

    Coach, you are great! I listen to your videos every night. I took your advice and I have your book and I’m in a relationship now because I listened and followed what you taught. It was like magic! Keep up the good work. I’m going to order your 3% man coffee mug! - Joey Jummati

  • @ReachingFullPotential
    @ReachingFullPotential 4 роки тому +5

    Dating during the virus is boring af! I’m really just focused on my goals now.

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 4 роки тому +7

    It must be the universe working! It just happened a similar situation with me, I know well your material but after a while dating I just couldn't maintain my strenght after a set of challenges the girl I was dating put on me. What scares me the most is when Im going to find my next girl (especially during this Covid months), cos until this day, I never had a great relationship for a long period of time. I am 32! At least I will keep improving and moving on to what I really want and deservr!

    • @UngdommensMonopol
      @UngdommensMonopol 4 роки тому +6

      Pablo Giorgio read the book 15 times. Take care of your body, your social circle and your purpose. Within a year you will excel in ways beyond anything you have experienced before.
      How bad do you want it? Create a winning culture in your mind. Expect to win and radiate curiosity and entitlement.

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 4 роки тому +2

      Be happy yourself ,dont expect women to make you happy. When u are good with yourself women Will come ;-)

  • @pinoy122793
    @pinoy122793 4 роки тому +3

    Going to read the book 20x Corey. Keep it up. 💪🙏.

  • @alphainteractions3408
    @alphainteractions3408 4 роки тому +19

    Chase success. Do the selfcare work on your personal development , fashion and fitness and let women chase you. Irish Dating Coach.

    • @Murf1211
      @Murf1211 4 роки тому

      No Name take your low value behavior some where else, we ain’t interested.

  • @simonpyza5270
    @simonpyza5270 4 роки тому +3

    Your beard is great coach. Masculine, strong and mysterious. Chuck Norris would be proud.

  • @Theclassiccarnut
    @Theclassiccarnut 4 роки тому +2

    Corey, you da Man! You reminded me that I'm a Man as well. 6 year relationship back on track but 2nd option of being single again was exciting as well. Either way, all is great and loving life!

  • @montrose252
    @montrose252 4 роки тому +2

    It was getting hot and heavy with the woman I'm dating. She hit the brakes. I said "You do what you have to do, but I would like to see you." I never reached out I worked hard on my own projects. After three weeks radio silence she sent an SMS: "I have been thinking about you a lot." I passed the test of strength! We are back in business, but we are on COVID 19 lockdown, so won't be able to hang out for a while....

  • @SeductionUnleashed
    @SeductionUnleashed 4 роки тому +7

    The first and most fundamental harsh lesson all white knights must learn in life. Sometimes touching base on the basic fundamentals is the best thing. I remember boxing when I was younger, sometimes you'd get so caught up with other aspects. You'd forget to just break it down to controlling the tempo with your footwork/jab. Cheers fellas, lets make the best of this

  • @rangergains3614
    @rangergains3614 4 роки тому +20

    Can you make a video on what to do when you just started talking to a girl during this COVID-19?

  • @Jordanickel
    @Jordanickel 4 роки тому

    Yes! A new video. These stories are very entertaining!

  • @nathanberry5828
    @nathanberry5828 4 роки тому +5

    Looking sharp at 50 dude!

  • @AJCzarkowski
    @AJCzarkowski 4 роки тому +5

    "She gave me a 'lover's hug'", 🤣

  • @bodazaphfa
    @bodazaphfa 4 роки тому +12

    If you put the poo-swa on a pedestal, they’ll run away and either go to their backup plan, or find a Chad, Tyrone, or Dirty Dick Rodney, because they never chase or pedestalize her.

  • @simonmonoa2561
    @simonmonoa2561 4 роки тому

    So much respect for you man, really changed my life. ✨

  • @griff4899
    @griff4899 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for another great video man.

  • @romancebuie8390
    @romancebuie8390 4 роки тому

    Wo! Coach really hitting on the truth there 2:45. Similar message to what i found in the book Wild at Heart

  • @denbysk8
    @denbysk8 4 роки тому +2

    In times like now focus on yourself and dont worry about the woman leave her to it

  • @andudontstopyo
    @andudontstopyo 4 роки тому +8

    Hi Corey, I absolutely luv watching your videos on dating and relationships. It gives me real insight on techniques a man should use when dating; and after looking at some of your videos I'll definitely know if he reads your book. By the way, you are too funny "Come on Man"..Hilarious😂 Great video boo!😘

    • @deshawn1801
      @deshawn1801 4 роки тому +1

      This guy is a life saver

    • @andudontstopyo
      @andudontstopyo 4 роки тому

      @@deshawn1801 Yes, it's a breath of fresh air to finally have a male perspective.

    • @andudontstopyo
      @andudontstopyo 4 роки тому

      @MrAkaalis If I realized it; I would be impressed. They give us women so many tools when it comes to dating and relationships; I think men should have tools as well. Men want to feel loved too❤

  • @iamasian4464
    @iamasian4464 4 роки тому

    The OG is back! Havent aged since coach corey

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 4 роки тому +2

    I used to over pursue a lot especially on dating sites. I would always get girls interested in me who lived further away and would say “too bad you live far away.”
    I never had a good answer for that. But I would tend to try to convince them that I didn’t live far away. Never seemed to work for me.

  • @JFKennedeez
    @JFKennedeez 3 роки тому +1

    Every girl you have feelings for feels like a unicorn, until you’re over her, then you couldn’t care less.

  • @markroden9968
    @markroden9968 Рік тому

    Even if you don't have plans, don't tell her you don't have plans. #1 rule of the game.

  • @zobboy8641
    @zobboy8641 Рік тому

    If you can’t control your emotions around a woman and falling all over yourself you’re already done for! Mental fortitude goes a long way.

  • @davidstenta1629
    @davidstenta1629 4 роки тому

    Great video as always CCW. Stay safe coach 🙏

  • @macioluko9484
    @macioluko9484 4 роки тому +3

    @10:53 Jesus Christ! She said she would like to go out "next time". Let her get in touch and shout your big yapper!
    @12:40 Dude. How do you feel, honestly, when a shady car salesman you want to get away from or a street marketer asks you when are you free the moment you say you're leaving? Creepy as F@CK! Stop this needy behavior.
    @13:52 and most importantly, you never allow her to wonder about you. Every time you walk away from an interaction and you DON"T text or call, she wonders!
    @18:50 Holy Shiate if guys would just put their damn phone down... 99% of their issues would go away.

  • @cyrusthegreat1345
    @cyrusthegreat1345 4 роки тому +1

    Love the mug ! 💥💥

  • @JohnMorris.77
    @JohnMorris.77 4 роки тому +1

    That look when he says “Come on, man” as he takes a swig from the mug. Classic.

  • @djdoncruse1952
    @djdoncruse1952 4 роки тому +1

    Coach I’m dying laughing !! When you say ( Come on man)😂😂

  • @terryjoeljunior
    @terryjoeljunior 4 роки тому +1

    Coach Corey bro, it's soon time for me to take over sailor, your getting up there in age! hahahaha! Pass the torch brother

  • @PeteAndersen
    @PeteAndersen 4 роки тому +8

    When it comes to reading 10-15 times might be enough. But when it comes to listening you should do at least 20-25. Why? Because you’re not as focused when listening. And then you should keep the the knowledge alive inside by reading or listening once every second month. How do I know? Because I’ve been listening 23 times and I’m still doing small mistakes here and there. It’s like old habits or cravings that have to go. But all in all I’m much more masculine, mysterious and nonpursuing than I used to be. You’re a gentleman but not a ‘gentle man’ as my new Unicorn lovingly said to me yesterday. ❤️ Thx Corey for getting me out of The Matrix and into The Real World. Greetings from Mr. Anderson. 😎😎

  • @coachpaulhagen1036
    @coachpaulhagen1036 4 роки тому

    Awesome as always!!!!

  • @B1GK1NG
    @B1GK1NG 4 роки тому +2

    Omg! Telling her that he’s going to see other women was major cringe. Wow!

  • @bvresplendor3169
    @bvresplendor3169 4 роки тому +1

    Was watching your channel after ages and you uploaded damnnn, that timing coach, guess it's never a co-Incidence

  • @effortlessericcrypto3579
    @effortlessericcrypto3579 4 роки тому

    Finally !!! The "Come on Man"Mug !!!

  • @hectorcollazo8845
    @hectorcollazo8845 4 роки тому +1

    I admit I made a grave mistake on texting too much on 3 beautiful women--2 Caribbeans and 1 Southern Belle--who were interested in me after I met them on online dating apps. This hits home, so now I know and accept why I was ghosted by them. The problem isn't them, it's me. I was guarding myself too much (maybe it's the Capricorn in me, I dunno) into making sure that they're serious about me as I was to them. I wanted to play it safe by texting in order to get know each other better. Well I'll no longer make that same mistake ever again! I had a great single life in all my teens and twenties. Had a short relationship, but I'm ready for a newer, better one. I don't plan to stay single in my 30s and beyond 'cause singlehood is boring and lifeless to me.

  • @writingmaster3008
    @writingmaster3008 4 роки тому +1

    There were 3 girls i liked last year but we didn't work out for various reasons. Said hi this year, made a bit of friendly banter, jokes, tested the waters slightly then each one of them made it clear they wanted to see me again. I was like, yup, buzz me when you are in town BYE!!!!! and i dont text them. U gotta have other shit going on and you gotta as corey says, focus on your mission. They'll be in touch again.......

  • @richjnev70
    @richjnev70 4 роки тому +3

    I won't be doing a lot pursing now I'm locked down!

  • @gamermasta525
    @gamermasta525 4 роки тому +2

    LMAO Corey's faces are so funny. You can see the look of horror and disappointment

  • @avantegarde123
    @avantegarde123 4 роки тому +7

    Coach how should we approach maintaining attraction during Quarantine? My girl left me because she felt I did not put enough effort or was a cold fish.

    • @mmendoza1190
      @mmendoza1190 4 роки тому +2

      leave her alone. move on

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 4 роки тому +3

      There si someone else there haha. Do not contact her ,she is not your girl anyomore! Maybe some other dude is doing her now ;-) You just enjoy your life and that will show her you are happy without her and thats the only thing that can trigger her to contact you. Never show that you are sad,broken or weak without her, that will make you weak in her eyes!

    • @avantegarde123
      @avantegarde123 4 роки тому +2

      Hey guys thanks, it's alright. I did no contact and she came back, I have the power now. But it's hard to deal with her cause she has depression and B.P.D.

    • @gregbutler2985
      @gregbutler2985 4 роки тому +3

      @@avantegarde123 good luck with that

  • @noisyether9211
    @noisyether9211 3 роки тому

    HAHAHAHA I'm cracking up...Fall into the Abyss!!!!!

  • @karenbaird9757
    @karenbaird9757 4 роки тому

    awesome content keep up the great content

  • @SargentGunnery
    @SargentGunnery 4 роки тому

    Corey! Stay safe man!

  • @banaya29
    @banaya29 Рік тому +1

    I found every year when I'm focused centered and ready I always find a UNICORN. The law of averages. We attract what we become plain and simple. Don't over complicate natural animal attraction.

  • @LSwaggy
    @LSwaggy 4 роки тому +3

    Hey coach... Can you make a video about positivity despite Covid-19? I'm a Welding Student / Amateur Boxer who can't even Weld or Train at the moment and feel lost on New York lockdown...

  • @frankiegunnz8066
    @frankiegunnz8066 4 роки тому

    The original UA-cam dating coach Is back!!! #ComeOnMan

  • @ConnorDRyan
    @ConnorDRyan 4 роки тому +14

    It’s hard to date during coronavirus!

    • @denverstoners
      @denverstoners 4 роки тому +3

      Hang out in the car or invite her over.it's obvious to her that there ain't shit to do.

    • @mav7804
      @mav7804 4 роки тому +12

      Honestly I think the best thing to do is wait until the virus thing is under control. It’s hard to build attraction unless you’re face to face, and trying to force a connection while women are more than likely prioritizing finances and family safety will come off as neediness.

    • @journeyquest1
      @journeyquest1 4 роки тому +2

      You can blow her a kiss as long as its at least 6 ft away.

    • @wellstang
      @wellstang 4 роки тому

      @@mav7804 truth. Even I'm priotizing finance and safety as well. Job income at stake

    • @tubenachos
      @tubenachos 4 роки тому

      I had to break up with my ex, this lockdown felt like we were penpals. Fuck that

  • @drapered7762
    @drapered7762 2 роки тому

    Coach Corey with the number of people meeting online growing and ending the relationship successfully (and some which do not), especially long distance relationships, I hope you’ll have a discussion on how to start and keep an online relationship going even without ever meeting for some time. This is a tough subject but I’m sure you or someone on your team can address this.

  • @wanderingwondering3437
    @wanderingwondering3437 4 роки тому

    Come on man!! I love this catchphrase

  • @Piard
    @Piard 4 роки тому +1

    I am buying the physical copy it will be easier.

  • @Neptunianist
    @Neptunianist 4 роки тому

    Really good analysis. I've made this mistake. Can't help but cling when feeling like I'm going to lose her. So lose it with the ones I really care about. But appreciate this analysis and will try to use it but it's easy to think I will but different when it's really happening as the connection with such a girl is critical and vital to maintain. Pretending to be casual when I'm feeling intense is difficult.

  • @Just_virge
    @Just_virge 3 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @vycaso
    @vycaso 4 роки тому +2

    A great movie I think that gives a great example of how men should act and behave around a woman is Christopher Reeves Superman the scene where Lois interviews Superman. I like that scene to me that's a great example how men should act and behave around women.

  • @nicke2307
    @nicke2307 4 роки тому +3

    Hey Corey, what about dating during this whole corona virus quarantine? I had set a date with a girl the day before the quarantine and then the next day she texted me that we'll have to play it by ear and I said to her sounds good and joked around. We left it at that. No message back from her. I texted her hope her week was going good 4 days ago and no response but she's active on facebook so Im not going to contact her back again... confused if she's busy or finds no reason to text me during the quarantine or just lost interest and found someone else

    • @owenfeatherstone7740
      @owenfeatherstone7740 4 роки тому +5

      Just leave it a couple of months. I'm in the same position, nothing we can do. Just get your head down

  • @tonytrilex2555
    @tonytrilex2555 4 роки тому +1

    Even though you are awesome Corey and like you say don't take anything personal but please moisturize buddy.

  • @CoolClipsable
    @CoolClipsable 4 роки тому +1

    The first guy made the mistake of texting BETWEEN dates.

  • @NethervvoidBuilds
    @NethervvoidBuilds 4 роки тому +2

    I actually think the 'no texting or talking on the phone' thing is wrong. I've raised interest MANY times this way. I think the problem is most people don't know how to communicate over text and phone properly, so it's like oh just don't use it at all. But yes it's a balancing act. Overuse is never good, text, phone, or in person.

    • @NethervvoidBuilds
      @NethervvoidBuilds 4 роки тому

      You have to know how to flirt and use sexual quips in order to use text and phone calls. Most people suck at this.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  4 роки тому +8

      It applies mostly in the beginning when you are still dating, but once she falls in love and you're in a relationship, she will be calling and texting you all the time. She will be all over your ass and wanting your attention all the time.

    • @NethervvoidBuilds
      @NethervvoidBuilds 4 роки тому +2

      @@CoachCoreyWayne Thanks for the reply, Coach! Love your stuff! Got your book, 3% man. I agree with 90%+ of your stuff, so don't want this to come off as 'Coach is always wrong'.
      I do get the point of not looking needy by sending too many texts. Also def chop it short if the texts become 'boring', but honestly I have raised interest many times with texting in the beginning (usually funny and / or sexual things), I can use it to build anticipation, but like I said most guys don't know how to do it, so the default of 'dont do it' is probably best for most dudes.
      Thanks for the videos, etc! Great stuff!

  • @Damon3825
    @Damon3825 4 роки тому

    We literally watched this guy become the needy guy that women block.

  • @felixdavinci2549
    @felixdavinci2549 4 роки тому

    coach corey wayne youre a G

  • @writingmaster3008
    @writingmaster3008 4 роки тому

    Few points just on the 'quote'.
    1. quote by definition means you are repeating other's words. "to repeat the words that someone else has said or written' Cambridge Dictionary. You are writing 'maxims' 'a short statement of a general truth, principle, or rule for behaviour' Cambridge Dictionary.
    2. This maxim sums up so much of what you teach. I've written it down and will paste it on my wall. You need to get YOURSELF in a position of strength BEFORE you go chasing after anyone else to give it to you. It will flow from everyone, including the woman of your dreams, once you obtain it. More chasing of the one you THINK is the one is weak because you are desperate for her approval. If a woman sees you are weak, she has no use for you, and you are finished. Get yourself sorted first. Write affirmations on a wall, as a close friend to tell you what's good about you, build yourself up and then go for it.
    A big thanks to Corey for all his work. It works. All of it. Good luck friends!

  • @sanjivkathuria644
    @sanjivkathuria644 4 роки тому +2

    KING OF KINGS -COACH COREY WAYNE.

  • @DatBoyJames
    @DatBoyJames 4 роки тому +1

    I asked out this woman at work. We've been out on 2 dates. Both times were amazing. We have those long stares and are touchy freely pretty much the entire time of the date. I don't text her at all she's been doing all the initiating. But I see her at work on an average of about 3 to 4 times a week. I'm trying not to pursue too much so should I use the times I see her at work to make the dates if she's not texting? Or try to avoid her at work and wait for the text? Because if she's not texting me then she's obviously not ready to talk to me and me going up to her at work kind of seems like I'm chasing.

  • @zealouswater3
    @zealouswater3 Місяць тому

    You don't have to work this hard when someone loves you . Just stay alone .

  • @TheShadeManGuitar
    @TheShadeManGuitar 4 роки тому +1

    Yo Corey Wayne do a video on talking to girls through the Coronavirus pandemic/ statewide lockdowns

  • @andyl7547
    @andyl7547 3 роки тому

    This first guy was a train wreck. "When are you free? When are are you free?"