Op1 he is blaming all on his ADHD and depression because that way it looks like he can't help it, but he know exactly whay he is doing. Op 2, easy doe the extended family but nobody offers them to move in. Why does it matter they live far aqay. If they are already homeless, what would keep them from moving to another city. Nobody wants them, thats why and he was an idiot to throw away the chance he had to keep his family under a roof, but his bigotry was bigger.
Op1 he is blaming all on his ADHD and depression because that way it looks like he can't help it, but he know exactly whay he is doing.
Op 2, easy doe the extended family but nobody offers them to move in. Why does it matter they live far aqay. If they are already homeless, what would keep them from moving to another city. Nobody wants them, thats why and he was an idiot to throw away the chance he had to keep his family under a roof, but his bigotry was bigger.