🕉😀 How to Deal with Bad Memories and Guilt - Mooji

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  • Mooji is a nonduality teacher and a direct disciple of the renowned advaita master Papaji.
    In this video Mooji is being asked about how to deal with bad / negative memories and guilt. The questioner / disciple wants to let go of the past and overcome her negative experiences, guilt and suffering. According to spiritual teacher Mooji the problem is that she has still a tendency / habit to identify with the person / identity and with her memories, which are coming from time to time. In order to forget the past and freeing herself from guilt and bad memories he advices her to remain the witness, to remain the awareness in the background, just consciously observing her memories coming and going. So the first and most important step to take is to see and inquire: that from where the seeing is arising from, is that place poisoned? This way one can instantly see that he is already free from guilt, bad memories and past experiences and start enjoying his life. A most important video on understanding bad memories and guilt!
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    Mooji (born Anthony Paul Moo-Young) is a spiritual teacher / nonduality teacher, originally from Jamaica. Mooji is a disciple of the renowned Advaita master Papaji, who himself was a devotee of the advaita and non-dual master Ramana Maharshi. Mooji shares self-inquiry, directing his students to the non-dual Self by encouraging them to question who or what they are at the deepest level. One well known exercise is to identify the natural feeling 'I am' or 'I exist' and staying with this for 5 to 7 minutes at a time. Another is to come to the recognition that everything (thoughts, emotions, sensations) can be perceived, and then inquiring, "Can the perceiver itself be perceived?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 252

  • @E.Humperdinck
    @E.Humperdinck 6 років тому +70

    Mooji has this aura about him. It's so nice and welcoming. He looks like the nicest guy on Earth.

  • @HannaSahlman
    @HannaSahlman 5 років тому +117

    Wow. Thank you to the lady that is so open with sharing her experience. She touched my heart. 💜

    • @alevornek
      @alevornek 4 роки тому +3

      Same here

    • @gurmeetpannu3156
      @gurmeetpannu3156 3 роки тому +3

      True !!

    • @Kiwiwanderer
      @Kiwiwanderer 3 роки тому +4

      Her pain is palpable- there is no pain like a mothers guilt. She’s a good a woman. I have the same guilt for different reasons.

    • @dimitraspiropoulos7498
      @dimitraspiropoulos7498 2 роки тому +2

      So true … 🙏🏻❤️

    • @golnazsadri2303
      @golnazsadri2303 2 роки тому +2

      Bravo 👏nobody belongs to us, thank you thank you 💚even ourselves

  • @martymasters1894
    @martymasters1894 7 років тому +121

    I live for moments of intense human emotion & this is as good as it gets. I used to recreate certain memories because of the emotional stimulation it would cause & now I realize I was the one causing the pain to myself. I want to hug this woman

    • @mfo1371
      @mfo1371 6 років тому +16

      Marty Masters sometimes we can become almost 'addicted' to reliving painful memories. Sometimes the mind is addicted and we cannot stop it. We have to take charge of the mind. Not let our mind control us.

    • @TheNikki284
      @TheNikki284 4 роки тому +1

      How?

    • @yellove484
      @yellove484 4 роки тому

      @@tkf1627 thank you 🙏

    • @claudelebel49
      @claudelebel49 7 місяців тому

      ​@@TheNikki284 By being intensely present to what is going on within you no matter how disturbing or painful it may be.

  • @zanniebythesea770
    @zanniebythesea770 7 років тому +86

    'dont be a container for suffering'

  • @TheseOpenRoads
    @TheseOpenRoads 7 років тому +91

    We all carry burdens. I found it incredibly powerful to think "grace brought you out of that situation, fresh air, you're alive, you're healthy, a lot of light to shine from your life"

  • @AurelioYuga
    @AurelioYuga  7 років тому +102

    Bring your attention not to the crime scene, but stay in the place where the attention itself is watched. #Mooji

    • @alesdostal1
      @alesdostal1 7 років тому

      The human mind may only be able to pay attention to one single thing, the attention subsequently fluctuates between different mental or non-mental objects very rapidly in the split of second and makes a kind of space movie from many pictures. Then one gains a sense that the one is conscious of oneself and the world. But there is no mystical spiritual Mooji’s place, where the one may be able to watch your attention from. Perhaps the human mind is able to observe itself, to be a witness of itself with the assistance of delayed memory or to create a mental witness place for a short period of time in extreme conditions.
      Where is the mystical Self-realization place and unchanged accessible witness that Mooji is talking about here?

    • @mirzamay
      @mirzamay 7 років тому +7

      Ales Dostal it's in the soul... It is in that which dwells outside the mind that existed before this incarnation and after. And yes in those spaces as well, thought patterns can be created to watch the others and bring healing. That is the idea and apparently it works for people. I haven't done it but that is the principal.
      It's very similar to other forms of healing I've seen. The pain or thought is still there but it doesn't cut through your soul. It is scientifically possible.

    • @bliss5133
      @bliss5133 5 років тому

      Veryyy good

  • @claudelebel49
    @claudelebel49 5 років тому +20

    "I am guilty. I am bad" such thoughts are painful when believed in. I have noticed a strong tendency to identify with such beliefs in myself.

    • @JesseReza-g4l
      @JesseReza-g4l Місяць тому

      every identity will end in suffering ego's tricks.. remain in the heart, act without making things yours or mine and act in truth.

  • @orbitalpl1
    @orbitalpl1 7 років тому +91

    she left one guru to find another, of course much better one this time, an enlighten one. My point is that maybe her "problem" is that she doesn't trust herself, and seeks all the time guidance outside of herself. Her overreliance on external guidance caused her to deny her internal feelings and ignore her internal guidance - she beat the children because she was told to do so even if deep inside she knew it was wrong. She should get in touch with herself first, her wisdom and learn how to be discerning.

    • @born2light
      @born2light 7 років тому +6

      lilly At least the guidance that she got here is that the only one who can shift that is herself.

    • @Lene1973a
      @Lene1973a 4 роки тому +5

      She lost herself. She needs a shift indeed, and these insights can really help. Sometimes youre in too deep to try to get out by yourself.

    • @rimasmolis8288
      @rimasmolis8288 10 місяців тому +1

      Wow so many psychologists out here in comments . .why not just see a lovely communication and don't pretend You know what this lovely lady is going through in her life.. shame on you a little bit for playing the guru above the guru that is attempting to help someone , indeed to rely on her true Self and be free.. maybe you could try this kind of helping..xx

    • @orbitalpl1
      @orbitalpl1 10 місяців тому

      @@rimasmolis8288 I’m playing guru over guru? What are you talking about?? Shame on you maybe a little bit this time…

    • @rimasmolis8288
      @rimasmolis8288 10 місяців тому

      @orbitalpl1 just saying it seemed you were standing above this Master and his pupil.

  • @mfo1371
    @mfo1371 6 років тому +27

    I'm about to embark on a major life change and it has had me stressed out. I am leaving behind a very toxic family and situation. I have done this before but I had to come back to the depths of it. I always come back to Mooji or Sadhguru and the moment I listen to them I feel peace. I find that observer inside myself. This is a truly remarkable gift that their message brings us. Anyone can heal with their messages. I hope you are all finding healing too.

    • @yeshazion4098
      @yeshazion4098 4 роки тому +3

      Are You out...its 1 yr. Later and I pray you are Free and safe

  • @stephiegetsit
    @stephiegetsit 5 років тому +17

    I like that statement "no body belongs to you "

  • @kbderek610
    @kbderek610 5 років тому +14

    Holy fuck I love this guy. This is the best advice I’ve ever heard about letting go

    • @spcsh1936
      @spcsh1936 5 років тому +1

      Actually it's obvious but we often forget how much space there is in our lives, despite anything... that's what I'm amazed by recently...cheers :)

  • @allisround
    @allisround 4 роки тому +8

    Being sad is a waste of time and energy. It does no good to anyone - wow!

  • @mirzamay
    @mirzamay 7 років тому +26

    I bet there is a ton of abuse in this ladie's background. I bet it goes back to her childhood. I wish her and her kids the love and light they need.

  • @sanithia33
    @sanithia33 7 років тому +24

    l love Mooji l recently started watching him and lm looking for a mental cleansing through his wonderful teaching long live Mooji

    • @etherealdreams7119
      @etherealdreams7119 2 роки тому

      Hi Sanithia, how are you?
      Do you still listen to Mooji after 5 years?

  • @maha77
    @maha77 7 років тому +30

    'Guilt is anger that you feel you don't have a right to have. Anger arises when a border has been violated' - R. Neville Johnston

    • @gobio2849
      @gobio2849 3 роки тому +4

      Guilt and shame have nothing to do with anger, at least not in my experience. Anger can come from all angles, but guilt is nearly always personal, and it's crushing. Anger can be fleeting,, guilt however, unless resolved will stay with you a very long time. Anger can be like an energy,, it isn't always nasty. You can feel angry with yourself sometimes and it can fuel you to try harder or do better. But guilt though is like a crushing darkness that just holds you back.

  • @English_With_Shweta
    @English_With_Shweta 6 років тому +16

    He is love. His voice, his expressions, his movements fill the heart with so much joy and peace. He touches and heals so many hearts and among the millions of them mine is one. Pranaam to the Saint🙏

  • @claudelebel49
    @claudelebel49 7 років тому +36

    As awareness we are already free.

  • @dccaadmin
    @dccaadmin 7 років тому +18

    Absolutely blessed to have seen this. Thank you for posting. Namaste

    • @AurelioYuga
      @AurelioYuga  7 років тому +1

      You're welcome Elisabeth:)

  • @Kiwiwanderer
    @Kiwiwanderer 3 роки тому +5

    He’s good. Every single guilt ridden mother needs to hear this. Every parents needs to hear this.

  • @pukljica
    @pukljica 6 років тому +6

    Omg what would I do if my mom onec in her life admited she didnt do "every thing right" this woman is brave and Iam so sorry to hear that her kids are still at that place..this time she did get pure guidence from pure being trough master Sri Mooji,that means she is on the right path.Nevertheless in the end-no one saves us but ourselves,no one can and no one may,we ourselves must walk the path-Buddha..namaste

  • @meeeresgrund
    @meeeresgrund 7 років тому +26

    thank you for the question and honesty and thank you beloved mooji

    • @AurelioYuga
      @AurelioYuga  7 років тому +21

      When I look at the woman ... how horrible this guilt and bad memories have to be and how much negativity she must have gone through, but because of her honesty and her conviction that there is a way out of this she is an example / a model for all us.
      So many thanks to Mooji and also many thanks to the woman, who is courageous and open enough to speak about this!

    • @meeeresgrund
      @meeeresgrund 7 років тому +4

      and to you and all of us

  • @devendrapurohit7300
    @devendrapurohit7300 4 роки тому +3

    Big sinners instantly change to become big saintly characters , all that's needed is to purge out the heavy charge of sins and start flying like a butterfly .
    Vicinity of a master does that miracle , a master is a good alchemist.

  • @turbonbc
    @turbonbc 7 років тому +7

    Well said, when you are at a higher place naturally then go back and deal with the past and unresolved issues because from a higher perspective you have more clarity and understanding of what is thus can see old memories with a new light.

  • @patriciaedwards2833
    @patriciaedwards2833 3 роки тому +2

    It would help the mother if she were to set aside times to pray for, and/or send loving thoughts, heart meditation, for her children.

  • @7655kitten
    @7655kitten 7 років тому +11

    Thank you!! Guilt is a huge issue is my life 🙏💗

  • @usernameunbelievable
    @usernameunbelievable 4 роки тому +5

    Both the question and the answer brought me to tears, thank you very much.

  • @maestasify
    @maestasify 7 років тому +13

    Many thanks. So many people need to Know This thing that you teach...Om Shanti, Shanti, shanti ::::: namaste

  • @lizylolo5866
    @lizylolo5866 7 років тому +5

    This is only my thought you were stripped of your self worth bring back your self worth they abandoned you not your children this could be a past life energy you are working through in this life time know no matter what you are a child of God be strong FOR YOUR OWN SELF WORTH not some one else's god bless you and YOUR children my Easter message to you.///

  • @ritatocta7583
    @ritatocta7583 5 років тому +6

    It's the old tale "Please forgive me God please forgive me" the man said every night. One day a voice said "Son, I already forgave you, you are the one who need to make up your mind about it". I can feel her pain, but what she doesn't see is that when she left she left open a door for her children, a question in the air. I also have notice that a lot of people who feel guilt where in fact victims. She was also a victim at the time, mind control inside those comunities and the fear is real. So if she understands that she is no longer a victim and that now she can stand powerful in her truth she will feel better I believe. Il futuro non é scrito. The future is not written. I agree that the outcome of this can be beautiful. I wish her peace. ❤️

    • @Annie-lu5rt
      @Annie-lu5rt 4 роки тому

      Thank you for those words if wisdom. 🙏🌼🌞

  • @ryu7408
    @ryu7408 2 роки тому +2

    "Anyway"
    The word "Anyway", is the pathway, to master guilt. Use it as a bridge, to become what you want to overcome.
    Because when you become, what you want to overcome, you overcome what you want to become. "Anyway" begins as being consciously unconscious and being unconsciously conscious.
    The simple, hard truth is that it's often difficult to integrate, when you have to carry the heavy burden of it. That's why it's good to go slowly with it. How to slowly go into cold water. You can even expand your comfort zone.
    Enter suffering willingly.
    If you willingly enter into suffering, you purify yourself of it. Because only if you can face the suffering, you can change it.
    The courage to be strong is the shield against the manipulative fears that attack you. Nevertheless, being strong and not letting yourself be manipulated, is the courage to be strong.
    A sacrifice for love, is a sacrifice worth dying for. We don't have to undo the things we do wrong or have done wrong in life. We die for it and thus sacrifice ourselves for love. Die for your negative qualities and live for your positive qualities. This is the sacrifice and salvation of the human spirit.
    Positive and negative imprints in the early days largely determine who we are. Some are positive and some are negative. However, the negative imprints can be overwritten.
    And how something begins only determines one's own end, the old experience and not the next new beginning of the new experience. We find new ways to leave old ways. This is how we find salvation.
    The guilt we feel is the one that enslaves us. Only when we also remember our innocence, are we free at the same time.
    I'm Sorry
    For many years I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized for something to a person. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized that the only one I really had to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself, the most. So every day I apologize to myself for what I've done to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my feelings of guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you feel guilty about yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow. And apologizing takes away sorrow.
    Master the guilt and regret by becoming one with it in a way that all resistance to it is accepted and integrated. Because guilt and regret are qualities of a good heart. To finally be free, apologize to yourself and so integrate the guilt and regret.
    The solution to every problem is the problem itself. It came into existence and it will not leave you. However, the point of view changes, from a different perspective. This is how problems, become solutions.
    No bad deed will ever be forgotten by the conscience. Treasure those bad deeds. They remind you, that you have not forsaken your humanity.
    The patterns within us lead us like marionettes, on threads. Patterns are stuck resistances that can bring you a lot of suffering. Because if we fight them, we fight ourselves. The way out of the pattern, is therefore not possible, as a marionette in resistance. We can only become one with the patterns and resistances as a marionette and thus pull ourselves, by the strings.
    Because in order to overcome something, you have to become one with it. It is the shift from the receiver within, to the creator within. Therefore I am not afraid. I am fear. I'm not in the dark, I am the dark. I don't project evil. I am evil. I am not suffering. I am the suffering. I don't feel guilty. I am guilt. This is the way of overcoming. Become it, overcome it.
    At the same time, the patterns still exist. We have evil in us, that accuses the other evil in us. Evil accuses the other evil, as evil. And evil, that evil, accused of being evil, does not itself believe to be evil? Isn't the evil that accuses other evils of being evil, not evil in itself? If you really seek good, you will not find it in condemnation. When you realize that the condemned in you, is also the judge, then you can choose to drop the judgement.
    The important thing is to look within yourself, for if you had the intention to harm someone, before you start blaming yourself, for creating something, that was not even in your control. And you will see that there is nothing to regret. Because the intention counts.
    To get out of something, you have to go in. This is how you free yourself and at the same time, consciously, keep yourself captive. Because the paradoxical opposites, carry the respective opposites within themselves. This is the way out and the way in.
    Pain is strength in disguise waiting, to be revealed.
    The reaction determines the content. Whether something is good or bad is ultimately decided in your own mind. It doesn't live in anything or anywhere, but in your own mind's response to something. When you shift your perception of something in a more lovable way, even the worst on earth can become the best on earth.

  • @kathyobdstuckless8400
    @kathyobdstuckless8400 3 роки тому +2

    Kids never forget.. I know exactly how she feels.
    So work on myself..then when I get more aware I can deal with the past

  • @vercingetorixavernian8978
    @vercingetorixavernian8978 3 роки тому +1

    I’d also suggest GABOR MATE for anyone working through these issues of guilt shame etc...

  • @jaguarazul
    @jaguarazul 7 років тому +9

    thanks a lot for sharing
    absolutely magnificent

  • @theaggrotravelersbucketlis5470
    @theaggrotravelersbucketlis5470 6 років тому +7

    Let go of the past

  • @placidwaters2415
    @placidwaters2415 4 роки тому +3

    One brave lady for seeing the damage she was doing to her kids - even in that, she started to grow. Felt very sorry for her, and I hope she takes the option of becoming free of it all, just as Mooji said.

  • @ricardodelacrvz1400
    @ricardodelacrvz1400 4 роки тому +3

    I genuinely cried seeing this. Since she abused her kids and she is able to show remorse and tell the thruth makes me feel the same pain as her. As a kid I was abused and later I became an abuser too. Sometimes this bad memories pop up in my mind. I still have anger in my heart for the things i done and things that were done to me. I try to recall this memories on purpose and deal with the emotions. and just let it go. its hard. but everything will turn good.

    • @Vxruxxss
      @Vxruxxss Місяць тому

      I do this. Have you found a way to let it go?

  • @jillbellchambers4369
    @jillbellchambers4369 5 років тому +5

    How amazing I love to listen to you and the people who are asking your advice.

  • @jessicavanoverbeke6668
    @jessicavanoverbeke6668 5 років тому +4

    Much love and compassion. I see this theme arise in myself and others. May all be forgiving.

  • @Simon0
    @Simon0 7 років тому +9

    that made me cry :(

  • @Misslotusification
    @Misslotusification 6 років тому +8

    9:10 Exploring the pain-body is of no use. 11:27: guilt and sadness are of no use either.

  • @veronicaedwards5995
    @veronicaedwards5995 4 роки тому +1

    HOW DO GET RID OF THE GUILT? HOW CAN WE FIX THE PAST? HOW CAN WE RIGHT A WRONG TWENTY YEARS AGO?

  • @anyolebosman5138
    @anyolebosman5138 5 років тому +3

    No body belongs to you.woooww this has made my life because all negative energy comes from the fact that we think somebody belongs to us.

  • @catygiroud17760
    @catygiroud17760 5 років тому +3

    Es maravilloso🙏🏼🙏🏼💥 gracias con él subtítulado en español es tan grato y maravilloso tener la palabra de Mooji🙏🏼

  • @dominicfagan5496
    @dominicfagan5496 6 років тому +2

    I have this massive overwhelming urge to make up for my past mistakes and bad choices when the feelings arise. I been wondering about this. Is this drive to make up for past wrong doings distracting me from just feeling the pain of it? It is isn't it.

  • @rogerplessen5246
    @rogerplessen5246 7 років тому +4

    "God is faithful to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all iniquities."

    • @antoniorebelo4318
      @antoniorebelo4318 6 років тому +1

      Roger Plessen Love is faithful to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all iniquities.

    • @nativechique7589
      @nativechique7589 5 років тому

      😢 ❤

  • @amerikatt
    @amerikatt 3 роки тому +2

    Im suffering so much with this woman. I cant believe how brave she is

  • @28105wsking
    @28105wsking 5 років тому +2

    What good advice! Thank you. I guess we all have things like that. I am so grateful to you because every time I sit down, I just start sobbing and I don't know why...so this is so very helpful. I do have a word of advice to that lady: When I was in India, I got lice in my hair so badly that I had to shave my head! The barbershop was a little shocked when I asked them to shave my head, but it was a gift from the holy guru! Because when my hair was gone, the recurring worries and thot patterns of my whole life were also gone! It was trapped in my hair! I can't explain it, but since then I have used shaving my head several times when I felt a new bunch of compulsive worries and thoughts tormenting me. Every single time, it works! Don't think this and that about it. Just do it and be free. The devil counts on your attachment. It grows back quite quickly. Within a month you will have a thick velvet bunch of tresses, and meanwhile, it is lovely to feel the sun and wind on your head. You can get away with it for a while. I will bet you that this problem you have of memories will be much mitigated.

  • @porkyo123
    @porkyo123 7 років тому +3

    This women might want ta tell her kids she is sorry. That's all, tell them your sorry. Clean up your side of the street and be free!

    • @mfo1371
      @mfo1371 6 років тому

      porkyo123 I agree. I wish my mother would say sorry. It would help me but I can't wait for that because it will never happen. This woman's children are still in the other group though and she says they have been brain washed. She has been banished from the group so probably her words mean nothing to them, sadly.

    • @ooohlaa13
      @ooohlaa13 5 років тому +1

      @c fedyszyn For me it was very valuable. I hated my mother most of my life. On her death bed I got in bed with her and apologized for anything I did that hurt her. She said to me I feel I should be the one apologizing to YOU. We both cried and then she said my deceased father was there talking to her. It was the intimacy I was craving from her and wanting her to receive from me. It changed everything. I can go back psychologically and still feel pain if I want to because she was really mean and it was mean to myself to hate her, but it got healed with the acknowledgement. I said to her we are the same, just expressing it differently and we never got to meet each other until then. It was wonderful and I choke up and tear up every time I review the deathbed scene. She died a few days later. I was prompted to do this from Ram Dass, I read that he held his stepmom in his arms on her deathbed and healed their relationship. Wow.

  • @7spiritualcompass706
    @7spiritualcompass706 7 років тому +5

    Love this. Thank you. Blessings.

  • @lureup9973
    @lureup9973 2 місяці тому

    One of the fondest memories I have of my old Christian fundamentalist days was the time I discovered Jesus’ words, All you who are weak and heavy laden,come and I will give you rest, take my yoke upon you for my
    burden is easy and my load is light… today I see this through the I am and oneness not through the ego and I find deep peace and belonging rises up in my being

  • @charlenee2751
    @charlenee2751 5 років тому +2

    I have been watching, listening and learning from Mooji and have been touched by the way he can listen and hear people. It just came to me that it is the vastness with in that allows that attentive connecting with others so that he can offer guidance through his understanding. Do you ever recall being listened to with such love? I have not witness judgment only an openness to humanness

  • @tommyvasilev5012
    @tommyvasilev5012 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Mooji and to the lady!

  • @meemaflowers9446
    @meemaflowers9446 5 років тому +3

    The Adversary tries to hook us.

  • @Mimi-lo2gi
    @Mimi-lo2gi Рік тому

    Thank you! It helped me. Dank je.wel. Thank you.
    Where are you looking from?
    1. From the past and 2.you think
    I need to do something to correct this.
    She says I look.every direction and It is there...
    And than hear what Mooji says....
    And this I will practice for "the thing I see".
    Thank you Mooji. Thank you both!
    ( And to go in the depths of it, it benefits nobody! You only gets deeper entangled in the mind. It has passed!)
    Only guilt can make you feel like this.
    Thank you.🙏

  • @tatianapouladian7901
    @tatianapouladian7901 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks to the wonderful lady to be brave enough to share her story. Thank YOU.

  • @yeshazion4098
    @yeshazion4098 4 роки тому +1

    " are You THAT thing you're looking at.?"...priceless Wisdom

  • @gabriellepadmore3248
    @gabriellepadmore3248 6 років тому +2

    This is very powerful mooji gets right to the point of the problem

  • @yeshazion4098
    @yeshazion4098 4 роки тому +1

    Yes...Yes! Watch your Self watching your Self at PEACE🙏❤🌈🙏❤

  • @adelitao3701
    @adelitao3701 5 років тому +4

    Every day, I blame myself, condemn myself for something that was done decades ago. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, yet I do it to myself every single day. It's no way to live. I hope to find peace with what is in this lifetime. If not, then I hope the next one isn't such a hell of my own making. Looking foe the way out. I feel lost and don't know how to find my way back to myself. Wishing everyone peace and self love. We all need it. 🙏💛

    • @stephr9859
      @stephr9859 4 роки тому

      Adelita O wishing you peace and love💜

  • @dmkbfly
    @dmkbfly 7 років тому +3

    Wow! I know this too. Thank you!

  • @dans5529
    @dans5529 2 місяці тому

    This is powerful. I'm referring to both the woman's honesty and Mooji's response.

  • @vegasg.2086
    @vegasg.2086 6 років тому +1

    ahhhh. the mind. poop. emotions....ugh. there are no answers there and no clarity. Ever. I continue to be inspired and renewed by the FOCUS ON THE ROAD video.

  • @goingclear2647
    @goingclear2647 7 років тому +5

    I needed this. Thank you.

  • @sansachiwawa3258
    @sansachiwawa3258 4 роки тому +2

    ❤️thank you this was a great one

  • @dorinat.4182
    @dorinat.4182 5 років тому +2

    Thank you!
    Very helpful. Very true.

  • @Coldrew1111
    @Coldrew1111 4 роки тому +1

    Yes, the true integrity of her inner self....just by saying that...is amazing
    We must forgive ourselves
    May i be there in her grace and mooji's love

  • @nonexistenty4152
    @nonexistenty4152 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing video :) thank you so much, helped me so much!!

  • @synappticuser7296
    @synappticuser7296 2 роки тому +1

    Beautifully intimate and real moment of healing wisdom and liberation - thankyou both 🌟

  • @thirumalkumartv1461
    @thirumalkumartv1461 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Mooji ji

  • @josecastro-jx8xb
    @josecastro-jx8xb Рік тому

    Honestly i rescpect very much Mooji words but i think he was not able to touch the woman heart and neither mine. Beleive me a psicologist would have done it better. For those that are seekers, i invite you to listen to sadguru and even Krishnamurti, indians thinkers that will help you go through!

  • @bujjirajkumar8450
    @bujjirajkumar8450 7 років тому +2

    I thought I am hearing the lady state that the children are in the same group that She used to be , that She did not like and agree with, my question is simple , why would the Children still be on that group which She did not agree with? I am not sure I am understanding what is going on here.

    • @donlonpat
      @donlonpat 7 років тому +4

      The children are now adults, living with the group.

    • @stephr9859
      @stephr9859 4 роки тому

      Also, it is not so easy to get kids away from abusers, as one might think.

  • @emilyverrecchia4643
    @emilyverrecchia4643 7 років тому +9

    A mother will never let go of the things she feels she did wrong by her children. One day I hope her children will realize that she does indeed love them and is regretful of her prior actions.

    • @mirzamay
      @mirzamay 7 років тому +2

      I hope they get out of that cult. She is cut off from them and now they are messed up, that is probably where the biggest guilt comes from. That place should be raided and shut down for child abuse so that the cycle doesn't continue. I wish she could have escaped with her children but no use dwelling on regrets. I feel for this woman and send her love. I hope her connections and her heart finds healing.
      The problem is something like this isn't really in the past. It is ongoing because her children are alive and the saga continues. It's not just a past memory of something that happened once. It's very difficult to detach and heal from something like that.

    • @Noor-jw2tn
      @Noor-jw2tn 6 років тому +2

      Emily Verrecchia as a Mother I did the best I knew to do at the time. I have no guilt.

    • @ooohlaa13
      @ooohlaa13 5 років тому +1

      Let's not forget that "mother" is just a name tag of many name tags like daughter, employee, dancer, chef, postman, friend, etc. all polluted by societal shoulds we are caught up in. We get hypnotized that one is more important and grave than the other. I once read that God don't have grandchildren, everyone has the option to learn how to talk to God direct. I like where that is pointing to, taking the pressure off "mother" once and for all, but not diminishing her either.

    • @stephr9859
      @stephr9859 4 роки тому +2

      She was forced to do those things by the community..she was trying to survive in a power structure ruled by a cruel manipulative man. A lot like the entire power structure dominating our planet right now. Before we rush to judge our mothers and expect them to be sorry-perhaps We could pause and realize the unconscious structure we live in-it is especially cruel to women and children.

    • @Annie-lu5rt
      @Annie-lu5rt 4 роки тому

      @@stephr9859 You speak total truth. May the current system be healed. Thank you 🙏

  • @iamenough6958
    @iamenough6958 2 роки тому

    She seems to still be holding on to the mentality that allowed her to do things that she knew wasn't right. Guilt and shame are energies that are so self destructive when Moody finally said it has happened you no longer can change it I hear forgive yourself and stay in the moment

  • @SuperMarcel32
    @SuperMarcel32 7 років тому +2

    That was excellent it so applied to me

  • @Ludifant
    @Ludifant 3 роки тому

    If you want to correct it, tell your kids how it happened and that you do not condone it.

  • @Kerry-ft2zf
    @Kerry-ft2zf 5 років тому +1

    I do feel Mooji answered this lady quite well. I especially liked the second half of this clip. But the shame needs to be addressed. She feels so much guilt of 'what sort of person does it make me because of what I've done?' And 'what harm have I done to them?'. I don't feel the shame was addressed completely. I understand what he's saying about the crime scene. It's good. Be in your truth, the crime scene is not what you are. Face the pain, be present with it, but don't get engaged in it- you will only get wrapped up in shame. Nobody belongs to you, even your children, and you did all you could....so very good teaching.... Come from the goodness that you are

    • @danceaway6463
      @danceaway6463 4 роки тому +1

      The problem is he can't deal with something as traumatic as that. I know he's saying counselling psychology etc is just going over it it may be what she needs to a certain extent. Just looking at the awareness and observing is a part of the answer but she needs proper help to heal and to love herself as she wouldn't have got involved in a cult if she had been from a stable environment. She must have self compassion and realize she is worthy of love and care and to accept herself and that she is not that person as she was under mind control. I think she needs someone specialised and then the other observation stuff can be applied because she has serious trauma.

  • @tinathompson591
    @tinathompson591 5 років тому +4

    This truly resinates with me also
    I keep punishing myself from old PAST mistakes
    Thank you!
    Mooji for this topic 🙏🙏🙏🙏
    Namaste! God bless 🙏❤️🙏
    I've recently learned
    That
    THINGS I HAVE NO CONTROL OVER
    LET IT BE! STAY IN YOUR SELF 🙏❤️🙏

  • @mareksmezalis5960
    @mareksmezalis5960 Рік тому

    Brave woman, some of the women staring at her in crowd, i dont think thats good when a person is sharing her biggest shame/regret.

  • @ulkashrotri7899
    @ulkashrotri7899 Рік тому

    We feel guilty when even knowing something is wrong as per society we still continue to do it

  • @claudelebel49
    @claudelebel49 Рік тому

    There is much suffering in clinging to an idea of how things should be.

  • @richardbakowski8313
    @richardbakowski8313 Рік тому

    I have lost my children they can’t forgive

  • @chironaimes
    @chironaimes Рік тому

    Ah yes she beat the kids yet she's the victim and it was that man's fault. Wow

  • @letgo1064
    @letgo1064 5 років тому +2

    Thanks ❤️

  • @mtnblubird4304
    @mtnblubird4304 Рік тому

    God would never talk to us the way we sometimes talk to ourselves.

  • @michele6285
    @michele6285 2 роки тому

    How is it there choose when they was born in a cult and she want to get them out to show them what better and then she would be free.

  • @sangameshwarsakrewar7147
    @sangameshwarsakrewar7147 7 років тому +2

    thank u guruji

  • @anadis.1589
    @anadis.1589 2 роки тому

    Si la sientes y la abrazas te liberas de ello , lo he experimentado.

  • @UltimateMoralizer
    @UltimateMoralizer 2 роки тому

    I’ve always loved Mooji’s videos. Watching his videos is much better than counselling. Most psychologists are useless and superficial. They go after the symptom instead of the root cause.

  • @Lotuslaful
    @Lotuslaful 2 роки тому

    🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
    So helpful
    Thank you for the courage to ask for help and the wisdom of the answer
    I needed this also
    Grateful ❤️

  • @leorubio5653
    @leorubio5653 9 місяців тому

    Mooji is one of the greatest expressions of Unconditional Love we have ever encountered..He is a gift beyond the concept of gifts. 😊 This short video with his message is a beautiful example of the wisdom he shares but we all hold in us as well. Truth, Love, wisdom, etc doesn't belong to any of us, it's beyond universal, Mooji is just a beautiful transmitor of it . 😊 One Love.

  • @in7687
    @in7687 6 років тому +1

    she sounds like my father.

  • @maodavalostaner2270
    @maodavalostaner2270 2 роки тому

    Excelente guía de Mooji Babá. Aunque apenas es el principio de mucho trabajo para ella. La única solución es renovar los nexos con la vida, renovar los nexos con los compromisos del origen de su ser. Re aprender a vivir. Re aprender a ganar. Re aprender a estar presentes. Es muy difícil, cuando los seres que más amas, te tratan mal y te sobajan, e intentan hacerte sentir mal. Hay que intentarlo ...

  • @riseup6112
    @riseup6112 5 років тому +1

    She should get her kidd

  • @h2_kumar
    @h2_kumar Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this teaching, Mooji. Peace, and love to that courageous lady. I'm sure she has found peace, and love. 🙏

  • @arleenshamon9685
    @arleenshamon9685 7 років тому +2

    so grateful for this thank you

    • @AurelioYuga
      @AurelioYuga  7 років тому +2

      You're very welcome Arleen:)

  • @malikalonazi2411
    @malikalonazi2411 3 роки тому

    Is it good solution
    That if you imagine (( God in ambition and proud manner asking you in a love and excitement asking you “ with his smile and rare love .. with knowledge of the thought “”smiling at it .. knowing how value in future and after death He sees in you ... with compassion ... and a lot of excuses ... and forgiveness .... with me allowing you to do that .. you can’t do it ?
    Because of your thought of doing that i did allow you to do it .. and to feel the consequences ... . Now you know if you think before what might happen to your blaming attitude thinking as a punishment to yourself that you should avoid it to protect yourself not that you just can and no you are in power of changing others ... acknowledge that you are not in power and that no one can change and focus on the “I” how to save it .. not as un ego identity but as a gaol to reach it in every experience with everything and everybody ... or dye trying ... at least once you die .. you die in peace happy proud not distracted not regretting ... no blaming no paining .. no paining no gaining . No gaining no joying no joying no meaning ..... and so on ... and on .... and on .......

  • @almamia229
    @almamia229 Рік тому

    Amazing. Mooji is the best. I would love to meet him in person and speak with often. And I dream of a world where people are kind and loving to each other.

  • @alr.3137
    @alr.3137 4 роки тому

    I feel guilty over so many things. My parents breaking up, me developing a mental illness (ocd).

  • @jakerock_
    @jakerock_ 6 років тому +1

    Wow.