37:42 this is gold. we might not agree with one another but the ability to have open conversations shows a lot about ones intellect. Daniel's EQ also very well displayed by diverting the situation once the point was made.
I think the question should be changed and forwarded to the ladies. "Why wouldn't you want to date men who are lower income than you?" I suppose a lot of men wouldn't mind working alot less for the rest of their life if their wives are high achievers.
@@jen5138 Why do people assume that it's always the other half, husband or wife, who will have to stay at home when the other half earns alot more or become the main breadwinner in the household? The one with the lower earning power can always still participate in the workforce for passion/interest/ just to stay relevant and engaged in life. When we now have more and more ladies taking up important position in companies, we have to contend with the fact that there will be men earning alot less than the female counterparts. It always those chauvinistic men with huge huge ego who will feel inferior to the ladies. Those who find self confidence not just through their work, but also seek self esteem in other areas of life will be comfortable in their space to let the ladies bring home the big bucks while they can chill and relax with the kids or just earn an average salary. I feel that today's ladies have to change their mindset too that confident and attractive men can appear in all spaces across the workforce spectrum. Even the lower income men might select their industry, their job and roles due to passion, interest, comfort level, and meaning, rather than wanting to always climb the corporate stairs or to earn more. It's a personal choice now since alot of us already have the basic needs met with even average salary. Same goes for the ladies too I assume. So, those powerful ladies earning big bucks can still date lower income men who can attract them with their disposition and characters rather than wealth. Therefore, the question is no longer about why men don't date women who earn the big bucks. The ballgame has changed since It's the ladies who will get choosy about what kind of men they date if they still hold onto the predominant and outdated mindset that men will need to earn more than them in order to for the relationship to be successful. Or to put it simply, some people define success as having more possession and wealth. Nothing wrong with that. But then we couldn't say that it's the men's problem for not wanting to date ladies who earn more. Trust me..alot of men today will want to go for spa, educate their kids, engage in whatever interest, eat good meals etc just like those Tais Tais. Personally I educate my daughter, bring her out, spend alot of quality time with her, on top of my work. Such men like me are aplenty.
Amongst my closest friends, I used to be the poorest since their parents were GCB kinda wealthy. But then instead of being spiteful ad jealous, take a different approach. I learned about how they became rich and then reevaluate my life choices. It's ok to date someone who is poorer than you, if he is ambitious. The worst kind to date are the ones that have 0 ambition but complain a lot...
Took me a while to realize that the daily ketchup is actually not posted on a daily basis...nevertheless great content as always, I like to listen to the podcast while at work (while doing work)
after years of dating probably accumulated like 50 dates in total (a fair share of great and bad ones), one thing i can say for sure is, sg women never date down unless they belong to the group who has literally nothing to offer (physical attraction mostly). Educated ones (english inclined) have the greatest sense of entitlement whereas the lower educated ones tend to be more easy going and genuine in building & experiencing how a relationship should be. "Chemistry, loyal, genuine, trustworthy..." are just a facade to what the real innate desire/dealbreakers are
Great guest invite on the show because it's about media and content production!! I'm a recent fan of Annette's videos and I'm her parents' age!!! Love her brand of comedy.
I used to prefer date down due to men ego but now that i have grown and being smarter. Its better to have up than down and as a partner to help support each other. Theres no harm except only beneficial
That 28:25 part about Fuzz's show yep no matter how much funds I had, I pulled that. inb4 leading into the next topic of should the 1st date go dutch. it doesn't matter who is richer or poorer. or if ACS boys were ..... If I wanted to be nice I would... if I could ? its not a simp thing or a " mr nice guy " thing. I would give the hey I need to go to the to let.... and then sneek to the cashier and pay the whole table even in a group setting?
JP's view abt his kids shouldn't date some poor bloke, I wonder if John would feel the same. I'd thought it'd be diff, coming from normal famz and doing alright, I'd guess he'd probably have some different beliefs from JP. No hate to JP, love him to bits, no b/s str8 up dood.
Because if that is the case Believe me. Either the lady Preferred herself single and obviously more eligible guys should be more proud of them bringing more rich than their woman vice versa. Logic bro.
thanks for having me guys it was so much fun !!! 💛💛💛
Honestly the best current affairs/lifestyle podcast in SG by far!
37:42 this is gold. we might not agree with one another but the ability to have open conversations shows a lot about ones intellect.
Daniel's EQ also very well displayed by diverting the situation once the point was made.
Not me being distracted by Denise's WATER BOTTLE???
Man that class divide really hits hard. Hope you guys do an episode on that topic.
Denise’s water bottle is epic !! 😍😂
Is that for cool kids now?!
I think the question should be changed and forwarded to the ladies. "Why wouldn't you want to date men who are lower income than you?"
I suppose a lot of men wouldn't mind working alot less for the rest of their life if their wives are high achievers.
Would these men be willing to stay home to look after the kids though and let their wife earn the big bucks?
@@jen5138 Why do people assume that it's always the other half, husband or wife, who will have to stay at home when the other half earns alot more or become the main breadwinner in the household? The one with the lower earning power can always still participate in the workforce for passion/interest/ just to stay relevant and engaged in life.
When we now have more and more ladies taking up important position in companies, we have to contend with the fact that there will be men earning alot less than the female counterparts. It always those chauvinistic men with huge huge ego who will feel inferior to the ladies. Those who find self confidence not just through their work, but also seek self esteem in other areas of life will be comfortable in their space to let the ladies bring home the big bucks while they can chill and relax with the kids or just earn an average salary.
I feel that today's ladies have to change their mindset too that confident and attractive men can appear in all spaces across the workforce spectrum. Even the lower income men might select their industry, their job and roles due to passion, interest, comfort level, and meaning, rather than wanting to always climb the corporate stairs or to earn more. It's a personal choice now since alot of us already have the basic needs met with even average salary. Same goes for the ladies too I assume. So, those powerful ladies earning big bucks can still date lower income men who can attract them with their disposition and characters rather than wealth.
Therefore, the question is no longer about why men don't date women who earn the big bucks. The ballgame has changed since It's the ladies who will get choosy about what kind of men they date if they still hold onto the predominant and outdated mindset that men will need to earn more than them in order to for the relationship to be successful. Or to put it simply, some people define success as having more possession and wealth. Nothing wrong with that. But then we couldn't say that it's the men's problem for not wanting to date ladies who earn more.
Trust me..alot of men today will want to go for spa, educate their kids, engage in whatever interest, eat good meals etc just like those Tais Tais. Personally I educate my daughter, bring her out, spend alot of quality time with her, on top of my work. Such men like me are aplenty.
@@jen5138 yeah why not ? what a dumb question
pls get a tarot card/ horoscope specialist reader on the show...to see whether if it is worthwhile to pay that money of their service
Amongst my closest friends, I used to be the poorest since their parents were GCB kinda wealthy. But then instead of being spiteful ad jealous, take a different approach. I learned about how they became rich and then reevaluate my life choices. It's ok to date someone who is poorer than you, if he is ambitious. The worst kind to date are the ones that have 0 ambition but complain a lot...
Really enjoying the conversation and guests onboard! Super chill, casual and genuine. Glad i found this channel 👍🏼
Lol!! Denise's water bottle.. so cuteee
Took me a while to realize that the daily ketchup is actually not posted on a daily basis...nevertheless great content as always, I like to listen to the podcast while at work (while doing work)
Jon Paul was freaking hilarious in this episode! Keep up the great content guys! Love from Malaysia!
John's awkwardness during Dan's intro rating: 5/10
It's the little improvements
@@JohnathanChuaa pls more sir
“all of dem were bouwlin’ “ made me cracK UP
after years of dating probably accumulated like 50 dates in total (a fair share of great and bad ones), one thing i can say for sure is, sg women never date down unless they belong to the group who has literally nothing to offer (physical attraction mostly). Educated ones (english inclined) have the greatest sense of entitlement whereas the lower educated ones tend to be more easy going and genuine in building & experiencing how a relationship should be. "Chemistry, loyal, genuine, trustworthy..." are just a facade to what the real innate desire/dealbreakers are
Nah that hasn't been my encounter. Since this is based on your experience, you shouldn't be saying sg women but *sg women you've dated
@@Maltcandyxp I agree, it has nothing to do with education background at all. Women tend to marry up, it's has always been the case
HAHAHAHAH "go back and watch the older episodes" meanwhile I've rewatched over and over again just cus it's that entertaining
Great guest invite on the show because it's about media and content production!! I'm a recent fan of Annette's videos and I'm her parents' age!!! Love her brand of comedy.
I used to prefer date down due to men ego but now that i have grown and being smarter. Its better to have up than down and as a partner to help support each other. Theres no harm except only beneficial
you guys should use the TV behind to use as a picture aid. would have been useful especially for the last episode!
Pull that up Jamie
They might need to get permission to use certain photos gua. Too much hassle.
Awaiting podcast for the recent events from swords, samurai sword and cleaver
Woe Annette sounds very enlightened in the way she views issues in life!
I'm Ben Wong. ALGO
dont lie
Oei hahahaha
@@benwong2061 haha just kidding ☺️
Knn
It really depends on your social circle. i have been told that i was too rich or too poor to mix with certain crowds in school.
I cannot get over denise’s bottle HAHAHA
haHA YAH SO CUTE
this title/ topic is good but it feels a little too short. cause from the start, you're mostly talking abt the film. hope you all could do a part 2
How about next topic be would people date people older/younger and the views on it in society now vs in the past etc 🤔
love this platform always bring awareness to many, great content as usual! thank you
Denise's water bottle 😍
33:50 john realises he can say he dw expensive food
Annette seems so aloof heh somehow i thought she was warmer than she comes across here
Mostly centred around the guest star, Annette
Interesting topic for today. Honestly, i think it is not right to say mind set. Sometimes it is lack of opportunities.
What was the survey Annette was talking about in 24:00, anyone can link me?
I feel that it is more acceptable for woman to date up than men.
Can yall cover up your legs like the previous set up and also bring back the pink light pleaseee
I can relate to this.. Making 500k a year but still not enough.. A lot of my friends are making millions annually and living in bungalow
That 28:25 part about Fuzz's show
yep no matter how much funds I had, I pulled that.
inb4 leading into the next topic of should the 1st date go dutch.
it doesn't matter who is richer or poorer.
or if ACS boys were .....
If I wanted to be nice I would... if I could ? its not a simp thing or a " mr nice guy " thing.
I would give the hey I need to go to the to let.... and then sneek to the cashier and pay the whole table even in a group setting?
I have dated a few lady taller than me.. but none of my gf richer than me..
Love this!
Now I'm curious, how far back do you guys go to answer questions from? 🤔
Waiting for the chopping discussion that happened at leang seah ytd
Man..... I wish I can be a stay at home dad to a rich wife.
Algoooo
Get jon chua jx on the pod!!!!
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JP's view abt his kids shouldn't date some poor bloke, I wonder if John would feel the same. I'd thought it'd be diff, coming from normal famz and doing alright, I'd guess he'd probably have some different beliefs from JP. No hate to JP, love him to bits, no b/s str8 up dood.
solid
when you put a cute gal to guys ... out of a sudden they cant talk as a group ....
Densie bottle is cute tho hahaha
Stay fragile 👍
ALGO!
lol. the question should be why women dont want to date poorer than them
Because if that is the case Believe me. Either the lady Preferred herself single and obviously more eligible guys should be more proud of them bringing more rich than their woman vice versa. Logic bro.
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