Hmmm at least if I'm in her shoes, I feel like she finally got her closure. It's like she probably trapped herself with this question for the last 10-20 years, and she might even think back to it every once in a while. She finally had a chance to ask in this show and completed that chapter. In other words, it might not be about him, but about her needing that to move on. But to be fair, these are all speculation and we wouldn't know. Best of luck Hatou!
:) This is very true..... My grand dad used to do this as well.... lol...... "Guess how many seeds are in this satsuma ??"..... ;) There's just too much distraction these days as well. But even just simple things like that, it wasn't that much or anything back in the 1980s.... And the way that we behave today in 2023.... "How do you know what I want ?".... But who would know ?.... Cos everything is so stressful.
Sigh. Dear Friend. Be good to this lady... I don't think she has any more tears to give.... and that is the kind of.... Of course, since the script is what it is. So then... what else, could we say ? I have to take her side as a woman as well. It's funny to see if he could indeed to give tears... Having children, is in a way, to escape you being you.... OMG.... She's being used as a crutch.... :( It then means that, the guy has managed somehow to build his emotional circle round himself, but what about her ???.....
有一個point好認同火火，大部份人都講right person right time right place, 令自己都不自覺植入咗這個觀念，當火火講right person出現在bad time再自己轉為right time, 呢個好感動。
睇得出蝦頭好唔甘心，但又要迎合火火嘅意願同唔想失去火火呢個關係而格硬逼自己同火火做朋友
自己都係山羊座,突然間好似好明白蝦頭心情……蝦頭個心地係好善良，同深愛既人可以做得返朋友係好高既修為，佢嘻哈既外表係佢對人善良既面具，心裡面一直都希望有人可以珍惜佢既好...
睇到蝦頭喊，就知道聽到火火話呢個世界只有佢老婆係信佢，肯比一生佢，有幾傷心！因為蝦頭曾經都係咁信佢，但火火唔知唔珍惜
我都睇到心up，嗰種委屈
I don’t think so, she’s probably one of the person who doesn’t trust him thinking he’s not enough.
If not she’d not have that reaction at 3:18
Hmmm at least if I'm in her shoes, I feel like she finally got her closure. It's like she probably trapped herself with this question for the last 10-20 years, and she might even think back to it every once in a while. She finally had a chance to ask in this show and completed that chapter. In other words, it might not be about him, but about her needing that to move on.
But to be fair, these are all speculation and we wouldn't know. Best of luck Hatou!
Timing 既問題😢
@@hellovagim蝦頭就係覺得火火係得，而火火唔知蝦頭係咁諗，蝦頭先會喊啦！
或者佢喊係因為佢冇將呢個諗法傳達到或者傳達過俾對方知。
如果蝦頭覺得火火唔得，佢使鬼喊咩，使鬼覺得可惜，梗係覺得可惜先會喊啦。
火火好正，好直接好真，好坦白咁分享自己長大前後既想法。
同埋真係好有想法，解釋得好正，深入淺出～好正好有魅力
嘉賓同主持傾得好真摯！雖然蝦頭同Shiga 唔稱得上係好專業嘅主持，不過…..就係特別在於因為咁，所以同嘉賓距離拉得好近，感覺好似朋友傾計咁，令觀眾睇起上嚟多咗份親切感！有別於平時一般訪問節目！蝦頭同Shiga走在一起就係產生咗呢種化學作用，令到節目感覺有別於其他清談節目！兩位主持、劇組繼續努力💪🏻！
+1 ❤
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主持人你把聲好響呀好嘈呀
真心希望蝦頭可以放開自己，搵到一個真正愛你既男人，耶穌愛你
火火分享真係獲益良多，聽到眼濕濕。好感動。聽到要怎樣支持另一半好受感動。因為自己都是結了婚一段長日子，忘記了要 support另一半。。。好正分享。笑中有淚
Shiga係節目上令我更了解佢 之前睇新聞好易誤會呢個人 你要加油呀
太愛果個人，愛到分左手都5想失去佢，就會選擇做朋友
我諗「蝦頭」當年都對火火應該都好好！
不過其實都係個句！
岩既時間出現岩既人！
因為「聽說太理想的戀愛，總不可接觸，我卻那管千山走遍，亦要設法去捕捉」「家與國的夢，不結束，偏偏一顆心，抗拒屈服」，個意境幾正。呢隻歌真係好正，係講成個人生懷才不遇而冇愛(包括友情親情)，唔單只男女果種離離合合，我已經聽到耳都爛埋，希望而家00後聽多D呢種歌。
火火其實係個女人聰明姐，直接了當，說: 我有咗，明天同我父母一齊去飲茶。
蠢既才會去問，我有咗，你打算點呀！這樣去問即是比機會你去拒絕，火火遇到個高手
還有火嫂很清楚火火是一個怎樣的人，很缺乏安全感，對自己冇信心，但表面上未必睇得出。當火嫂有咗已經準備好晒所有台詞，焗火火答好，而當時人不知不覺跟住劇本演落去🤭
@@terrywong4875 同埋9個月就被中出有左有冇咁蠢？擺明想焗結婚，其實唔會有咁多意外架，哩ｄ係女人先會明～
@@LS-dc4bj 個女人聰明，想生仔，想快啲搵人埋單，想個男人養個bb, 梗係搵一個方法等佢冇得say no la ，火火都on99
@@terrywong4875 有一點你講得好啱，真係純嘅女仔會不知所措唔會咁冷靜… 係因為多經歷先咁果斷！通常啲男人入咗局都不會知。
肯定係高手。你睇佢唔介意老公同前度做朋友就知，所謂知己知彼，將前女友放喺明處出唔到咩事😮
屌，火火！！
終於搵到一個人同我對ex既諗法一樣！
曾經互相咁了解，對方既好與唔好都好清楚，亦都係某d位真係好撚啱咀形，當初先會喺埋一齊，
分手唔代表要剪斷晒同呢個人既關係呀～
繼續做朋友都唔等於對果個人仲有愛情感覺／放唔低，係因為對方喺生命中係一個重要角色，依然可以一齊進步。
呢集係近黎最精彩既一個嘉賓，火火講啲野好啱好有point,非常之有共鳴
一個人夫/男人上😂
超級同意！我已經聽左第2次
原來火火咁有內涵，唔怪之得以前咁多女朋友，蝦頭到現在仍是好朋友👍
睇完兩集，更加覺得唔應該同ex做朋友，其實蝦頭好慘，只是火火唔知/扮唔知。
蝦頭要放低呀，如果唔係個個向前行，淨返自己會仲sad
珍惜之餘亦要學習放下
相信真正放下嘅時候你會發現熱愛生命的送包包男士可能經已出現咗
家樂bb翻咗香港，Chillgood你哋應該識做啦，觀眾們期待佢好耐啦😢
期待
好期待哩個佬
雖然是今天突然看到段影片，但我這很欣賞蝦頭的真誠，願意在鏡頭下表達真實的自己。在蝦頭提到自己經歷和火火分手後的一年間，盡情狂歡的情況，讓我感受到那一年，蝦頭有種想証明自己是“不值得被愛”的感覺，太痛苦，難以獨力承受,所以用不同方式讓自己好過，這確實不是誰的錯。直至火火提到與太太相遇時，對方會對火火作出肯定，讓火火發現/察覺自己有愛與被愛的能力時，蝦頭再次發現，原來生命中有個人走進來提醒自己，“我是值得被愛的”或被肯定是很重要的。 就係果種好老土嘅：為左對方，從而學習愛自己多d，願意為了愛，成為更好的自己，再去愛對方。 不過以上 純屬個人感覺，唔一定啱😂。
睇得出蝦頭仲愛火火🥲
升華咗啦！
似乎就是已經找到一個新的位置去繼續愛呢個人
@@almajessica5533 yes. 人大咗就發現愛一個人唔需要一定要佢喺自己身邊做自己嘅伴侶！
佢明明一早覺得火火得 但火火只係相信佢女人覺得佢得
@@Samanthavan6789 same here, 我都係咁覺得，佢一講就喊就知
看火火的訪問令我覺得一個人如果腦入面係有料的話，你無論同他傾愛情又好、人生又好、生活態度又好，他都可以有好多見解睇法分享到俾你，令你成個訪問好有內容，令觀眾都好有得著
唉，好唔忍心睇呢個訪問，好擔心蝦頭嘅感受。😢
Same。不過我相信蝦頭值得擁有更好
@@christinel7136 係，絕對係。塞翁失馬，焉知非福。
蝦頭終於知道自己輸咩畀火火嫂喇，感動的眼淚 👍🏻😊
都多謝 火火提醒我多啲支持老公 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻😊
今集真係獲益良多，聽到好多男人嘅心聲，超正👍😊
聽火火講嘢學到好多嘢 👍🏻
今集超精采❤
蝦頭愛得佢好深
我哋一世人可以有一個咁深愛嘅人應該慶幸，得唔到唔緊要，好好放喺心底就夠❤
支持詩雅。👏🏻👍🙏🙏😊
睇咗咁多集，火火嘅呢兩集係我暫時最喜歡嘅嘉賓，太有意思，精彩！
超中意个节目，艺术感很高，哲学性高。
每星期睇shiga 最開心❤😍
講真，火火講的中晒男人心聲。
21:17
笑中有淚😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
呢集真係學到野！❤️火火正！
多謝火火 你果招真係有用
Thank you 火火，very inspiring 😁
蝦頭還是愛火火不過已經不是愛情而是愛情昇華了。呢種關係真係好正同難得。
火火每句說話，我都好認同。
火火 's narration is terrific !!!
火火唔夠鍾意蝦頭囉，無論蝦頭有幾為佢😢
蝦頭真係好鍾意你呀！以前只係因為覺得你有喜感同覺得你嘅笑聲有感染力而鍾意睇你。之後睇你專訪再加埋呢個Channel 見到你真性情一面，就更想支持眼前呢個更立體嘅你。衷心祝福你追求藝術路上有更多得著，期待欣賞你不同嘅演出♥️🌈🎈
😂好正🎉生番隻腳出來了
火火同𧎚頭都好正，好有chemistry
BEST episode ever.
😂最後都係冇答到最關鍵性果條問題，問依條問題果個人應該都好明，by the way,其實我絕對理解蝦頭同火火今日既關係，不過我覺得蝦頭真係最陰公，如果自己開心又傷害唔到任何方人既，做朋友係冇問題，但凡事都有向好同向壞，好睇處理得恰唔恰當，挽下手可以係另一種傷害
好鍾意蝦頭的真性情和率直👍🏻
對，e幾集睇蝦頭感覺好舒服！ 像捉到了一個靚位！ 火火👍🏻
今日呢個topic真喺好有學術性，很棒！
因為火火無比人傷害過先做到朋友吧
佢咪講左就算個女人傷害左佢 佢都會理解
我好鍾意睇你地既頻道，我每一集都有睇。
森美同火火都上咗嚟，下一個係咪劉翁？公子會調返轉俾人訪問🤣期待
好有啟發，不嬲覺得火火有啲嘢👍🏻👍🏻
希望蝦頭能遇到生命中的最愛
火火如果係牧師就正啦，講道一流！(講男女相處之道)
火火講嘢好好聽👍👍👍🎉🎉
火火講嘢非常有智慧
陳家樂EQ真高！👍
wisdom people, wisdom talk, good show, good conversation
😂年青放任不顧後果以為快樂
🎉年長幸福心靈滿足安全感快樂
火火講得啱，夾唔嚟就分手，無謂再嘥時間
Where’s Carlos! Waiting for you🥳🥳🥳
我都系觉的前度可以做好朋友的人，曾经是那么好的朋友，如果只要对方伴侣放得开，我都没问题。
仲記得2000年除夕去睇蝦頭既姊宮樂園 就有火火有份做 原來當時係拍緊拖
仲有02年左右有睇彭秀慧同火火既一切從鬚刨開始
好正❤
呢集正👍🏻
waiting for carlos to be the guest of this show😝 #shilos❤️
開心眼淚
火火真係講出哂男人既心聲
其實嬲就嬲㗎啦，就係因為好愛對方但係對方唔係好似你咁認真去對待呢份感情所以傷害係你自己，不過大家在一起嘅時候一定有快樂嘅只不過係結尾不盡人意，緣份依然存在只不過還愛對方😅但別人已經有另一半，這份感情不能像以往激烈😂
呢集真係好有意思❤👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻
Shiga 加油！！！❤
感覺蝦頭喊係因為明明佢一直都覺得火火係得既（火火竟然話未遇過一個女人覺得佢係得），淨係太太的認同先令到佢浪子回頭
我覺得蝦頭喊係因為佢心知自己無可能好似佢老婆咁去到咁盡，信到咁盡，山羊座好保護自己，就算幾愛一個人都好，點都會幫自己留條路
可能愛情就係咁，人對人的感覺，冇得用理性去解釋。
我諗火火都feel到，見到佢唔敢望返蝦頭🥲 不過佢做得好好，好斬釘截鐵表示咗唔會俾機會其他人，同埋蝦頭唔係right person。明確地鞏固住家庭&同蝦頭的友情👍
希望蝦頭早日搵到Mr right🥺
做唔成情侶但好難做到朋友，因為仲有愛喺入面
除非係和平分手，或者係年紀細唧時候分手，先有可能可以過幾年做返朋友！搵第三者，戴綠帽，離婚，如果有恨發生就冇可能可以做朋友！
依集對火火改觀咗😮
蝦頭一定有個有質素品味的好人給你❤
蝦頭好正！❤
火火一直刻意回避蝦頭既眼神，第一已無愛第二唔想再俾假希望第三俾老婆安全感
希望會邀請家樂🔥
想睇邵子風上黎講同蝦頭的經歷
大家都好幽默, 又係前度
今集好正
Well said
搵到咁既伴侶真係難過登天 祝福你火火
SHIGA!!!❤️❤️❤️
簡直係飄流教室的現實版
:) This is very true..... My grand dad used to do this as well.... lol...... "Guess how many seeds are in this satsuma ??"..... ;) There's just too much distraction these days as well. But even just simple things like that, it wasn't that much or anything back in the 1980s.... And the way that we behave today in 2023.... "How do you know what I want ?".... But who would know ?.... Cos everything is so stressful.
Sigh. Dear Friend. Be good to this lady... I don't think she has any more tears to give.... and that is the kind of.... Of course, since the script is what it is. So then... what else, could we say ? I have to take her side as a woman as well. It's funny to see if he could indeed to give tears... Having children, is in a way, to escape you being you....
OMG.... She's being used as a crutch.... :( It then means that, the guy has managed somehow to build his emotional circle round himself, but what about her ???.....
火火黎集好好睇👍
好多人都希望圍佬可以請家樂😢🥹❤️希望會請！！！！！
好正渦
技巧get!👍🏻
不要尝试去改变一个人，因为只有对的人，会自动为你改变。
期待陳家樂😏😏😏
蝦頭，振作❤
如果我個ex仲記得我講過啲乜嘢，我已經好欣慰😢
有溫柔嘅另一半,會改變一個人
今集蝦頭和火火解扣二人點樣看待感情👍🥰正
誰說ex一定很了解。。很多人睇過掂過私處的人都唔清楚對方諗咩。易性難愛的年代，不過概嘆的人自己有份做就
咁總有例外
同ex 做朋友真係難，當你只想做朋友既時候，對方只係想打友誼波🤣🤣🤣親身經歷
唔比打 fdfd下佢就話你當佢兵😢
深有同感，我都經歷過一樣的情況。所以要雙方都係想做返純朋友先work😢
可唔可以請少爺占 專一界代表