Me and my partner couldn’t help but laugh at how relatable you guys are! We certainly wouldn’t of paid £17 for parking.. it is ridiculous! But it’s even funnier cause you guys are in a G wagon and Tommy was wearing a dior coat 😂
I believe it’s free parking if you don’t have a National Trust membership. However I do agree with your point in the view that they flaunt luxurious items that yet won’t pay towards a UK charity organisation.
I'd recommend you guys spend the £150/year to support the National Trust, all the maintenance costs associated with keeping parks looking so lovely all year round and with the added bonus of easier access 🙂👍
@@montyharrison-stirling1457 you want them to spend their money so badd. It’s their money not yours mate. Simply because they’re rich enough doesn’t mean they have to. 17 pounds for a parking spot is ass
Congratulations on the baby! If she’s still waking for feeds, feed her. 10 weeks is still very very very small. She will still cluster feed until she’s about 4 months.
For all the new breastfeeding mums out there worrying about your supply or the length of your feeds. At 6 weeks old 2 hours is normal. It's called cluster feeding. And you can absolutely get your periods back when breastfeeding and this is not an indication of low supply. I got my period back at 6 weeks post partum and I'm still breastfeeding 8 months on. Molly I'm proud you breastfed for 6 weeks but please be careful of spreading misinformation! Also 6 months is the norm and what is adviced by medical professionals for starting to drop night feeds for formula fed babies, not 10 weeks. So all you mummas out there who's babies are still waking for feeds... It's normal ❤
Yes cluster feeding is totally normal, the baby is going through big growth spurts and developmental milestones at that age. Go with your baby, the more you feed them the more milk you'll produce. It does get easier, sleep when baby sleeps😊
I’m so glad someone put this out there, not going to lie it made me mad that she put this out there, not being horrible but other mums are going to think this it true facts, should def look things like this up before putting it out there
Omg molly if she’s waking up wanting a feed, please give it to her, she could be going through a growth spurt and your denying her food to help her with that 🙈 if a baby wakes crying, it’s because she’s either hungry, has wind, needs a nappy changing or she’s teething (a bit early for that though) I feel like your really need speak to a health visitor for advice 😬
Yes, you need to offer milk every 3hours until 8 weeks and night feedings should be offered until 6 months. Definitely speak with a neonatologist before cutting the night feeding at such young age!!!!!
This is so sad. Getting a period is not an indicator of supply! Im still feeding my 4th child hes 11month he still feeds every few hours in the night iv NEVER stop that and tell him he wasnt having it wtf 😢 a 10 week old baby doesnt know routine. Babies wake for a reason
For any mums breastfeeding out there, please be reassured that your period coming back, fussy behaviour, long feeds and sucking hard is not an indication of low supply, but completely normal behaviour for a 6 week old baby. Saying that however it is absolutely your choice whether you with to carry on at that point (or any point) and 6 weeks is Still an amazing amount of time to BF, as is 6 hour or 6 months :) just please don't worry about low supply because of these things xx
Totally agreed!! I went through all of that. It’s definitely not an indication of low supply. Just kept going and it got so much better. We are 19 months still breastfeeding. I think us mums need more help and support with breastfeeding, it’s actually more rare for a low supply to happen apparently? It just seems like we have low supply, especially if you try pump and barley get anything. That’s what happened to me but my boobs never reacted the same with the pump as my baby that’s why I wasn’t able to pump a lot I think! Truly hope these comments help other BF mums to push through if they feel like they want to. It is stressful thinking you have low supply but most of the time we don’t ❤️ the newborn stage is hard for BF but it gets so much easier x
Totally agree. My periods came back after about three months but i breastfed until my baby was a year old with no problems. Not an indicator that your supply is running out.
Thank god someone said it! Breastfeeding can be such a hard journey - I'm so envious of everyone who finds it easy as I haven't! But I'm persevering. Insinuating that you have to stop breastfeeding because you've started menstruating can be really damaging to someone who might not have support or information.
She’s getting low supply because she’s restricting the night feeds to her newborn baby! It’s so sad and harmful to baby not just developmentally but also for bonding too 😢
Wow you know you made it big when UA-cam comments on your videos!! Can’t imagine my 68 subscriber channel ever being that big but you are such an inspiration ❤️
It’s biologically normal for babies to continue to wake through the night. You shouldn’t drop their night feeds. 10 weeks is too little to stop night feeds. They are growing.. they need food! It’s actually recommended to slowly drop their night feeds at 6 months.. but even then they still wake up hungry. My baby didn’t start sleeping through the night until 10 months and stopped night feeds at 8 months.
Honestly you bring such a calmness when you upload! Can just relax with a cup of tea and enjoy 30 mins watching the most genuine beautiful family, you should be so proud of what you’ve achieved girly! ✨
From Molly and Tommy meeting on love island to watching them have there own house and a child honestly gives me so much joy. Mollys voice is so soothing and make me feel less anxious coming from someone who dealing with such bad anxiety it’s like a god send🥹laying in bed at 2am struggling to sleep and catching up on mollys video is the best feeling❤️keep doing you Molly! You’re both doing so amazing and I can’t wait to see your little family grow and see Bambi grow up to be as caring and career driven as yourselves!
I relate to everything you’ve said here hun, her voice and videos help my anxiety so much too, especially at night when I really struggle with sleep issues, she’s just amazing 🥺🥰
She’s incredible. But don’t aspire to standards of those you don’t know how much help others get. I did and it drove me to depression because I didn’t realise people got more help with their babies than I did and I struggled massively ❤
So great to see you doing so well ! It's a huge adjustment becoming a mum and your doing amazing, wishing you and your family all the happiness in the world ❤
I’m just loving this baby content. I also have a new born and its so nice seeing you go through it! Feels so connected. Bambi is JUST GORG! You all must be so proud.
I love how normal you make pregnancy and newborn life seen, it’s easy to make it seem so scary nowadays but you’ve made it seem like it can be okay and not terrifying 😊
I was so happy to see this notification you’re videos are so real and relatable 🦋 Bambi is very lucky you’re such an amazing family and we’re all glad you’re back 🩷
Hey Molly, just some advice about the suit in the car seat. The risk isn't as much Bambi overheating, the reason babies shouldn't wear coats or car suits in a car seat is because the seatbelts are going to be sat on top of a layer of padding, rather than against the babies body, causing the harness to fit incorrectly, so if there was a collision or crash, bambi wouldn't be safe. A collision can happen 2 minutes away from home, and even if you're a safe driver. An unsafe driver could crash into you. Please research why coats/snow suits shouldn't be used in car seats for Bambi xx
For a 10 week old baby they should be feed a few times in the night! It's helps they development! She shouldn't be going that long without a feed. 'From a developmental perspective, babies are able to sleep through the night - defined as a six- to eight-hour stretch - without eating when they're between 4 and 6 months old. In this age range, most babies reach the 12- to 13-pound mark, the weight where they no longer metabolically need nighttime feedings.' Xx
I completely agree, I have a 6 month old she sleep from 7 til 7 but I still dream feed her at 12oclock I know I don't "need" to but if not then she is absolutely STARVING when she wakes so it just suits us better 🥰
I’m not sure where she’s getting the info that around 10 weeks is when they drop a feed! It’s fine if they drop it naturally but you shouldn’t deprive your 10 week old through the night for 8 hours 😢
My baby is the same age as mollys and I mentioned to the health visitor that one morning I woke up in a panic because he didn’t wake for a feed (I hadn’t set a timer as previously I had been and he always wakes before the timer anyway and he was always really on point at waking himself) and she told me that I don’t need to worry too much through out the night if he wants to sleep through he will wake when his hungry?x
@@victoriagrady5004 this is absolutely fine if your baby is naturally sleeping through. If your baby wakes and is looking for milk/ crying then feed them x
2hr feeds are normal, cluster feeding in the early days are a thing and definitely normal when it comes to breastfeeding. Well done on feeding her all that goodness in the first 6 weeks! I think it’s totally normal that at 10 weeks she’s still waking up through the night for milk I wouldnt deprive her of it 😢❤
So glad people are saying this. Iv breastfed 2 of my 4 kids. Im still feeding my 11 month old now.. he still feeds alot during the night. Iv never dream of denying him that! Its just not normal to think that to say your not having milk until morning like 😢 a ten week old baby cant be forced into a routine wtf
@@the_aaliyah i'm glad you and some others picked up on this and commented. I don't know who is advising her to deny her 10 week old milk for 7 hours but its terrible advice. Because we live in a time now where more mums than ever are working, things like sleep training and schedules for newborns is being normalised when its infact so damaging to babies and will affect their development in many ways as they grow. Before women have children, they need to be very aware that they have to adapt their lives around the baby, not the other way around.
Thank god someones mentioned it honestly she shouldnt deprive the baby of milk i know its hard waking up through the night my baba is almost 6 months and its gone from 6 times waking up to now once which is really good
Absolutley! Really sadly the pressure to make babies sleep through is societal and honestly just adds stress for mum and dad! It is so normal for babies to wake be it for comfort or hunger or just because they have immature circadian rhythm. All babies will sleep through when they are ready. 😊❤️You’re doing just great! Xx
@Morgan williamson many of them have received their information from nurses or midwives though, if they are parents, or through research. Plenty of reliable NHS backed resources out there - la leche, etc.
If you a new mum watching this and you baby is feeding for two hours, it’s not because there is no milk there. It’s completely normal they are cluster feeding to up your supply and breastfeeding is so much more than just getting milk and just because you have your period doesn’t meant to say you have a low supply. Also at 3 not even 3 months old a baby shouldn’t have night feeds dropped if they are waking. I hate to be negative but it can be detrimental to a breastfeeding journey to hear information like this.
Welcome back Molly!! We have all missed you so so much. Every single comment is love and kindness just like you deserve ❤️ you and Tommy make the best team and parents to little Bambi!! Would love for you to post more regularly as we love you endless amounts🫶🏼🤍
As other people have said its way too early to be dropping feeds in the night. My son is 18 months & he still has night feeds & this completely normal. Please don't make her go 8 hours without a feed if she's clearly hungry. I'm not mom shaming here I just think you need to be educated.
Molly you look so radiant and beautiful hun, you are really glowing. I love that you’re not putting pressure on yourself and just taking your little time getting back in the swing of things, I’m very happy for you and this new journey.
Hearing you talk about your youtube followers, and how much you appreciate them, made me feel part of it ... We are here to support you and send good vibes only! 💕
2 year old daughter in bed, husband watching tv downstairs and I’m in bed with an easter egg, checked your channel just in case of a new video and you have no idea how happy I was to see this! 🥹 you’re doing absolutely incredible Molly, both you and Tommy should be so proud of yourselves. Bambi is beautiful ❤️
“Everyone should go for free, it’s a field” had me laughing so hard hahaha so happy to have your videos back to look forward to!! Bambi is so stinking cute and your little family is just beautiful 🥰 much love to you guys! 💜
I was looking for this comment I was dying when he said that 🤣 too bloody right too, £17 is a shambles! Yes it may be for a charity but with the amount of people they could have there everyday the cost should be lowered a little for people like me who struggle more and don’t have £17 for a walk around the field, love you molly and tommy! both doing amazing with little bam bam ❤
Just for anybody watching this that may also be on a breastfeeding journey. Your period can return at any point whilst breastfeeding, it doesn't indicate low milk supply. You can still continue to breastfeed even after your period returns
@@sfrancies87 It is common to have a drop in supply at certain points in your cycle, often from mid-cycle to around the time of your period. But these changes are temporary and things return to normal pretty quickly for most women. Every woman is different, it could be likely her milk supply dropped for another reason or multiple reasons etc.
I have been breastfeeding for nearly 9 months now, and my period came back after 8 weeks, I now have a period every month now they’re very regular and I notice my supply drops slightly when I’m on, but for any new mums don’t panic! If you are happy to continue breastfeeding don’t worry, your supply should go back to normal once your period has finished xx
Finally rewatching the season you two were on and it’s making me so emotional 😂 just knowing how things turn out, it’s so obvious how besotted you are with each other from the start
Bless her, if she’s waking then she’s hungry, her tummy is so small. She’d sleep better if you gave her a bottle, especially around growth spurts she’ll wake even more for milk
@@lucyclark4881if she has a bottle at 11 but refuses to give her another till 7, she’s waking because she’s hungry…. So she’ll obviously sleep better if she isn’t hungry?
I got my period back at 2 months postpartum. I was exclusively breastfeeding and have now for 14 months & counting! Your period is not an indication of how much milk you produce. Mummas please don’t think this!! Go to a lactation consultant if you’re concerned.
I just want to put it out there for anyone watching this. Two hours latching is normal. It’s cluster feeding. It doesn’t mean you don’t have enough milk. It also doesn’t mean your supply is going and your baby doesn’t get enough milk. It’s so normal. Only 5-10% of women who actually breastfeed have a reduced supply. Chances are baby is getting plenty, but they are just going through a developmental phase key to their growth. Anyone reading this if you aren’t sure - wonder weeks app is amazing at explaining the different changes they are going through and reiterates how they’ll react when going through them. Simple signs are cluster feeding, clingy, not settling etc. Completely normal baby behaviour 😊
I was going to say I literally had my baby on my boob throughout the day hour apin hour and trusted my midwife who said she was getting enough i breastfed until she was 3 ☺️🥰
☆ Cluster feeds and night feeds should be baby led on demand. Till they start newborn/infant solids so 4mths to 6mos depending on Pediatrician Doctor, baby, and parents. ◇ Also the thick suit in car seat is not so much for overheating as it is for safety in the straps. The thicker outfit means straps are not as snug to her. If she wore that to bed at night then yes overheating could be an issue depending on weather. ♡ Getting a period is not an indication of low breastmilk supply. Everybodys hormones are different so everyone gets monthly cycle back at diff times. How much she was getting while nursing is usually different to how much comes out whilst pumping. That doesnt mean she was not getting enough milk. That means that is how long feeds take her. □ My 2nd baby was same always attached to me. My sanity went bezerk but it was what baby needed for emotional affectionate bonding. My firstborn wasnt much easier. They are 7 and 3. Night wakes dont always get much better depending on ec kids personalities. What we want as parents goes out the window unfortunetly and we tend to our children how they Each Individually Require it ALL. 🥰😇😍🤩
Absolutely love seeing you more settled & feeling more yourself, you’re smashing motherhood. You & Tommy are the realest celebs out there, we all love you🫶
I've been watching your vids since day dot, before Love Island, I don't have a baby or anything close to your inspirational lifestyle but WOW I love love love watching you and feeling like im a part of your life. So relatable and honest dont waste good energy on bad people and keep thriving to do what you enjoy most. just cos you have a platform now dont be scared to share what you feel comfortable, stay true to yourself. im from Bath (hoping id bump into you when you came but sadly didnt) but now travelling Australia with my boyfriend and watching this reminds me of home so thank you so much for the content. sending love to you all, bambi is beautiful appreciate you sharing her with us xxx
Here for this relatable parenting content 🙌🏻 winding is like the worse part of newborn life - I absolutely hated it! Thankfully it’s not a issue as much anymore at 4 months! You guys are doing great! 💕
Just letting you know you did have enough milk, it sounds like Bambi was cluster feeding and it takes a full week to up your supply for your child’s next developmental stage
Thank you for your honesty Molly ❤ my baby is 3 months old and it’s definitely been the hardest 3 months of my life and it’s nice to know that it’s not all sunshine and aesthetic pictures for everyone ❤
Honestly I don’t even think I left the house for the first month!! I was like a zombie! I don’t even remember the first 2 months of my daughters life due to sleep deprivation! But things really DO get easier and you’ll find your own way of doing things and your own routine and rhythm and you’ll start to adjust to your new life. No one tells you this stuff before you have a child. Or if they do it is glossed over! All the photos on social media of my daughters first month show her all beautiful and clean and snuggled up asleep where as If I’d taken a picture of myself I was in stained pyjamas with greasy Un-brushed hair and huge bags under my eyes! But we don’t show the world that side of being a new mum! Things will get easier for you and I’m sure you are doing a great job!!! Good luck lovely! Xx
Omg can’t wait to watch this ❤ I’m in hospital with my baby girl and we have had a long 7 weeks but she’s now stable enough to have a bath 🛁 so after she’s had her bath I’m going to really enjoy watching this well done getting you 1st vlog done I’m still all over the place your doing amazing.. Beautiful little family x x
I am so glad you’re feeling better in yourself❤ You’re a credit both to your beautiful baby girl and to Tommy and you should be so proud of yourself!🫶 I look forward to your videos so much and you’re just so refreshing to watch❤❤
Molly please please do not ignore night feeds. I have a maximum of 2 hours sleep a night my baby is my 4th and she's almost 15montjs old. You did 6weeks which is incredible. But please still give her feeds at night you may find she only wants 1 feed if she's waking up through the night especially a great deal please understand she's hungry she's in pain. It's not just something she fancies she's needs the feeds. Hunger is pain. That needs to be acknowledged. I feel like you really need some decent support. She's your first baby it's so hard and you are doing great but mum's aren't perfect. We all need help whether it's our first of fifteenth nothing is easy. Please get some accurate support. And Give her night feeds to avoid her pain
Please feed her if she’s hungry. There is so much info out there and it’s overwhelming for first time mums but 10 weeks is tiny! Some babies still need a night feed up to a year old! If she’s sleeping through on her own without a feed then fine but if she’s waking hungry please don’t deprive her 😢
Good to see you vlogging again, from one mum to another if Bambi struggles with wind, use infacol & anti colic bottles, they totally changed my little boys life! He’s so much happier
This is so lovely and wholesome! Thank you for letting us come on this journey with you and you’re family P.s the whole car seat thing, so it’s not just that she could over heat it’s also that she is not actually secure in the seat because of how thick the body suit is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Loved this as always! For everyone commenting on the breastfeeding and night feeds, every baby is SO different. And every mum knows their baby. Both of my babies were sleeping through by 6 weeks and all health visitors and midwife’s said it was fine as my girls were getting enough milk through the day. Your doing amazing Molly ❤❤❤
So true! people love to jump on other Mums like every baby is the same and they know it all. We have a 7 month old and she also has been sleeping through the night since 4-5 weeks old. She was born a tiny baby but since then a perfectly healthy weight and we don’t feed her for 11ish hours at night as she’s asleep.
I really enjoyed this video! But being a new mommy myself if your baby is waking up multiple times in the night then please feed her, my baby is nearly 6 months and still wakes up once in the night for a feed so its totally normal 💗💗
thank you for being truthful and honest with us about mom life !! that’s what i adore the most bout you you are so honest with us!! Bambi is so beautiful God bless your family and p.s she is TOMMYS TWIN ALL IN THE FACE but give it a chance as she gets older we’ll see more of you there as well! loved this vid !!
Welcome back👏👏it’s very nice to see our beautiful new mom back to her lovely self. So far Bambi looks like her daddy. Oh how she has grown. Am so happy for you both and Tommy is smiling from ear to ear. Such a beautiful sight👍He seems to enjoy pushing that Pram with a proud spring in his steps🌟🌟🌟❤️❤️❤️
Delighted you are back with your first vlog since the sit down update video. Your content is always authentic and positive you are just a Ray of sunshine. Such a great way to end a Minday! Hope you Babi and Tommy are well! ❤🎉
It’s because it’s a national trust property. So the payment goes to preserving the grounds and cafe etc. Should get a membership so it’s cheaper. We love ours 👍🏻
Loved it Molly, was really cool to see the range of things you guys have been up to. Loving seeing Tommy around and ofcourse Little Ms Bambi. Bambi's daddy's twin at the moment, it'll be magical to see how she changes over 2023. Would love to see footage of your trip away, bedtime routine parents and baby ed, bridesmaid diary, your sister living closer maybe some sister/auntie videos. You're doing great! Keep Going✨💕
Loved this vlog!!! As a new mum you are so relatable and so honest! I truly feel With you and found myself nodding along to you when you spoke. You’re doing amazing!!! You’re so good for being back at work already
You look fantastic and Bambi is adorable!! I just wanted to say for other mums maybe on here who have listened to your story re breastfeeding that it is common for babies to feed up to an hour or more at 2 weeks, 6 weeks and 3 months. They are cluster feeding to build up your supply as they transition through a growth spurt. There is the same amount of milk but they will cluster for days/weeks to get your milk supply right. Just an FYI for those who may think they have no supply and might give up without wanting to. You smashed it by doing it for 6 full weeks, it's so hard but creates such a lovely bond. ❤❤
Soooo glad to see you back , Bambi is beautiful and at the moment looks like Tommy . I loved watching you with her , so much love there. Looking forward to your next blog . Take care x
As a mother of 3 small children I can say. They will tell you when they don’t need feeding. She’s waking up because she is hungry… looking for milk. Just feed your child in the night.. simple as that. I know it’s hard being up and being tired. But it goes so fast and before you know it and they are sleeping through..
I followed your Love Island journey and now get to follow this beautiful journey of motherhood🤍 So much love for you, Tommy and Bambi! I hope to be half of the mommy that you are, Molly!!
You are doing an amazing job Molly!😍Your mindset and attitude towards motherhood is so refreshing! It makes it so special for me because I had a daughter recently too and I can relate to everything your feeling! Taking time for yourself is so important and baby girl looks so happy with you🥰 Keep up the amazing work I love to see other young moms thriving out here❤
You definitely need to feed Bambi during the night. From 11pm - 7am is a really really long time for a 10 week old baby. Also 2 hours is super normal for a breastfeeding session. If you’ve decided that you want to use a bottle that’s completely fine but you need to make sure you’re feeding her properly. It’s like not feeding you all day she’ll be starving and not get the right nutrients or development without milk for 8 hours. Please please talk to your midwife / care team about this.
I thought the same baby’s change their sleep routine all the time , mine sure did and he slept through some nights and some he wanted a bottle and I wouldn’t never stop him from having one and he’s 6 month I think for a 10 week old baby that is ridiculous x
@@elliemarie3786 100% agree. The fact Bambi is waking for milk and she’s not giving it to her is awful and upsetting. People make mistakes but you can’t afford to with a new born baby!
@@livvyoj4509 thing is too she’s giving out some wrong advice to new mothers who look for this sort of information especially the part wear this is the time they start going off their bottles in a night , when it really isn’t at all and saying baby’s can’t wear a pram suit in the car seat cause they will over heat but it’s because if there’s an accident the seat belt of the car seat with not support her properly due to the extra room from the thick clothing xx
@@elliemarie3786 Yeah it is worrying. I hope someone will educate her. If I was in her position I wouldn’t mention anything online unless I have got the information from my GP/midwife as like you said new mums might think they’re doing something wrong because of the advice she’s giving out
So proud of you and Tommy, so glad you both found each other on Love Island, you are both genuinely made for each other , love to you all and Gorgeous Bambi 🦌🦌💕❤💕💕💕
I don’t usually comment on these but as a new mum myself (6 weeks old) I will not be weaning him off milk at night at 10 weeks old! If the baby is waking for milk which she clearly is feed her.
I’m a mum and my baby was a snacker for the first 3 months. He would snack by the ounce for 8 weeks straight which meant I had no sleep for 2 months. Slowly that increased to hour and half and so on. Please do t drop feeds in the 4th trimester. If she’s waking up for a feed please feed her. My baby is 1 now and has a good diet during the day yet still wants 2 bottle feeds during the night. Each baby is different. But don’t deny feeds as they have growth spurts and some days will increase their intake.
Hi Molly, well done for getting to 6 weeks of breastfeeding ❤ If Bambi is hard to settle back to sleep during the night, it may be that she still needs those feeds. I think the recommendation is to try and wean the night feeds around 6 months for formula fed babies 🙂 Of course every baby is different, my daughter started sleeping through the night on her own around 12 weeks. I’m sure your health care provider will tell you what’s best and will keep an eye on her weight
Me and my partner couldn’t help but laugh at how relatable you guys are! We certainly wouldn’t of paid £17 for parking.. it is ridiculous! But it’s even funnier cause you guys are in a G wagon and Tommy was wearing a dior coat 😂
And just won millions in his last fight 😂
I believe it’s free parking if you don’t have a National Trust membership. However I do agree with your point in the view that they flaunt luxurious items that yet won’t pay towards a UK charity organisation.
I'd recommend you guys spend the £150/year to support the National Trust, all the maintenance costs associated with keeping parks looking so lovely all year round and with the added bonus of easier access 🙂👍
@@montyharrison-stirling1457 you want them to spend their money so badd. It’s their money not yours mate. Simply because they’re rich enough doesn’t mean they have to. 17 pounds for a parking spot is ass
It’s a charity
Congratulations on the baby! If she’s still waking for feeds, feed her. 10 weeks is still very very very small. She will still cluster feed until she’s about 4 months.
For all the new breastfeeding mums out there worrying about your supply or the length of your feeds. At 6 weeks old 2 hours is normal. It's called cluster feeding. And you can absolutely get your periods back when breastfeeding and this is not an indication of low supply. I got my period back at 6 weeks post partum and I'm still breastfeeding 8 months on. Molly I'm proud you breastfed for 6 weeks but please be careful of spreading misinformation! Also 6 months is the norm and what is adviced by medical professionals for starting to drop night feeds for formula fed babies, not 10 weeks. So all you mummas out there who's babies are still waking for feeds... It's normal ❤
Yes cluster feeding is totally normal, the baby is going through big growth spurts and developmental milestones at that age. Go with your baby, the more you feed them the more milk you'll produce. It does get easier, sleep when baby sleeps😊
I’m so glad someone put this out there, not going to lie it made me mad that she put this out there, not being horrible but other mums are going to think this it true facts, should def look things like this up before putting it out there
Omg molly if she’s waking up wanting a feed, please give it to her, she could be going through a growth spurt and your denying her food to help her with that 🙈 if a baby wakes crying, it’s because she’s either hungry, has wind, needs a nappy changing or she’s teething (a bit early for that though) I feel like your really need speak to a health visitor for advice 😬
Yes, you need to offer milk every 3hours until 8 weeks and night feedings should be offered until 6 months.
Definitely speak with a neonatologist before cutting the night feeding at such young age!!!!!
This is so sad. Getting a period is not an indicator of supply! Im still feeding my 4th child hes 11month he still feeds every few hours in the night iv NEVER stop that and tell him he wasnt having it wtf 😢 a 10 week old baby doesnt know routine. Babies wake for a reason
For any mums breastfeeding out there, please be reassured that your period coming back, fussy behaviour, long feeds and sucking hard is not an indication of low supply, but completely normal behaviour for a 6 week old baby. Saying that however it is absolutely your choice whether you with to carry on at that point (or any point) and 6 weeks is Still an amazing amount of time to BF, as is 6 hour or 6 months :) just please don't worry about low supply because of these things xx
Totally agreed!! I went through all of that. It’s definitely not an indication of low supply. Just kept going and it got so much better. We are 19 months still breastfeeding. I think us mums need more help and support with breastfeeding, it’s actually more rare for a low supply to happen apparently? It just seems like we have low supply, especially if you try pump and barley get anything. That’s what happened to me but my boobs never reacted the same with the pump as my baby that’s why I wasn’t able to pump a lot I think! Truly hope these comments help other BF mums to push through if they feel like they want to. It is stressful thinking you have low supply but most of the time we don’t ❤️ the newborn stage is hard for BF but it gets so much easier x
Yep, pumping is no indication of supply - babe is better as getting milk than a pump is ❤
Totally agree. My periods came back after about three months but i breastfed until my baby was a year old with no problems. Not an indicator that your supply is running out.
Thank god someone said it! Breastfeeding can be such a hard journey - I'm so envious of everyone who finds it easy as I haven't! But I'm persevering. Insinuating that you have to stop breastfeeding because you've started menstruating can be really damaging to someone who might not have support or information.
She’s getting low supply because she’s restricting the night feeds to her newborn baby! It’s so sad and harmful to baby not just developmentally but also for bonding too 😢
welcome back Molly! missed you ❤
Missed the dollar 💰
Wow you know you made it big when UA-cam comments on your videos!! Can’t imagine my 68 subscriber channel ever being that big but you are such an inspiration ❤️
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@@livingwiththelundys you have 1k subs
I find so much comfort in your videos Molly, especially when Tommy is in them also, and now Bambi too of course. 🥀❤️
You saw my sisters friend today 😊xx
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Do you even care that Bambi was left on her own????
@@Ilovetaylorswift744 when was she left on her own 😂😂
@@Ilovetaylorswift744 when was she?
The way Bambi looks so lovingly at you and just from her eyes you can tell she feels so loved and comforted and that makes my heart so so warm 🥹
It’s biologically normal for babies to continue to wake through the night.
You shouldn’t drop their night feeds. 10 weeks is too little to stop night feeds.
They are growing.. they need food!
It’s actually recommended to slowly drop their night feeds at 6 months.. but even then they still wake up hungry.
My baby didn’t start sleeping through the night until 10 months and stopped night feeds at 8 months.
Honestly you bring such a calmness when you upload! Can just relax with a cup of tea and enjoy 30 mins watching the most genuine beautiful family, you should be so proud of what you’ve achieved girly! ✨
Ahhh i feel so relieved that we’ve got our Molly back 🥹 missed you so much ❤️
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Yeah it’s so good to get Molly back 🎊🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉
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From Molly and Tommy meeting on love island to watching them have there own house and a child honestly gives me so much joy. Mollys voice is so soothing and make me feel less anxious coming from someone who dealing with such bad anxiety it’s like a god send🥹laying in bed at 2am struggling to sleep and catching up on mollys video is the best feeling❤️keep doing you Molly! You’re both doing so amazing and I can’t wait to see your little family grow and see Bambi grow up to be as caring and career driven as yourselves!
I relate to everything you’ve said here hun, her voice and videos help my anxiety so much too, especially at night when I really struggle with sleep issues, she’s just amazing 🥺🥰
Aww , hope u defeat and get healed from anxiety soon ❤️
@@shanx4170 thank you hun😊
i love how relatable you are with bambi, singing all the time to her is so lovely😭🤍
So lovely to see you looking so well! You are doing so amazing as a new mum! ❤
As a newborn mother you are looking incredible molly, your glowing and I’m so excited to see more of Bambi ❤❤
I can't believe how good she looks!
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She’s incredible. But don’t aspire to standards of those you don’t know how much help others get. I did and it drove me to depression because I didn’t realise people got more help with their babies than I did and I struggled massively ❤
I absolutely adore you 3 as a family. Molly you are an incredible mother. Thankyou for being so open & honest about your journey. Literally so proud
The hug and twirl with Bambi at 24 mins touched my heart. I do that with my baby all the time and it’s the best feeling holding them so close 🥹
So great to see you doing so well ! It's a huge adjustment becoming a mum and your doing amazing, wishing you and your family all the happiness in the world ❤
Molly so lovely seeing you in your mommy era 💫🫶🏽welcome back 💗
Her “mommy era”, for christ sake 😂 it’s not some kind of a life trend she has picked up.
Absolutely ridiculous.
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@@BellaWoods-jb6ck literally and the facts she’s starving her babby at night, some mummy era that is 😂
@@Relaxingnature113🤣🤣🤣 so true. Feed that poor baby lmao
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I’m just loving this baby content. I also have a new born and its so nice seeing you go through it! Feels so connected. Bambi is JUST GORG! You all must be so proud.
I love how normal you make pregnancy and newborn life seen, it’s easy to make it seem so scary nowadays but you’ve made it seem like it can be okay and not terrifying 😊
I was so happy to see this notification you’re videos are so real and relatable 🦋 Bambi is very lucky you’re such an amazing family and we’re all glad you’re back 🩷
Hey Molly, just some advice about the suit in the car seat. The risk isn't as much Bambi overheating, the reason babies shouldn't wear coats or car suits in a car seat is because the seatbelts are going to be sat on top of a layer of padding, rather than against the babies body, causing the harness to fit incorrectly, so if there was a collision or crash, bambi wouldn't be safe. A collision can happen 2 minutes away from home, and even if you're a safe driver. An unsafe driver could crash into you. Please research why coats/snow suits shouldn't be used in car seats for Bambi xx
For a 10 week old baby they should be feed a few times in the night! It's helps they development! She shouldn't be going that long without a feed. 'From a developmental perspective, babies are able to sleep through the night - defined as a six- to eight-hour stretch - without eating when they're between 4 and 6 months old. In this age range, most babies reach the 12- to 13-pound mark, the weight where they no longer metabolically need nighttime feedings.' Xx
I completely agree, I have a 6 month old she sleep from 7 til 7 but I still dream feed her at 12oclock I know I don't "need" to but if not then she is absolutely STARVING when she wakes so it just suits us better 🥰
Yes and to leave her unattented on the changing table what is she doing this is so dangerous
I’m not sure where she’s getting the info that around 10 weeks is when they drop a feed! It’s fine if they drop it naturally but you shouldn’t deprive your 10 week old through the night for 8 hours 😢
My baby is the same age as mollys and I mentioned to the health visitor that one morning I woke up in a panic because he didn’t wake for a feed (I hadn’t set a timer as previously I had been and he always wakes before the timer anyway and he was always really on point at waking himself) and she told me that I don’t need to worry too much through out the night if he wants to sleep through he will wake when his hungry?x
@@victoriagrady5004 this is absolutely fine if your baby is naturally sleeping through. If your baby wakes and is looking for milk/ crying then feed them x
2hr feeds are normal, cluster feeding in the early days are a thing and definitely normal when it comes to breastfeeding. Well done on feeding her all that goodness in the first 6 weeks!
I think it’s totally normal that at 10 weeks she’s still waking up through the night for milk I wouldnt deprive her of it 😢❤
So glad people are saying this. Iv breastfed 2 of my 4 kids. Im still feeding my 11 month old now.. he still feeds alot during the night. Iv never dream of denying him that! Its just not normal to think that to say your not having milk until morning like 😢 a ten week old baby cant be forced into a routine wtf
@@the_aaliyah i'm glad you and some others picked up on this and commented. I don't know who is advising her to deny her 10 week old milk for 7 hours but its terrible advice. Because we live in a time now where more mums than ever are working, things like sleep training and schedules for newborns is being normalised when its infact so damaging to babies and will affect their development in many ways as they grow. Before women have children, they need to be very aware that they have to adapt their lives around the baby, not the other way around.
Thank god someones mentioned it honestly she shouldnt deprive the baby of milk i know its hard waking up through the night my baba is almost 6 months and its gone from 6 times waking up to now once which is really good
It’s biologically normal for a baby to wake , it’s a protector against SIDS. Please don’t drop feeds this early the babies need to wake this young 🥺
Absolutley! Really sadly the pressure to make babies sleep through is societal and honestly just adds stress for mum and dad! It is so normal for babies to wake be it for comfort or hunger or just because they have immature circadian rhythm. All babies will sleep through when they are ready. 😊❤️You’re doing just great! Xx
Are all the UA-cam doctors in full force today?
@@morganwilliamson2915 UA-cam midwife actually 😂
@@victoriarose310 fair enough.. it’s also aimed at the rest of the comments, not everyone in these comments are nurses 😊
@Morgan williamson many of them have received their information from nurses or midwives though, if they are parents, or through research. Plenty of reliable NHS backed resources out there - la leche, etc.
If you a new mum watching this and you baby is feeding for two hours, it’s not because there is no milk there. It’s completely normal they are cluster feeding to up your supply and breastfeeding is so much more than just getting milk and just because you have your period doesn’t meant to say you have a low supply. Also at 3 not even 3 months old a baby shouldn’t have night feeds dropped if they are waking. I hate to be negative but it can be detrimental to a breastfeeding journey to hear information like this.
Love you show how it really is as a full time mum and still trying to get everything done really show how real you are
Welcome back Molly!! We have all missed you so so much. Every single comment is love and kindness just like you deserve ❤️ you and Tommy make the best team and parents to little Bambi!! Would love for you to post more regularly as we love you endless amounts🫶🏼🤍
As other people have said its way too early to be dropping feeds in the night. My son is 18 months & he still has night feeds & this completely normal. Please don't make her go 8 hours without a feed if she's clearly hungry. I'm not mom shaming here I just think you need to be educated.
Molly you look so radiant and beautiful hun, you are really glowing. I love that you’re not putting pressure on yourself and just taking your little time getting back in the swing of things, I’m very happy for you and this new journey.
Hearing you talk about your youtube followers, and how much you appreciate them, made me feel part of it ... We are here to support you and send good vibes only! 💕
@Constanza Guerinoni why she does not care she just likes the money she gets from all you sad people who watch get a life
2 year old daughter in bed, husband watching tv downstairs and I’m in bed with an easter egg, checked your channel just in case of a new video and you have no idea how happy I was to see this! 🥹 you’re doing absolutely incredible Molly, both you and Tommy should be so proud of yourselves. Bambi is beautiful ❤️
Welcome back- we’ve missed you -what a loving gorgeous little family ❤
“Everyone should go for free, it’s a field” had me laughing so hard hahaha so happy to have your videos back to look forward to!! Bambi is so stinking cute and your little family is just beautiful 🥰 much love to you guys! 💜
I was looking for this comment I was dying when he said that 🤣 too bloody right too, £17 is a shambles! Yes it may be for a charity but with the amount of people they could have there everyday the cost should be lowered a little for people like me who struggle more and don’t have £17 for a walk around the field, love you molly and tommy! both doing amazing with little bam bam ❤
Loved this so much, it’s adorable watching you with your little family. Welcome back, we missed you ❤
So lovely to see you looking amazing! Welcome back Molly💖Bambi is so gorgeous you seem like an amazing new mum. Can't wait to watch Bambi grow💜
6 weeks or 6 days you did amazingly angel! Love watching these vlogs and love YOU! You’re such a natural mumma xxxx
You’re actually such a beautiful down to earth person and you’re so humble you deserve everythingg!❤️
Just for anybody watching this that may also be on a breastfeeding journey. Your period can return at any point whilst breastfeeding, it doesn't indicate low milk supply. You can still continue to breastfeed even after your period returns
Glad someone commented this! Still so many myths about breastfeeding 😅😅
unless of course your milk supply dries up, like Molly's has
@@sfrancies87 It is common to have a drop in supply at certain points in your cycle, often from mid-cycle to around the time of your period. But these changes are temporary and things return to normal pretty quickly for most women. Every woman is different, it could be likely her milk supply dropped for another reason or multiple reasons etc.
Yes I had a periods while breastfeeding and I did it for the first year
I have been breastfeeding for nearly 9 months now, and my period came back after 8 weeks, I now have a period every month now they’re very regular and I notice my supply drops slightly when I’m on, but for any new mums don’t panic! If you are happy to continue breastfeeding don’t worry, your supply should go back to normal once your period has finished xx
Both you and Zoe posting in the Sam day what a treat 🥰
It’s lovely to see you back again and meet Bambi. She is absolutely gorgeous and it’s great to see you both so relaxed and happy.
Finally rewatching the season you two were on and it’s making me so emotional 😂 just knowing how things turn out, it’s so obvious how besotted you are with each other from the start
What an amazing family , bambi is so lucky to have parents that are so In love with each other as Well as with her 😍😍😍😍
Bless her, if she’s waking then she’s hungry, her tummy is so small. She’d sleep better if you gave her a bottle, especially around growth spurts she’ll wake even more for milk
Why would giving her a bottle make her sleep better?
Because she’s continuously waking up crying because she’s hungry. Waking in the night for feeds is normal for babies.
@@lucyclark4881 cause you sleep better when you’re not hungry? What a dumb question
@@vivianne6161I think she may have meant why would giving her a bottle make her sleep more as opposed to breastfeeding.
@@lucyclark4881if she has a bottle at 11 but refuses to give her another till 7, she’s waking because she’s hungry…. So she’ll obviously sleep better if she isn’t hungry?
Watching molly mae be a mum is so wholesome
I got my period back at 2 months postpartum. I was exclusively breastfeeding and have now for 14 months & counting! Your period is not an indication of how much milk you produce. Mummas please don’t think this!! Go to a lactation consultant if you’re concerned.
You’re an amazing Mum, Molly! Thank you so much for sharing everything with us 💞
I just want to put it out there for anyone watching this. Two hours latching is normal. It’s cluster feeding. It doesn’t mean you don’t have enough milk. It also doesn’t mean your supply is going and your baby doesn’t get enough milk. It’s so normal. Only 5-10% of women who actually breastfeed have a reduced supply.
Chances are baby is getting plenty, but they are just going through a developmental phase key to their growth. Anyone reading this if you aren’t sure - wonder weeks app is amazing at explaining the different changes they are going through and reiterates how they’ll react when going through them.
Simple signs are cluster feeding, clingy, not settling etc. Completely normal baby behaviour 😊
I was going to say I literally had my baby on my boob throughout the day hour apin hour and trusted my midwife who said she was getting enough i breastfed until she was 3 ☺️🥰
It's wonderful to see you, Tommy, and Bambi! You are a beautiful family!
☆ Cluster feeds and night feeds should be baby led on demand. Till they start newborn/infant solids so 4mths to 6mos depending on Pediatrician Doctor, baby, and parents.
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Also the thick suit in car seat is not so much for overheating as it is for safety in the straps. The thicker outfit means straps are not as snug to her. If she wore that to bed at night then yes overheating could be an issue depending on weather.
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Getting a period is not an indication of low breastmilk supply. Everybodys hormones are different so everyone gets monthly cycle back at diff times. How much she was getting while nursing is usually different to how much comes out whilst pumping. That doesnt mean she was not getting enough milk. That means that is how long feeds take her.
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My 2nd baby was same always attached to me. My sanity went bezerk but it was what baby needed for emotional affectionate bonding. My firstborn wasnt much easier. They are 7 and 3. Night wakes dont always get much better depending on ec kids personalities. What we want as parents goes out the window unfortunetly and we tend to our children how they Each Individually Require it ALL. 🥰😇😍🤩
Love that you are keeping things real - Bambi is one day older than my little one. Slowly starting to feel myself again as well, it’s a long journey.
You got this mumma! 😊❤
Absolutely love seeing you more settled & feeling more yourself, you’re smashing motherhood. You & Tommy are the realest celebs out there, we all love you🫶
I've been watching your vids since day dot, before Love Island, I don't have a baby or anything close to your inspirational lifestyle but WOW I love love love watching you and feeling like im a part of your life. So relatable and honest dont waste good energy on bad people and keep thriving to do what you enjoy most. just cos you have a platform now dont be scared to share what you feel comfortable, stay true to yourself. im from Bath (hoping id bump into you when you came but sadly didnt) but now travelling Australia with my boyfriend and watching this reminds me of home so thank you so much for the content. sending love to you all, bambi is beautiful appreciate you sharing her with us xxx
Here for this relatable parenting content 🙌🏻 winding is like the worse part of newborn life - I absolutely hated it! Thankfully it’s not a issue as much anymore at 4 months! You guys are doing great! 💕
Just letting you know you did have enough milk, it sounds like Bambi was cluster feeding and it takes a full week to up your supply for your child’s next developmental stage
So happy you’re back, you bring so much comfort and motivation! You’re glowing and smashing this new life of yours!
By the way, the way you talk to Bambi is just lovely. She will be such a great communicator when she is older
Thank you for your honesty Molly ❤ my baby is 3 months old and it’s definitely been the hardest 3 months of my life and it’s nice to know that it’s not all sunshine and aesthetic pictures for everyone ❤
Honestly I don’t even think I left the house for the first month!! I was like a zombie! I don’t even remember the first 2 months of my daughters life due to sleep deprivation! But things really DO get easier and you’ll find your own way of doing things and your own routine and rhythm and you’ll start to adjust to your new life. No one tells you this stuff before you have a child. Or if they do it is glossed over! All the photos on social media of my daughters first month show her all beautiful and clean and snuggled up asleep where as If I’d taken a picture of myself I was in stained pyjamas with greasy Un-brushed hair and huge bags under my eyes! But we don’t show the world that side of being a new mum! Things will get easier for you and I’m sure you are doing a great job!!! Good luck lovely! Xx
Omg can’t wait to watch this ❤ I’m in hospital with my baby girl and we have had a long 7 weeks but she’s now stable enough to have a bath 🛁 so after she’s had her bath I’m going to really enjoy watching this well done getting you 1st vlog done I’m still all over the place your doing amazing.. Beautiful little family x x
I am so glad you’re feeling better in yourself❤ You’re a credit both to your beautiful baby girl and to Tommy and you should be so proud of yourself!🫶 I look forward to your videos so much and you’re just so refreshing to watch❤❤
Welcome Back Molly, you’ve done an amazing job with this vlog! I love seeing you as a mum and I can’t wait to see more. Bambi is beautiful 🤍
Ahhhh Molly!!! So so happy to see you back, you’re doing amazing! Bambi is blessed with the best mummy🥹🤍
I absolutely love that you named her bambi so adorable 😍 enjoy every minute good or bad they grow so quick sending love ❤️ xx
Molly please please do not ignore night feeds. I have a maximum of 2 hours sleep a night my baby is my 4th and she's almost 15montjs old. You did 6weeks which is incredible. But please still give her feeds at night you may find she only wants 1 feed if she's waking up through the night especially a great deal please understand she's hungry she's in pain. It's not just something she fancies she's needs the feeds. Hunger is pain. That needs to be acknowledged. I feel like you really need some decent support. She's your first baby it's so hard and you are doing great but mum's aren't perfect. We all need help whether it's our first of fifteenth nothing is easy. Please get some accurate support. And Give her night feeds to avoid her pain
Please feed her if she’s hungry. There is so much info out there and it’s overwhelming for first time mums but 10 weeks is tiny! Some babies still need a night feed up to a year old! If she’s sleeping through on her own without a feed then fine but if she’s waking hungry please don’t deprive her 😢
I was so sad and sick today and you posted and really made my day. You’re so sweet and authentic, and a great mum. Love you Molly ❤
Hope you feel better x
Feel better soon 🩷
@@Videostowatch24 thank you so much!
@@kimnewmoon1 thank you💜
Good to see you vlogging again, from one mum to another if Bambi struggles with wind, use infacol & anti colic bottles, they totally changed my little boys life! He’s so much happier
I love the wholesomeness of this vlog, your honesty is so refreshing Molly. 💕
This is so lovely and wholesome! Thank you for letting us come on this journey with you and you’re family
P.s the whole car seat thing, so it’s not just that she could over heat it’s also that she is not actually secure in the seat because of how thick the body suit is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You look glowing Molly, so glad you’re back 🥰
Completely agree with you there ❤🎉
You are glowing molly!😍 Welcome back we are glad your back. Hope you took all the time you needed before comming back.
Absolutely agree brilliant to have Molly back uploading ❤🎉
Loved this as always! For everyone commenting on the breastfeeding and night feeds, every baby is SO different. And every mum knows their baby. Both of my babies were sleeping through by 6 weeks and all health visitors and midwife’s said it was fine as my girls were getting enough milk through the day. Your doing amazing Molly ❤❤❤
True, always people to criticise so sad x
So true! people love to jump on other Mums like every baby is the same and they know it all.
We have a 7 month old and she also has been sleeping through the night since 4-5 weeks old. She was born a tiny baby but since then a perfectly healthy weight and we don’t feed her for 11ish hours at night as she’s asleep.
Makes me so excited to have a baby!! All the horror stories you hear but you make it look real and show all the good stuff ❤
So happy to have you back on UA-cam! I find so much comfort in them🤍Hope mum life is treating you well xx
I really enjoyed this video! But being a new mommy myself if your baby is waking up multiple times in the night then please feed her, my baby is nearly 6 months and still wakes up once in the night for a feed so its totally normal 💗💗
Glad to see you're doing well with motherhood molly ❤ happy for you and Tommy. Xx
thank you for being truthful and honest with us about mom life !! that’s what i adore the most bout you you are so honest with us!! Bambi is so beautiful God bless your family and p.s she is TOMMYS TWIN ALL IN THE FACE but give it a chance as she gets older we’ll see more of you there as well! loved this vid !!
Welcome back👏👏it’s very nice to see our beautiful new mom back to her lovely self. So far Bambi looks like her daddy. Oh how she has grown. Am so happy for you both and Tommy is smiling from ear to ear. Such a beautiful sight👍He seems to enjoy pushing that Pram with a proud spring in his steps🌟🌟🌟❤️❤️❤️
Delighted you are back with your first vlog since the sit down update video. Your content is always authentic and positive you are just a Ray of sunshine. Such a great way to end a Minday! Hope you Babi and Tommy are well! ❤🎉
It’s because it’s a national trust property. So the payment goes to preserving the grounds and cafe etc. Should get a membership so it’s cheaper. We love ours 👍🏻
Loved it Molly, was really cool to see the range of things you guys have been up to. Loving seeing Tommy around and ofcourse Little Ms Bambi. Bambi's daddy's twin at the moment, it'll be magical to see how she changes over 2023. Would love to see footage of your trip away, bedtime routine parents and baby ed, bridesmaid diary, your sister living closer maybe some sister/auntie videos.
You're doing great! Keep Going✨💕
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Loved this vlog!!! As a new mum you are so relatable and so honest! I truly feel
With you and found myself nodding along to you when you spoke. You’re doing amazing!!! You’re so good for being back at work already
You look fantastic and Bambi is adorable!! I just wanted to say for other mums maybe on here who have listened to your story re breastfeeding that it is common for babies to feed up to an hour or more at 2 weeks, 6 weeks and 3 months. They are cluster feeding to build up your supply as they transition through a growth spurt. There is the same amount of milk but they will cluster for days/weeks to get your milk supply right. Just an FYI for those who may think they have no supply and might give up without wanting to. You smashed it by doing it for 6 full weeks, it's so hard but creates such a lovely bond. ❤❤
Nice to have you back! Bambi is so adorable 😍 ❤
Soooo glad to see you back , Bambi is beautiful and at the moment looks like Tommy . I loved watching you with her , so much love there. Looking forward to your next blog . Take care x
Feels so good to see you be you again! So happy to have you back and I feel so connected to you. Thank you for always being real 🫶
As a mother of 3 small children I can say. They will tell you when they don’t need feeding. She’s waking up because she is hungry… looking for milk.
Just feed your child in the night.. simple as that. I know it’s hard being up and being tired. But it goes so fast and before you know it and they are sleeping through..
Bambi’s little noises 🥹 so freaking adorable
I followed your Love Island journey and now get to follow this beautiful journey of motherhood🤍 So much love for you, Tommy and Bambi! I hope to be half of the mommy that you are, Molly!!
You are doing an amazing job Molly!😍Your mindset and attitude towards motherhood is so refreshing! It makes it so special for me because I had a daughter recently too and I can relate to everything your feeling! Taking time for yourself is so important and baby girl looks so happy with you🥰 Keep up the amazing work I love to see other young moms thriving out here❤
You definitely need to feed Bambi during the night. From 11pm - 7am is a really really long time for a 10 week old baby. Also 2 hours is super normal for a breastfeeding session. If you’ve decided that you want to use a bottle that’s completely fine but you need to make sure you’re feeding her properly. It’s like not feeding you all day she’ll be starving and not get the right nutrients or development without milk for 8 hours. Please please talk to your midwife / care team about this.
I thought the same baby’s change their sleep routine all the time , mine sure did and he slept through some nights and some he wanted a bottle and I wouldn’t never stop him from having one and he’s 6 month I think for a 10 week old baby that is ridiculous x
@@elliemarie3786 100% agree. The fact Bambi is waking for milk and she’s not giving it to her is awful and upsetting. People make mistakes but you can’t afford to with a new born baby!
@@livvyoj4509 thing is too she’s giving out some wrong advice to new mothers who look for this sort of information especially the part wear this is the time they start going off their bottles in a night , when it really isn’t at all and saying baby’s can’t wear a pram suit in the car seat cause they will over heat but it’s because if there’s an accident the seat belt of the car seat with not support her properly due to the extra room from the thick clothing xx
@@elliemarie3786 Yeah it is worrying. I hope someone will educate her. If I was in her position I wouldn’t mention anything online unless I have got the information from my GP/midwife as like you said new mums might think they’re doing something wrong because of the advice she’s giving out
Literally thought the same , baby is not settling because she's hungry x
Ahhh so happy to see you back here doing well! ❤️❤️
Awh molly! You are truly a beautiful soul and a queen for bambi! I love watching you guys and seeing how happy your little family are! Bless up ❤️🇮🇪
So proud of you and Tommy, so glad you both found each other on Love Island, you are both genuinely made for each other , love to you all and Gorgeous Bambi 🦌🦌💕❤💕💕💕
I don’t usually comment on these but as a new mum myself (6 weeks old) I will not be weaning him off milk at night at 10 weeks old! If the baby is waking for milk which she clearly is feed her.
I’m a mum and my baby was a snacker for the first 3 months. He would snack by the ounce for 8 weeks straight which meant I had no sleep for 2 months. Slowly that increased to hour and half and so on. Please do t drop feeds in the 4th trimester. If she’s waking up for a feed please feed her. My baby is 1 now and has a good diet during the day yet still wants 2 bottle feeds during the night. Each baby is different. But don’t deny feeds as they have growth spurts and some days will increase their intake.
Loved the vlog Molly! Bambi is looking really healthy, you're an amazing mum, and you're looking gorgeous! Hope you had a good Easter! x
Lovely to see you back and your genuine happy smile 😊🩷🤍. Bambi is a wee gem and your family is beautiful 😍 xxx
Hi Molly, well done for getting to 6 weeks of breastfeeding ❤ If Bambi is hard to settle back to sleep during the night, it may be that she still needs those feeds. I think the recommendation is to try and wean the night feeds around 6 months for formula fed babies 🙂 Of course every baby is different, my daughter started sleeping through the night on her own around 12 weeks. I’m sure your health care provider will tell you what’s best and will keep an eye on her weight
So nice to see you back Molly Bambi is such a cutie 🥰 xxx