The HARSH truth about finding your spouse ⏰

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @TheMuslimMarriageCoach
    @TheMuslimMarriageCoach  10 днів тому +3

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  • @AdamIdris-le1hf
    @AdamIdris-le1hf 10 днів тому +24

    Many of us don’t see Salah as the form of easing our pain and assisting our patience

  • @bushrahussain2361
    @bushrahussain2361 10 днів тому +15

    "We are not here to get what we want we are here to be tested when we don't get what we want"

  • @here.alhana
    @here.alhana 4 дні тому

    ما فيه شي يصبرني قد " أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَنْ يُتْرَكُوا أَنْ يَقُولُوا آَمَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ "

  • @riomuscat
    @riomuscat 3 дні тому

    Beautiful voice
    Alhamdulliah 3k 🚀

  • @AR-ds8kr
    @AR-ds8kr 10 днів тому +7

    This couldn't have come at a better time. Jzk Khayr

  • @Jenan723
    @Jenan723 8 днів тому +1

    This was such a good reminder. جزاك الله خيرًا

  • @nur5475
    @nur5475 10 днів тому +7

    I haven’t heard this perspective before. Jazak’allahu khair. Very beneficial

  • @Andalusiway
    @Andalusiway 9 днів тому +3

    I think indeed we forget that prayer should be a tranquility in the nafs. Instead of just this mandatory obligation. SubhanAllah. This dunya is so temporary. Even me writing this right now, in a split second I could be dyong and nothing will be worth it but your deeds. Your good deeds. May Allah bless you.

  • @bushrahussain2361
    @bushrahussain2361 10 днів тому +4

    Subhan'Allah us humankind are ungrateful thank you for this reality check may Allah reward you ameen

  • @HappyQCoins
    @HappyQCoins 8 днів тому +1

    JazakumAllah khair for such a beneficial reminder.

  • @mufasahm8238
    @mufasahm8238 8 днів тому +1

    May Allah love you & reward you immensely Ameen. Thank you for your generous advise 🌷

  • @forestsprite30
    @forestsprite30 10 днів тому +2

    This is really excellent advice mashaAllah. May Allah grant you success in this endeavour, my brother.

  • @hamisisalmah8764
    @hamisisalmah8764 9 днів тому +1

    Brother I have given up completely but I still love Allah swt and accept his kadr that i might never find a spouse in this Dunia ihv tried so many times I am tried

    • @TheMuslimMarriageCoach
      @TheMuslimMarriageCoach  8 днів тому +6

      The test is to see if you keep trust in Allah or you give up
      The test is there to get you closer to Allah, otherwise if Allah gives you everything you want, when you want it, there is no gratefulness to it
      Allah uses test to distinguish the believers and their levels
      Constant dua and istikhara are the weapons
      Shaydan wants you to despair and lose hope
      Keep trying and either Allah will give you what you want or will replace it with something better.
      You cannot be sad, there’s no room for sadness. The equation is perfect for mankind

    • @RoyRoy-pl8ev
      @RoyRoy-pl8ev 6 днів тому

      Wallahi one of the most deepest things I’ve ever heard.jazakaAllah brother

  • @mimmss6556
    @mimmss6556 10 днів тому

    Jazakallahu khairan

  • @theBakinNoob
    @theBakinNoob 10 днів тому

    Very true! I needed to hear that, BarakAllahu feek!

  • @rodaisa7274
    @rodaisa7274 9 днів тому

    Jazakalkhair for this video

  • @khalidnur6669
    @khalidnur6669 9 днів тому

    Very beneficial 💯

  • @chupah93
    @chupah93 10 днів тому +1

    جزاك الله خيرا

  • @tehreemraza123
    @tehreemraza123 22 години тому

    Another thing to focus upon is that interaction of Non-Mehrams is strictly forbidden. So finding a spouse isn't something you need to put in 100 percent effort for, like finding jobs. Since we already have a limited room to stretch our efforts in. So in reality, a lot of it is just Allah providing us from ghaib. Also Allah has used the word ''hubb" for marital relationships, which implies it's a gift by Allah that doesn't require a lot of effort.
    Guys please just trust Allah and His plan for you. When Allah decrees you to find your spouse, they'll drop smack dab from the sky. Don't worry!

  • @BlueBlue23
    @BlueBlue23 10 днів тому +1

    I am open to Polygyny but men are not really brave enough to tell their first wives

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 10 днів тому +1

      Maybe their wives don't want it .

    • @TheMuslimMarriageCoach
      @TheMuslimMarriageCoach  8 днів тому +3

      My biggest advice when speaking to somebody who is already married is if they’re not prepared to tell their wife and introduce her to you (islamically they don’t have to do this) then you getting married to him will be a very stressful relationship and he is most likely running from his current relationship and that is not something you can afford to get into

    • @BlueBlue23
      @BlueBlue23 6 днів тому

      @@TheMuslimMarriageCoach it takes a lot of lies to keep a marriage secret and I can't trust a man who is willing to lie that much