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7 Signs You Need To QUIT Your Job (When To Leave A Job?)
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- 7 Signs You Need To QUIT Your Job (When To Leave A Job?) How to know when it's the right time to quit? When should I quit my job? When to quit, is it time to quit your job? Have you remained at a job you didn't like? Throughout my career I have stayed at a job I wanted to leave a couple of times. Years later, I see and understand the factors which make us stay at jobs we don’t like or enjoy:
- The money, financial insecurities and worries
- Not being sure of what we really want
- Self-esteem issues, all of them related to fears of different types. Because Fear KILLS MORE dreams than failure EVER will.
Realizing when to walk away from a job is actually challenging. I wish I had that extra knowledge to analyze the signs and to recognize when it’s time to move on and quit. That is also a reason why I want to share these 7 key signs that you should quit your job, and tips to quit your job the right way at the end of the video.
Signs you should quit your job: 1. Your boss is toxic and makes you miserable.
75% of 10.000 workers questioned, who voluntarily left their jobs, said they have left jobs because of their bosses and not because of the position itself. So it’s clear that people leave managers, not jobs. Just know that you are not the first person to quit a job due to a toxic boss.
Sign 2. You are consistently bringing this toxic energy into your home
A toxic boss or a toxic work setting will eventually make your job unbearable, aside from making you feel completely miserable. If at some point you’ve realized that the working environment is toxic, it means you should already be looking for a change.
Number 3. You dread going to work. Do you go to sleep every night dreading the next day of work? You feel you are working on something deeply unsatisfying, you simply have no desire of going back there…
4. You are burned out. You come to the office when it’s dark and you leave late in the evening hours when it’s dark again. Sometimes you continue to work on the weekends. You don’t remember the last time you’ve seen the blue sky and the sunlight during the day.
5. There’s No Room for Advancement: You’ve been in your position for years and there are no opportunities for growth on the horizon.If you feel that you’ve stayed for too long at your role, maybe it’s time to check options to move on.
6. You are stuck in your comfort zone. You can do your job with your eyes closed. You are too comfortable at work and it’s been a while since you’ve learned something new.
7. You don’t share the company’s values. You're uncomfortable when you think about the company's values or culture. Some of the decisions they make seem so far from your way of thinking, that, it even feels embarrassing... They are just not aligned with your own ideas or beliefs.
If your company keeps firing people and reducing the staff, it eventually will get to you. No matter how safe it might feel right now, it always gets to you. Take control of your career and break free, you will feel liberated. Changing jobs or quitting will help.
I am Marat from Emmotion, myemmotion.com, Recruitment and Career Services Agency, look me up on LinkedIn. On this channel I train and coach you to ace your job interviews fast, to gain confidence as a professional and learn how to deal with corporate politics, being a better person yourself first.
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Have you stayed at a job which you didn't like? Would you do it again? Tell us more about this experience!
I always do
I'm feeling very comfortable what I'm doing now at my work place . I think its Time to quit. this video is really helpful.
@@daviddeparis3852 Haha, why so? You shouldn't!
@@prabhujeeva2228 If you are comfortable but you are learning and enjoying your job, it is actually positive. Unless it doesn't fulfil you anymore.
staying for money is normal
The most common reason why people leave jobs isn’t about money believe it or not, it’s about being under appreciated, overworked and disrespected by fellow workers and management.
I absolutely agree. I mentioned money as one of the main reasons why people do NOT leave toxic places. But once people leave, it's definitely due to those reasons you listed. It's not as complicated treating people with respect, like every human being should be treated with.
its money and bad energy, gossips and constant bitching which make people leave
Corporate 101
true
@Delboy Silva I feel ya. Its much better to work alone instead of working with assholes
You are so right, it is not the job. It is the management because they treat you horribly!!! Even though you work hard, they insult your loyalty and work. They are also playing favouritism and the employee recognition program is also completely manipulated
Thanks for your feedback and I hope you manage to get out very soon!
I agree, it’s not the actual job role which is toxic, it’s the management and in some cases, co workers
The employee evaluation system is also manipulated. I constantly go above and beyond what is expected of me, yet recently, I got my yearly evaluation, and my boss marked all of my scores as just meeting expectations. So, the harder I work, the more work I get, and the more I get disrespected, especially because my lazy co-worker has been giving minimal effort during the 14 months she has been at the company. Backwards company culture.
@@ajvf97 The employee evaluation depends completely on a supervisor/manager and unless it's all automated, the feedback is solely relative to how good is your relationship with your manager. It's not about how hard you have worked and the effort you have made.
My best wishes to you Andy, hope this coming 2020 brings you great things on professional and personal level. Merry Christmas! :)
Exactly were I am right now.
I am now unemployed but feel so much better than when I was working, being sick going to work. When I do return to a job I won’t overthink it, I will quit if there is a toxic environment again. The money is not worth the misery of being treated like shit and feeling awful all the time.
I completely agree with you. Hope you find a nice new job very soon. Let me know if I can help you out with any questions!
Did you feel relief
I quit my job last month, I was literally having anxiety and panic attacks on my way to the office. I became depressed stopped eating and doing my hobbies that made me happy. I told my employer how I was feeling verbally and by email and they still didn't change a thing, so I stopped showing up at work. One of the supervisors called me apologizing that they didn't do much to help me and asked if there was anyway I'd consider coming back. There's no way in hell I'd ever go back and work for them again.
I am sorry to hear that you have gone through all of that. Now it's time to heal and move on. I hope you a nice new opportunity arises once you start a searching for jobs again. Best of luck and keep me updated!
I feel sorry for you, best to move on and put the past behind you
@@forza223bowe5 Yes, I completely agree.
I am at this point as well after a little over a year at my job. It's awful. I'm scared to tell them I'm done because of the abusiveness from management, but I have to.
@@yeahokaycoolcool how did it turn out? I was facing the same thing but I just put my 2 weeks notice in
I submitted my notice last week. I always get told what to do, all my life and I'm sick and tired of it. I'm pushing 35 and I'm not going to keep working for money, especially if it doesn't pay enough to get by.
I hope things go well for you and that you manage to get a much better job very soon!
Story of my life
I consistently bringing toxic energy home it's been like that for a while already :(
So you have your answer. It's never too early or too late to search for another job.
I am on it
Me too ...I love my job and the person on my domain who I report to is a great guy but I'm aligned to a toxic person who is my line manager but isn't even my domain because hierarchy has been placed that way ...who has a pattern ...to intimidate n laugh it of as a joke or after he has intimidated n reduced u to a piece of shit comes n says let me explain ...when u have already lost all ur confidence...let alone energy to understand ...I'm sick of this ...bcz of this man I will hv to give up my dream job ..I'm a good performer by d by
@@aishwaryaparthasarathy349 maybe you should speak to your boss and report this guy?
#3 is my case! My current job is a mess, I do all the work and still get criticized!!! Plus my salary can’t even cover my really want to leave my job but I couldn’t find any alternative, I wish I never had to go to that place.
I am sorry to hear that. Hope you get out of there very soon!
I know what you mean
Same with me at my current job. Not only do I do all the work and get criticized for it, but I get blamed for the mistakes of others. The fact that I work in a finger-pointing culture, and not one of accountability, is why I'm currently planning my escape.
@@ajvf97 Such dynamic at work is really tough to break. The best is making an effort in not letting it affect you and exiting such job in a right way.
@@ajvf97 this is pretty much corporate america. If your not a good ole boy or not in the club, leave or you will be forced out
I had a job I loved, loved what I did. I worked above and beyond, 70 hours week only getting paid for 40 hours. All I ever received was criticism from my boss, so I left. It was the best thing I did, I met my future wife through the next job, it was a win, win!
Im from Canada and i love my job, but i had never work extra if i was not been paid (if my paychecks are hour base). Never in 25 years i've seen a coworker did unpaid extra hours. I like saying: we dont value your time, our buiness is badly run and you'll heed to work harder for free for it.
Thanks for the eye opener. Life is too short so this job aint gonna make my life miserable from now!
Thank you very much for your kind feedback. I am wishing you best of luck with changing jobs!
completely agree with you too
yes
Holy moly, this guy is describing my experience at my last job exactly. How have I not seen these signs before?
Hi! Sorry you've gone through that. I know exactly how it feels and I hope you are out of there already or at least have an exit strategy being planned!
I've always yearn to ever be able to say that "my boss is good and helpful" but I've never had the chance to do so... in my second full time job now. I'm sick of meeting toxic bosses...
I know how that feels and I hope very soon you'd be able to come across to a leader that empowers employees instead of micromanaging them.
Yes I dread going to work even if it’s just signing on to zoom from home.
I also being asked to do task above my pay grade, without an increase in salary. Lots of turnover.
That would be fine if they would treat you with respect and empathy, but seems like that is not the case.
My manager is toxic... I like this company. I just dont want to quit right away.. I have some hope. I am constantly belittled and discouraged for my passions. It doesnt feel like they want me there.
I completely understand and I feel for you! I really hope that you manage to get out of there, sooner than later! Good luck and keep me updated!
You should focus on your passion and pretend your boss is invisible.
Thank you very much for making this video told me that health issues, feeling tired constantly and missing out on life was normal for a full time job but there’s a certain point where it’s not ok video helped me, thank you!
It is never normal. Thanks for your words and best of luck!
When you spoke about feeling embarrassed for your company culture and the decision they make I felt IT WAS ABOUT ME! I look look around in my workplace and see no position I would rather work at, I don’t like my job but I don’t want any job at this stupid toxic feel out of place, most of managers speak completely different language to mine, I am not like these now I’m putting in the minimal amount effort until I come up with something else
That is a good idea. When the company doesn't represent you at all, it's always good to find a more appropriate place.
Most companies don’t care about staff, they are just a number on their pay roll.
Thank you to you Maraat. You have valuable knowledge on your platform. Shit happens. Life happens . Anticipate. Make your company perspirate.
Chronic understaffing is a confidence killer.
Thank you so much for your kind words and feedback, I really appreciate it!
And you are completely right, the more prepared we are to these issues, the better. The important part is not letting it ruin our well being and act!
understaffed companies really kill you
I have back problems now for overworking constantly
Why call him names which Isn't nice.
Taking on the work of 2 or 3 people and getting paid for one while being burned out is definitely one due to the leadership’s failure to maintain a full staff. The employees should never have to feel the heat for that. And they expect you to still perform normally, meet expectations, be the POC for several customers, and be a team player.
this video made me emotional because I can see all the signs
Thanks a lot my friend! I hope you find a new position very soon!
This video hits it right on the money in my situation. Thank you for the post.
You are very welcome. I hope you find a way, putting your well being and happiness first is the most important rule for everyone who wants to feel satisfied in life.
You raised some good 'm scared to leave because of my tax debt but I'm borderline suicidal I can't do this 've been working for this guy for 8yrs and he still treats me like I'm nothing I really don’t know how to deal with this
I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you manage to get out of there. Put your health, mental and physical, above it all!
Very beneficial as usual.
Thank you very much my friend!
My job now is draining and depressing. Every day takes away more self esteem and I feel like a loser. I don’t have another job lined up but I have saved enough where I don’t have to work right away. Do you think I can reasonably quit in a couple more months even if I don’t have another job lined up and want to change roles?
I think you can definitely find another job in a couple of months. It all depends on how focused you are on your search. Best of luck!
Dont quit. Find something first while yoy work otherwise you will be scrutinized for your employment gap. Im having that issue right now. It also depends on the job market for your profession on where you are from. If its competitive then its safer you stay and look. This is my personal experience.
@@tessalee8224 I completely agree with you, Tessa. It is much better looking for a job while one is still employed, however it does depend on many aspects, the most important one is how one feels during a job search. Feeling positive and confident during a job search is a must!
Do you have other talents you can turn into lucrative business? I believe you do.
This is inspiring and I like how natural and real your video is
Well done!
Thank you so much!
GREAT video for sure
I watched this video again and again, can't stop
Thank you very much! What did you like the most about it?
@@myemmotion I feel that you speak the truth,speaking from the heart. And I happen to experience every sign you mention in the video
Dear Murat thank you, thank you, thank you. It is Oct 28,2020, and as I sit here watching this video, the stress releasing tears will not stop. They were much needed. I am in literal Hell at my job right now. I wake up with a knot in my stomach every morning, and most Sunday evenings are spent in the bathroom in digestive distress. I love how people just tell me to quit...it's not that easy. Thanks for the great tips. I am biding my time, and even changing careers. I just finished my video interview for a job I want and hoping I will make it to the video face to face. Thanks again for these videos. Hopefully there will be light at the end of the tunnel soon. Take care, Marie
Sorry I put a U in your name. Typo, meant to be an A.
Hi Marie, I am really sorry you are going through such times at work right now. Believe me, I have been there and I know exactly how it feels. People who want the best for us tell us to "quit", but it is so much more complicated than that. The important part is to be able to see through all the negative aspects and toxicity, keeping it all business and defining the next steps for yourself. And it isn't easy at all.
Fingers crossed on the job interview you've done. Keep me updated on how things go!
❤
Great video Marat. Made me think and meditate about this
Thank you so much!
The same thing happened to me its as if it was addressed to my situation at work
Found a part time I thought would be good for me but they only work me one day a week. It gets in the way of a lot especially when I want to go on vacation. I'm not gonna let one day make me miss a full week of vacation
I see your point.
very insightful, thank you Marat
Thank you very much!
I quit one of my corporate jobs because it was like a sweat shop with Mcdonalds managers.It was an important experience and I learned a lot, but there was hardly anything else positive, people were poisonous. I couldn’t trust anybody and it was a constant hassle.
I hope you are in a much better place now. Best of luck!
Mc donalds is a horrible place to work
Thats the thing my job has a few issues that I dont like dealing with but the lack of advancement or support from my manager which make me question why I work here in general I am happy, the customers clearly like 'm 30 in a month and it’s like I feel I’ve found the place I will stay until retirement, but it's just so boring and routine.
If it's boring and a routine, you can't think about retiring there. You are just starting your career!
I would rather it was boring and routine, than a place where it’s toxic
My supervisor basically insulted me to my face. She was upset when I had signed up for a shift where there was nobody there to work with me. I'll admit, I am MUCH better with a helping hand and guide, and that I'm kind of a slow learner, but come on, that's no excuse for how direct and opinionated she was. Has that loser ever heard of a thing called tact, or even faith or potential? You shouldn't underestimate people, especially to their faces! When she asked me if I thought I could do the shift by myself, I said, "yes," and she disagreed. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. She was basically saying directly to my face that I was not independently capable. I guess you could say she was implying I was helpless. Either way, she TOTALLY indicated she had no faith in me. I'm mad at myself for not standing up to her. She intimidates me when she's in a bad mood, but still, at the very least, I should've told her I believed in myself, to subtly hint, "Unlike you, so stop with the underestimation, you bigot." Was she indeed being toxic, or is the idea all in my head? Is this a good reason to quit the job?
I usually don't comment on UA-cam, but 5 and 6 hit it on the nail to make my decision! Thank you for this helpful video
Being stuck somewhere without feeling motivated is definitely not worth it. Hope you find a nice new project that keeps you happy!
And you are very welcome!
I just joined this one company 3 months ago. Its a great company, everyone seems so motivated and didn’t have time for other things. We have 3 days a week training. And sometimes more! I find it’s draining me, and I just realised I’m not motivated to do it at all. I feel anxious all the time. My new job requires me to talk to a lot of people, and I found it exhausting. I’m not sure if I’m the one who is lazy, or this job is just not for me. Whenever I’m down, it makes me feel guilty. 😔 I’m stuck 😔😔
So the company is good, the environment is also motivating, it is the job itself which doesn't make you happy, right? Do you think you can get used to talking to a lot of people? I think in your case you could try working on this aspect, maybe if you feel more relax about it things would improve?
You shouldn't feel guilty at all, just analyze all the pros and cons, to understand what are the things you can control and what are not.
If you find yourself looking for justifications in this video to quit your job, that's reason enough right there. You deserve a job you like where you feel appreciated, or even a job you are more interested in. If you are looking for something better, give yourself permission to quit and find something!
I completely agree with you. But many times we get so caught up in a daily routine that we need to hear someone else mentioning all the "signs" why you might not be feeling comfortable at your job.
@@myemmotion absolutely. Hearing someone else can help us make healthy realizations about changes we need to make
@@bmav007 Yes, especially due to certain things' being "normalized" by us since we've become used to them. And they are not.
Thanks for this video, all signs you have mentioned here are present in my work situation. So I resigned, but without any job replacement. Now my problem is how to start/find with new job again.
First of all, don't blame yourself for not having waited until another job was lined up. It's extremely complicated to get it all done at the same time, unless it's been planned for a long time. The good news is that your energy is not wasted on all the negative at work, you can put all your efforts into searching for this new role! Good luck and keep me updated!
@@myemmotion i got burned out and almost couldn't wait to finish my 8 hours duty at all.. This video has helped me to decide, im planning to start a small business as entrepreneur at the moment.
@@FrequentSea Sounds excellent! Nothing can beat the feeling of being your own boss, at the same time it is a lot of hard work, but I am sure you will do great!
you know this video has actually inspired me
please make more videos like this one
Thank you so much! I am really happy to read that and, of course, I am going to bring out more videos on similar subjects!
It takes some confidence but mostly luck in times and what field you are in.
You are right. It isn't easy and luck is an important factor! But there are definitely ways, once the decision is taken in your mind!
It’s exactly what is happening to me, my work culture horrible. It doesn’t have the same mindset I have, they are so close minded and don’t want to expand our brand to the masses, they are so scared to market. They also misled me and hired me for a job but took the rug out from under me and placed me doing something else.
I am sorry to hear that. You seem to have made up your mind already and I hope you manage to switch jobs very soon!
Burned out and i quit my job. Good job but toxic boss and toxic colleagues. New job is coming. I should have done this years ago. Luckily I have savings. New job is coming soon.
You did the right thing. The environment means so much, a lot of times we do not realize it immediately, but it eventually gets to us.
Best of luck with the new job, hope it is in a positive and in a motivating environment!
this is a good video thanks for the eye opener.
Thanks so much!
Maybe you should do a video on why managers are so bad. Why are bad managers promoted to these positions? Why do companies allow environments like this to exist? Make the company responsible.
I think it's all down to company management in general. CEOs and company owners are well aware of what kind of people they've put in change. It's really complicated to find against toxic work environment if the leadership promotes it at all levels. The mentality is changing as the time goes. It's a bit like "climate change" which was denied by most people but as years go by it's extremely obvious even to those in denial.
They usually are people who represent the companies values and have been there a long time.
@@anonanon4194 None of my bullies were there longer than me. I was the veteran associate and they resented my tenor and knowledge.
Such a good video, helped me understand what’s been going on
Thank you very much!
I only just saw this channel you are describing it perfectly what I’m going through if only I was better if money wise and could walk away I hate going and feel miserable boss is a bully and a horrible person thank you I just don’t know what to do
You are very welcome. What you need to do is to save up some money, trying to focus on your work only meanwhile. And quit as soon as you have another job lined up!
Thank you for reply I will try harder and start focusing on that appreciate your support and this channel
@@Christizm Best of luck and keep me updated!
How do you speak such fluently always?... I am admire to you...
Thank you so much my friend. It's all the matter of practice!
Excellent videos. The thing is about being appreciated is it costs absolutely nothing. I have always complimented my co-workers and even bosses, because I know rarely their bosses say anything, unless it’s negative, sadly. People need to know what they do, does matters.
My manager assigns me tasks and doesn't actually tell me how to do my job until it's already too late. The manager comes in the next morning and expected me to actually do everything right. I told her I had no idea what to do because nobody taught me how to do it. Manager gets on me just because I place something in a different spot as if they couldn't get it themselves. Some co-workers would actually side with her. These co workers are the ones that get the most hours and never gets yelled at.
What is it that you do, Steve? How long have you been with the company? You know you can always turn things around to a certain extent, but when the manager is being toxic that is very hard to change. You should definitely start looking around, check other opportunities in the market.
@@myemmotion I work at Wendy's as a crew team member. It feels so hard to quit because i need the money and I don't have any other experience. I feel like the only place that will accept me is retail or fast food. I have been with them for almost 3 full months now.
@@myemmotion whenever the district manager comes to check in on the store the general manager will start telling me do things faster or tell me how standard procedure is supposed to be. It's just the pressure she puts on me whenever the district manager is around. The district manager never talks to crew members or anybody else directly either, she only talks to the general manager so it's hard to tell her how we feel. I don't think she cares to be honest because if she did she would have done something about this toxic workplace.
Anyways, thanks Marat, it's nice to be heard
@@itsmesteve1081 You are wrong if you think that no one else would hire you. But it's completely understandable that you wouldn't want to quit your stable income. That's why it's important to plan your exit and start your job search while you are working.
Great and valid points, I enjoyed your video and the advice is helpful. Thank you Marat
Thank you so much!
@@myemmotion you are welcome KEEP DOING THESE VIDEOS PLEASE
Alright let's see what kind of opportunities are out there!!!
I hope you find a job where you feel productive and motivated. Best of luck with the search!
this is so motivating and in a way an eye opener
thank you for this!
You are very welcome! I am glad you found it useful.
good job!
Thank you very much!
i wanna quit my job so bad..but i dont have anything lined up but that job is killing me i just wanna quit, watching this made me want to quit even more
I imagine that you would like to quit and I think you should. But do it the right way, check out a few other positions first, make sure you have your back in terms of finances. It definitely isn't worth staying there for a lot longer.
Loved this video so much truth in this.Thanks for sharing
Thank you very much for your feedback!
What a great video!!! Thanks for the eye opener!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I just realize you never blink
Haha, not in my earlier videos. I thought losing an eye contact would distract my viewers!
I have a employee get pissed off at me because she wanted to go to part time. So I told her she would have to give up her station that she have to be a floater. And she got mad and left to a shop with no walk ins . Plus she went to a place with one of the girls she does not like. I fired the girl she does not like due to stealing from shop and other employees.
Seems like she is going to find herself in a much more complicated work environment. Do you already have her position covered?
Great video thanks for sharing
Thank you very much!
This video was very helpful! Thank you for making it!
Great information 👍
I am glad you found it helpful! Thanks a lot for stopping by!
thanks for your professional training
You are very welcome my friend! Have a great day! :)
This is corporate 101. The only way to escape the rat race is minimalism.
Hi Joshua! Thanks for your feedback. I was wondering what do you mean by "minimalism"?
@@myemmotion minimalism is a movement where the person lives minimally( live on the bare minimum). The idea is that you only work because you have to pay for the next vacation, car, house etc. If you can reduce as much expenses as possible, you need less money and can choose a lesser paying but more fulfilling job. Therefore you dont need to work a corporate job or a toxic job to support the lifestyle. In life, you cant always control your income but you can always control spending. Spending is the only obstacle in living minimally.
@@JK20239 I completely agree with "you can't always control your income but you can always control spending" and "minimalism" would be a huge step forward for a society in many aspects. Constantly consuming things we never use is slowing killing the planet.
Your last videos are really entertaining and useful
Thank you so much! :)
@@myemmotion you are welcome
this deserves more views
Yep I need to quit my job but it's hard to find jobs because of this covid
I know what you mean. It is indeed a complicated time for a job market. What do you do? Some of the industries have been hiring even more than before, but that isn't the general situation.
Hello! You are doing a good job in your craft. Keep it up!
quit when you feel like quitting
There is more to it, but yes!
So true sir , spot on !
Thank, I hope you manage to leave for a much better job soon!
Such a great motivational video
Thanks!
i also wish I had that extra knowledge to analyze the signs and to recognize when it’s time to move on and quit just as you've been saying
It's never late to do that, neither it's late to do things differently from now on!
Very useful 💐
My lead and sup are threaten by me and I have to do alot of grunt work even though I exceed in task. It's frustrating but I am a star employee, 5 years till retirement and I be damn if I quit my job. It hurts but the money is good, my skill set is set and they have to deal with me everyday. My boss wrote me up and I wrote him back up and he anit written me back up anymore. I told him its my job I earned it, I am hard working in this dept and if you want to fire me then do it because I anit quitting
. Been six months and I am still there saving 💰 and learning a bit. Don't quit your job unless you have something lined up or you've saved a years income.
Your situation is completely understandable. As long as you can deal with these circumstances during 5 years. It's hard but you need to focus on being as professional as you can and not let this affect your emotional health. Best of luck and hope things improve very soon.
So far he seems awesome . I am liking the videos.
That is really kind of you. Thanks a lot!
Thanks for the rich information, I subscribed!
You are very welcome! :) Thanks for stopping by and hope to see you around!
excellent points
Thank you so much!
I agree
Excellent content
Thank you!
Good video.
Great video
Thank you very much Dereck!
Me again
All seven sign are true for me
🤣 crazy laugh
Haha, you should definitely start doing something about it. How long have you been working there for?
@@myemmotion
Since 2006
I resent going to work
Anxiety levels very high
Time to seek new work opportunities
@@abigailknox-leet6949 That is not healthy at all. At least you've realized that it's not the right place for you and will be doing something about it!
Wishing you all the luck and keep me updated!
I have almost all those 's so is just the is not the are great just feel so empty at my I have no anyone has actually left their day 'd appreciate some
I hope you manage to find something more motivating soon!
great video
Thanks for the visit!
Money can't buy happiness. When you're working in toxic workplace, even payday and your salary couldn't make you feel happy.
more videos like this please
I will do so!
Lol yep I definitely need to leave my job.
You seem quite convinced :) Best of luck and I hope you manage to change jobs. Keep me posted!
hello everyone, this is my story, i have been working for a THAI goverment sector as a Data recorder. with the age of 27 i have a tough choice of quitting my toxic job, no welfare, changed shift every 3 day from 8 hour to 12 hour (work as a shift 8 hour and forced 12 hour), get salary fixed at 335.79 $ and OT start at 63.96 $, have a holiday once a month and i also face many health problems since working here and toxic environment and boss as well. what should i do TT cry a lot
Thanks for sharing your story and I am sorry you are going through this.
Is there a chance you might be able to do a similar job somewhere else? Toxic places completely ruin any motivation and any positive aspects of the job.
@@myemmotion i have a passion in English subject, English majoring with no teaching certificate. have a little chance to be a teacher in goverment system or less then 1 year to be an English tutor that is all i have
@@hazardoustoxic2994 But you can definitely go for it. Get the teaching certificate you need and start tutoring. It will also keep your mind off the negativity.
@@myemmotion Thank you so much
The problem I have with work is people. There stupidly, attitudes, whinning, childish behaviour, negative emotions, work that can't be achieved in time and repiptive work. My manager was a good person at first but she has shown her true colors, she is a hot head, has a bad attitude, complains about some shit that doesn't matter, is paranoid, is a hipocrtic, and has a personality that is random as all hell. I'm only staying to earn a really good amount of money for games music and films etc. Lol they expect me to take responsibility for another person's actions and what me to do it. Even tho I tryed to help and didn't sit around doing nothing about it. The manager yelled in my face wanting me to know about the menu even tho Im focused on doing mine. She is stressed I know and I understand she was mad at the agency who covered but yelling at me made me feel like shit tho she did say she was sorry and guilty about doing it. But knowing her she will go back to doing the same thing everytime. If she was sorry she would learn from her mistakes. Same with me If I mess up I always learn from it and turn it around. Should I look for another job or stay
Wow, this is happening to me 😩
You know I've been there, so I know that the most important part is realizing that this it is, that you need a change. Start looking for other options. I have made a stream about this also, it might help you get some further answers: ua-cam.com/video/yU4azcOle0s/v-deo.html
Best of luck and keep me updated on how things go!
Good job and nice video 👍 but I don't want to leave my work 😂😂
Thanks so much! Haha, you shouldn't. Being happy at work is the goal!!!
@@myemmotion sure I'm happy and like my work
wonderful, you look good too
Thank you very much!
I hate my job. I’m a server and they give us way too much unpaid side work. Everyone there is in a little clique and they all are complete nerds who do acid and smoke weed all the time and have no desire to better themselves. I can’t wait to find somewhere else to work.
That doesn't sound like a healthy working environment at all. At least you already made up your mind and you are working on an exit strategy!
Good luck with the job hunting and keep me updated how things go!
@@myemmotion thanks man! I quit last night after realizing that it’s just not worth my happiness. I can find another job that’s better very soon. I’m in the Atlanta area so it won’t be too difficult. I’ve got a bit of money saved. I’ll keep ya posted!
@@DrewMIATL You did the right thing! It was so not worth it! You will definitely find a much better place very soon. Best of luck and stay positive!
@@myemmotion thanks man! Amen! I was actually able to go back to the restaurant I was at before going to the job I hated. I start back tomorrow. I was so much happier there and made pretty much the same amount of money in less hours!
love it
Thank you!
I wish I had the courage to quit
Why can't you?
It’s all about me
How long have you been working there? Hope things change for better very soon.
Wait! Are you supposed to enjoy your job? 🤔😧
Haha. We might mistakenly think that a job only pays the bills, but being happy at work does wonders to your health and general well being.
Fax number 6
That's when the motivation dies out!
It sure was a lot easier when I was a lot younger. I feel like my manager is trying to set me up to be fired when I will be 65 next month, and I still have to work another 3 years to pay off my house. Worst part, she got HER job because the former VP (who was let go) hired her (they are buddies) and screwed over the manager that we had before her. In my 40+ years of working in several industries I've had exactly TWO female managers that were decent. The rest were more determined to keep you from succeeding because of their own insecurity....and heaven forbid you are more knowledgeable or skilled or liked....you're dead meat.
That is awful and is indeed very demotivating. Why do you think she is trying to get you fired? How long have you been with the company?
The analysis that you've shared is very interesting. What about the male bosses? Did you find them easier to deal with? Were they good and empowering leaders?
@@myemmotion good morning I've been with the company about two and a half years. My work history is over 30 years as an account manager working with very large clients. My background is not only similar to hers and I'm older then she. I have developed a more strong and confident personality simply because of having to compete with or against men. I've actually had a past manager tell me I gave off a very male energy w/e that means. I have a good relationship with my former manager at this company and I understand that this woman seems to have a deep insecurity to the point other managers feel like they have to be very cautious do not set her off. The men were better at empowering overall, while the woman were more concerned with being perceived of being in charge and were much more micro managers. I will take working for a man any day over reporting to a woman. I don't think I've ever seen a strong man working for an insecure woman.
@@myemmotion I'm going to add that after going to my HR person and telling them that I was very uncomfortable and wanted to look for another position within the company and I asked her to share my resume with her Talent people the week following my doing this I was written up. Some of the things for which my manager state was an issue are misleading and downright dishonest. She included a couple of conversations that I had initiated with her to clarify something oh, and she put those on her grievance list as having to verbally warned me. What!? She even made a statement and they were just bullet points really but that I was to never write an email in all caps. I've never written an email in all caps though I will capitalize certain words as stress for internal people and to make them easier to read and identify. She also made an accusation of what she said I wrote them email email instead of what I actually wrote. The next thing she accused me of was not being logged into our business Skype for three hours one day several weeks ago yet my coworker and teammate has been logged out for over 3 weeks
@@conniefoxx9813 In 95% of cases, HR will side with the manager. That's how it works in most of the companies. However you can obviously show/resend the "actual" email you sent. Making up lies to make someone look bad is the whole new low.
My advice is to keep it as "business related" as you can. If there is an option of changing to another department that would have been the best option. Either way, it's no win situation, so try not letting it affect your overall well being.
@@myemmotion thank you yes I'm trying to be very professional. I do have a copy of the email in question as well as some documentation of the meetings she indicated we're canceling meetings when in fact they were not. I also have photographs of our business Skype showing my teammate offline prior to and even up to today. I must be clairvoyant
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Thank you so much, Doris!!!
They have no regard for law
Are you Azerbaijani???
thumbs up
Thank you!
you are SO handsome and I adore the accent, sorry that's very unprofessional , he he :)