Dealing with rude people

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  • Опубліковано 29 жов 2024
  • We encounter rude people in life. We must learn the skills to handle them.

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  • @sufiatahseen2129
    @sufiatahseen2129 4 роки тому +8

    Baba jani ap un bachho ko bhi tarbiyat kar rahe h jinke maa,baba nhi h .....Bahot bahot shukirya baba jani......

  • @chiragbajaj6091
    @chiragbajaj6091 4 роки тому +30

    @Professor Javed Iqbal sir, Great job.. Love from Indians!

  • @AlviSultan
    @AlviSultan 4 роки тому +6

    Dr. Sahib ki Baat bilkul sahih hai. Baat mushkil toh zaroor hai magar na-mumkin nahin. Develop lots of self-control and patience to handle or deal with rude people! Good nuskha Dr. Sahib, it has worked for me, always!

  • @Final_Turn
    @Final_Turn 4 роки тому +23

    سوال دہرانہ اچھا سامع ہونے کی نشانی ہے۔ بہت خوب 🌷

  • @arindamghorai7597
    @arindamghorai7597 4 роки тому +28

    I am intern from the oldest Medical college in Asia and patient burden here is too much and they get abusive and angry sometime. This is very much helpful professor.

  • @uncoverit2010
    @uncoverit2010 4 роки тому +63

    Sir your voice is amazing & energetic.
    From India.

  • @abujubayer
    @abujubayer 4 роки тому +95

    I have learned a lot sir... U r great... Allah rabbul alamin, Aap ka hayat daraz kare... Aise Doctor hr zagah hona chahiye.... I love u sir... Isi tarah aap ham sab ko motivated karte rahiye.. the more I watch yr videos, the more I am amazed... Such a great personality... . Love from Kolkata, India...

    • @abbgjgvn
      @abbgjgvn 4 роки тому +2

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    • @abbgjgvn
      @abbgjgvn 4 роки тому

      It's also a motivational channel

    • @erumbashir3827
      @erumbashir3827 4 роки тому +1

      Asalam O Alekum sir ap looks suna Bohat he acha laga ap life avaz fit on ur peranality . Mera aik bets hen or main us ki achi tabiyat hrna charti hun but I m Singal mother doing job and many many broblems pls help me like ur perfect adviceses and opinion . I wann talk to u please please

  • @PGuj
    @PGuj 4 роки тому +10

    Pearls of Wisdom given for free and with a kind heart. Many thanks to you :)

  • @just_a_woman-h9s
    @just_a_woman-h9s 4 роки тому +32

    @professor Dr Javed Iqbal, My experience is different. If you are dealing with an abuser, that doesnt work. For instance if your spouse is a bully and try to intimidate you perceiving you are vulnerable, you have to stand up against it right away and stop them AS SOON AS they start. Your voice should be stern and should not quietly listen to their threats. My father used to threat my mother, she used to live in fear, he would always yell and scream and all of us would be quite in fear. The day my mother stood up against him and shouted more than he did, he completely changed and mellowed down

    • @just_a_woman-h9s
      @just_a_woman-h9s 4 роки тому +3

      @Usama Fayyaz , The language u used, the personal attacks u made and the tone u showed in your comment PROVES my point.
      If u want more proof, Look at the gender ratio in prison cells around the world . 95% of inmates are men and only 5% are women. What does it tell you?
      It is because men , "in general", are more likely to be violent and bring harm to other human beings as compare to women. There are always exceptions though.
      So the proof is in the pudding

    • @aabikhan3492
      @aabikhan3492 4 роки тому +3

      @@just_a_woman-h9s You're right . Gandi zubaan istemal krke baat krne walay ki koi baat theek ho hi nai sakti . Jisko yeh nahi pta ke baat karne ka konsa tareeqa sahi hai aur konsa ghalat . Usko baaki mamlo mai sahi ghalat ki tafreeq kese hogi . Bura ikhlaaq hamare Khuda ko shadeed na psand hai. May Allah forgive us for all our sins .

    • @samaranjum7574
      @samaranjum7574 4 роки тому

      @@aabikhan3492 u r right.

  • @HumaaUmar
    @HumaaUmar 4 роки тому +2

    You are perfectly correct! It’s so difficult to be the more intelligent one all the time, because it seems the majority of humans are not responsible, accountable, or in other words, aggressors😳

  • @wakeelatahir94
    @wakeelatahir94 4 роки тому +9

    Wow first time I have known that what's the difference between response and react?!!! Hats off to you.....

  • @fazlurrahman1668
    @fazlurrahman1668 4 роки тому +19

    Sir. Amazed by ur voice and way of talking. Excellent

  • @wenjingsaf
    @wenjingsaf 4 роки тому +7

    i wish he was my professor for life mashallh so much knowledge and wisdom Allah lambi zindagi de kamyab rakhe

  • @shahanazanjum8398
    @shahanazanjum8398 4 роки тому

    Bilkul yahi bat hai sir 💯 times such kaha apne Sir apka shukriya javed sir Allah apko mahfooz rakhhe

  • @bhatrazak9973
    @bhatrazak9973 3 роки тому +1

    A, a Jazakalakhair Sir very good information...

  • @ibraheemwafai9543
    @ibraheemwafai9543 2 роки тому +2

    Sir this is sheer brilliance!! Totally relatable! May Allah make immense barakah in your knowledge! May Allah bless you!

  • @sharufhashmi1416
    @sharufhashmi1416 4 роки тому +21

    You are psychologist sir 🗿🗿🗿I wish you have always happy 😊😊😊😊and lot love from India

  • @انقلاباسلامیپاکستان

    You are brilliant Sir. I am listening you from past 2 days. And during this time when ever i have opened youtube, i have just listened your videos. You have another fan in your bucket sir. Love you ❤

  • @storytelling.1234
    @storytelling.1234 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks sir ! Now I finally understand how to deal with rude and anger..This is so much helpful..Sir really you are a best teacher.

  • @zahidiqbal7367
    @zahidiqbal7367 3 роки тому

    Mashallha Bhaut acchi or logically baat samjhayi h aapne ... lots of love from india🇮🇳

  • @syedasidrabokhari8887
    @syedasidrabokhari8887 3 роки тому

    Sir you are great... Allah Pak apko bht kmyabi, izzt or tarqqi dn.. Aameen

  • @tahirhussain222
    @tahirhussain222 2 місяці тому

    Jazakallah sir.100% true for best life,thank u.

  • @HNK147
    @HNK147 4 роки тому +1

    Subhan Allah
    Jazak Allahu khairan kaseera
    Sir itna cool suggestion dia ha ap na
    Wisdom k sath solve krna.

  • @uzmasadaf4570
    @uzmasadaf4570 2 роки тому +1

    JazakaAllah sir

  • @maryamhafeez6113
    @maryamhafeez6113 2 роки тому +2

    We forget all these lessons when we are in a row. The anger overwhelms, as always. May one day we overwhelm our anger!

    • @AlviSultan
      @AlviSultan Рік тому

      Try to understand what anger really is, and your anger will disappear. Knowingly, why would you like to make yourself a fool?

  • @hajerajahangir8489
    @hajerajahangir8489 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing words with Amazing style. GREAT 👍👍

  • @upwardsacademy
    @upwardsacademy 4 роки тому +13

    Respected sir it will help me alot to
    Over come from my daily trifles.

  • @syedfaizan9705
    @syedfaizan9705 4 роки тому +5

    Very well said sir.....this will help me out in dealing with phd supervisor....

  • @chandsaeed8298
    @chandsaeed8298 4 роки тому +1

    Jazakallaah

  • @shaukatali4970
    @shaukatali4970 4 роки тому

    السلام و علیکم
    ڈاکٹر جاوید اقبال صاحب بہت ہی اچھے ڈاکٹر ہونے کے ساتھ ساتھ بہت ہی اچھے انسان ہیں
    اللہ تعالی لمبی زندگی اور تندرستی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثمہ آمین

  • @imvisionhoti7198
    @imvisionhoti7198 4 роки тому +2

    You are my inspiration Sir.. I keep learning alot towards my attitude grooming and personality development ! Huge respect from the core of my heart !💗

  • @daljitkaur7783
    @daljitkaur7783 3 роки тому +1

    Dr.u r amazing ur way of explaining is fantastic

  • @zaighamabbaskhan7104
    @zaighamabbaskhan7104 4 роки тому

    Kind person......awlaaa tarbyeat parents ki......dr and good humanbieng.....doing good work

  • @fathimamalik1980
    @fathimamalik1980 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks god youtube came so we can listein your precious teachings 😊👍👍👍

  • @KRD137
    @KRD137 4 роки тому +45

    Great explanation. Just to let you know your voice sounds exactly young "Amitab Bachchan" trust me you're a great teacher and speaker

    • @skyangel7311
      @skyangel7311 4 роки тому +1

      U r so right he sounds like amitab sir

    • @vikrantverma4772
      @vikrantverma4772 4 роки тому

      I don't think so... although his voice modulation is very good. Quality voice.

  • @sheebasultan1145
    @sheebasultan1145 2 роки тому

    Janab, i love listening to your words of wisdom.
    India loves you.

  • @selftalks3825
    @selftalks3825 4 роки тому

    بہت سیکھنے کو ملا اس وڈیو سے ۔۔۔ اللہ آپکو جزا دے آمین

  • @aliansari5664
    @aliansari5664 3 роки тому

    Bht bht bht hi pyare andaz me btaya apne .. Allah apko kamiyabi de

  • @abdulsamadshaikh3696
    @abdulsamadshaikh3696 3 роки тому +2

    Rude people maybe disturb or stubborn from inside or self, lack of love or lack of emotional support.
    ,😥😥😥

  • @wajihaurooj9964
    @wajihaurooj9964 4 роки тому +1

    Zabardast.. I learnt a lot from you sir but I can like this video just once. Motivational speaker Masha Allah.
    Allah apko sehat wali lmbi umr de ameen

  • @HabiburRahmanBaig1
    @HabiburRahmanBaig1 2 роки тому

    Sir agar woh toxic banda jhootay ilzam laga raha ho woh bhi 10 Bandon ke samnay. Woh arrogant plus jealous ho. Agar woh apni bakwas kar ke bhag jaey to phir kia karain.

  • @sa-ib1wy
    @sa-ib1wy 4 роки тому

    sir boht achi bty apki jo mei bachpn sy esi hi ajtk ap ny meri zuban izhar kr rhy boht kushi hui

  • @imtayazali5592
    @imtayazali5592 4 роки тому

    You are a great prrson..... great explaination... voiceway of talking and teaching....awesome...

  • @uasb546
    @uasb546 4 роки тому +3

    May Allah always keep you blessed with health n joy. I respect you big brother..your intelligent advice always helps!

  • @gulzaman5512
    @gulzaman5512 4 роки тому +39

    My first comment.I dont think you area medical doctor. I have never seen such a polite and intellectual doctor ever. I wish you every doctor adopt his atitude. Keep it up sir.

    • @a4fun672
      @a4fun672 4 роки тому

      Every dr is like this also ... it’s all due to attendants jo drs se ulajhtay hain

    • @gulzaman5512
      @gulzaman5512 4 роки тому +7

      @@a4fun672 Not every dr with apology. Some dr are too rude and impolite they even dont know thr abc of etiquettes

    • @waqasahmad4457
      @waqasahmad4457 4 роки тому +1

      All the attitudes of a society are linked like a web. Where else do u see politeness and respectful attitude in our society; so doctors r no different.

    • @mohsinkamal3782
      @mohsinkamal3782 4 роки тому

      @@a4fun672 not true!

    • @786helix2
      @786helix2 4 роки тому

      Gul Zameen, why do you write that you don't think Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a medical Doctor?? I don't understand. On what basis do you say this? Look up his qualifications and credentials on the internet. After reading them let me know if you don't understand anything. In some parts of the World (outside Pakistan/Indian) Doctors are exactly like Prof Iqbal. I'm guessing you live in Pakistan?

  • @husainaligour92
    @husainaligour92 3 роки тому

    Absolutely Right it's experience also I felt something very nice idea thank you so much sir

  • @farooqkhan5838
    @farooqkhan5838 4 роки тому

    MashAllah xubr10 Sir G you are Great men and Honestly speaking.

  • @fauziakhanam7319
    @fauziakhanam7319 4 роки тому

    May Allah bless you with highest rewards ameen please....continue to help the..makhluq of Allah.. ..جزاك الله خير

  • @mahwishimran7847
    @mahwishimran7847 2 роки тому

    Sir ur videos r so impressive I try to change myself n working on myself by hearing ur videos hats of to u

  • @amirmughal6103
    @amirmughal6103 4 роки тому

    نااہلی خوف کا باعث ہوتی ہے ، خوف غصے کا باعث ہوتا ہے

  • @javeriarehan1072
    @javeriarehan1072 4 роки тому

    JazakAllaho khaira

  • @jameelhafeez9796
    @jameelhafeez9796 4 роки тому +3

    Learned a wealth of information today.Thanks.

  • @muhammadyarchishti3397
    @muhammadyarchishti3397 3 місяці тому

    Great wording Masha Allah ❤

  • @humameri5349
    @humameri5349 4 роки тому +1

    So true
    JAZAK ALLAH

  • @zakiaumer4749
    @zakiaumer4749 3 роки тому +1

    Great Explanation

  • @drharris9568
    @drharris9568 3 роки тому +2

    Incompetency leads to fear and fear leads to anger ....

  • @parthshahani3071
    @parthshahani3071 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful. I'll definitely try this 🌟

  • @aadilashfaqofficial
    @aadilashfaqofficial 4 роки тому +1

    Sir me apka ehsan adaa nhi kar sakta.
    Meri life apki wjah sy change ho gae hai.
    Ap please kuch na kuch uplaod krty raha kren.
    Mein daily apka koi na koi lecture sun k sota hun or phr next day usko implement krta hun khud py.
    Allah apko sehat dy.
    I love you so much

  • @sumiyabilal2912
    @sumiyabilal2912 4 роки тому

    I always learn alot from u sir..ALLAH nay ap ke awaz mai asar rakha hai...i never got bore while listening

  • @rpskidsvlogs9049
    @rpskidsvlogs9049 4 роки тому

    I m from India,my name is rahima perween and i m a research scholar in education,i m married having two small kids. I always listen and see your videos.You are so nice person sir. Your way of convincing is amazing and wonderful sir.

  • @umararif8776
    @umararif8776 4 роки тому +1

    Sir Allah ap ko zindagi day amin bohat ma'am ki batain hoti Han

  • @samaranjum7574
    @samaranjum7574 4 роки тому

    Alhamdulillah sir aajkal main bhi aise hi kar rahin hoon. Aap to bilkul mere bade mamujaan hain. Allah aapko donon ko salaamat rakhe. Aameen .

  • @rizwanasalam4340
    @rizwanasalam4340 3 роки тому

    Sir u are just like psychologist... Great job sir... (Kashmiri)
    Allah bless you

  • @manojchaudhary6279
    @manojchaudhary6279 3 роки тому +1

    Sir your voice and your thoughts are amazing 🙏

  • @atiqatariq6192
    @atiqatariq6192 4 роки тому +4

    Aoa dr javade, i like your affective videos, i listen every day, the way u deliver is Awesome 👏.
    Plz this is my request plz explain some effective videos about that Husband,
    Who has some pyhsical problem,
    And he was very smart in earning money, his inlaws helped him many times, but when he is in depration mood in 2times in a year for 2 nd 3 months, since last 10 years his children are very good nd sporting economically,
    But with all blessings his easy victem is wife he humilated her just for notjing, she is also now 54,
    What should she do, everypwrson has some pysical problem,
    Plz plz deliver some video about this kind of husband

  • @khurramshehzad8035
    @khurramshehzad8035 4 роки тому +5

    Beautiful words of wisdom

  • @javeriarehan1072
    @javeriarehan1072 4 роки тому

    Zabardast .sir u r really great teacher

  • @manojpadmanabhan5537
    @manojpadmanabhan5537 4 роки тому +3

    A very practical advice. Respect your thoughts and view point ...

  • @spookyraja9495
    @spookyraja9495 3 роки тому +1

    I wish i heard it 18teen years before..

  • @Templebells9099
    @Templebells9099 5 місяців тому

    Gr8 Sir. Dhanyawaad

  • @anubhavrastogi2995
    @anubhavrastogi2995 4 роки тому

    Bhot shaandar ...thank you very much sir..

  • @noorieosman5912
    @noorieosman5912 4 роки тому +4

    Asalaam alaikum Dr Javed i really enjoy listening to you its so real and very good learning

  • @seemabmir4355
    @seemabmir4355 3 роки тому

    Thanks a lot. I have learned a great deal. This video changed my perception of many things and made me more positive.

  • @mubeenmalik6876
    @mubeenmalik6876 4 роки тому +1

    Dr sb very big fan of U sir ❤
    Maa Sha Allah

  • @uzmabasil5210
    @uzmabasil5210 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir JazakAllah

  • @Rajeevkumar-ll4hl
    @Rajeevkumar-ll4hl 2 роки тому

    REALLY GREAT SIR YOUR WORD ARE REALLY WORTH AND HEART TOUCHING RAJEEV BIHAR INDIA

  • @nutritionist8223
    @nutritionist8223 3 роки тому

    Sir! App bilkul theek kah rahy hn. Me apny husband k saat b aesaa hi karti hun.kabi unky sat badtemezi nahi ki jab wo ghusy me ho nd due to this he loves me alot.

  • @shayanimproveenglish7014
    @shayanimproveenglish7014 3 роки тому

    Thank u so much sir for guidelines

  • @nissarivf
    @nissarivf 3 роки тому

    Jawed sahab jo reasoning aapney Dee hay yeh simple hay agar agey wala jahaalath ki intehaaa pay ajayyeh who app ki mother sister brothers ho to kaisey handle karain it’s like simple conflict we face terrible people in life how to handle them thanks 😊

  • @nuzhatislam6758
    @nuzhatislam6758 2 місяці тому

    جزاک اللّہ
    بعینہٖ یہی صورت ھوتی ھے ۔
    اللہ ہماری مدد فرمائیں ۔

  • @intertainment7706
    @intertainment7706 4 роки тому

    boht hii bakmall treeka btya h dr sahb ne

  • @nasreenkhaan7650
    @nasreenkhaan7650 4 роки тому +1

    Very nice message

  • @meresheherkamausam7821
    @meresheherkamausam7821 4 роки тому

    Right sir ye to he apni efforts jo apne bas me he

  • @rajpootqueen6613
    @rajpootqueen6613 4 роки тому

    Ma sha allah sir boht acha way diya ma ap sy lecture sy bht kch seekhti ho

  • @dr.khanitha
    @dr.khanitha 4 роки тому

    Jazakallhu khair ..from india -vaniyambadi

  • @tayyabkachannel8278
    @tayyabkachannel8278 4 роки тому

    Very nice Docter Sahib

  • @anujbhadana6880
    @anujbhadana6880 4 роки тому +1

    Salam walequm sir ji
    Very good speech delivery 👌👌👌🌷🌷🌷🇮🇳🇵🇰

  • @THETIMESOFNEWSTODAY
    @THETIMESOFNEWSTODAY 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent sir u r doing well..very informative video ..ur videos should be viral on every social networking media to people know about what to do or not and change their ..mindset

  • @umairagaonkhadkar9389
    @umairagaonkhadkar9389 3 роки тому

    Excellent perfect sir

  • @waheedakarim4559
    @waheedakarim4559 Рік тому

    Very genuine advice.

  • @SpiritualityinSandsofMadinah
    @SpiritualityinSandsofMadinah 4 роки тому

    Zabardast very nice way of illustration

  • @MrRayaan
    @MrRayaan 4 роки тому

    thank you, sir, I am not perfect but this is generally the way I tackle such people and you just boosted my morale that I am doing the right thing.

  • @thehybrid1116
    @thehybrid1116 5 років тому +4

    Great video Sir stay blessed

  • @bodmaish9664
    @bodmaish9664 4 роки тому +1

    Excellent verrrry excellent... idea... The more I'm watching you the more I'm amazed on you... :)

  • @abidmew3603
    @abidmew3603 3 роки тому

    Very nice information sir

  • @isaqamaan8674
    @isaqamaan8674 3 роки тому

    Sir you are Simply AMAZING! 🌹

  • @teachatot
    @teachatot 4 роки тому +1

    How to deal with elders,who are stubborn and rude and dont want to listen to any other viewpoint.Younger ppl we can explain but we are told not to talk back to elders even when they are wrong.

  • @mahfuzurrahman9811
    @mahfuzurrahman9811 4 роки тому +2

    .. Is concept koy may bohot dinose choss raha tha..U make it clear sir!..Thank u very much..
    Love from Bangladesh!!!

  • @rubinayaqoob8489
    @rubinayaqoob8489 4 роки тому

    You are great 👍 you teaching great way of life style proper very well sir

  • @irsamalik4432
    @irsamalik4432 3 роки тому

    Greatly appreciated sir stay blessed sir amazing...