Dr. Sahib ki Baat bilkul sahih hai. Baat mushkil toh zaroor hai magar na-mumkin nahin. Develop lots of self-control and patience to handle or deal with rude people! Good nuskha Dr. Sahib, it has worked for me, always!
I am intern from the oldest Medical college in Asia and patient burden here is too much and they get abusive and angry sometime. This is very much helpful professor.
I have learned a lot sir... U r great... Allah rabbul alamin, Aap ka hayat daraz kare... Aise Doctor hr zagah hona chahiye.... I love u sir... Isi tarah aap ham sab ko motivated karte rahiye.. the more I watch yr videos, the more I am amazed... Such a great personality... . Love from Kolkata, India...
Asalam O Alekum sir ap looks suna Bohat he acha laga ap life avaz fit on ur peranality . Mera aik bets hen or main us ki achi tabiyat hrna charti hun but I m Singal mother doing job and many many broblems pls help me like ur perfect adviceses and opinion . I wann talk to u please please
@professor Dr Javed Iqbal, My experience is different. If you are dealing with an abuser, that doesnt work. For instance if your spouse is a bully and try to intimidate you perceiving you are vulnerable, you have to stand up against it right away and stop them AS SOON AS they start. Your voice should be stern and should not quietly listen to their threats. My father used to threat my mother, she used to live in fear, he would always yell and scream and all of us would be quite in fear. The day my mother stood up against him and shouted more than he did, he completely changed and mellowed down
@Usama Fayyaz , The language u used, the personal attacks u made and the tone u showed in your comment PROVES my point. If u want more proof, Look at the gender ratio in prison cells around the world . 95% of inmates are men and only 5% are women. What does it tell you? It is because men , "in general", are more likely to be violent and bring harm to other human beings as compare to women. There are always exceptions though. So the proof is in the pudding
@@just_a_woman-h9s You're right . Gandi zubaan istemal krke baat krne walay ki koi baat theek ho hi nai sakti . Jisko yeh nahi pta ke baat karne ka konsa tareeqa sahi hai aur konsa ghalat . Usko baaki mamlo mai sahi ghalat ki tafreeq kese hogi . Bura ikhlaaq hamare Khuda ko shadeed na psand hai. May Allah forgive us for all our sins .
You are perfectly correct! It’s so difficult to be the more intelligent one all the time, because it seems the majority of humans are not responsible, accountable, or in other words, aggressors😳
You are brilliant Sir. I am listening you from past 2 days. And during this time when ever i have opened youtube, i have just listened your videos. You have another fan in your bucket sir. Love you ❤
السلام و علیکم ڈاکٹر جاوید اقبال صاحب بہت ہی اچھے ڈاکٹر ہونے کے ساتھ ساتھ بہت ہی اچھے انسان ہیں اللہ تعالی لمبی زندگی اور تندرستی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثمہ آمین
Sir agar woh toxic banda jhootay ilzam laga raha ho woh bhi 10 Bandon ke samnay. Woh arrogant plus jealous ho. Agar woh apni bakwas kar ke bhag jaey to phir kia karain.
My first comment.I dont think you area medical doctor. I have never seen such a polite and intellectual doctor ever. I wish you every doctor adopt his atitude. Keep it up sir.
All the attitudes of a society are linked like a web. Where else do u see politeness and respectful attitude in our society; so doctors r no different.
Gul Zameen, why do you write that you don't think Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a medical Doctor?? I don't understand. On what basis do you say this? Look up his qualifications and credentials on the internet. After reading them let me know if you don't understand anything. In some parts of the World (outside Pakistan/Indian) Doctors are exactly like Prof Iqbal. I'm guessing you live in Pakistan?
Sir me apka ehsan adaa nhi kar sakta. Meri life apki wjah sy change ho gae hai. Ap please kuch na kuch uplaod krty raha kren. Mein daily apka koi na koi lecture sun k sota hun or phr next day usko implement krta hun khud py. Allah apko sehat dy. I love you so much
I m from India,my name is rahima perween and i m a research scholar in education,i m married having two small kids. I always listen and see your videos.You are so nice person sir. Your way of convincing is amazing and wonderful sir.
Aoa dr javade, i like your affective videos, i listen every day, the way u deliver is Awesome 👏. Plz this is my request plz explain some effective videos about that Husband, Who has some pyhsical problem, And he was very smart in earning money, his inlaws helped him many times, but when he is in depration mood in 2times in a year for 2 nd 3 months, since last 10 years his children are very good nd sporting economically, But with all blessings his easy victem is wife he humilated her just for notjing, she is also now 54, What should she do, everypwrson has some pysical problem, Plz plz deliver some video about this kind of husband
Sir! App bilkul theek kah rahy hn. Me apny husband k saat b aesaa hi karti hun.kabi unky sat badtemezi nahi ki jab wo ghusy me ho nd due to this he loves me alot.
Jawed sahab jo reasoning aapney Dee hay yeh simple hay agar agey wala jahaalath ki intehaaa pay ajayyeh who app ki mother sister brothers ho to kaisey handle karain it’s like simple conflict we face terrible people in life how to handle them thanks 😊
Excellent sir u r doing well..very informative video ..ur videos should be viral on every social networking media to people know about what to do or not and change their ..mindset
How to deal with elders,who are stubborn and rude and dont want to listen to any other viewpoint.Younger ppl we can explain but we are told not to talk back to elders even when they are wrong.
Baba jani ap un bachho ko bhi tarbiyat kar rahe h jinke maa,baba nhi h .....Bahot bahot shukirya baba jani......
@Professor Javed Iqbal sir, Great job.. Love from Indians!
Dr. Sahib ki Baat bilkul sahih hai. Baat mushkil toh zaroor hai magar na-mumkin nahin. Develop lots of self-control and patience to handle or deal with rude people! Good nuskha Dr. Sahib, it has worked for me, always!
سوال دہرانہ اچھا سامع ہونے کی نشانی ہے۔ بہت خوب 🌷
I am intern from the oldest Medical college in Asia and patient burden here is too much and they get abusive and angry sometime. This is very much helpful professor.
Sir your voice is amazing & energetic.
From India.
I have learned a lot sir... U r great... Allah rabbul alamin, Aap ka hayat daraz kare... Aise Doctor hr zagah hona chahiye.... I love u sir... Isi tarah aap ham sab ko motivated karte rahiye.. the more I watch yr videos, the more I am amazed... Such a great personality... . Love from Kolkata, India...
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Asalam O Alekum sir ap looks suna Bohat he acha laga ap life avaz fit on ur peranality . Mera aik bets hen or main us ki achi tabiyat hrna charti hun but I m Singal mother doing job and many many broblems pls help me like ur perfect adviceses and opinion . I wann talk to u please please
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@professor Dr Javed Iqbal, My experience is different. If you are dealing with an abuser, that doesnt work. For instance if your spouse is a bully and try to intimidate you perceiving you are vulnerable, you have to stand up against it right away and stop them AS SOON AS they start. Your voice should be stern and should not quietly listen to their threats. My father used to threat my mother, she used to live in fear, he would always yell and scream and all of us would be quite in fear. The day my mother stood up against him and shouted more than he did, he completely changed and mellowed down
@Usama Fayyaz , The language u used, the personal attacks u made and the tone u showed in your comment PROVES my point.
If u want more proof, Look at the gender ratio in prison cells around the world . 95% of inmates are men and only 5% are women. What does it tell you?
It is because men , "in general", are more likely to be violent and bring harm to other human beings as compare to women. There are always exceptions though.
So the proof is in the pudding
@@just_a_woman-h9s You're right . Gandi zubaan istemal krke baat krne walay ki koi baat theek ho hi nai sakti . Jisko yeh nahi pta ke baat karne ka konsa tareeqa sahi hai aur konsa ghalat . Usko baaki mamlo mai sahi ghalat ki tafreeq kese hogi . Bura ikhlaaq hamare Khuda ko shadeed na psand hai. May Allah forgive us for all our sins .
@@aabikhan3492 u r right.
You are perfectly correct! It’s so difficult to be the more intelligent one all the time, because it seems the majority of humans are not responsible, accountable, or in other words, aggressors😳
Wow first time I have known that what's the difference between response and react?!!! Hats off to you.....
Sir. Amazed by ur voice and way of talking. Excellent
i wish he was my professor for life mashallh so much knowledge and wisdom Allah lambi zindagi de kamyab rakhe
Bilkul yahi bat hai sir 💯 times such kaha apne Sir apka shukriya javed sir Allah apko mahfooz rakhhe
A, a Jazakalakhair Sir very good information...
Sir this is sheer brilliance!! Totally relatable! May Allah make immense barakah in your knowledge! May Allah bless you!
You are psychologist sir 🗿🗿🗿I wish you have always happy 😊😊😊😊and lot love from India
You are brilliant Sir. I am listening you from past 2 days. And during this time when ever i have opened youtube, i have just listened your videos. You have another fan in your bucket sir. Love you ❤
You are great Sir
Thanks sir ! Now I finally understand how to deal with rude and anger..This is so much helpful..Sir really you are a best teacher.
Mashallha Bhaut acchi or logically baat samjhayi h aapne ... lots of love from india🇮🇳
Sir you are great... Allah Pak apko bht kmyabi, izzt or tarqqi dn.. Aameen
Jazakallah sir.100% true for best life,thank u.
Subhan Allah
Jazak Allahu khairan kaseera
Sir itna cool suggestion dia ha ap na
Wisdom k sath solve krna.
JazakaAllah sir
We forget all these lessons when we are in a row. The anger overwhelms, as always. May one day we overwhelm our anger!
Try to understand what anger really is, and your anger will disappear. Knowingly, why would you like to make yourself a fool?
Amazing words with Amazing style. GREAT 👍👍
Respected sir it will help me alot to
Over come from my daily trifles.
Very well said sir.....this will help me out in dealing with phd supervisor....
Jazakallaah
السلام و علیکم
ڈاکٹر جاوید اقبال صاحب بہت ہی اچھے ڈاکٹر ہونے کے ساتھ ساتھ بہت ہی اچھے انسان ہیں
اللہ تعالی لمبی زندگی اور تندرستی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثمہ آمین
Is he a general doctor?
You are my inspiration Sir.. I keep learning alot towards my attitude grooming and personality development ! Huge respect from the core of my heart !💗
Dr.u r amazing ur way of explaining is fantastic
Kind person......awlaaa tarbyeat parents ki......dr and good humanbieng.....doing good work
Thanks god youtube came so we can listein your precious teachings 😊👍👍👍
Great explanation. Just to let you know your voice sounds exactly young "Amitab Bachchan" trust me you're a great teacher and speaker
U r so right he sounds like amitab sir
I don't think so... although his voice modulation is very good. Quality voice.
Janab, i love listening to your words of wisdom.
India loves you.
بہت سیکھنے کو ملا اس وڈیو سے ۔۔۔ اللہ آپکو جزا دے آمین
Bht bht bht hi pyare andaz me btaya apne .. Allah apko kamiyabi de
Rude people maybe disturb or stubborn from inside or self, lack of love or lack of emotional support.
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Zabardast.. I learnt a lot from you sir but I can like this video just once. Motivational speaker Masha Allah.
Allah apko sehat wali lmbi umr de ameen
Sir agar woh toxic banda jhootay ilzam laga raha ho woh bhi 10 Bandon ke samnay. Woh arrogant plus jealous ho. Agar woh apni bakwas kar ke bhag jaey to phir kia karain.
sir boht achi bty apki jo mei bachpn sy esi hi ajtk ap ny meri zuban izhar kr rhy boht kushi hui
You are a great prrson..... great explaination... voiceway of talking and teaching....awesome...
May Allah always keep you blessed with health n joy. I respect you big brother..your intelligent advice always helps!
My first comment.I dont think you area medical doctor. I have never seen such a polite and intellectual doctor ever. I wish you every doctor adopt his atitude. Keep it up sir.
Every dr is like this also ... it’s all due to attendants jo drs se ulajhtay hain
@@a4fun672 Not every dr with apology. Some dr are too rude and impolite they even dont know thr abc of etiquettes
All the attitudes of a society are linked like a web. Where else do u see politeness and respectful attitude in our society; so doctors r no different.
@@a4fun672 not true!
Gul Zameen, why do you write that you don't think Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a medical Doctor?? I don't understand. On what basis do you say this? Look up his qualifications and credentials on the internet. After reading them let me know if you don't understand anything. In some parts of the World (outside Pakistan/Indian) Doctors are exactly like Prof Iqbal. I'm guessing you live in Pakistan?
Absolutely Right it's experience also I felt something very nice idea thank you so much sir
MashAllah xubr10 Sir G you are Great men and Honestly speaking.
May Allah bless you with highest rewards ameen please....continue to help the..makhluq of Allah.. ..جزاك الله خير
Sir ur videos r so impressive I try to change myself n working on myself by hearing ur videos hats of to u
نااہلی خوف کا باعث ہوتی ہے ، خوف غصے کا باعث ہوتا ہے
JazakAllaho khaira
Learned a wealth of information today.Thanks.
Great wording Masha Allah ❤
So true
JAZAK ALLAH
Great Explanation
Incompetency leads to fear and fear leads to anger ....
Beautiful. I'll definitely try this 🌟
Sir me apka ehsan adaa nhi kar sakta.
Meri life apki wjah sy change ho gae hai.
Ap please kuch na kuch uplaod krty raha kren.
Mein daily apka koi na koi lecture sun k sota hun or phr next day usko implement krta hun khud py.
Allah apko sehat dy.
I love you so much
I always learn alot from u sir..ALLAH nay ap ke awaz mai asar rakha hai...i never got bore while listening
I m from India,my name is rahima perween and i m a research scholar in education,i m married having two small kids. I always listen and see your videos.You are so nice person sir. Your way of convincing is amazing and wonderful sir.
Sir Allah ap ko zindagi day amin bohat ma'am ki batain hoti Han
Alhamdulillah sir aajkal main bhi aise hi kar rahin hoon. Aap to bilkul mere bade mamujaan hain. Allah aapko donon ko salaamat rakhe. Aameen .
Sir u are just like psychologist... Great job sir... (Kashmiri)
Allah bless you
Sir your voice and your thoughts are amazing 🙏
Aoa dr javade, i like your affective videos, i listen every day, the way u deliver is Awesome 👏.
Plz this is my request plz explain some effective videos about that Husband,
Who has some pyhsical problem,
And he was very smart in earning money, his inlaws helped him many times, but when he is in depration mood in 2times in a year for 2 nd 3 months, since last 10 years his children are very good nd sporting economically,
But with all blessings his easy victem is wife he humilated her just for notjing, she is also now 54,
What should she do, everypwrson has some pysical problem,
Plz plz deliver some video about this kind of husband
Beautiful words of wisdom
Zabardast .sir u r really great teacher
A very practical advice. Respect your thoughts and view point ...
I wish i heard it 18teen years before..
Gr8 Sir. Dhanyawaad
Bhot shaandar ...thank you very much sir..
Asalaam alaikum Dr Javed i really enjoy listening to you its so real and very good learning
Thanks a lot. I have learned a great deal. This video changed my perception of many things and made me more positive.
Dr sb very big fan of U sir ❤
Maa Sha Allah
Thank you sir JazakAllah
REALLY GREAT SIR YOUR WORD ARE REALLY WORTH AND HEART TOUCHING RAJEEV BIHAR INDIA
Sir! App bilkul theek kah rahy hn. Me apny husband k saat b aesaa hi karti hun.kabi unky sat badtemezi nahi ki jab wo ghusy me ho nd due to this he loves me alot.
Thank u so much sir for guidelines
Jawed sahab jo reasoning aapney Dee hay yeh simple hay agar agey wala jahaalath ki intehaaa pay ajayyeh who app ki mother sister brothers ho to kaisey handle karain it’s like simple conflict we face terrible people in life how to handle them thanks 😊
جزاک اللّہ
بعینہٖ یہی صورت ھوتی ھے ۔
اللہ ہماری مدد فرمائیں ۔
boht hii bakmall treeka btya h dr sahb ne
Very nice message
Right sir ye to he apni efforts jo apne bas me he
Ma sha allah sir boht acha way diya ma ap sy lecture sy bht kch seekhti ho
Jazakallhu khair ..from india -vaniyambadi
Very nice Docter Sahib
Salam walequm sir ji
Very good speech delivery 👌👌👌🌷🌷🌷🇮🇳🇵🇰
Excellent sir u r doing well..very informative video ..ur videos should be viral on every social networking media to people know about what to do or not and change their ..mindset
Excellent perfect sir
Very genuine advice.
Zabardast very nice way of illustration
thank you, sir, I am not perfect but this is generally the way I tackle such people and you just boosted my morale that I am doing the right thing.
Great video Sir stay blessed
Excellent verrrry excellent... idea... The more I'm watching you the more I'm amazed on you... :)
Very nice information sir
Sir you are Simply AMAZING! 🌹
How to deal with elders,who are stubborn and rude and dont want to listen to any other viewpoint.Younger ppl we can explain but we are told not to talk back to elders even when they are wrong.
.. Is concept koy may bohot dinose choss raha tha..U make it clear sir!..Thank u very much..
Love from Bangladesh!!!
Love from India.
Ashutosh Gupta.
You are great 👍 you teaching great way of life style proper very well sir
Greatly appreciated sir stay blessed sir amazing...