My Mother Left The Children At My Doorstep Because I Moved Out From Her, So I Called The Police...
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- My Mother Left The Children At My Doorstep Because I Moved Out From Her, So I Called The Police...
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Any confrontational phone calls: pretend you are cutting out and only texts are going through. Then screen shot all for court later.
That's actually decent advice
Or install a recording app on the phone so you can record calls, though depending on the state you might have to notify the other party
Thanks for the tip
@@jayewrite1256 That's where SMS recording is better. I'd see that as the loophole through that.
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Tell Dad that HE needs to man up and stop fathering children that neither he nor your mother want to raise themselves. If he'd had a vasectomy years ago, you would never have been burdened with so many kids.
Calling the police was a bold move, but it shows how serious the situation became.
basically he was in a abusive home, got out, making bank and his parents meanwhile are starting up drama left and right as if its a giant chocolate fountain. bloody hell..
what in the uncle sam are those parents even doing raising kids in the first place? makes me wish emotional and mental abuse would be considered abuse in the eyes of the law.
legally speaking in most places if serious enough and proven by a psych eval to be detrimental to the child emotional and mental abuse of a severe enough nature it can be treated just as harsh legally as physical abuse the problem is it is so hard to prove.
@@lordsathariel4384I know for a FACT it is in my home state.
You should sue your parents saying it has made you depressed for saying you killed your unborn brother or sister
Trouble is; there's not alot he can get from them. They're rather poor and it will take away from his brothers and sisters.
@@Katarnstar but can’t he just take them in to his home
@@Katarnstar Doesn't matter, it would hit their credit and stay there for YEARS and financial judgement activity THEY caused CANNOT be discharged in bankruptcies AND he can garnish their wages
@@Biggamer1046 They are minors, he would have to petition the court if they didn't agree to sign them over, pay him child support which they WOULD owe
"Man up and help out" Ahh they aren't his kids..
You need a restraining order against them, this is harassment.
Tbh this whole saga could have been avoided if Op just blocked them as soon as he moved out.
But then there’d be no story and life would’ve been more boring.
I don't think that is an option cause he has 4 siblings who he likes to have contact with that still live with his parents. He only don't want to parent them. And these are the kind of lunatics that don't stop after blocking. He would have to leave town and get a new number to be away from them.
@@uwetheiss970 Likely would have had to leave the state actually.
@@josephmath1 Let us just leave the continent to be sure!
It's not always that easy. You still love them, but you resent them for being so self centered. Also, you siblings aren't to blame for your parents being so self centered and dense. Your siblings may go through the same thing you are when they decide to leave the house and you wanna be there for them cause you know how they are.
The hell they keep having kids they can't take care of for? I swear that's why ppl need to prove they can parent if they want kids. Ridiculous
There are things that I would like to say:
1. I feel bad for the baby.
2. I feel bad for the siblings.
3. and I feel bad for OP
Because what they all have in common is they have narcissistic parents from hell so I hope OPN his siblings can move on and the baby can go off to heaven 😔
Why would you need to babysit a 16 year old?
The story is probably fake, but apparently the parents had 5 kids, only the 2 youngest would need babysitting.
And 13 years old
They can be left home alone
@@zulaikagould9230 Yes, and they're the ones that are having the babysitting dumped on them now that OP has refused and proven that he's willing to call the cops over it. There are five kids, not including the miscarriage, the 16 and 13 year-olds are the two oldest after OP.
story could be fake but iv also found controlling people aren't good with change they didn't make so making OP look after them all again like when they were younger is probs less about needing to and more a power move on OP.
people like this are exhausting i thank god my family are lovely and all the narcissistic clowns iv dealt with are strangers I could axe socially.
@@lordsathariel4384 "babysitting a 16 year old" doesn't even happen in this story. People have misunderstood because they were half-listening and their minds grabbed onto the only numbers presented. The 16 and 13 year-olds are not the ones being babysat, they are the second- and third-oldest of a five-kid sibling group (and eventually got the babysitting dumped on them when OP proved he's willing to call the cops). The youngest siblings are the ones being babysat, but their ages aren't listed.
Even though the old song is a teen girl telling off her BF, I wish the OP had left his parents' house while whistling, "You Don't Own Me".
Appropriate song for real.
CPS should have been called regardless your parents are toxic
dad's poor balls got me laughing so hard
"He's in a neck brace with a broken nose and two lost teeth and who knows what else" probably no balls 💀 💀 💀
#1 why should they move back and pay rent while providing free babysitting services?
Well the parents needed to use protection clearly
It’s horrible when you have a shitty abusive childhood. No matter how much time goes along , you never forget it .
The turkey leg 😂😂
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Even though they are your siblings its not your problem . Why do people have kids if they are not interested in looking after them
I'm gobsmacked. Just cannot believe this actually happens in any family anywhere!😮
It does all the when your a Mexican my parents never put their foot down letting people family show up without calling first not respecting boundaries resources space time .
It happened with my nieces and their dad/stepmom 2 kids.
I wonder how my mother handled it when I, the oldest and my two oldest brothers, moved out. The last two were 15 and 12. Mom and dad were divorced by that time and dad had quit his job.
Unfortunately it really does. I know a family the son beats up on his dad and sometimes the mother. Awful n nuts.
Nta. Call cps. The children were abandoned. Mom needs to be put on a watch list and so does dad
You are not the monster. You are the hero. They cast you aside to lighten the load and tried to force you back, multiple times, to benefit them. Live well and try to keep your sibs within your purview. They will need it!❤
Give it up. Go no contact. Block them on the phone. Stop the interaction.
When you leave toxic family get your phone wiped and change your number.
CHILD NUMBER 6??!
Whether this story is true or not, people should never have children if they can’t afford nor have the time and energy to look after them. I honestly hate people like this.
The fact that the siblings rsn an inside joke how his balls were weak was the funny part in this story
A 13 and 16 year old don't need a babysitter!
There are 6 children. The oldest closest to OP are 16 and 13.
My God if this isn’t a perfect example of literally digging your own grave as far as the parents are concerned and then I don’t know what is honestly
What country are you not allowed to leave until you are 19YO? Most countries is 18 and some even younger.
They had four kids and only the older two were safe to leave alone but they didn’t want to babysit the younger two
I think Texas is 9 years old
Good for you for standing up for yourself. Your mom needs to be in jail for leaving your siblings at your door step. Sorry that your parents were awful to you and you deserve better.
I'm a Female , my "Father" tried to Physically fight me Once when I was in my mid-teens , he punched me once , with All his Lack of might , I barely felt it , I punched back (Gang Member back then , I liked to Hurt People) , and Broke his Nose , we NEVER had another fight.
I would have LOL after finding out, personally
OP and his eldest Siblings should report the Parents to CPS for Child Neglect and Child Abuse for forcing the older siblings to raise the younger ones...not to mention forcing OP out and abandoning his younger siblings at OP's doorsteps...
I would have...
And if his Parents actually Sue OP, he can easily Countersue for all the Abuse and Harassment they heaped on him over the years...
I'd go full No Contact with the Parents and only maintain contact with his Siblings to make sure they have the chance to get out when they turn 19...
There is nothing wrong with spending time with siblings, but it should not be forced. Being the eldest doesn't mean you have to put up with your narcissistic parents' abuse. The parents want to transfer their parenting responsibility on their son. Wow woo! When do they stop making babies that they can't look after. Beating up a parent shouldn't happen though. The younger siblings have poor role models unfortunately.
Nta. They stole from you. Call the cops and have them arrested.
having good parents is a blessing😁😄😃
If OP moves try getting a 2-3 bdr. This way your siblings can stay with you at 18 until they can make it on their own
God, I actually had a mother AND a sister like this. There were four of us, but one of my sisters was the only one my mother really cared about, which sucked as that sister became my one and only childhood bully and was so vicious she was forced by the courts to live in a group home for "troubled" teens and the age of 13!
Ahhhh nostalgia! 😬
14:07 got me rolling😂 I literally laughed out loud at the description of the dad's reactions.🤣🤣
I hang up while I'm talking and then don't answer the phone after that. Nobody thinks you're going to hang up on yourself!
...so because she kept popping out babies ... he's supposed to be responsible for that? Ma'am...you had them, you care for them
If this is real i wounder how the parents feel that now their shit is in the internet and that it'll never leave
*If There's Any New Updates, Please Upload A Video With The New Updates!*
"Why are you disrespecting me?!" while ofering No respect is so common.
Sometimes you have to be a monster to protect the ones you love but know this to the parents hes the monster to the siblings hes the hero it depends on the point of view of the person
If you don’t want to pay a fine for child abandonment, just don’t abandon your children??
Also, I don’t understand how the dad thought it was op’s fault the mum slipped and lost the baby because he wasn’t living with them. _She slipped,_ how was op being present in the house going to help? Plus she was the one who overslept while having a nap before a doctor’s appointment. Either set an alarm so you don’t oversleep when you know you have an appointment, or if you’re a heavy sleeper and would sleep through an alarm, make sure someone can wake you at the right time or just _don’t have a nap when you need to be somewhere at a specific time._
Where do these people get off? Why do they think they are in charge of a grown man and his activities and money? It's unreal.
The last thing your family needs is another child that they can't take care of.
My suggestion is to move and stop ALL communication with those 2!
Sir this got this far because of you!! You allowed them to keep taking to you, you kept going to them. No contact except with siblings when they’re 18.
Get a restraining order. You're lucky your landlord hasn't kicked you out for all the harrassment.
Those kinds of "parents" think of children as an investment.
dam he beet him up hard! also he should really teach his siblings how to fight when they move out, and they should where the boots he did
I like this new story it’s a lot different than what keeps getting rehashed with a few changes to change the story but in the end it’s the same story . Keep up the good work….
Sounds like an Asian family
And then everyone clapped
I will never understand people who believe in getting their wife pregnant or letting their husband get them pregnant, raising the first child up alone until that child is old enough to help ie. raise the rest of their siblings.
They believe they are actual parents and deserve to be respected as a man or woman of the house, instead of as people who roll around making the babies.
While barely making enough money to house and feed the children, they treat their older children as indentured servants, making them work and take their money.
It is heartbreaking to discover how many parents exploit their children, for time money, and or labor while insisting they are inferior and have no right to speak up for themselves.
They are grown enough to work and carry adult responsibilities yet never deserve respect as children or adults.
In my humble opinion, parents like this are hypocritical and want the title without the actual responsibilities.
"mAn Up AnD hElP oUt" Naw, that's all YOUR responsible. Should have called the police the first time she dropped them off.
Read the news paper or watch the newspaper. This crap happens everywhere. Tragic.
the irony is they made a "monster", but /s aside, if you resort to violence to parent then this is what you get more or less
Buddy, why in the world do you answer the phone and the door! You need to stop engaging with them forever!
13:00 and I can't stop laughing about the turkey leg 😂😂😂
Poor siblings
12:25 at least he won't have to worry about new kids 💀
Expect the unexpected, because life is full of surprises
This story is an old one. It’s been around a long time. I BET MONEY all the brothers are gone from the house and barely even try to talk to the parents. This is the most insane story BECAUSE the parents ACTUALLY BELIEVE they are in the right for this. That is the insane part to me. They are seriously MENTALLY ILL. Some of the worst parents I’ve read about on here. Just so flipping full of themselves. Dad sure learned a lesson about picking on his kid like that. What a loser. Can’t even afford the kids he made. The mom should close her legs
Lol, they should have left him alone.
When you leave home at 18 never stay in contact with any of your parents
I would invite you to put up some money for your ceiling but don't tell your parents about it just in case they need to escape from that house 💲💲💲
Feel sorry for the kids, and for the guy.
You are a strong young man. Im proud of you 😇
As an oldest daughter of an immigrant family i totaly get it they assume tour stuff life time and energy is theirs
The writing style felt very strange, and the narration felt weird, am I the only one who felt like something was off?
Nope, you weren’t
It’s AI generated, most of these stories use AI. Most real life people don’t type like that, like extremely proper sentences especially younger people.
@@uhhgreetings1954 Yes sometimes I write using big words like this but I don't repeat words and phrases .. And use out of place idioms that are strange so I guess that's how you identify AI currently
If your mom can't leave 2 teens home, she and your father truly failed as parents. You should go no contact. Your parents are crazy!
16yo don't need a babysitter, they Are babysitters. I don't mind that these are all fiction, but ffs this is just stupid.
The story fell apart when OP went to question his parents and they rationally explained what happened to the baby. He wouldn't have done that and they wouldn't have behaved that way if he had. I call bullshit.
It's really easy to NOT have children
Baby sitting a 16 year old on a Saturday really is this true
Babysitting 16 yr old can't be true
@@user-mh9kv6bo4w He said that he had 4 siblings. Two were dropped of, so I am figuring that it was the youngest two.
@@ixitaryup
VDJ genja wait?
😂
Down Syndrome
Some cannot even escape the house due to emotional attachment...
They keep popping out kids without any desire to take care of any of them. Why is CPS not evolved??
Great story. It had the violence, shame, and no divorce, lol.
How is this man working 6 day weeks yet magically he's home every time someone arrives at his apartment, always has time for extensively long phone calls out of the blue and is apparently permanently walking around in steel toecap boots.
At no point in this story do any of the other 4 siblings some of who are all teens or close to being adults say nothing or not intervene in any way? But just call him a boss because he kicked their dad in the balls at dinner?
Do people expect others to believe this stuff?
How long are these parents working since they need a 13 and 16 year old to be taken care of?
There were two YOUNGER CHILDREN.
@@jeancassup8878 Oh thanks😁
I would say @#$* it and move out of state and drop everyone's number, permanently. Having a baby at that age is NOT a good idea.
Time to block their numbers (or get a new number) and move without leaving a forwarding address. Nobody needs this kind of drama.
A 13 and 16 year old needs a babysitter still??
As a millennial, I was looking after myself at age 10, lol
Why do people keep engaging with idiots? Don't take their calls. Do not answer the door. Do not engage! I don't know if OP just loves the continuing drama, or if it is just fun stretching out the revenge misery. But kudos for finally taking action! But why in the world would you go back to their house, ever?!? The siblings, even the teenagers, are still kids, who have had bad parents! The fact that you did sneak out the window makes absolutely no difference. They abandoned their kids at your door, even after you told them that you had to work. They really expected OP to call off work to watch their kids. Please, STOP letting them into your home. STOP answering the phone when they call. Nothing will ever get better. You have the video footage, so if he sues you, it should be a walk in the park. Of course, it will cost you money for a lawyer. People need to learn that, if you can't afford to take care of your kids, or if you can't physically care for them, then DON'T have them! People need to stop forcing their older children to parent younger siblings. It should be called Duggar Syndrome. Your mom slipped on a toy and fell? Of course it was your fault: YOU were not there to clean up, LOL!
13 and 16 year olds can take care of themselves.
Is no one gonna talk about there is a 16 year-old there who would babysit a 16-year-old
Should have cut the call when the first time the parents started yelling and everytime they did.
Not the balles 😂😂😂😂😂
10:00 “how was I supposed to know that?” He legit told you he could only babysit on Sundays because that was his only day off
13:21 NUMBER 6?!?
If you are already having trouble with parenting your kids you have now why would you have more if you can’t take care of Them.
the siblings can leave at 18 they don't have to wait till 19 in most cases I think there's only like two states that make you wait till 19 Alabama and Nebraska
The child that showed the parents the Reddit account is an op
That’s a insult to mom 💀
Going No contact get your phone number changed and block the family.
Why didn't the guy just block his parents' phone number is what I don't understand.
S1 Mensa candidate OP moves out and rents an apartment minutes away. Brilliant.
This OP makes butter knives look sharp!
Guy mentions riding a mountain bike to work and parents house. I don't think he can just move states without saving up first.