I agree. West and Jesse are both f-boys but at least with Jesse, he wears it on his sleeve so there are no surprises. West is the worst type of f-boy that destroys you because he presents as a nice guy and you feel safe to lower your guard down. You then don't realize what he is until it's too late 😭
Love this recap! It's great to hear a male perspective for this show. I really don't understand why Ciara is putting up with this non-commital behavior from men like Austen and West. West reminds me of some of the other doctor's kids I used to grow up with who have arrested development due to growing up somewhat affluent. My bf and I also grew up with physicians as parents but we're both pursuing doctoral degrees (I'm American born and he moved here to NYC after growing up in Europe). I was able to find an amazing man here in the city who doesn't have commitment issues so why is Ciara - an educated nurse and literal Victoria's Secret model - allowing these men to hurt her?? No shade to Austen and West but there are way more successful and hotter guys here who would love the chance to take her out. I don't get it. She needs to look outside of reality tv guys and try dating a doctor or finance bro instead!
Linsday just doesn't know when to stop until she gets so angry she walks away. Carl wants peace at any cost because he's trying to manage his sobriety. They are a toxic combination, so thank goodness Carl was willing to do the difficult thing and break up.
I think Lindsay wishes Carl felt the same urgency Wes did when he didn’t have a job. She was probably losing respect but didn’t want to face it. She’s thinking he is going to get serious about this soon and it won’t be a problem anymore.
Rhoslc most people now only care about things when it directly impacts them, especially those with money. Jen didn’t scam them, so they were fine filming w/her. Monica embarrassed them. Their ego’s are impacted. So they’re clutching their pearls.
I'm pushing for the Kyle takedown: his stranglehold over the show, its cast and production to push Loverboy, cancel and lies about those who chose to sign up with other drink companies, not paying any of the cast to promote, advertise and drink the product on screen and on socials and holding Amanda back from her own dreams is unfair and unkind. Look what happened to Hannah, she joined another drink company and he went out of his way to ruin her. Lindsay wanting for Carl to ask questions about the new position was for this very reason as well. Team Craig. I hate Kyle.
L O L, you guys literally just got done saying that certain shows like summer house work because they are genuinely friends not coworkers forced to work together… Then you say they should have Monica back on Salt Lake and force her to film with everybody and it will be great! No critique, just totally entertained and I agree with you 100%🤣😊
I don’t care if Paige wants to be independent. A lot of times when people criticize the way Paige treats Craig you get called a misogynist. Shes being selfish- she knows what Craig wants is not what she wants. I want her to stop holding him hostage!! She also has a belittling tone when she speaks about him 24/7. It’s too rude, sorry. It’s just not nice
But 4real couldn't you also say Craig knows that what he wants isn't what Paige wants? How come he's not selfish? I think they only reason they're stuck in their LDR is bc they both have clear and understandable reasons for not wanting to move...
What if the tables were turned and you had a young guy with a successful job in this city and his gf wanted him to give it all up to move down south and start making babies? (Oh wait just realized that's Amanda 🤣) We've seen multiple househusbands that kept apartments in the city where their business is based and they didn't get a fraction of the criticism 🤷🏼♀️ ...ok done ranting lol
@@bluecrashstarright..they would NEVER ask a man in New York to move to the South and leave his family and the center of his career to be a husband lol.
@bravobros obv Monica should be back but you guys previously said she cant and shouldn't come back, what was the change of heart? I feel like you both agreed on that after Salt Lake ended. I live Monica she's relatable and beautiful and brings such a different element to the show. I used to love Heather but she seems a bit full of herself now. So sad!!!!!!
I think Monica got a bad wrap. She is clearly frozen in her teenage years emotionally. The dumpster fire that is her relationship with her mother was TV gold. I even think they could pull off their own show.
I just started watching Summer House and omg, Danielle and Lindsay are such pick me girls lmao they will defend the men at all costs 🙄 Also, don’t even get me started with Carl being incapable of saying “women” instead of “females”, and that’s all I need to know about his brand of masculinity (huuuge ick) LMAO
I can’t stand people singing, either. I fast forwarded thru Jesse Solomon singing. I’m sure it was great. Wish I wasn’t this way but here we are. Got you, Shoots.
Let me ask this question. Do you think that Carl doesn’t feel supported enough in his sobriety and rebuilding his life as a sober person and Lindsay not having the experience or compassion for someone going through that life change? It’s sad because the love they had for each other as people is now destroyed and became toxic.
Ah, but there's the loophole. Cast members are "independent contractors" not employees. So they have language in the contracts that they sign each season that give the cast a certain amount of discretion. It's also to keep them safe: you don't want a production company forcing them into an unsafe or dangerous situation.
I disagree with Monica being on Salt Lake City, she was a fan of the show, a lier and can’t be trusted. Monica has no authentic friendships with any of the ladies prior to her being on the show. Miami and Beverly Hills are my favorite franchises.
12:17 This wasn't what happened like at all though. 😭 West never said he would invite Ciara to meet his family tomorrow BUT they aren't having sex. This is why last week was so important to discuss. 😭 He invited her to his home. For thanksgiving. For Halloween. Unquestionably. It was Ciara who told him NO. CIARA did that. 😭😄
What are you even talking about? He literally said he would invite her to Thanksgiving if it was tomorrow, but then followed it up with a word salad where he said that he's scared of commitment and that he can't stop speaking to other girls. Of course she said no, because he is giving her mixed signals. How do you invite someone to meet your parents but then say you refuse to stop speaking to other girls. That doesn't make sense?!
@@FernandoLopez-cf1kw ?. Did he invite her to his home for Halloween and talk about her visiting without any caveats? Are we actually disagreeing though?
spot on shooter @Bravbros that's exactly why West isn't committing and that's ok. He has so many options now n he's cute I do however like Ciara and do hope it works. Interatrial relationships make the cutest babies
I agree. West and Jesse are both f-boys but at least with Jesse, he wears it on his sleeve so there are no surprises. West is the worst type of f-boy that destroys you because he presents as a nice guy and you feel safe to lower your guard down. You then don't realize what he is until it's too late 😭
Completely agree! I had had a glimmer of hope for him at beginning of season, but the last 2 episodes extinguished it. F-Boy. The scariest kind too.
West has commitment issues. He said that to his Great Aunt and to Jesse. Ciara should move on and they can just be friends.
Love this recap! It's great to hear a male perspective for this show. I really don't understand why Ciara is putting up with this non-commital behavior from men like Austen and West. West reminds me of some of the other doctor's kids I used to grow up with who have arrested development due to growing up somewhat affluent. My bf and I also grew up with physicians as parents but we're both pursuing doctoral degrees (I'm American born and he moved here to NYC after growing up in Europe). I was able to find an amazing man here in the city who doesn't have commitment issues so why is Ciara - an educated nurse and literal Victoria's Secret model - allowing these men to hurt her?? No shade to Austen and West but there are way more successful and hotter guys here who would love the chance to take her out. I don't get it. She needs to look outside of reality tv guys and try dating a doctor or finance bro instead!
Completely agree with Shoots. I feel so uncomfortable when people randomly sing at parties
Best season of Summerhouse yet.
Amanda definitely signed up for the lifestyle and cameras with Kyle
I love the Jesse Solomon song and have been singing it all weekend. It’s moments like this that make me like SummerHouse 😊
I agree! At first I was cringing and then I loved it! And it's an ear worm. 😊
I feel awkward also when people start singing unless at a concert lol
Linsday just doesn't know when to stop until she gets so angry she walks away. Carl wants peace at any cost because he's trying to manage his sobriety. They are a toxic combination, so thank goodness Carl was willing to do the difficult thing and break up.
🙏🏽💯💯
I think Lindsay wishes Carl felt the same urgency Wes did when he didn’t have a job. She was probably losing respect but didn’t want to face it. She’s thinking he is going to get serious about this soon and it won’t be a problem anymore.
oh no not West! maybe he has bigger better syndrome. he's keeping his options open because he thinks he can do better than Ciarra. which is crazy!
He has daddy issues like Ciara. I’m confident his father treats him like he is incompetent (I.e. sending instructions on how to lead a horse).
Rhoslc most people now only care about things when it directly impacts them, especially those with money. Jen didn’t scam them, so they were fine filming w/her. Monica embarrassed them. Their ego’s are impacted. So they’re clutching their pearls.
I'm pushing for the Kyle takedown: his stranglehold over the show, its cast and production to push Loverboy, cancel and lies about those who chose to sign up with other drink companies, not paying any of the cast to promote, advertise and drink the product on screen and on socials and holding Amanda back from her own dreams is unfair and unkind. Look what happened to Hannah, she joined another drink company and he went out of his way to ruin her. Lindsay wanting for Carl to ask questions about the new position was for this very reason as well. Team Craig. I hate Kyle.
Re the ‘singing’ situation; I think the term you’re looking for is ‘second hand embarrassment’. You’re certainly not alone, a lot of us get it!
L O L, you guys literally just got done saying that certain shows like summer house work because they are genuinely friends not coworkers forced to work together… Then you say they should have Monica back on Salt Lake and force her to film with everybody and it will be great! No critique, just totally entertained and I agree with you 100%🤣😊
I don’t care if Paige wants to be independent. A lot of times when people criticize the way Paige treats Craig you get called a misogynist. Shes being selfish- she knows what Craig wants is not what she wants. I want her to stop holding him hostage!! She also has a belittling tone when she speaks about him 24/7. It’s too rude, sorry. It’s just not nice
If you're still watching SH & you can't tell when Paige is being sarcastic/joking I honestly feel bad for you 😅
But 4real couldn't you also say Craig knows that what he wants isn't what Paige wants? How come he's not selfish? I think they only reason they're stuck in their LDR is bc they both have clear and understandable reasons for not wanting to move...
What if the tables were turned and you had a young guy with a successful job in this city and his gf wanted him to give it all up to move down south and start making babies? (Oh wait just realized that's Amanda 🤣) We've seen multiple househusbands that kept apartments in the city where their business is based and they didn't get a fraction of the criticism 🤷🏼♀️ ...ok done ranting lol
@@bluecrashstar 😂😂 we have different opinions and that’s okay.
@@bluecrashstarright..they would NEVER ask a man in New York to move to the South and leave his family and the center of his career to be a husband lol.
@bravobros obv Monica should be back but you guys previously said she cant and shouldn't come back, what was the change of heart? I feel like you both agreed on that after Salt Lake ended. I live Monica she's relatable and beautiful and brings such a different element to the show. I used to love Heather but she seems a bit full of herself now. So sad!!!!!!
I think Monica got a bad wrap. She is clearly frozen in her teenage years emotionally. The dumpster fire that is her relationship with her mother was TV gold. I even think they could pull off their own show.
I just started watching Summer House and omg, Danielle and Lindsay are such pick me girls lmao they will defend the men at all costs 🙄 Also, don’t even get me started with Carl being incapable of saying “women” instead of “females”, and that’s all I need to know about his brand of masculinity (huuuge ick) LMAO
I can’t stand people singing, either. I fast forwarded thru Jesse Solomon singing. I’m sure it was great. Wish I wasn’t this way but here we are. Got you, Shoots.
Jersey is so toxic i stopped watching waitijg for dubai
Let me ask this question. Do you think that Carl doesn’t feel supported enough in his sobriety and rebuilding his life as a sober person and Lindsay not having the experience or compassion for someone going through that life change? It’s sad because the love they had for each other as people is now destroyed and became toxic.
Shooter - how do you handle karaoke bars (it’s literally a bar for singing)?? 😂😂😂
Just because Steel can split a hair, infinitely, for 3-4 hours doesn't mean he always should...
Missed last weeks episode- is it podcast only? Can’t find it!
If Craig can open a store here in Nashville, and not live here, why can’t he have a store in Charlotte, and not live there?
Charleston. Because people travel there to see all things Southern Charm and Craig is the face of his brand.
I don't know why bravo let them dictate what they will do. They are the employee .
Ah, but there's the loophole. Cast members are "independent contractors" not employees. So they have language in the contracts that they sign each season that give the cast a certain amount of discretion. It's also to keep them safe: you don't want a production company forcing them into an unsafe or dangerous situation.
I disagree with Monica being on Salt Lake City, she was a fan of the show, a lier and can’t be trusted. Monica has no authentic friendships with any of the ladies prior to her being on the show. Miami and Beverly Hills are my favorite franchises.
Carl and Kyle remind me of the Tom"s. I said what i said.
Been a year has it not
12:17 This wasn't what happened like at all though. 😭 West never said he would invite Ciara to meet his family tomorrow BUT they aren't having sex. This is why last week was so important to discuss. 😭 He invited her to his home. For thanksgiving. For Halloween. Unquestionably. It was Ciara who told him NO. CIARA did that. 😭😄
We discussed last week. It’s on last weeks episode
What are you even talking about? He literally said he would invite her to Thanksgiving if it was tomorrow, but then followed it up with a word salad where he said that he's scared of commitment and that he can't stop speaking to other girls. Of course she said no, because he is giving her mixed signals. How do you invite someone to meet your parents but then say you refuse to stop speaking to other girls. That doesn't make sense?!
@@bravbrospodcast I cannot find it. 😭I'll keep looking. You all are my favorite podcast. Only one I depend on for Summerhouse breakdowns. 🍻
@@FernandoLopez-cf1kw ?. Did he invite her to his home for Halloween and talk about her visiting without any caveats? Are we actually disagreeing though?
Busting out in song is a douche move, doesnt matter what the reason.
Solomon*
spot on shooter @Bravbros that's exactly why West isn't committing and that's ok. He has so many options now n he's cute I do however like Ciara and do hope it works. Interatrial relationships make the cutest babies