Does Physical Attraction Really Matter? | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • @audienceofone9842
    @audienceofone9842 Рік тому +33

    Heyyyy!!!!
    It’s not so much of the theme for me, it’s the way Pst M corrects Pst K every so often, and him taking the corrections with ease is so ooooooo golden.
    Men, humble yourselves and receive correction so that your growth will be limitless. Not just with communication, but with every part of your personal life’s journey.
    Even you will love your growth.
    Bless you!❤️❤️❤️

  • @PurposefulRelationship
    @PurposefulRelationship Рік тому +35

    This has been very mind transforming. "Be rigid on the internals and flexible on the externals"🔥 Thank you PK and PM

  • @oktina5944
    @oktina5944 Рік тому +12

    Pastor is right, it took my man a lot to get me into accepting him, I knew he was a good man but he's not tall, I'm taller than him. I thank God I saw other more important aspects of him, to the glory of God we are still happy together.

  • @agathaunoma6980
    @agathaunoma6980 Рік тому +8

    The friendship between the couple has made this presentation so beautiful.
    Well done Pastors K & M.

  • @ejuraabu1382
    @ejuraabu1382 Рік тому +4

    It's the friendship, jokes, Pastor M correcting /interrupting Pastor K with her side talks. So beautiful to watch. You can tell they like each other and enjoy each other even when not in front of a camera.

  • @patriciaegbuna5125
    @patriciaegbuna5125 Рік тому +3

    A movie should be made on how you both grew up and met

  • @mtdofficial2466
    @mtdofficial2466 Рік тому +1

    "Be rigid on the internal and flexible on the outside"

  • @Achristiangirljournal
    @Achristiangirljournal Рік тому +10

    Is the honesty for me👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You guys are really a blessing to our generation. 🎉 we celebrate you sir & ma 🙏🏾

  • @Amakamedia
    @Amakamedia Рік тому +7

    Let’s not limit attraction to physical. There is more to attraction - intelligence, values, relationship with God. I really enjoyed watching this. Love you guys! 💛

    • @angyjoseph6438
      @angyjoseph6438 Рік тому

      Exactly my point. Attraction is beyond the physical. The person's character, intelligence, kindness, patience, a considerate person, caring, a good sense of humour, jovial, respectful and most importantly a forgiven heart. Above all, having a relationship with God!

    • @Harvest_Michael
      @Harvest_Michael Рік тому

      For the context of this video, they're dealing on physical attraction.
      Check the topic to understand better.
      Peace.✌🏽😊

  • @cassandrakwakye5941
    @cassandrakwakye5941 Рік тому +2

    I honestly love the rapport between Pastor K and Pastor M! Effortless! This is what it means when they say “your person”. I’m enjoying this video and also this is one kind of love and friendship I pray for. So delightful to see ❤. God bless you both !

  • @gbengaomoyeni4
    @gbengaomoyeni4 Рік тому +7

    Hmm.... be RIGID in the internal but be FLEXIBLE in the external. It is always better to get along than get around. This is quite insightful. Many thanks.

  • @euniceamafosuaaaddae9425
    @euniceamafosuaaaddae9425 Рік тому +3

    The friendship😂 and everything! This is my Testimony in Jesus name🤲🔥

  • @perfectezegbulem3181
    @perfectezegbulem3181 Рік тому +3

    The funny thing is that he was concerned about her weight not knowing that he was going to put on so much more 😂. Lord by pass my emotions and give me what's best for me.

  • @comfortudoh4522
    @comfortudoh4522 Рік тому +4

    This video cracked me up. Mr. Shorts there is hope for you all😂😂😂

  • @kingdomtalk2526
    @kingdomtalk2526 Рік тому +3

    With all the busy schedules touring America and Canada, Pk and Pm still have time to answer questions on the mind of singles, you can hear how tired Pm sounds but still Mama and Papa keeps showing us it's not about a UA-cam channel but the opportunity to be a blessing to a generation. Thank you sir and Ma

  • @BecomingwithPB
    @BecomingwithPB Рік тому

    I wish I will find the kind of friendship and understanding you people have.
    So beautiful.

  • @treazie
    @treazie Рік тому +2

    I miss you guys so much my pastors close to my heart!!! This is help in due season!!! Cos my head strong like pastor M oh. But I will be calming down like Pastor K

  • @preyefubara9676
    @preyefubara9676 Рік тому +1

    There is ladder and stool 😂😂
    Got me laughing
    Thank you PK and PM. this was fun and enlightening

  • @raymondushie8163
    @raymondushie8163 Рік тому +3

    Pst. K has a very valid point but I think he's a little bias & I understand why. Because pastor have a lot of singles come to them to pray for a life partner and this things overwhelmed them sometimes so you can see where the frustration & biases are coming from😊
    Physical attraction is important and it's wired into man Adam didn't find elephant or chimpanzee attractive but found eve attractive when he saw her, Isaac loved fair women so did Jacob. Fair" not dark.
    If you don't marry who you're attracted to you may not be completely happy in marriage & you'll most likely cheat in your mind anytime you see that kind that attracts you. You can find a good person whom you also find attractive. What you believe you will attract.

    • @oreballin
      @oreballin Рік тому

      "Fair" here I believe meant attractive. Not complexion. Lol

  • @busayo8514
    @busayo8514 Рік тому

    'You can't afford the cream" very funny.😂😂😂😂

  • @lovethbillions
    @lovethbillions Рік тому

    Am one of those that used to log out from a distance

  • @dunnitv8922
    @dunnitv8922 Рік тому +1

    Love the teaching thank you pastor And Mrs Kinglsey

  • @EBRITY
    @EBRITY Рік тому

    Investor pastor K😂😂😂, Bless you sir.

  • @princessnaomi5924
    @princessnaomi5924 Рік тому +2

    Be rigid with the internals and flexible with the external. I love you Pk and PM. Amen to the prayers ma’am.

  • @CeeClara
    @CeeClara Рік тому +2

    😂 comedy in the presence of the lord! Real talk with real experience
    Thank you Mr and Mrs K. Remain blessed

  • @providencemutah9868
    @providencemutah9868 Рік тому +2

    LOL PK said “who’s going to marry the short”😩😩😩😩😂😂😂😂😂
    I’m glad I didn’t let “he’s not that tall” deter me from meeting my perfect man. May God help us with discernment.
    P.S sending this to my friend who is struggling with making a decision 😩😩

  • @angyjoseph6438
    @angyjoseph6438 Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂I like the way pastor K said, you would have been moving about in Lagos. Oh dear!

  • @jenniferokafor3156
    @jenniferokafor3156 Рік тому +2

    Really changed my mindset.
    Does this also apply in situations where the woman is actually very short?won't marrying a short man,make things somehow, especially in respect to their children heights?

    • @aggiekisakye674
      @aggiekisakye674 Рік тому

      Hello. So there's this pastor I was listening to and he said something interesting. He said, you can pray your children into anything beyond genetics. Say, you have poor hair quality,you can pray your children into the best.
      So height of the partner shouldn't worry us and miss our LOMLs and other factors as well... Our children's genetics can be made in prayer 😊

  • @shamisoncube770
    @shamisoncube770 Рік тому

    ''.. that's where Psalm 91 comes in..''Ah!Pastor! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @OlabodeOluwapamilerin
    @OlabodeOluwapamilerin Рік тому +2

    This teaching just came at the right time, I'm blessed, Thank you PK and PM

  • @ericaekpang8818
    @ericaekpang8818 Рік тому +1

    There's hope for the short😂😂😂

  • @lydiaboafo
    @lydiaboafo 5 місяців тому

    😄👋👍💋👌 love is sweet ooo, I'm one of your subscribers watching from USA,🤩💖

  • @promisechinecherem8461
    @promisechinecherem8461 Рік тому +1

    I wish all young men will hear this. It’s as if the standards are changing in relationships.

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 Рік тому +1

    Pst K always have a way to sattle these issues oo.....'Be regit in the internal attributes and flexible on the outside" we received this!
    But also at times I just wonder to myself that 'mara God, what was difficult to have all these attributes in a tall dark handsome body? Like😅. I hope it's allowed to tease God.
    But I think God does this to keep us in humility so that we also know that we are not perfect either

  • @AjokeAdenimi
    @AjokeAdenimi Рік тому +1

    I watched this and blessed God for the gift of Mama and Papa (PK and PM).
    You are a blessing, Sir and Ma. I love the conversation; it's enlightening.

  • @dentaldiscjockey8405
    @dentaldiscjockey8405 Рік тому +1

    Love these two.❤.

  • @agatham9004
    @agatham9004 Рік тому

    These guys 😹😹😹😹😹 absolutely love the chemistry, honesty and humour between them.

  • @rosemaryumeh599
    @rosemaryumeh599 Рік тому

    Amen to the prayer at the end 🙏.
    What a wonderful couple.

  • @ekyessien570
    @ekyessien570 10 місяців тому

    This reminds me of when I met my husband and and I was like “but he's not fine ooo”. I had to change his looks. From hair and no beard to bald with a full beard man is so hot right now.😂😂

  • @mwanamrembo
    @mwanamrembo Рік тому +1

    Thank you and great closing prayer too. Simple and straight to the point.

  • @faithgaruba3302
    @faithgaruba3302 Рік тому

    Pastor K and the consistent use of ‘yellow girl’😂😂😂 what’s that ma 😂😂😂

  • @preciousakuetiemhe4155
    @preciousakuetiemhe4155 Рік тому

    I know this is not related but it was so funny when PM said 6packs is beer lol

  • @odafeaustinjohnson
    @odafeaustinjohnson Рік тому

    This was helpful..
    Thank You.

  • @blondellanoeli1080
    @blondellanoeli1080 Рік тому +3

    Always a blessing listening to you both. I always look forward to watching videos of you two intervening. Thank you so much and bless us with more videos

  • @dunnitv8922
    @dunnitv8922 Рік тому

    😂 pastor k is so funny...

  • @gracemartin8525
    @gracemartin8525 Рік тому

    It’s pastor Kingsley’s close up picture for me 😂

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 Рік тому

    One verse to help us renew the mind is in Samuel below..... At times it can be very hard to sattle with God's will (physically)for us,but if we know that God actually doesn't see as we see can be calming!
    But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
    I Samuel 16:7 NKJV

  • @Angelikah1
    @Angelikah1 Рік тому

    Pastor K your so funny!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @devgemmy
    @devgemmy Рік тому +1

    “But short wants you... why don’t you marry the short.... there’s hope for you Mr short”🤣🤣😹😹

  • @judetony5449
    @judetony5449 Рік тому

    Investor!! I love you Sir😁

  • @AbbyTheCreator_
    @AbbyTheCreator_ Рік тому

    Pastor K is funny 😂😂😂. Who will marry the short 😂

  • @preciousqueenchikezie9612
    @preciousqueenchikezie9612 Рік тому +1

    Lovely message with lot's of life lessons

  • @Kaluogbasa
    @Kaluogbasa Рік тому

    I thoroughly enjoyed you guys;as living example, your vibe and connection is real, admirable and heartfelt. Above all, you guys are on point - the internals are more important.
    Welldone👏

  • @priscythestar
    @priscythestar Рік тому

    God bypasss my emotions and do what's best for me

  • @onoshiovibes3802
    @onoshiovibes3802 Рік тому

    Thank God say I see tall wey match internal ooo. Thank You God😅

  • @davidsfaith3205
    @davidsfaith3205 Рік тому

    It was really helpful. Already sent this to my brother. We just had this conversation not so long ago.

  • @KingThompson1
    @KingThompson1 Рік тому

    Interesting episode... But the throwbacks are amazing though, it's surprising how people grow and change even in looks 😅

  • @ifeoluwafola7726
    @ifeoluwafola7726 Рік тому

    Beautiful watch. Thanks so much.🥳💜

  • @oluwatosinakinyemi8348
    @oluwatosinakinyemi8348 Рік тому +1

    It was really insightful. Thank you sir and ma

  • @ogundiranmartha4405
    @ogundiranmartha4405 Рік тому +3

    Get along is more important than getting aroused.

  • @raphaelnkemakonam5430
    @raphaelnkemakonam5430 Рік тому +1

    Don't judge a book by its cover

  • @primeworldmultiservices6431

    Thank you so much for this, please Can this be Live, so that people can Communicate their Minds, thank you sir.

  • @esther2991
    @esther2991 Рік тому +1

    Thank you PK and PM..
    insightful ❤

  • @NwachukwuAkachiFavour-eh4tk

    I agree with you ma.🥰

  • @promisechinecherem8461
    @promisechinecherem8461 Рік тому

    Kaiiii, God bless you both.
    This is an honest truth.

  • @Lovwynaomega
    @Lovwynaomega Рік тому

    Glory❤

  • @priscillaforson4944
    @priscillaforson4944 Рік тому

    😂😂, I love this message, God bless you both

  • @tessyogo6587
    @tessyogo6587 Рік тому +1

    Amen in Jesus name 🙏 🙌..

  • @lovethbillions
    @lovethbillions Рік тому

    This is so awesome

  • @AnnabelleT
    @AnnabelleT Рік тому

    All the shorts hailing PK now 👯👯👯👯👯

  • @favournwokoma4118
    @favournwokoma4118 Рік тому

    Always awesome and refreshing listening to you both. God bless you Pst. Okonkwo ❤

  • @Misschilaka
    @Misschilaka Рік тому

    Loved this ❤

  • @gideonebiyelama
    @gideonebiyelama Рік тому

    The teaching is beyond excellent. So blessed to come across this session.
    I love you both

  • @marie-alphascott5191
    @marie-alphascott5191 Рік тому

    God continue to blessed Pastor K & Pastor M for our generation! I love your honesty & real approach to issues..🙏🏿❤️

  • @jamesohanka4359
    @jamesohanka4359 Рік тому

    That was powerful PK & PM

  • @gloriaboakye-boateng6377
    @gloriaboakye-boateng6377 Рік тому

    Human beings are more than the external. Thanks a lot, PK and PM. It is a good nuggets for life. GOD bless you, and may GOD help me.

  • @clarissewehgee7796
    @clarissewehgee7796 Рік тому

    You would have been roaming around Lagos. Hahaha. That got me

  • @akosuabonti5448
    @akosuabonti5448 Рік тому +1

    This has been so helpful, God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M.

  • @aceighmedia
    @aceighmedia Рік тому

    Me short is watching 😅😅😅

  • @gloryapih5649
    @gloryapih5649 Рік тому

    This really blessed me

  • @deborahnartey7158
    @deborahnartey7158 Рік тому

    "Please what's wrong with flat nose"😂😂😂😂😂😂. Pastor, Sir, please we beg, you can't be asking this question 😂😂😂😂😅

  • @ndlilian
    @ndlilian Рік тому

    This is awesome 👍👍

  • @estherchinagorom4490
    @estherchinagorom4490 Рік тому

    All I can say is this piece is beyond excellent. Thank yo so much. ❤❤

  • @clarissewehgee7796
    @clarissewehgee7796 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing. God continue to bless you always.

  • @daviddika4973
    @daviddika4973 Рік тому

    This thing pained Pst. K sha😂 but may God help young Christians to major on the major and minor on the minor and not the other way around

  • @ayooloyin
    @ayooloyin Рік тому

    Was that my pastor? 😅, But the guy on spec 😎 na Idan 😂

  • @Masco2022
    @Masco2022 Рік тому

    Thanks so much for the wisdom I have learnt alot form your video

  • @agatham9004
    @agatham9004 Рік тому

    “The cow is still even outside alive and they cut the leg and brought it inside…” 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

  • @ritasoetan3457
    @ritasoetan3457 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @dafiewhareeseroghene7596
    @dafiewhareeseroghene7596 Рік тому

    Amen!

  • @dorcasansah78
    @dorcasansah78 Рік тому +1

    Pastor K what if the short guy looks youngrr than you. He looks like your younger brother because he is short?

    • @oreballin
      @oreballin Рік тому +1

      Hello.. Understandable. However, how he looks to you is the question here.
      If how he looks is more important than the qualities that make for a good husband ? The choice is yours to make.
      May God give you understanding.

  • @christellezame3833
    @christellezame3833 Рік тому +1

    Lol 😂 I love them

  • @boanergesolajesumayor7553
    @boanergesolajesumayor7553 Рік тому

    Mildred your voice change o, are u a voice changer ma😂😂

  • @sinegugucele4878
    @sinegugucele4878 Рік тому

    There is hope for Mr Short😂

  • @Masco2022
    @Masco2022 Рік тому

    How can I get you I have a personal question I need some advice

  • @victorpromise8819
    @victorpromise8819 Рік тому

    The more you look like God basically, you begin to think like God. Men look outwardly, God sees the inside.

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Рік тому

    Physical attraction matters ooo😅

  • @adegoketinuola8277
    @adegoketinuola8277 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂

  • @mbahblanche
    @mbahblanche Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂pst k

  • @enechojovictoria41
    @enechojovictoria41 Рік тому

    Amen 🙌