Classic Divorce Court: Who Wears The Pants?

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
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    Tenisha says she and James rushed into marriage and since then, their marriage has spiraled out of control. Tenisha says James doesn’t make any attempt to save their marriage. She says she has to stay home with their son, while James hangs out with men who cheat on their wives.Tenisha says although James forgave her for cheating on him prior to marriage, he still has trust issues. Tenisha says James is a mama’s boy who makes family decisions based on what his parents says. She wants the judge to have her husband man up and be a husband to her. James says Queen Tenisha doesn’t respect him and has cheated on him. He says Queen Tenisha is a control freak, doesn’t submit to him, keeps her cookie in the cookie jar, and doesn’t communicate effectively. He says if this is what marriage is like, he doesn’t want it! He wants the judge to help fix their issues before their 1st wedding anniversary
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 699

  • @spimentel562
    @spimentel562 4 роки тому +155

    Judge Lyn is my long lost mom. So wise and pretty😍

    • @pvaxter1978
      @pvaxter1978 2 роки тому +5

      I feel you me too

    • @markends3993
      @markends3993 26 днів тому

      Hmmmn this woman? Is one of its kind. I love her so very much for her wisdom. Being smart, is an understatement. What a beautiful and intelligent woman.

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 4 роки тому +670

    If a man walked in that court room stating “I don’t like dark skinned women....” child, I don’t even want to know what would happen. Pure ignorance, besides being a very hurtful thing to say.

    • @lifeincanadawithlivi607
      @lifeincanadawithlivi607 4 роки тому +34

      She said "like" in the context of being in a relationship. It's her preference and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

    • @Simplyher_
      @Simplyher_ 4 роки тому +45

      ISayToMyself the problem is that most black men who say that associate negative connotations with women. It’s NOT the same

    • @lajunecrockett2381
      @lajunecrockett2381 4 роки тому +23

      Well men will say.... I don't like fat women, or skinny women,, short women or tall women... Or I only date educated women it all the same discrimination.... But thier preference

    • @alexvensel5730
      @alexvensel5730 4 роки тому +4

      People be evil. Didn't their mama teach them not to be ignant?

    • @yugfus
      @yugfus 4 роки тому +28

      @@lifeincanadawithlivi607 It's colorism and it's not ok.

  • @shiheart16
    @shiheart16 4 роки тому +426

    Don’t ever press someone into marriage, it doesn’t matter if you’re a woman or a man. It never works out in the long haul.

    • @leahjones5153
      @leahjones5153 4 роки тому +7

      Preach!!👏👏👋👋

    • @sandybryan533
      @sandybryan533 4 роки тому +3

      I'm learning the hard way

    • @jadinmosley7124
      @jadinmosley7124 3 роки тому +7

      I got pressed into a relationship and it was over within 2 months and now i kno never let a mf force me into anything😂💯

    • @blackroyalbrand1287
      @blackroyalbrand1287 2 роки тому

      Yes it does it’s worked for centuries 😭

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage 4 роки тому +117

    Wife just had a baby.....
    Mr Williams : iggghhttt imma head out ! 🤷🏽‍♀️😂😩🤷🏽‍♀️😂😩

    • @CBIsMyWorld
      @CBIsMyWorld 4 роки тому +8

      Chashe' Sings I’m so weak 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @Singlehood2Marriage
      @Singlehood2Marriage 4 роки тому +5

      Girl.... 😩😩😩😩😩😂😂😂

    • @coryandcamori
      @coryandcamori 4 роки тому +1

      @@Singlehood2Marriage zzmu Silento - Watch me (whip/ Nae Nae) danmurder for hure ce: ua-cam.com/video/EMcj41F9mas/v-deo.html

  • @keke611
    @keke611 Рік тому +14

    It's so sad Judge Tolers husband passed....smh she deserved to have her husband til they grew old. She's such a wonderful person and am very sure he was happy bc he married a beautiful intelligent wise woman. Sending much love to you Judge Toler ❤❤❤

  • @sullivancountydays
    @sullivancountydays 4 роки тому +226

    It's sad to say we're still talking about skin color 7 days from 2020. When you apply for a job they don't say light skin or dark skin Black. Let's cut the bs.

    • @andken62
      @andken62 4 роки тому +3

      sullivancountydays, a very good observation.

    • @emanx222
      @emanx222 4 роки тому

      You talking about the comments or the episode?

    • @luckylibralady5551
      @luckylibralady5551 3 роки тому +3

      So you cant have a preference now?

    • @Shubhamsingh40
      @Shubhamsingh40 3 роки тому +4

      They dont say but they still feel. Sadly

    • @TutuLolaAboh
      @TutuLolaAboh 3 роки тому +2

      @@luckylibralady5551 was going to ask same question,lol

  • @swenett1308
    @swenett1308 4 роки тому +143

    He chased after her, he got her then he felt he didn't have to try anymore, he accomplished what he set out to do.

    • @heathab...._-_
      @heathab...._-_ 2 роки тому +5

      That's how a lot of men are once they got you it's like they lose interest

  • @antaresscorpicus692
    @antaresscorpicus692 4 роки тому +237

    If she cheated before marriage, why marry her.

    • @jackiebennett3649
      @jackiebennett3649 4 роки тому +13

      We still forgive yall shit

    • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
      @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 4 роки тому +22

      They both cheated and both are too immature for marriage....they were on an off 4yrs...and she knew he was not ready for marriage

    • @domjones_who3849
      @domjones_who3849 4 роки тому +2

      THAT'S WHAT THE FUCK I'M SAYING!

    • @domjones_who3849
      @domjones_who3849 4 роки тому +1

      @@jackiebennett3649 YOU SHOULDN'T...CHEATING IS UNFORGIVABLE! YOU FUCK SOMEBODY ELSE...IT'S OVER! SOME(A TINY GROUP)MAKE IT AFTERWARD...THE MAJORITY WILL NEVER SURVIVE CHEATING...THE THOUGHTS NEVER GO AWAY

    • @domjones_who3849
      @domjones_who3849 4 роки тому +2

      @@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 no he didn't cheat...he's just passive ave young minded...you give that coochie away...stay with that person...cause we're done lol lol shyt I'd be questioning the baby and everything lol lol lol lol lol lol lol IJS

  • @thewholeNyne
    @thewholeNyne 4 роки тому +463

    What does him being light skin have to do with anything? What a silly thing to open with

    • @gwenettethacker9533
      @gwenettethacker9533 4 роки тому +39

      It was a round about way of saying that although there was no physical attraction at first, they shared he same values and he knew her family. She just isn't very articulate.

    • @Bwut618
      @Bwut618 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 роки тому +4

      Cause she doesn't usually date like skinned half caste KNEEGROWS. That's her preference. F**K You all. I don't like over weight females who dress like they are skinny. F**k am they look like shit.

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 4 роки тому +5

      Look up "Willie Lynch Syndrome"

    • @October3074
      @October3074 4 роки тому +6

      And then the stupid b*tch pronounces the word wrong. It's light "skinned", not "skinded". 🙄

  • @tinaamariee832
    @tinaamariee832 4 роки тому +131

    Look he’s no saint but I completely understand why he don’t wanna deal with her. She couldn’t even properly dictate her feelings & what she needed from him. Judge Lynn had to pull teeth to finally get an answer. Both of them are immature AF they need to split

    • @lyricshinyy9284
      @lyricshinyy9284 3 роки тому +1

      they still together shordy don’t play wit emmmm

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage 4 роки тому +57

    Judge Toler:
    You stop breaking stuff and you start caressing stuff and maybe this thing will work out.... 😩😂😩😂😩.... I LOVE HER!!!! ❤️

  • @jettanyiagumbs6091
    @jettanyiagumbs6091 4 роки тому +242

    Her:"First off I dont usually date light skin guys..."
    Me: SIS WHAT...🤯...Not only is it colorism it's also the most irrelevant opening statement I've ever heard🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @youmakemelaugh1797
      @youmakemelaugh1797 4 роки тому +13

      Like she all of that! Gurrrrl bye..🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @jettanyiagumbs6091
      @jettanyiagumbs6091 4 роки тому +3

      @@youmakemelaugh1797
      Bye to me but ma'am I never said hello to you...🤷🏾‍♀️...It crazy because if this was an African American man saying he doesn't like dark skin chicks...I'm sure that's a problem...but her statement is alright...It was ignorant and had no relevance to what she was trying to say...Period

    • @caitlynmuniz3143
      @caitlynmuniz3143 4 роки тому +14

      @@jettanyiagumbs6091 You misunderstood. She said gurl bye to the female in the video saying stuff about light skinned men. Basically she was saying "How you got the audacity to say that when you're no catch yourself?"

    • @jettanyiagumbs6091
      @jettanyiagumbs6091 4 роки тому +3

      @@caitlynmuniz3143
      Ohh...Ok...I was like...This comment was so left feild... Thanks for explaining...and to the other young lady...My apologies...Pardon my misunderstanding...🕊

    • @kasimshaikh3750
      @kasimshaikh3750 4 роки тому +3

      It's like she's doing a favor dating him.
      He needs to man up leave her cheating ass.

  • @warriorqueen8285
    @warriorqueen8285 4 роки тому +94

    I dont think he should have gotten her pregnant OR married her!

  • @Tay880
    @Tay880 4 роки тому +216

    I hate when people say skin-ded. The word is skinned....one syllable

  • @karlgabriel2861
    @karlgabriel2861 4 роки тому +247

    The minute she said lightskinded I was done.

    • @mikaharrigan445
      @mikaharrigan445 4 роки тому +3

      Right

    • @Lauren-jw9ek
      @Lauren-jw9ek 4 роки тому +2

      Karl Gabriel same 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @eugeniaboone5602
      @eugeniaboone5602 4 роки тому +7

      I said the same thing
      I thought it was pronounced light skinned..😒 ok..

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 роки тому +7

      @@eugeniaboone5602 you fell asleep in English class and missed the extra. ED🤣🤣🤣

    • @andrewpouncil8411
      @andrewpouncil8411 4 роки тому +3

      Dam shame

  • @vkeepsitlowkey686
    @vkeepsitlowkey686 4 роки тому +126

    "I normally do not date light skin guys so..." 😂🤣 Like what??

    • @nildabridgeman8104
      @nildabridgeman8104 4 роки тому +1

      Absolutely!

    • @sandybryan533
      @sandybryan533 4 роки тому +6

      Shes just staing he changed her mind about dating dark skinned guy. Shes trying to say she genuinely love him

    • @nildabridgeman8104
      @nildabridgeman8104 4 роки тому +4

      @@sandybryan533 you got ALL that from her remarking his SKIN is light??? Your remarkably perceptive... You should teach classes for the CIA/INTELLIGENCE AGENCIES

    • @vkeepsitlowkey686
      @vkeepsitlowkey686 4 роки тому +2

      @ No, I don't. 😂 Just like every women isn't the same, don't think for a second that all men are like the ones you know of or that are around you. It's a big world out here...

    • @vkeepsitlowkey686
      @vkeepsitlowkey686 4 роки тому +1

      @ it's a shame you think that, have a good day though queen

  • @aamnahere6250
    @aamnahere6250 4 роки тому +80

    He's a child. He's not mentally mature enough to sustain a marriage.

    • @ghorn1217
      @ghorn1217 4 роки тому +6

      And you think SHE is? Lol

    • @brotherLee340
      @brotherLee340 4 роки тому

      And she is the same lol. A violent cheater and pressed for marriage. The worse kind

  • @SuperDude312
    @SuperDude312 4 роки тому +85

    Use protection guys. Don't be like this guy and end up with someone you don't match with.

  • @Amal-ku9xq
    @Amal-ku9xq 3 роки тому +26

    Cheating is hard to deal with. Many people can't get over the hurt, the betrayal, and the emotions.

  • @musonda131
    @musonda131 4 роки тому +385

    Light skin part was so disrespectful.

    • @BlaqueRose23
      @BlaqueRose23 4 роки тому +53

      Not only that, but it was incredibly unnecessary since she married him and had a baby with him anyway! What kind of sense does that make?

    • @afro_princess1671
      @afro_princess1671 4 роки тому +8

      phoenix 2008 how is that disrespectful?

    • @houssaybah8638
      @houssaybah8638 4 роки тому +19

      I think it’s another way to belittle him

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 роки тому +9

      Why? That's her preference.

    • @afro_princess1671
      @afro_princess1671 4 роки тому +1

      Kiera Brookes it's not low class. It's about sexual preference, it's not something u can control or can try to like, it's about what turns u on etc. if she had said this normally then that would have been racist.

  • @tipdog36
    @tipdog36 4 роки тому +81

    As a mature man on his 2nd marriage, this is one thing men & woman can count on happening...
    The MORE you do, the LESS they will do. Set your boundary and don't do anything past that. If your mate consistently fail to handle their part of the relationship. It's time to go. Never forget marriage is a partnership and if your spouse is consistently not doing their part, fire them. Life is too short.

    • @jeannedignite5425
      @jeannedignite5425 4 роки тому

      Very true!

    • @Plectrudefy
      @Plectrudefy 4 роки тому +3

      Lol what? A relationship is a dynamic partnership where communication takes place. When one is doing less good, the other one does more and the other way around, and it is possible to talk about things. Your spouse isn't supposed to be a greedy person who waits for you to do a little more so you end up with all the chores eventually. Your view of relationships is kind of sad tbh.

    • @treyc6988
      @treyc6988 4 роки тому +4

      It's not about consistently failing. Everyone has attributes and areas that they both excel and lack in. In a relationship you're supposed to compliment the other, mutualism.

    • @kasimshaikh3750
      @kasimshaikh3750 4 роки тому +2

      @@Plectrudefy your Hollywood driven viewpoint is childish.

    • @sandybryan533
      @sandybryan533 4 роки тому

      Amen to that

  • @juanikaprice9173
    @juanikaprice9173 4 роки тому +10

    The guy in the grey sweater in the background at 1:05 when she said “I don’t date light skinned guys” 😩🤣😂 his facial expression is spot on! Look like he said “BITCH PLEASE” in his head 😂😂😂

    • @girlfriennn3645
      @girlfriennn3645 3 роки тому +1

      Yesss🤣🤣🤣🤣 I caught that and I did laughing

  • @blackyodaprime
    @blackyodaprime 4 роки тому +65

    She cheated and brought it up in an argument and the judge just skipped right past it.

    • @prettybrown8886
      @prettybrown8886 4 роки тому +8

      black yoda He didn’t press the issue so neither did the judge.

    • @tipdog36
      @tipdog36 4 роки тому +11

      The judge does that often.

    • @Sabrewood13
      @Sabrewood13 4 роки тому +16

      You all do know it’s a half hour show they’re not gonna show everything they speak on

    • @blackyodaprime
      @blackyodaprime 4 роки тому +7

      ​@@Sabrewood13 Now show me an example where the man cheated on the woman, was brazen enough about the infidelity to flaunt it an argument, and it was completely ignored by the judge in the show. Surely you will be able to find one if the issue is time. Furthermore, you would think that would have some impact on what she says to them at the end. You wouldn't be able to tell she did anything wrong if you go by what Lynn Toler said.

  • @gloriayoung1028
    @gloriayoung1028 Рік тому +3

    Judge Tolyer needs to be cloned.
    We need 100 more of her!!
    She is auntie and friend, a sister and a mother all in one. She can be Big Ma fort the the world !!!!!!

  • @Rooted_Locs
    @Rooted_Locs 4 роки тому +37

    Women act like men when men act like boys!!!!!! And I don't really agree with the judge that it's her responsibility to teach him HOW to be a man (she already has 1 child)

    • @alexvensel5730
      @alexvensel5730 4 роки тому +12

      You gotta meet people where they're at, not where you want them to be. You couldn't pay me a million dollars to marry a child like him though. 😂

    • @austinabanidoni5835
      @austinabanidoni5835 4 роки тому +3

      Julia Elosheva yes I could pay you two thousand dollars and you would marry him

    • @arshae21
      @arshae21 4 роки тому +14

      It's not her responsibility but she did pick him. Now she has gotta work with what she got.

    • @whyme7862
      @whyme7862 4 роки тому +7

      @L Nixon women take on both roles due to the lack of masculinity. Its impossible to focus on your femininity when you're protecting & providing .

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 4 роки тому +4

      I guess coming from a disassembled society I should be somewhere on the spectrum of thug, not taking care of my family, or with a woman from that society; yet I’m not. My mom raised 3 boys and with very few men around that were responsible, my mom was honest. She said she couldn’t teach us to be men, we have to learn that on our own. She did indeed pick my druggie step-father that left us was a young age, but we made a decision to step up and run our lives based on what we wanted. None of us married members of a disassembled community and if we did you wouldn’t know it because none of the ladies we married are remotely close to what was demonstrated here.
      Plus, let’s not pretend that sometimes emotions can cloud our better judgment at any age. This couples young and has a few challenges to overcome due to immaturity. Playing procreational games as recreational activities with accountability nor emotional maturity leads to this scenario. Whether pressured, coerced, persuaded, or badgered into marrying her, he chose that. Yes he can leave, but then why marry her in the first place?
      Regardless, he still is going to have to grow up or marry someone that will put up with it.... And likewise, she can either divorce or separate at a young age, allow him to take the lead and deal with whatever consequences come with, follow the judge’s advice and coach the young man, or keep doing what you been doing to ensure you and your child are alright.

  • @denisebrown8801
    @denisebrown8801 4 роки тому +19

    Y'all saw that dudes face when she talked about light skin guys? lol

  • @TheNaphisa03
    @TheNaphisa03 4 роки тому +210

    "I did not date light skin guys. " Pathetic! This division needs to STOP in the black community. The right man for you can be a dark skin man. The right man for you can be a light skin man. Skin color has nothing to do with a man's character. And stop using the word "preference" incorrectly, shes using it to hide her colorism.

    • @vkeepsitlowkey686
      @vkeepsitlowkey686 4 роки тому +3

      Relationship facts!!

    • @kayelle1547
      @kayelle1547 4 роки тому +28

      How does preference speak to division please?
      I preferred older men for a while, but my husband of now 11years is 4 years older than me...Preference is just that...PREFERENCE. It's simply a guide to discovering what you really like need or want. It's each individuals way of not accepting/entertaining anything/anyone into their personal space. It's their self imposed filter.
      It needs to stop being seen as something larger than what it is and something sinister or the function of some devious motive...it is not rejection, it's not discrimination nor is it degradation in any way...its just a preference.
      Why can't it just been seen as that?

    • @SpecialKRNB
      @SpecialKRNB 4 роки тому +12

      @@kayelle1547 Yes. Finally, someone who gets it! Thank you. People really can't help who they prefer or their ideal man or woman...it's nature... if you will... it is what it is... you honestly can't help it... it's not wrong at all... as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else... it's your choice and no one else...

    • @Bashanvibe
      @Bashanvibe 4 роки тому +2

      I totally agree. People don't choose based on character integrity and loyalty these days. They will make their preference they priority and make it their bottom line and deal breaker

    • @SpecialKRNB
      @SpecialKRNB 4 роки тому +3

      @@Bashanvibe People choose based on everything that is important to them aside from physical features... you gotta give people credit... it's not just the physical features in which it does accumulate half of our ideal mates and I'll say maybe a 1/3 because the bulk of it is characteristics and other things mentioned after the following...values, belief, faith, same ideals on parenting, sex, friendships, dating, marriage, love etc etcetera...

  • @PoliticalWonderland
    @PoliticalWonderland 4 роки тому +9

    It is sooooo annoying that men are given a pass on CHOOSING not to grow up! It’s a CHOICE! Either grow up and be the father and husband YOU CHOSE to be or stay in the streets away from the rest of us. We are TOO TIRED to be raising your kids AND YOU!! He is far too feminine and she is far too* masculine to have that “man of the house” situation they both claim to want… this is never going to work

  • @sirisaacmormont5445
    @sirisaacmormont5445 3 роки тому +15

    She lost me when she came on national television talking about "light skinned guys." That's some shit you talk to your girlfriends about not Judge Lynn who happens to also be "light skinned." She's a gorgeous woman but it's a terrible reflection upon her self worth that this is the best that she could choose for herself.

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 Рік тому

      I wouldn’t be surprised if one hurt her in the past…and that’s why she’s saying that.

  • @Kuttie03
    @Kuttie03 4 роки тому +16

    🤣🤣yoo did anyone see that white gentleman’s reaction when she said she doesn’t date light skin-ded guys. And she needs to leaned that it is light skin. I was done with her after she started off with that statement.

  • @blessedone472
    @blessedone472 4 роки тому +37

    Before marriage love is essential vital necessary etc. She say she didn't like the first thing she saw on him his skin color ,how in God's name that marriage can work. These young people need to stay home with their Mama's until they are more mature n leave mature adult business alone (Marriage ) .

    • @Foxx229
      @Foxx229 4 роки тому +1

      Joy and not have kids

  • @JayLawson
    @JayLawson 4 роки тому +8

    When a woman says she doesn't date light skinned men or dark skinned men no one bats an eye. But let that be a man and all hell breaks loose.

    • @angelawashington2883
      @angelawashington2883 3 роки тому +3

      That's true. Either way, it is ignorant.

    • @Renrens-LionessofJudah
      @Renrens-LionessofJudah 2 роки тому

      I was strolling down the comments to see if anyone would comment on this. Thank you. I agree

  • @lovingmex4
    @lovingmex4 4 роки тому +8

    She go say light skin ain't her thing but he is a handsome red bone 🤷‍♀️

  • @glendawyatt9300
    @glendawyatt9300 4 роки тому +13

    Judge Lynn you are so funny! And speaks the truth lol!

  • @gripshownuff
    @gripshownuff 2 роки тому +9

    She’s a brilliant judge and counselor

  • @janettedesilier1018
    @janettedesilier1018 4 роки тому +34

    The “lightskined(ED)” comment was so freaking tacky, and infuriating 🤬

    • @alexisjones65
      @alexisjones65 3 роки тому

      You mad for what?

    • @denezebootle
      @denezebootle 3 роки тому +3

      @@alexisjones65 cause it was tacky and nobody asked her that.. she completely disregarded the question and started talking bout "light skinded" guys loll

  • @MsHappy-xz2px
    @MsHappy-xz2px 4 роки тому +32

    MOST WOMEN WON'T ADMIT THAT THEY LOVE SEX. IT'S INTIMACY, THAT WE NEED!!!! I THINK THAT THEY RUSHED EVERYTHING TOO FAST. LOVE MAKING IS A LANGUAGE.... NOT JUST HAVING SEX!!!

    • @MiguelDLewis
      @MiguelDLewis 3 роки тому +3

      It's impossible to truly make love unless you're married first. There's no charity or self-sacrifice involved in premarital sex.

    • @hardworkingcriminal4873
      @hardworkingcriminal4873 3 роки тому

      @@MiguelDLewis You posted the most ridiculous thing under this entire video. You must've never had a real WOMAN in your life. Making love to a woman has ZERO to do with marriage.

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 Рік тому

      @@hardworkingcriminal4873 and you sound just as off as the comment that your referring to. Making love is spiritual between 2 people who are bonded by marriage; so the other comment is correct.

  • @Amal-ku9xq
    @Amal-ku9xq 3 роки тому +5

    They say you can fake until you make it. They also say if you love someone set them free, and if they are meant to be they be back with you.

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle 4 роки тому +80

    It’s hard to pay attention to her speak. Takes her forever to get to the point. It’s almost like she’s trying to cover up the truth by dancing around it.

    • @cocobenji6123
      @cocobenji6123 4 роки тому +11

      she is trying to blame him when she forced him to marry her, knowing he wasn't ready...

    • @troublezzzz
      @troublezzzz 4 роки тому +6

      Juanita Michelle And that’s why the light skin guy don’t talk to her anymore 🤣

  • @myal7532
    @myal7532 4 роки тому +9

    I laughed much too hard at that 'light skinned guys' part. She said that with her chest too LOL

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle 4 роки тому +26

    And he seems like he has quite a bit of growing up to do.

  • @andyjosiah7893
    @andyjosiah7893 4 роки тому +7

    Ma'am, weren't interested in the light skin colour issues, that's your prerogative.

  • @alexanderbemar2637
    @alexanderbemar2637 4 роки тому +26

    Let them switch places on some weekends and see how much he can handle the kid, and her with her friends drinking at the bar situation?

  • @BerryBoo201
    @BerryBoo201 4 роки тому +18

    Sooooo its funny for her to violent and abusively aggressive towards him? Bet if it was HIM doing it the entire room would have been screaming at him. 🤦‍♀️ grow up

    • @donp9144
      @donp9144 4 роки тому

      Damn berryboo91. Woman like you do exist and i mean that as a compliment. thank you for noticing. I really mean it

    • @malikjohnroshankhan3965
      @malikjohnroshankhan3965 3 роки тому

      An other man get fk in marriage prostitution

  • @yvettegreen8234
    @yvettegreen8234 4 роки тому +7

    I would never get over her saying her natural attraction don’t lie in a light skin brother. It would make me think your not attracted you don’t want me.

  • @sexypeach1891
    @sexypeach1891 4 роки тому +28

    If men would just step up women wouldn’t have to wear the pants in the marriage

    • @MunchiieXO
      @MunchiieXO 4 роки тому

      👀👀

    • @sexypeach1891
      @sexypeach1891 3 роки тому

      @L Nixon you brought forth a strong argument. I think it’s a little bit of both so I don’t think either of us is wrong. But you are right, nice guys need to be more respected and desired. I definitely am looking for a nice guy not a no good boy

  • @isaacpowell1408
    @isaacpowell1408 4 роки тому +4

    She got pregnant to lock him down...oldest a d dumbest trick in the book. He doesn't want to be there🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 4 роки тому +41

    Annnnnd the point of you mentioning not liking skin guys?! What kind of dumbness???

    • @blessedtobealive
      @blessedtobealive 4 роки тому +7

      She was in someway saying that he was unique, for her to pick him there must have been something about him that made him stand out, despite her not liking his skin tone.

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 4 роки тому +5

      @@blessedtobealive not so much not liking lightskin...just not attracted to it on a man she is romantically involved with.. Darker skin attracts her attention more..
      People are trying to make what she said a colorism situation.. when really it's not.. Not this time..

    • @blessedtobealive
      @blessedtobealive 4 роки тому +1

      @@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yes you're right, liking wasn't the right word to use.

    • @camilllesowell1836
      @camilllesowell1836 3 роки тому +1

      Super dumbness

  • @jephteclersaint4204
    @jephteclersaint4204 4 роки тому +6

    “Stop breaking stuff, and start caressing stuff.”
    Judge Lynn Toler

  • @illbiskits
    @illbiskits 3 роки тому +4

    hahahahaha "I normally do not date light skinDED guys" Listen, I watch this show for the advice, the entertainment and the reaction on the audiences faces. Only 1:05 in, let the faces BEGIN!!

  • @jillianelliott4654
    @jillianelliott4654 4 роки тому +4

    That light skinned, dark skinned statement just threw me for a loop. What in the heck does it matter what color a person is if you have a connection and fall in love. colorism. smh
    He doesn't really seem to be into her anyway. It sounds like she emasculates him.

  • @paturnellahazell532
    @paturnellahazell532 4 роки тому +4

    Great advice from the judge.

  • @courtneyfitts5717
    @courtneyfitts5717 2 роки тому +4

    I love judge lynn not saying I don't like judge faith but this woman gives you what you need, straight with no chaser 😏

  • @rd4469
    @rd4469 4 роки тому +10

    Imagine the thought of having something in common with someone light "skinned-ed-ed."

    • @lolag.9620
      @lolag.9620 4 роки тому

      R Dy yes that part. How about complexion. I hate the worse skin ded ded

    • @rd4469
      @rd4469 4 роки тому

      @@lolag.9620 She sounded foolish.

    • @petrinajackson8380
      @petrinajackson8380 3 роки тому

      This made me laugh

  • @brianndrelan135
    @brianndrelan135 3 роки тому +3

    As judge Lynne and others say, "Marriage or wedding is a serious relationship." Both parties must be prepared, because your normal protection or guidiance will not necessarily be there anymore.
    Single parent children are now the largest single problem in the world today. The child does not receive the father and mother advice.

  • @fenellabinns4006
    @fenellabinns4006 4 роки тому +4

    The white dudes face when she said she normally does not date light skin guys🤣😂

    • @denezebootle
      @denezebootle 3 роки тому

      I peeped that. He was pissed 🤣🤣

  • @boomshakalaka1557
    @boomshakalaka1557 4 роки тому +6

    Right! ✔warm me up. Hell bring your jumper cables, I ain't been started in a minute......

  • @UnFamess
    @UnFamess 4 роки тому +7

    While I see where Judge Lynn was coming from, at what time thought so you stop coddling a grown ass man? “Honey I need you to take the trash to the curb because it’s trash day. Honey can you put a load of laundry in? Whew! Thank you honey so so much for putting the clothes in the washer and taking out the trash.” Eff that! I understand needing to provide some direction occasionally but for the most part, when you see things that need to be done, step in and get the shit done. Help your partner out!

  • @eccowyrick9178
    @eccowyrick9178 3 роки тому +2

    Judge Toler is so cute... 🤣 you gotta warm us up... 🤣

  • @hischild8301
    @hischild8301 4 роки тому +7

    This is so my marriage... The judge was speaking to me today

    • @Foxx229
      @Foxx229 4 роки тому +3

      Meme D hope things work out for u

    • @hollyharmon23
      @hollyharmon23 4 роки тому +2

      More power to you sweety! Hope everything works out.

  • @Lanie-sl9ne
    @Lanie-sl9ne 4 роки тому +8

    😇I love Judge Lynn Toler. You stop breaking stuff and you start caressing stuff and maybe you'll get some stuff💛💝💛💝💛💝💛💝

  • @ThatPaliRN
    @ThatPaliRN 3 роки тому +4

    He looks like the light skinned version of ed from that movie "welcome to good burger, home of the good burger can I take your order" lookin ahh.

  • @chandagomez968
    @chandagomez968 4 роки тому +2

    Not only did he not show up Superman, he did not show up a Man. As a man, if you can not properly care for your spawn (despite the relationship with the Mother), do NOT PROCREATE!

  • @amadinlucky3707
    @amadinlucky3707 4 роки тому +8

    You want to be the man of the house yet you behave like a single boy how will you leave your wife by 2am to go to the club not paying bills common on now man up

  • @jeanettecrawford6251
    @jeanettecrawford6251 4 роки тому +7

    This what happens people’s when you don’t take the time to get to know a person.Please invest time to get to know a person especially before marriage I convince common sense isn’t common anymore.

  • @MattRomPsalms
    @MattRomPsalms Рік тому

    I do hope he did it. She just gave the ABSOLUTE BEST advice. Thank you for the wisdom.

  • @arshae21
    @arshae21 4 роки тому +8

    HE'S A LOSER! Point blank period. This is what happens when you latch on to a guy before he's "done cooking". He's not a man and he will NEVER become with her in the picture.

  • @maryCCFarm
    @maryCCFarm 4 роки тому +4

    beautiful couple i hope they are able to work things out.. I wish there were updates.. I love her hair,its so pretty.. I am sending my thoughts and prayers to them..

  • @qwill5925
    @qwill5925 4 роки тому +10

    Damn if he hadn't gotten her pregnant he could've made a clean escape from her toxic ass but then again he scared of her so she would've just forced him back into the relationship

  • @alaya3410
    @alaya3410 4 роки тому +3

    She was going through postpartum depression!

    • @allofbeauty
      @allofbeauty 3 роки тому

      No she wasnt she had that anger issue before the baby

  • @sevenheaven3992
    @sevenheaven3992 4 роки тому +5

    He married her cause he wanted to regardless of what he feels now. I disagree. No gun was put to his head. They don't do what they don't want to do any other time so no excuse for marriage either. 😡

  • @jprice1928
    @jprice1928 Рік тому +2

    I think judge was already through with this woman from the moment she started with that “light skinded” mess

  • @jazminegraves19
    @jazminegraves19 4 роки тому +3

    After she made that light skin comment it threw me off and made me feel uncomfortable

  • @ddnquestion1
    @ddnquestion1 4 роки тому +26

    I simply can't do a woman who is bossy, controlling, and destroying things around the house, talking about she's trying to work on her anger "TRY IS A DAMN LIE"!!!!

    • @kendramiles4277
      @kendramiles4277 4 роки тому +2

      😒😭🤣🤣🤣

    • @gmsinromelionsonfire2532
      @gmsinromelionsonfire2532 4 роки тому +6

      @twistedblktrekie You fail to mention the men that work their ass off to support their family then the woman loses respect and finds reasons to nag or even creep around while he is handling his business for the family

    • @gmsinromelionsonfire2532
      @gmsinromelionsonfire2532 4 роки тому +2

      @twistedblktrekie Women hate to be women and being under a man in order doesn't matter if he is working hard or not they will hunt for a way to be little him and control the relationship the days where a man works hard and the woman is submissive is over!!!

    • @gmsinromelionsonfire2532
      @gmsinromelionsonfire2532 4 роки тому +1

      @twistedblktrekie How can you expect a black man to rebound from the harsh conditions of the after effects of slavery and the system against us whether we do good or bad with zero support from the black woman that's why more and more the black men go to other races of woman and eventually most black women will be standing alone straching their head with no man to boss around cuz he finally got the courage and the strength to take his nuts out her purse

    • @gmsinromelionsonfire2532
      @gmsinromelionsonfire2532 4 роки тому +3

      @twistedblktrekie Black women are very intimidated by smart hard working black men cuz they know they gotta shut they mouth which they can't do 97% of them ill leave the 3% for the ones who actually are humble and in order the way Gods wants it

  • @DH-rt6fl
    @DH-rt6fl 4 роки тому +4

    lmao the light skin jab was so unnecessary

  • @alannanicole2968
    @alannanicole2968 4 роки тому +6

    So the first thing she says was she doesn’t date light skinned guys? Wth does that have to do with anything lol

  • @wennic2784
    @wennic2784 4 роки тому +11

    He sound lay back and lazy

  • @candacebutler7011
    @candacebutler7011 4 роки тому +2

    Good advise judge

  • @Pinkgirlyyyy
    @Pinkgirlyyyy 4 роки тому +4

    How does being colorist help her case??

  • @HealingEraWithTricia
    @HealingEraWithTricia 4 роки тому +3

    Ewww I can't believe she said that.

  • @adriennesales6869
    @adriennesales6869 4 роки тому +10

    He’s light skinned? What happened to old fashioned values?

  • @prissybell16
    @prissybell16 4 роки тому +4

    Imagine if he said he normally doesn’t date “dark skinned” women.

  • @nurray804
    @nurray804 2 роки тому

    lmao the due's face on the right when she said " normally I don't date light-skinned guys" 1:00

  • @littlehouseinthebigapple5716
    @littlehouseinthebigapple5716 3 роки тому +5

    I think she kept talking about “her beliefs” because the read deal for why she pressed this boy into a shotgun wedding is because she didn’t want to give birth as an unwed mother.

  • @CokkiNetal
    @CokkiNetal Рік тому

    If he created an environment where she could feel cared for and supported, then she wouldn’t be acting like a mom to him.

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 4 роки тому +11

    They are too young to be married shame on the little girl for conning the man into marriage too soon

    • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
      @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 4 роки тому

      @Rene S first off they were on and off for 4yrs...and her preferences is dark skinned men she sounds foolish on national TV did you here the Judge she pushed him into marriage and he wanted to look good in front of marriage counselor....bottom line too young and pressure is what got her to the altar

    • @blessed1b306
      @blessed1b306 3 роки тому

      No she didn't con him into marrying her he chose to marry her. A person can't con us into marriage. If we don't want to get married that person can't force us especially at 26 yrs old unless we are willing. These women are out here having children without marriage all the time and couldn't get the man to marry them because he didn't want to.

    • @malikjohnroshankhan3965
      @malikjohnroshankhan3965 3 роки тому

      Marriage prostitution is not good for man.

  • @omranmcmillan9101
    @omranmcmillan9101 4 роки тому +2

    He acts really childish and aloof. Unterested, she .as be the dominant type but if you as a man did what you were suppose to do and start respecting your marriage, half yall problems would be solve, then she would have warmed up for you and tone it down. She lost me with her opening statement about lightskin dudes

  • @urbanchangewithin624
    @urbanchangewithin624 4 роки тому +1

    As many Black ppl nowadays, they weren’t cultivated for marriage and obviously hv no wise elders. I appreciate Lynn Toler for having a heart for Black Men when the rest of Black Women don’t and hv been taught that way by the world. Do Black Women officially hate Black Men? I think so subconsciously.......

    • @SpecialKRNB
      @SpecialKRNB 4 роки тому

      Nope. We love YA'LL it's just the WHITE culture has conditioned us to hate black men and vice-versa because of their own personal fear and jealousy of the BLACK man and BLACK woman and not accepting and unwilling to learn that the BLACK man is the true headship of the ENTIRE WORLD and NATIONS and in its totality and entirety. I must admit we did kind of grow blind and accustomed to it because we thought Y'ALL didn't like or worst yet hated us too but now I am so glad just about all my black people are seeing the common denominator in this situation and no worries King we will rise and overcome. I am praying that our beautiful BLACK men be the RIGHTFUL heads of ALL households across the world. Keep praying. The discord between a black man and black woman NEVER began with us. I love y'all black men always have and certainly ALWAYS will. Stay prayed up. The world will shift and their demise is coming soon. 🥰✊🏾🙌🏾💃🏾😍 What's a black man's strength without a black woman? Just remember who you are as a black man and who you have always been. A loving husband and father. A provider, a protector, a lover, a giver, selfless, compassionate, loyal. That's who our black men are. Your strength comes from the father of ALL fathers, our Heavenly Father, and in return we gain strength from our black men. Just keep praying we're almost free. Freedom, equality, simplicity, peace, steadfastness has ALWAYS been in the veins of a black man. We need y'all. That's why the world has always been in a state of conflict, confusion, and corruption because our black man is the pillar of strength and provision and care and love and peace. Ya'll got to remember who you are. Y'all are the teachers of manhood and every culture of boys included white(despite their unwillingness, but God will handle them specifically) learn from y'all. God is a black man and so is his son. That's where our wisdom as in addition to us as black women. The bearers of life. And teachers of motherhood. That's WHY we have WISDOM we didn't get this wisdom by accident God intentionally placed that in us because he's black. And I wholeheartedly believe that. Stay prayed up. We got this. #blackmanblackwomanlove #blackmanandblackwomanstrength #dearfutureblackhusband #dearmyfutureblackhubbyprayers #dearmyfutureblackchildrenprayers

    • @SpecialKRNB
      @SpecialKRNB 4 роки тому

      Sadly, I was too blind to believe this but so glad I know what I originally didn't know before. Thank God for that. Black men have ALWAYS been woke to the nonsense. I can honestly admit we were in too deep as black women to see it. But, thank God we see the clarity, well women like me. I love my black men and women. And, I not only love and like being a woman, took a little mintue to accept that too, but nonetheless I did, but anyway not only do I love being a woman but black woman never was ashamed of proclaiming my culture and ethnicity.

  • @zoewhite2958
    @zoewhite2958 3 роки тому +2

    Classic young love story would love an update of these two

  • @lonewolfmgtow7187
    @lonewolfmgtow7187 Рік тому

    That’s why I have an old saying in my mind that goes like this just because a woman marries you doesn’t mean she respects you and that’s real talk

  • @waadelanany9867
    @waadelanany9867 3 роки тому +2

    The white woman behind Taniesha is so precious.

  • @prettydarkie8011
    @prettydarkie8011 4 роки тому +6

    They are a BEAUTIFUL couple I wish them the best BLESSINGS

    • @TenishaCarey1987
      @TenishaCarey1987 4 роки тому +4

      thank you we're thriving 6 years later!

    • @TenishaCarey1987
      @TenishaCarey1987 4 роки тому

      poppaking16 fortnite god thank you I appreciate your kind words

  • @kimberlygarland8661
    @kimberlygarland8661 Рік тому +1

    Yes, my pep peeve......
    work ded, look ded, shrimps, like ded 🤦🏾Seems like too many damn people skipped English class. 😱

  • @luvmifro1003lovesfamily
    @luvmifro1003lovesfamily 4 роки тому +4

    Grrrrrr! These two have/had difficulties expressing themselves. They have surface conversations. Just say what the real issues are! It's like trying to fix a lie. Ew I hope they fixed that 😣😣😣😣

    • @TenishaCarey1987
      @TenishaCarey1987 4 роки тому

      still going strong 6 years and three kids later

  • @Pinkshinnymushroom
    @Pinkshinnymushroom 4 роки тому +1

    Ain’t nobody press NO ONE to get married bro. No one FORCED him with a Gun to his head to buy her a ring, just like you can’t force her to put the ring on. I do that if HE really wanted to marry her, she shouldn’t have to mention it to him for it to happen.

  • @grassh0pper
    @grassh0pper 4 роки тому +2

    Why can't couples just be together without one being man of the house?

    • @MagicUzer
      @MagicUzer 3 роки тому +1

      it's sooooooo daaated lool

  • @todo8328
    @todo8328 3 роки тому +1

    She came ROLLING out the gate with ignorance.

  • @desmondlester1790
    @desmondlester1790 Місяць тому

    She gives the best advice

  • @michaelhugue5353
    @michaelhugue5353 4 роки тому +8

    It is hard for a man to step up when the spouse is abusive with her words and actions. Also, he messd up by not paying attention to his wife after the baby. She just had his child and now you dont pay her no attention wrong thing to do. Our young men need to study and learn there wife to love, to understand ,and up lift. It will make the relationship a lot easier.

  • @fortuneteller2639
    @fortuneteller2639 2 роки тому +1

    1:04 - 1:07 the dude on the right just says it all with his expression