Is Casual Sex Okay? | Viya Mallakara
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There are people in late 20s who wants to stay single but they may have physical needs. I think casual sex is an option for them given that they are mature enough to handle the complexities involved..
But u need to be empathetic while the other person is getting emotionally attached... he/she shouldnt feel regret or guilt..
It can affect self esteem. People need to be mature enough n watchful of the other person
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നൂറ്റാണ്ടുകളായിട്ട് ഇവിടെ സെക്സിലൂടെ "നേട്ടം" ഉണ്ടാക്കുന്നത് പുരുഷന്മാർക്കും സെക്സിലൂടെ "കോട്ടം" ഉണ്ടാകുന്നത് സ്ത്രീകൾക്കും ആണ്... ഈ "കോട്ടവും നേട്ടവും" ചില സാഹചര്യങ്ങളിൽ തിരിഞ്ഞു വരാറുണ്ട്.. അവരൊക്കെ സമൂഹത്തിന്റെ മൂന്നിൽ അപഹാസ്യ കഥാപാത്രങ്ങൾ ആയിരിക്കും... സെക്സ് കഴിഞ്ഞാൽ ചിലപ്പോ ആ വ്യക്തിയുമായി മാനസികമായി പിരിയാൻ പറ്റാത്ത ഒരു അടുപ്പം ഉണ്ടാക്കാൻ ചാൻസ് ഉണ്ട്‌... വിഡിയോയിൽ പറഞ്ഞ പോലെ അതൊരു നോർമൽ ആയിട്ടുള്ള കാര്യവും ആണ്... ഒപോസിറ്റ് ആളിൽ നിന്നുണ്ടാകുന്ന ഇത്തരം കാര്യങ്ങളെ വളരെ പക്വതയോടെ ഡീൽ ചെയ്യാൻ ഇപ്പുറത്തുള്ളയാൾക്ക് പറ്റണം... ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചിലപ്പോ ഒരു ആത്മഹത്യയിൽ പോലും ചെന്നെത്താനുള്ള സാധ്യത ഉണ്ട്‌..
സോഷ്യലി പ്രിവിലേജ്ഡ് ആയിട്ടുള്ള സ്ത്രീകൾ അവരുമായി ഇമോഷണലി അറ്റാച്ഡ് ആവാത്ത പുരുഷന്മാരെ തിരഞ്ഞെടുക്കുന്നതിൽ കൂടുതൽ ഓൺ നൈറ്റ് സ്റ്റാൻഡ് ആണ്. 😊 . അതും ഒന്നിലേറെ ആണുങ്ങളെ ഒരുമിച്ചാണ് തിരഞ്ഞെടുക്കുന്നത്, ആസമയം അറ്റാച്ഡ് അവനുള്ള റിസ്ക് തീരെ കുറയുന്നു. ബ്രില്ല്യന്റ് മൂവ് ആണ് ❤
Your point on emotional warmth was spot on. Casual sex is supposed to be a temporary arrangement of deep intimacy. I have seen people jump into casual sex with unemotional partners and suffering later on. Sex is an emotional affair. One or the other party, at the end of it, at least to some extent will be hooked on the other person no matter what. If the partner is not receptive to what you are going through, this will leave deep scars in your mind. ( I am not talking about one night stands).
And emotional people are good. No matter what stay away from F boys who would later label you as a slut the moment you are done with them.
പണ്ട് ഞാൻ 10th ല് പഠിക്കുമ്പോ friends അടക്കം എല്ലാർക്കും ലൈൻ ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു. അപ്പോ എനിക്കും വേണം എന്നു തോന്നി. അങ്ങനെ 9th ൽ പഠിപ്പിക്കുന്ന ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ propose ചെയ്തു ഉടൻ തന്നെ സ്റ്റ്റ് ആയി ( ഞാൻ ഭയങ്കര look ആയിരുന്നു അന്ന് 🙊) അതിന് ശേഷം I was like : now what...? 😂
ഒരു ദിവസം സ്കൂൾ വിട്ടു പോവുമ്പോ ഫ്രണ്ട്സ് പറഞ്ഞു പോയി സംസാരിക്കാൻ 😶.
പകച്ചു പോയി ഞാൻ .
എന്നിട്ട് ഞൻ അവളോട് ചോച്ചു എന്തെങ്കിലും പറയാൻ ഉണ്ടോ എന്ന് 😬🙊💀
Awkward.. isn't it?
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Now I'm still single and living life with social anxiety.
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Casual sex is okay as long as both are on the same page. What sucks is one person having unreciprocated feelings for the other one, after a long term fwb kinda stuff. So communication is the keyword
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This is very complicated subject though viya is easily end up with beautiful conclusion... 🧠
I too had an FWB type situation at first , but things started getting deeper eventually. It was just not about the sex , we shared our worries, our vulnerabilities and our fears and confessed our feelings to each other . We're Happily and crazy in love now ❤️✨
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Peer pressure and influence of social media also should be discussed along with this. It takes time for an individual to understand what is good for them. By then we will have done something due to pressure from others. That then leads to stress and guilt for a lifetime.
Sex is a lot more than just a physical activity.. . it has an emotional part also casual sex is not your cup of tea if u r a demisexual...
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@@aathirasuresh6733 People tend to ignore the emotional part under the influence of porn and all...but only as we evolve we come to know that having sex at the peak of love is a spiritually elevating experience also...A lot of blame should be on our upbringing as no one is there to guide us in this regard...
Very true .
Loved the way you presented it Viya.. ❤️you are amazing..such relevant topic
Glad you liked it!!
Personally I'm not a fan of casual sex and hookup ( when it comes to my life)
Provided if an individual is emotionally matured say above 25 then it's completely fine for ppl to engage otherwise it's seriously risky however unfortunately ppl under 20 or just 20 fall into these due peer pressure which is what causing lots of trouble I think.
Some people only mature with experience. Not always age proves maturity. For some people, they should have friends who can make them see the wrong in their current relationship.
@@deepakmt92 I do understand ur perspective but I was thinking about females from age group of 19 onwards who might be used by older men for their own advantage( not blaming men, but can't deny the existence of such perverts)
Even though it's casual at that age they may develop feelings for their sexual partner
Also at that age ppl may not be well aware of the contraceptives and it's side effects
So I would recommend ppl who are matured and have started to make their own money should be indulging in casual sex.
@@rachel46444 I do agree on the making money part. Being financially independent is very important. Also, by the time someone is financially independent, a sense of maturity also follows.
By experience, it doesn't necessarily mean our own experiences. Sometimes we might see or hear things in our immediate surroundings that will make us realise the dangers behind it.
And, older men are mostly married and sometimes with a family in our society. But, cheating in the form of pretending to be in 'true' love and later only wanting casual sex, are mostly done by boys of similar age only. There is a form of toxic masculinity that involves manipulating girls who aren't ready for casual sex to actually do the act of sex with themselves. That is dangerous like you said.
I Hooke up with a bunch of my female friends it's not a sin
Wake up its 2023
@@dannydanny5714 when did I say it's a sin?
Very thoughtful of you to pick up such topics. Very good and balanced presentation🤩..
Camera quality super..nice vedio...
How to deal with a partner who's not emotionally available to you... Ayalil ninn ngne move on cheyam?? Can you do a video on that topic?
Avoid them or anything reminds of them. Know self worth and get past them. It won't be that easy at first but believe life goes on .. people, experiences, memories comes n goes. Train ur brain to lose that emotional grip towards them that isn't reciprocated.
Some people need sex like water, food, no attachments no feelings. Just for fun.emotionally attached person should have the brain to understand the other person who is emotionally attached or not
Passing our energy both physical and mental with a wrong person will leads to pain.thats the truth
Apart from the content, why are you using 2 mics? (Not mocking, just curious to know) . What I am thinking is one is for noise cancellation and the other is for recording, Idk much about this, sorry if you feel bad.
Please share a video on dating and ghosting!!
Thank you for making such videos which are still considered taboo. Hoping to see more of such content which brings in discussions and obviously brings awareness. Also i was hoping you would include sti and safe sex while talking about casual sex. Would love to see your videos about it.
Best part of the video is how the way u concluded the whole concept ❤
Got a new camera? Nice 🙂👍🏻
Emotionally eduth pokum. Ath problematic aanu opposite aalk angane illel..
unni video eduthittu poyavadu eduthathano? same frame, same background.😄
Viya literally it was amazing...your thoughts and opinions ...keep going 🥰♥️
Everything is okay when there is consent !
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Such a relavant topic🙌
Nice words... thanks
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Aww ...great one😍
My girlfriend and I first met through a dating app. It took a few months for our relation to become serious. During that time she was sleeping with her fwb. He was an attractive guy but not a responsible, emotionally mature person. He got really attached to her that the news of her dating me really shocked him. Luckily he was not a violent person but it was too messy at the end. Funny thing is, I have met another guy she used to see, he was super cool, chill person. Some people are not emotionally capable for casual sex. And people who are easily attached to another person should never try casual hookups it will end badly for everyone.
Absolutely good one 🤝
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Can you do a video on Casual Realtionships?Want to know more about it as I am in one and I am confused about it..
Nice topic..❣️
Nyc topic 🌝💗
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Nice content
If we are not in a relationship it's okyy. Anenkil valare borr
Well said chechi🤝
Ladies dont fall into the trap 👀
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You're ex lost you forever
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Whatever you have said and done was absolutely true..At first I started to have sex with this girl as a copy mechanism but after a while we had multiple intercourses, I feel like I’m using her where as she was emotionally into me and so I am..We all begin with physical thing and ended up into mental connection..So, proper communication is a must..
മനുഷ്യന്റെ sexual behavior പരിണമിച്ചുകൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നു... Sexual behaviour of humans is ever evolving... That's why perversions are increasing... Initially sex was associated with sin.. now it's changing..
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This is exactly what so called alpha beta gamma male andrew tate said!! 😀ചില കൊടുക്കൽ വാങ്ങൽ വേണമെന്ന് എക്സ്ട്രാ പുള്ളി പറഞ്ഞു.. Commitments.. So that what can be called casual?!
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It is a very needed topic. I am going through the same situation right now. I slowly started developing my feelings for a person after we get some intimate moments. I really started loving him. It went on for around 2 years. I thought that person has the same emotion as I had with him. He made me to believe like that. He was very casual, he got settled in his life 5 months ago and his marriage got fixed. Now he is going to happily marry another lady. I have not yet over it. Still not able to recover from the pain. Totally stuck in the situation. He doesn't even care what I am going through right now. Kind of heartbreak and depression. 🥲
Hope you recover soon 😌🤗
No need to worry it was both of your decission to get along. Now, the guy has happily sttled in life and you are still sitting there with sweet memories of him. The guy cannot be blamed as the act was done by your permission and consent.
@@allenvarghese6345 yes I accept it. There are mistakes on my part. I would have understood and thought about losing him.
Hey, u can recover soon.. don't try to runaway from the pain..u have to face and overcome..I can clearly understand ur situation..u need to focus on ur career and what u need in life..u will find ur perfect partner soon.. don't judge ur future relationships based on past..each person is unique..having physical intimacy can develop feelings for a person..that doesn't mean we are made for each other..see whether both of u can understand eachother..love eachother...a relationship is not just meant for physical intimacy..it's more than that 🤗🤗
@@priyalaxmi6196 You really dont understand her situation. She is really having a difficult time and it may take months or may be years to subdue her emotional hurt. Intimate relationship especially if it is the first time getting physically with someone, it is really difficult to forget him. Even casual sex, if it is a first time for a girl, there will be emotional baggage attached to it.
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