Pre-marital Counseling: Yes or No?

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  • Опубліковано 8 лис 2024

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  • @TSHwithModupe
    @TSHwithModupe 4 роки тому +11

    I love the way Joshua realised he interjected when Opeyemi was talking apologised for it. Waited her to finish and took his turn to talk. Thank you for sharing. I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but I learnt a lot. What got my attention most (as I recently thought of it) was conflict resolution. Thinking through childhood, I don't remember seeing my parents resolve issues, one person is quiet while the other talks. And I don't want that. Well done guys 👏👏👏.

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому +3

      That's another benefit of pre-marital councelling. 🤣 We have learned to put eachother first. We are glad this video was a blessing to you and that it opened your eyes to conflict resolution.

    • @BlessedLPT.
      @BlessedLPT. 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, I noticed that too. And she was patient not to react. Also kudos to them for not editing that part out. This interjection alone can cause problems so it was nice to see how they dealt with it ❤❤

  • @eseobaro8762
    @eseobaro8762 4 роки тому +2

    You guys make marriage look so easy.... Awwww.. I love your love for each other.

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      When done right, marriage is meant to be easy 😌😌😌

  • @ibeblessing2195
    @ibeblessing2195 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this extensive enlightenment on premarital counselling. I've never seen it in this light before.

  • @dorcasfamoriyo
    @dorcasfamoriyo 4 роки тому +2

    Finally! Seems like God is preparing me ahead! Thanks guys

  • @TelaJillian
    @TelaJillian 11 місяців тому +1

    We spell it girl smells lovely lol ❤

  • @adedolapoolayinka6503
    @adedolapoolayinka6503 4 роки тому +2

    I absolutely love the Intro 😍😍
    And yes, we can perceive the perfume 😂😂.
    Thank you for this insight on premarital counselling, I've always just thought of it as something very tedious and not so necessary. But from the 10 reasons why, I can very much see the importance.

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Yaaayyy the Intro was carefully put together by Josh! Lmao @ the perfume 😅😅
      Glad you could see the importance of Premarital Councelling !!!

  • @thekitchenhabitue1544
    @thekitchenhabitue1544 2 роки тому +1

    You guys are so wise. I’m grateful for you guys

  • @sylviaajonye6617
    @sylviaajonye6617 4 роки тому +4

    How I'm I just seeing this??🤔, Ope you look very pretty 🥰❤🤗, I love your top😍(I'm coming for it), well done Josh🙌🙌👏👏,you are doing well( it shows on how pretty Ope is looking)..Premarital counseling is very important, in my church once you start dating you are advised to go through one. I have seen a few people that went their separate ways after going through premarital counseling because they realized they were not compatible. You guys are doing a wonderful job here, I love and celebrate you 🤗🤗
    Ps
    Pls pepper us small small, let us stop saying God when?😜😜😀

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Ahhhh what about Josh na looll...wow that's amazing super glad your church takes pre marital counseling as seriously as it should be👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @sylviaajonye6617
      @sylviaajonye6617 4 роки тому +1

      @@thekesenas Josh with his fine boy swag, looking fresh like today's banana bread 🥰🥰, he should keep a copy of that shirt for my husband to be o😉😉

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Ehennn😁😁😁😁

  • @loladelolly
    @loladelolly 4 роки тому +2

    Hi, I just found your channel and I love it here . Thank you for sharing !!

  • @akintolaoluwaseyi6966
    @akintolaoluwaseyi6966 Рік тому

    Your videos are so enlightening
    Thank you for doing this❤

  • @aleakwekadiri8662
    @aleakwekadiri8662 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video, I learnt a lot, I'm not in a relationship yet, learning for now and the future.

  • @stephenolorunsusi788
    @stephenolorunsusi788 3 роки тому +2

    Nice as usual!

  • @eunicebello7330
    @eunicebello7330 4 роки тому +2

    There’s always something super great to learn from you guys. This was really really helpful. Thank youuuuuuuu

  • @epheanyimartins3066
    @epheanyimartins3066 4 роки тому +1

    Lovely, lovely and blessed couple. Came from Twitter. Sent my wife your handles to follow and also subscribe. Married 13years and have plentyyyy questionssss but maybe next time..... God bless you 😄

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Osheyyyy 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾. Please email us so we can start the conversation and get those questions answered!! thekesenas@gmail.com

  • @karlaluke4417
    @karlaluke4417 4 роки тому +1

    This is amazing!..I learnt so much, and I laughed too 🤣..how am I just seeing this?😭...

  • @ms_adannaya
    @ms_adannaya 4 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed watching this and I must say I feel blessed.
    Thank you so much.
    Your perfume is niceee 😁

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Eheeennn @joshuakesena comman see oh!

  • @tolaniolabamiji4538
    @tolaniolabamiji4538 4 роки тому +1

    Love the new thumbnail 👍🏽👍🏽

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Thank youuu!!! Josh spent time coming up with the design concept!!

  • @MykelOkuboyejo
    @MykelOkuboyejo 4 роки тому +2

    I could actually perceive today's perfume.

  • @tolaniolabamiji4538
    @tolaniolabamiji4538 4 роки тому +1

    You guys are amazing ♥️
    Looking forward to the next video ✨

  • @stephenolorunsusi788
    @stephenolorunsusi788 3 роки тому +2

    I have to comment again!
    Sir Josh,this babe fineeeeee. Omo×100000000000000

  • @dawnthebusinesslawyer
    @dawnthebusinesslawyer 4 роки тому +1

    You guys are so amazing. Thanks for making us smile and get knowledge too❤️

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      You are welcome!!! Omg you are our daughter's namesake 😁🤯

    • @dawnthebusinesslawyer
      @dawnthebusinesslawyer 4 роки тому

      @@thekesenas wow 😊 such an honour to share a name with her

  • @stephenolorunsusi788
    @stephenolorunsusi788 3 роки тому +2

    You people are owing us wedding plans and preparation videos

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  3 роки тому

      We will add that to our list of videos to shoot this year 😅

  • @yaramasarahndirpaya2116
    @yaramasarahndirpaya2116 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much you guys teach me a lot ☺️☺️

  • @IfeanyiEKalu
    @IfeanyiEKalu 4 роки тому

    Love you guys! Another nice one from you guys.

  • @Awhobiwom
    @Awhobiwom 4 роки тому +1

    You guys bless me soo much❤️❤️

  • @emeeliagape
    @emeeliagape 4 роки тому +1

    😂😂 continue spraying the perfume biko. Pre- natural counseling is definitely important.

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Emily!!! Tell Joshua ohhhhh 🤣🤣

    • @oghosaokoro
      @oghosaokoro 4 роки тому

      You are a beautiful couple😍

  • @marionathaniel7372
    @marionathaniel7372 4 роки тому +1

    Talking about pre-marital counselling, say one doesn't belong to any religious group where pre-marital counselling is being administered or they don't have confidence in the marriage counsellors available to them at the moment. What do you advise for such couples?

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Hi Mario, We'd advice you find counselors you can have confidence in. Some offer online courses (like we do). But by all means, make sure you get pre marital counseling.

  • @NonyeNwandu
    @NonyeNwandu 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much. This was an amazing video. Had to pause my work to watch it completely with undivided attention 🙂.
    Is it possible to be part of the pre-martial counseling package even at the beginning stage of dating relationship or is it too early?

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Yaayyy we are glad you paid attention. Its possible to have councelling at the early stages but pre-marital councelling is specifically for couples who are engaged to be married.

    • @favourezeh66
      @favourezeh66 4 роки тому +1

      This was truly inspiring🙏

  • @Jesty_1
    @Jesty_1 4 роки тому +1

    I will sha be privileged to have a counselling session when i am ready.. so help me God.

  • @yaramasarahndirpaya2116
    @yaramasarahndirpaya2116 4 роки тому +1

    I don’t know how I can send a personal message but I want to know more about your counseling class .

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Yarama, please send us an email at thekesenas@gmail.com looking forward to hearing from you!

  • @dorcasfamoriyo
    @dorcasfamoriyo 4 роки тому +1

    Please, I have a question. I school in Jos as well. Can I know the name of the church where you got your counseling? They actually did a good job. Please😇

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому +1

      We got it at Calvary Baptist Church, Naraguta. They did a splendid job!

  • @donaldprecious5026
    @donaldprecious5026 4 роки тому

    Did you go for the counselling whilst you were engaged or even before the engagement??

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      We went while we were engaged

  • @emmanueldaniel1436
    @emmanueldaniel1436 2 роки тому

    Hello . How can I reach you to enquire about your premarital counselling

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  2 роки тому

      Hi Emmanuel, please send us a DM on instagram @thekesenas or send us an email thekesenas@gmail.com

  • @marvincuche
    @marvincuche 4 роки тому +1

    Where did you guys get counseling?

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Hey Marv! We got counseling in Jos, in Ope's Dad's church. We had lunch with 5 married couples who took us on different courses and taught us from their own failures.

  • @Awhobiwom
    @Awhobiwom 4 роки тому +1

    Can I do premarital counselling without a partner 🤣

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣...actually if you sign up to be a Peatron Supporter we can do one on one councelling...you wont need a partner for that 😁😁😁

    • @Awhobiwom
      @Awhobiwom 4 роки тому

      The Kesenas awesome! I will contact you

  • @bohmah_graapics1818
    @bohmah_graapics1818 4 роки тому +1

    Nice content though

  • @bohmah_graapics1818
    @bohmah_graapics1818 4 роки тому +1

    First to Comment 😆😆😆

  • @oluwafunmilayoajisafe7348
    @oluwafunmilayoajisafe7348 4 роки тому +1

    This was so beautiful to watch
    God bless you ❤️❤️❤️
    Please send your mail address

    • @thekesenas
      @thekesenas  4 роки тому

      Awesome! thekesenas@gmail.com