It's better to be patient as I was not and now I'm addicted to keep on giving up (you might see my comments a lot but the reason is that I'm just trying to fix depression and suicidal thoughts too happy and joyful thought and not letting people give up )
I wanted to cry but no tears came out. I wanted to sleep but my body wouldn't let me. I wanted to be hugged but no body to hug. I wanted to let go but god, God told me no. I wanted to be okay but I wasn't aloud too. I wanted to feel, all I ever wanted was to be happy. But I couldn't in a life so painful as mine. I miss being young, being happy. Being able to smile, but God said no.
@@ホッセーンレーイヤン God loves you. He’s doing all this for a reason. He knows what you’re going through. And he’s working on you. On all of you. It’s gonna get better, just give it time.
I feel like everyone with this kinda music taste is the same and everyone that haves a hard time you are loved and the best stranger i've ever met. I LOVE YOU
@@mizzoupatriot8814 idk if that was directed towards me or not but if it was for me then thank you and if it was for someone else then yeah I agree with you
@@Amygdallama you don't know how many time I get told grow up. You know what, I wouldn't want the world to stop and wait for me, I want the people around me to not act like I'm invisible.
It’s amazing that Katelyn Tarver actually managed to put this feeling into words. The feeling of being told to “hold on” or “it’ll get better soon” when all you want to do is scream at the person saying it that *they have no idea what your struggles are.* Take me for example. My parents have had to struggle a lot in their life, I really do get that. But sometimes I feel like they invalidate my struggles because they’re so much more trivial than their own. My struggles still exist though. I’m being crushed by expectations and stress and all they can say is, “We had to do ten times the amount of work you do at your age.” It’s a virtually indescribable feeling, the loneliness you feel when you think nobody gets what you’re saying; when you feeling like you’re struggling alone, when all you want is the weight to be taken off your back for just one day, one hour. Good job to Katelyn Tarver for capturing it so well!
*You don't know what it's like* To try to fake smiles To try to fake laughs To try to hide cuts To try to hide scars To try to hide depression To try to hide anxiety To try to hide eating disorders To try to stay calm To try to disagree with bullies To try to not show crying To try to not sound upset To try to please everyone To try to be "popular" To try to be "cool" To try to not jump To try to not get ropes If you think you understand, trust me you don't, so don't tell me you do... Everyone feels different things. You understand what you feet not what I feel so don't even try it...
Sometimes what others are telling you is more accurate than how you think you feel, although they won't know exactly how it feels, they can guess AND help. Offer solutions you've never thought of. That's why you listen. Don't say they don't know cuz some people do, and some people know worse, all you have to do is listen
Totally true, we keep happy faces on for everyone, and tell them 'its ok, you will be fine' or 'suicide is not the way to go!' when we feel like that and don't have anyone to tell us that...
That’s how I feel a lot of the time, everyone has their best friends in the friendship groups and it’s an odd number so I’m always left out :/ most of the time I just sit in the background with my AirPods in and listen to music to pass time
five minutes ago I screamed at my parents: "you don't know what it's like!! " and slammed my door and now I found this song, I feel this so damm hard...
@@kyleighstallings4696 same with me but more so directed at my little sister (1 year younger) and my dad. I don’t have a great relationship with either of them like I do with my mom because she’s more understanding and will actually listen to what I have to say. It’s easier to open up to her.
@@teagancaffrey2926 yeah. I'm starting to get a relationship with my mom and my stepdad but I feel like I have one more with my mom and I've been figuring out alot more about some of the stuff that happend with my mom and it's a little similar and I feel like I can got to her about alot more now and then there ks my stepdad who I'm kinda close with but he is a former marine and his thing is telling people to suck it up and deal with it.
Does anyone else sometimes wish they were back in elementary school? you know... back when you could say or do anything and no one would judge you or back when the only pain you felt was when you fell and scraped your knee and the only scar or scratch you knew of was when you feel down or maybe back when almost everyone was your real friend or you pretty much knew everyone or when you weren't afraid to wear something crazy out in public or when you weren't afraid of speaking up infront of anyone or back when the only time you were scared was when you were alone in your room or going to grab something from your parents room alone (or that's just me) Like I would much rather be a free little kid then a depressed, anxious teen. No? Just me?
I can relate. I wish for that every single day because I'm scared of going to adulthood. It's worse that I'm still in bad shape mentally and emotionally
@@gwynethmadelo8146 Adulthood can be scary. I mean I dont know what adulthood looks like but every adult that I know says adulting is shit, but I Know- well I don't really know you but I bet you're strong and you're gonna be able to fight through it.
I miss those times so much. Im going to be 16 in a few days and the idea of getting older scares the shit out of me. If life is this hard as a teen, I don't want to know what adulthood is like.
Children today: Depressions,self harm,going crazy, Edit: wow I'm somehow happy now..to be not the only one who sees this way or feels this way ^^ so here we are. A group of people who are mental not ok but for each other there I guess
Same if I fight with my best friend I just put on a fake smile💔 before I saw my friends diary this is what it said sometimes.when I fight with my best friend I fell in don't wanna be her friend anymore.when whensaw it my heart ached and fall apart.
This comment section is heartbreaking. To anyone feeling absolutely downtrodden and hopeless, take this from someone who's seen darker days than most - it gets better. Hang in there, because life is so full of possibility. It always has the potential to get better. If you've hit rock bottom, the only place you can go is up. Also, don't be afraid to seek help! I am where I am today because of wonderful psychologists and psychiatrists. But to get better, you need to want to get better. Hang in there, and keep fighting ♥ It gets better (yes, cliche, I know - but it's true), and it is 100% worth it.
I'm 13. I can't get tests or stuff to prove I'm depressed, but I do have anger issues. I am stressed. I don't sleep much, always feeling tired and sleep deprived. I cry sometimes, over stupid things, like how much I miss my friends, how scared I am about next school year because of all this, if they'll remember me. I have social issues. I get really nervous and scared to talk to people, even if they're really nice, I can't make eye contact with anyone. My chest gets like, really heavy when I'm about to meet new people, like my older sister's friends. I have thoughts of ways to die. Like, hanging, cutting myself too much, wrist slitting throat slitting, but I don't know if I would consider myself ''suicidal'' because I'm afraid to die. I'm ''too young to be depressed''. I'm too young to feel this way, to be sad. I can't even ask for help!! At lunch at my school, when I'm quiet for a while (like, not spoken to) my friends will apologize and ask if I'm okay. Aand, like the dumb cliche, I say I'm fine, while I usually pick at my food. I don't eat breakfast at school either!! Yuck, but also sometimes I snack but yeah. I dunno if I'm depressed or just really sad and stressed and scared all the time, but someone who knows can probably tell me! Thanks! Edit: Hi guys :D I've started doing better now, thank you to the people who gave me advice in the replies. I hope everyone else who feels like this gets the help they need soon. I still feel sad and useless sometimes, but I've never laughed so much in my life like I have now at the age I am. Happiness will always find you, even if it takes a while. It'll come. Good luck! :)
Flor Medina it’s going to be okay... it gets better eventually, I know it doesn’t feel like that now but it will... if you are feeling sad I recommend telling one of your friends if you have any, if not then just someone you trust.. you are still very young currently but your feeling are valid
You aren’t too young to be depressed I can assure you... If and when possible I recommend you get a diagnosis for depression as that’s the best way you can get help...
You dont know what its like. To feel alone To feel put to the side To be depressed but your parents say your just crazy and stupid To slit your wrist To feel so bad about yourself To want to disappear To feel like your just a waste of space To wish you should've been born To loose hope To need your dad To not know how to Express your feelings To not be able to talk to someone It sucks.
Oh I know not it feels, trust me, it sucks, with the sliting your wrist it is almost like you are possessed to walk to the knife, and then forced to pick it up, it’s almost like your not in control, and it’s very scary, I feel alone a lot, even if I’m around a bunch of people, I feel like I’m the only one with emotions , but for me it’s almost like I feel empty sad or mad, that’s all. It gets so repetitive I just wanna end the cycle ya feel me
I know the feeling. I am a mess. I have Paranoia,Schizophrenia and i am Depressed for 4 jears Now, i am 14. I am not Cutting my Skin but i am hurting me with a Pencil. My mom says it's normal to Feel down sometimes. Anything was almost ok until i told my friends that i have Schizophrenia. They were ok with it well One of them Not. My "BFF" the Person that was my First friend ever ignored me she told me she found a reason to Not be my friend. Since this day i am Sleeping like 1 hour per day. And what it makes it more worse i am Bi and i had a huge crush on her. Anyone Tells that it will get better and i am sick of it my mom don't believe that i am deppresed or Bi i have no One. The Only Thing that keeps me alive is UA-cam and my Dream to become a doctor.... I don't wants anyone to be sad because of me i just Wanted to say that life can be horrible. If you want to be sad then Cry it out. Try to find a Person you can tell anything. Even if it's a therapist ;)
the part that the song says "you dont know what its like.." is the word i wanted to say to all the people who compares me to others...if they changed..they change for the better but if i changed...i change for the worst
Does anyone else feel selfish or guilty that we're depressed but then think about other people in worse situations and then feel like we're overreacting or that we should just be happy?
all the time. Especially because my parents have dealt with trauma so any time I'm even mildly upset and they know, it's gets thrown in my face that I "don't know what a real problem in life is" and that I "haven't been through (fill in the blank with horrific trauma)" so I don't know what a hard life is. And they're right... I haven't been through what other people have. I only know my own experiences. I can only read about people who've had it worse than I could ever imagine, and I try to be thankful and pray for them and try not to feel depressed, but I feel incredibly guilty, even though I know some of this is well beyond my control.
*You* are worth it. *You* are strong. *You* are beautiful. *You* are loved. *You* are wanted. *You* are not a waste of space. *You* are not stupid. *You* are not limited. *You* can be anything you want to be. *You* can love who you want and what you want. *You* can do anything and everything. *You* are *You.* 💖
thank you School: for making my parents mad at me for bad grades Friends: For me when I need them the most Parents: For yelling at me and making me feel bad Music: For making me feel better when no one else cared. And everyone wonders why I'm always sad...
It’s just really really hard.. I wake up everyday just to remember that you’re not here anymore..and I-i have to feel the pain all over again..yes, it’s true that nobody knows me exactly.
I understand how you feel. Im currently feeling the same. Nobody knows because i can't help but a mask on and pretend im ok because they may know what is like but they somehow wont understand me. Thats my biggest fear. They dont know they are my life and my biggest fead
I'm a grown ass man and this song has been making me cry so fucking hard...fuck man...it's real shit out here. I love yall though...all I can say is just keep moving forward no matter what just keep walking straight an don't look behind you.
Same they say that were just kids and we haven't gone through life BUT FUCK THEY DONT KNOW HOW WE FEEL AND HOW THE PAIN COMES FROM THEM change you attitude change this change that act your age how the hell do act like a soon to be 13 year old happy and sunshine and rainbows .well Clearly that how I should act I'm just a pimple popping freak who didn't act to be born or live like this
My parents dont listen when I put this song on for them..I hate it so much...they say they know what it's like..but in reality....they have no clue...yeah sure my dad cut when he was young too....but every generation is different....
@Raymond Gomez me and my father are like that. It really hurts tho.😥
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I’ve went through so many things. I just wish that my parents and friends could hug me tightly and accept me for who I am. I feel like I’m trapped in my anxiety and pain. I’ll never get out. I’ll never be the happy perfect child everyone wants me to be. It’s good that I can change my emotion completely and force myself to stop crying. Anxiety, Autism, Severe eating disorders, Abused, Stressed, Groomed. Yea, life is great, everything’s fine. I wish I could go back to when I was 1, everything was perfect then. The rest of my childhood and teenage years sucked.
They think it's okay to hurt you by feelings or physically, but you know yourself it's not. Only you know. I'm sorry you had to deal with this. But you're a strong girl and I know, because you're still here😊😊😊. I don't discriminate nor will I call people names, but if someone steps past my boundaries, you better be sorry.
yeah like you know nothing, why are you so dramatic, why are you like that, can you do better than this i hate so much but i still want to fight i know someday all my pain will go away
This not only hits home with all the mental shit I've had to go through but with the physical as well. Having multiple chronic conditions, never going a day without pain but always being told I'll be fine just keep pushing forward, being told constantly to keep fighting, to bare with it even when nothing can be done to ease the suffering. My quality of life is shit and I really just want to give up because what is the point of living when I'm trapped in a broken and dying body, when I will never have a break from all the pain, when I'll never be able to just live. I'm merely being kept alive at this point. This isn't living, it's just not dying.
My failure of a life in summary: My birth School was hell. Bullied relentlessly Grades deteriorated and never improved ADHD, anxiety, depression, and undiagnosed autism making me look like a pathetic misunderstood teenager. Getting into a program for college undergrads that basically teaches people like me how to adult normally because my incompetent ass can’t keep up with others my age. (18yo) Friendship failing me... Or I always fail it... Being told by many I use my friends for my own personal gain... Failing to see the light I once saw... I just want to give up...
First dont give up Second friends are to learn from and they should support u Third your marks dosent matter your try does Fourth dont give a shit to bullies they are saying this because they know u are a diamond they are just jelous
Listen to me,you’re a diamon that shining in the dark.You’re strong keep fighting with your pain.I will always walk with you,and you’re the part of me:)
Never give up! You are beautifully and uniquely you - you're human. What others tell you does not define you. Keep going - find what brings you joy and choose to see the light even when everything feels bad.
Mine: born prematurely, autistic, asthmatic, ADHD. I lived in suburbia for my first 8 years, and then... The poverty hit, then the homelessness for a year or two. I got a trailer 4 years ago but I constantly moved, never had a permanent friend or a classic childhood, just stayed inside alone. Last year I was mauled by dogs and left with scars on my chest and back, but I got a settlement, then a girlfriend. Now I have a bunch of things I never imagined I would ever own. I smiled in the face of my suffering all the way through and made good grades, and now life has rewarded me. So tell me, if I could keep up the fight throughout my whole life, why can't you?
Hell to add on to my loooong list of issues, I got vitamin d deficiency, my mom thinks I might have tourrets, and probably anxiety. And my dad was never really there, and when I did visit, he abused me and my brother
If your looking at this comment.....just know I love you even if I don’t know you god put you in this world for a reason!! Don’t cut you skin isn’t paper,I know you want to give up... please don’t ok people love you even if they do t show it ok!🥺💖
I have a friend who cut himself but trust me it is horrible to cut yourself U can end up dying I dont want u to die even tho I dont know u. I can tell u are a fighter in the race of life just nobody is noticing but I noticed it u are Amazing
It’s alright, it’s going to be okay. I was inside a bubbles that drowned me for quite a while from not knowing why and how it happened, to revelation of why and grieving and finally acceptance. The journey begins, when I pop the bubbles and for the first time, my mind was so crystal clear, and I could finally breathe and think. It took a long time to heal and still am healing. I slipped sometimes, but now not long, cause I know the way out to pull myself.
I was there. I nearly died twice. I don’t know how many times I was a moment away from committing suicide. I can‘t remember a lot from my first 16 years of living. I know I got bullied in school. I lost all my friends over and over again. I was bad in school. I hated my family. I hated myself the most. Now I turn 20 in 4 days. I have survived an accident, 10 surgeries in 1,5 years - and I have survived myself. Just keep going, start to love yourself. If you love yourself, start loving others, be kind, be honest, talk to the people that surround you. You can be whatever you want, you can do everything. Life is worth living for.
Thank you for all of those people that kept supporting each other even you don't know who they are. Small gesture of kindness can really make people day.
This song literally describes what i feel like i do appreciate all of their kind words but something in my mind wont change,no matter how hard they tried to convince me how worthy i am..i just cant accept it..like i know who i am..things just will be the same
I can feel the pain of reality through this song!🥺😭 They say "If you love someone tell them, life is too short not to". Even though I love that quote I can't follow it.
I relate to this song so much... I cant help but cry, the abuse I go through in life, the depression... music is a way to somehow cheer me up a little bit... music is a big part of my life...
For all the people who are struggling; you are strong. You are not alone. Please hold on🥺💕 and if you who are reading this and are struggling; I'm proud of you for continuing to fight. It's ok to hurt but please keep fighting 💕 you got it, honey, you got it💕 God's got you, and there are people who are here for you. Keep your head up💕
This explains my life sm. My mom makes me cry regularly, my dad always leactures me about how he misses the old me, my friends say 'your fine', when i post a vent all people people have to say is 'felt', my therapist thinks im okay because i don't tell her anything and nobody knows that the confident happy girl they see is all a illusion.
Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile. Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs. Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. I love you and send you hugs. You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you. YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice. You’re beautiful inside out. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN. I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO. It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go. I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.?? I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :) All I want for you is to stay and feel alive. Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. I need you here with me :). Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out. Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up. And anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?! - The stranger that cares about you more than anything. I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay. I hope you will remember my words- becho :) Until tomorrow, my friend :) (I just copied becho comment and paste here cuz I think it might help you, I'm not the one write this all)
I have depression and some how i don't want to get better , i don't want to see the brigbter side , and i finally found this song , most precious song i ever listened too
Fight your pain dont give up! God made you for a reason or else why would you be here? God made us here to start a new adventure and dont just throw it all away I will be here to support you!
I never paid attention to this song much as a kid, considering it a trending song, and just joined in. Of course, I lost track of this song and found it again. I have paid attention to the lyrics and melody this time. I enjoy this song, I like how the lyrics are so understandable and relatable.
I used to listen to this song a long time ago, and today I was humming it, surprised I knew the rhythm, I listened to this song today and I like it again.
this is where i lost my friends . the man who used to approach me left me . where my parents always get mad at me . where i lost everything . dearself , u r strong . keep fighting . this is ur life , not someone else's . dear u who r reading this , know that u r very strong . dont even think about anything else . u just lose , doesnt mean u cant win . lot of loves
Since I was 13, I already knew I cruel the world is. I always cry at night and i don't know what's wrong me anymore. I don't understand myself, helpp me.
This song is the reason i keep living Katelyn Tarver when she was on big time rush i loved her acting and now i love her even more for her music this song helps me so much i hate being depressed, anxious, suicidal, but she makes it easier so thank you Katelyn. Thank you.
I'm sorry for those who feel depressed, sad, or struggle with urself, please don't give up.. You are more important than anything else in this world.. stay strong, always pray & hope for the best.. We love u, don't give up.. You're lots of stronger than anyone ever knew you.. be safe ❤️
I come back to this when my severe panic attacks hit, it really is just draining me and nobody gets it; how bad they are for me. They only see my physical response not the mental struggle I go through 24/7. I just hope my medicine builds up and makes them go away like it had been doing for the past 4 years. Second time I've had the dosage increased, it just seems to be taking longer this time..
i really love this song bcs it suit my situation right now . i don't know why my family always judge and like to compare me with others . they never care about what i feel . sometimes i feel that why i feel this pain , im to young for all of these .
I was crying a lot and someone just messaged me and all they said was hi and it made me stop crying for a couple minutes sometimes that’s all somebody needs when they’re feeling like that
i used to listen to this as a kid.. hurting all the time, crying in class.. it gets better guys. its not going to stay bad. just hang on tight, you ARE worth it. lots of love 🫶
This song has always spoken to me. I have lived through hell fire and I still fight. I have ptsd, anxiety and major depression. Ive been a victim of domestic and parental abuse. My mother recently told me she didnt want anything else to do with me because I asked her to calm down. She was on another abusive rant with my sisters and they needed me. So I tried to talk to her. She disowned me that second. She hasnt called her grandkids, she hasnt called me. All shes done is cause more mental damage. If you are a parent... love your kids... or dont have any. They didnt choose to be your kid.
So when you reach a point where no song makes you cry cause ur soul has ran out of any kind of emotions its all empty. Yet! Yet this emptiness is the heaviest kind ah... :)
Yes it will change, it would get better. I was 5 years ago singing this song with no hopes for the future and here I am with so much more that I could ever imagine... But I know the feeling, I understand.
As an active fighter with depression, I will not allow this song into my playlist. Hoping the best for all of you out there that are torn by her words 🙌
Feeling that empty feeling again. Depression is hard. Suffered from it severely and once in a while the hought of falling back into it crossed my mind.
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
It's sad when people don't know the pain your feeling and they got the nerve to say "your not depressed" "your just asking for attention" "you don't know what pain is" "your to young to be depressed" "stop faking that bullshit" ect.. And all you can do is sit/stand there and stay silent hoping they don't hit you for "talking back"....
if your daughter is trying her best let her do what shes doing dont compare her to other girls or say that she cant even do what an 8 year old can do dont make her feel like she doesnt belong in the family. You really dont know what it is like.Life is hard.She'll feel mad at herself . if she starts crying? thats beacuse shes ashamed shes not the daughter you want.Shes heartbroken.She has sevral secrets about life and if shes okay.She looks happy but shes not.You dont know what its like.JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.if you cant.dont worry.just carry on and hold back the tears and let yourself smile.
@@urwrong9406 True, thats why its best just to let it out by yourself then to feel embarresed while doing it infront of your parents so if the smile is fake keep it that way unless you want people to see your pain.
i feel like my best advice for when you're sad is to stay away from all the sad and negative things such as sad songs quotes etc. because it'll make you feel worse. sometimes it'll help when you cant cry and you need to but in my experience happiness so much better than sadness. when I get down or upset i listen to upbeat music and try and be positive. i know it seems hard for most especially when they feel like there's nobody there for them, but it really helps to talk to people and if you cant i suggest talking to yourself it can help. try and figure out why you're sad and try and figure out a way to be happier. and if you know why you're sad and you feel like you cant fix it, give it time. time is the best medicine. and if you're in an argument with someone try and look at their perspective. as someone diagnosed with mild depression, severe anxiety, and insomnia, i know times can be hard and things can be rough but you'll get through it i promise :) you're worth it!
Too you all on here , remember how awesome you are , I have always been the black sheep I have double ostomies no children but I get tole what have you got too be depressed about !! I'm 40 but guys remember you won't always feel so lost but please talk too some one you are all amazing in youre own ways 🎉
Thank you so much for your support!
same👍🏼
"just be patient."
Its hurting me
Lock your room, put on those earphones, turn up the music and... LET GO of your body.. You'll feel crazy good.
It's better to be patient as I was not and now I'm addicted to keep on giving up (you might see my comments a lot but the reason is that I'm just trying to fix depression and suicidal thoughts too happy and joyful thought and not letting people give up )
I m sending you a virtual long fat hug right now🐛♥️♥️♥️
@@hanro2123 yeah...
saba ea
I wanted to cry but no tears came out. I wanted to sleep but my body wouldn't let me. I wanted to be hugged but no body to hug. I wanted to let go but god, God told me no. I wanted to be okay but I wasn't aloud too. I wanted to feel, all I ever wanted was to be happy. But I couldn't in a life so painful as mine. I miss being young, being happy. Being able to smile, but God said no.
No God loves all. I love you!
Same, half the time I don't cry even if I want to-
@@ホッセーンレーイヤン no not on your own doing. That's not destiny
*Hug
You got someone to hug now.
@@ホッセーンレーイヤン God loves you. He’s doing all this for a reason. He knows what you’re going through. And he’s working on you. On all of you. It’s gonna get better, just give it time.
I feel like everyone with this kinda music taste is the same and everyone that haves a hard time you are loved and the best stranger i've ever met. I LOVE YOU
We love you
Just a minute ago I had a mental breakdown and this is the song I was listening to....life hurts and that's the truth
Love you stranger :) Without music, love wouldn't stand a chance. Stay beautiful and never settle for less than your heart.
@@mizzoupatriot8814 idk if that was directed towards me or not but if it was for me then thank you and if it was for someone else then yeah I agree with you
Even when you feel like the whole world is against you and your excluded from everything with everyone.
im not scared of dying im scared of the pain
Aren't we all ??? Not in a mean way I swear
@@ItzAnimeChan yupp
@@ItzAnimeChan I agree I am too
qt._.littledinosaur I want to die but I don’t want to feel the pain.....
But when you died you won’t feel anymore pain just the last pain at the same time...
Sometimes, When get Depression People just need someone to hug them.
I didn't get hugged since the day I became 6 😁😐
ghulam javed sending a virtual hug 🤗
That's deep, but that's true
🔥
But I have none to hug
"why teenagers are so damn angry and always depressed?"
*because we're being treated like a kid and being told / is expect to behave like an adult*
Deeper
Wow, you should be a therapist 😂
@@wolv5525 grow up, you expect the world to stop and wait for you everytime your feelings get hurt?
@@Amygdallama you don't know how many time I get told grow up. You know what, I wouldn't want the world to stop and wait for me, I want the people around me to not act like I'm invisible.
@@wolv5525 I was abused as a kid, and that was the least worst thing to have happened to me. So yeah grow up
It’s amazing that Katelyn Tarver actually managed to put this feeling into words. The feeling of being told to “hold on” or “it’ll get better soon” when all you want to do is scream at the person saying it that *they have no idea what your struggles are.*
Take me for example. My parents have had to struggle a lot in their life, I really do get that. But sometimes I feel like they invalidate my struggles because they’re so much more trivial than their own. My struggles still exist though. I’m being crushed by expectations and stress and all they can say is, “We had to do ten times the amount of work you do at your age.”
It’s a virtually indescribable feeling, the loneliness you feel when you think nobody gets what you’re saying; when you feeling like you’re struggling alone, when all you want is the weight to be taken off your back for just one day, one hour.
Good job to Katelyn Tarver for capturing it so well!
*You don't know what it's like*
To try to fake smiles
To try to fake laughs
To try to hide cuts
To try to hide scars
To try to hide depression
To try to hide anxiety
To try to hide eating disorders
To try to stay calm
To try to disagree with bullies
To try to not show crying
To try to not sound upset
To try to please everyone
To try to be "popular"
To try to be "cool"
To try to not jump
To try to not get ropes
If you think you understand, trust me you don't, so don't tell me you do... Everyone feels different things. You understand what you feet not what I feel so don't even try it...
I'm so sorry i wish u the best :( xx
Trust me Hun
I know.
Sometimes what others are telling you is more accurate than how you think you feel, although they won't know exactly how it feels, they can guess AND help. Offer solutions you've never thought of. That's why you listen. Don't say they don't know cuz some people do, and some people know worse, all you have to do is listen
Trust me i know what this is like.I know all too well
Why cut yourself
We're all secretly suicidal kids telling others that it'll be alright and they'll make it through, when in fact, we're stuck in that same feeling.
as "the therapist friend" i totally agree
Someone ask me just tell me about your life.
I said I wish I die the day I
.........
Born.
True fact....
Unfortunately facts
Totally true, we keep happy faces on for everyone, and tell them 'its ok, you will be fine' or 'suicide is not the way to go!' when we feel like that and don't have anyone to tell us that...
I’m never anyone’s first choice. It hurts me seeing all my friends all nice and happy and then there’s just me. Just the background.
That’s how I feel a lot of the time, everyone has their best friends in the friendship groups and it’s an odd number so I’m always left out :/ most of the time I just sit in the background with my AirPods in and listen to music to pass time
Same im always ignored 🙃
just open the happy mask.. ik it hurts
@@alicia5904 can't relate more 😭that shit hurts
Agreed
five minutes ago I screamed at my parents: "you don't know what it's like!! " and slammed my door
and now I found this song, I feel this so damm hard...
Let me guess
Did you search " you don't know what it's like" because you wanted to feel validated? Because I always do that😭
I wish I had the guts to say that to my parents. I've wanted to so many times because they just dont understand.
stay strong my friend
@@kyleighstallings4696 same with me but more so directed at my little sister (1 year younger) and my dad. I don’t have a great relationship with either of them like I do with my mom because she’s more understanding and will actually listen to what I have to say. It’s easier to open up to her.
@@teagancaffrey2926 yeah. I'm starting to get a relationship with my mom and my stepdad but I feel like I have one more with my mom and I've been figuring out alot more about some of the stuff that happend with my mom and it's a little similar and I feel like I can got to her about alot more now and then there ks my stepdad who I'm kinda close with but he is a former marine and his thing is telling people to suck it up and deal with it.
Does anyone else sometimes wish they were back in elementary school?
you know...
back when you could say or do anything and no one would judge you
or back when the only pain you felt was when you fell and scraped your knee and the only scar or scratch you knew of was when you feel down
or maybe back when almost everyone was your real friend or you pretty much knew everyone
or when you weren't afraid to wear something crazy out in public
or when you weren't afraid of speaking up infront of anyone
or back when the only time you were scared was when you were alone in your room or going to grab something from your parents room alone (or that's just me)
Like I would much rather be a free little kid then a depressed, anxious teen.
No? Just me?
I can relate. I wish for that every single day because I'm scared of going to adulthood. It's worse that I'm still in bad shape mentally and emotionally
@@gwynethmadelo8146 Adulthood can be scary. I mean I dont know what adulthood looks like but every adult that I know says adulting is shit, but I Know- well I don't really know you but I bet you're strong and you're gonna be able to fight through it.
I miss those times so much. Im going to be 16 in a few days and the idea of getting older scares the shit out of me. If life is this hard as a teen, I don't want to know what adulthood is like.
@@sesaleeviscomi4497 I'm turning 17 this year too and ur thought exactly resonates with mine😔
@@gwynethmadelo8146 getting older scares me so much
Children today: Depressions,self harm,going crazy,
Edit: wow I'm somehow happy now..to be not the only one who sees this way or feels this way ^^ so here we are. A group of people who are mental not ok but for each other there I guess
I'm one of them
Jeff_killer parents don’t understand.
Ugh tell me about it..
Mhm
That's me but I'm depressed yeah but I can't say I have depression because I was not diagnose
"Are you okay?"
"I'm not okay, but it's okay"
Song that let me erase my fake smile from my face and stop saying that I'm fine always while I am not.
:c *hug*
Same if I fight with my best friend I just put on a fake smile💔 before I saw my friends diary this is what it said sometimes.when I fight with my best friend I fell in don't wanna be her friend anymore.when whensaw it my heart ached and fall apart.
yasss really agreed felt sooo tired pretend happy
same
Psalm 147:3: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”❤️ God is with u
This comment section is heartbreaking. To anyone feeling absolutely downtrodden and hopeless, take this from someone who's seen darker days than most - it gets better. Hang in there, because life is so full of possibility. It always has the potential to get better. If you've hit rock bottom, the only place you can go is up.
Also, don't be afraid to seek help! I am where I am today because of wonderful psychologists and psychiatrists. But to get better, you need to want to get better. Hang in there, and keep fighting ♥ It gets better (yes, cliche, I know - but it's true), and it is 100% worth it.
I’ve been hanging in for 16 years
I've been hanging in for 21 years, I don't see it getting better. Life's hell, but I have to stay for my best friend so she made me promise
I’ve been hanging on ever since I was born.
I'm 13. I can't get tests or stuff to prove I'm depressed, but I do have anger issues. I am stressed. I don't sleep much, always feeling tired and sleep deprived. I cry sometimes, over stupid things, like how much I miss my friends, how scared I am about next school year because of all this, if they'll remember me. I have social issues. I get really nervous and scared to talk to people, even if they're really nice, I can't make eye contact with anyone. My chest gets like, really heavy when I'm about to meet new people, like my older sister's friends. I have thoughts of ways to die. Like, hanging, cutting myself too much, wrist slitting throat slitting, but I don't know if I would consider myself ''suicidal'' because I'm afraid to die. I'm ''too young to be depressed''. I'm too young to feel this way, to be sad. I can't even ask for help!! At lunch at my school, when I'm quiet for a while (like, not spoken to) my friends will apologize and ask if I'm okay. Aand, like the dumb cliche, I say I'm fine, while I usually pick at my food. I don't eat breakfast at school either!! Yuck, but also sometimes I snack but yeah. I dunno if I'm depressed or just really sad and stressed and scared all the time, but someone who knows can probably tell me! Thanks!
Edit: Hi guys :D I've started doing better now, thank you to the people who gave me advice in the replies. I hope everyone else who feels like this gets the help they need soon. I still feel sad and useless sometimes, but I've never laughed so much in my life like I have now at the age I am. Happiness will always find you, even if it takes a while. It'll come. Good luck! :)
I fell super sad for you. I fell the same to even I'm 9 using my grandma's phone I put on a fake smile but inside I fell sad
Flor Medina it’s going to be okay... it gets better eventually, I know it doesn’t feel like that now but it will... if you are feeling sad I recommend telling one of your friends if you have any, if not then just someone you trust.. you are still very young currently but your feeling are valid
You aren’t too young to be depressed I can assure you... If and when possible I recommend you get a diagnosis for depression as that’s the best way you can get help...
I have had all these feeling since I was 10 years old. I’ve felt like this years later. But It will get better.
I’m so sorry honey ❤️
Let's be honest, we are all derepressed, suicidal kids trying to convince ourselves that suicide is not worth it...
Its not bby
:)
Its not just kids
Yeah...
Correct...is it that easy to know...?
You dont know what its like.
To feel alone
To feel put to the side
To be depressed but your parents say your just crazy and stupid
To slit your wrist
To feel so bad about yourself
To want to disappear
To feel like your just a waste of space
To wish you should've been born
To loose hope
To need your dad
To not know how to Express your feelings
To not be able to talk to someone
It sucks.
Ik☺
Yeah I do but I have my dad but my mum I need her but shes lost in her own world
I do know what its like and thats the sad part
Oh I know not it feels, trust me, it sucks, with the sliting your wrist it is almost like you are possessed to walk to the knife, and then forced to pick it up, it’s almost like your not in control, and it’s very scary, I feel alone a lot, even if I’m around a bunch of people, I feel like I’m the only one with emotions , but for me it’s almost like I feel empty sad or mad, that’s all. It gets so repetitive I just wanna end the cycle ya feel me
I know the feeling. I am a mess. I have Paranoia,Schizophrenia and i am Depressed for 4 jears Now, i am 14. I am not Cutting my Skin but i am hurting me with a Pencil. My mom says it's normal to Feel down sometimes. Anything was almost ok until i told my friends that i have Schizophrenia. They were ok with it well One of them Not. My "BFF" the Person that was my First friend ever ignored me she told me she found a reason to Not be my friend. Since this day i am Sleeping like 1 hour per day. And what it makes it more worse i am Bi and i had a huge crush on her. Anyone Tells that it will get better and i am sick of it my mom don't believe that i am deppresed or Bi i have no One. The Only Thing that keeps me alive is UA-cam and my Dream to become a doctor....
I don't wants anyone to be sad because of me i just Wanted to say that life can be horrible. If you want to be sad then Cry it out. Try to find a Person you can tell anything. Even if it's a therapist ;)
the part that the song says "you dont know what its like.."
is the word i wanted to say to all the people who compares me to others...if they changed..they change for the better but if i changed...i change for the worst
I remember not crying to this song, but now that I'm older and can actually relate to it, I'm bawling...
Does anyone else feel selfish or guilty that we're depressed but then think about other people in worse situations and then feel like we're overreacting or that we should just be happy?
Yeah I care too much about people to care for myself.
😢😢
all the time. Especially because my parents have dealt with trauma so any time I'm even mildly upset and they know, it's gets thrown in my face that I "don't know what a real problem in life is" and that I "haven't been through (fill in the blank with horrific trauma)" so I don't know what a hard life is. And they're right... I haven't been through what other people have. I only know my own experiences. I can only read about people who've had it worse than I could ever imagine, and I try to be thankful and pray for them and try not to feel depressed, but I feel incredibly guilty, even though I know some of this is well beyond my control.
Omg I feel the same
Hey you, you're such a diamond in this world filled of garbage. So please don't let anything or anyone ruin you.
Stay safe 🙂
thanks love
Hey u know u are the most amazing diamond too
Thankyoouu 😭
@@maryw2113 😘
@@kushagratrivedi7330 thank you!!🤩
*You* are worth it.
*You* are strong.
*You* are beautiful.
*You* are loved.
*You* are wanted.
*You* are not a waste of space.
*You* are not stupid.
*You* are not limited.
*You* can be anything you want to be.
*You* can love who you want and what you want.
*You* can do anything and everything.
*You* are *You.* 💖
thank you
School: for making my parents mad at me for bad grades
Friends: For me when I need them the most
Parents: For yelling at me and making me feel bad
Music: For making me feel better when no one else cared.
And everyone wonders why I'm always sad...
I wonder why noone has already hugged you. I'll do that come here👐
Is anyone else replaying the song over and over again so they can read the comments and listen to the song again?
Yeah doing that rn
Sadly
I'm literally doing that rn
It’s just really really hard..
I wake up everyday just to remember that you’re not here anymore..and I-i have to feel the pain all over again..yes, it’s true that nobody knows me exactly.
bila rindu ini,masih utkmu
kuhadirkan sebuah tanya utk mu
harus brapa lama.. aku menunggu mu.. aku menunggu mu..
let see how many can relate
Jjzj
Psalm 147:3: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”❤️ trust God
i’m not scared of loosing myself, im scared of loosing the one person holding my life together rn
I feel u on that I feel like I'm losing myself and my fiance
this got to me...
I understand how you feel. Im currently feeling the same. Nobody knows because i can't help but a mask on and pretend im ok because they may know what is like but they somehow wont understand me. Thats my biggest fear. They dont know they are my life and my biggest fead
I'm a grown ass man and this song has been making me cry so fucking hard...fuck man...it's real shit out here. I love yall though...all I can say is just keep moving forward no matter what just keep walking straight an don't look behind you.
Hope u feel better now
My parents dont understand my pain they just give me my pain
same :( i feel you
same
Feel same as me
That hit me so hard I felt that so deep
Same they say that were just kids and we haven't gone through life BUT FUCK THEY DONT KNOW HOW WE FEEL AND HOW THE
PAIN COMES FROM THEM change you attitude change this change that act your age how the hell do act like a soon to be 13 year old happy and sunshine and rainbows .well
Clearly that how I should act I'm just a pimple popping freak who didn't act to be born or live like this
I don't know why I want to sing this to my perents
Do ittt xx
same
parents your welcome
My parents dont listen when I put this song on for them..I hate it so much...they say they know what it's like..but in reality....they have no clue...yeah sure my dad cut when he was young too....but every generation is different....
@Raymond Gomez me and my father are like that. It really hurts tho.😥
I’ve went through so many things. I just wish that my parents and friends could hug me tightly and accept me for who I am. I feel like I’m trapped in my anxiety and pain. I’ll never get out. I’ll never be the happy perfect child everyone wants me to be.
It’s good that I can change my emotion completely and force myself to stop crying.
Anxiety,
Autism,
Severe eating disorders,
Abused,
Stressed,
Groomed.
Yea, life is great, everything’s fine. I wish I could go back to when I was 1, everything was perfect then. The rest of my childhood and teenage years sucked.
Let me give you an hug, imagine to receive it pls😅❤
*Big Hug
my family doesn't know what being called names by them is like............
They think it's okay to hurt you by feelings or physically, but you know yourself it's not. Only you know. I'm sorry you had to deal with this. But you're a strong girl and I know, because you're still here😊😊😊. I don't discriminate nor will I call people names, but if someone steps past my boundaries, you better be sorry.
@Ivanna Omoruyi Ik...
Ayy a fellow hmong...hello
i have been called names by my while life bc they dont care about me
yeah like you know nothing, why are you so dramatic, why are you like that, can you do better than this i hate so much but i still want to fight i know someday all my pain will go away
this used to be my favourite song 😭😭
Yea same
omg same 😭😭
Same..
Same 😭
This not only hits home with all the mental shit I've had to go through but with the physical as well. Having multiple chronic conditions, never going a day without pain but always being told I'll be fine just keep pushing forward, being told constantly to keep fighting, to bare with it even when nothing can be done to ease the suffering. My quality of life is shit and I really just want to give up because what is the point of living when I'm trapped in a broken and dying body, when I will never have a break from all the pain, when I'll never be able to just live. I'm merely being kept alive at this point. This isn't living, it's just not dying.
I relate so hard. When it's so hard to just be in the physical condition of living it feels like, what am i doing this for
My failure of a life in summary:
My birth
School was hell. Bullied relentlessly
Grades deteriorated and never improved
ADHD, anxiety, depression, and undiagnosed autism making me look like a pathetic misunderstood teenager.
Getting into a program for college undergrads that basically teaches people like me how to adult normally because my incompetent ass can’t keep up with others my age. (18yo)
Friendship failing me... Or I always fail it... Being told by many I use my friends for my own personal gain...
Failing to see the light I once saw...
I just want to give up...
First dont give up
Second friends are to learn from and they should support u
Third your marks dosent matter your try does
Fourth dont give a shit to bullies they are saying this because they know u are a diamond they are just jelous
Listen to me,you’re a diamon that shining in the dark.You’re strong keep fighting with your pain.I will always walk with you,and you’re the part of me:)
Never give up! You are beautifully and uniquely you - you're human. What others tell you does not define you. Keep going - find what brings you joy and choose to see the light even when everything feels bad.
Mine: born prematurely, autistic, asthmatic, ADHD. I lived in suburbia for my first 8 years, and then... The poverty hit, then the homelessness for a year or two. I got a trailer 4 years ago but I constantly moved, never had a permanent friend or a classic childhood, just stayed inside alone. Last year I was mauled by dogs and left with scars on my chest and back, but I got a settlement, then a girlfriend. Now I have a bunch of things I never imagined I would ever own. I smiled in the face of my suffering all the way through and made good grades, and now life has rewarded me. So tell me, if I could keep up the fight throughout my whole life, why can't you?
Hell to add on to my loooong list of issues, I got vitamin d deficiency, my mom thinks I might have tourrets, and probably anxiety. And my dad was never really there, and when I did visit, he abused me and my brother
this song is beautiful and makes me want to cry
3.52 her voice was so good and hit that key right there
If your looking at this comment.....just know I love you even if I don’t know you god put you in this world for a reason!! Don’t cut you skin isn’t paper,I know you want to give up... please don’t ok people love you even if they do t show it ok!🥺💖
Thank you. This really helped me.
Reece Hall your welcome 🙏
t-thank you and i wont cut
I have a friend who cut himself but trust me it is horrible to cut yourself
U can end up dying
I dont want u to die even tho I dont know u. I can tell u are a fighter in the race of life just nobody is noticing but I noticed it u are Amazing
I am going to try to go clean form cutting.. Please do not start it either it is like a addiction..
The real fear of depression isn’t dying, it’s living with yourself, forever
R u ok
Last time I listened to this song was 3 years ago when I was at my lowest......guess I'm here again.
But here we come to get back you up again bro💪
It’s alright, it’s going to be okay.
I was inside a bubbles that drowned me for quite a while from not knowing why and how it happened, to revelation of why and grieving and finally acceptance.
The journey begins, when I pop the bubbles and for the first time, my mind was so crystal clear, and I could finally breathe and think.
It took a long time to heal and still am healing. I slipped sometimes, but now not long, cause I know the way out to pull myself.
I was there.
I nearly died twice.
I don’t know how many times I was a moment away from committing suicide.
I can‘t remember a lot from my first 16 years of living.
I know I got bullied in school. I lost all my friends over and over again. I was bad in school. I hated my family. I hated myself the most.
Now I turn 20 in 4 days. I have survived an accident, 10 surgeries in 1,5 years - and I have survived myself. Just keep going, start to love yourself. If you love yourself, start loving others, be kind, be honest, talk to the people that surround you. You can be whatever you want, you can do everything. Life is worth living for.
@Luna Cat i am so sorry to hear that! You are not alone! Feel hugged and loved!
its literally 4 am and here i am? crying?
Thank you for all of those people that kept supporting each other even you don't know who they are. Small gesture of kindness can really make people day.
This song literally describes what i feel like i do appreciate all of their kind words but something in my mind wont change,no matter how hard they tried to convince me how worthy i am..i just cant accept it..like i know who i am..things just will be the same
I used to cry at this song when i was 8-10 😢 such a good song im 14 and 15 in a month from now
Psalm 147:3: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”❤️ God is with u
Whenever I’m really sad (like right now) I always search this up and listen to it on replay about 20 times
“Once the heart gets too heavy with pain, people don’t cry. They just turn silent. Completely silent.”
How many of you sing this out load and just burst in to tears.
Me
Me
It is the scars on my inside that hurt the most not the ones on my arms...
I can feel the pain of reality through this song!🥺😭
They say "If you love someone tell them, life is too short not to".
Even though I love that quote I can't follow it.
I relate to this song so much... I cant help but cry, the abuse I go through in life, the depression... music is a way to somehow cheer me up a little bit... music is a big part of my life...
Me to
For all the people who are struggling; you are strong. You are not alone. Please hold on🥺💕 and if you who are reading this and are struggling; I'm proud of you for continuing to fight. It's ok to hurt but please keep fighting 💕 you got it, honey, you got it💕 God's got you, and there are people who are here for you. Keep your head up💕
This means so much to people like me
This explains my life sm. My mom makes me cry regularly, my dad always leactures me about how he misses the old me, my friends say 'your fine', when i post a vent all people people have to say is 'felt', my therapist thinks im okay because i don't tell her anything and nobody knows that the confident happy girl they see is all a illusion.
This mask is too heavy to be kept on, pls even If not with your parents but let the therapist sees your sad but wonderfull face❤
Psalm 147:3: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”❤️ trust God
I find comfort with these words. So grateful that a friend shared this song with me.
R u ok
Dear person whoever reads this,
Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile.
Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs.
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one.
I love you and send you hugs.
You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you.
YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN.
I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN.
You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice.
You’re beautiful inside out.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.
I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.
It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you.
I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go.
I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.??
I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night.
If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you.
If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits.
If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :)
All I want for you is to stay and feel alive.
Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
I need you here with me :).
Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out.
Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up.
And anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :).
Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?!
- The stranger that cares about you more than anything.
I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay.
I hope you will remember my words- becho :)
Until tomorrow, my friend :)
(I just copied becho comment and paste here cuz I think it might help you, I'm not the one write this all)
I have depression and some how i don't want to get better , i don't want to see the brigbter side , and i finally found this song , most precious song i ever listened too
Fight your pain dont give up! God made you for a reason or else why would you be here? God made us here to start a new adventure and dont just throw it all away I will be here to support you!
I never paid attention to this song much as a kid, considering it a trending song, and just joined in. Of course, I lost track of this song and found it again. I have paid attention to the lyrics and melody this time.
I enjoy this song, I like how the lyrics are so understandable and relatable.
I used to listen to this song a long time ago, and today I was humming it, surprised I knew the rhythm, I listened to this song today and I like it again.
Beautiful song!👏👏👏Love❤that wonderful voice!👏👏😘😘😘
this is where i lost my friends . the man who used to approach me left me . where my parents always get mad at me . where i lost everything . dearself , u r strong . keep fighting . this is ur life , not someone else's . dear u who r reading this , know that u r very strong . dont even think about anything else . u just lose , doesnt mean u cant win . lot of loves
My fav part is So let me just give up..
Since I was 13, I already knew I cruel the world is. I always cry at night and i don't know what's wrong me anymore. I don't understand myself, helpp me.
This song is the reason i keep living Katelyn Tarver when she was on big time rush i loved her acting and now i love her even more for her music this song helps me so much i hate being depressed, anxious, suicidal, but she makes it easier so thank you Katelyn. Thank you.
Im bisexual and my family is homophobic. This song perfectly describes my entire life. Sometimes I just wanna end it all🙂
You are valid❤
Thank you guys so much🥺❤️💗
There are people who care about you, you are valid no matter what they say or think 🖤
Same :)
Saddness is apart of life but hey look at the bright side and forget about em remember your still a person not a robot
Do you ever just listen to this song when you want to cry
Yes, totally yes
I'm sorry for those who feel depressed, sad, or struggle with urself, please don't give up.. You are more important than anything else in this world.. stay strong, always pray & hope for the best.. We love u, don't give up.. You're lots of stronger than anyone ever knew you.. be safe ❤️
used to listen to this on repeat in 2018 ahaaa
I’m not scared of dying. I’m scared of living.
Me too
im not scared of dying im scared of the pain of it
FACTS
💀
Life these days just feels like this song. Hope everything will be ok in the end :)
“let me just give up”
so hurt when i heard this song💔
i’m tired pretend to be happy,i just wanna say i miss my self🥺💔
I really hope I'm the only one who wants to talk to somebody about things but don't wanna come off as an attention seeker.
God's got you.
The things you struggle with are REAL, but they're Not Bigger Than God.
Please remember that! 😇❤️
And all I did was search "songs I don't know" on UA-cam, this is truly beautiful
I come back to this when my severe panic attacks hit, it really is just draining me and nobody gets it; how bad they are for me. They only see my physical response not the mental struggle I go through 24/7. I just hope my medicine builds up and makes them go away like it had been doing for the past 4 years. Second time I've had the dosage increased, it just seems to be taking longer this time..
It feels like my life is related to this song🙂✌️✨
i really love this song bcs it suit my situation right now . i don't know why my family always judge and like to compare me with others . they never care about what i feel . sometimes i feel that why i feel this pain , im to young for all of these .
Hey man, I hope you're doing better, I'm a Little late sorry😅. Anyway If you don't feel better now, here's an hug for you boy
*Hugs Tightly
I was crying a lot and someone just messaged me and all they said was hi and it made me stop crying for a couple minutes sometimes that’s all somebody needs when they’re feeling like that
Hey 🙃
Hope you're doing okay 💕
Hi(: ):
💔💔💔💔
Hi!
Hi
i used to listen to this as a kid.. hurting all the time, crying in class.. it gets better guys. its not going to stay bad. just hang on tight, you ARE worth it. lots of love 🫶
This song has always spoken to me. I have lived through hell fire and I still fight. I have ptsd, anxiety and major depression. Ive been a victim of domestic and parental abuse. My mother recently told me she didnt want anything else to do with me because I asked her to calm down. She was on another abusive rant with my sisters and they needed me. So I tried to talk to her. She disowned me that second. She hasnt called her grandkids, she hasnt called me. All shes done is cause more mental damage. If you are a parent... love your kids... or dont have any. They didnt choose to be your kid.
I wonder if anyone knows how it feels when your “bestfriend” call u pathetic and useless😭
I know how it feels
He/she left soooo it means that there is someone else who is Better than her/him who is waiting to be your best friend in future
please if they treat you like that drop them off , know you're worth and remember that you're loved
I know🥺
Damn, thats a toxic there.
I know how that feels. You just have to let go of that toxicity.
I did.
You’re not alone 🥺
So when you reach a point where no song makes you cry cause ur soul has ran out of any kind of emotions its all empty. Yet! Yet this emptiness is the heaviest kind ah... :)
Who still here even now 2020????🤚🏽🤚🏽🤚🏽
Me
Meeee
I
im from the future its 2021 for me
Yes it will change, it would get better. I was 5 years ago singing this song with no hopes for the future and here I am with so much more that I could ever imagine... But I know the feeling, I understand.
As an active fighter with depression, I will not allow this song into my playlist.
Hoping the best for all of you out there that are torn by her words 🙌
Honestly, when people say "We all get a little sad at times" in attempt to help, it just makes us feel worse.
This song speaks to me in so many ways
I” it’s always going to stay the same, so let me just give up, let me just stop trying” I relate to those so much
Feeling that empty feeling again. Depression is hard. Suffered from it severely and once in a while the hought of falling back into it crossed my mind.
Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
It's sad when people don't know the pain your feeling and they got the nerve to say "your not depressed" "your just asking for attention" "you don't know what pain is" "your to young to be depressed" "stop faking that bullshit" ect.. And all you can do is sit/stand there and stay silent hoping they don't hit you for "talking back"....
2020 ☝️🖐️
You were here before all this stuff going on right?
2021 :'D
if your daughter is trying her best let her do what shes doing dont compare her to other girls or say that she cant even do what an 8 year old can do dont make her feel like she doesnt belong in the family. You really dont know what it is like.Life is hard.She'll feel mad at herself . if she starts crying? thats beacuse shes ashamed shes not the daughter you want.Shes heartbroken.She has sevral secrets about life and if shes okay.She looks happy but shes not.You dont know what its like.JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.if you cant.dont worry.just carry on and hold back the tears and let yourself smile.
But what if that smile is fake
@@urwrong9406 True, thats why its best just to let it out by yourself then to feel embarresed while doing it infront of your parents so if the smile is fake keep it that way unless you want people to see your pain.
i feel like my best advice for when you're sad is to stay away from all the sad and negative things such as sad songs quotes etc. because it'll make you feel worse. sometimes it'll help when you cant cry and you need to but in my experience happiness so much better than sadness. when I get down or upset i listen to upbeat music and try and be positive. i know it seems hard for most especially when they feel like there's nobody there for them, but it really helps to talk to people and if you cant i suggest talking to yourself it can help. try and figure out why you're sad and try and figure out a way to be happier. and if you know why you're sad and you feel like you cant fix it, give it time. time is the best medicine. and if you're in an argument with someone try and look at their perspective. as someone diagnosed with mild depression, severe anxiety, and insomnia, i know times can be hard and things can be rough but you'll get through it i promise :) you're worth it!
Too you all on here , remember how awesome you are , I have always been the black sheep I have double ostomies no children but I get tole what have you got too be depressed about !! I'm 40 but guys remember you won't always feel so lost but please talk too some one you are all amazing in youre own ways 🎉