SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE BLACK MEN PLUMBERS,,,BUS DRIVERS,,,TRUCK DRIVERS,,,SANITATION WORKERS,, LAW ENFORCEMENT,,, CONSTRUCTION WORKERS,,, ELECTRICIANS!!!!💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪👑👑👑
Shout out to all the black men who are doctors lawyers real estate developers engineers business owners private chefs military and police officers 💪🏾💪🏾
Im one and i have me a beautiful puerto rican queen. She never once asked me what i did for work from start. Which was shocking because black women thats first thing they ask” what u do for living” meanwhile my beautiful 10 fit latina never asked me this question. She didn’t find out my job until she brought me lunch one day . Mind you she brags about me on daily i over heard her on phone with her sister an she was like “ its so sexy whwn my man comes home, all dirty from hard days work kicks off his boots” i just love him he such a hard working man. Mind u her sister married to a black man lol. Our women dont see man for his character and heart . Al they see is dollar signs
My grandma once said, “any woman you deal with that doesn’t love being a woman 1st will never be a wife. Ever. Don’t allow your value to be consumed.” 💯
It's funny; yesterday I went to pay a bill. A Black Woman was behind me so I held the door open for her. She said "Thank you" & I replied "you're welcome." Upon leaving the building, she opened the door (I was 2nd in this case) & proceeded to just let it shut in my face. I thought "Things like this are why Black Men are distancing themselves from Black women." A simple act of kindness or reciprocation goes a long way.
As a Black male, I think a lot of Black women were raised to be aggressive, masculine, and have an attitude. It's a generational thing. Other ethnic groups of women were raised to be feminine females for the most part. It's something I noticed.
lol that’s not true the woman in the video is SINGLE yet I have a husband but she said we don’t know how to be submissive 😂 this is why I can’t take relationship advice from someone whose unmarried and non black they always try to paint black women in a negative light
@@ichellexcel sounds like a you problem, the men I know that are married to non black women are excellent husband's and fathers. Stop reflecting your beliefs on to other people and seek some therapy.
Majority of Black Men want to get married and start a family but Majority of Black Women want to get married in their late 30's to 40's not in their 20's the best time to start a family.
It's not just you. Most black men are done with black women. It's the majority. Most who still deal with black women are only smashing, not marrying and the ones who are not smashing are dating non-black women or being by themselves. The stats support it.
When Black men date non Black women, the Black women tend to throw heavy shade at those women, so I believe she is justified in what she said. She said nothing disrespectful, and told no lies. Can't be mad at that.
Deedee we TRIED so HARD to tell BW we loved them!💯But they wanted Pookie, MONEY and EACH OTHER (lesbians) and claimed we’re ALL dusties !🤨Fine..so WE just BOUNCED!👍🏽Fellas am I wrong on this?🤨
I agree somewhat. But I wouldn't say Black women altogether. Because there are some good sisters out there. Scattered like a MF, but they're out there, bra😂
@@williamdorgu3334 that’s why I married an African man. My husband was raised to be a husband, provider and father. Most black American men are not because they were raised by single mothers with no father in the home smh
As someone that gets told I act and talk white I find this offensive. Being black is not a monolith. There are plenty that speak proper and that isn’t ghetto. That too is also “acting black”. It’s just that this type of black behavior is consider boring and often overlooked in media and in real life. You have no idea how much society tries to put you back in that box even if you have never fit in that box
@jasminscarbrough2596 Yes Ma'am, I understand. Speaking good proper English, being educated and feminine is all Part of the black experience. It is certainly not about being an assimilationist. I am also called a white man, by everyone because of my speech and behavior. It is nothing more than a figure of speech. I imagine, you are educated or was raised in an affluent neighborhood. I did not mean to offend you. I will choose a better way to describe a refined black woman in the future.
I knew this was going to happen at some point! You can be mad at her, but she right! So many(not all)black women have lost respect for black men and most of it has been do to poor choice in men! The decent black guys who can’t luck up on finding a queen like the host of this UA-cam channel is forced to look elsewhere! Do Latina, white and Asian women have their bad groups? Sure, but it’s not nearly as wide spread! On that side of the fence, it’s more the exception and not the rule!
"Ladies" it's a lot of good men out here. The problem is, if you come to a man as raggedy he will treat you raggedy. ..ie (Transactional) [Selling the Box] Try being a classy woman then he would treat you with class. You have to put in the work if you want good results. #FACTS!
Dee Dee, You are 1000% CORRECT about EVERYTHING you have said about how women ACT and the things that they do CONCERNING Men, This is why we stay AWAY, We HATE this type of BEHAVIOR as men and we will NEVER except this type of ATTITUDE ! ! !
First date questions for women 1) Did you grow up watching your mom take care of Dad? 2) How do you choose girlfriends, 3) How’s your credit? You might not get a second date bit this will save you time. They divorce everyone but their horrible/toxic/ jealous girlfriends. Ladies it’s easy to take your man. All the other women have to say is “ I appreciate you and thanks.”
Masculine men and feminine women belong together, simple as that. Same with feminine men and masculine women (not that I care one way or the other, just as long as they leave the first two alone)
We constantly told we not needed we dusty we bottom of the barrell yall got yall own money yall independent we aint ish tell us what you not going to do, shake your behind on the internet. What do yall expect from us?
I Always said this before Singer Aaliyah died bw, were sexy, fit, fun, cool and loving. After her death, bw listen to Beyoncé, Nicki Minaj, Cardi b etc they gotten way worse. Black women listen to those singers and how to be strong and Independent and now women don't know how to love a man..
Yes BM are listening....response...2024 NFL Draft. What kind of women were on the arms of a lot of those black draftees? BMs are listening and reacting
Well, she did start by saying "what she heard" from men. Cant argue with her. If anyone and i mean anyone should know how to treat your own race better, it should be your own race. More often than not, other cultures know what a black man goes through and therefore, doesn't make extra drama in life. If his options are one black woman who dont want to get onboard and a latina who does, then guess who he going to pick?
That LATINA woman was spot on!! She's talking facts. We black men deserve respect and great treatment. Not attitude and disrespect from black women. So we gonna keep going where we get great treatment and love. I Love your channel DEEDEE u keep it real!
Now that I got that off my chest in my last comment I’ll say that I love black women and I’m only attracted to black and Hispanic women but I’ve only ever been with black women. I love y’all and I wish y’all would stop hurting black men and keeping us away from our kids. Lastly stop running to child support because that is only another form of Jim Crow. Another way to keep black families fighting and separated. Work things out somehow with the father even if y’all can’t be together. If he don’t want to support his children I still say don’t go to child support because one day he will come back and apologize and give you and those children more then child support would ever give.
Lower level awareness...she is absolutely right. Higher Level awareness...shes saying men go to whoever will mother them more and cater to their fragile Ego and behave according to what their trauma needs.
1:58 "[Modern BW] don't want to hear it from us and they don't want to hear it from anybody else." Correct, it does not matter who says it or how nicely it is said; modern BW simply do not want to hear it. But they see others getting the outcome that they want (example: red carpet at the NFL Draft) and still refuse to change. It's like Project Pat said, "They don't want to be saved."
I understand and get your point, but both men and women act like they have dating down pat and to a science. That's where the problem starts to me. Ppl want what they want but they don't know how to make it come to fruition. So we are in this constant perpetual state of trial and era in the dating market. No one is getting right. There are very few who get it right or know that it's more about them knowing that getting it right isn't important. What's more important is understanding what you are investing in. Most ppl don't like and/or value what a relationship is about. That, to me, is where it all goes off the rails.
Most of these women that say that they won’t do anything for a man, even if it’s her husband weren’t raised to be wives. And how can you be raised to be a wife when you came from a single mother who was not a wife?
That only works both ways and if other women want to use their lives catering to BLACK men go for it. BLACK WOMEN put yourself first and when I need help from a man Chad, Brad Hector and Juan are always around.
Honestly DEEDEE, I am not a high value man but I do have thoughts so here it is 💭. 1. Women want men to be loyal but they advertise to other men. 2. Women want men to take care of them but they won’t take care of the man. 3. Women want men to be truthful but they come in with more lies. So why do they ask for things they are not willing to give?…Don’t worry I’ll wait.
Generational trauma has put some work on our community. Men should be growing stronger as men and women should be growing stronger as women. It seems like there are more and more men trying to overcome what's been done to the black community, but there are enough women moving in some unknown self destructive direction that everyone is starting to see it.
I am a successful FBA ... i often just want another Ebony to talk 2. She say, think's "i don't understand this? that's, not to be expected ... ok well adjust we can smooth that moment. Talk 2?...W H A T??? yeah a conversations ... no calculus just ... how are you? how was your day? lets go for a walk? then we could make together lunch and dinner? why do i breath with such sincerity ... and cherish potential Ebonies with such rarity ... it's a story, a journey of ... many books read, many journals written in the dark a.m. night. Many ebonies, i am selective, few really but those who are attracted we revolve within our pull ... a mutual blessing. I bring a kinda full abundancing.
@smithairrion1476. U need to quite because u know most black women get loud out in public embarrassing black men. At least my fellow Latina is speaking the truth out loud!
SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE BLACK MEN PLUMBERS,,,BUS DRIVERS,,,TRUCK DRIVERS,,,SANITATION WORKERS,,
LAW ENFORCEMENT,,,
CONSTRUCTION WORKERS,,,
ELECTRICIANS!!!!💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪👑👑👑
Shout out to all the black men who are doctors lawyers real estate developers engineers business owners private chefs military and police officers 💪🏾💪🏾
Shout out to all the black men busting they ass at whatever legal job to take care of themselves and the people they responsible for and love.
@@mmluonthank you I appreciate that
Im one and i have me a beautiful puerto rican queen. She never once asked me what i did for work from start. Which was shocking because black women thats first thing they ask” what u do for living” meanwhile my beautiful 10 fit latina never asked me this question. She didn’t find out my job until she brought me lunch one day . Mind you she brags about me on daily i over heard her on phone with her sister an she was like “ its so sexy whwn my man comes home, all dirty from hard days work kicks off his boots” i just love him he such a hard working man.
Mind u her sister married to a black man lol. Our women dont see man for his character and heart .
Al they see is dollar signs
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You told us to leave you alone and now you have your wish
My grandma once said, “any woman you deal with that doesn’t love being a woman 1st will never be a wife. Ever. Don’t allow your value to be consumed.” 💯
Grandma was wise
All facts 💯
They make crappy mothers too.
ur grandma aint say all that stop the cap
@@davidowens1424 All mothers can be crappy. You need an example? Susan Smith. Smh.
And they wonder why men are ✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️
It's funny; yesterday I went to pay a bill. A Black Woman was behind me so I held the door open for her. She said "Thank you" & I replied "you're welcome." Upon leaving the building, she opened the door (I was 2nd in this case) & proceeded to just let it shut in my face. I thought "Things like this are why Black Men are distancing themselves from Black women." A simple act of kindness or reciprocation goes a long way.
That's exactly the problem. Reciprocation and cooperation don't exist in their vocabulary. Or minds.
@@mmluon Truth!
Well she said thank you when you held the door. Perhaps she didn't know you were behind her when she left.
@@candyxox No excuses: she saw me.
@@spade1ace7She probably wasn't even thinking. Alot of ww have done worst but you will probably still give them grace.
She told the truth and shamed the devil 👏🏾
As a Black male, I think a lot of Black women were raised to be aggressive, masculine, and have an attitude. It's a generational thing. Other ethnic groups of women were raised to be feminine females for the most part. It's something I noticed.
You're a black *MAN,* not a black "male." - Respect yourself.
They are raised with the mentality to not need a man
@Antimasonic93, Did you also notice that most of these aggressive and masculine women were raised by single mothers with not fathers around?
Our great grannies were different. They dropped the ball in the 70's.
lol that’s not true the woman in the video is SINGLE yet I have a husband but she said we don’t know how to be submissive 😂 this is why I can’t take relationship advice from someone whose unmarried and non black they always try to paint black women in a negative light
The lady in the video is 1000% correct with her analysis of most American Black women.
She was saying what many other races of women think. And other women say this to black men in private spaces
Seriously?! Y’all talk about black women for pillow talk?Tf??!🤣🤣🤣
@@BeaSiegalRight! And will cheat on a non bw with a bw on the side. It's the hypocrisy for me. Smh.
@ichellexcel who's doing that 😂😂😂😂
@@terence.j You would be surprised! But keep trying to convince yourself otherwise. It might work. Smh.
@@ichellexcel sounds like a you problem, the men I know that are married to non black women are excellent husband's and fathers. Stop reflecting your beliefs on to other people and seek some therapy.
They have a right to give opinions. It doesn't take much observation to see how many blk women conduct themselves.
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That is so true!
She speaking FACTS 🔊 heat video sista DeeDee.
She spoke 100% FACTS...
Majority of Black Men want to get married and start a family but Majority of Black Women want to get married in their late 30's to 40's not in their 20's the best time to start a family.
facts
And also bring with them kids from other men...
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No lies were told. And somebody’s mad about it. Tough shyt…
We treat black men better
Yup! Most black women behave masculine.
@@puertoricanprincess7422 Que bueno hermosa.
Black women treat Black men like sh*t. I'm a Black male, and these sistas are very disrespectful.
Just speaking as a black man if you date pookies and ray ray's and glocktavious you will get the exact same problems the black women get.
YES YALL DO!!!!!
most black women like to play the controlling game being in charge
I don't know about any other black man but,as for me I'm done with 95% of black women that's how bad it is.Only 5% might be ok.
It's not just you. Most black men are done with black women. It's the majority. Most who still deal with black women are only smashing, not marrying and the ones who are not smashing are dating non-black women or being by themselves. The stats support it.
Agreed
I been done with em, no way in hell bro and I’m from the hood!
2.67% lol
When Black men date non Black women, the Black women tend to throw heavy shade at those women, so I believe she is justified in what she said. She said nothing disrespectful, and told no lies. Can't be mad at that.
Other races of women are inconsequential to black women. And by the way, having closer proximity to penis (literally) is not a flex.
Not true!
@@ichellexcelgo to shaderoom and see for yourself
Facts, Dee Dee
That Latin woman is 100% correct
@@1976SHAKEY Nope, she's wrong because she doesn't know all bw.
Deedee we TRIED so HARD to tell BW we loved them!💯But they wanted Pookie, MONEY and EACH OTHER (lesbians) and claimed we’re ALL dusties !🤨Fine..so WE just BOUNCED!👍🏽Fellas am I wrong on this?🤨
Nope😂
Not nah but Hell Nah, you are Not wrong.
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NO
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ESPECIALLY AFTER THE BET AWARDS!!!👎👎👎😳😳😳
I agree 100% out the gate
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Guys do not pursue black women, go to other races of women who love and respect you
Yeah, other ethnic groups of women have feminine traits. Most Black women have aggressive, masculine traits coupled with a bad attitude.
I agree somewhat. But I wouldn't say Black women altogether. Because there are some good sisters out there. Scattered like a MF, but they're out there, bra😂
You right bro.
Good riddance! And don't come back
@@williamdorgu3334 that’s why I married an African man. My husband was raised to be a husband, provider and father. Most black American men are not because they were raised by single mothers with no father in the home smh
I'm so glad the OTHER women are checkin' in❤.
Least married for volumes/myriads of reasons. More masculine than a male wolverine on steroids.
says the most likely to be incarcerated and have Std's. Boy bye! Non bw think they are getting a prize. Smh.
Yeah they don't want the Latin woman I'll take her
I am married to a black woman, with the demeanor of a white girl, so I get the best of both worlds. I am very happy.
As someone that gets told I act and talk white I find this offensive. Being black is not a monolith. There are plenty that speak proper and that isn’t ghetto. That too is also “acting black”. It’s just that this type of black behavior is consider boring and often overlooked in media and in real life. You have no idea how much society tries to put you back in that box even if you have never fit in that box
@jasminscarbrough2596 Yes Ma'am, I understand. Speaking good proper English, being educated and feminine is all Part of the black experience. It is certainly not about being an assimilationist. I am also called a white man, by everyone because of my speech and behavior. It is nothing more than a figure of speech. I imagine, you are educated or was raised in an affluent neighborhood. I did not mean to offend you. I will choose a better way to describe a refined black woman in the future.
She is right
Men, get your passport and leave ✈️✈️
Black women dropped the ball in the 70s.
PREACH...💯
I knew this was going to happen at some point! You can be mad at her, but she right! So many(not all)black women have lost respect for black men and most of it has been do to poor choice in men! The decent black guys who can’t luck up on finding a queen like the host of this UA-cam channel is forced to look elsewhere! Do Latina, white and Asian women have their bad groups? Sure, but it’s not nearly as wide spread! On that side of the fence, it’s more the exception and not the rule!
Raccoon comment
"Ladies" it's a lot of good men out here. The problem is, if you come to a man as raggedy he will treat you raggedy. ..ie (Transactional) [Selling the Box]
Try being a classy woman then he would treat you with class. You have to put in the work if you want good results.
#FACTS!
I love your sound effects, the zoom in, and the reenactment rants. More please D
Hello Dede it's good to see your beautiful face. Keep up the good work 💯💯💯
"Team❤Love" [Man & Woman] is stronger when honesty and commitment happens.
Dee Dee, You are 1000% CORRECT about EVERYTHING you have said about how women ACT and the things that they do CONCERNING Men, This is why we stay AWAY, We HATE this type of BEHAVIOR as men and we will NEVER except this type of ATTITUDE ! ! !
Reminds me ...of the passport bro reports. And this woman is paradise fine. Our queens and goddesses are in paradise .........✈
That Umar video is funny, love it.
First date questions for women 1) Did you grow up watching your mom take care of Dad? 2) How do you choose girlfriends, 3) How’s your credit? You might not get a second date bit this will save you time. They divorce everyone but their horrible/toxic/ jealous girlfriends. Ladies it’s easy to take your man. All the other women have to say is “ I appreciate you and thanks.”
Masculine men and feminine women belong together, simple as that. Same with feminine men and masculine women (not that I care one way or the other, just as long as they leave the first two alone)
Facts My Sister 👍🏿
1:33 she just described a agent of chaos
Facts!
Keep up the good work Dee Dee facts
Because it's the truth
" Immoral Brokenness beseeches the FOOL that is unwilling to Morally mend and heal within the heart!"
The problem is 2think u can be in a relationship and don't have to do anything
You hit the nail on the head lady
This Latin woman is 100% correct!
Everybody knows now.
We constantly told we not needed we dusty we bottom of the barrell yall got yall own money yall independent we aint ish tell us what you not going to do, shake your behind on the internet. What do yall expect from us?
I Always said this before Singer Aaliyah died bw, were sexy, fit, fun, cool and loving. After her death, bw listen to Beyoncé, Nicki Minaj, Cardi b etc they gotten way worse. Black women listen to those singers and how to be strong and Independent and now women don't know how to love a man..
They don't know how to be a woman.
Right ON sister! No matter the messenger. Did you get the message?
Yes BM are listening....response...2024 NFL Draft. What kind of women were on the arms of a lot of those black draftees? BMs are listening and reacting
Is there a video?
@RainbowKidd literally hundreds of them. BMs ans BWs were all talking about the 2024 NFL Draft and the women the black draftees were with
Well, she did start by saying "what she heard" from men. Cant argue with her. If anyone and i mean anyone should know how to treat your own race better, it should be your own race. More often than not, other cultures know what a black man goes through and therefore, doesn't make extra drama in life. If his options are one black woman who dont want to get onboard and a latina who does, then guess who he going to pick?
Sad but true.
hurst truth
Now this is a woman who gets it ,the scope of male and female relationships!
That LATINA woman was spot on!! She's talking facts. We black men deserve respect and great treatment. Not attitude and disrespect from black women. So we gonna keep going where we get great treatment and love. I Love your channel DEEDEE u keep it real!
😂😂😂😂 Donations! Donations! Donations and yes they act masculine.
I love basking in my femininity!!!APTTMH
Don’t matter who saying it! Damn near everybody saying it 😮😮😮😮😮😮
dayum such a shame
Now that I got that off my chest in my last comment I’ll say that I love black women and I’m only attracted to black and Hispanic women but I’ve only ever been with black women. I love y’all and I wish y’all would stop hurting black men and keeping us away from our kids. Lastly stop running to child support because that is only another form of Jim Crow. Another way to keep black families fighting and separated. Work things out somehow with the father even if y’all can’t be together. If he don’t want to support his children I still say don’t go to child support because one day he will come back and apologize and give you and those children more then child support would ever give.
The best way to respect or deal with a modern woman is to implement two things:
1) Long Geographical Distance.
2) Abrupt Social Silence..
Children(and women) learn what they live.
Lower level awareness...she is absolutely right. Higher Level awareness...shes saying men go to whoever will mother them more and cater to their fragile Ego and behave according to what their trauma needs.
😂😂😂 nonsense go shame yaself clown
u tried.........nd failed lol🤡
She’s right
It's crazy when we are okay with hearing non black women talkinh about these things.
What should be the response?
@@RainbowKidd I don't know.🤷
it's true sooo🤷🏾♂️oh well
Well said Dee .. this female masculinity is way out of control ... we are losing our communities behind it
I laughed out loud when the video dropped Umar Johnson 🤣
The truth hurts.
Don’t hate the messenger
nothin but facts 😂😂😂😂
I love my black man it sucks that we all are grouped together nobody will treat my king better then me!!!!
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1:58 "[Modern BW] don't want to hear it from us and they don't want to hear it from anybody else." Correct, it does not matter who says it or how nicely it is said; modern BW simply do not want to hear it. But they see others getting the outcome that they want (example: red carpet at the NFL Draft) and still refuse to change. It's like Project Pat said, "They don't want to be saved."
ROMANCE WITHOUT THE FINANCE IS A GOT DAMN NUISANCE, Huh?!!!
@Successful M.D. Hola, Thank you
Mic 🎤 drop
Donations 😂😂😂😂
AuntieCon (Essence Fest) is in town now! We about to go look at the azz jiggle in those sundresses indeed!!!😂😂😂😂
I understand and get your point, but both men and women act like they have dating down pat and to a science.
That's where the problem starts to me.
Ppl want what they want but they don't know how to make it come to fruition. So we are in this constant perpetual state of trial and era in the dating market.
No one is getting right.
There are very few who get it right or know that it's more about them knowing that getting it right isn't important. What's more important is understanding what you are investing in.
Most ppl don't like and/or value what a relationship is about. That, to me, is where it all goes off the rails.
Most of these women that say that they won’t do anything for a man, even if it’s her husband weren’t raised to be wives. And how can you be raised to be a wife when you came from a single mother who was not a wife?
That only works both ways and if other women want to use their lives catering to BLACK men go for it. BLACK WOMEN put yourself first and when I need help from a man Chad, Brad Hector and Juan are always around.
Sorry to say it it's the truth 😔
BW keep house like 14 year old boys... My ex use to be SOOOO untidy
some BW get mad anything you say about them good or bad. as for the latin woman saying what she said, i dont see no issue about.
facts
Honestly DEEDEE, I am not a high value man but I do have thoughts so here it is 💭.
1. Women want men to be loyal but they advertise to other men.
2. Women want men to take care of them but they won’t take care of the man.
3. Women want men to be truthful but they come in with more lies.
So why do they ask for things they are not willing to give?…Don’t worry I’ll wait.
Sooner or later it was to happen non black women see this negative content too that black women pulling out about black men too.
She’s right though….
Generational trauma has put some work on our community. Men should be growing stronger as men and women should be growing stronger as women. It seems like there are more and more men trying to overcome what's been done to the black community, but there are enough women moving in some unknown self destructive direction that everyone is starting to see it.
PROJECT 13.
She a wife!
I am a successful FBA ... i often just want another Ebony to talk 2. She say, think's "i don't understand this? that's, not to be expected ... ok well adjust we can smooth that moment. Talk 2?...W H A T??? yeah a conversations ... no calculus just ... how are you? how was your day? lets go for a walk? then we could make together lunch and dinner? why do i breath with such sincerity ... and cherish potential Ebonies with such rarity ... it's a story, a journey of ... many books read, many journals written in the dark a.m. night. Many ebonies, i am selective, few really but those who are attracted we revolve within our pull ... a mutual blessing. I bring a kinda full abundancing.
lay off the Shakespeare & weed buddy lol
@@cocolokoflacco evidence? dummy
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Black women, you all can't be upset when non-black women peep at your poor treatment of Black men. The woman told the truth. Get over it!!!
@smithairrion1476. U need to quite because u know most black women get loud out in public embarrassing black men. At least my fellow Latina is speaking the truth out loud!
How is she non black ? 😊