The interest of the child is paramount and the ability of the parent to provide adequately for the child and most importantly to provide the lifestyle thst the chikd is used to. The child's custody should remain with Alhaja until she can make a decision of her own.
The victim in this case is Aliya. The mother and the father are ingrates. She talked regularly with the daughter and stopped going to see her daughter after 419 the Alhaja by collecting clothes when knowing very well that she would not attend the party. Alhaji should have allowed her to answer that question whether she got back to Alhaja and explained herself. She is a pathological liar and ingrate. Aliya is 16 years plus and in another one year plus she can decided to go back and tell everyone to do their worst. Concerning the father that one has finished. He is a shameless man who is proud that All his children are being raised under another man rood which is very dangerous. Aliya is a victim of her irresponsible parents and I don't know how we would all feel if something worse came up in future with the woman taking a grown up daughter to be living with another man who is not her father. So dangerous indeed
I am not in agreement at all with her staying with her biological parents. There's no bonding nor transition time given to her to be psychologically prepared from her "abduction" from comfort in Lagos to a near penury living with dysfunctional parents who are living apart. Aliyah's state of health hasn't been factored into this positioning and may affect her performance in the WAEC she's preparing for. Why not let her finished the exams and go spend the long holidays with her dysfunctional parents and see if they'll be able to convince her to stay living with her mother. The father is an irresponsible person in my opinion
You have not judged this case fairly! How can you break this little girl heart like that,she doesn’t have a relationship with her parents, you have completely destroyed her life, you have removed a little girl from stable environment to an unknown one, yes they are her birth parents but she doesn’t know them like that and just imagine how you have treated her aunt and uncle whom have been there for her all along! Not one time did you stop to think about her interest and you were even questioning her loyalty to people who have loved her and care for her. Aaliyah I’m heartbroken for you….i totally disagree with Oriyomi on this matter. I am someone who loves others people children as if they were my own and I pray I never ever get to be treated like this,fifteen years of her life was just discarded like this!!! Alhaja I am so sorry for the way you were treated may Allah reward your kindness and may you forever have peace that you so deserve 😢
Honestly I felt bad for Aliyah, she can never bond with the parents but regardless under the law the foster parents doesn't have a right to her until she is 18. Her mother is even aggressive and rude. The matter is beyond Alhaji that is why he brought in a legal practitioner so unfortunate Aliyah is the victim here.
For the very first time, i am not happy with the way Alhaji Oriyomi went about this case. Not at any point did he caution the mum not to be rude to her benefactor. Instead, he was siding with the woman like what she did was goog.Is raising a child a joke at all? I thought he would commend the woman and rebuke the ungrateful woman, but Alhaji kept sounding like the foster parent is the bad one. Didnt you hear when the woman said the brother(the dad) has not spoken to her for years? Why would your child be with someone and you dont even call to thank them from time to time. This same woman has accommodated the ungrateful brother at one time or the other. Imagine a grown-up man like this living with his sister also with the daughter. Se efe pa woman yen ni. Herself and her husband are good people. Omo iya osan
the girl interest and welfare wasnt considered at all. Alhaji got this case wrong completely. Even the lawyer didn't mention child care right. Only GOD knows best
Haliyah you have to behave well, Listen & Respected your parent ask when you need things face your study make sure o koo di omo ijoba. Ita o dara, o nma nle omo wale ni,? Wish you all the best
I disagree like you said that she doesn’t have a say! I believe she does! At age 16 and under the circumstances? No judge will allow the parents to take her! It’s always in the best interest of the child and those parents are not fit!
@ is this a legit question as in are you asking because you want to know? Nigeria is not governed by Sharia law so Sharia age of majority ain’t got anything to do with this case.
The lawyer's position is not in cosonnance with childs right law. The court of law will make sure that the biological parents prove their financial capability to take care of the child before releasing her to their custody. Child right law is flexibility due to the paramount interest of the child.
Ungrateful parents ni awon iya Alia .......they are everywhere. They just want to ruin the life of the innocent growing female child.. Alhaji e ku ise o. Can they take good care of Alia like her former Home? Won fe fi fun oko ni o😂
I disagree with Alhaji. If Aliya runs back to Lagos, how is that abduction? Barrister Abeg! The most they will do is send her away! Which one is abduction? This case was not properly handled at all!
Alhaja was a good woman but she did the wrong thing by not allowing her parents to see her. If she doesn't want them to know her house, they should have reached an agreement to meet somewhere just for them to see their child.
You couldn't have said it better 👌💯...imagine having a child and not having access to the child...they should have not resulted to this for the sake of the child and now the child aaliyah will have to suffer the consequences of all their actions
That is not part of you problem Haliyah, you are overloaded with stories. No matter what has happened your parents are yours. She has been manipulated in many ways. She need support and Counseling.The big Aunty still wish her Mother to be a failure. Hope Haliyah will settle down with the mother.
Oloriburuku ni woman eleyi🤬🇳🇬🤦🏽♂️. O fe fi ise tailoring ran omo e losi university? Awon 🤬🇳🇬parents oshi. Olorun lo nsanwo school now🤷🏽♂️eyin were alarun opolo gbogbo
U shall rise to the best, Aliyah🙏🏽. That’s the right question to ask all these irresponsible 🤬🇳🇬useless parents. Cos that’ll establish if they’re capable of taking care of her👍🏽
U guys aren’t saying the right words or fighting the right cause. Someone that left her child for years now fighting for her custody? Se opolo lawyer yi naa nsise sha? That’s emotional blackmailing of the child to deal with her irresponsible parents however 🤷🏽♂️. Nigeria sese bere si ni baje si ni until u guys let the kids express their disappointments and displeasure with all these kindda useless good for nothing 🇳🇬🤬parents jare
@ ur spelling of ‘Taylor’ already shown & supported my points. Even a sensible vulcanizer can have a 3bdrm house on a 1/4 of plot, that doesn’t make them responsible enough to take care of their children. I would like to test ur university children quantitatively so you can see what I’m talking about. 🙄🤦🏽♂️🇳🇬Nigerians with less realistic standards.
Aliyah, it's shall be well with you, with knowledge, wisdom and understanding.
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏
By sending someone to monitor Aliyah is simple because of the love they have for her.
Aliyah parents are very ingrate.
VERY sad for the young girl. I'm so happy that the girl was returned in 1 piece else the parents would let lose if hell
Good answer ahlaji oriyomi, God bless you
Very well concluded. A guidian will never be a parent
Barrister thank you😂they are now in dilemma. Aliyah still love the foster. She is a luck child. It is well
well said alhaji Oriyomi. you are a very intelligent man, highly intelligent. well done
Won kan fe ba aye omo yi je ni
The interest of the child is paramount and the ability of the parent to provide adequately for the child and most importantly to provide the lifestyle thst the chikd is used to. The child's custody should remain with Alhaja until she can make a decision of her own.
I feel so sorry for this girl, walking into all this mess....
The victim in this case is Aliya. The mother and the father are ingrates. She talked regularly with the daughter and stopped going to see her daughter after 419 the Alhaja by collecting clothes when knowing very well that she would not attend the party. Alhaji should have allowed her to answer that question whether she got back to Alhaja and explained herself. She is a pathological liar and ingrate. Aliya is 16 years plus and in another one year plus she can decided to go back and tell everyone to do their worst. Concerning the father that one has finished. He is a shameless man who is proud that All his children are being raised under another man rood which is very dangerous. Aliya is a victim of her irresponsible parents and I don't know how we would all feel if something worse came up in future with the woman taking a grown up daughter to be living with another man who is not her father. So dangerous indeed
Uve said it all
I am not in agreement at all with her staying with her biological parents. There's no bonding nor transition time given to her to be psychologically prepared from her "abduction" from comfort in Lagos to a near penury living with dysfunctional parents who are living apart. Aliyah's state of health hasn't been factored into this positioning and may affect her performance in the WAEC she's preparing for. Why not let her finished the exams and go spend the long holidays with her dysfunctional parents and see if they'll be able to convince her to stay living with her mother. The father is an irresponsible person in my opinion
This parents can never take care of this girl never, ungrateful parents 🎉Oriyomi will be talking like people like anyhow, l love that Lawer olorun
No matter how poor you are let your children know and stay with you. When a guardian is so pained as these people are there is more to it.
@olubunmiabioye8908 This is the useful stage of Aliyah to her foster parents.. Aliyah parents are callous and dubious, too. It is well.
I swear oriyomi talk dey always make me happy na man of Hope you be olorun forever to the Top I pray 🙏🏼
Alhaji, for your judgment on this matter may God bless you. Those Lagos people have hidden agenda. The girl has tasted riches......
8😊😅😮
You have not judged this case fairly! How can you break this little girl heart like that,she doesn’t have a relationship with her parents, you have completely destroyed her life, you have removed a little girl from stable environment to an unknown one, yes they are her birth parents but she doesn’t know them like that and just imagine how you have treated her aunt and uncle whom have been there for her all along! Not one time did you stop to think about her interest and you were even questioning her loyalty to people who have loved her and care for her. Aaliyah I’m heartbroken for you….i totally disagree with Oriyomi on this matter. I am someone who loves others people children as if they were my own and I pray I never ever get to be treated like this,fifteen years of her life was just discarded like this!!! Alhaja I am so sorry for the way you were treated may Allah reward your kindness and may you forever have peace that you so deserve 😢
Honestly I felt bad for Aliyah, she can never bond with the parents but regardless under the law the foster parents doesn't have a right to her until she is 18. Her mother is even aggressive and rude. The matter is beyond Alhaji that is why he brought in a legal practitioner so unfortunate Aliyah is the victim here.
Alhaji Oriyomi Olorun ama fun yin se o amin loruko JESU KRISTI
God bless this girl. She’s so wise
This parents are ingrate
Very-very.
E gba omo fun olomo lowo alagbato, OHsir. As long as Aliyah is OK with the parents.
Aliyah mother is very rude
Honestly.
So rude.
For the very first time, i am not happy with the way Alhaji Oriyomi went about this case. Not at any point did he caution the mum not to be rude to her benefactor. Instead, he was siding with the woman like what she did was goog.Is raising a child a joke at all? I thought he would commend the woman and rebuke the ungrateful woman, but Alhaji kept sounding like the foster parent is the bad one. Didnt you hear when the woman said the brother(the dad) has not spoken to her for years? Why would your child be with someone and you dont even call to thank them from time to time. This same woman has accommodated the ungrateful brother at one time or the other. Imagine a grown-up man like this living with his sister also with the daughter. Se efe pa woman yen ni. Herself and her husband are good people. Omo iya osan
May almighty Allah gives you more strength and wisdom 🙏,
the girl interest and welfare wasnt considered at all. Alhaji got this case wrong completely. Even the lawyer didn't mention child care right. Only GOD knows best
Under the law she's still a minor and if they were to bring that up it wouldn't end well there, Alhaja tried but she made mistakes too
Haliyah you have to behave well, Listen & Respected your parent ask when you need things face your study make sure o koo di omo ijoba. Ita o dara, o nma nle omo wale ni,? Wish you all the best
God bless you sir
I pray they won't regret releasing this girl to this people. The mother is not a good person,she is very rude and aggressive.
Good talk and judgment
The parents have a right to their daughter. They need to bond with their daughter irrespective of the help the foster parents rendered.
Oriyomi is very blunt.
Thank you sir God will bless you
Allia should be able to know if Alhaja is taking care of her or not.
I'm confused here, I thought a 16 year old is capable of deciding where to live. I think I need to review Nigerian Child Acts.
Anywhere in the world is 18 above
I disagree like you said that she doesn’t have a say! I believe she does! At age 16 and under the circumstances? No judge will allow the parents to take her! It’s always in the best interest of the child and those parents are not fit!
At what age in Islamic Sharia Law is a child presumed to be an adult?
@ is this a legit question as in are you asking because you want to know? Nigeria is not governed by Sharia law so Sharia age of majority ain’t got anything to do with this case.
The lawyer's position is not in cosonnance with childs right law. The court of law will make sure that the biological parents prove their financial capability to take care of the child before releasing her to their custody. Child right law is flexibility due to the paramount interest of the child.
TI ALAGBATO NI IYA, OMO YIO PADA MON IYA RE
O MA SE O😢
Hunmmmmmm.
Please Alhaji don't let Aliyah go with her parents. I think she will do better with Alhaja
The lawyer, is saying the truth.
I pray the girl doesn't run into the street. She doesn't feel welcome at home, She can't go back to Alhaja's. Where else if not the street?
Ungrateful parents ni awon iya Alia .......they are everywhere. They just want to ruin the life of the innocent growing female child.. Alhaji e ku ise o. Can they take good care of Alia like her former Home? Won fe fi fun oko ni o😂
Iya aliyah Yi oni ko mon ore rara
Pls Alhaji make sure that girl return to Lagos because of her sacphcology
This parent are ungrateful
Aliya kole gbe lọ dó awọn parents yẹn mọ
They can't cater for this child, they ingrate both father and mother.
Alh oriyomi hamzat kikida ogbon Ori more achievement by God grace 🙏
I disagree with Alhaji. If Aliya runs back to Lagos, how is that abduction? Barrister Abeg! The most they will do is send her away! Which one is abduction?
This case was not properly handled at all!
Alhaji Oriyomi,this woman she's very aggressive. She's come down
You are withdrawing the child from school knowing for a fact that she is smart. You haven’t cared about the child in years but now want your child?
Alhaja was a good woman but she did the wrong thing by not allowing her parents to see her. If she doesn't want them to know her house, they should have reached an agreement to meet somewhere just for them to see their child.
You couldn't have said it better 👌💯...imagine having a child and not having access to the child...they should have not resulted to this for the sake of the child and now the child aaliyah will have to suffer the consequences of all their actions
Exactly 💯 she tried but she spoilt it by not allowing the parents especially the mother have access to the girl
@@samuelrebecca9915 exactly, and that would affect the girl's performance in the coming examination.
@@feliciaadekunle834 I'm sure Alhaja herself wouldn't have been calm with such an act if she was the victim.
It is an injustice to release Aliyah to the biological parents.lt is obvious that she does not have a bond with them.
Let her go back to her parent, they are very ungrateful.
I pity Alia
why can't they ask the girl if she will follow her parent or go back to her foster parent
No one is addressing that the main reason that they don't see Aliyah is because they are threatening Alhaja life
The woman was a full she has no right to talk to her family husband like that she has no manner at all
Minor not majority
Alia's emotions is more important than all this publicity nonsense. Ask her where she wants to stay please.
That is not part of you problem Haliyah, you are overloaded with stories. No matter what has happened your parents are yours. She has been manipulated in many ways. She need support and Counseling.The big Aunty still wish her Mother to be a failure. Hope Haliyah will settle down with the mother.
Ṣe ọmọ eleyii koni salọ padà bayi
😂😂😂😂😂she will surely do. Nobody wants to suffer oo😂the Foster mother loves Alia too much. Callous parents. She will run back to THEM. it is well.
Very Rude a mother
Oloriburuku ni woman eleyi🤬🇳🇬🤦🏽♂️. O fe fi ise tailoring ran omo e losi university? Awon 🤬🇳🇬parents oshi. Olorun lo nsanwo school now🤷🏽♂️eyin were alarun opolo gbogbo
U shall rise to the best, Aliyah🙏🏽. That’s the right question to ask all these irresponsible 🤬🇳🇬useless parents. Cos that’ll establish if they’re capable of taking care of her👍🏽
U guys aren’t saying the right words or fighting the right cause. Someone that left her child for years now fighting for her custody? Se opolo lawyer yi naa nsise sha? That’s emotional blackmailing of the child to deal with her irresponsible parents however 🤷🏽♂️. Nigeria sese bere si ni baje si ni until u guys let the kids express their disappointments and displeasure with all these kindda useless good for nothing 🇳🇬🤬parents jare
Why not, am a Taylor I have build two house's I have a car of my own and children are in university
@ ur spelling of ‘Taylor’ already shown & supported my points. Even a sensible vulcanizer can have a 3bdrm house on a 1/4 of plot, that doesn’t make them responsible enough to take care of their children. I would like to test ur university children quantitatively so you can see what I’m talking about. 🙄🤦🏽♂️🇳🇬Nigerians with less realistic standards.
Your own kind of tailor is differ. You must have gone to school and we'll creative unlike just buba tailor.