How I Found Out I Was The OTHER Woman ! NOT CLICKBAIT
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- Опубліковано 15 січ 2020
- Hello loves! Since my ghosting story took so well and you seemed to want some stories about my dating life I am bringing it to you! This is the first date I went on after being ghosted by my boyfriend. Thumbs up if you want more videos because this is just the first of many stories I have !!
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Low-key wish you told his girlfriend, anonymously or something
Guess what I just want to say something you know your father meaning videos these f****** videos are you watching don't make fucken sense they know
Jennifer Cahill I wish I could understand what you are saying
My question is why didn't you tell the girlfriend? I mean i know you didn't want to be a home wrecker but if I were the 10 year girlfriend I would of appreciated you telling me. SHE WASTED 10 YEARS WITH THAT JERK!! and us girls have to stick together!!!!
Yes thank you!! She is so shitty for not telling her.
Why is it on her to tell the girlfriend? Isn’t it the CHEATER’s responsibility to be honest??
Not all girls, when told their partner is cheating, have respect enough to thank you for being honest with them.. I've seen many times, girls telling other girls that their partner has cheated, and the girlfriend has flipped out and blamed the one being honest about it all. Hell its happened to me before. I didnt know someone was in a relationship, as he never mentioned it. When o found out, I told the girl everything, even sent proof. And she blamed me, said it was my fault etc. And then blocked me. Shes still with the guy to this day
halfwayroundtheearth yes! It’s also his responsibility not to cheat and be a good human being! Girls got to stick up for each other don’t you think?
kirsteen pye I didn’t look at it that way I guess each person is different I would be thankful but I guess that’s just me .
please please tell me you told her! guys, always please say something if you know someone's being cheated on. I was cheated on for years and no one told me and I WISH someone did so I DIDN'T have to go through all that
I would have told her but I can understand why someone wouldn't want to get involved. If the dude got aggressive it would be dangerous and I would def. put my safety first.
Open up and say something! No matter how bad you might feel, let her know what her man is doing! You would wanna know if your man was cheating on you..so let the girl know what's going on! After finding out my long time (10yrs) boyfriend who I had just had a baby with(less then 1mnth before) was on Facebook talking to girls saying hey beautiful, and I dont think the baby is mine..shes just trying to trap me..etc. etc.
Hello loves! You guys said you wanted to hear my HORRIBLE Dating experiences so here is one of many coming to you soon ;) I hope you enjoy ! PS. Comment any of your dating experiences down below!! BTW I am getting a lot of comments about the girlfriend last time I saw him was in 2017.. today he is currently NO LONGER in that relationship or with her
If you haven't watched my whole ghosting story these are the two links to it:
PART ONE: ua-cam.com/video/nOTiHaPOUfg/v-deo.html
PART TWO: ua-cam.com/video/vjlv-7zu5nU/v-deo.html
I remember posting a comment on one of ur videos a while back saying I had a crush on someone and I would get butterflies everytime I saw him. We've been together for over a year:))))
That's so cute
awwwww I LOVE that, that makes me so happy to hear! I wish you both all the best xo
@@Nicolettaxo hehe yesssss the video was 10 ways to get a guy to like you.... and it worked:) thanks so much for all the videos you post and all the advice and storytimes:)
Everyone is like "I'm so sorry that happened to you", I mean yes thats not cool but poor Girlfriend! she is the real victim here. Please tell her! If that was me I'd feel so betrayed by not only him but EVERY ONE that knew about the cheating
she is no longer with him
Nicoletta xo thank you, thats good to know! I just know how it hurts and it makes me really upset when I hear that people get away with sh*t like this, happens too often sadly
Unfortunately there are a lot of frogs on the way to your prince🐸
I think your experiences are definitely relatable at least to me they are. Thanks for sharing .
The fact that the girl had the same name as you ! so weird
I’ve been single for the past 19 years. Fun 😂
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I feel like we’d be good friends in person. Thanks for sharing your story 😘😘
Hey love here watching 💕💕
Yessss I love these 😩🤩
many more coming stay tuned ;) xo
My story is similar to yours in the sense that I met him at the gym...now looking back I realize meeting people at the gym never worked well for me lol but anyways we dated for 3 months, he spent his birthday AND Valentine’s Day at my house with my mom and I...but I ignored the red flags..wouldn’t let me come over to his place and told me he had no social media 🙄 low and behold he breaks up with me and next day I see him with a new girl at the gym, their relationship lasts for a couple months as well...until I get tagged on a random fb post written by the girl he dated after me...turns out she got a tip that he has a girlfriend who’s PREGNANT, so she shows up to his house, indeed there is a girlfriend and she is INDEED PREGNANT, she spills the beans and they both wait for my ex to get home. Second girl decides she’ll hide in the closet and let pregnant girlfriend confront him first...so he gets home, Pregnant girlfriend confronts him, he obviously denies all of it AND GUESS WHO POPS OUT OF THE CLOSET!!! All this to say that the 3 of us girls had a fb messenger group for a while, pregnant girlfriend wanted to know all the information but from what I understand seems like they stayed together for the baby..but as they say....once a cheater......
Vanessa Mottile Thats crazy
I love your story times
Always by your side bbe❤❤😍
Finally you re back
Be strong and always keep smiling👑👌👌
ugh I LOVE YOU!! thank you bby xo
Ok soooooo... I was dating this guy and I was like ignoring all the red flags like ( not following my social media, my phone number was not saved in his phone and would invent fake excuses when I confronted him) Once I found out he was with another girl . Cause my friends saw him but didn't recognize the girl (my cousin ) .I snooped (I'm not proud of it but I did ). Turns out the other girl was my cousin, and she knew i was with him. SOO yeah...i told him i knew and he immediately ghosted me
BasicallyV what a jerk and with your cousin too that’s sick
my ex did the same thing he had me blocked on facebook and i just pretended like it wasn't a big deal. then he ghosted me for a bit and i decided to look on his page and he was "in a relationship' with his old gf >.< Snooping may feel like shit but ignoring the red flags feels worse!
@@girlzrockmp ikr I felt so dumb ignoring all the signs . But I'm over it now
@@eden-zo1tw ikr and my cousin proceeded to act as though nothing had happened.
sad to hear what you’ve been through but it also made me a little happier hearing that I’m not the only person who’s dated quite some idiots... ^^ thanks for sharing.
I was engaged, read this all the way through because it's good. We were always together, until randomly he started to want to go out to drink to "socialize". I was too young to drink, and I had social anxiety so I didn't like being in groups of people. I worked with this girl at my job and she quit to work where my fiance was working (not for that reason). They became "friends". We would go to her house and hang out...once I even watched her kid while he "helped" her with her car....he is not mechanically inclined. He wanted to start going to her house to " use her printer" or he would go to " school" early. He went out one night to drink and didn't come home until the next morning and thought I was crazy for getting mad.
One night he told me he didn't want to be together anymore. I was heartbroken obviously, and the next day at work I heard someone calling that girl some names that made it obvious she was with my ex fiance. Well turns out he got this girl pregnant....she doesn't know who her first kids dad is. They got married shortly after and are still together to this day but once a cheater always a cheater. The best part is....months later I got a call from the police. They said my IP address came back to child porn. (Internet was in my name) I always told him not to watch porn on my computer but obviously he didn't listen...the police had me bring in my computer for evidence and they wiped it all clean, no hard drive or anything was left.they decided there wasn't enough evidence against him so they didn't go further. I called my ex and told him he better stop because the police were on to him and he had a kid on the way.
@Anne Hellwig he has 2 now and they are little girls. I hope he never hurts them, he never seemed like that type. It seemed from what the cops were saying is be was looking at little boys under age 5. (He's bi). I'm thankful I got out of that. It's been almost 6 years since this.
If a guy tells you he's having issues with his current relationship, always call her directly and get her side. I mean he should have no problem giving up her number to prove it. If he won't ta ta.
You think that a person having "relationship problems" would be willing to give out their current significant others number to prove to their new prospect that this is true? that is not how life works.
Lauryn Goulet exactly... what type of logic is that, lol?
This is absolutely horrible advice lol. If a guy tells you he's having issues with his CURRENT relationship, that's when you should "ta ta".
I’m really sorry this happened to you! That stuff is annoying AF
Maybe they were in an open relationship at the time, that’s why he’s so chill I don’t know lol
can you make a video on your current relationship and how you know when a relationship is the right one for you?
I've got two stories like this. The first was a guy I met on Plenty of Fish and he was a total sweetheart. Called me sweety, hon, babe, stuff like that. Stuff you'd call your girlfriend. Well, he'd also confide in me for a lot of things and I him. We had made plans to possibly go on a date later that week and I had taken the time off work, like I got someone to take my shift. He even told me Happy Valentine's Day. Well one day, he texted me after kind of ghosting for a little bit and he was telling me that he actually has a girlfriend and he didn't really want to be with her, but he had bought her a car and moved her into his house and all of this stuff. So yeah that one was fun. Shortly after that, I had a friend I had met three years ago message me on Snapchat and he suddenly was telling me that when we were at the conference where we met, he really thought I was attractive and all this other stuff and he wished he had made a move and we sent each other some...pictures (not my proudest moment)...and I had looked him up on Facebook because I saw that it was his birthday and that's when I found out he's had a girlfriend since September...I don't know if guys just think that I'm a good person to emotionally/physically cheat on their girlfriends with or what, but that was two in a row...who knows how many other guys have secretly had girlfriends.
GIRRRL!!! I can so relate to you! My bf ghosted me too and it took me a year to trust again
What mascara do you have on? Looks amazing!
Omggggg the update!!!!!
Lol! I enjoy all of your UA-cam videos ! I hated the dating world ! It was so exhausting! Lol! So happy I’m married 🤣😂
wowww the balls on that guy! I know you want nothing to do with him, but I personally think it would be a good idea to tell the girl what a scumbag her bf is. She deserves the truth, and even if she doesn't believe you, at least you put it out there and if she decides to bury her head in the sand then that's her problem. But if my man was doing all that shit, I would be really thankful that the girl told me what was going on behind my back
I always get the vibe that if you’re dating is bad it’s no ones fault but your own. I understand that people do shitty things, I certainly have been on the receiving end. But when I look back I can always see how I should have seen it coming. How I could’ve escaped it. How a bad decision I made was the catalyst. The excuse that dating is hard doesn’t release us from fault. If it’s difficult more effort or reflection needs to be put in to improve the situation. And if you don’t want to put in the time, effort or thought then that is ok but your dating life will remain up to the luck of the draw. It’s important to remember the perfect person is perfectly imperfect. No one will check all the boxes, but it’s about perspective. Finding a few things we need in a person, the most important things to us, and compromising on the others is a good start. Compromising is a part of life, so focus on a few traits and look for those
love your videos❤
Thank you bby xo! you are the best!
Omgggg 😲🍿 give us more lol
This is why it’s so hard for me to date. I’ve had a couple bad experiences with f-boys and finding out that they are in relationships. They like to use the “we were on a break” excuse. Always get their social beforehand because that’s where the truth is lol. A couple summers ago I was seeing this guy who I really liked. We met on a dating app. One day while I was at his place he texted me something that was obviously meant for someone else. It was obvious that he was in a relationship. He denied it and denied it until I checked his social and found her. They had just gotten in a relationship days before he and I stared talking. I was conflicted on messaging her because girls can get crazy about that stuff. I ended up messaging her months later and she left me on read. 😭I think they’re still together.
Why would he even go up to you while you where sleeping , what a creep.
Nicholas & Nicoletta omg how cute 💜💜💜
Love you girl!! Being cheated on is so shit like people these dayssss
I got cheated on essentially my entire year long relationship. They didnt start actually hooking up until 4 months in BUT they were flirty and hanging out all the time during our whole relationship. And heres the best part. She was my best friend from third grade until my senior year of high school when she finally told me🙃
God I have so many stories 🤦🏻♀️
RELATABLE !!!!! xo
@@Nicolettaxo i'm so glad you did the right thing girl, you obviously deserved better 👏🏻❤ Love youu
I recently got out of a two-year relationship and had that Crush feeling again and it was such a weird feeling to have a crush on someone because I haven't had that Crush feeling so long. It didn't work out because the guy had a crush on was just doing this two-week-long thing with me for a job oh, so I'll probably never see him again LOL
I'm from Toronto aswell, but I now live in Vancouver! I enjoy watching your dating stories, I unfortunately can relate... I was seeing a guy and he failed to tell me that he got his ex-gf/gf pregnant (he kept saying ex, but I don't believe him). I found out right after she gave birth.
Damn! We share a lot of the same dating experiences haha also been ghosten and dated a guy who said he was single and I found out via social media he had a gf and a kid!
If you ever find out the guy you have been dating has a girlfriend always reach out and let them know. I was 8 months pregnant when I found out my boyfriend had been sleeping with the same girl for 5 years. She knew about me from the start, knew I was pregnant, liked all our pictures on social media and only threatened him to come clean after he'd posted pictures of us on a swingers website.
My sad story of 4 years ago:
The first guy I actually liked started talking to me . Everyone knew him (he was popular ) and he had this good guy image.After talking for monts and hanging out (mostly in group) he actually told me he liked me and told me how badly he wanted to kiss me..However, even though I liked him A LOT,something felt weird.He had told me he didnt have instagram but I knew he had one.Soo I actually told him I wasn't ready yet...He actually got a bit annoyed.My BFF suddenly called me and told me we HAD to meet up ASAP.Turns out my friends sister actually followed him and turned out he had a girlfriend for a year.We stopped talking and broke my heart,and felt so annoyed how he was pretending to be this great guy.
FUN FACT...He actually followed me on insta this year and started talking to me AGAIN EVENTHOUGH HE KNOWS I KNOW HE IS IN A 3 YEAR RELATIONSHIP
Things got pretty dramatic...
EDIT: I can gladly answer any question 😂
Post a video sis . SPILL💀
@@evelynmartinez4746 Let me tell you a bit more...
PART 2 (UNREALISTIC BUT TRUE!) :
So a 2 years passed,I was completely over him and had my first kiss;when few days later BOOM a text from him asking me whats up.I was like WTF?? Emotions and mixed feelings came back but this time things were different. We kept talking everyday,and I realised how bad I felt for his gf,soo out of nowhere i asked him:"Hey!So how are things with your gf??" He ACTUALLY laughed it off and continued our conversation. ..I was shocked this time I started to ignore him. Around that time my cousin wanted to introduce me to her new group of friends so i went with her.I COULDN'T BELIEVE MY EYES when I saw HIM (along with his brothers ,sister and friends).I wanted to run away,but didn't wanna leave my cousin alone.So we decided to play it off as if we just met. HOW COULD I EXPLAIN ME THE NEW GIRL HOW WE HAD MET (plus because of his image no one would believe me).He started talking to me and getting closer.I decided to keep pretending even if it hurt💔,until one day.I was actually part of the group now ,and one day we were all having dinner whe he showed up WITH HIS GF!!! I almost choked, beacause literally everyone told me how cute they were,#couple goals..She was so nice and I couldn't keep it up so i left the group.
FUN FACT: after that summer he texted AGAIN telling me he wanted to meet up alone,but this time I decided to PLAY HIM this time✌
@@luciagallegos6010 oh...my! Kinda curious but how exactly does he look? I mean...everyone seems to be drooling all over him so...
@@taheramanna4894 haha!! He was a football player tall, blue eyes and with dimple s ,broad shoulders and dark hair.
From the first story. I already knew.
You remind me of Deanna from jersey shore!!! 💜
that's disturbing for my mind I'm sorry that you went through it
That’s so sad 😭 I know you didn’t want to be a home wrecker and that gets iffy. But I just think if I was her, I’d absolutely want to know my long term boyfriend was doing that. She probably has no idea still.
she is currently no longer with him
Nicoletta xo oh good 🙌🏼 he clearly didn’t deserve her! And I wasn’t saying it bad on your part that you didn’t because I know how hard that could be. But 10+ years she gave him, that’s so sad 😞
@@TaraDenise yes I totally agree I have been cheated on before and I know that feeling of heartbreak I feel horrible for anyone who has ever in that situation it is completely disgusting. Thankfully they are not together but my heart goes out to any other girl he may do it to after her
Nicoletta xo yesss, they sadly will rarely grow up and quit their shenanigans. Pitiful. I also found you through this series and then realized there’s a MTV show about being ghosted! Crazy that it’s so common!!! 😳
Wow. I’m here!!!
Ahhh ILY!!!!
Love you queen
LOVE YOU BBY !!! XO
I agree with other comments that it would have been better to say something to the girlfriend when it first happened. I know I’d want to know if my boyfriend were dating other girls. It’s just sucky that they were still together and she still may have had no idea. I’m sorry that he played you though too. It’s happened to me as well, but I checked Facebook before the date and saw he was in a relationship.
I just saw your comment that they’re not together. Good for her!!
i looooove storytimes
The only thing that worries me is that you did not tell her?? I don’t get it
What scent are those candles in the back?🤔 🕯
i love you!!!
That’s a red flag for 5 years this person didn’t speak to you and then all of a sudden they want to “date you “ that’s sounds like because their life became a mess their gonna use someone else and mess their life up 😭😭
If i found out someone was cheating on someone.......honey im about to destroy this relationship. Can't stand cheaters
Ilyyyy
love you more!! xo
Y’all, the gf is no longer with the cheater. Stop jumping down her throat
How did you not contact that poor girlfriend though?! 10 years is a long time to waste and you’re about to make her waste another 10.
What are your lashes 😍
OK sooo I have to check some things... 🙄🧐😲
I am half Greek
I'm not Reilly in to boy's at the moment
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Lucky you
What is a Gravel? Is it like Dramamine?
Omg this is crazy. I would have said something to the girl.
2 years I met this guy we became best friends we were super close and we would hang out and text each other I ignore all the red flags then I found out he ghosted me when I came back from vacation for months he ignore me until I found out he had a gf and I was side one I call him out all his lies and bs saying he wanted to be with me it’s sucks but we both had strong feelings for each other.
I want to meet a girl that is "about" being cheated on xD
Oh my I'm scared lol
why didn’t u tell his gf....
I really hope you told the girlfriend, from someone who has been with someone for 15 plus years, I would want to know
Wait I’m sorry there are so many comments saying “why didn’t you tell her?” That is NOT on her!! That is on the cheating partner!! I hate how we always shift responsibility away from the person who is unfaithful.
Hi 👋 nicoellta xo 😘
Lol I was the other woman in my last relationship 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Boyyyyyy do I have some stories
OMG YOUR CANADIAM I LIVE IN ALBERTA I WAS IN TORONTO ONTARIO TOO 1 MONTH AGO OMG!, I wanna meat u
Kk I have a problem I have a crush on a guy and I rlly like him but my friend also likes him and she doesn’t know I like him and idk what to do Cos I rlly like him and ya
Valeria G thanks for the advice ☺️
Do video with jessica
WOW crazy!! I was dating someone and on our first date he was telling me about his psycho ex well we get back into town after our date get off the bus and this chick pulls up in the parking lot runs out screaming at me he tells me that is his crazy ex, long story short he made it sound like he was telling the truth, a few weeks later I am walking to the store and who pulls up along side of the side walk his crazy ex, she rolls down her window and says HEY come here, I go over she tells me she is sorry about what had happened, he explained it to her that I was lost and needed directions, so I say to her ummmm no he told me you were his psycho ex... long story short she was going to see him and this may sound dumb but i went with her the look he had when he came outside and saw me with his gf said it all, he then proceeds to tell her im obsessed with him and all this crap. Overall, I left and some years later I found out he shot his girlfriend and was in jail ( not the same gf who I talked too ). Guys are so shady sometimes and I always say go with your gut.
smallllll world lmaoo
a few months ago i shot my shot and now me and this guy have been together for 6 months:”)
And he didnt hide it very well...Good riddance...!!!
did you say anything to his girlfriend ? like did she know he is a player ?
You should have told the girlfriend immediately
He is a narcissist
So I was talking to one of my guy best friends for 2 years. We had went through a lot from being really in love with each other and wanting to be together. Then he started changing his mind and saying he’s needs to get his shit together before he’s ready to be in a relationship. We had sex many times and made love many times.
We were still talking and sexting for a good while but he was more distant towards the end. One day my friend tells me he told her he had a girlfriend.
I asked him about it and he told me he was single. So fast forward to a month or so later my friend told me to go look at his instagram. Turns out I’m all of a sudden blocked. My friend sends me his posts and it’s a posts about him and his girlfriend who I found out he’s been with for at leasts 5 months.
I was mad at him and told him off and he tried to manipulate and lie to say face but i called him out on his bs.
I message his girlfriend a week later telling her that he’s been cheating on her with me and we’ve been talking for 2 years. I told her I have messages, photos and videos to prove it if she wanted to see proof for herself.
The girlfriend never message me back. All she did was block me and ignore the messages.
Later on I find out they stayed together and she’s posted so many lovey dovey Instagram posts about him after this incident.
She’s posted so many of those long paragraph posts saying how much she loves him and he’s her best friend and he’s an amazing boyfriend and etc.
It makes me sick that she just stayed with him after she found out he was having an affair with me their whole relationship and how she also is posting stuff like that in Instagram about them.
Like people who, like and comment on their post think that they are this cute in love couple but in all reality, he was having an affair behind her back and shes too insecure to leave him and a little bit crazy.
It may sounds weird to some people (me included) but there are actually people out there that don't really care about monogamy. Maybe she knew about it and doesn't even care. Or he told her you are crazy and lying.
Oz
From what I grasp when I confronted him is they are in a monogamous relationship and he didn’t want his girlfriend to know (even though I told her already.
But he did try to manipulate the situation and try lie about it but I called him out on his bs.
So he may have lied to her and told her I was crazy or something.
But I did tell her I had proof if she needed to have it confirmed but she never messaged me back.
Idk if i was in her situation I would want to see the proof for myself even if he called her crazy.
@@Mandapuggo_ Ouch man, I will never get why people would cheat on their spouse. I feel sorry for you being included in something like that!
And yes, I would demand for proof as well.
Why didn’t you tell the girl..?
her bf should be the one to tell her
Why didn’t you tell his girlfriend?
Тёлка красивая. Жаль что не понимаю о чём она говорит)))
Oh sweetheart!! You are just so kind. In that plane I would have been the biggest bitch and enjoyed so much... So so much.
You really should have told her. Really.
she is not with him anymore
girl you should have SNITCHED
You should’ve told the gf
ehmm...u should have told his gf
Do you speak Greek? :)
❤
I want to tell my stories but they sound fake
Girl just tell em !
It can't be that bad
Ok lowkey, you kinda look like Savannah LaBrant.. like if you were blonde lol