When Being Nice is Not Nice | When You Need To Be Ruthless
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
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Yes dont outshine your boss! That is one of the laws in the book “48 Laws”
It's the first law. Never outshine the master.
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In 2008, my mentor, a brilliant scholar, won a visa lottery and left Nigeria to join a university in New York as a post-doctoral fellow. He had earned his PhD from Reading University, showcasing his academic excellence.
Despite his qualifications and potential, he faced a significant challenge at the university in New York. His supervisor, feeling threatened by my mentor's capabilities, warned him that any attempt to outshine him would result in being ousted from the university.
@@adebayoolufemi2074 at least he told him.
This man is now my internet father 😊😊. I listen to him before I go to work.
Being nice has a limit. If you go beyond that limit, people will definitely take advantage of you. Very true. Thank you sir.
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"Let profits fuel philanthropy and not capital."
Well understood sir.
I’m polite and respectful but I’m not as nice as I used to be. I set boundaries and I’m not afraid to call people out on their bull--. Folks are banking on you to let things slide …that only encourages them to keep being disrespectful.
I’m nice until I’m not nice, something I live by.
Sir, in you I see my father and my secondary school principal. I than God I found you. May you remain in good health.
Dr. Apoki needs to be elected president.
The riches of this content can't be measured. Thank you Dr Apoki
I wish I met this channel earlier ,i lost my business and ran into debt of more than 12million because i left my junior brother same father and mother to manage it, when i realize my mistake,he ran away with the goods in the shop to open a new shop for himself and after few months he bought himself a car and left me in debt.Family is wicked i swear
Sorry Bro. Hope you learnt the lesson and you will never repeat it again.
People most times become wiser after the events. Not good enough. One of the greatest mistakes we make as humans, is that we live and take decisions emotionally.
They have destroyed the mangroves in Lagos. So it may be susceptible to Tsunami. . God save this nation.
each time i watch a new video, i say "this is the best one yet".
Dr Charles Apoki is
Literally the Myles Munroe of our Time
The day is not completed if l didn't listen to Dr Charles
Everytime I listen to you I see exactly the way I am and I am glad that nothing is actually wrong with me because people always complain that I am not like everyone else but I don't care and that has helped me to build solid structure in my business, family and life in general.
Today I have been able to constantly grow and acquire more education, build more businesses, implement the Echo income, bought a property, built my own house using the principle of the Ant and so much more even without haven started listening to you yet.
I am so thankful for the wisdom which you dispense. It validates my personal principles and wisdom.
Thank you Sir!
Yh ur write up was indeed encouraging
I can't stop laughing listening to you sir.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree! Especially 'I expelled them', I thank God I found uncle's channel 😂😂😂
@@JayZCraZythat line makes me spleen hurt 😂.
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This man is wise, may God give him more years to live.
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Amen
Your message here is so true. I live in the USA, many family members back home are “strangulating” their American people here. It’s so weird they (family members back home) will make you feel they will die if you don’t send them money right away.
And they don't know how hard you work for your money and the sacrifices you make.
Once anybody knows you are in the USA they believe that you are rich. You just came in and started sweep dollars from the ground. Same assumption in latinamerica. The true or reality is very different but people don't believe it.
I’m not a Christian but I really appreciate your message sir, I hope you live long to continue impacting your wisdom
Amen.
You are right sir. Another one from the bible is Elisha cursing the children who disrespected him.
You teach what our fathers arr quiet to say
Just like water, it will quench your thirst, but it can also drown you and cause destruction.
That’s very good that u re standing against gay acts.that’s another deadly thing that is working against our society now
Truly a “ Solid Word”! Sometimes and some people have to be taught how to respect your compassion! Otherwise, you’re casting your pearls to “ swine”! God bless you richly brother for the words you sow!
Glad to come to this platform. So true I wish I met you earlier. Now I am 62 having made so many mistakes. However, there is a lot to do now with my life. God bless you more to reach many people in younger age
A wise man once said "be too nice and people will treat you like a dummy" RIP DOOM
"Sometimes I am not nice." 😂
Me too 🖤
it is not often that you see or meet people who say what they mean and mean exactly what they say,you dr.apoki are from that rare lot who will not compromise under no circumstance.
I thank God we still have Elders like this who choose to educate us With their WISDOM.
God bless you Sir 🙏🙏
I love this man❤ God bless you, grandpa!
@46:54 Kenyans Kikuyus are acknowledge here thumps up for Dr Apoki for that👏👏👏
kabisa.. but mimi ni mluhya
Full of wisdom. Thank you so much. Indeed we tolerated stupidity a lot. Powerful teaching
Thank you fo this message because I I am to nice but I am about to get ruthless. Because when nice you get no respect. I am 64. And Iam tired . thats me , they treat me like trush. From this day forward. . thank you ! God Bless you. 2/2024 from Pa.
You don't necessarily have to be ruthless, just have limits and draw that line.
Dr your teaching is always reinforcing my beliefs and values. Thanks
That's what I need and many pastors. That's what kills our sweet. Thank you daddy I love you from Kenya
Pst Chris I want to join you classes
Sir, we need people like you in Nigerian politics/government.
Chai thank you pastor, this is one of my weak point, too nice to people, I need more of this message
Having similar problem too nice to family and friends , time to change
Is he a Pastor?
Exactly 💯😂. I am over good to people. Infact I am learning a lot here. Thank you Dr. Apoki
I am not sure, he his, but baba has scriptural knowledge
This message came at the best time I needed it. Dr. Apoki, God bless you sir.
I just love this my papa, I'm not Jesus Christ, only God can give his life 😂😂😂 not me, i was just being carried away by religion, and sometimes i over nice, my over niceness and philanthropy life once leads me to depression, because i was so broke, after i get back to my senses omo, i changed plans, i need to help my seld first before helping others, if you like cry a River.
Thank you sir!
You’re speaking the truth.
So glad I found you wise man.
Can’t stop laughing at how you emphasis on your words😅
Thank you very much because I have been in that situation since I was a kid up to this point.
Thank you so much Dr,you are a gift to mankind, watching from Cameroon
You are very welcome
Well Done. Thank you.
The mentorship I needed
Great!!
I Agree 100% Excellent message!!!
A word in season! God bless you sir
Thanks fro your strong message !
Thank you DR
Great video - thank you!!!
Thank you for this study!
I love this message so much. You're so right!
Thank you sir, well heard. God bless you
Thank you for these nuggets sir. They are priceless.
A message at the nick of time!
Thank you brother and God bless 😊
I haven't watched the video, but based on his previous videos I've watched, l know there'll be a lot of wisdom in this video
Powerful message
ALWAYS Relevant topics! Thnak you, Dr. Charles.
Fountain of Wisdom!!!!!! This is REALLY DEEP!!! Dr Charles well said and I admire your WISDOM!!!!! God bless you and age gracefully and graciously. God bless you SIR!!!!
Amen.
Formidable force ❤
He speaks like a Capricorn ♑️ truthful and straight
He is a Taurus
@@markgeorge7426Taurus and Cap are both Earth signs.
Are scorpios straightforward?
The truth knows no signs
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Thank you for your message
I can only say thank you sir Dr . C. APOKI
Good job.
Thank you Dr. Apoki I needed to hear that. It is necessary to be firm.
Nice one Dr..Apoki
We appreciate you.
Thanks!
Well spoken, Thanks for this great message.☝️
Very correct. sir. I just met you today.
Thank you so much sir
Inspiring!
Yes sir I like that. God bless you.
Wonderful speech. Now I know why I am poor
Great epitome of knowledge
Thank you Dr.
Watching from Liberia
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us
God bless you 🙏
Strong man
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Thanks
Inspiring message
I love this man.
True ❤
' Dr What You Have Said;Thats Facts;Thats Been A Real Man'.
Yes Sir, I concur. Where there is no discipline, there is disorder. Disorder must be handled ruthlessly.
Love your teaching
I'm enlighten by this video, and I'm glad to hear this message now because I'm a business man and it will help me immensely. Thank you sir
Glad it was helpful! Please share with others.
Thank you my friend the Dr full of wisdom
Excellent message sir 😃
I love listening to you. Listening from Ghana
Wow what a great massage!
Thank you sir
God bless you Sir always
God bless you sir. I'm always thrilled by you're knowledge & wisdom. Thank you sir.
Well said sir. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this epistle Dr. Apoki.
May God bless you sir.
All I can say is well done, Dr. The Lord keeps you .
Just join your wonderful ministry.. thanks for the wise Words.
I am amazed, I thoroughly enjoyed this message. I am energized..
Love it .Thank you again from a long time friend
Thank you too!
Oh I really enjoyed my time