IS IT ALWAYS SUS TO GO TO THE CLUB WITHOUT YOUR MANZ/GIRL?!?!
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- Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
- EP 85: In this episode we dress up as prisoners and open up by talking about if EVERY relationship goes through an arguing 24/7 phase and if there is any way around it as well as why we stay in a relationship with someone even though there's constant yelling. We then go on to talk about why it seems that people are more reluctant to have a lot of "bed" partners as Gen Z and what we have learned from previous generations. We finish up the podcast by talking about going to the club with your friends when your currently IN A RELATIONSHIP and if we think that's super weird and if we'd allow our bf/gf to go out with their friends without us. HOPE YA'LL ENJOY!!! also for some reason the end of this episode goes to a black screen and I'm trying to get it fixed but if you get to the end and it's a black screen that's the end of the podcast!
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Also ya'll I just wanted to add onto here a little more on our views on Andrew Tate. I know that in a past podcast a lot of ya'll misinterpreted what we said about Andrew Tate, we DO NOT support his views on women especially how men should be treating women. I know that in this podcast Nick said he watches him for entertainment and to laugh at the outlandish things he says but we shouldn't be giving that man anymore of a platform than he already has. Those of you who do watch Andrew Tate please take into account that this man should not be a role model for any man no matter how old and most of the things he says are for shock value and to get you to keep watching him and talking about him. Christine also filled the guys in on a lot of his past so none of us will be watching him ever again. I (Nick) decided to leave that part in the video however because I wanted to clear the air on all of our behalves on why we were watching him and I really hope this clears the air for everybody!
i had a feeling christine was going to educate you guys a little more on just how problematic andrew tate is. love the accountability guys!!
It’s good it takes guts to admit yall were wrong and to take responsibility
I feel you on this disclaimer. I stay cracking mad jokes about the guy and my lady gets SO mad at me for it. But ngl I see why and I should really stop
Thank you for saying this! I can understand that Andrew‘s takes can be seen as funny bc they’re so ridiculous. It‘s important for everyone to realize how damaging his views are especially since a lot of people are taking them very seriously. So writing it off as a joke even tho it‘s on the expense of women and giving him the attention he wants isn‘t really the way to go. And most of the shit he says are actually things he believes and he really shouldnt have such a big plattform. There are so many entertaining creators across all social media plattform so let’s give attention to those who arent hurtful to women! Great podcast as always :)
@@Glitchonmars not the flex u thought it was
I feel like Maru would be put to prison from accidentally killing someone 😂 she’d be like “ Bro!!! I didn’t mean to!!”
😭😭don’t say that …….
🤣🤣
But am I wrong tho?
😭
“like i didn’t mean to kill him.. ya know?”
What they would get arrested for...
Nick - public "nuisance" (host of a big crowded party in public, not compliant)
Maru - hit and run (was a innocent accident in the parking lot but panicked)
Sage - public intoxication (having too much fun)
Christine - police altercation (telling a police officer off)
Devin - stealing a cool street sign (just cause)
This is the most accurate one I've seen 🤣 😂 💀
literally this feels so accurate
100% possible
I still think Devin would prolly be framed😭
Devin “its free why cant i take it”
Literally been re-binging all of the old podcasts because I've already watched them all😭
“That’s a sign in serial killers” *Nick and Maru make intense eye contact*
Nick would be in jail for harassing a girl for feet pics. Maru for assault (throwing drinks at her man when she caught him flirting w another girl at the club). Sage probs theft. Christina probs for scamming people & Devin definitely got framed for whatever he’s in jail for
devin definitely got framed 😭😭
And Cynthia for murdering her ex 😂
@@andreamontiel2032 did they mention why cynthia hasn’t been in the recent podcast?
@@paulamayy no I don’t think so 🤷🏽♀️ 😞
This is accurate
I think a topic yall should discuss is parenting styles, I think many parents raise and give advice that is a reflection of their traumas. Similar to how I've noticed in what Maru said. She tends to, in a way, "return to her trauma" by dating the same type of men she can't trust, and then often her perceptions and generalizations of men are based on her past traumas/relationship issues. This is why I think it's pretty cool the Nick is a member of the panel as a person who hasn't been in a relationship, unless that's a running joke(idk).
Am I the only one missing the maru, sage, and devin trio? Like on the left side. I miss the energy it brought to the podcast
Maru looks like a bratz doll im obsessed with her
she’s so pretty
Did Nick call Maru “mija” at 12:33 ??? So cute my heart 🥹 10/10 friendship
I love when someone calls me mija once we’re close, it’s so endearing
No fr it’s so sweet :,]
Awe Maru seemed kinda out of it this podcast. I feel like she’s been through a lot. I hope she’s ok 🫶🏻
also cynthia hasn’t been here
I’m only 20 mins into the video and I thought the same thing, I was curious if anyone else noticed. I hope she’s doing okay :( 🫶🏾
Frr
Same!!
I noticed it about 20 mins into the video too, she’s barely said anything:( maybe she just didn’t feel like talking
maru seemed so down it made me sad. we really need cynthia, i feel like she balances the podcast and everybody share their input when she's there, but now we're only hearing from christine and sometimes sage. not mad about it obviously, but i feels like cynth knows how to communicate with maru better and bring the vibes together.
Love how Christine said “feels like a sauna in here” and nick said “really” while lookin’ drenched in SWEAT lmao
i hope maru was okay :( she seemed out of it in this podcast
Only Nick noticing Sage’s moaning killed me 💀🤣
Missing cynthia frfr but another w pod this week love u guys 🫶🫶
is she gone for good?
@@1jazzhands naw probably not she only been gone a month she probably lives far or works Christine is her sister so if they stopped being cool she would have left also
are Devin and Maru okay? Devin has been off lately in the podcasts and Maru seemed odd in this one. Also where’s Cynthia?😭
i noticed too that maru seemed a lot quieter in this podcast but im not too sure with devin, but i do think there’s a lot of topics he won’t put alot of input into because he wants to keep his relationship pretty private. he’s said that a few times before he just doesn’t want to overshare anything that might make his gf uncomfortable yk
is maru okay? :( she seemed to be zoning out alot more than usual
i feel that. 2 mins in and she hasnt giggled or nothing
Ikr
I love Christine but when a girl dressed up for a girls night out it is not for any attention… it can literally just be to make her feel better. it feels good to dress up nice & go out every once and a while. just because a woman does that doesn’t mean she wants attention from other people.
Sometimes I wish we could call in and add input to these conversations😭 cause with the girls and boys going to clubs or trips convo I was kind of surprised. I don’t think people in relationships should feel they need to refrain from being out with their friends just because they’re in a relationship. People like to go out with their friends for fun it’s not always for validation and if that’s the case or perception for you that says a lot about your insecurities (which is fine and normal). It should be discussed with your partner ofc.
Also, I agree with the people you hang around are a reflection of you (to an extent) I would never let my homies men or women cheat because why would you risk a good thing? Plus it has me questioning your loyalty to everyone, myself included.
WHERE IS CYNTHIA?! Missing her 😪
yesss I’m missing her
Maybe school?
BJ
is she gone for good?
@@1jazzhands I don’t think anyone knows
Nick and maru sit closer every episode
it’s cute
22:03 The way Maru and Nick immediately look at each other
Maru asking the universe for a nice guy 🔮
Meanwhile I’m like “Sage is right there”!! 🤭
maru was pointing out a lot of facts in this podcast, especially about girls clubbing. Generally, because of how most girls and boys are trained so differently growing up, I feel like emotionally we are distinct in various ways and how we may approach certain situations differently in life, especially when it comes to relationships. I would love to hear more from maru. I hope she's doing okay?
Sage went to jail for stealing real jewelry from the jewelry storeeeee💀💀💀
ALL MY JEWELRY IS REAL😭 i just lose so many rings that i gave up on wasting money on that item💀
@@TheSageGuillen how do you lose rings😭 4 me if my rings r real they never come off my fingers 🤷♀️
@@TheSageGuillen its okay sage I’ll buy u a real ring 🫶🏽
i love how much christine has added to the podcast she’s so wise & educated i love her takes (facts) haha
i fucking LOVE mondays bc of y’all
When Sage started moaning and Nick was the only one to catch it, I started dying
I need Cynthia back for a podcast
Really enjoyed you guys talking through arguments with significant others and what you guys each do or have done in the past where you didn’t want to blow up or say something hurtful that may cause more harm in the end. A rule that’s worked for me when discussing what made someone upset or angry is the other person can’t talk until the other person is finished, found it helps with ensuring the person is heard and you aren’t just responding to responding rather actually taking the time to listen and understand where they are coming from. Saved me a lot not only in relationships but friendships as well.
loved the episode overall 🤞🏽
Love the podcast! Maru seems out of it! I’m hoping she’s doing ok!? All love to you all! These questions are getting sm better each podcast! I need Christine in my life lol! Hope all is well with Cynthia as well🫶🏽
the whole time im watching this the only thing i can think of is how good devin’s skin is 😭
The way Sage and Devin both turned their heads at the same time at 3:11 is too funny
😂😂😂
I love you for this comment 💀
i was hoping i wasnt the only one bro
When Nick did an imaginary punch to Maru it really gave sibling vibes🤣🤣
Here’s a question for the next pod maybe …. How do you feel about your boys/girls always bringing their significant other around 24/7 (example 1 you text the gc to come over for a chill boys/girls night and everyone pulls up but that one friend brought his partner without telling) (example 2 you text the boys/girls for a birthday dinner and they brought their partner without asking to a homies / girlies night )
idc i will say it a million times, you have best looking people in your podcast.
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Emotionally Gay: to me it’s like guys will brag or do something in a convo with their homies or do weird shit or change up to impress the homies. like say your walking with you’re girl you run into your homies and you’re whole demeanor and attitude changes to make you’re homies laugh, or “impress” them, like invalidate or hurt your girls feelings just for a quick convo. idk if this makes sense
yeah that makes total sense. when he cares about his homies oppinion of him way more than his girlfriends.
“Emotionally gay”💀💀 stop
lowkey missing Cynthia she hasn’t been here in a minute
is she gone for good?
i always thought christine had good points but this take was not it.. a girls night out is literally... a GIRLS NIGHT OUT. going to the club doesn't mean you're looking for attention? some ppl just like the ambiance of nightlife & her thinking that girls clubbing means they want attention is very.... problematic. it's giving "she asked for it" vibes....
Ive seen some people argue “ why don’t girls go to a gay nightclub ?”
agree, when getting dressed up for girls nights it’s for urself and your girls never been for others attention. once we out at the club we are like in a bubble like zoned out you don’t knowledge anyone else but your friends you go with, as in like we had our own section. &’ If we have single friends going i would say we could encourage that single friend to go mingle and the ones taken to just sit back and watch or go dance with one another
i agree!!
i agree!! she used to have pretty good takes but idk
Sometimes I feel like when they make takes like this is more because of the people they’ve been around/their experiences so I take some with a grain of salt
Fam Christine is so smart I actually love her. She knows exactly how to answer questions and she says it so perfect, like dawg I ain’t ever seen that on social media.
Sage’s and Devin’s bond 🫶🏼
Here we go devin and sage they for sure crimys (crime partners) a hit and run, I can see Christine going for murder lol, Maru for sure robbing a bank, and nick stalking and a B.E lol love the podcast y’all are hilarious.
sage and dev are so in sync it’s crazzzy
i never resonated with nick so much. we have like the same allergies and i also have ezcema. i’m also the one in the friend group who asks the questions. haha good podcast once again the beginning was funny af
Nick looks like he’s been working out more , in a good way yk I love these podcasts btw
he looks buff
I LOVER YOUR PODACTS, YALL ARE AMAZING, but like is Cynthia ok, where she at?
The intro always kills me 🤣🤣 you can see Dev plotting his next lil line after they said it’s cringey 🤣🤣
I think Maru is starting to get more reserved and shy to speak her mind the more the podcast goes on. I think you guys subconsciously make her feel not on the same page sometimes.. I feel like she doesn’t feel confident around you guys sometimes, or atleast not confident in her speaking . She has trouble articulating her words compared to your guys 🥺🥺 and I think she gets caught up in that. I could be totally wrong but that’s just my observation on why she’s been acting offf a bit. I love you maru and I relate to you.
no you're so right.. i was watching old podcasts and there's a lot of instances where nick makes fun of maru for explaining something in a certain way and maru gets embarrassed and doesn't want to give her input anymore. nowadays i think she's a lot better but i defs think they should be more patient with our queen maru, i honestly feel her cause i'm the same like i struggle with my words sometimes so i totally get her
@@Sofia-hl8zi girl me tooo really it’s just nick I hope he gets easier on her
This podcast is the only reason I remember it’s Monday,love y’all hope you guys have a good week♥️
i miss cynthia #bring her back
Yes!! Did she leave or??
@@oliviagioffre2045 i think she’s just busy tbh
@@makennabricker2885 i missing her 😭😭
i literally wait all week just to watch the podcasts i love you guys 🤍
Why they would Go to jail my opinions:
N- drunk public harrasment😭
M- SOMEONE DISRESPECTS HER AND SHE STABS THEM
D- Covering for a friend from the police but gets caught
C- Gets framed for a crime she didnt commit
S- hiding a dead body wth M
sage and maru liking stale chips is now the real reason why I adore both of them hehe 😭
At 8:08 I was so confused on the noises sage was making. I didn’t mind tho.
I agree with Maru completely with guys seeking validation from their friends
MAJORITY of men have always sought out the opinions of other men to know whether or not they should talk/fuck/date a woman
Even though that same “man” was having a ball of a time hanging with her at the park last Friday
Which to women comes off a little suspicious because why would you, a man, decide to cut off the girl you’re talking to just because your friend made a little comment on her saying she’s “ugly” “a hoe” “irrelevant” even though you messaged her last Friday about how much you had a fun time with her and how you guys should go out some time again.
I’m a be honest this has been my experience as a girl and I wouldn’t doubt that a lot of other women would agree as well
Including Maru with her own experience
So yes “emotional gay” would be a funny way to put it but low key that’s the outside perspective from others showing that not only 1. You as an individual can’t come up with your own opinion/ make your own decision
2. Men seek out approval from other men to affirm things that don’t necessarily need affirmation
And lastly 3. Majority of men are shallow
christine's take on that whole girls night out things was weird lowkey
She has some off friends, I hope she hasn’t had any bad girl nights where she has to keep their secrets
Hope Maru is okay. She seems down in this one
We want Cynthia :(((((
is she gone for good?
@@lamma746 lol calm down
@@lamma746 yo bro- it ain’t that deep
Maru is right like a lot of guys are not emotionally “gay” per day but more susceptible to searching for a man’s approval over a woman’s? If that makes sense not that you should look for any approval, but for example I’ve had more guy friends stop talking to girls their friends don’t find attractive, than female friends for sure. Like my female friends will be like look isn’t he cute and we’ll be like nah.. but as long as you’re happy and she’s like yeah I like him that’s all that matters but then guys will be like oh nah bc other ppl don’t think she’s cute that’s not good for me.. ya know? Like it takes explaining to them like that it shouldn’t matter? Bc they just don’t get it for some reason? Luckily I’m not friends with those ppl anymore but even just outside looking in a lot of guys are like searching for approval in their male friends, and choose their friends over their girl when the friends are male and are actively disrespecting their girl.. which is weird…
@@lamma746 woah woah I wasn’t being sexist or homophobic which is the reason I said I wouldn’t say it’s emotionally gay and even put quotes around the word because I don’t think it’s rlly the right term to use for the situation and can be quite rude? But as I said in my experience that’s what I’ve noticed. I don’t see too many women who will allow their men to be disrespected over the disapproval via their friends in my personal relationships, and even gave an example of what I meant by the men I knew who would take their “friendships” too far and I say friendships in quotes bc it just makes no sense to allow your friends to disrespect someone you’re with or even not with it’s really weird but especially someone you’re with.. if you can’t protect your lover regardless of your gender, especially bc you’re going to allow other ppls opinions to reign over yours so that you won’t be seen as a “simp” or like you’re just blindly in love then you shouldn’t be with someone but bc the conversation was specifically abt men at the beginning of that particular topic, I was talking abt the men I knew and USED TO BE friends with
@@lamma746 also no women don’t typically want to look good for other women? Not like that but you don’t hear a lot of guys talking abt how girls are so strictly close with their female friends that they will allow their men to get dogged by them or abt how women will try to look good for their friends but not when they go out with their men thee are typically things we hear when it comes to guys bc it typically happens with guys.. sometimes things are not always comparable and that’s okay?? I’m not saying every guy meets the description of my example.. I’m just saying that I have definitely come across more guys who are more emotionally enveloped in their friendships than their romantic relationships? And I’m not sure why that is.. I’m not in psychology?? So idk
today was my birthday and had a long stressful day , and was looking on youtube just to chill after all this stress and just seeing your guys vid on my feed made my day so much better
Yasss devins energy is lit already and i I just started watching
Devin and Sage at the end “Lucifer .. Lil Uzi Vert … Luziver” 😂😂
1:13:12 I think it also makes you an enabler cause you kinda just let it happen even if you know it's wrong. Same with like your friend(s) who make bad decisions, bully people, etc.
Was looking forward to this all day 😭
if you did a podcast like everyday, i’d watch them everyday 😭
Same
When nick called maru mija 😌💫🦋
you guys make my day with this podcast
Where’s Cynthia!!! I miss her!!
I watch there podcast's while im working out, and im telling you rn, its a must try, like idk why but there voices, what they talk abt, how they understand eachother is literal peace.
So moral of the story, watch there podcasts by working out
“Maru you know I could kill you”
“He said he wants to kill me”
☠️
maru looks so good w long hairrr
Man I still mis Cinthya so much
I think the emotionally gay thing or whatever is because a lot of guys seek validation from other men but only get with women for their sexual needs (usually some type of internalized homophobia) but emotionally they get more attached to men and don't attempt to relate to women at all, which is usually why their relationships don't work out, because they do not actually need or want women, but not in an 'I'm independent type of way but in a homoerotic way. (also has to do with canceling plans, male validation goes crazy fr)
Most girls who will actually like a guy, no matter how butt ugly he is, will still like him regardless of what their friend's opinion is. Most guys will legit stop liking the girl they're talking to if their friends don't also think she's bad, such as asking 'is she bad?" or something, I think that's also why when couples split up the guy's friends always try to get at the girl. The opposite can happen but I think this format is more common.
bro dis is like the 10th time i rewatched dis💀
Nick constantly getting clowned by sage and dev 🤣🤣🤣
Sage’s hair is giving
favorite part of my monday 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Devin needs to drop the skincare routine
Biggest controversy in the video is Maru and Sage liking stale chips
49:30 YESSSSS EXACTLY CHRISTINE!! I've been noticing that sooo much now that I'm in this gymbro culture
Nick definitely went on a high speed chase for no reason then gets locked up for making it worse lmao
Lol idk why I wanna be on this podcast so bad I think I can give such a different spin and level of expertise to these conversations 💓
I know exactly what you mean they will be talking about something and then I have the strongest urge to interject but can’t😭
same ):
Make you’re own
Yo! love the podcast with all of you and hearing your guy’s insight on different subjects. Thanks for sharing! I’ll continue to watch 🫡
Yuh weird how my alarms can’t wake me up but a notification on UA-cam did ._. I luv it
BRO TELL CYNTHIA TO COME BACK I MISS HER😭😭
She’s probably gonna be back by next podcast! Her and Maru posted a pic together recently
I love Christine being on the podcast, I relate to her a lot with everything so it’s nice to hearing her say so many things I agree with, especially when it comes to healthy relationships and communication etc.
Girls do send photos of the guys to the gcs but girls actually defend how the guy looks from their friends 🤣 not like how guys want the approval from their friends
If my boyfriend wants to go to a strip club or just clubbing with the boys he is SINGLE. To me going to strip clubs are just for single people unless your partner is okay with it. Idk that’s just me tho
Not World War II being in the 70s 😂💀. I love y’all!!
i think the way they handle the arguments is a big factor in making the decision to stay.
Maru was mad right for the emotional gay for guys. Like they just want to be in relationships with a woman but they want to share their emotions only with their friends.
I definitely relate to maru on that angry shit. I gotta work on that for sure.
Ain’t no way Christine just said WW2 was in the 70s 😭
I love the way Devin grabbed his little teacup at minute 58:12 😂
Currently catching up on the podcast and I thought I had gone crazy when the cloud was covering dev, face I'm like damn am I crazy or am I going blind 🤣🤣💜 love you guys💜
You guys are the closet thing I had to a friend group. Love y’all ♥️
I definitely understand that some people go out and go on trips with their friends for the sole purpose of hooking up with other people while in relationships (ie cheating), but I have gone out with the sole purpose to dance with my friends and party. Do whatever you want and if you don't trust someone then don't be with them honestly at the end of the day.
I feel like emotionally gay would mean (in terms of a man), someone who connects with men on an emotional level. They seek love, support, validation, things you would look for in a romantic connection with someone, but are not physically or sexually attracted to men.
christine has DEFINITELY had some experience in DBT. she’s definitely emotionally intelligent and aware