Ghar Ki Baat | A Short Film on Gender Roles | Why Not | Life Tak
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
- They were waiting for her to come back home. She came down, they sat down and then her mother-in-law had some questions. Watch till the end to know the answers.
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My mother in law had passed away before I got married. I remember, when I got married and came to my in laws place, my father in law told me.. Don't worry, my son knows everything. He will help you and manage and slowly you can learn. In fact in my saaga maccha ritual which is like bahu has to cook for the first time in the in laws home and feed others.. My husband was in the kitchen cooking on behalf of me and none of his relatives objected or exchanged weird looks. So, such families exist but yes they are rare and I'm happy and blessed to have such a beautiful and rare family in my life. Thank you God.
May God bless you and your family. Special kudos to your father in law. Please convey my regards for raising such a wonderful son. Hope you will pass on the same values ahead. Whether it is a girl or a boy, household work means work of everyone in the house.
I just wish I get one like thiss 🙏
Nice topic and need to adopt by everybody..
You are so so lucky. I wish everyone get family like you have. 🙏🙏🙏
Alhamdulillah mashaAllah
I wish every girl gets a mother-in-law like her
Yes...
Right
But to the reality no one gets
Agreed, may every girl be like her too
@@contentchannel3041 no dear there are some girls who gets such mother in laws
This video is a message to those people who think, if a guy is doing the housechores after marriage, then that guy became henpecked. I fall in love with your thoughts, your contents. Because #WhyNot
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@@archanasharma9034 thanks for noticing that silly mistake 😜
@@archanasharma9034 so judging u re... Hann
Like mohalle vali auntie's 🙄🤔
@@gunjanagrawal8195 🤣🤣 but it's an honest thing
Yes, that's true.. It happened with me also. .. When my husband helped me, he also got the title of - Henpecked Husband..
Earning money and doing household chores both are the responsibilities of both men & women...great job Life Tak🇮🇳🇮🇳
Rightly said
Aisa hr ghr me samjha nhi jata
Ghanta.
Perfectly said 👍👍
@@being7002 do log kam krenge to dono ke manage krne mein kya dikkat
I would say I am lucky my husband helps in house chores and serving to the guest including family. We distribute our work as per our schedule so that we can have quality time together
You are lucky I would say😊
I would say don't call yourself lucky and give him brownie points for doing something that is his duty. He is doing what a sane adult would do irrespective of their gender.
In our house, both my daughter and son were taught to do the house hold chores. There's no shame in helping your spouse in managing the house. Very good video.
In India, it's common that mothers don't tell their boys to do housechores . Even my mom is also a part of this .
Yes my mom too.
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Are you feeling proud or feeling ashamed, my mom trained her sons to do house hold work, we girls enjoyed, working together. Thank my mom, we all feel proud of her.
@@sandhyabhadri1132 I feel upset doing household chores alone. I also want my brother to help me or at least do some small household chores. But my mom never agrees in making him work.
@@Crystal-mx4gr she will be angry when she comes to know that her son is doing all the chores after marriage. So it's better to make a habit of that now.
Your video is an eye opener to all those mothers who think that their sons should never do household chores & its only the duty of daughters & daughter in laws to look after it. Hope if not all but a few will understand this fact after seeing your video & teach their sons right from beginning to do household chores & respect women for what they for their family. Great fan of you guys.
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Mother in law is mother in law she will never change… her only intention is son should be well taken care of…
Respect for everyone is fine now a days both do the work not only women so yes plus many do respect its not 1920s anymore though we respect our mothers work for the family
My MIL actually said that she raised her son like a king and they don’t ask men to do anything in their home!
In India.. mothers advice their sons tk get married so that "ek ghar sambhalne wali aa jaegi"..... My cousin brothers have lost both parents two years back..... Dono bhaiii aawaron ko tarh rhete hai..... My mother(their bua).... She always says ki jaldi se shadi krlo... Ek Ghar sambhalne wale ki zaroorat hai .... I am like... Wtf.... Do Jawan ladke h ghr Mei... Isn't two people enough to manage home??? But wait.... Not two people... Two boys are there...... And they are dependant on women to look after their stupid household so that they can enjoy life..... While on the other hand my cousin sister had been living in PG for past four years.... Wo apna saara kaam khud krti thi... Saara..... I have seen both scenarios..... Women living alone independently... And men living alone... Still seeking wives to manage homes
Reason for this is how a mother (a women) brings up her son
Wah kya equality hai
India me
It's really very nice that you can say this thing about ur mom
Many people just don't
All females have to stand together ❤️❤️❤️
And when she actually does, she is labelled as ghar pe baithi rehti hai
Yes, see man needs women for " ghar chalana" and still there are many who believe women is "abla"
They dont know what they are saying, people should know exact meaning of equality
Great efforts from this video to make people understand, its not sort of blaming, just learning and understanding to get better life...
Amazing as always
Aapki choti choti videos humein bhut bade lessons sikha jati hain
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Exactly 👌🏾👌🏾 my favourite channel
I wish every mother-in-law could behave like her. Women, especially working women need this kind of support from husband and their family. Love this video. Keep making such videos. Good job!
Nirupama Aunty is such a fabulous actor! She should be in films.
I 100 per cent agree
She has already acted in several films
She was in the films as well
I wish every one thinks like her mother-in-law ... So lucky she is...
I wish every girl gets a mother- in- law like her.♥️♥️
Hope so NOT ONLY ALL MOTHER IN LAWS...ALL MOTHERS ALSO SHOULD BE LIKE THIS
My Mother in law have trained her sons in all household chores. Before my marriage, When my parents told to my mother in law that our daughter don't know cooking, then she said but my son can cook, So don't worry he will provide training to her. Her these words made me fan of her.
Yes.. Equality begins at home and I will definitely teach my son to do house hold chores but still in India educated people think men shouldn't do any household chores.
Lol sorry if "those" people think like that then they're not educated...
Both should , but serving food is a beautiful art of work , in Indian culture women with highly educated did it with their will
Go ahead whose stopping you but do teach this also that it should be mutal from other side also and not one sided
Women don't provide to family but men provide for the family
True... But in reality still man is unable to handle any responsibility but get married and produce kids.. Still I see my mom and my female friends doing both work houshold and ofc.. Pls man treat female too as human.. They too need rest
Then they should hire a maid for more help otherwise they should choose a job which would give them more time to manage home.
@@vishalmanchandani6587wow! What a horrible thinking…small people have small thinking and this comment shows who you are! How about men learn to take care of half of the housework and split home responsibilities, rather than suggesting pick easier work, etc. In what country work with less responsibility exist that will allow professional growth? By adopting western food and fashion does not make Indians progressive, it’s the thinking that does and this backward thinking will not make India progressive for another 100 years!
It's not a reality, it's just a film...
Reality is very different..
True. But this needs to be reality.
No it's not. It depends on how you are brought up. My brother- in- law always like to cook whenever he visits. My father-in-law always helps my mother-in-law by assisting in kitchen. My husband always helps me. But in my house my brothers have prejudice because my mother brought them up this way but now she is understood that this is a big problem. And m trying to rectify my younger brother atleast as he sometimes visits me and my husband draws him in to few tasks 😉.
Exactly same indian society is far away from this progressiveness
@@thegem597 This happens. I will not say with every1, but it definitely happens...
if someone's luck is bad, so what can any1 do...
These guys never fails to surprise & shock the viewers.. keep it up guys... Ya it's a gud message for the society that men can do work and never fell awkward to do the same in front of their parents
Huge fan of yours. My husband is really supportive and helps me a lot in household work however even our elders and our youngers too sometimes make us feel that I am at fault if he takes equal responsibility at home. I encourage both my kids irrespective of gender to be equal participants as per their age appropriate chores. Afterall we can change the society when started from our home. Hope this video reaches all those people.
That's great! But one correction, husband doesn't 'help' you in household work, he just does his share of household work, by saying he 'helped' we already subconsciously instill the idea the the main responsibility of household chores falls on woman
Beautifully said. Everytime my subconscious says my husband helps me, I correct myself and says he does work. Although I am extremely grateful to God for supporting husband and in-laws, but I keep training my subconscious not to be absolutely obliged and stuff like that and let my son learn that it takes both the parents for household chores and office. Nothing in our home is gender biased and I am extremely grateful to God that I never had to fight for this.
Sasu maa bhut achi hai
Kash aise mile sabko 🥰😘
Awesome life tak. I also wish every girl gets a mother-in-law like her👏👏👍👍
Shivaan and Manu very nice acting. And Nirupama ji aapki akhomein to Saraswati devi hai. You are my favourite actress from Life tak. ❤❤❤
This doesn't happen in reality, but yes a good message and we should start following it since our childhood and our basic education 👍
It does happen, I have such MIL 😀
It does happen...my husband helps me even infront of relatives
It does happen. My mom was such a MIL , and all my brothers & nephews know and do cooking, cleaning, washing, every other household chore to share their respective working wives.. My husband who doesn't know proper cooking (nor has inclination) helps in other household chores, my father in law used to chop vegetables ( MIL is a home maker), and My BIL is actually fond of cooking and does that on daily basis and shares other works with my teacher SIL... All share work even in front of guests..
In reality mother in law are 👿
Exactly, in reality this is very rare...
Shivan's expressions yrrr.....He nails it in every role....
Good one.. both son or daughter should know basic house hold work to maange themself. Things are changing .. I could see girls proud ly saying "I don't know to cook" and boys saying "I know to cook well"
My mother in law was like this my brother in law and sis in law"s couldn't see she treated me like daughter they devastated everything
I still follow my m-i-l values 🙏
Superb .... We need people with this mindset... Break the stereotypes
Truly great content. I am very fortunate that my in-laws have raised their son right. I feel blessed because growing up I saw my dad help mom with household chores though he did not manage to learn cooking per se. Now my husband not only helps me with chores he is also a great cook & a very hands-on father! 🙏🏼
This is really a very nice video. Husband and wife should share work equally and home. This brings satisfaction in doing their share of job and relationships also stay in good place. I like aunty she is such a perfect actress and people like this in a family inspire. Anyways lovely series 🥰❤️👏👏
👍👍 SUPER COOL MOM/ MIL.. hope with such videos the old mentality in people vanishes n they start treating people equally..
Wonderful portrayal of the hidden requirements of our hindu society , this gender difference is the core problem of our society which every working nd non working girl faces , congratulations to the whole team of the movie how simply they conveyed everything 👍
It's nit about Hindu, Muslim, Sikh, Christian or any other religion. Its about Gender discrimination.
Very nice ... Everybody talks about change when it comes to their daughter n when it comes to sons.. They follow the same thing which they didn't like themselves in their... People need to understand that when we change ourselves then our society will change.. Excellent message .. Keep up the good work people.
Feels like a dream. Never going to happen in my case, coz I have a coward husband who is a parents puppet (I should be saying Puppy), and in-laws are just a piece of shiiit who hurt my kid, had it been US I should have sent them behind the bars for hurting a kid. Anyways I could get away from such awful people and atmosphere. Let them tell entire world that I am a bad daughter-in-law. Who cares. I need my peace of mind and I have it now 🙏
Hope you have a wonderful life.. Stay Bindaas.
Our society people never change. This scene of video is like dream.. Will never come true..
Proud of grl❤️
Getting money and doing household chores are both men and women jobs great message great job life tak hats off to the life tak team for normalizing and speaking and confronting this topic
What a lovely video.. and what a subtle way of giving such an important message. good work .. loved it ❤
Amazing 👏
Whenever my wife leaves the home , she gives a strict instruction not to disturb any of the arrangements she made.
Strange
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क्यों भाई साहब, आप क्या पलक झपकते ही घर का कबाड़खाना बना देते हो( मजाक कर रहा हूँ, दिल पर मत लेना)😉😊😊😊
@@narendrakumarsingh988 घर तो पत्नी का होता है। मकान भले पति का होता हो
Good one. In these modern times, both spouses pursue their respective careers, either by choice or by compulsion of high cost of living in cities. So, both boys & girls should learn key life skills like cooking n cleaning, and other domestic chores. Then they can assist their parents with household chores, and after marriage too they can run their houshold smoothly with their spouse. Both spouses should share the responsibility of running the family, incl raising their kids.
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I was blessed with an amazing mother-in-law who is no more today but she was a mother to me so I called her in Konkani as Mai meaning mom ,so love my mai till we meet again may her loving soul rest in peace.
Excellent way to teach the son in front of daughter in law
Wow it is very nice concept my husband also do the same when anyone comes he don't do any help and he feels shame about it specially infront of my MIL ....change should begin
All of their casts are versatile in their acting, nails every role
Mother in law is so good looking I have seen her in doordarshan shows and plays fabulous voice act and evergreen actress.
I'm really happy that my mother and father have always told my brother to do household chores and help in doing work at home. Because it's a big problem in society nowadays but slowly and steadily our generation is changing.
आपके जो विचार है, पेश करने का ढंग है बहोत सही है। I like your each and every film. God bless your whole team.
Old lady...great actor👌🏼
Because my husband always helped me, today we are what we are! I am proud to be a team. He is my best partener. Every one should do house chores, no shame in that. It shows you care for your spouse.
Today I have taught both my fatherless son's to be good hubby's to their wives god willing when they settle down,my eldest son is an amazing chef he learnt to cook on his own.
Excellent theme but difficult to digest in indian mentality
Ya
I am proud mother can say that my sons who do give a helping hand , earlier they helped me, now they help their life partners, they are good at cooking too.
True... Equality begins at home.
Perfect topic covered in this lockdown phase....
Nice video...I wish all mother in law's like this..
I love her she does super acting and must tell you after along long time nice substance
Excellent, I stopped all videos after watching yours.your content is as we come across in day to day life situations. Great...
I wish every girl get this kind of mother in law
Very good msg 🙌 I wish Her Educated couple jo ek dusre ko financially support krte hai unko same attention milni chahiye mutual understanding me family ko issue kyu hota hai 🙄Live & let live 🙏
U r right everyone should work equally, together
Then it's a happy family
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Superb video ! Nice message ..hope ppl understand and change in our great country
Imaginary mother in law ❤️
Bht badiaa mtlb apki story mtlb ya Puri vd bht achi lgi kafi psnd ayi acha lga jaankr ki ap is vd k through ek soch ko change krne ki koshish kri ha aj k time m jitna ghr ka km ldkiyon ko ana chhya utnaaa hi same ldkon ko bhi ana chhya or usm km ko krta hua koi shrm ki bt mtlb feel nh hona chhya...😊well done guyzz ....nice story 👍👍👍
When we talk about Equality openly then why do we hesitate in front of others to practice it !!
Really agar aise mother in law mile to life bohot heavenly hojayega
Always awesome, what a tasty dinner after this beautiful thought, Mom's should ask our Dad's for help in the home so that the boys can learn & follow suit. ☺
I am so lucky and thankful to my mother in law she teach him everything so he can help me..at age of 70 he is still enjoying to help me
I totally agree with you. I always inspire my son to do so.
Great concept
Mother in law like this is blessing. Rare found.
Then in this content hats off to my parents coz they taught my brothers to treat a sister as a sister and a wife as a wife and not like their slaves or maid. They help equally. ❤
Great message , TRUTH should never be hidden. But presented in as many ways as possible!!!
Congrats!! Good job!!
Watched at not even a minute.
Great as always! Kuddos.
Lucky are the girls who have such supportive and open minded in laws
In the present Era, its infact interesting if both are working for earning as well as both are doing household. It gives equal importance to your better half, as well you spend some quality time talking to each other, knowing each other food choice etc too.
In fact usually every Sunday I like to make Morning Tea for my better half.
Awesome video. Very good and positive approach towards household chores. Keep getting more such best videos. I like shivan's acting a lot. And of course others.
I wish to get a husband & mother in law like them. 🤭
We women literally feel like slaves in our house...even if you are earning equally household work is only your responsibility..not fair n..Wives are your life partners..not maids..why people dont understand this🥺
I taught all the house chores to my son as well. In pandemic he helped a lot as my daughter and husband helped me.
That's so true one day i told my husband to serve me food and she was like are beta ye to aurto ke kam hote hai admiyo ke thodi tab se i felt she is my mother in law not actual mother yeah so its the reality of the story
Meri chachi ka sirf ek hi beta hai aur unhone apne bete ko saare ghar ke kaam sikhayi hai aur vo bolti bhi hai mere bhai ko ki tum aur tumhari future wife mil ke saare kaam karaoge. Mujhe pata hai vo bohot achi mother in law banegi 😌
Yes you are right
Same as my mother in law mein aati baad mein hoon office se , ye kam krle wo krle, mera phn pkda de , apne pti ko dekh le , yar pehle mein to kuch khaa loo, pani bhi ni peene dete,
I feel blessed to have such an understanding in laws. Me and husband both share household chores even in front of relatives and friends..
Pls make vedio on passive smoking 🚬 which effects children hugely
Absolutely.. Equality begins at home..
You guy's always make a video relates my life ❤️
Yes equality should be for everyone in family whether it is household work or at job side. 🌺
Why every role is played by manu?
Aapke saare video hume bahot pasand hai ...Especially Aunty ji ....Aap laakho gharo k husband and wife k problem resolve kar rahi ho...Apne in chote chote videos se .....Jeevan bhar aap aur aapke videos humare dil pe raaj karenge.....
Brilliance and the trio ❤❤❤
I wish such soch occurred when I was married in a so called joint family
How I wish # why not existed in 1988
But now I will bring this change in my family
Infact I have started to bring changes already.Thank you# why not
Loved the video and message. Yes still there are many homes where wives work alone and husbands don't contribute at all. Yes definitely all husbands should share the load, then life would be much easier for wives
she is exactly as my mother in law..♥️
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That is so beautiful..here few mother in laws yahi geet gati rehti hai, yeh ghar ka sabse pampered ladka hai, isne to aj tak glass bhe nai uthaya hoga... Bhale he roz maar khata ho ke baahar se samaan la k de, kabhi kabhi chai bhe banai ho sabke liye jub khud ke mom bimar ho, bt nai.. Daughter of other parents should know how to manage the house, if not, ghar walo ne kuch sikhaya nai hoga, kaash wo learning khud k ladko ko bhe de pate wo parents.
Being husband or wife but for work doesn't have any gender discrimination.after all the best way is helping eachother in the family the love and affection improves exponentially.
Looking forward to watch like this family members issues how they are addressed by the elders for the sake of the present generation 👍
All charactés r very good looking n perfect in acting too. 👌🏾👌🏾👏👍The story is also motivational.
You must spread such messages at wide level , so that your message reach every generation
Lucky to have mom in law like this
Good message
God bless you all
It's responsibility of both partners. Many a times now a days males feel they are helping wife..but it's just sharing responsibility... especially if females are office going.
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What's wrong in that? The guy is busy and has to focus on his career too.
@@vishalmanchandani6587 both can work together to
You three off doing good job ,carry on entertaining and supporting women, thanks you
I don't understand... If women are comfortable in earning money... Going to office.. working late hours.... Then why isn't men not comfortable in doing household chores...??? If electricity bill is shared among two.. then why can't preparing two meals of day???? That's because "purush satta" is too rigid in the society.... Men fear to come out of their comfort zones coz they fear that the world they have created for women can reconcile and cause harm to them ....
सही कहा आपने। पितृसत्तात्मक समाज के कारण ही महिलाओं को बच्चों और घर के काम में उलझा कर रखा गया है
Women don't want to pay bills
M simply n love with dis chnl bcz dey portrays real life issues....
Specially I like Shivan & Mana a lot for der wonderful craft and chemistry....
Yup,der Shud not be any damn shame or embarrassment in doing housework,helping family members or ur partner....
It Shud be out of love....
But shudnt be mistaken as pottering....
LOL from Neelanjanaa....
U guys Rock....!!🤘💖
Should I share this with my MIL 😀😂
Yeah video dekh kr mujhe bahut aacha laga and I like this video or sabke ghar mai yeah hei problem hota hai joh aap log ne baataya ❤️❤️❤️❤️