Becca already showed past history to not be trusted, and OP acknowledged this, yet still believed her. It's sad they broke up, but she did it to herself, believing a known violent drunk that had no qualms with hurting her or others in her rages before.
2nd story: say it with me guys. Being drunk is not an excuse for being an asshole. If you behave like that in such a state, don't get drunk. That simple.
"The professor apparently thought that people in rural areas didn't go to church" That is so backwards, from my understanding they tend to be more devout.
Not to mention that she accused op of abuse and controlling her daughter just because she couldn't accept that her kid wanted nothing to do with them. Given how they acted I'm betting that they tried to control the poor gal all her life and succeeded in driving her away. Hence why "the professor" accused op of controlling her daughter. And talk about entitlement and delusional when they thought they owned the ranch and the cops would side with them. Probably even expected the cops to arrest op. In her mind, to control her daughter's life again then she had to get ahold of the ranch. It's not even a surprise that she tried to manipulate op after that. Nor the stupidity at the psycho PDF.
Does this mean you’re gonna invite your cousin Aaron to thanksgiving? God I love the familiarity of that line. Gotta love small towns where you actually know people
2nd story: OP knew that the situation was very rocky after not believing him, he probably lost alot of love for OP because of believing the friend without proof. sad but not surprsing.
I just don't understand this line of thought. Faith is for gods, not real people. I've been cheated on and refuse to have faith again. I love my girlfriend, but if someone says something bad about her I ask for proof, not just attack blindly like I'm her knight on shining armor. Every person on the planet is a douche about something. Everyone is capable of cheating and lying, but everyone expects their partner to have absolute trust in them. Ummm no. I can trust, just not have faith.
Well if she knew that Becca was making out with guys she liked there was a reason to acknowledge that. I think that it was kinda unfair of her partner breaking up, if he did it based on the fact that she confronted him. I believe no one should expect 100% trust from their partner as they weren't even engaged. Just because that friend is known to be drunk and not fully trustworthy you should still as I said acknowledge her allegations in some way
OP didn't believe her friend. She didn't know who she should've believed. I see why the boyfriend got upset, he has every right to he upset. But I also understand the OP's doubts about her friend and her boyfriend...
Ummm everyone would like if I had a drunk lying manipulative aggresive abusive bestfriend I would never believe shit they would say coming from their mouth also why would u want those people next to u? Or even as friends wtff??
@@berkaykayaseker9734she didn’t say that or think that, a very large percentage of people cheat on their partners it’s smart to have all the facts before blindly believing anyone. She never believed her friend she just was stuck between two people.
I’m guessing the crazy professor taught gender studies and OP couldn’t say it cause Reddit would shred him in the comments but I’m only 2 minutes in so let’s see!
I mean. It could’ve also been architecture or English literate or music studies or something REALLY specific. Honestly I was assuming it was something that may have been related to like banking. IDK what your idea of small town farmer is but in a close knit small town people don’t actually give a shit about that stuff. Hell they may be more accepting of that then big towns Edit: realizing I should clarify I’m feeling the ‘report’ on the wife was not actually part of her work in the college. Cause that would Not Be Okay. That is a major no. And I feel like she couldn’t get a good job as a professor for that long while having behaviors like that in psychology. Also it’d be more likely to be child psychology than gender studies. Gender studies isn’t about that type of thing.
@@technoschnauzer4327 it was also the stuff about the professor insisting the wife was a lesbian and then when it got to the part about the butcher being a black man and the professor making a big deal about it also gives more evidence that it was something along the line of Gender Studies and not English Literature or Music or banking. Plus give the professor has to be somewhat older leans to gender studies type deal instead of some other diversity type degree which seem to be newer. Though some type of psychology degree is a good guess too And again it’s not that I think op and his small town would have cared what MIL was a professor in I think OP phrased it that way cause Reddit would
Agree! We all know exactly who this is. Someone who acts like a 6 year old when they are around others who don't agree. The beyond woke morons who burn flags and of course have the emotional self control of a 3 year old. Just out of spite I would wear a Maga hat around idiots like that.
@@firewing5592 Honestly fair. TBH I'm p sure this is AI generated so I was treating it more as a hypothetical than a real story. I know that gender studdies isn't well defined but what gender study classes I looked at (was looking at every online degree my state college offered) it seems a little to nuanced and not more philosophy focused for the picture he painted of her character. Also I'm p sure it's ai generated and not a real posted story so I am kinda treating it more as a hypothetical than a actually story
Wow, that was wild! The professor's antics, the bees, and the trespassing all make for a crazy story. Glad they got arrested, but what a mess to deal with!
Wow, that's intense! Trespassing on your property and getting attacked by bees? Your in-laws are something else! At least they got arrested, but what a crazy situation. 😳🐝🚓
2nd story: I get that Becca isn’t a reliable source but her and OP were friends for 14 years(if this takes place in 2024) and it’s a hard thing to choose between your best friend and lover when you have no evidence of either persons claims.
Gosh, girlie is being gaslit by her boyfriend "I can't believe you would even believe her a little bit" as if that's how trust works. Trust is earned. Since its between two trusted peeps its real hard to genuinely be 100% sure of who's telling the truth. I just reached the end, my bad- Nate is chill. Hope OP gets away from the unhinged ex-friend. That friend was good at lying, like scary good, glad they cut contact. Hope she gets the help she needs.
Honestly, Nate sounds like a wimp, he was thinking of proposing, but already couldn't handle "for better or for worse"? It's not even like OP flipped out at him, just asked him about it and gave her reasoning. If his friend had come to him and said the same kind of lie, what would he have done?
wow, this video was really intense and well-edited! I couldn’t believe what I was watching. However, I can’t help but wonder if the reaction of the couple was really justified. I mean, shouldn’t there be a way to resolve family issues without resorting to such extreme measures?
10:22 that is absolutely goddamn NOT what farming life is like (even though to be fair I’ve never ran a farm I’ve only played farming simulator so I have no actual facts to support what I’m saying but I HAVE seen actual farmers relaying their lives on UA-cam videos so take what I’m about to say with a grain of salt😅) Farming life is ball bustingly hard and incredibly dangerous not to mention the fact you have to wake up at the butt crack of dawn in order to get the mountain of chores you have done and that doesn’t even cover the large livestock animals that can either end your life by blinking or do not hesitate to try and cannibalize you if you are unfortunate enough to slip, fall and be knocked unconscious in their pens (and yes I am talking about cows and pigs.) Also another reason the job of a farmer is difficult is because not only are you working to make an income but (depending on the size of your farm) you have several hundred if not a thousand actual sentient beings relying on you for their survival so the professor is goddamn delusional beyond words to the point where it’s laughable But with that being said thank you for coming and listening to my TED talk🤣 (also another reason why I wouldn’t be able to run a farm is because I wouldn’t be able to keep up with the mountains of manual labor required and if I managed to own a sheep farm I wouldn’t be able to get rid of the lambs and would just keep every single lamb and sending them off the slaughter would be a massive no no for me because I would just look into their cute little eyes and immediately hate myself knowing that I would be sending them off to their demise)
That girl dodged a bullet. Nate not only wasn't really gonna propose, but when you have 2 stories naturally you want proof if you're the type that wants your significant other to blindly follow and or believe you, you're a walking red flag personally
me and my bf had a “becca” the first year of our relationship. we agreed she was crazy and cut her off and we’ve been happy and healthy ever since. turns out she was in psychosis.
"The Professor" is the natural progress that a feminist becomes when she is never stood up to nor held accountable for blatant criminal behavior. The FIL is a simp at best, She truly lives in an alternate reality and that can only be fixed with heavy sedation and jackets with sleeves that bind in the back. The fact that she found out personal business of others to try and get her way. What is horrible is that she in fact doing worse that the character of Beverly Hoffsteader did to her son Leonard in *_The Big Bang Theory_* , meaning that she in no way saw the wife as a daughter. Also, her hostility to religion is *_A VERY TELLING RED FLAG!!!_* Last, Becca is a walking red flag just like "The Professor".
"The Professor" seems like a candidate for being a sociopath...especially when you consider the experiment thing with her own daughter there, that's not even the "evolved" feminist behavior beyond the thing of trying to force her daughter into being a lesbian...which could also just be due to wanting to test her own pet theory that no one sane would ever allow to be tested on their kids. I know a few people involved in psychology who have commented that in a lot of teaching positions for it, you end up with either the "bleeding heart" cause chasers or the sociopaths who got into the field to either find out what's wrong with them or to better hide it...a lot of the latter are quickly shifted away from any actual research position because they tend to have "issues" with ethics requirements.
He was never going to propose especially after 7 years and that is what breaks you up? Never wanted to get married in the first place, Nate also was being shady and op knew the best friend for over 14 years that’s a long ass time, trust is earned not owed most sane people don’t believe things blindly without proof or evidence. Some people are extremely sensitive with cheating and it ruins people, that takes more than a day to think about and comprehend. She didn’t believe her best friend at first either nor the boyfriend.
her mom, "The Professor"
Me: Clearly a DC villain
Marvel villain actually. A gamma ray monster who instead of giant muscles he got giant brain, yet isn't as smart as he thinks. 😁
@@Darth12000nerd/lh
Hes not a nerd bitch@@Jx_Zuri
Becca already showed past history to not be trusted, and OP acknowledged this, yet still believed her. It's sad they broke up, but she did it to herself, believing a known violent drunk that had no qualms with hurting her or others in her rages before.
It’s good that they broke up, now Nate can move on and find someone who deserves him
2nd story: say it with me guys. Being drunk is not an excuse for being an asshole. If you behave like that in such a state, don't get drunk. That simple.
"The professor apparently thought that people in rural areas didn't go to church"
That is so backwards, from my understanding they tend to be more devout.
I suspect this woman might be the Middle-Aged version of all these Blue-Haired Twitter-types. All their common sense was replaced by Hypocrisy.
Not to mention that she accused op of abuse and controlling her daughter just because she couldn't accept that her kid wanted nothing to do with them.
Given how they acted I'm betting that they tried to control the poor gal all her life and succeeded in driving her away. Hence why "the professor" accused op of controlling her daughter.
And talk about entitlement and delusional when they thought they owned the ranch and the cops would side with them. Probably even expected the cops to arrest op. In her mind, to control her daughter's life again then she had to get ahold of the ranch. It's not even a surprise that she tried to manipulate op after that. Nor the stupidity at the psycho PDF.
Does this mean you’re gonna invite your cousin Aaron to thanksgiving?
God I love the familiarity of that line. Gotta love small towns where you actually know people
2nd story: OP knew that the situation was very rocky after not believing him, he probably lost alot of love for OP because of believing the friend without proof. sad but not surprsing.
well thats not that weird honesly ig ur bff came to u and said they fucked ur partner wouldnt u have any doubts?
I just don't understand this line of thought. Faith is for gods, not real people. I've been cheated on and refuse to have faith again. I love my girlfriend, but if someone says something bad about her I ask for proof, not just attack blindly like I'm her knight on shining armor. Every person on the planet is a douche about something. Everyone is capable of cheating and lying, but everyone expects their partner to have absolute trust in them. Ummm no. I can trust, just not have faith.
Well if she knew that Becca was making out with guys she liked there was a reason to acknowledge that. I think that it was kinda unfair of her partner breaking up, if he did it based on the fact that she confronted him. I believe no one should expect 100% trust from their partner as they weren't even engaged. Just because that friend is known to be drunk and not fully trustworthy you should still as I said acknowledge her allegations in some way
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OP didn't believe her friend. She didn't know who she should've believed. I see why the boyfriend got upset, he has every right to he upset. But I also understand the OP's doubts about her friend and her boyfriend...
In the second story i wasnt expecting them to breakup. Thats pretty sad
It's weird that Nate would hold it against her because who would expect their best friend to lie like that?
Because he has selfrespect and does not tolerates being called a liar. I would've done the same thing.
Ummm everyone would like if I had a drunk lying manipulative aggresive abusive bestfriend I would never believe shit they would say coming from their mouth also why would u want those people next to u? Or even as friends wtff??
I will believe it!!
She said Becca has a history of being shitty while drunk...OP was naive.
@@berkaykayaseker9734she didn’t say that or think that, a very large percentage of people cheat on their partners it’s smart to have all the facts before blindly believing anyone. She never believed her friend she just was stuck between two people.
I’m guessing the crazy professor taught gender studies and OP couldn’t say it cause Reddit would shred him in the comments but I’m only 2 minutes in so let’s see!
I mean. It could’ve also been architecture or English literate or music studies or something REALLY specific. Honestly I was assuming it was something that may have been related to like banking. IDK what your idea of small town farmer is but in a close knit small town people don’t actually give a shit about that stuff. Hell they may be more accepting of that then big towns
Edit: realizing I should clarify I’m feeling the ‘report’ on the wife was not actually part of her work in the college. Cause that would Not Be Okay. That is a major no. And I feel like she couldn’t get a good job as a professor for that long while having behaviors like that in psychology. Also it’d be more likely to be child psychology than gender studies. Gender studies isn’t about that type of thing.
@@technoschnauzer4327 it was also the stuff about the professor insisting the wife was a lesbian and then when it got to the part about the butcher being a black man and the professor making a big deal about it also gives more evidence that it was something along the line of Gender Studies and not English Literature or Music or banking. Plus give the professor has to be somewhat older leans to gender studies type deal instead of some other diversity type degree which seem to be newer. Though some type of psychology degree is a good guess too
And again it’s not that I think op and his small town would have cared what MIL was a professor in I think OP phrased it that way cause Reddit would
Agree! We all know exactly who this is. Someone who acts like a 6 year old when they are around others who don't agree. The beyond woke morons who burn flags and of course have the emotional self control of a 3 year old. Just out of spite I would wear a Maga hat around idiots like that.
@@firewing5592 Honestly fair. TBH I'm p sure this is AI generated so I was treating it more as a hypothetical than a real story.
I know that gender studdies isn't well defined but what gender study classes I looked at (was looking at every online degree my state college offered) it seems a little to nuanced and not more philosophy focused for the picture he painted of her character.
Also I'm p sure it's ai generated and not a real posted story so I am kinda treating it more as a hypothetical than a actually story
Wow, that was wild! The professor's antics, the bees, and the trespassing all make for a crazy story. Glad they got arrested, but what a mess to deal with!
Wow, that's intense! Trespassing on your property and getting attacked by bees? Your in-laws are something else! At least they got arrested, but what a crazy situation. 😳🐝🚓
IKR?? another reason not to trespass on someone else's farm
2nd story: I get that Becca isn’t a reliable source but her and OP were friends for 14 years(if this takes place in 2024) and it’s a hard thing to choose between your best friend and lover when you have no evidence of either persons claims.
The sould have e-mailed the drive to the dean. A person like that should not be allowed to teach.
The two were together for 7 years he was never going to propose ahe dodged a bullet in my opinion
Yes!
Gosh, girlie is being gaslit by her boyfriend "I can't believe you would even believe her a little bit" as if that's how trust works. Trust is earned. Since its between two trusted peeps its real hard to genuinely be 100% sure of who's telling the truth. I just reached the end, my bad- Nate is chill. Hope OP gets away from the unhinged ex-friend. That friend was good at lying, like scary good, glad they cut contact. Hope she gets the help she needs.
Honestly, Nate sounds like a wimp, he was thinking of proposing, but already couldn't handle "for better or for worse"? It's not even like OP flipped out at him, just asked him about it and gave her reasoning. If his friend had come to him and said the same kind of lie, what would he have done?
Story 2, Nate dodged a bullet.
Op did, Nate sucks too
I only just started but I'm Team Bees on this one
😅 once we got to the flas drive with the essay, i thought it was lenards mother from Big Bang Theory, just unhinged emotionally.
Me: wanting to click the Gold pause button😭😭😭
wow, this video was really intense and well-edited! I couldn’t believe what I was watching. However, I can’t help but wonder if the reaction of the couple was really justified. I mean, shouldn’t there be a way to resolve family issues without resorting to such extreme measures?
The drunk friend is lying. She's jealous of your relationship.
2nd story: signal doesn’t delete messages after a day? My unit in the military used it to communicate key meeting times and formation times 🤣
Story 2: Boyfriend didn't cheat. Don't trust Becca.
unfufelling💀
No sympathy for op in the second story. Becca was a unreliable drunk and jelouse and op took her side
Sounds like Leonard’s mom from Big Bang Theory
10:22 that is absolutely goddamn NOT what farming life is like (even though to be fair I’ve never ran a farm I’ve only played farming simulator so I have no actual facts to support what I’m saying but I HAVE seen actual farmers relaying their lives on UA-cam videos so take what I’m about to say with a grain of salt😅) Farming life is ball bustingly hard and incredibly dangerous not to mention the fact you have to wake up at the butt crack of dawn in order to get the mountain of chores you have done and that doesn’t even cover the large livestock animals that can either end your life by blinking or do not hesitate to try and cannibalize you if you are unfortunate enough to slip, fall and be knocked unconscious in their pens (and yes I am talking about cows and pigs.)
Also another reason the job of a farmer is difficult is because not only are you working to make an income but (depending on the size of your farm) you have several hundred if not a thousand actual sentient beings relying on you for their survival so the professor is goddamn delusional beyond words to the point where it’s laughable
But with that being said thank you for coming and listening to my TED talk🤣
(also another reason why I wouldn’t be able to run a farm is because I wouldn’t be able to keep up with the mountains of manual labor required and if I managed to own a sheep farm I wouldn’t be able to get rid of the lambs and would just keep every single lamb and sending them off the slaughter would be a massive no no for me because I would just look into their cute little eyes and immediately hate myself knowing that I would be sending them off to their demise)
Unfufferling😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Interesting I was today years old when I realized that chickweed existed you learn something new every day I guess😆
That girl dodged a bullet. Nate not only wasn't really gonna propose, but when you have 2 stories naturally you want proof if you're the type that wants your significant other to blindly follow and or believe you, you're a walking red flag personally
me and my bf had a “becca” the first year of our relationship. we agreed she was crazy and cut her off and we’ve been happy and healthy ever since. turns out she was in psychosis.
Story 2, OPs ex dodged2 bullets; OP who has zero trust, and OPs lunatic psycho bff. Good luck OPs ex
Só, It's basically Leonard's story in the big bag theory
Nahh just nahhhh 😢
"The Professor" is the natural progress that a feminist becomes when she is never stood up to nor held accountable for blatant criminal behavior. The FIL is a simp at best, She truly lives in an alternate reality and that can only be fixed with heavy sedation and jackets with sleeves that bind in the back. The fact that she found out personal business of others to try and get her way. What is horrible is that she in fact doing worse that the character of Beverly Hoffsteader did to her son Leonard in *_The Big Bang Theory_* , meaning that she in no way saw the wife as a daughter.
Also, her hostility to religion is *_A VERY TELLING RED FLAG!!!_*
Last, Becca is a walking red flag just like "The Professor".
"The Professor" seems like a candidate for being a sociopath...especially when you consider the experiment thing with her own daughter there, that's not even the "evolved" feminist behavior beyond the thing of trying to force her daughter into being a lesbian...which could also just be due to wanting to test her own pet theory that no one sane would ever allow to be tested on their kids.
I know a few people involved in psychology who have commented that in a lot of teaching positions for it, you end up with either the "bleeding heart" cause chasers or the sociopaths who got into the field to either find out what's wrong with them or to better hide it...a lot of the latter are quickly shifted away from any actual research position because they tend to have "issues" with ethics requirements.
"Oop" 😅
Why does this sound like an anime plot
Un-fuffle-ing? She found the desk job un-fuffle -ing?! lol work on the pronounciation 😂
Yasss! Drag Miss AI for mispronouncing 😭😭
2nd story I’m surprised that her bf stayed with her for so long
I like listening to g to your stories, but your “Oops”
Second story the boyfriend sucks and the friend, they both aren’t good people to be around.
Whenever there is dialogue and extra exposition I know it is fake.
(p)oop 😅
Is church in small town the hq for gossip
Sounds like a right wing twist on a real story
Clearly fake, the professor in exacly what some one in a rural America thinks of what people in the cities are.
Entertaining nonetheless
Story 2: Wow. Nate dodged a missile. OP and Becca sound insufferable and complimented each other's bullshit.
He was never going to propose especially after 7 years and that is what breaks you up? Never wanted to get married in the first place, Nate also was being shady and op knew the best friend for over 14 years that’s a long ass time, trust is earned not owed most sane people don’t believe things blindly without proof or evidence. Some people are extremely sensitive with cheating and it ruins people, that takes more than a day to think about and comprehend. She didn’t believe her best friend at first either nor the boyfriend.
Was a good story until the barrage of F bombs...SO UNNECCESSARY!