Today we went to visit Xiao Liu's family. His family members really like my sister.
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- Опубліковано 14 вер 2023
- Hello, I am felista who married from Tanzania to China. I like life here very much. I live with my Chinese husband and our children in the countryside of Shaanxi, China. Here, I will share with you Share Chinese rural life and rural food.
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All I can say is because of this channel I have a lot of more respect for the Chinese
They are really decent and respectful people
Don’t let the westerners spread the negative hate . In America, I knmh jesr bad things about Chinese because of the communist government and black folks believe they are racist . But they are not racist, it’s the language barriers and they want an excuse to treat the Chinese poorly.
Most of the Chinese people especially from the village country side are very kind hearted and warm to others, Unfortunately the western media makes up alot of negative false stories about china to the world because American and some of the western countries sees china as a threat.. as china’s economy is booming.
Chinese are some of the hardest working people, a culture to be proud of.
I can only agree with this.
I'm lucky that I made a decision 30 years ago to move from Germany 🇩🇪 to Hong Kong 🇭🇰 and China 🇨🇳 and I have never looked back since then.
I have seen China rise and I am very proud of China 🇨🇳 and it's people!
I just ❤ 🇨🇳 !
@petralui6873 As a woman, I'll also say that China also has really handsome men😅🇨🇳
Chinese Mothers are like African Mothers, very direct and straight to the point. I am praying that sister finds happiness and love....in whatever order it comes but I want her to start speaking the language once she does....trust me both will come soon. Watching this makes me love the Chinese people for their kindness and color blindness...I wish the entire world were like this especially here in America.
Uhmmm my dear you just don’t know but racism is every where even here in china and it’s ways too much it’s just that some people in the villages are ok but my dear just try it out you will see what am talking about uhmmm
Racism happens everywhere. Though less in China than America. I never forget George Floyd and many others who are killed by the police brutality every year!. No black is killed in China.
@@zainabswale8375 Agreed. Some are just fooling themselves. Even in the village, we only see what they are filming. To their credit Felis and Lao Li are trying to show only the positive. But there is no place on earth where everyone is good or nice. Not being negative but we need to be honest about that.
@@zainabswale8375I agree. Looks like the ones in the village appear to be less racist. But Chinese are very racists towards Africans even in our own African countries. To the point the Rwanda president deported Chinese business people for terrible treatment of African workers. The Asians are obsessed with white people/skin.
@Meilee
Get out more? One track mind? I've been to 46 countries, Africa, Middle East, Asia, Europe and north America, loving different cultures different mindsets. I'm appreciated by different people for being open minded to any new culture. You don't care about police brutality in America, which kills black people EVERY YEAR. You're racist by excusing those crimes. Racism makes victims every where, but when it comes to the state, to system, to police like in America, it's a crime. SHAME! .
Xaoi Lui's mother is so cute and warm, very hospitable and straight forward with her talks
That's great for mother. Now what about the son? I think lawu needs a husband right?
She seems too keen to marry her son off. If he is usually like this, lets mum take control, then is he ready for marriage?
@@lindc1070Both him and Lawu are shy infront of people so it seems they are in love 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤
@@iggymichthey barely know each other. They should just get to know each other as friends first without his mum and Felis talking abt marriage
@@Sunshine-zi4nq Love comes to strangers too. It doesnt need to know a person my dear. You can see it in their eyes. Especially the man . He is in love.
I like Xaoi Liu and his parents.... they are very warm and caring. Xaoi Liu will be a good match for Lawu .... hope they will like each other ❤
Amen
We all think.... Let's allow Lawu to think. She is the one who has to make the choice. Whether or not we agree, Lawu needs a man, not a mother's boy. IJS..... ACCORDING TO THE BOOK OF MARK 10:6-10 --- “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ 7 ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8 and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
@xiomaralemans8646 that's your opinion. You don't know her personally, so let's just watch the courtship and enjoy the journey. Snide comments, less of! 😊js
But who is Feli’s husband? Is it the elderly man that has speech challenge?
@@xiomaralemans8646She comes from a very traditional home where the mother trained her hard so a strong mother in law will only improve her life &'she may turn to be better at learning Chinese culture with moral support from her sister I prefer this family to the other they looked dodgy to me ...Go Lawu ..hapo poa!
The hospitality of these people are so beautiful
and the respect, if all people can live such kindness, what a great place the world would be❤
Right you
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They want something
@@lorriebrown1243don't worry. They didn't want anything from you.
I was waiting for this comment 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Bravo sister 'Aziizah May Allah bless you and your family.
Our sister he's the best man for her and his family likes her ... he is a keeper. A good man....
Love mama and she does not hide the truth. She clearly mentioned that her son needs to be told what to do. Lawu, please choose with your heart.
she was talking about helping out with chores….
I loveeeeeeee the way he covered her from the Rain
Did he really?
I love this channel so much! There is no racism, just people treating each other with respect and try to learn each other's culture. We can be different, but respect is so important. Xiao Liu's parents are so awesome! You can see they love Lawu already (even his mom said it out loud 😁), she already passed the 'future in-laws' test! I really hope this works out for them!
Racism only exists in the West! Asians and Africans don't even know how to identify people by colour?!? They just see them as someone from another culture.
Auntie is sweet and very kindhearted too she will make a great mother in law the dad is kindhearted too WHAT A LOVING AND RESPECTFUL FAMILY GOD BLESS THEM ALL BROTHER TOO
Law I was blushing 😅 she literally turned pink 😊😊
Thank you Lawu for showing your new boyfriend, and possibly new family to us. I really like this family so far. The boyfriend and Lawu seem to have similar personalities, he is attentive to Lawu, and she seems more relaxed around him. I think it is a good idea for Lawu to have a mother-in-law to help guide her, as long as she is patient and kind. Remember, Lawu is new to China. She doesn’t speak the language, she doesn’t know the customs, she doesn’t know how to get around, she doesn’t know how to use the household and kitchen equipment, and she will need help with things like shopping, so she will not get cheated. The perfect mother-in-law is just what Lawu needs. It’s almost as important as finding the right husband. Her boyfriend’s mother seems patient and kind. I hope it works out for them.
l can see the Parents in law are both very good people they will cherish Lawu . Looks like this toung man is their only child .
young man
I have never seen Chinese people so welcoming to black people.
@@vlacroix7329they’re lovely ❤I’ve ever been with them 😊
He is not her boyfriend she is dating to different things
這家好呀，看小伙子的父母好善良👍你姐姐以後会幸福的👍👍
劉媽媽非常的可愛❤
Very obvious Xiao Liu and his parents like Lawu and want the match
to be successful! Now it all depends on Lawu.This is such a heartwarming video!
Lawu is liked and loved by everyone because of her heart ❤️ she is so charming and hardworking ❤more blessings 🙏 family hey felista,fere, Doudou and old Lao
You do realize there is a shortage of women in China??
They just want a slave to work in the farm. Why haven't they got a wife all this time. The Chinese women don't want them.
Lawlu is such a pleasant hardworking and assists Felista with work on the farm abd household chores,and this speak volumes that there parents did an excellent job raising these two sweet young women. Lao Li family is so hospitable and nice also.
@@karentimberlake4657❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Xiao liu home is very welcoming and hospitable lawu is very shy and playing safe which is good will wish her all the best finding love 💗 💕 ❤
Untuk Lao li hati hati itu vidionya ada yng bajak , walaupun tidak lengkap seperti vidio ini
🙏🙏🙏 makasih Lao li sehat selalu kamu anak muda yang pekerja keras kreatif . . . Cayo🎉🎉🎉
HE LOOKS LIKE HE HAS A GOOD HEART. THE MOM IS VERY WARM. IF THE MOM LOVES YOU, THEN YOU ARE OK. THIS WAS A AWEET VIDEO. THEY BOTH LOOK SHY. WHEN SISTER LEARNS THE LANGUAGE THEN IT WILL BE BETTER. SHE IS A SWEET GIRL.
I admired her (Lawu) her shyness and kindness are so sweet ❤❤ hope she found her a right one ❤
Beautiful house and hospitable family.
❤😂😂❤❤❤💛i love Xiao lui mommy ❤❤❤❤❤you can telll she is a lovely Master Chef😂😂❤❤❤and truly want them and wish them successful love ❤❤❤
I really liked the way Lawu’s new boyfriend and his family greeted Felista, Lawu, and family. They were kind and hospitable. I hope and pray Lawu finds a kind and loving husband. She is a beautiful and kind young woman. Felista, thank you for sharing your life, family, and friends with us.
Bro. Loa Li, thank you for making it possible through your videography work. A blessed week to everyone💕😊
Las familias de campo son muy directas y unidas en el hogar espero que el futuro esposo de Lawu sea muy bueno y generoso😊😊😊😊
This young man is much more for you
Lawu's mother in-law cooks the best dishes woow
I wish Lawu all the very best. The family is very loving & warm too. I love the young man he's been such a gentleman towards Lawu, he loves kids too❤❤
Thank you Felista for showing us the English version. Auntie made so many beautiful dishes. She sure knows how to welcome her guests. Lawu, listen to your heart. It will tell you if this man is the right one. Good luck❤
Bonjour Felista
Je souhaite du succès à Lawu pour trouver un bon partenaire. Xiao Liu semble poli , gentil, un homme attentionné qui observe Lawu; ses parents aussi sont très accueillants et sympathiques. Lawu, écoute ton cœur ❤️ et fais ton choix, car tu mérites aussi du bonheur bonheur dans ta vie de femme. Je vous aimes tous. Recevez les cœurs depuis la France. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow Felista .This Chinese family is good for your sister👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾❤️❤️💐💐
Looking from the outside in there are going to be different perceptions of each male suitor/individual. I have commented before the older gentleman is more mature and probably make a better provider. I know one of the guys said the older gentleman was his godfather and they had a larger home located in the city. Which, could mean they can provide/support their family. The younger man could be the youngest child at home with his mother and momma directs him and will definitely tell him what he has to do as a man with a wife. We all in reading the comments see different perspectives of each man their age family/ how they were reared in the family their maturity. The younger man mother said they would talk about things before the final decision would be decided. It seems Lawu made her decision for Xiang Liu’s and I’m quite sure there will be discussions with her sister and both families. I hope they both made the right decision that they will be happy with as a couple starting their on family. Congratulations on whatever decision they make!!
Xiao and his parents look so sincere about their son getting interested to Lawu..I love this Chinese community, they are so open about mix culture relationship.
So open? Don’t you know about china one child policy a couple decades ago? That’s why they are super shortage of woman. And most of these rural guys don’t have a chance to get a wife
Yeah! They are ready for a grandchild. Please don’t think that people are doing Lawu a favor because she’s actually doing them a favor. She should take her time and not be rushed.
Tesstess is right, this Chinese rural community is open enough to find spouse in Africa. That's the truth. If they're not open to that, they won't search for African brides
@@louisethonvison4669 most of them tried it many times all over Southeast Asia like Laos and Cambodia but no one wants them
@@Martin-xw7kk Not true! There're plenty of youtubers, many of them are Laotian or Vietnamese ladies married to Chinese men.
Very respectful gentleman and he seems a bit of shy.
I can't control my tears... the way they treat different cultures.. God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️ 💖 ✨️ 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Lawu, Just take it at your own pace. Don't feel pressured to do things until you are more confident. Nice welcoming family and parents are super cooks.
This is the family Lawu you need to belong honest people and humble. The guy will make you happy.
Feli, I like the first suitor for your sister. He seem more thoughtful, fit and responsible. He was a good match.
Первого много критиковали. То старый он,то не красивый. Многие были против первого.
Age is just a number. I think it's important to have a thoughtful and responsible husband.
This one still seem to rely on his parents. The mother did all the cooking. But I do like the mother. She would make good mother in law.
Such a loving people. ❤️ ❤❤❤
OMGaaad that food looks so awesome and delish!!!
It’s already a wedding feast!!!
菲莉姐姐男朋友老實👍可靠👍父母老實👍祝福有情人終成眷屬🎎👏👏❤️相親成功👍👍🙏
這是一段好姻緣，祝福他們喜結良緣，劉先生家的長輩看起來都很樸實良善，好好把握這户好人家
Tu as de la chance si tu va marie avec lui ( bon couple)
考虑到将来，会和小李妈住一起吗？這不像Felista的情况，她可以在家独当一面，自己做主很多事情，单纯很多。
Exactly! Felista is somewhat blessed. She does not have any elder who restricts her . She can do has she pleases.
I think am loving this date for Lawu also. Very warm family to strangers 😊
So sweet, they have to use a app to communicate with each other. I would be a little timid as well with so many people watching our courtship. Well wishing them the best of luck 🙌🏾
Lawo, good luck with finding a man, no one is perfect so you wont find a perfect man but pray that God gives you a man who will love you and you will respect him
Liao Li’s godbrother is a better choice. He cooks n look more responsible n hardworking. Simple n sincere looking. The second suitor look more spoilt n his mum does most of the things unlike the first one
i like the fact that he cooked too .both families look welcoming though
I'm sure the mother of the second man does do all of the cooking just as Felista does all of the cooking at her home. This family appeared a little more open. I really could not tell the true dynamics of the first man and his family.
I agree with you 🇲🇾
@@traycee2404the first man s family has 100 cattle, plus goats, etc etc, owns a large plot of farmland.
The second one is just simple life, has a nice house, happy go lucky man.
Needs to decide. Needs to find out more the finances of the second man.
Most men look for a nurturing wife and most women look for a supportive attentive husband. I dont think Xiao liu is looking for a man like woman and neither is lawu looking for a man who will make her totally on him to cook, clean and work. They are after team work as a couple.him
Let them be spoil together!
This is the best vlog on UA-cam. Love is in the air!
Wow I liked this family and hope lawu will accept and be happy with them they're all good ❤❤❤
你们有口福吃着刘妈妈煮的菜，叫看的人流口水了!
eu tinha uma outra visão do povo chinês porém assistindo esse canal vejo pessoas boas , educadas, atenciosas e amorosas do Brazil 🇧🇱🇧🇷
There's so much love in this one video..let's all aspire to be more like this and the world will be a more colorful place✨️🙏💛😊
I love watching these videos. I have learn to see Chinese people as very caring. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Great to see Lawu in another Date❤❤❤❤❤. I can fee there is love in the Air here . Go gal .
I like how you takes good care of ur sister, and always wants the best for her,even though she’s the older one,u always make sure she’s well taken care of. I hope they will 🤞find a love ❤️ together.
Lawu this is the family for you and you look more settled😊 and happy❤
From Jamaica
This is the most
Awesome you tube
Please bring it out
All the love in the world.
❤💚💛🖤🤍
The food always looks so good. I love the courting. It's the entire family. Lol. Beautiful thing
Lawu's suitors are all passing the test, from my miles away. I pray that God guides her to the best husband.
I like this family, and the young man he seems to be good and honest 👍👍🤗🤗
Very hospitable family, so many plates of food. I hope the couple will love each other and be a blessing to their families. Feili’s mother wishes come to past. Will be interesting to watch the wedding
Don't know how many more match making sessions with how many guys before a wedding😂
What happened to the first guy?
💛🙏💛🙏💛🙏💛🙏💛🙏💛Thank you Lawuu for showing us you sweet boyfriend ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's good to see such respect between the cultures.
More Chinese men in rural areas are marrying African women. The Chinese women prefer city life. Many Chinese men cant get married because of this but they need a wife to help with the house and aging parents also need care while they work. African girls like Felis are willing to do this. Asian and Chinese are not.
@@nesadcruz7840They do married Indonesian too,some convert to muslim and some look for Chinese Indonesian. Many of them are youtubers too.
@@philomenasason7733 yes but do they live in rural areas like a Felis? Most Asian women who married Chinese live in more developed areas or cities, from what I have seen.
There're lots of foreign wifes living in rural areas like Feli. Indonesians, Vietnamese, Laotians, Pakistanese, Ukrainians, an Italian, a Suedish even an American.All these ladies are youtubers 😊
@@nesadcruz7840o mm mm ok
The young man is slowly growing on me. At first I was really unsure about him!
That food looks really sumptuous!!!! This guy seems younger than the other one and his parents seems nice too. From the last video, lawu and phyllis said men with "flesh" are better. Then those one is best!!!
What a stunning meal… beautiful hospitality ❤
Saya berdoa semoga Lawu mendapat pernikahan yang bahagia.
Sangat bersyukur mendapat mertua yang baik dan calon suami yang baik pula.
Keluarga Liu sangat hangat menerima kalian.
Salam hangat dari INDONESIA
这一家是好人家可以嫁，一家人都很善良，婆婆非常乐观！会疼人的会幸福的，这男人也不错的会疼人会疼孩子会爱家的！嫁吧！这样姐妹在中国就有亲戚来往了！
It nice of you Lao li to video this beautiful meet and greet for both families. You are so kind. Hello to Lawu, Felista and Feier❤
Although this family is wonderful, the first blind date was a more mature man who can take care of a family.
Agreed..
True true!
This guy will listen to his mum , not independent.
That’s true.
Well said
Xiao Liu & Lawu I wish you all the best in your new life 🌹♥️♥️♥️✌️
Aww! Sister has a lot of suitors 😊 very cute! I love the moms happy reaction. Congratulations on the brand new house! All the hard work paid off. God bless you all
China has a shortage of women, it's the unspoken word. This is indirect advertising for women from other countries to marry Chinese men. My comment will probably be deleted by the propaganda machine of China, because it's true.
Oh my God!!! The prospect of fiancé of Phyllies Sister are young and handsome, very polite. I hope she took a wise choice.
Wow the welcoming of this people is so amazing
I love Lawu personality. What a kind warm family. I hope everything goes well and they get married. ❤❤❤
这胖小刘家人不错，小刘也是善良的人，拉五姐姐有福了遇到好婆家🎉
WOW WHAT A FEAST AUNTIE IS A GREAT COOK AND THE FAMILY IS VERY KIND HEARTED AND GENEROUS SO MUCH FOOD. GUESS WHO IS COMING TO DINNER. I CAN BARELY RESIST GOD BLESS YOU ALL WITH LOTS OF LOVE PEACE HEALTH AND JOY
The Family is So Welcoming I wish the sister much love and Happiness Love this Channel warms my Heart ☮️💜
Clean and beautiful house. I think they are good people. Good luck to Lawu. Lao Li you are wise 😊
I like the young man's family, so loving and cheerful. I wish your sister the best in her next phase in life.
I really like this gentleman, who is closer in age to her age. Lawu blushed from being around him. ❤🎉
How old is he? You're right, he looks much younger than the first one.
I read a comment saying that Xiou Liu Li is 30 and Lawu is 28
小伙子不错，爸爸妈妈实在人妈妈很可爱煮的菜看上去好好吃😋想吃😋
I love how his mom is so outgoing and welcoming, they all are. I think it would be a great match!
Yummy food. I suddenly feel hungry watching the food on the table. Xiao Liu's family is wonderful. His mother is so charming and full of laughter. Lawu would have a good family.
I really like the hospitality this family has shown you all! Very beautiful dishes. Nice young man!
Grandpa is so nice, loving you all..many blessings 🙏
Wow the family is very friendly the mother, father nd deir son their love is untouchable to Felista nd her sister Lawu...how i wish to visit Chinese people❤
Beautiful vlog .Liu,s parents prepared a sumptuous feast for everybody.
這一家是善良的家庭父母樸實，兒子乖巧嫁到這裡你們姐妹就有伴了祝福你們幸福
What a lovely array of dishes 😊
Yes so much food
Thank you so much China people Good people i love ❤thank you
I'm really in love with ur life style very😀🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏👍 peaceful and lovely family blessings
Praying for news of marriage and love and kindness and many more wonderful things that they both deserve ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Lao Li for showing us this video in English. I pray this is what Lawu really desires. Please don't rush. Love is not a game. The heart is gentle and can easily be hurt. Take your time and get to truly know each other. ❤
Exactly
He looks kind of young.
The mom looks eager but she also said that if Lawu is not interested, let them know. Although Xiao Liu is shy, he spoke up about the use of chili in the dishes. I think that they are not as shy as we are led to believe. It is not easy to have your courtship videoed.
Lawu, my sister talk , Don't be shy.
Remove the hood from your head.
Show your beauty okay.
Have confidence in your self.
Take care xx
True
She has as never stipulated she is looking for love. She must first learn to converse in the community she lives. It will take time. It can't be easy different cultures to navigate together.
I think she must speak for herself. No one can force on her who they think will be good for her. IJS.
The village people are very Bice and welcoming ❤
I love what you do!
You have a wonderful family and great way of life.
I am German living in Hong Kong for over 30 years.
My husband is also Chinese and from Hong Kong.
We have a small family but my kids are already in secondary school.
Enjoy every moment with your family in China 🇨🇳 and thank you for sharing this ❤ 🙏
By the way, the dishes look absolutely delicious. I can nearly smell them
All the best and greetings from Hong Kong 🇭🇰!
@petralui6873 Liebe Petra, schoene Gruesse aus Berlin. Alles Gute!
Família muito educada. Acho que a irmã, encontrou bom casamento. Sou desejo felicidades.
Alot of food to welcome the family 😋😋😋
Any man living in the country side with a whole family is no go. Lawu should say no. It's a slave trap, just like her sister. Go back home to your parents.
They have a nice house...
Very nice and enjoyable also nice chatting too .🇺🇸👍
You have a beautiful, generous family. They show a lot of love to each other and to you, you love and respect them 😊
Thanks so much for letting us see your sister friend. I wish them all the happiness to come 🙏. God bless you all ❤
小李的媽媽很親切、很會做菜秀色可餐！提醒姊姊在室內不要戴帽子
Lawu's second date?
Good for her❤
Take her time to see who she love more and whose more sincere to her.
Wish you good family Lawu🙏🙏🙏
So true. She needs a strong man to lead the family.
I liked the first date better . He was confidently male, this young man seems like a boy .. mama makes all decisions nope not for her
@@mymalawianlifeexperiences strength maybe yes but it seems the second date's family is more warmer than the first one. There's something in their interaction here.
Haha.. Phyllis is like Lawu's mother in China helping her find a better husband 😄
Anyway, whoever she may end up with I pray that it will be a good family who will treat her well🙏
@@mymalawianlifeexperiences
I agree with you
@@chch1663can be a problem in future if husband listens to mama too much
Another video that has me hungry. As always, t a beautiful thing, Auntie and Uncle, are really hospitable 😊 thanks sharing. 💜💜💜 from Texas USA 🇺🇸 ❤️