Bisi you are damn pretty with this your hairstyle. if you were not married, I would have come for you. I love your intelligence and approach to issues and discourse.
Let's try and look beyond infidelity. It can be beneficial in many ways. Children in right environment, financial stability and freedom. Freedom from stress, decision making.. About sexual stuff, no big deal, women buy condoms for their husbands and the man tells her to be careful, I.e. protect yourself. When they meet again happy days. We lay too much emphasis on sex as if its the only thing important. Some people living together don't even do it together. May be for their peace. Its even better if one a partner wants too much, other can do as he/ she chose when they are miles apart. For the general good of the family it is absolutely cool..
People are drawn to those who share the same space with them whether physically or mentally. Couples can live in the same house and still be far apart. Close in the physical sense and far apart in the abtract sense. Truth be said, long distance relationships, not just those that span national boundaries, have known challenges. However, couples can choose to address these challenges and find ways to work around them. It is really challenging, and I am saying this as someone that lives in the U.S. we all see what is happening in our community. Marriages and families are being destroyed by the strain of physical distance and culture shocks. Beyond making your family economically secured, there are other things involved. I know folks who are materially well off, but their families are in disarray. You made the money but lost your home. What is the essence of suffering in the first place. Adequate balancing, discipline, and God's grace are key ingredients to make unions work, whether offshore or onshore.
I think it depends on the relationship they had before one of them left Nigeria. If there is respect for the union, honestly there is nothing to worry about. We still have people of dignity amongst us.
It worked for some ….like she said some of us still have dignity. Nobody days it’s the ideal but sometimes it’s necessary especially in if it’s only for a temporary time.
I believe it's advice. Wisdom is very important. At the least, he's putting the possibility out there for people to know. And he's not justifying anything abeg; he has stated one cause of infidelity, put a stop to it, simple.
The ones who live together don't they have assistant husbands, what more of those in distance marriage with lots of barriers to intimate with the other spouse?.
If couples have decided that route to better their families, a duty of the pastor is to encourage them to find ways to build intimacy rather than saying what he is saying.
You're not being realistic. What intimacy can the pastor encourage them to build? The point is prevention is better than cure and that's where the pastor stand. You don't know the number of marriages these pastors know that have crashed because of this issue of japa separation despite all the encouragement for them to build intimacy.
In America, there is what we call “work husband” That’s is the coworker you are fond of and attracted to. You share almost everything, from food e.t.c. You look forward to each other every other day
Bruh, I'm newly married and I have been apart from my wife from 1 year. Got married to wife in Nigeria. Ya ya ya, you can be apart and make it work. Only a Loser and wicked person cheats on his wife
According to Google Scholar Search “Top 10 Most unfaithful women in the world [by country] 1. Nigeria 62% of Nigerian women are unfaithful” Thanks Beecee for your wealth of knowledge and your thoughtful insight. Morayo is in denial.
I miss my learned colleague Nyma. Nyma we all miss you❤❤
Is she nolonger in TVC? I mz her too.
Really?
The pastor has spoken the bitter truth.
Bisi you are damn pretty with this your hairstyle. if you were not married, I would have come for you. I love your intelligence and approach to issues and discourse.
I miss aunty Nyma 😩 I love her so much. May the almighty be with her IJN 🙏 Love from USA
My pastor David Ibiyeomie said couples should japa together for those who listened to the full preaching not half of it.
Morayo told us Nyma is on health leave. I miss her too and hope to see her soon looking as radiant as ever.
Love from the UK 🇬🇧
Thanks for the response.
I love this conversation. We have to be more realistic in facing life issues. Thank you YV ladies for sharing from your wealth of wisdom 🙏
Let's try and look beyond infidelity. It can be beneficial in many ways. Children in right environment, financial stability and freedom. Freedom from stress, decision making.. About sexual stuff, no big deal, women buy condoms for their husbands and the man tells her to be careful, I.e. protect yourself. When they meet again happy days. We lay too much emphasis on sex as if its the only thing important. Some people living together don't even do it together. May be for their peace. Its even better if one a partner wants too much, other can do as he/ she chose when they are miles apart. For the general good of the family it is absolutely cool..
People are drawn to those who share the same space with them whether physically or mentally. Couples can live in the same house and still be far apart. Close in the physical sense and far apart in the abtract sense.
Truth be said, long distance relationships, not just those that span national boundaries, have known challenges. However, couples can choose to address these challenges and find ways to work around them. It is really challenging, and I am saying this as someone that lives in the U.S. we all see what is happening in our community. Marriages and families are being destroyed by the strain of physical distance and culture shocks. Beyond making your family economically secured, there are other things involved. I know folks who are materially well off, but their families are in disarray. You made the money but lost your home. What is the essence of suffering in the first place. Adequate balancing, discipline, and God's grace are key ingredients to make unions work, whether offshore or onshore.
I think it depends on the relationship they had before one of them left Nigeria. If there is respect for the union, honestly there is nothing to worry about. We still have people of dignity amongst us.
My dear it doesn't walk like that....body no be firewoods
It worked for some ….like she said some of us still have dignity. Nobody days it’s the ideal but sometimes it’s necessary especially in if it’s only for a temporary time.
@@motunrayosemadar2282 well but the chances are extremely high now are days.
True talk from pastor ibeyeomie
I believe it's advice. Wisdom is very important. At the least, he's putting the possibility out there for people to know. And he's not justifying anything abeg; he has stated one cause of infidelity, put a stop to it, simple.
Marian you are always spot on,keep it up
The ones who live together don't they have assistant husbands, what more of those in distance marriage with lots of barriers to intimate with the other spouse?.
😅😅😅 assistant wife and husband. This man of God speak truth.
Lol which one be assistant wife Shay?🤣 This is my 1st time hearing this
Where is Nyma please ❤
They said on Health leave
It shall be well
If couples have decided that route to better their families, a duty of the pastor is to encourage them to find ways to build intimacy rather than saying what he is saying.
Ur wrong view my brother.
ok, biko give us one practical solution to it
Think please
You're not being realistic. What intimacy can the pastor encourage them to build? The point is prevention is better than cure and that's where the pastor stand. You don't know the number of marriages these pastors know that have crashed because of this issue of japa separation despite all the encouragement for them to build intimacy.
Please where is Ni'ima
Where is Nyma Akashat Zibiri!😊
In America, there is what we call “work husband” That’s is the coworker you are fond of and attracted to. You share almost everything, from food e.t.c. You look forward to each other every other day
Lol. True. It is very common in the hospital settings. Doctors and nurses😂
not only in America, it's everywhere
Pilot and Air hostess
You must be living in Houston
Work husband ke!!!! Na wao. This is wrong
Assisting with what ma 🤔🤔
Bisi hair is giving
Actually... And it suits are personality
She looks stunning!
It suits her color
Please where is Nyma
She's on Health leave
Bruh, I'm newly married and I have been apart from my wife from 1 year. Got married to wife in Nigeria. Ya ya ya, you can be apart and make it work. Only a Loser and wicked person cheats on his wife
According to Google Scholar Search
“Top 10 Most unfaithful women in the world [by country]
1. Nigeria
62% of Nigerian women are unfaithful”
Thanks Beecee for your wealth of knowledge and your thoughtful insight. Morayo is in denial.