“Getting what you want is a byproduct of being the version of yourself that can have it.” After YEARS of exploring LoA stuff, that is the most concise and important sentence I’ve heard on the subject.
Dylan I just came up with the perfect analogy on being stable. Hear me out, we should all act like babies (that sounds funny but it’s true). Think about it; they wake up and go to bed at the same time, eat their meals around the same time, take a nap around the same time, they don’t give a fuck about anything and people are always chasing for their attention. It’s so odd but babies always get what they want without even doing anything! They have a daily routine like you preach!
I wouldn’t refer to myself as a baby, but I like referencing humans to animals. I think of babies as helpless and pitiful, in a way. Yes, they have their routines but those are forced on them by their parents. On the other hand, animals exude so much unconditional love, are much more aware of themselves, and they’re able to listen to their bodies/care for/stick up for themselves. They’re highly attuned to nature and have an unspoken intelligence that is very inspiring to me. I look at dogs and I see a self-concept of purity, peace, and love.
I’ve been listening to the limitless manifestor affirmation for about a week and a half now. And I’ve been struggling with trying to not obsess over thinking about my sp. I would struggle with how to talk about it with others that ask how things were between the two of us. I didn’t want to say that we were together because it’s like lying to others and myself but this morning I woke up and thought to myself my sp is doing what makes her happy and that’s all that matters no matter where they are we will be together agin and I’ve just started believing that and just telling myself no matter what the circumstances are they don’t matter. But all that matters is that they are doing what makes them happy and that’s all that matter to me no matter how they find happiness as long as they find it! So thank you Dylan I’ve been sharing your content with a lot of my friends because I see how much it’s Helped me with my life and I want to share this with everyone!
my approach was slightly off. i was focusing more on the change i want rather than fully working on myself. i know while we are changing beliefs, we have to step in consciously to ease our mind when circumstances pop up in our thoughts. but i got obsessed with doing that very often instead of just saying “i know i am receiving the change i want. what can i do and affirm that makes ME feel on top.” i get that now. thank you Dylan ❤️
I’ve watched so many of your videos, but this one really spoke to me today. Your tone & message- I want to listen again later tonight! Your relaxed vibe in explaining this made it sink in in a new way for me. Thanks for everything you do & for being so generous with your time & knowledge. You’re doing such important work! ❤️❤️
Dylan!! And everyone, I have to tell you that this works fast! I changed my mind state using ur teachings and was able to manifest a text from someone that I had a falling out with for the last 3+ months. We are now on good terms😙
Dylan I have my first success story. There was a show I really wanted to watch and got two tickets for free for me and my friend. Two days ago I got a call from the organizers saying they overbooked the show so they would be cancelling my tickets. I said okay thanks but I will still attend the show. I didn't even tell my friend the tickets were cancelled. We showed up today and watched the show 😆
Thank you for the pep talk and encouragement. You have helped me learn to articulate my thoughts and feelings after spending a significant amount of time devaluing myself following my divorce. I feel like I manifested you! I have been looking for something logical, something loving, and something inspiring to help reshape my values and life to better suit who I am. You are by far the most logical and common sense coaching out here, and I cannot express enough how grateful I am for your generosity in sharing this for free. I sincerely mean it when I say I love you. You’re like a dear friend I have not met in person. Wishing you the best in your life.
I/We miss you already! You're so rad thanks for being an answered prayer of mine that: "I can trust humanity and believe in the kindness of "strangers" :).
I just heard that my SP got married at the end of August.😣 it makes me so sad to think that I created this. I have been listening to the over night affirmations, to improve my life in general. I have been listening to a mixture, to prevent me from focusing too much on the outcome. Last week my SP reached out to me at work. He had to hunt around for me, because I had moved to a different office. He wanted to know how I was. I am confused on why I manifested that contact, especially as I had not focused on manifesting him for over a year.
Dylan , just want to say thank you for all of your wonderful works you have been doing . There are so much misinformation about relationship out there , especially on TikTok . I just watched one relationship coach on TikTok teaches women to express their anger /frustrations to their partner if he keeps adding other women on social media . Before I probably would agree with him . But not any more. As a confident and secure person , we see nothing /nobody as threat . Dylan , I just hope there are more and more people can hear you ! 🙏♥️♥️♥️
Dylan you have such a positive influence on my life and have truly helped me on healing my past and looking towards the future in a totally different light. From my heart thank you so much and love you so so sooo much ❤️
For me dylan is really the best i swear with other coaches I feel so much pressure to act a certain way but dylan understand totally the root of the manifestation. Very calm soothing no pressure. Very inspiring coach. 💜💜💜✨✨✨ Thanks so much for all you do for us dylan
Obvi, thank you Dylan james for being generous, loving, knowledgeable, gregarious, courageous…if this comment speaks to one person, it was well worth writing. I am the mother of three sons-all collage age. I cannot remember NOT focusing, 100%, on them and their success. I told myself that I was the best mother-sacrificing my livelihood for their benefit. Meanwhile, my world was falling apart. I played the victim like no one else. Eventually, they mirrored the disdain I had for myself. I wanted to die. In enters DJ🙏. I was not sacrificing. I was hiding. It was so much easier to put my energies, and VERY HIGH expectations, on the boys than on myself. I jumped off the victim train, re built the self concept. ****Note: this dedication to myself will be an on going process. I’ve regressed…many times, but like Dylan stated, “Life is not supposed to be perfect.” Great, with bumps. I am a different-best version-in process-of myself. And, my boys and I have never been closer. I, too, love, love, love all of you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️ You got this, baby.
I love your honesty and transparency in your comment. I don’t have the same story, but I as well really want to build my self-concept and stop playing the victim. I know that I can’t sustain anything especially the love and relationship I want unless I do this. 🙏🏼
i started over with limitless manifestor because i didn’t allow it to work the first time. i’m definitely experiencing dreams of the old beliefs and circumstances popping up. my mind is really trying to knock me off but i’m not letting it. i’m working hard and i can tell it’s starting to pay off!
@@brittney3156 i’ve felt an extreme difference this go around. i was so happy today. sp was barely on my mind and when the circumstance popped up, i shut that shit down real quick. i know he’s coming back to me and i don’t have to think about it. it’s an amazing feeling
@@taysoslay that happened to me too! I can tell it's clearing out more. The "battery" of the new version doesn't always last all day, so I'm trying to be gentle with myself.
@@brittney3156 i know what you mean. the new version gives me a euphoric feeling almost. but getting emotional self regulation down is what makes it last. i noticed that making myself smile and start reinforcing the new beliefs in my mind help create a space of relaxed happiness
I have developed a new version that I am now so happy always. I know my SP is already in my life. I am so happy and cheerful always. 😝🤪😍 I know I love myself and my sp is damn crazy on me. 🥳🥳😘
❤ Is the best information ever!!! Triggers/reactions are the most difficult...but trying my best with u in my head to accomplish this change/solution which for me I know is greatly needed!! Thankyou 🙏🙏
I was JUST THINKING ABOUT YOU DYLAN I actually saw the third party video on your channel and it hits me home. I believe in u so so much but the sentence u said “ things were going right but something switched in your mind for ur person to change” made sense to me alot but i took it as i consumed the video but two hours after that ive been fked up lol LIKE SO SO BAD I AM SO SCARED OF THINKING ANYTHING WRONG and the 3rd party thoughts have been spiraling i never wanted to take ur information like that pls help me. Also i have been listening to ur limitless manifestations for about 5 days and my sp and my life in general HAVE CHANGED DRAMATICALLY ILOVEYOU pls reply and help me i want to stop those thoughts as I believe a lot in law of assumption
Thanks so much for helping me understand what COMPASSION is! Strangely, I've always struggled to get it emotionally. I think it just hit home with your words. Yaldi!
I honestly feel like my life has gotten worse since I started the tapes. Before the tapes I was learning all this for about 6 months. I learned about being in alignment. I learned all this was about my inner happiness. I got off depression medicine within a month of everything I was applying. I was able to keep my state at a good vibration. If I was wobbly I could turn things around. Few things manifested nothing major. I was okay with it because I was pretty much in alignment most of the time. Then I found Dylan. I love him. I knew I had limited beliefs First 21 days nothing changed and I was fine because like I said I was in alignment. First Few days my subconscious mind trying to reject it. Kept on going b/c like I said - I knew I had some limiting beliefs. Now it’s been almost 2 months. Since listening. During this last month I’m constantly having break downs. Depressed again. Lose my temper with my kids. Now I hate my job and feel miserable everyday going. I definitely am aware of this and continue to get back into alignment. I don’t know what’s going on. I don’t want to quit the tapes but I had so much growth with other coaches especially Abraham Hicks and Neville Goddard etc… and yes they all teach the same thing but the difference was the tapes for me.
I'm sorry...I dont think its the tapes specifically. I say this with full respect and compassion. I see your words and it reminded me of me, especially the abraham hicks and the depression and losing temper. I feel like you got off the antidepressants and maybe it wasn't a good idea *just yet*. I have done that in the past (before discovering neville and Dylan tapes) and my life went downhill shortly after because i wasn't truly ready to get off them bc life triggered me easily. I lost jobs/relationships etc it has affected my life to this day and it was 5 years ago. These dylan tapes are great as a supplement to getting better, i feel like the anti depressants can be helpful. I honestly have been contemplating getting back on them on and off bc sometimes i feel cured for a day or a week especially after these tapes (but i dont want/like to depend on them so i understand why you would want to stop them, i truly understand that part) im no doctor but stopping them so suddenly in the middle of the tapes doesn't seem like a good idea. Too much pressure. You have kids and a job too? Too much. I have a child and with depression its been a whole other level that many dont understand. I feel for you. The brightside is I have gotten so much better mentally with dylan as of 2021 discovering neville 2019. I used to watch abraham hicks since 2013 trying to be in some vortex that was no where to be found when i quit my antidepressants suddenly. Changing beliefs with the tapes and bettering yourself did not require getting off them just yet (in my opinion) especially if you've been on them for a long time. Dont be hard on yourself. Its ok to be on them if you decide to. I just feel maybe you were not ready for the brain changes (im no doctor i just know it changes something). I've had days where I think I am over depression and then a trigger happens and I have spiraled. Forgive yourself and keep trying. Feel free to ask me anything
@@Nbx3 thank you. Your words are very kind. I’ve been on and off depression medicine for 15 years and always got off because it never seems to work. Then learned all this LOA and finding inner happiness within. It’s so weird because I was in control for 6 months even quit smoking. I don’t want to get on medicine because like I said it never really felt like it worked or there were side effects. I’m going to keep listening to the tapes. My life is good. No major drama. Not obsessed with SP. Work triggers my mood and I bring it home so I need to work on that. It’s just frustrating and I wonder why so many people get results so quickly and here I am giving it 💯 % percent and things seem to regress. Oh well. I definitely can’t go back to not controlling my thought- lol
@@alexnico3198 Thanks for replying! This is kinda long sorry! When I was on them it seemed to keep me from totally going off the rails in anxiety and depression but it definitely never really better overall. The side effects is why I got off yep. I decided I’d rather see where I go with these rollercoaster emotions because I know why they’re there (childhood traumas for the most part) when I discovered loa I was amazed and it really resonated and opened a whole perspective like wait…I can control my thoughts and my reality if I stay positive and stop feeling shitty? Lol I didn’t know how to apply it though. I just binged on all the positive quotes and would go up and down emotionally and let external things take control. I can’t believe I didn’t find out about Neville until I was basically homeless with my baby. I guess it was when my desire for improvement was intense. I manifested a job and a place for us to live within 9 months or so. But there was still a lot of resistance and all I knew was Abraham hicks teachings. I didn’t know then I could truly manifest *anything*. Since then I manifested sp contact (child’s father) but we are not together yet since he never wanted to be with me I’m still finding it difficult to imagine him wanting the family etc. I had a lot of low self worth so I’m working on this new worthy confident version as long as it takes. I didn’t truly understand our power yet until reading more Neville and watching hundreds of videos etc. It’s been an interesting journey and this awareness is awesome. I have felt the same in regards to feeling like I’m trying and no progress or going backwards but then I realized I wasn’t truly keeping the mental diet consistently or putting the focus on ME. It’s always been to gain something or someone. I was wondering why I wasn’t getting results and Dylan made me realize it’s my beliefs. I affirm life continues to get better and better for us! Thanks for sharing your experience. I agree we can’t go back to not controlling our thoughts now lol no going back now. I’ve manifested too many things to not believe in it now.
Dylan would you consider uploading your podcasts on Spotify?!! I would love to be able to listen to you while driving or doing chores or even taking a shower lol
Hey Dylan, I’ve been following your content for months now. My self concept has changed a lot.. a lot has changed in my life because of me. Only thing, yesterday I woke up feeling like I didn’t care anymore about my SP and almost like an “accepting” feeling. I still in my core feel a strong knowing this person will be back.. idk when. Don’t care when. However, it’s the purge I feel in my being of realizing I just need to let it go. Is that contradicting the manifestation or is this part of it? I don’t want to sit in this energy for too long but I’m wondering. I’m also looking to leave my high level job position to follow my passion. It’s this huge energy shift that hit me like a sudden wave. Could you take some time to give me some feedback? I truly appreciate all your work. Can’t wait for your 1 on 1 coaching to open up.
omg thats exactly my situation!!! I know 100% he will be back but now I'm in the state that I donr even want to focus on him or even affirm! I don't know if thats the right thing to do. I feel like I don't want to think about him and enjoy my life but then on the other hand all coaches say don't give up and persist!! I know he will be back I'm just tired of affirming and trying. is not focusing and not thinking about him contradict with the end result?
@@XH-um9fp sometimes I have this contradicting feeling as well . Then I think how about just keep focus on improving the better version of myself and totally drop the sp off . Then instead of getting confused ? Just let it unfolds naturally .
@@XH-um9fp as far as I know, you wouldn't be thinking about him all day long if you had him. Like your friends are constant in your life, so you don't think about them all day long. So, if you don't need your SP anymore, you're in the end state. You wouldn't be needing him, if he was in your life.
Hello Dylan, This morning I was listening to a podcast and she mentioned several things you’ve talked about. She said that in order to manifest you need to live the life you want as if you already have it. She went on to mention that you also have to put some sort of action Into your desires and you can’t just consistently think of the thing you want and it manifest. I was under the impression that your dominant thoughts manifest, and that action was actually not needed if you believed and trusted. What are your thoughts on this ?
Your dominant thoughts would inspire the right actions. For example, if you think dominantly of you SP cheating, you will be inspired to take such actions as questioning who their on the phone with, or checking them constantly. These actions are based on your thoughts. Just think of it in this way. Your inner voice creates your thoughts, your thoughts create your emotions, your emotions creates your actions and as well as your reality. Hope this helps a lil…
Thank u so much for the amazing content ..I have been following you since 4-5 months..there has occurred many birds before land situations from two months. I have been receiving messages from the same initials of my sp. But stuck up in it. Please guide me through it. Also I had booked email coaching wid u on 4th August. I had received one email from you and I have been following it sincerely. But the personalized tape has not yet been received by me. I know you might be busy but just a smal reminder. Please do send❤️ Thank u for the amazing content.
Thank you for this Dylan. I appreciate you so much. You are helping me through one of the most difficult times of my life. I truly appreciate you! Do you still work with people one on one?
My issue is when my 3D reflects something I don’t want, I have difficulty saying “nope that isn’t my story”, because it’s right there in 3D!! And then I can’t let it go…. So what is a quick & effective way to see the 3D & KNOW that it doesn’t matter, life is changing & soon my reality will reflect my desires. How do I quickly get to that space?
What about seeing no movement on a specific area even though you're stable, trusting, allowing and knowing that it's happening? Like everything is great, but there's one specific thing that you feel/know is happening and there are no visible changes? I'm ok as things are and super confident even if it comes now or not, but I know it will and I would have a preference of seeing any movement to keep me going!
hi dylan! thank you for your light + presence, always!! i’m having some issue removing the feeling of desperation for my desire- in this case this is my living situation. i feel like i’m not in a needing state of an apartment at surface level, but when i’m honest with myself that’s not what i’m feeling deep down. especially given the fact that i have to move out of my current home this week. do you have any tips? would greatly appreciate xx
I just finished night 7 of listening to the limitless manifestor tape. Wacky dreams, last night I had an amazing dream about my SP that perfectly matched my desire, woke up in the middle of the night, then fell back asleep and had a terrible dream about him that played out all of my fears and insecurities around the connection. I know this is just the purge, but it’s thrown me off all day despite feeling like I’ve been doing a pretty solid job holding the end state the past couple days. Since beginning to listen to these tapes, about half of the days I’ve woken up so calm and peaceful and others just riddled with anxiety but will slowly stabilize as the day goes on. I’m wondering if you have any tips on recovering after having dreams of the old story?
Stabilise yourself 💓 Do breathwork videos or meditations like this where you re-affirm in the change you want to be! Be gentle however, your shifting so many beliefs at once and the old beliefs are trying to grapple w/ you still. Persist on through trust & know that you have the ability to change anything!
Dylan! I dunno if it’s just a weird coincidence or what. Few days ago I’ve been dreading to go back home in the Philippines for Christmas. Despite me having the plans of having an EU tour because PH has been in the UK red list for ever since I can remember, I’d still felt, wouldn’t it be nice if I can go back home for Christmas rather than going to EU? Then just now, literally just now, PH is set to be removed from UK’s red list starting Monday. 😱😱😱 it’s so amazing.
Hi there 😊 How do I know when I am ready to move on from the limitless sleep tapes to the other ones after the 21 days? Or is it definitely solidified after 21 days and I can just immediately move on? 😊
Hi Dylan. Can you maybe do a video or post on mindset / how to react when the person you really like says something along the lines of "oh sorry, I'm really busy right now and kind of seeing someone"? I responded with "oh" and am at a complete loss as of now on how to think about this. Feeling pretty shitty right now :/ like I just want to cut them off. Ugh. Help 💕 thank you for all that you do angel!
Is waking up in between listening to the affirmation tapes means it's working? I'm having a hard time sleeping with the Love tape. Didn't face this with the limitless one.
Hey Dylan, I have been listening to limitless love on and off. My SP texted me last week we talk about an hour about random stuff. Then he disappeared. Tbh I want him to take the first step and sort things out I don’t know how to do that. I am certain that he will text me back but I want him to have a stable communication with me
@@kadythompson4538 I m listening to the tapes but sometimes I miss, there are gaps. Also is there any other way to work on beliefs?. Sometimes I have doubts as well
Of course you can work on your beliefs consciously as well but tapes will really help shift you because it gets really engrained in your subconscious mind overnight and there isn't any resistance to the affirmations because you're sleeping. Where being awake you can affirm things and your mind will tell you no that's not correct...
@@kadythompson4538 sometimes I have weird dreams as well. Yesterday I had dream that I m out of my house somewhere with my sister and I got a call from my niece that my SP has come to my home and he is talking to my mother. Actually my SP is my ex fiancé. Are these dreams has meanings ?
Hi Dylan! Im curious to know your perspective on tarot card readings since it’s essentially someone telling us what our future will be like. I don’t believe in them anymore since I’ve learned from your videos about being able to create our own reality but I just wanted to hear your thoughts on this.
i mostly think like they tell me about my current emotion, and its been like that when i am positive, confident and calm the tarot reader says the thing i was positive thinking or affirming regardless of the circumstance but if i listen in place of fear, doubt and anxiety well the reading becomes meeh!! (negative)
When will coaching become available? I’ve been doing really well for the most part, then like today, my mind explodes with negative thoughts and assumptions. To not affirm my situation, I’ll say this: In the past, my wife of 8 years was “involved” with a third party. She was dead set on ending our marriage. Previously, we were in the process of selling our home. I remember when negative thoughts were popping up and taking over completely. I realize how she’s showing up is a reflection of my past self concept. I realized I had created this situation. I listen to beliefs at night time and am constantly working on my self concept. I can’t shake feelings of being betrayed and discarded. I need help!
I struggled with the same thing. I’m sure Dylan would advice to drop the subject completely, and focus on stabilizing your self. Through meditation, breath work, a routine that makes you feel good, and affirming self concept (that you’re deserving, that you’re the solution, that there’s nothing that can hurt you because it’s all just a reflection of you and that you’re safe), until you can think about the subject and not be triggered anymore. Of course that can take days, it takes what it takes. But the important thing is that you’re neutral, again, that you’re stable when thinking about the matter. Then, in that stable state is easy to affirm what you do want with no resistance (being bombarded with negative emotions and thoughts). As your emotional state is regulated you’ll naturally affirm with the knowing that things will work out your way because you’re in control and you can give yourself what you desire instantly, aka feel that you’re loved, secure, powerful and in control in that moment without the condition of anything external happening for you to feel great. Is always the other way around. If you’re already feeling your best, then, the manifestation of your desire will be a byproduct of that state. Hope this helps a bit. I definitely know the struggle and I’ve find it hard because, when thinking about what I want and feeling distress, dropping the subject to focus on something else feels like I’m not resolving anything. BUT I’ve found that it’s necessary, it’s even required. Because if you continue like that, stressed, worried, trying to flip your thoughts so the undesired outcome won’t manifest, all of that just keeps contributing to your panic state, because you’re focusing on it, and what you focus on expands. For practical effects this is what I’ve been doing: If I think about what I want and I’m worried and having a million undesired thoughts about it, I’ll literally say to myself: “okay, this is just a thought reflecting my old story, and this is just an emotion representing of it. If I created that, I surely can create the opposite.” Then I’ll give myself permission to feel whatever it is that I’m feeling, just viewing it as energy moving throughout my body. When the intensity lowers I’ll remind myself that I’m in control, that I’ll create a new outcome because from now on I’ll entertain new thoughts that align with what I want, because it is as easy as that, our recurrent thoughts create. If I feel great after that then I’ll affirm what I want as if I already have it. And if I still don’t feel great about it, I’ll drop it for now and keep doing other stuff. When my desire comes to my mind again at other time of the day I’ll do the same thing, repeat what I did before. If I still feel bad and worried about it, I’ll do the same process (feel the emotion and remind myself it’s just an illusion). But if I think about it and I’m stable, meaning I’m neutral, confident and even happy I’ll affirm what I want and move on with my day. That’s the way I’ve found that works the best for me. It sure as hell takes time to get used to approach our feelings, triggers, fears and old patterns like that, but it does allows us to move past the states that we don’t want anymore. Dylan is right, the most important thing is to stabilize our state of being.
@@abuela111 thanks so much for such a well thought out reply! It means a lot that you would put so much into it! I feel like a freaking yo-yo a lot of the time! I’m persisting!
Thank you for all you do Dylan! Found you a few weeks back and you make everything so easy to comprehend. Focused on myself and my sc now. I had a question please. In one of your videos I heard you answer someone who mentioned when they visualized the image of the sp is getting fuzzy and you said this is good and normal. I’ve been actually feeling this too, too much old story and bs to the point I didn’t know if I wanted my old sp or just be open to anyone else who can bring the feeling. Just wondered is this ok when we don’t know what we want, I get i have resistance with old sp, but at the same time I’ve tried dating other men and can’t recreate the feeling he brings. Sorry, hope this made sense. I know. I have brought him in before many times, this last time was a lot of my own fears came true. Like cheating and using financially. Idk if I can, should, or want to go back to someone who I know although triggered by me, the story still is there. I guess is it stupid to try w them again and affirm and want for him to make it up and fix things with maximum effort idk.
I’ve already done this once months ago limitless beliefs and weird stuff happened to me after I did it like spiritual awakenings and all this kind of stuff about chakras and all this until I broke down and I let myself go it was weird. World mind beliefs systems what do you think I am going to do? Should I just re do it or do another one? I already have all the same beliefs already and I already do my scripting as it’s my scriptures literally for my life so I just let go and I already changed my paradigm 💗
Im probably going to get yelled at here but... my fear is... (maybe its just the doubt) that i focus on myself and then someone new comes along instead of my sp:/ then it feels like im settling since the new person is technically"better" bc theres no history there? 😞 can someone clarify what im misunderstanding?
hi dylan!! is it okay if we miss a day of the limitless manifester tapes at night? I was at my sp’s house last night so I did not get to listen! should I just keep going through until 21 days, even with missing one?
Dylan, can you talk a little bit about how to find our "purpose" in life? In this video, you talk about becoming what we find attractive and one of the things I continually found myself listing was "someone who works toward their goals and their passions." I don't really have those at this point in my life outside of just trying to be healthy mentally and emotionally stable. And while those are amazing attributes to have, I sometimes feel like not having a major driving purpose in my life (as far as accolades) could be keeping me from having the relationship I want. Any thoughts?
It's the newest video, gonna shoot my shot, maybe somebody will answer. I've lost 2 close family members in a span of a month. Both not very close in emotional sense but this has pulled me down real hard. I try to ignore the 3d with things that I'm manifesting, but it's hard to not get pulled into the low states when that's what the 3d looks like... It's hard for me now to keep my thoughts positive. I'm listening to the night tapes, working with my thoughts during the day (as much as I notice them). But it's like my mind and body are shutting down at this moment and pulling me really strongly in the direction of negative thoughts of all kinds... Any advice?
Thank you for your content Dylan! I’ve been listening to your tapes and videos lately. Just yesterday I found out my ex-SP is now in a new relationship and I am devastated. I am trying to move forward and be the solution but how do you process heartbreak along the way?
@Hayden Richards Thank you for your response! You’re absolutely right. We just have to continue to persist and watch our lives change abundantly in the process of doing so. I wish you the best on your journey ❤️
@Hayden Richards Yes, I think that’s where I went wrong during this transition period. I put too much focus on the wrong places. I’ll definitely have to listen to the tapes throughout the day too to stay focused. Thank you!! I hope you have a lovely day ❤️
Can someone answer this to me? Is it necessary to forget about the past or just accept it and believe in a better future? I think trying to forget about the past causes resistance.
Don't give the past a thought. It's irrelevant. It exists nowhere but in your head. Your future is being created in the here and now, based on your thoughts and feelings.
@@IAm_DylanJames Hi Dylan, i got coaching from you and you replied back with the follow up email. I just had some questions and i sent them through twice, but haven't heard back. Just wanted to know if you were still trying to get back to everyone.
Hey Guys! I'm so happy that I found Dylan! I shifted completly and my sp came back into my life and a lot of other things 😍 But my question ist.. my sp came back but not as the version I want him to. For example he wrote me how are you and then he didn't text mr for one week but I feel really stable and confident. Im just a little bit afraid that I am in the feeling state of waiting :) So my question: should I ignore him showing up like this and respond when he's showing up as I want him to or should I respond even when he's hot&cold? Love you all🥰🥰❤
Same here my SP texted we talk about an hour. Than he disappeared. I didn’t text him cause I don’t want to sound pushy and clingy. Tbh I want him to take the first step and sort things out. Idk how to do that . I am certain that he will contact me again.
@@happiness9441 ofcourse I want him back but I want him to confess first. As I m not sure if he wants me back or not. He’s my ex fiancé and it was an arranged marriage. Our engagement lasted only 2 months then we broke up. I have been trying to manifest him since 4 months. He got engaged for the second time in July and his engagement got broken again . then he texted me on 21st July it was a forwarded msg I also sent him a forwarded msg he didn’t reply back. After 2 months he texted me again on 21sep we talk about an hour than he disappeared
So ex sp behaviors on social media are really bothering me can I block or unfollow -_- and still manifest change in him? Feels contrary to living in the end. And I know not to place too much importance on these things. But I just cannot -_- Dylan can you or anyone give advice ? 💗
You’re thinking about it too physically… this is where people fail at LOA. Living in the end is a FEELING. If it helps u to live in that feeling by doing that, then do it.
@@cherrypie1173 ur fear of doing it is that if you honor yourself and block him or unfollow, then you may lose your chance to be with him. In the process, you must honor yourself. Through honoring yourself you will fully emerge in the feeling of love, which opens up to you materializing it to you, truly
@@truthheals5723 hi thanks for your message. I really appreciate it. Realistically, I know that a follow on Instagram is meaningless in the bit sceme of things. If we were living together and then separated, and still have a chance to come together, anything is possible and the Instagram follow is irrelevant and not that important. I do feel like I am not playing victim mindset, trying to be as loving and understanding as possible. However, many months have gone by, and I continue to feel hurt by his behavior. I felt that I did need to honor myself and unfollow based on his current state right now. So in theory, I believe am recognizing my worth and know what I deserve and should feel respected and loved.
I blocked mine and the next day the manifestation arrived. Feeling like you can’t block him or it won’t happen or that you must block him and then it will happen are both limiting beliefs, so do what feels best to you - just sharing a story that you can block and it can still happen. I would defer to Dylan on this bc he’s the coach here, but I suspect that the reason it worked for me is bc I finally stopped obsessing about it and took him off the pedestal and made myself the priority. Listen to the tapes at night and focus on feeling as good as possible during the day like Dylan says, your life will be freaking magic
Dylan I need your help this is an emergency please I need you, my cat was hit by a car and my other cat already died this year I think I could have manifested it and I really need help not manifesting the outcome of this current emergency please if you read this I will pay you ANY price please help me
“Getting what you want is a byproduct of being the version of yourself that can have it.” After YEARS of exploring LoA stuff, that is the most concise and important sentence I’ve heard on the subject.
Dylan I just came up with the perfect analogy on being stable. Hear me out, we should all act like babies (that sounds funny but it’s true). Think about it; they wake up and go to bed at the same time, eat their meals around the same time, take a nap around the same time, they don’t give a fuck about anything and people are always chasing for their attention. It’s so odd but babies always get what they want without even doing anything! They have a daily routine like you preach!
They aren't aware of society, circumstances, peoples judgments, etc
The same is for Cats 🥰😺
@@Z5Z5Z5 thats exactly the idea. not being aware of that, its like the fact "circumstances don't matter"
I wouldn’t refer to myself as a baby, but I like referencing humans to animals. I think of babies as helpless and pitiful, in a way. Yes, they have their routines but those are forced on them by their parents. On the other hand, animals exude so much unconditional love, are much more aware of themselves, and they’re able to listen to their bodies/care for/stick up for themselves. They’re highly attuned to nature and have an unspoken intelligence that is very inspiring to me. I look at dogs and I see a self-concept of purity, peace, and love.
@@megkathleen it’s all perception…. We assign meaning according to how we view things in our reality.
"Getting what you want is a byproduct of being the version of yourself that can have it"- This is so deep my old self just died from 1 line.
I’ve been listening to the limitless manifestor affirmation for about a week and a half now. And I’ve been struggling with trying to not obsess over thinking about my sp. I would struggle with how to talk about it with others that ask how things were between the two of us. I didn’t want to say that we were together because it’s like lying to others and myself but this morning I woke up and thought to myself my sp is doing what makes her happy and that’s all that matters no matter where they are we will be together agin and I’ve just started believing that and just telling myself no matter what the circumstances are they don’t matter. But all that matters is that they are doing what makes them happy and that’s all that matter to me no matter how they find happiness as long as they find it! So thank you Dylan I’ve been sharing your content with a lot of my friends because I see how much it’s Helped me with my life and I want to share this with everyone!
Great approach!!
Hey I’ve been listening for 21 days and my life has changed BEAUTIFULLY. Keep listening I promise miracles will happen. You can have anything you want
@@yoda7989 amen to that!
you're fine lol just had to say it
That's amazing
my approach was slightly off. i was focusing more on the change i want rather than fully working on myself. i know while we are changing beliefs, we have to step in consciously to ease our mind when circumstances pop up in our thoughts. but i got obsessed with doing that very often instead of just saying “i know i am receiving the change i want. what can i do and affirm that makes ME feel on top.” i get that now. thank you Dylan ❤️
“Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” - Mark Twain
💜 Heart-Based Manifestation UA-camr
Gavin I see your comments on nearly every video I watch, even on channels that are pretty unknown. We must be on the same wave length 😉
I’ve watched so many of your videos, but this one really spoke to me today. Your tone & message- I want to listen again later tonight! Your relaxed vibe in explaining this made it sink in in a new way for me. Thanks for everything you do & for being so generous with your time & knowledge. You’re doing such important work! ❤️❤️
Dylan!! And everyone, I have to tell you that this works fast! I changed my mind state using ur teachings and was able to manifest a text from someone that I had a falling out with for the last 3+ months. We are now on good terms😙
Dylan I have my first success story. There was a show I really wanted to watch and got two tickets for free for me and my friend. Two days ago I got a call from the organizers saying they overbooked the show so they would be cancelling my tickets. I said okay thanks but I will still attend the show. I didn't even tell my friend the tickets were cancelled. We showed up today and watched the show 😆
I’ve be rewatching your videos again and again. Thank you for showing up these two days, makes my life happier
Thank you for the pep talk and encouragement. You have helped me learn to articulate my thoughts and feelings after spending a significant amount of time devaluing myself following my divorce. I feel like I manifested you! I have been looking for something logical, something loving, and something inspiring to help reshape my values and life to better suit who I am. You are by far the most logical and common sense coaching out here, and I cannot express enough how grateful I am for your generosity in sharing this for free. I sincerely mean it when I say I love you. You’re like a dear friend I have not met in person. Wishing you the best in your life.
YOU ARE BRILLIANT. The way you speak is so eloquent and insightful, it’s as if you are channeling. Thank you for this!
I/We miss you already! You're so rad thanks for being an answered prayer of mine that: "I can trust humanity and believe in the kindness of "strangers" :).
I just heard that my SP got married at the end of August.😣 it makes me so sad to think that I created this. I have been listening to the over night affirmations, to improve my life in general. I have been listening to a mixture, to prevent me from focusing too much on the outcome. Last week my SP reached out to me at work. He had to hunt around for me, because I had moved to a different office. He wanted to know how I was. I am confused on why I manifested that contact, especially as I had not focused on manifesting him for over a year.
Dylan , just want to say thank you for all of your wonderful works you have been doing . There are so much misinformation about relationship out there , especially on TikTok . I just watched one relationship coach on TikTok teaches women to express their anger /frustrations to their partner if he keeps adding other women on social media . Before I probably would agree with him . But not any more. As a confident and secure person , we see nothing /nobody as threat . Dylan , I just hope there are more and more people can hear you ! 🙏♥️♥️♥️
If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today. 🙏🏻❤
I just love how much content you put out! It’s always so fresh too. 💋❤️
You are amazing just know you are making a legacy!
Dylan you have such a positive influence on my life and have truly helped me on healing my past and looking towards the future in a totally different light. From my heart thank you so much and love you so so sooo much ❤️
Need to listen to this every day.
I've been listening to your meditations, and also one about how not to give a f*ck, and it seems to be helping! Feels better!
which one about not giving a f*ck? ty 🙏❤️🙏
In love with life. In love with myself.
For me dylan is really the best i swear with other coaches I feel so much pressure to act a certain way but dylan understand totally the root of the manifestation. Very calm soothing no pressure. Very inspiring coach. 💜💜💜✨✨✨ Thanks so much for all you do for us dylan
Brilliant
Obvi, thank you Dylan james for being generous, loving, knowledgeable, gregarious, courageous…if this comment speaks to one person, it was well worth writing.
I am the mother of three sons-all collage age. I cannot remember NOT focusing, 100%, on them and their success. I told myself that I was the best mother-sacrificing my livelihood for their benefit. Meanwhile, my world was falling apart. I played the victim like no one else. Eventually, they mirrored the disdain I had for myself. I wanted to die. In enters DJ🙏.
I was not sacrificing. I was hiding. It was so much easier to put my energies, and VERY HIGH expectations, on the boys than on myself. I jumped off the victim train, re built the self concept. ****Note: this dedication to myself will be an on going process. I’ve regressed…many times, but like Dylan stated, “Life is not supposed to be perfect.” Great, with bumps.
I am a different-best version-in process-of myself. And, my boys and I have never been closer.
I, too, love, love, love all of you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️
You got this, baby.
I love your honesty and transparency in your comment. I don’t have the same story, but I as well really want to build my self-concept and stop playing the victim. I know that I can’t sustain anything especially the love and relationship I want unless I do this. 🙏🏼
God is with me
First again lol. At the gym after your glow up video
Always love seeing a new post from you !
What a great podcast. I listened to it twice! 🙌🏽
Thanks!
You are so sweet, this is totally not necessary love.
Hello Dylan! So much love to you! ❤️
Thank you for everything!! 🙏
Thank you Dylan!
i started over with limitless manifestor because i didn’t allow it to work the first time. i’m definitely experiencing dreams of the old beliefs and circumstances popping up. my mind is really trying to knock me off but i’m not letting it. i’m working hard and i can tell it’s starting to pay off!
I had to go back too! 💜
@@brittney3156 i’ve felt an extreme difference this go around. i was so happy today. sp was barely on my mind and when the circumstance popped up, i shut that shit down real quick. i know he’s coming back to me and i don’t have to think about it. it’s an amazing feeling
@@taysoslay that happened to me too! I can tell it's clearing out more. The "battery" of the new version doesn't always last all day, so I'm trying to be gentle with myself.
@@taysoslay practicing switching my focus.
@@brittney3156 i know what you mean. the new version gives me a euphoric feeling almost. but getting emotional self regulation down is what makes it last. i noticed that making myself smile and start reinforcing the new beliefs in my mind help create a space of relaxed happiness
THANK YOU FOR THESE BOMB ASS UPLOADS!!!!
You are so on point! Thank you.👍
YES! Persist, believe, TRUST.
hey dylan you know many things !!! you are very intelligent and wise
I have developed a new version that I am now so happy always. I know my SP is already in my life. I am so happy and cheerful always. 😝🤪😍 I know I love myself and my sp is damn crazy on me. 🥳🥳😘
❤ Is the best information ever!!!
Triggers/reactions are the most difficult...but trying my best with u in my head to accomplish this change/solution which for me I know is greatly needed!!
Thankyou 🙏🙏
This is such a powerful video and much needed at this time 🙏
I was JUST THINKING ABOUT YOU DYLAN
I actually saw the third party video on your channel and it hits me home. I believe in u so so much but the sentence u said “ things were going right but something switched in your mind for ur person to change” made sense to me alot but i took it as i consumed the video but two hours after that ive been fked up lol LIKE SO SO BAD I AM SO SCARED OF THINKING ANYTHING WRONG and the 3rd party thoughts have been spiraling i never wanted to take ur information like that pls help me. Also i have been listening to ur limitless manifestations for about 5 days and my sp and my life in general HAVE CHANGED DRAMATICALLY ILOVEYOU
pls reply and help me i want to stop those thoughts as I believe a lot in law of assumption
If u think something wrong just affirm till the thought goes away.
Thanks so much for helping me understand what COMPASSION is! Strangely, I've always struggled to get it emotionally. I think it just hit home with your words. Yaldi!
I honestly feel like my life has gotten worse since I started the tapes. Before the tapes I was learning all this for about 6 months. I learned about being in alignment. I learned all this was about my inner happiness. I got off depression medicine within a month of everything I was applying. I was able to keep my state at a good vibration. If I was wobbly I could turn things around. Few things manifested nothing major. I was okay with it because I was pretty much in alignment most of the time. Then I found Dylan. I love him. I knew I had limited beliefs First 21 days nothing changed and I was fine because like I said I was in alignment. First Few days my subconscious mind trying to reject it. Kept on going b/c like I said - I knew I had some limiting beliefs. Now it’s been almost 2 months. Since listening. During this last month I’m constantly having break downs. Depressed again. Lose my temper with my kids. Now I hate my job and feel miserable everyday going. I definitely am aware of this and continue to get back into alignment. I don’t know what’s going on. I don’t want to quit the tapes but I had so much growth with other coaches especially Abraham Hicks and Neville Goddard etc… and yes they all teach the same thing but the difference was the tapes for me.
I'm sorry...I dont think its the tapes specifically. I say this with full respect and compassion. I see your words and it reminded me of me, especially the abraham hicks and the depression and losing temper. I feel like you got off the antidepressants and maybe it wasn't a good idea *just yet*. I have done that in the past (before discovering neville and Dylan tapes) and my life went downhill shortly after because i wasn't truly ready to get off them bc life triggered me easily. I lost jobs/relationships etc it has affected my life to this day and it was 5 years ago. These dylan tapes are great as a supplement to getting better, i feel like the anti depressants can be helpful. I honestly have been contemplating getting back on them on and off bc sometimes i feel cured for a day or a week especially after these tapes (but i dont want/like to depend on them so i understand why you would want to stop them, i truly understand that part) im no doctor but stopping them so suddenly in the middle of the tapes doesn't seem like a good idea. Too much pressure. You have kids and a job too? Too much. I have a child and with depression its been a whole other level that many dont understand. I feel for you. The brightside is I have gotten so much better mentally with dylan as of 2021 discovering neville 2019. I used to watch abraham hicks since 2013 trying to be in some vortex that was no where to be found when i quit my antidepressants suddenly. Changing beliefs with the tapes and bettering yourself did not require getting off them just yet (in my opinion) especially if you've been on them for a long time. Dont be hard on yourself. Its ok to be on them if you decide to. I just feel maybe you were not ready for the brain changes (im no doctor i just know it changes something). I've had days where I think I am over depression and then a trigger happens and I have spiraled. Forgive yourself and keep trying. Feel free to ask me anything
@@Nbx3 thank you. Your words are very kind. I’ve been on and off depression medicine for 15 years and always got off because it never seems to work. Then learned all this LOA and finding inner happiness within. It’s so weird because I was in control for 6 months even quit smoking. I don’t want to get on medicine because like I said it never really felt like it worked or there were side effects. I’m going to keep listening to the tapes. My life is good. No major drama. Not obsessed with SP. Work triggers my mood and I bring it home so I need to work on that. It’s just frustrating and I wonder why so many people get results so quickly and here I am giving it 💯 % percent and things seem to regress. Oh well. I definitely can’t go back to not controlling my thought- lol
@@alexnico3198 Thanks for replying! This is kinda long sorry! When I was on them it seemed to keep me from totally going off the rails in anxiety and depression but it definitely never really better overall. The side effects is why I got off yep. I decided I’d rather see where I go with these rollercoaster emotions because I know why they’re there (childhood traumas for the most part) when I discovered loa I was amazed and it really resonated and opened a whole perspective like wait…I can control my thoughts and my reality if I stay positive and stop feeling shitty? Lol
I didn’t know how to apply it though. I just binged on all the positive quotes and would go up and down emotionally and let external things take control. I can’t believe I didn’t find out about Neville until I was basically homeless with my baby. I guess it was when my desire for improvement was intense. I manifested a job and a place for us to live within 9 months or so. But there was still a lot of resistance and all I knew was Abraham hicks teachings. I didn’t know then I could truly manifest *anything*. Since then I manifested sp contact (child’s father) but we are not together yet since he never wanted to be with me I’m still finding it difficult to imagine him wanting the family etc. I had a lot of low self worth so I’m working on this new worthy confident version as long as it takes. I didn’t truly understand our power yet until reading more Neville and watching hundreds of videos etc. It’s been an interesting journey and this awareness is awesome. I have felt the same in regards to feeling like I’m trying and no progress or going backwards but then I realized I wasn’t truly keeping the mental diet consistently or putting the focus on ME. It’s always been to gain something or someone. I was wondering why I wasn’t getting results and Dylan made me realize it’s my beliefs. I affirm life continues to get better and better for us! Thanks for sharing your experience. I agree we can’t go back to not controlling our thoughts now lol no going back now. I’ve manifested too many things to not believe in it now.
I create solutions through loving compassion.
You are amazing ! ❤️
I love this! You’re so right !
13:49 shift from others to self
Shift from taking from others to giving plenty to self
Dylan would you consider uploading your podcasts on Spotify?!! I would love to be able to listen to you while driving or doing chores or even taking a shower lol
I am the version of me that's most authentic confident stable secure and chosen within myself.
Love it dylan! ❤️
Thank u so much for your amazing content. Xxx
Thank You!!
Hey Dylan, I’ve been following your content for months now. My self concept has changed a lot.. a lot has changed in my life because of me. Only thing, yesterday I woke up feeling like I didn’t care anymore about my SP and almost like an “accepting” feeling. I still in my core feel a strong knowing this person will be back.. idk when. Don’t care when. However, it’s the purge I feel in my being of realizing I just need to let it go. Is that contradicting the manifestation or is this part of it? I don’t want to sit in this energy for too long but I’m wondering. I’m also looking to leave my high level job position to follow my passion. It’s this huge energy shift that hit me like a sudden wave. Could you take some time to give me some feedback? I truly appreciate all your work. Can’t wait for your 1 on 1 coaching to open up.
This is a part of it. Drop deeper into letting go and feeling fully satisfied
I'm in the same boat as well
omg thats exactly my situation!!! I know 100% he will be back but now I'm in the state that I donr even want to focus on him or even affirm! I don't know if thats the right thing to do. I feel like I don't want to think about him and enjoy my life but then on the other hand all coaches say don't give up and persist!! I know he will be back I'm just tired of affirming and trying. is not focusing and not thinking about him contradict with the end result?
@@XH-um9fp sometimes I have this contradicting feeling as well . Then I think how about just keep focus on improving the better version of myself and totally drop the sp off . Then instead of getting confused ? Just let it unfolds naturally .
@@XH-um9fp as far as I know, you wouldn't be thinking about him all day long if you had him. Like your friends are constant in your life, so you don't think about them all day long. So, if you don't need your SP anymore, you're in the end state. You wouldn't be needing him, if he was in your life.
You are beautiful ....what an amazing podcasts.. U r changing lives bless u
Yes 🙌🏽 Loved this 💕
Dylan, you are a beautiful soul.
Dylan can you make a video on free will and what happens to our SP when we change our Self Concept?
Hello Dylan,
This morning I was listening to a podcast and she mentioned several things you’ve talked about. She said that in order to manifest you need to live the life you want as if you already have it. She went on to mention that you also have to put some sort of action Into your desires and you can’t just consistently think of the thing you want and it manifest. I was under the impression that your dominant thoughts manifest, and that action was actually not needed if you believed and trusted. What are your thoughts on this ?
Your dominant thoughts would inspire the right actions. For example, if you think dominantly of you SP cheating, you will be inspired to take such actions as questioning who their on the phone with, or checking them constantly. These actions are based on your thoughts. Just think of it in this way. Your inner voice creates your thoughts, your thoughts create your emotions, your emotions creates your actions and as well as your reality. Hope this helps a lil…
It’s your emotional state that manifest, but the thoughts are creating it
Thank u so much for the amazing content ..I have been following you since 4-5 months..there has occurred many birds before land situations from two months. I have been receiving messages from the same initials of my sp. But stuck up in it. Please guide me through it.
Also I had booked email coaching wid u on 4th August. I had received one email from you and I have been following it sincerely. But the personalized tape has not yet been received by me. I know you might be busy but just a smal reminder. Please do send❤️
Thank u for the amazing content.
Thank you for this Dylan. I appreciate you so much. You are helping me through one of the most difficult times of my life. I truly appreciate you! Do you still work with people one on one?
Thank you🥰
Thanks
I want to resign from a toxic job. Without another job. I'm trying hard with my manifesting
My issue is when my 3D reflects something I don’t want, I have difficulty saying “nope that isn’t my story”, because it’s right there in 3D!! And then I can’t let it go….
So what is a quick & effective way to see the 3D & KNOW that it doesn’t matter, life is changing & soon my reality will reflect my desires. How do I quickly get to that space?
What about seeing no movement on a specific area even though you're stable, trusting, allowing and knowing that it's happening? Like everything is great, but there's one specific thing that you feel/know is happening and there are no visible changes? I'm ok as things are and super confident even if it comes now or not, but I know it will and I would have a preference of seeing any movement to keep me going!
You should put these podcasts on Spotify!
hi dylan!
thank you for your light + presence, always!! i’m having some issue removing the feeling of desperation for my desire- in this case this is my living situation. i feel like i’m not in a needing state of an apartment at surface level, but when i’m honest with myself that’s not what i’m feeling deep down. especially given the fact that i have to move out of my current home this week. do you have any tips? would greatly appreciate xx
I just finished night 7 of listening to the limitless manifestor tape. Wacky dreams, last night I had an amazing dream about my SP that perfectly matched my desire, woke up in the middle of the night, then fell back asleep and had a terrible dream about him that played out all of my fears and insecurities around the connection. I know this is just the purge, but it’s thrown me off all day despite feeling like I’ve been doing a pretty solid job holding the end state the past couple days. Since beginning to listen to these tapes, about half of the days I’ve woken up so calm and peaceful and others just riddled with anxiety but will slowly stabilize as the day goes on. I’m wondering if you have any tips on recovering after having dreams of the old story?
Stabilise yourself 💓 Do breathwork videos or meditations like this where you re-affirm in the change you want to be! Be gentle however, your shifting so many beliefs at once and the old beliefs are trying to grapple w/ you still. Persist on through trust & know that you have the ability to change anything!
Dylan! I dunno if it’s just a weird coincidence or what. Few days ago I’ve been dreading to go back home in the Philippines for Christmas. Despite me having the plans of having an EU tour because PH has been in the UK red list for ever since I can remember, I’d still felt, wouldn’t it be nice if I can go back home for Christmas rather than going to EU? Then just now, literally just now, PH is set to be removed from UK’s red list starting Monday. 😱😱😱 it’s so amazing.
Hi there 😊 How do I know when I am ready to move on from the limitless sleep tapes to the other ones after the 21 days? Or is it definitely solidified after 21 days and I can just immediately move on? 😊
Hi dylan
How do i stay aligned when iv had to put my cat to sleep as he had eaten something toxic.
Im so upset x
Hi Dylan. Can you maybe do a video or post on mindset / how to react when the person you really like says something along the lines of "oh sorry, I'm really busy right now and kind of seeing someone"? I responded with "oh" and am at a complete loss as of now on how to think about this. Feeling pretty shitty right now :/ like I just want to cut them off. Ugh. Help 💕 thank you for all that you do angel!
Is waking up in between listening to the affirmation tapes means it's working? I'm having a hard time sleeping with the Love tape. Didn't face this with the limitless one.
Hey Dylan, I have been listening to limitless love on and off. My SP texted me last week we talk about an hour about random stuff. Then he disappeared. Tbh I want him to take the first step and sort things out I don’t know how to do that. I am certain that he will text me back but I want him to have a stable communication with me
Work on your beliefs and let it come to you so you know it's real! You got this! 💪
@@kadythompson4538 I m listening to the tapes but sometimes I miss, there are gaps. Also is there any other way to work on beliefs?. Sometimes I have doubts as well
Of course you can work on your beliefs consciously as well but tapes will really help shift you because it gets really engrained in your subconscious mind overnight and there isn't any resistance to the affirmations because you're sleeping. Where being awake you can affirm things and your mind will tell you no that's not correct...
@@kadythompson4538 sometimes I have weird dreams as well. Yesterday I had dream that I m out of my house somewhere with my sister and I got a call from my niece that my SP has come to my home and he is talking to my mother. Actually my SP is my ex fiancé. Are these dreams has meanings ?
What if you slip and set yourself back? Do you have to start over again how do you handle that?
Hi Dylan! Im curious to know your perspective on tarot card readings since it’s essentially someone telling us what our future will be like. I don’t believe in them anymore since I’ve learned from your videos about being able to create our own reality but I just wanted to hear your thoughts on this.
i mostly think like they tell me about my current emotion, and its been like that when i am positive, confident and calm the tarot reader says the thing i was positive thinking or affirming regardless of the circumstance but if i listen in place of fear, doubt and anxiety well the reading becomes meeh!! (negative)
Could you talk more about /speak on manifesting a new person (person with specific attributes) for a romantic relationship?
When will coaching become available? I’ve been doing really well for the most part, then like today, my mind explodes with negative thoughts and assumptions. To not affirm my situation, I’ll say this: In the past, my wife of 8 years was “involved” with a third party. She was dead set on ending our marriage. Previously, we were in the process of selling our home. I remember when negative thoughts were popping up and taking over completely. I realize how she’s showing up is a reflection of my past self concept. I realized I had created this situation.
I listen to beliefs at night time and am constantly working on my self concept. I can’t shake feelings of being betrayed and discarded. I need help!
I struggled with the same thing.
I’m sure Dylan would advice to drop the subject completely, and focus on stabilizing your self. Through meditation, breath work, a routine that makes you feel good, and affirming self concept (that you’re deserving, that you’re the solution, that there’s nothing that can hurt you because it’s all just a reflection of you and that you’re safe), until you can think about the subject and not be triggered anymore.
Of course that can take days, it takes what it takes.
But the important thing is that you’re neutral, again, that you’re stable when thinking about the matter.
Then, in that stable state is easy to affirm what you do want with no resistance (being bombarded with negative emotions and thoughts).
As your emotional state is regulated you’ll naturally affirm with the knowing that things will work out your way because you’re in control and you can give yourself what you desire instantly, aka feel that you’re loved, secure, powerful and in control in that moment without the condition of anything external happening for you to feel great.
Is always the other way around.
If you’re already feeling your best, then, the manifestation of your desire will be a byproduct of that state.
Hope this helps a bit.
I definitely know the struggle and I’ve find it hard because, when thinking about what I want and feeling distress, dropping the subject to focus on something else feels like I’m not resolving anything.
BUT I’ve found that it’s necessary, it’s even required.
Because if you continue like that, stressed, worried, trying to flip your thoughts so the undesired outcome won’t manifest, all of that just keeps contributing to your panic state, because you’re focusing on it, and what you focus on expands.
For practical effects this is what I’ve been doing:
If I think about what I want and I’m worried and having a million undesired thoughts about it, I’ll literally say to myself: “okay, this is just a thought reflecting my old story, and this is just an emotion representing of it. If I created that, I surely can create the opposite.”
Then I’ll give myself permission to feel whatever it is that I’m feeling, just viewing it as energy moving throughout my body.
When the intensity lowers I’ll remind myself that I’m in control, that I’ll create a new outcome because from now on I’ll entertain new thoughts that align with what I want, because it is as easy as that, our recurrent thoughts create.
If I feel great after that then I’ll affirm what I want as if I already have it.
And if I still don’t feel great about it, I’ll drop it for now and keep doing other stuff.
When my desire comes to my mind again at other time of the day I’ll do the same thing, repeat what I did before.
If I still feel bad and worried about it, I’ll do the same process (feel the emotion and remind myself it’s just an illusion).
But if I think about it and I’m stable, meaning I’m neutral, confident and even happy I’ll affirm what I want and move on with my day.
That’s the way I’ve found that works the best for me. It sure as hell takes time to get used to approach our feelings, triggers, fears and old patterns like that, but it does allows us to move past the states that we don’t want anymore.
Dylan is right, the most important thing is to stabilize our state of being.
@@abuela111 thanks so much for such a well thought out reply! It means a lot that you would put so much into it!
I feel like a freaking yo-yo a lot of the time!
I’m persisting!
Thank you for all you do Dylan! Found you a few weeks back and you make everything so easy to comprehend. Focused on myself and my sc now.
I had a question please. In one of your videos I heard you answer someone who mentioned when they visualized the image of the sp is getting fuzzy and you said this is good and normal. I’ve been actually feeling this too, too much old story and bs to the point I didn’t know if I wanted my old sp or just be open to anyone else who can bring the feeling. Just wondered is this ok when we don’t know what we want, I get i have resistance with old sp, but at the same time I’ve tried dating other men and can’t recreate the feeling he brings. Sorry, hope this made sense. I know. I have brought him in before many times, this last time was a lot of my own fears came true. Like cheating and using financially. Idk if I can, should, or want to go back to someone who I know although triggered by me, the story still is there. I guess is it stupid to try w them again and affirm and want for him to make it up and fix things with maximum effort idk.
I’ve already done this once months ago limitless beliefs and weird stuff happened to me after I did it like spiritual awakenings and all this kind of stuff about chakras and all this until I broke down and I let myself go it was weird. World mind beliefs systems what do you think I am going to do? Should I just re do it or do another one? I already have all the same beliefs already and I already do my scripting as it’s my scriptures literally for my life so I just let go and I already changed my paradigm 💗
Does he have a Spotify podcast?
Ah wheres the video of dylan? Miss your face bro 😊
Im probably going to get yelled at here but... my fear is... (maybe its just the doubt) that i focus on myself and then someone new comes along instead of my sp:/ then it feels like im settling since the new person is technically"better" bc theres no history there? 😞 can someone clarify what im misunderstanding?
If you assume that’s going to happen, then it’ll happen.
I am curious about this too. It's like I'm scared to outgrow him.
Maybe it's that we should expect them to raise to our new level. ♥️♥️♥️
Hello Dylan
hi dylan!! is it okay if we miss a day of the limitless manifester tapes at night? I was at my sp’s house last night so I did not get to listen! should I just keep going through until 21 days, even with missing one?
Yes !
Dylan, can you talk a little bit about how to find our "purpose" in life? In this video, you talk about becoming what we find attractive and one of the things I continually found myself listing was "someone who works toward their goals and their passions." I don't really have those at this point in my life outside of just trying to be healthy mentally and emotionally stable. And while those are amazing attributes to have, I sometimes feel like not having a major driving purpose in my life (as far as accolades) could be keeping me from having the relationship I want. Any thoughts?
Love your videos, however, I miss seeing your face x
How did I contribute to this? With my unsecurity. Maybe with my curiosity to know how it feels like.
It's the newest video, gonna shoot my shot, maybe somebody will answer. I've lost 2 close family members in a span of a month. Both not very close in emotional sense but this has pulled me down real hard. I try to ignore the 3d with things that I'm manifesting, but it's hard to not get pulled into the low states when that's what the 3d looks like... It's hard for me now to keep my thoughts positive. I'm listening to the night tapes, working with my thoughts during the day (as much as I notice them). But it's like my mind and body are shutting down at this moment and pulling me really strongly in the direction of negative thoughts of all kinds... Any advice?
Thank you for your content Dylan! I’ve been listening to your tapes and videos lately. Just yesterday I found out my ex-SP is now in a new relationship and I am devastated. I am trying to move forward and be the solution but how do you process heartbreak along the way?
@Hayden Richards Thank you for your response! You’re absolutely right. We just have to continue to persist and watch our lives change abundantly in the process of doing so. I wish you the best on your journey ❤️
@Hayden Richards Yes, I think that’s where I went wrong during this transition period. I put too much focus on the wrong places. I’ll definitely have to listen to the tapes throughout the day too to stay focused. Thank you!! I hope you have a lovely day ❤️
It doesn't work for me now.
But not giving up !
Big stepbacks are tough
Can someone answer this to me? Is it necessary to forget about the past or just accept it and believe in a better future? I think trying to forget about the past causes resistance.
Don't give the past a thought. It's irrelevant. It exists nowhere but in your head. Your future is being created in the here and now, based on your thoughts and feelings.
Hi Dylan do you think you will ever open up 1 on 1 coaching again?
Yes :) im working on some things though to make my services more available
@@IAm_DylanJames Hi Dylan, i got coaching from you and you replied back with the follow up email. I just had some questions and i sent them through twice, but haven't heard back. Just wanted to know if you were still trying to get back to everyone.
does making sad jokes affects manifestation i dont feel sad i just think they’re funny will that manifest as a limiting belief??
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Oops. So, so, so much😘
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Hey Guys!
I'm so happy that I found Dylan! I shifted completly and my sp came back into my life and a lot of other things 😍 But my question ist.. my sp came back but not as the version I want him to. For example he wrote me how are you and then he didn't text mr for one week but I feel really stable and confident. Im just a little bit afraid that I am in the feeling state of waiting :)
So my question: should I ignore him showing up like this and respond when he's showing up as I want him to or should I respond even when he's hot&cold?
Love you all🥰🥰❤
Same here my SP texted we talk about an hour. Than he disappeared. I didn’t text him cause I don’t want to sound pushy and clingy. Tbh I want him to take the first step and sort things out. Idk how to do that . I am certain that he will contact me again.
@@RS-xh4ok I think we have to continue and trust and react when they are showing up as we want them to
@@happiness9441 ofcourse I want him but don’t want to confess first. I want him to say first as I m not sure what he wants exactly . He’s my ex fiancé
@@happiness9441 ofcourse I want him back but I want him to confess first. As I m not sure if he wants me back or not. He’s my ex fiancé and it was an arranged marriage. Our engagement lasted only 2 months then we broke up. I have been trying to manifest him since 4 months. He got engaged for the second time in July and his engagement got broken again . then he texted me on 21st July it was a forwarded msg I also sent him a forwarded msg he didn’t reply back. After 2 months he texted me again on 21sep we talk about an hour than he disappeared
@@RS-xh4ok I think dylan would say persist until it shows up! And don't focus on the circunstances.
So ex sp behaviors on social media are really bothering me can I block or unfollow -_- and still manifest change in him? Feels contrary to living in the end. And I know not to place too much importance on these things. But I just cannot -_- Dylan can you or anyone give advice ? 💗
You’re thinking about it too physically… this is where people fail at LOA. Living in the end is a FEELING. If it helps u to live in that feeling by doing that, then do it.
@@truthheals5723 it doesn’t make me feel good to do it either :( I’m not sure thanks for your reply
@@cherrypie1173 ur fear of doing it is that if you honor yourself and block him or unfollow, then you may lose your chance to be with him. In the process, you must honor yourself. Through honoring yourself you will fully emerge in the feeling of love, which opens up to you materializing it to you, truly
@@truthheals5723 hi thanks for your message. I really appreciate it. Realistically, I know that a follow on Instagram is meaningless in the bit sceme of things. If we were living together and then separated, and still have a chance to come together, anything is possible and the Instagram follow is irrelevant and not that important. I do feel like I am not playing victim mindset, trying to be as loving and understanding as possible. However, many months have gone by, and I continue to feel hurt by his behavior. I felt that I did need to honor myself and unfollow based on his current state right now. So in theory, I believe am recognizing my worth and know what I deserve and should feel respected and loved.
I blocked mine and the next day the manifestation arrived. Feeling like you can’t block him or it won’t happen or that you must block him and then it will happen are both limiting beliefs, so do what feels best to you - just sharing a story that you can block and it can still happen. I would defer to Dylan on this bc he’s the coach here, but I suspect that the reason it worked for me is bc I finally stopped obsessing about it and took him off the pedestal and made myself the priority. Listen to the tapes at night and focus on feeling as good as possible during the day like Dylan says, your life will be freaking magic
Dylan I need your help this is an emergency please I need you, my cat was hit by a car and my other cat already died this year I think I could have manifested it and I really need help not manifesting the outcome of this current emergency please if you read this I will pay you ANY price please help me
shift you focus to a better outcome, maybe you playing with your cats and being happy instead