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  • @wesleewilson_
    @wesleewilson_ 2 роки тому +16

    Pile 1. Scary accurate. To emphasize the accuracy, a journey on ayahuasca showed me that my father treated me poorly because he was jealous. That journey was almost seven years ago now, and I still don't speak with my father.

  • @milkjuce
    @milkjuce 3 роки тому +60

    Pile 1. It's scary how accurate it is. Yes, I am learning about setting boundaries and walking away from an unhealthy friendship. Thanks for confirming. Many blessings to you.

  • @estellawong1271
    @estellawong1271 3 роки тому +31

    Pile 1: it was someone at work who bullied me real bad, she was jealous and tried to put me down in front of ppl at work. She was real nasty, when I always tried to keep the peace and to be nice. I had to learn to ignore her and walk away with my head held high. Thank you for understanding how I feel :)

  • @yuvalgal-shahaf2782
    @yuvalgal-shahaf2782 2 роки тому +10

    Pile 2. This is crazy how accurate it has been. This was a man i have dated a year ago for few,weeks. At the beginning he seemed like the nicest man on earth. I let go of all red flags and dived deeply into it, only to be abused, mocked, gas lighted and ghosted. The more nicer and loving I was to him, the more distant, abusive and discarding he became towards me. I know his dad abused him and is a narcssist himself, and as a child he was considered dumb, exactly like the reading say. Afterwards I have started a serious journey to heal and to learn about toxicity and my shadows, so I won't be deceived again. Again as the reading says. Thank you white feather❤️

    • @carolinaromero4877
      @carolinaromero4877 3 місяці тому

      It is so strange, but I've lived the exactly same thing.

  • @lisab1220
    @lisab1220 3 роки тому +28

    Pile 3: that’s my mother. You are describing what I always felt all my life -she half ignores and negates me and won’t say anything about any of my accomplishments yet she doesn’t try to grow or do anything herself…Despite me only loving her and admiring her I can’t think of one time she was genuinely caring towards me. I am just now learning to not take on people’s attacks. It’s fascinating that you picked all that up! You helped me to understand that is probably how she thinks of herself and why she treats me that way - Thank you!

  • @Winterfeuer
    @Winterfeuer 3 роки тому +36

    #2 Thank you, you gave me a piece in the puzzle of healing and understanding myself. The way I was treated, was to mirror back at me how I was treating myself. I am learning to undo what I was taught and to love myself the way I love others. The relationship was not a romantic one. I feel nothing but love and gratitude towards him. We are all on a journey of growth.

  • @bosslady8983
    @bosslady8983 3 роки тому +14

    #2 my older sister & I. I've tried so hard but SHE'S venomous & I have a temper. This has been going on since childhood. I've gotten to the point where I don't expect anything of her & I am no longer disappointed in anything. I love her but I DON'T like her. I think she thinks my father loved me more. That's crazy. He loved all of us.

    • @MyownAccountisHere
      @MyownAccountisHere 2 місяці тому

      Wow. Sorry to hear that. The reading wasn’t for my sister but I have a similar relation with mine. I no longer expect any kindness, I only expect the worse. Same, she thinks my dad liked me more. But this is illogical and just an excuse to behave badly. All siblings think a parent likes one more than the other. I thought mom liked her more, but I never treat her badly for that. The worst part is I come from a culture where you’re expected to stay in your parents’ house and never leave. So I can’t run away from her toxic behavior.

  • @letmesing6868
    @letmesing6868 3 роки тому +17

    Pile 3 and so spot on. Crazy intense connection but so many issues. I was a genuine friend to him yet he was so afraid of me. He wasn’t however afraid of the random women he would meet on Tinder and through work. I lovingly walked away to maintain my self-esteem and mental state. Still love and think of him just from the distance he created.

    • @Surahfayed
      @Surahfayed 2 роки тому +1

      OMG WTF this is my same exact situation

  • @paulamartinas7503
    @paulamartinas7503 3 роки тому +3

    plie 2, my dear, I have to say, scary accurate, like you have lived with me in this relationship...it is sad but also I know now that who needs a childhood trauma therapist can't be healed by just a loving person...you know when you marry young you think love can solve everything ...I know better now😝

  • @tenajanet
    @tenajanet 3 роки тому +18

    Pile 2. Thankyou so much for the reading! I am dealing with 2 person with this energy recently, one is already a past & one more still in the process. I do often have to deal with shitty narcissist beside these 2, but as you said on the reading, there's nothing that i can do as long as they're not facing themself, so i walk away from them, no matter how much i love them. It thought me how to protect my peace & recognize my values.

    • @patty8945
      @patty8945 3 роки тому +1

      You are right, there is nothing we can do. Toxic is toxic no matter what facade they have.

    • @nalinasjourneytomanifestin5226
      @nalinasjourneytomanifestin5226 3 роки тому +2

      I also chose 2 for my husband and I feel it is so accurate. Don't know if I should be with him now....

    • @patty8945
      @patty8945 3 роки тому

      Nalina's Journey To Manifesting! Educate yourself about toxic people. Don’t make your decision based on what the cards say, rather what the red flags are

    • @hpsunshine1442
      @hpsunshine1442 2 роки тому

      @@nalinasjourneytomanifestin5226 NO!!!

    • @jtwright4095
      @jtwright4095 Рік тому

      ditto

  • @thegem597
    @thegem597 3 роки тому +5

    Pile 1
    For my elder sister. Yeah...I growed. From the situation. She always said I was luckier...in every aspect. She literally tried to push me down and I loved her a lot and was a people pleaser in general...which I overcame. I protect myself well...though I will acknowledge I did have it better. I cut her off completely.
    Edit: omg..you are accurate. I learnt to put my boundaries. I trusted her just because she is blood. I was MAJOR people pleaser...I learnt to be more vocal of my needs. My SELF WORTH!!
    my god
    YOU ARE GOOOOD!!!

  • @gaiaswildchildtarot
    @gaiaswildchildtarot 2 роки тому +5

    Pile1: it's crazy how something that happened in high school is still affecting me. It was my algebra teacher. Isolated and treated me very badly. I had to stand up for myself to get moved to a different teacher. It always made me sad that she hated me when I didn't do anything bad to her. Thank you for this insightful reading.

  • @isabell_noel44
    @isabell_noel44 3 роки тому +7

    Pile 2 and 3 resonates for both individuals I have in mind. While I have empathy for their actions, they no longer deserve a place in my life. We are not responsible for our trauma when we are young, but we are responsible for our own healing. Understand what I said may sound extremely breezy, but this is truly the way to heal. I've hit rock bottom multiple times and had to learn to pick myself up alone piece by piece. I wish them all the best and to everyone: you deserve to be with someone who truly care, value, reciprocate and appreciate your efforts and love. Never shrink yourself for the comfort of others for you're not honouring and respecting yourself

  • @aliciacheshire3134
    @aliciacheshire3134 Рік тому +1

    Wow! Pile 1 was my dad; he died recently, but I walked away from his abuse & violence a couple of years before. Thank you for putting things perspective…you have freed me today! I woke up needing clarity about 3 main relationships; my son, mom & dad; you’ve given me that for sure 😇 I really appreciate you, your guidance & wisdom 💓🌟💎💕

  • @nyxan07
    @nyxan07 3 роки тому +11

    Pile 3: It is my last lifetime on earth. It's been known to me for some time. I know this situation was meant to happen. It was very painful though. Thank you for the insightful reading. xo

  • @kennytanwx
    @kennytanwx 2 роки тому +11

    Pile 2, 100% on point as though it is a personal reading, keep up the good work White Feather Tarot!

  • @janehughes2279
    @janehughes2279 2 роки тому +5

    Yes. Pile 3 is exactly as you said. It was a lot to go through. Very heavy energy. I am glad it's over. But a lot wiser. The other person had a lot to grow up. Thank you. Your readings help me a lot. You are the best tarot I watch. Everyone you do is right on

  • @CarlaSophieMar
    @CarlaSophieMar 3 роки тому +20

    Kudos to you for choosing such unique themes. You touch subjects that are important, deep, and makes us all learn something about ourselves, other people, and life. Love how creative & thoughtful you are! You definitely don't shy away from challenges 😉

  • @heidijames8825
    @heidijames8825 3 роки тому +1

    Pile 1 - So right - I've has a problem with this person just copying everything that I do.

  • @nalinasjourneytomanifestin5226
    @nalinasjourneytomanifestin5226 3 роки тому +4

    And Pile 3 again was soooo accurate! It was for my dad. We both love each other so much and cause each orher so much pain.

  • @ellesutopia
    @ellesutopia 2 роки тому +3

    Pile #2, blown away by your reading, totally accurate. It’s my mother. My innocence and kindness remind her of the sweet soul she had to leave behind in the tough times of her life.

  • @Pallabi_Karmakar
    @Pallabi_Karmakar 3 роки тому +2

    #3 Hello, that's my story, was married to him, yes his jealousy and ego ruined everything, I do believe he's a good soul, but he didn't want to change his ways neither did he ever open up to me, he has lost his path, in the verge of figuring himself out..he was in shock about the truths I told him about himself because I'm intuitive...I tried my best to heal him, all I got was betrayal...now we're divorced, I can only pray for him now ☺️ May God help him 🙏🏼 Thank you for this reading ❤️ from India 🤗

  • @charmsoflove3359
    @charmsoflove3359 3 роки тому +3

    Omg 😯 Pile 2 🥺 it was hell. I left him but I’m still bruised. I noticed now in my new relationship that I’m still carrying old fears from this connection. He broke me inside-out. It took everything in me to heal. I could never understand the hatred. This person was legitimately cruel and evil. And treated me like an enemy for loving him. It was a lot pain. Getting out of the relationship was hell. I had to fight him to get out and become low vibration. I had to integrate my shadow or else he would’ve finished me. I hope one day he heals but I don’t see it happening in this lifetime he’s too far gone in the dark.

  • @queen_minnieme8321
    @queen_minnieme8321 2 роки тому +1

    3. My mom 😂 I’m still living with her though. Yes I have learnt not to let her step all over me… she loves talking behind my back and gossiping about me…. Putting me down is common problem. Now at least I know she admires me …. I know she loves boasting to me and have always wondered why.. now I understand

  • @hoshiaizen1129
    @hoshiaizen1129 Рік тому +2

    Pile 3. I just found this video. Thank you for your reading. It is exactly the situation I am in. I also noticed that I have been feeding him the ego when I reacted to his anger. I decided to end this connection. It was very painful and I suffered a lot. But, ever since I stop communicating and let him go, my heart becomes so peaceful and I have been learning new things by exploring this connection. I wrote everything that I have learned in a book. I am a teacher, and I plan to spread my knowledge to the young generation.

  • @pepeljuga20001
    @pepeljuga20001 3 роки тому +7

    Pile 3:
    We meet while we worked together in my early 20. We connected on some weird level that I sure as hell didn't understand (like electricity when touched). He was young as well as was I. He played some games and I choose to leave the situation. Honestly its life and its in the past. We live and we learn. Much love, and thanks for the awesome reading.

  • @redrumax
    @redrumax 2 роки тому +1

    PIle 2 The Cloak. Scary. Yes, he has been diagnosed with Narcissism and your reading is scarily accurate. Only he is not a scary person, appears quite sweet until he hurts you.

  • @akasaliving
    @akasaliving 2 роки тому +1

    Number 3... yes Twin Flames and it's very sad...
    So much love... I have to believe there will be healing...

  • @Bharani_Mata_Hari_44
    @Bharani_Mata_Hari_44 3 роки тому +4

    pile 2 father, pile 3 mother.......so done

  • @Carvgoo
    @Carvgoo Місяць тому

    Pile 1. I cut a close friend, but now I only send them blessings and light from far away. Hope she find herself and learn how to heal in proper manner. I did what I had to do .

  • @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd
    @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd 2 роки тому +1

    # 2 he did not work amazingly hard but he certainly did drink amazingly hard.

  • @cintia6849
    @cintia6849 4 місяці тому

    I chose 2 different people and decks. Each one was scarily accurate.
    I don’t know how you do this!!!
    Thank you, I needed this closure!

  • @marylou2993
    @marylou2993 2 роки тому +2

    Pile no 2 : I have been in a relationship with this person for 22 yrs... we have 3 children...and now I have decided that it's enough... I do not have any more to give..thank you ever so much White Feather....so so accurate... Forever grateful for what I have just heard...🧡🧡🧡...even if it is very hard to listen ..but that's the truth...

  • @tejasvilankapalli5647
    @tejasvilankapalli5647 3 роки тому +3

    pile 2 : So no matter what I do.. say and how much time and affection and attention.. I give or try to make him understand.. my side.. my feelings.. it's never gonna be ENOUGH 😭😭😭 ..it's probably never gonna be RECIPROCATED that's what hurts soooo much...😭
    I knew that he's a very nice person... in the first place ..so I TRUSTED him and his past trust issues broke my trust 😖😖😖
    in the End.
    So at present ..I feel like I'm in the same place as him... and I'm feeling very scared.... for my future.... for the FIRST TIME IN EVER 😖😖
    I found that I have abandonment issues too.. but they never bothered me so much... until now.. this is something extreme 😖😖
    I don't feel like myself.... I need to get back to myself... I'm having negative thoughts and intrusive thoughts and anxiety and depression.. everything bad inside my mind... somehow.. the purity and innocence of my soul feels detached...
    please help me and advice me on my situation .
    thank you soooo very much for confirming through this reading... 🤗🤗🤗😍😍😍 .
    grateful for you 🙏🙏 .
    p. s
    please advise me on my situation... and how to deal with the aftermath of this relationship.?

  • @BriTheEarthAngel
    @BriTheEarthAngel 3 роки тому +3

    Pile 3: Yeah, they always had something to say about my character behind the scenes, I did see a good soul inside of them and still do. I had only wished they realized it instead of making me their competition or enemy. My pain went deep because it felt like my own soul family was hurting me, and that agony did not just hurt skin deep, this was felt energetically and cosmically... but I am taking the advice and have been working on those projections and hurt. To not take these swords as a reflection of my character. Thank you so much, you're very wise... 🤍

  • @alisakvs
    @alisakvs 3 роки тому +2

    I am coming out of the dark night of the soul, I was very confused when all the emotions, triggers and realization came out. I thought I was losing my mind seeing these underlining detail in people's intention that are closed to me and how I just took it in and not set boundaries for myself. I choose each of the piles for 3 different friends and they are spot on. It confirms that I wasn't losing my mind, though now I'm a bit worried that I may not have real friends around me. I am setting better boundaries for myself, and I do hope that they will be able to discern and grow as well. Your readings have helped me in many ways, thank you so much for sharing.

  • @noelsmaison685
    @noelsmaison685 3 роки тому +1

    Pile one: so on point!!! He abandoned me because he was afraid of being abandoned. He’s very insecure and it kept triggering him.

  • @barb6525
    @barb6525 2 роки тому +2

    Pile 3, for my father. At first I thought I had picked the wrong pile, as it didn't resonate with the jealousy part, but I stayed, and I'm glad for that.
    It's a long story, but I eventually said that he needed to own the challenge we faced, with him making me feel left out, not good enough etc, after I had left my door open for him noumerous times, dissapointing me again and again.
    He thought I owned the problem too and didn't see his part in it at all as far as I know.
    So the last 9 years of his life he lived by, and told others that I didn't want to make up, I didn't want to see him, yes I told him that I have had enough, and that I didn't want to see him before he could see his responsibility, but him not taking it in just confirmed that he didn't want to take the responsibility as my father.
    He has hurt me tremendously with his behaviour, but I also have grown tremendously from it.
    He died last year, and even when he was dying he didn't make any effort to make up, and I refused to crawl back to forgive him again.
    Really sad story, but again; I have grown tremendously as well ❤️

  • @jds361
    @jds361 3 роки тому +5

    Pile #1 - my mother, Pile #2 - my spouse & boss, Pile #3 - my sister. Your readings are from the heart... I can feel or sense your closeness. Thank you very much. xx

  • @annablade5727
    @annablade5727 2 роки тому +1

    Group number 3. 🦋🐞🌻✌🏼🦄🤞🏻🙏🏻Again we meet under these tough circumstances. My mother is who you speak of. It is really sad… She is jealous of me. I Am her daughter and she left me. I raised myself. I taught myself, dropped out of 11th grade and moved to Hawaii at 18. Now that I Am successful and I did it with out her, she is floored and beside her self. I Am a happy Cappy who took her power and regained her VOICE. IT IS FEIRCE.
    Love, light and more laughter please!
    Your Soul sister,
    Anna

  • @tewheke4186
    @tewheke4186 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 3: My partner, he has broke my soul. I never thought I would be with another person and be able to trust someone again. He broke my trust and has a problem with anger and his drinking makes it so terrible, that the police were called. I never saw this and he never showed me it. He is my twin flame, so I have chosen to work at it. However, he is not of the same awareness about our connection. He is battling between the light and the dark, but now it has become toxic, my energy levels can't cope with it. He triggers the domestic violence situation with my ex. Feel so low, whatever have I fine for him to treat me like this 😔

  • @jamalkinda8182
    @jamalkinda8182 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 3 yes it's a sad sad situation. But it's definitely a blessing in disguise. I do love him and he loves me too but we are not on the same page or level of growth. I do really wish him well and thank him deeply for helping me see my manifestation capacity and my birth right. He is soul family but we both have our own paths of learning to follow. Blessings. You did a personal reading for me once i am Ingrid from Namibia

  • @miraheil5521
    @miraheil5521 2 роки тому

    Pile no.1 my mother and I. It took 50+ years in this lifetime for me to understand this relationship. She still wants to be me. Enough.

  • @awake78
    @awake78 3 роки тому +5

    I need to add that Reem is helping us to understand ourselves through these readings 💜
    For me personally it’s like a psychology treatment after being hurt so badly by my person. And obviously I allowed it to happen 🎭
    Thank you Reem - I find your method easy to understand as pictures together with words seem to work best for my brain 🧠 😊🤓

    • @whitefeathertarot
      @whitefeathertarot  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words 🙏😊❤️ It is really my intention ❤️

  • @NuriaRodriguezSerrano
    @NuriaRodriguezSerrano 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 2. My loyalty makes me feel bad to say who he is. But, Yes, it's My reality. In my family things weren't very healthy. This is the truth. Now, I'm who I am becouse of this Hugh experience. My Values are who I Am. Not my experience or how others treated me. ❤🙏 thanks Reem🙏

  • @alejandrabonita8355
    @alejandrabonita8355 3 роки тому +1

    pile 1 yes he was a narcissist . Treated me very badly and i was very kind to him. yes taught me to have more boundaries with people. i hope you are right that he is seeing his bad behaviour and trying to change.

  • @NotebookMapofLemon
    @NotebookMapofLemon 7 місяців тому

    WHY STAY WHERE U R WHEN U CAN GROW!!!!! Thank u Reem for saying this. This is gonna be my 2024 motto

  • @sarahdimas857
    @sarahdimas857 4 місяці тому

    Pile 2 Resonates!!! Thx U...this guy in my class harrasded me for years and the school I went to didn’t do anything about it, werid exsperince but I'm praying for ✌️ peace

  • @MyownAccountisHere
    @MyownAccountisHere 2 місяці тому

    #2. Yes. He was raised with an alcoholic father who beat his mom. Then a stepmother. Poverty, he had no clothes and had to steal food. I miss him and feel so bad for what has happened to him. I actually blocked him because I couldn’t deal with his toxic behavior, I had to protect myself because it was getting out of control. It hurts so much. I wish I could help him. I wish we could still be together.

  • @sharadha7957
    @sharadha7957 2 роки тому +1

    can't tell you how scarily accurate this was, plie 2

  • @miraheil5521
    @miraheil5521 2 роки тому +1

    And just as I decided to watch this reading, you posted new one. 12 min. Ago. It is beautiful. And 110 k people that follow you. You are amazing

  • @ullisfe1039
    @ullisfe1039 2 роки тому +2

    Pile 1, Thank you, You are so Amazing every time. True that one grows from confronting difficult people. Some how I’ve run in to several of them the past year🤷🏼‍♀️, so it must meen Im growing lots and help them grow aswell. Massive love to you and i really mean it.🧚‍♀️

  • @aliciacheshire3134
    @aliciacheshire3134 Рік тому

    Pile 3. It’s my son…..I can’t put into words how painful this relationship has been for me!! It don’t feel like I can walk away from him; he’s my son! He is 21 now…he constantly attacks me & seems like he wants to destroy me. I love him so much it hurts; deeply!! No other relationship effects me so much. I see & feel his light, love & greatness & try to overlook his darkness, but I just can’t seem to draw it out of him. I feel so desperate to make things work, but I can’t cope with it anymore. I’ve even fell into suicidal tendencies over not being connected with him - he continually rejects me. I’m trying my hardest to not get triggered & effected by his aggression, disrespect & coldness. I’m far from perfect; but all I’ve done is love him 💓

  • @dazzlingeyes2013
    @dazzlingeyes2013 11 місяців тому

    Pile 1: this was insane 😮 yes....that was it. And I did learn boundaries, how to not idealize and not think that everyone is honest just cuz I am. Thank u❤

  • @emy6212626
    @emy6212626 Рік тому

    #3, I felt so sad about these people who treated me this way. People can get envious, but that doesn't give them excuse to hurt people or lie to others.

  • @saradonbailey1980
    @saradonbailey1980 3 роки тому +1

    “The Outsider” card and the 6 of cups card coming up in the same reading is very interesting for me personally. Instantly, for me, I saw the outsider card representing a child who was peering in from the outside of a cemetery. The person I asked about- his dad died in his youth. He never truly got closure from it. In the 6 of cups card, I saw a child and adult man separated. It made me think of his dad being in the afterlife and this person deeply grieving and missing his father. I always believed he pushes people away because of his grief abs fear of losing people he loves. Spot on reading! All of it! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jmunemann9548
    @jmunemann9548 2 роки тому +1

    I was called to 3, then to listen to 2, he was my first love, and it fits 100%. I know he needs to heal deep childhood wounds and has a disassociative and avoidant personality. I learned boundaries, self respect and to stop being co dependent because of our relationship. In me he found someone who would always love him, but would put themselves first and require respectful behaviour. I’m the only person that broke up with him. I know I can’t do anything for him in anyway, I have no expectation of anything with him, karma/ darma are served

  • @krisztina442
    @krisztina442 2 роки тому +2

    Pile #2... my narcissistic mother-in-law and Pile #3 .... my narcissistic ex-neighbour and her circle. Both readings are very accurate. My mother-in-law was probably spoiled by her parents, she was probably told that she was an exceptional, special person but later life didn't justify that. She was probably not admired by men, she was cheated on later and this might be the reason why she definitely hates women. Too much competition and comparison for her. My ex-neighbour probably thought she was the center of the Universe but nothing really proved that. I never hurt her but telling the truth we are like two different worlds. Like a blooming rose compared to some weeds... Both people caused me huge moral damage with their smearing, they had no right to do that. So I'm sorry but I've had enough of them, no more, thank you!
    Anyway, I love that song: 'Sorry seems to be the hardest word' by Elton John. 'It's a sad, sad situation...' Your reading confirmed everything, thank you!

    • @Lyrielonwind
      @Lyrielonwind 2 роки тому +1

      That song depress me every time I heard it. I chose pile 2 for my late father and 3 for my mother (no contact); both narcissists made hell out of my life and I hope this is my last reencarnation; I am tired about not finding genuine, good people. Wishing you the best.

  • @bosslady8983
    @bosslady8983 3 роки тому +3

    #3 My baby brother. We love each other, I've grown but he is still so angry. I know he admires me but I've been to hell and back. He doesn't know how much I admire him too. ❣❣❣ Thanks for this reading. ON POINT AS USUAL!!!💙💙💙

  • @followthesigns1396
    @followthesigns1396 3 роки тому +4

    I picked each pile for different people and you got ALL three in do much detail. Amazing👏👏👏👏

  • @Carmen04983
    @Carmen04983 28 днів тому

    Pile 2.- just as it was, a very toxic relationship which was making me very unhappy until l was able to break free from it. More than one year and a half of 0 contact. During this time he tried a few times to hoover me back but l already knew he had become a covered narcisist due to hard childhood and kept the no contact. You right, this relationship helped me to heal and grow due to personal work.

  • @jungleroar7157
    @jungleroar7157 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 2 : I lost myHusband 5 years back , we were not getting along very well. He had ADHD and was an alcoholic. Still stumbling into things about him which are further leaving me very heartbroken. I just wonder why such people want to marry someone if they only want to gaslight you.

  • @CarlaSophieMar
    @CarlaSophieMar 3 роки тому +5

    I felt this reading deeply! Somehow still needed this kind of "closure". Thank you so much! Pile 3 resonates, point by point 👌 Our connection did trigger our wounds, much pain, and there was no other way than for each one of us to hold onto the lessons. It's what we're here for! Always learning... Always evolving...

  • @moonmist7854
    @moonmist7854 2 роки тому +2

    Dear White feather, this reading no3 is so accurate tat is almost unbelievable, but then all your readings are outstanding and the empathy and peace that you always transmit is a wonderful gift for everyone.

  • @MrChen-Lee
    @MrChen-Lee Рік тому

    Pile 1.. was so accurate it gave me goosebumps 😢

  • @aliciacheshire3134
    @aliciacheshire3134 Рік тому

    Pile 2 is my mom! Lost for words right now; the coldness, rejection, abandonment & manipulation from her has been deeply painful. Even to the point where she has had dark influences in my life especially towards destroying my most precious relationships. I have constantly forgiven & loved her. I’m becoming wiser in handling dealings with her & have accepted that she has never really cared for me. I’m so happy to hear my perception is accurate; your insight has clarified what I already know deep down. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @petrafenijn2569
    @petrafenijn2569 6 місяців тому

    And pile 3!
    Yess,that is very revealing and comforting.Actually I am so afraid of him,or,in fact,people who seem to want to destroy me completely.Feeling as if I get paralise (sorry for my bad Englisch) or even die.

  • @itsme9489
    @itsme9489 Рік тому

    3 - wow, spot on. Work reading, amazing! Please can you do a reading for Grievance outcome. My management have been bullying the hell out of me and my company didn’t support me.

  • @jadasales6681
    @jadasales6681 Рік тому

    Pile 3. I’ve had so many readings tell me that this person hurt me so bad, and I kept being like why? How. I don’t feel hurt by them. I hurt them. And so when I seen this reading, I was like “why do the cards keep saying this person hurt me.” And as you’re reading them it’s dawned on me how much I’ve dimmed my light. And now that they’re exiting my life, how much of my light I’m bringing back into myself. It’s gonna be a long journey to be 100% (which I know I always was 100%, but when you sun your light for so long it gets scary to shine) again, after everything that has taken place, but I’m ready for the adventure. Life is about to be like a movie seen, the montage of the “glow up” the “ugly” girls get in chick flicks. Lol, be ready world. Here I come !

  • @msbrunataylor5125
    @msbrunataylor5125 3 роки тому +1

    #1 So spot on again. The person is my mother. As far as I can remember I never had a good relationship with her, even though I tried and there was always a disconnect. The relationship was abusive even well into my 40's and I am now 54. I chose to not have a relationship as it is irreparable and it has been 9 years and I am thriving. Everything u said resonates and I also have thought we are both learning lessons for our spiritual growth. Thanku for this reading and all the other readings. 💕🌻

  • @blondescorpion8940
    @blondescorpion8940 Рік тому

    Pile 3: my big boss. My dad worked for him 25 years ago. And told me he was an asshole then. I did exactly what you said. I refuse to put him on a pedestal.

  • @rebeccaavey3342
    @rebeccaavey3342 3 роки тому +2

    #2 about my Mom.. right in the money!!! # 1 about a friend I finally figured out was lying the entire time .. #3 my older sister... always comparing and jealous and backbiting and never honestly owning it!!!

  • @CharvaunShana
    @CharvaunShana 3 роки тому +3

    Pile 1: awww you’re so sweet thank you. You basically just confirmed what I was feeling. I believe he’s my twin flame. We met in November and are in separation and I believe it’s because we’re in a healing phase of the relationship. I’ve been focusing on my career for this reason.

  • @petrafenijn2569
    @petrafenijn2569 6 місяців тому

    Pile 2
    That is my Mother.
    It seems to be a lifelong recovering from childhood for me,but I have learned a lot.
    We are in very low contact now,have been in no contact when my children were small,to the utter rage of my whole family.But we wanted to protect the children.I is still hard to say she,or my parents were like that,it is a huge accusation,but yes...and I could not change them also .

  • @swesmaseesurrun196
    @swesmaseesurrun196 8 місяців тому

    Completely reasonate with me pile numbers 3 ,he make me realize self love ,when i teach him love unconditionally in any situation but still we separated

  • @mj2you22
    @mj2you22 Рік тому

    Pile #2 It is my son...it is sadder than I can say and is my biggest regret. Thank you for your insight...it was spot on. It breaks my heart but we haven't spoken for 10+ years. It is what it is and nothing more I can do.

  • @architadash8957
    @architadash8957 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 3 ThankYou

  • @anitayoung8543
    @anitayoung8543 Рік тому

    Spot on reading that's my sister. For years she hates me, but now I help her she's on drugs. Everything you say it's so true. You are blessed with your talent. Thank you so much I wish I could meet you. Thank a Wow

  • @rzenvie9089
    @rzenvie9089 3 роки тому +2

    Pile #2 wow describes my mom accurately. Thank you for this reading and for your insight!

  • @theresabogart15
    @theresabogart15 10 місяців тому

    THIS reading (Pile #3) was as though you had done it for me and me only...thank you...

  • @VisionaryVoit
    @VisionaryVoit 2 роки тому

    #2: I broke up with my fiancé. Incredibly heart breaking decision, I didn’t make it lightly. I was hurt very bad for about a year straight and finally got to courage to stand up for myself. I was on the verge of not doing well.. where working was damn near impossible. Do anything was. Every since I made that decision is become a lot easier. I’m getting myself back. And trying to forgive him for everything. Despite how much he hurt, I love him. I think I always will. But it’s a love that needs to be done from a distance. I wish I could be that person for him, but like you said, he needs to decide for himself to do the healing. My heart breaks for him… it truly does. I’ll always have such a soft spot for him. I pray for him ✨ And my healing too!

  • @Dzkhadouj
    @Dzkhadouj 3 роки тому +2

    Pile 2, you were spot on. Thank u for the reading

  • @lucylightshinebright8996
    @lucylightshinebright8996 3 роки тому +2

    Pile 2 you perfectly describe this person for me, I should have left a long time ago but I have a child with this person and for the reason I don't want to be alone because of anxiety I decided to stay 19 yes and I'm still with this person

    • @Aronoel31
      @Aronoel31 3 роки тому +5

      Please make plans to leave. You will damage your child.😔♥️

    • @winnieamar9368
      @winnieamar9368 Рік тому

      Same situation!Don't want to stay any longer,feel sad in leaving as well.. 17 yrs of connection!

  • @mca3001
    @mca3001 2 роки тому +1

    Pile2. Just Amazing reading .You hit the nail on the head about my dad. We all love him so much, he gives away such noble vibes, great ideas and books , everyone admires him , but just like you said, he plans quietly and attacks in a way that we cannot recover. Nor can we be mad at him since then we will look bad. He always has an escape route. Like you said he hurts without a heart and we cannot even cry . I have managed to create some distance and take care of myself . My mom and my sister are complete victims of him and try to do everything for him and love him most, but he treats them like crap. My brother is so hurt by him and wants to bash him out , and tried ,and failed ,is so stuck and in pain himself since he wants to protect/save my mom but my mom will not leave him . It is a tough tough situation and I hope nobody has to deal with this kind of a person in their lives. If you can give any further advice , especially to my brother, I would be very grateful.
    I used to not believe much in tarot etc, but since I have found you, I find your readings to be healing me. They seem to give clarity and assurance on what I am doing right, and I find them to be healing and restorative. You are a blessed soul and thank you for your work dear.🙏

  • @missniki4890
    @missniki4890 2 роки тому +1

    #2.... describes almost EVERYONE in my life....I still do my best to love them. I feel defeated

  • @Thechildofthemoon1
    @Thechildofthemoon1 2 роки тому +1

    This resonated so much!! Pile nr 1 is exactly what happened

  • @jocilynjohnson1626
    @jocilynjohnson1626 Рік тому

    Thank you everything you said was spot on. I was Dealing with a narcissist for two years-and it was painful. It taught me a lot. Although I’d never wish Ill on anyone it brings me peace knowing he just won’t find what he thought I was lacking until he looks T himself.
    I put Him on a pedestal but the truth is, is I have always had more tact and integrity than him. It’s painful seeing him be with someone else, doing all the things I’ve wanted to do together, and that I deserve but I take my losses head on and do my best with what I have now.

  • @keertisaxena9696
    @keertisaxena9696 Рік тому

    I wish he heals and comes back.

  • @AzizaBrowne
    @AzizaBrowne 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 2. Very accurate. It’s a manager of a rental property company. She’s insane. And has been bullying me online for 1.5 years. I finally made a video here on UA-cam exposing her so she would stop.
    Your explanation of her behavior gave me some comfort. Thank you 🙏

  • @TheVioletMagic29
    @TheVioletMagic29 Рік тому

    I already left him but watched out of curiosity and it confirmed what I already knew. Pile #2 He was a narcissist who really hurt me but I learnt so so much from the experience despite all the pain.

  • @ms-lr5vn
    @ms-lr5vn 3 роки тому +3

    #3🌹i know he has been spying on me and asking about me. He ruined everything by being disgustingly mean to me for no reason

  • @francescaextracrispy3912
    @francescaextracrispy3912 2 роки тому

    Pile 2. From the beginning I saw and loved in him this small child. He is very dear to me. May be blessed. This is one of the best readings even if it is sad and frustrating

  • @CharvaunShana
    @CharvaunShana 3 роки тому +1

    Pile 3: yeah. I asked about an ex best friend I had to cut off because of exactly what you said. You’re so good. 100 spot on. Loved her dearly but caught her on camera talking shit about me behind my back and when I would tell people what happened to make me stop talking to someone I was so close to everyone told me she was jealous. I didn’t want to believe it I guess I can’t deny it anymore. I considered her a sister. And I knew she was part of my soul tribe. I guess it was just for the lessons.

  • @nalinasjourneytomanifestin5226
    @nalinasjourneytomanifestin5226 3 роки тому +2

    Hi! I chose all 3 piles ( 1 pile for each person who hurts me). I just listened to the first 2 piles and I have to stop the video and write you this comment. It IS SO ACCURATE that it scares me. Thank you so much for making this video.
    Pile 1 was for my mother-in-law and sister-in-law who treat me badly. But it's true what you say. They compare themselves to me and I also feel that they deep inside think that I'm luckier than them.
    For Pile number 2, that's my husband. It's so true again. He always hurts me no matter how much love I give to him. It seems that he does not appreciate what I'm doing at all. And yes, he only "gives" me breadcrumbs, enough to live on. I thought I know him, but sometimes I think I don't. It's because of his "cloak." I suspected that he must be holding a lot of pain from the past and that's why he's doing this on people. We do have a very cute son together who is 2 years old, almost 3. And I do really want to keep my family together. But many times I think that I might feel a lot freer without him. When he's nice, he's very nice. But his mood changes often. He gets irritated easily.
    I think I'd like to have a private reading with you to get more guidance. Thank you so much.

  • @giselabordacahar2335
    @giselabordacahar2335 2 роки тому +1

    I know this video was uploaded many months ago but I choose #1 for a connection with someone that did not work out and let me tell you it is shocking how accurate. Thanks this gives me peace and helps me with the healing process 💜

  • @cindyluna2011
    @cindyluna2011 Рік тому

    This is Cindy dear one, I listened to pile # 2 first which is completely my husband, unfortunately. Then I listened to #1 which reminded me greatly of my daughter , unfortunately. But, I am happy to know that he will know how very much he hurt me. Everything that you said I have said to him about him. And because no one but me knows how he is truly it was comforting to hear it from someone else. Because of my child and them my Cancer fights I had no choice but to deal. It has been BRUTAL. But I see everything clearly and my bleeding has stopped. Another g eat reading ☺️.

  • @vetrikaa
    @vetrikaa 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 2 still goin through hope to find a way out soon thank you dear :)

  • @miladaud9376
    @miladaud9376 Рік тому

    Pile 1 spot on
    Pile 2 spot on, my very own parent, my last encounter with this person I was screaming with so much pain, saying that I need to heal & get treated, but only responded with meaner words, completely deflecting away from the situation. Thank God I have finally moved away.
    Pile 3 spot on, it is very sad, I know deep inside she loves my friendship but unfortunately I can’t deal with her immaturity and how she only aims to be better than me, where I only thrive to be better myself, she also has a mother and a husband who are both interfering and very jealous because they like to be at the top but they’re not people that I would admire, hence the reason it bothers them that I’m not in competition with them.

    • @miladaud9376
      @miladaud9376 Рік тому

      Thank you Reem this cleared up a lot of things for me, and helped me and reassured me that I am finally making the right decisions towards these toxic people.

  • @daj5266
    @daj5266 2 роки тому +1

    #1 happy Cappy here you are right on point about my eldest narcissistic brother who tried to control me all of my life & it made a very strong person cuz from the time I was a child ( I'm the youngest ) I refused to be controlled & unlike the rest of my family( except for my dad) so being rebellious against being controlled I'm certain saved me from accepting bad behavior from anyone & being able to spot a narcissist Im also certain saved me from ever being in abusive relationships ! But iv never seen any evidence of me helping him in any way ,shape or form cause as far as I know he prob still is an evil human being but I honestly have no idea cause that is between him & GOD

  • @hsin-chiehpeng3363
    @hsin-chiehpeng3363 2 роки тому +1

    Pile 2. your words hit right in the face. I aware all of the situation, but cannot describe it clearly. I am working my-self away from those people.