Juliana's FINAL DAYS (REDO)
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- I decided to delete the video, I posted, of Juliana's final days and remove certain scenes. As of today, December 7, 2016, Johns Hopkins Hospital has yet to provide us with a logical reason why Juliana's health declined so rapidly starting on October 20, 2016.
She started a rapid decline the evening of October 20th and EVERYONE told us it was the result of the pain medications. We want the truth. She died on October 24. As of today, Johns Hopkins is refusing to have another meeting with us to address some of our questions regarding her death as they couldn't answer a few of our questions in our first meeting which we initiated. NO ONE, FROM THE HOSPITAL, TOLD US SHE WAS GOING TO DIE SOON. She was scheduled to start new cancer treatment on October 26th.
NO ONE contacted us, from the hospital, after her death (except for a doctor and a nurse coming to the last viewing)...NO ONE. It was like we didn't even exist. Yesterday, the hospital said they will send us a letter in the next thirty days to explain how and why she died. We deserve the truth. We deserve answers. There was something that happened between Thursday (October 20) and Friday (October 21) the day she was discharged from the hospital. We can't be the only family who has had a similar situation happen to their child.
The gaping hole in Tammy's heart and my heart is growing and growing every day. We don't know what happened...for sure. We want the truth.
Love you all!
I was born in the same year as her, i turned 18 just a couple of moths ago, I never realized how lucky i am, just to be here, just to be healthy. Rest In Peace little angel.
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I’m thankful for being on this earth so many families go through this and it’s so sad
I am diagnosed with **** don’t want to talk about it I don’t do no treatment, May God keep you healthy and same goes for others amen🙏
Not lucky blessed
She had the death rattle in her breathing. Her lil body was tired. Rest easy sweetie
Roxelle The Great yea she did. U could easily tell how bad she was suffering, at least the dog was w/ her showing her love. Hope she found some comforting w/ her fur baby. Poor baby. Id be cuddled up w/ her till she passed.
Rest
Ik heb met verbazing een stukje gekeken van de opname van het stervende meisje. Hoe kan je als ouder zo iets filmen. Dit is zo privé in mijn ogen. Waarom gingen de ouders niet naast haar liggen haar knuffelen en haar kussen. De enige die ervoor haar echt was is het hondje. Rust in vrede lief dapper meisje
Jams La at least the dog? Are You Trying to insinuate her Parents didn’t Love her. Jesus how cruel Are you?
@@Italian_girl89 I thought the same thing why wasn't the child back in the hospital,? Too many people in the room and everyone asking questions like she could talk and answer back
I was a cancer nurse for adults, and one thing all family members do is try to “feed” their loved ones as they think it will give them strength! We used to take the water etc away once the patient was loosing consciousness as families would still try to give it to them causing them to aspirate.
I don’t understand why this family were not given mouth swabs to moisten her lips. They are flavoured and can be used safely to moisten the mouth, or If you want to moisten the lips and mouth please do it using a sponge in tiny amounts to avoid aspirated pneumonia.
Unfortunately no one can tell you how long someone will last & this is common during cancer treatment that patients will take a sudden turn for the worse but the family should have been told that she would be going home to pass away not to recover & if they were not told that the signs were obviously there l, then the hospital is negligent.
It is the morphine that aids a painful death and when given in the hospital it’s the build up that slows the breathing down with added sedative that gives a peaceful passing.
This family should have been given mouth swabs and a machine to administer morphine & sedative so she wasn’t waking and was peaceful.
I’ve given many patients a very peaceful passing from cancer and it can be a very pain free peaceful passing if done properly & can be done in the home with family around them.
If this family were not told that the signs, when she left the hospital were that she would be going home to pass, then this hospital was very negligent and should have to give answers why she was not discharged with the meds etc to have a peaceful passing with her family and her little dog Maddy.
I struggled to watch this video as a nurse & a mother, as it could have been far more peaceful for Juliana and her family, and with the right advice & equipment to give her a far more peaceful passing.
Passing does not have to be painful, it can be done peacefully but it must be planned and it must be with medication which unfortunately means your loved one will be unconscious and will not regain consciousness but it will be peaceful. it also can only happen if the family are ready for that and understand that to pass peacefully they will be unconscious which is the hardest part for families to except. The hardest part is accepting the signs and knowing it’s time to give up the fight & now time to say goodbye and give them the best passing we possibly can, free of pain surrounded by their loved ones surrounded by love.
My heart goes out to this family and what they had to go through watching her pass this way 😢💔 RIP Juliana 💔xx
This was the best comment I have read. You are a great nurse. I have had many Hospice patients pass very peacefully.
My mom died of cancer 12 years ago and she died in the hospital and they gave her morphine for the pain which helped her so I agree.
I really struggled watching 😢 for the same reasons my heart is torn nobody prepared them!
I totally agree with you.
@@eruncensoredI think they did and they were in denial.
Juliana was already dying when Miss America visited her at hospital 😢
Her skin color changed and she struggled to breathe and stay awake. Poor sweet soul.
I agree. I noticed she had mottling in her videos a day or 2 before, and then when Miss America was visiting ,it looked like she started going through agonal breathing.
My heart goes out to her parents, as I know this is not anything any parent wants to go through.
@@rachelreid8621 Miss American need to gtfo
I thought the same thing ❤
She was on morphine and some other drug when miss America was there.
And at 15:10 during actively dying the Mom says “she starts treatment next Wednesday” like SHE IS DYING… let her go and be pain free.
2 days before she died and she was still smiling at the camera. What a sweet soul
Yes, she was something of extra special ❤️
Was hoping she would beat this
@@Italian_girl89 you can see her color change grayish
@@torimig2151 so?
@@torimig2151 yes, she was already dying when Miss America visited her at hospital 😢
I am a hospice nurse, no one no one has the right to tell her family what they should do unless they have walked in these parents shoes for a mile
Rest in piece with God, where their isn’t any pain . Thank you God for this brave child.
I couldn't agree more, I have so much respect for the parents who have terminally ill children, and the hospice nurses and doctors. You are all amazing xx
I lost my first uncle cancer and lost my grandma to cancer and Alzheimer’s
Piece? Really?
Totally agree, and I have done hospice cases as well. Very hard for her to suffer, as well the family and to feel helpless. You do all you can, seek all the help you can. Then it comes down to the ( Cancer) illness, prognosis, her body, immune system, treatments available, the effects of those treatments, chemo, radiation, medication and etc. And perhaps some spirituality as well.
begin to realize that we are only animals who get sick and in the eyes of the universe we are nothing.*Ps any god doesn't exists
Im not sure i would want to be put all over UA-cam dying :(
I told my friend and my mother that if there is anything in my dying process that could help someone, PLEASE video it and post it where ever they want (including UA-cam). Because if there is anything in my life or death that can help even one person then everything I went through has been worth it.
I didn't want to be the one to say it, but since you did I agree, it's odd.....she's like a zombie painting fish or something....laugh with her a little. When I'm dying don't drug me up and give me a paint brush.
The more you put fluid in her mouth the more fluid seeped in her lungs. The body has no strength anymore to flex the way it needs to fully pass things through.
She needed medicine that could sedate her so she could have passed in peace, completely pain free.
Animals do know when something is with there owner..thats why the dog keeps licking her...
One can clearly see that mom is trying to control her tears trying hard to look brave in front of the daughter god bless
Patti Lanni And what ? (Et alors) ?
Che dispiacere !!
Juliana you were a fighter I can never forget your brave smile in front of the camera inspite feeling so much of pain .
Rest in peace, love from india .
@@brandieubanks8980 it is her daughter ...she adopted her so that is her. Legal daughter shame on you to come on this page to be ugly on a family who shared their daughters last days
@@brandieubanks8980 spend some time broadening your vocabulary! There was no need in jumping on this lady for her comment, there was nothing ugly or hurtful said! As a Mom of a daughter that has fought cancer twice now, it is okay to cry with your babies and communicate that we adults are scared or hurting too. I pray u never have to face a day like this family has!! Another tip if u wanna troll get off videos of parents sharing intimate and personal time with their sick child bc there are Mothers out here watching to prepare themselves for similar situations!
One the saddest videos I've ever seen. But what an amazing young girl she was and how strong she was with all she went through. How she fought so hard to fight this illness and won only to have it come back again, and again. She deserves a medal for her bravery and the battle against cancer. It was so sad that she just couldnt fight it anymore. RIP Juliana with your angel wings and no more pain.
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This is disturbing. That little girl should have been in hospice. She’s gasping for air why are you shoving tea down her throat??? I truly hope to god that she wasn’t suffering in the end.
She was. The father kicked them out. He deleted that video.
@@juniordixie9489 Was there a video showing more of her final day or something? I keep seeing people discuss how hard it was to watch, more than this "redo" video.
@@pigtailsandteddybears there was but the dad deleted parts of the family telling her it was ok to go to heaven
God she was in so much pain at the end. They should have had her sedated and let her pass peacefully. God that’s torture. I can’t even imagine how she felt all she could do was moan uh huh. Truly devastating. May she Rest In Peace and live peacefully in heaven.
It's not mourning because of pain. It is life leaving the body, body functions driving down, air leaving the airway...it's more like a pipe. People who are under strong pain meds do this when they die. Complete sedating is depriving the human of the time he/she needs to let go of life.
I agree
Why couldn't the doctors sedate the poor sweet child
Her suffering is heartbreaking
And you are a dumbass. In the end they keep them comfortable with morphine every 2 hours. Noises and moaning doesnt mean she was suffering. Just the bodies process.... That surringe she gave her multiple times was morphine.
@@kB5TVP Tammy said it was raspberry tea not morphine
Miyuki Jades I’m not sure any of us privileged to witness these final days need to use the word ‘should’ in any of our comments. This family have walked a very long and challenging road are are definitely qualified to make decisions that work for them. Do we need to assume that the parents and the 14 year old have never discussed end of life interventions available?
That dog just knew
Yeah dogs can sense cancer
@@Kitkat.hvbbbb cats also. The year before mom passed away to the dreaded "C" her pet cat would often go into her room meowing. At the time mom was not diagnosed with cancer yet. On the night she passed away I was on the cell phone talking to one of mom's friends. The cat began meowing non stop again in the background. Her friend said "is that a baby" crying in the background. I said no. Its her cat grieving her passing. Animals can sense sadness and grief like we humans can do.
@@Kitkat.hvbbbb they sense a lot. My dog knew that I was pregnant. I thought I might be, but she would never leave my side from the moment I get home to the moment I'd leave the house.
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I’m 68 and lost my husband when he was aged 63 to cancer. We thought we were so unlucky, and we were but when I see these children going through cancer eight times before dying my heart goes out to them and their parents.
Hello jean how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family
I feel the same way. So sorry about your husband.
I lost my husband who was 39 to cancer he fought it for 10 years at the end of it he was at such a peace because of his faith but he was also blessed because we had a great hospice nurses .I would also lose my mother and my father 2 and 3 years later to cancer as well. I would not want to watch my child suffer and die from this awful disease. It is so heartbreaking maybe one day they will find a way to cure this disease. Prayers sent.
As I study to become a hospice nurse I really wished someone would have told the parents the truth that she was actively dying and it was time to just make her comfortable. It Seems these parents weren’t properly prepared and it makes my heart hurt. They really thought they would be able to get her more treatment. These beautiful parents did the best they knew to do and I know she thanks them for it. So beautiful mom was right by her side rubbing her into the next realms. Fly high beautiful angel❤
I disagree with you because god is not though yet and maybe they already know but Jesus Christ is powerful
@@PaulTrawickwhy would God allow this?
I do agree there could have been a lot more better communication between the parents and the hospital. The doctors didn't properly explain to them that she was nearing the end and the parents didn't properly handle it as a result. I'm not blaming them and ultimately, cancer is the real evil here. I'm sure everyone involved has some regrets and wish they would have done things differently.💔
@@Jessica-wo6pxja,auf jeden Fall hätte sie im Hospiz ein "friedlicheres" Sterben gehabt...
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It breaks my heart seeing beautiful babies go through this type of situations...Rest In Peace beautiful princess
I just said this isn't right it literally tears my heart to pieces i lost my husband last July 27th 2020 from cancer they found it and he passed 50 days later he turned 55 on July 23rd 4 days later he passed his sister passed away this yr on his first Heavenly B'day July 23rd she also had cancer. I'm tired literally just tired of CANCER especially this lil ones they don't deserve to go through any of this they should be playing with Friends,riding their bikes,laughing, and all the other good stuff that kids like to do I am so sorry for the family my heart and prayers go out to you...😔🙏🏽💗🙏🏽
Its really heartbreaking.
You are an blink l am blink and army
True it’s really hurting
I guess I need to go watch more of their videos, because I'm confused. they claim they didn't know she was going to die, but they obviously took her home on hospice. she wasn't breathing well the day she got home. wouldn't you go back to the hospital If your child was gasping for breath ans you didn't know she was dying? im confused!
precious girl who fought long and hard! fly high little one!
lacey Rugg yeah you really do, you really haven’t a clue
lacey Rugg in fact in my opinion the knew she was dying...
Hospice is only for people at the end of life..they knew it.. also nobody that they expect to live gos home from ICU..
@@ivyedan7183 yes, the longer one is in ICU the less likely to survive. She was there for over a week. It makes upset that they didnt just let her sleep, instead she was forced to keep talking to the beauty pageant queen then felt the need to apologize. The parents are in DENIAL
@@aquarianlight1880 And the hospital should not have let them take her home if they couldn't handle what she needed. Sometimes doctors need to step in to do what is best for the patient even if family doesn't approve and tell the TRUTH of what is exactly going on even if it means taking action that may involve CPS and emergency guardianship. We can say the parents failed the child or the hospital failed the family and we may be correct BUT the reality is that the main person that was failed the most in this situation by BOTH parties is Juliana. She was made to suffer alone thanks to bad communication by both parties. May she rest in peace. 💙💙💙
I hope she is having a good time in heaven rest in peace :(
First of all, I want to thank you for sharing this video. However, I can’t understand why doctors or anyone from the medical facility didn’t tell you that your daughter is terminal and all she needs is hospice care at home, not another treatment in the hospital. For anyone with hospice experience, it’s obvious, she was actively dying, struggling to keep herself awake for days. And I felt she didn’t want to disappoint expectations and hope put in her. That’s why it's SO important to educate ourselves not only about how to live, but how to recognize a dying process and comfort our loved ones as best we can, according to their needs, will, and body condition. Your daughter made a heroic, but exhausting battle that no one who dies should ever be going through. Nevertheless, someone fu..ked up her right to let go.
That narcissistic father did 🤬
I agree. However, I think that almost every medical professional absolutely hates to give up, especially on a young patient. Sometimes they continue to fight long after they should.
I've watched several of these videos, and it's obvious how much these parents loved that little girl. But what is missing is conversations about what she was feeling, what she wanted. I don't hear questions of, are you in pain? Do you want to let go? Is this too much? Do you want to rest right now, instead of making a friggin' halloween pumpkin -- days before her death. An adult can assert these needs and take charge of their passing, but a kid who's battled this vile disease for nine years cannot. The medical staff should have counselled the parents about dealing with end of life issues.
I stumbled on this researching a family matter. I am going to have a hard time sleeping. I can not opinionated. Therefore, I must exit and wish all a peaceful evening. ❤
They absolutely told the parents. This is just denial after the fact. If the parents didn’t know she was actively dying, why on earth did they not call an ambulance? They didn’t because they knew there was absolutely nothing the hospital could have done for her. They knew she was at the end.
she was adopted :( that's so sad storyy, nobody deserves anything like this. Life is cruel and so unfair.
At least she was adopted into a happy and loving home with people who loved her unconditionally :>
Yes it is!!!
What’s wrong with her being adopted!?
@@Maya-hq3nv nothing, i meaning that she wasn't their biological child. She was certainly wanted and loved.
@@Maya-hq3nv girl if u woulda read the whole thing then u woulda knew what he was tryna say
You can’t tell someone on how to deal with losing their child . Just because they chose to film it doesn’t make them bad parents or not having compassion for their daughter. Death is a natural thing and a lot of people don’t even get a chance to say goodbye. They wanted to have and share the last moments of her life on film & probably for them self and to show others who might be or have gone through similar situations know that they’re not alone .
Myleshia Smith I followed her journey on FB and John was evil. He forced Julian to hang on and he used her. We’re not judging we know what we saw.
I agree, Of course a parents will video every chance they have, knowing full well they may your last memories.
Jeanne No, it was much deeper than that. You would of had to follow them from the beginning. He was seriously very controlling and a narcissist. Tons of people on his page spoke about his behavior. He basically had no relationship w/ his other kids. It was very sad to watch.
I did follow them from the beginning. 😊 Not sure what you mean , first time I ever heard that .
Nanny Slime Yes, very strange. Did you see at the funeral he was the only one who didn’t hug his kids? They never really spoke to him and they always acted scared of him.
the hospital knew juliana was dying, her parants must have been told this.thats why she was taken home.thats only my thoughts...xx
if you go back to one of the older videos, he writes at the beginning that the hospital DID, in fact, inform him.... they knew. I understand how hard it is as a parent to hear that, your brain goes into a denial.... however, that hospital treated her amazingly and did all they could....
@@chellefell1331 If they knew the parents were in denial and not accepting the circumstances, they should have realized that they couldn't have given Juliana proper care due to their states of minds. Not bashing anybody but Juliana should have remained in the hospital under these circumstances, have a nice chance to say goodbye to everybody in a peaceful, quiet manner and be placed under right pain medication and in a medically induced coma so she could pass away peacefully as her body shut down. The Carvers were not in the right headspace to help their daughter's process when they were constantly denying the obvious signs that she was dying and I think the hospital should have realized that and intervene for Juliana's sake and not let her go home. I pray for healing for everybody involved. Juliana was such a little angel who deserved more in life but is now healthy and pain free in the arms of Jesus.
Trying to give fluids during the dying process is the worst thing you can do
Why?
@@AM-tl1fc You are only ding the tissues. When my beloved Mother was dying, I asked if she could have a drink, and this was the Sister`s answer. Poor sweet little girl, such suffering ahead of that gorgeous baby they brought home.
Liquids serves no purpose. Oral swabs are very soothing.
Poor girl. Sounded like she was in pain in her last days. No way I'd like to go out like that.
I don’t want my last moments with someone forcing raspberry tea into my mouth when I’m dying
Animals know when your suffering rip in the heavens
For the love of God, let the girl sleep. I don't understand why no one asks Miss America to leave so Juliana could sleep
Mia because you have eternity for that when you die. Interactions are invaluable when you are isolated in the hospital. You don't want to miss out on something special just because you are tired.
Its weird how they ignore the fact that shes dying.
Mia right that got to me too😒
Mia you’re right when you are sick the last thing you want is talking 😞
lana maybe Juliana accepted the fact that she was dying and wasn't afraid, we all are dying in one way or another, I'm not afraid of it, I just look at it as another step in my life.
She suffered for days because you didn’t give her permission to leave. Why did you keep feeding her? She wanted to go and you made her death a spectacle.
I completely agree!!! Child exploitation by the father!! Video after video… it’s sickening. She was a prop for his own attention. 😢
Wow. Battling cancer 8 times before losing the battle is incredible. She is a strong fighter, she is probably watching over you in heaven right now. She is in a better place, you will see her up there when your time comes. So sorry for your loss. Praying for you Julie and your family.💜💜
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@@brandieubanks8980 cool down mate what's your problem 😆
You can say that again
I think this is beautifully written 💓
I know she is. I've heard that your loved ones can see you in heaven while you're on Earth but to them it's like looking at you from the Next Room. That gave me a lot of comfort because I lost my grandma in 2006 very suddenly and I know she's still around.
The easiest part is knowing when shes gone, her pain will be no more. The suffering ends. 😞😞😭
I REALLY DO NOT THINK HIS WIFE WAS ALL FOR THE FILMING OF JULIE IN HER FINAL DAYS OF HER LIFE. AND I DO THINK EITHER ONE KNEW ANYTHING ABOUT DYING, HE WANTED TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTITION!
Helen Brown I agree. You can tell based on the looks she was giving john
Maddie was such a loyal pup. Rest in peace, both of them 💔
May she and her Momma fly in Heaven💔💘😇
Who else actually watched. The hole thing
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Troy I have and it is very sad that Juliana had to go through all this. She is in no more pain cause she is in heaven with God.
I did but it was killing me because it was for years after the fact that I first saw this if it hadn’t been I would’ve been very perturbed almost to the point of contacting them and telling these people you do not give a dying person pizza don’t give them anything no raspberry tea they’re dying good God Almighty this poor child was in pain what a way to die
Stupid hospital
Why did they not send this child home with hospice care I will never know it doesn’t sound like there’s a lot of bright action going on around there thank God this child’s and having at least she’s out of pain
To the family of this little girl....as i sit her as a 44 year old recovering adict! I am ashamened of myself!! All the times i complained that life wasnt fair!! God rest this little girls soul...may god keep you with him as you lay to rest!! I am so sorry
Don't compare your life to hers.
We all have different roads and paths.
Don't judge yourself. Everyone's toothache hurts the worst
@@laniakeas92 huh?
We all do mistakes and that's ok
Don't be ashamed! Know that you are absolutely loved! You have value regardless of what you might think!
Love and light to you!
14 supposed to be fun hanging out with friends wondering what to wear to school the next day boys first kiss high school freshman makeup just fun not dying of cancer and being hospitalized
She had cancer since age 5, poor thing
She was robbed of living and having her first boyfriend etc
Okay, I tried holding back the tears, but I couldn’t. The tears really flowed. Gone to soon in life. She fought hard. Her doggy Maddie, definitely knew something was really wrong. Dogs are very intelligent (except when running into the traffic) & they can sense feelings and illness. What a loving fur baby she had. And how much Juliana loved her Maddie. 😢💔
Muito triste chorei muito 😢😢
How sad, how lucky I am!! THANKYOU, what a awsome gal you are through and through
She's actively dying..stop the tea..
That was hard to watch. Actively dying. No nurse around to advise them not to give anything by mouth when she can't swallow? Makes things worse. Brave girl. RIP
I couldn’t agree with you more. Where was hospice???
Too late for that. The hospital should have known that.
@Thora Friganza in the description it says they had no idea she was close to death. She had more upcoming treatments schedules etc.
The family is in denial.
Parts of this were like a freak show with so many people in the room seated accordingly, and just staring at her while she was dying. I would NEVER want a bunch of people watching me like this. Ugh.
Me neither. I understand wanting to offer support but I’d never want to be seen in this condition.
Yeah but would you really have a choice? She’s laying there lifeless barely able to to anything except groan.
Shut up
You and me both!! Irrational in my opinion
Wait until you're dying to pass judgements. You might change your mind.
She is out of her misery now. She is at peace. An angel of god.
This was the hardest thing I've ever watched. Juliana's parents and her extended family seem like a very loving family but I'll have to say very ignorant. My husband died 6 months ago from interstitial lung disease and his transition was so opposite of this. It was very peaceful, and he never gasped or moaned as this poor child did. He was in hospice and we were instructed to give him morphine with a sedative mixed in it every 2 hours. He wasn't awake and didn't respond to us when we the hospice nurse said he was transitioning and we begin the 2 hour medication but he was peaceful. I would have been out of my mind if he had struggled like this poor child. What were they thinking to keep her awake like that and pushing tea and suggesting pizza. Even in the hospital prior to going home, they wouldn't let her rest or sleep. Mercy! Possibly they were in denial, but this poor child suffered as a result of their ignorance. It was just hard to watch. I'm glad she isn't suffering any longer. I can imagine her in heaven, healed and feeling her best and living her life with so much joy. Juliana, you were a brave girl.
They probably didn't want to believe she was actually dying after beating cancer so many times before but I believe that both the family and hospital could have worked together to make a plan. Miscommunication led to this for poor Juliana.😥😥Sweet baby👼
@@Jessica-wo6px I'm sure that they did but when a person refuses to accept something it can lead to unimaginable suffering.
@@deannacarter4251 the hospital did give her morphine and another drug. They didn’t keep her awake. They did let her rest. People transition differently.
Very true couldn't have said it better my self
I can’t believe why everyone is hating about him posting this , it was his right. She looked like a sweet angle let her fly high!❤️
No everyone copes with this level of illness. Men mostly don’t because they think they can fix things and some things they can’t. It makes them feel powerless. You have to forgive them, they don’t mean to offend the parents. In the old days dying was public and people feared it less. Now people are terrified to die because most of You never see it. Think instead the family was sharing their last precious moments with their daughter. Maybe it will remind people to hug their kids and realise how lucky they are this isn’t them.
Your right she's a cute queen rip i will never forget you
Your right let her fly up in the pretty clouds but don't worry she will return to earth to thank you us
ik this isn't a joke, but what angle?🤣
I guess no one can be entitled to their own opinion. When it's not your opinion you can't believe it. Get a grip. Not everyone was hating - just some. And i don't consider it hating - maybe some just couldn't believe the lack of respect.
I lost the love of my life to colon cancer. It was heart breaking when her breathing changed. Reminded me of what I experienced. I tell myself that I enjoyed the days we has and cherish the memories. What a precious daughter you had. I saw the love you all have for her.
I'm sorry for your loss. You're right, though.
@@christopherhubbard256 thank you
You're in my prayers.
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When that lady told that sweet little angel that they were doing Pizza without her I thought was the cruelest meanest thing anyone could ever tell a sick dying child that couldn't eat. But could still hear you and understand what you were saying. That was so cruel !!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes such an ignorant person.
Definitely cruel
People say and do weird things in situations like these. Try not to judge too harshly. Sometimes people don't know how to deal with these kinds of situations or even know what to say . Watching a child actively die in front of you is kind of hard to take in on an emotional level I would imagine. You could liken it to people who laugh at funerals. It's not because they aren't sad, but kind of a nervous/anxious response.
Hi Gloria Santana its Maryanne from the UK yes i really do agree with you what that lady said was the cruelest thing that you can say to a dying sick child and actually i get the same thing because I can't swallow any solid food's because my food pipe doesn't work I was born like it rest in peace Juliana and I'm so proud of you you were so brave all through it well done baby girl we will all miss you until we meet again when we go to heaven❤
the lady in red or miss?
Sorry but this is a good example of why there needs to be education and people willing to be educated about dying. She was dying. The dying body needs nothing but to be allowed to die. The dying PERSON needs your love and comfort but nothing else that isn't pain management.
Yes. you are right. You musn't give anything to eat or drink. it's painful. But infortunately, these loving parents just wanted to do the best for their daughter, they obviously didn't understand she was actively dying.
It must have been horrible for them.
However, there is something that I don't understand.
In one video, we can see Juliana at the hospital and she is clearly dead on the bed.
In another video, I can read that she is dead in peace at home, with all her family.
No sense!
I can't explain.
I think in her final moments, she should've been put into a medically induced coma, because the end looked like suffering. But then again, she appears lucid and aware in the end, so idk.
She was struggling to breathe. And they were trying to get her to drink things. If u saw the original video where he showed her after she died, it was so easy to see how she suffered. He should have been hugging her and comforting the other kids....not making a video of her dead body.
I'm a 62 YO man and I'm balling my eye's out, May she rest peace. I watched far too many in my life pass, It doesn't get easier.
You'll see your loved ones again.
Animals have all the senses in the world that dog knew she was going to die the moment she came home.
Poor little child I wish they could have left her alone to rest not make her chat to this girl.
Parents very unprepared not behaving appropriately.
The poor child is dying.
This family's actions are not malicious- at least Tammy's aren't. They are the result of a lack of education and support regarding the dying process. It was Juliana's care team's responsibility to disclose that objectively, she was nearing death. Often in paediatric oncology, parents and care teams hold on to relentless hope of remission, which lends itself to having palliation and or hospice forgotten about. It was the care team's responsibility to tell the Carvers that Juliana was going to pass, or at least have a discussion in advance as to what Juliana and her family wanted done in end of life care. It's clear that these conversations were never held, or at least were quite short and surface level because there was zero contingent plan as to what would be done when she neared death. Her parents deserved an objective conversation to warn them that she was essentially palliative. They had little education on how close to death she was, and how to care for her in her final moments. This girl had a poor end-of-life experience due to her parents being ill prepared to support her emotionally and physically in dying. This girl deserved to have adequate analgesia, adequate respiratory support, and nursing care; She deserved to be held by her family and to be told it was okay to pass, not "you'll get better". Instead of building a bridge to a peaceful death, she was led off a cliff's edge.
I agree with you 100 %
I agree. She suffered too much at the end.
Yes agree 100%.Had my mum with us for palliative care and we knew when she was right near the end and she had a morphine driver.She died in no pain although the death rattle is upsetting.My mum had COPD and also had 2 brain bleeds.She was on a CPAP mask for 24 hrs a day for the last few months and was only taken of in her last 24 hrs due to her face swelling from it and her body was rejecting it.
I am so thankfull for your comment.
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At least Maddie knew what to do
The only one who knew exactly what Juliana needed in that moment and better than ALL the people in this situation(parents, hospital, etc...)
the dog gave her all the love she deserved
serena stante animals are better than people. Her father was busy to film her agony instead of stay with her. No words.
serena stante u r absolutely right! The whole bunch of family knows nth 😤😤
My Dad would have been reading to me, singing to me and just cuddling me.
@@Italian_girl89 he was filming because soon she would be gone and he wanted to keep her memory alive! I wish someone had done this on my dads last days!
@@jewelseng9900 they knew their daughter was sick. The only way you know what to do, is if you've been through it before! Of course they knew nothing, they hadn't experienced it before!!
Looks like the dog knew and was there to support his best friend. It’s really hard to watch this without having a flood of emotions. Can’t imagine how hard it was for her and her parents. Rip little angel ❤❤❤
She died because her body can't stand anymore treatment...she has suffered a lot she has fought bravely ...she received every treatment available....it was time to let her go....with dignity...hospital has no blame...this type of cancer has no cure.....she was going to die sooner or later. She is resting ...no more suffering......I admire her parents' dedication..but I would never put in a video my child dying in youtube for people to see
it is something private.
Its helpful because now i know what to look for regarding her food intake..i learned from one of the commenters of the video...i admired their willingness to share..
Unless the parents knew what her death sounded like then they most certainly would have done something...they are not the experts, the hospital staff supposed to be...
This cancer and any OTHER cancer CAN BE HEALED...the problem is we're conditioned to believe it cant be cured so we spend money, lots of money to pay everyone to watch a patient die...
To say she wouldve died any way is callous and cruel..its easy to speculate when its not your child.
Lulú Irizar you sound as though you are judging her parents who are seeking all the comfort and solace they can receive from losing her. Certainly you don’t mean to do that when they only wished to share this beautiful girl with the rest of the world?! Also let’s not forget that she was old enough to ask for discretion if that was her desire.
Lulú Irizar thats so right
I totally agree with you. Putting a video of your dying daughter is simply a shame. Did you see the original video? There were scenes of Juliana’s body!!!! I was really shocked! a father who loves his daughter does not behave like that. I love Juliana, she is and will be my inspiration forever, but I don’t like her father.
@@Italian_girl89 I think she was adopted, on the cake it said Happy 13th Adopted day
Poor girl, you could hear the death rattle in her breathing. Rest in peace angel.
@Zixuan Xing I not nice to hear my mum had
@texasj123 most likely she was in hospice or the parents wanted her to let go and not get drugged up anymore.
@texasj123 Please read the book. It explains why...
No child should ever have to go through this. May Juliana rest in sweet peace while asleep with the angels.
It was just so sad to watch… I know Julie is in a better place now, free of pain and treatment, but she was such a fighter and a strong girl. Love her and miss her ❤
I watched a Frontline episode recently called "Being Mortal" where a doctor talked about how bad the medical profession can be at having very honest and tough conversations about death. And so often families don't know how dire their loved one's prognosis truly is and decisions about hospice and palliative care can't be made. This feels like a heartbreaking example of this problem. We have to get better at talking about death
Yeah because none of us get out of here alive. RIP sweet angel
We need Jesus yo be able to do that..by the Holy Spirit..LOVE
Yes! Death needs to be destigmatized because we all will face it. Its one of the few things in this world that every single person will go through. Even as a person with a chronic disease my dr appointments are confusing at best. Families need to be told the truth as soon as that decline starts to happen because it will make the death a little less traumatic.
That’s ridiculous!
They had no trouble waving a DNR in front of my face everyday and saying he can’t make it! I said Jesus is coming do your jobs before I sue your a**! Jesus showed up and shocked the socks off them! A true miracle when they got over their shock they were happy!
The truth is her body was exhausted from many years of cruel and strong treatments, although she was a fighter her strength had a final, because she was just a little girl. Nobody can´t fight eternally .Leave her to rest in peace between angels, comfort yourself with her memories and cure your souls of the sorrow. Everything that you did was well done. God wanted it to happens for a reason that you can´t understand now, let time tells you the secret.
God bless you all.
***** Yes, Juliana was exhausted from cruel cancer treatment during NINE years. And they are cruel treatments because destroy our organs, the quimo destroy both good cells and cancer cells,everybody knows that ¡¡¡ it is poison for Heaven sake!!! at least thats what the doctor say. Of course Juliana was very strong to keep on those years fighting but she was also HUMAN, and not the only girl who has died from cancer.
It is very difficult to understand the death of a child much more if she is your own daughter, I don´t think the intention of the doctors was to kill Juliana. They did what they could and we are wrong if we think that they are God and can do miracles.
And I don´t go away from here because I love and admire Juliana and her family.
Of course the treatments were TRYING to save her life but couldn´t. Thats the proof the treatments not always work Ok?? And if you say the quimo don´t harm the organs you know NOTHING about cancer although you have lived near people with this disease.
I haven´t offended you so try to be respectful, it is for free and it helps to live together in peace.
It only has been my honest opinion.
+Kia Davis gosh, I think you need anger management treatment chill out! the truth is answers won't bring her back, she's finally free now would you rather her be in pain and suffer because your selfish? Why don't you act like an adult. let her rest in peace without your ignorance.
+Kia Davis you do know I'm not reading any of that LOL well maybe some .. you are insane and keep repeating the same things.. get a life go write a book and take your medications on time, ignorant people on UA-cam make me laugh I better shut up? I'm actually typing not talking and what you going to do come thru the computer UA-cam warrior LOL. yawn
Kia Davis I'm reporting you and hopefully your account will be shut off, how do you know if any of us have not lost a family member due to cancer? YOU DON'T! maybe not a child but a family member is a family member, all the comments you leave are the same exact thing your this bla bla i lost my cousin blabla WE ALL LOSE LOVED ONES IT'S LIFE! What are you going to do for the rest of your life sit on youtube acting like a complete dip shit, will that bring her back with your foolishness NO! face the fact shes in heaven in a better place with evil people like yourself that we are stuck with now GO AWAY!
No one should have to die like this. We don't even let our pets suffer like this. I can't finish this video, poor child.
You did well. At the end it's her dead body in the funeral. So cruel.
Emily Lange I know it's more than I could take I'm screaming for the Queen to just let her sleep please just let her rest!!!!😢😢😢😢😭
This is actually a normal way of dying when someone is suffering with cancer. The pain is bad, and usually the pain relief is what helps quicken the end. Cancer is a very cruel disease, and sadly there is no nice way around it!
@@agusblackbird2486 I don't understand this. What is cruel?
Pls grow up....death is never pretty...its a medical stop to your life.....did you expect angels with golden Harp's
Forcing her to drink shes dying ffs
I have lost my 9 years old son from leukima in December 2019. I know exactly what they have been through. There is no word to describe the pain I felt and I still feel losing my child. Only someone who went through it can understand.
I am just so so so sorry. I can’t even begin to comprehend your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family and pray for you to find the strength u need to endure 💕
Don't be sad I'm sure your angel is happy and is in a better place now. I wish you all the best ♥️♥️♥️♥️
As a mother of 2 daughters i empathize with you. Thats the worst thing ever to lose your child. I pray angels watch over you. I almost lost my 11 yr old daughter to diabetic ketoacidosis. She was just diagnosed this March of 2020. I am thankful she was saved. But i lost it when she was life flighted to children's hospital. It didnt go to her brain. Thank God. She's been type 1 diabetic for almost 4 months now.
Stay strong
And I lost my eight years old son from internal bleeding and I’m not over it since 2011 😭😭😭💔
I'm watching at 38:38 and I have no idea how they could not see that was a death rattle? I'm so sorry that she died because she was so sweet but I mean she was only breathing like every 5 seconds? That's not normal... also where's the part where her grandma tells her it's okay to let go and you yell at her??
the Death Rattle may have started as early as the 9 minute mark during bingo
So so sad very heartbreaking
When I die I do not want people taking video of me!!
I totally agree with you I am all for spreading awareness of childhood cancer but my God I think it's a family private thing to pass away with your family around you and not something you share on UA-cam. If the father wanted video of her like this go for it but keep it too yourself. If I heard one more time from the dad that shes trying not to be rude omg she's medicated and very very sick!!!!! I think it's just awful all of this video.
I have watched her videos multiple times and I was always wondering why she was never entered into hospice I mean they clearly knew she was getting near the end and to die was so much static in that room being probed and prodded and with all those instruments around her I don't get it should have been peaceful for her
this is honestly so sad, to see a child dying🥺😢 may she rest in peace!
I thought the dad went way over with not giving this sweet child privacy. I thought it was rather cruel
so do i
If she didn’t want to be filmed she would’ve said
warum tut man einem Kind kurz vot seinem Tod diese Oberflächlichkeit an?
@Tracy Isaac how dare you say that he's a grieving parent trying to get a last moment of his daughter sickening of you to say
@Tracy Isaac what is wrong with you? You need help. Not him. You. Sickening and disgusting human being
This man is just sick!!! The man definitely needs some help!!!!!
Fuck u
Most people probably need help after losing a child. Everyone has different ways of coping etc who are we to judge? I can't imagine their pain 😔 x
Fuck off
Can't help but agree
Leave her alone stop forcing the drink on her
This family is the worst. Dear god. She would have been happier if everyone left her alone with the dog.
I agree 100%
I had spoken out against the use of exploitation, and i made my opinion known , however, i truly truly believe this family was doing everything they could to save their baby. My god, if my child went through that, I may not tape every little thing and what this family did was extremely graphic but
They had the best of intentions. Whether u disagree with them or not, they aren't the worst.
They were amazing. Aside from the excessive exploitation (that is their way of trying to heal) this child was LOVED. She was loved and she knew it. And so, I can't help but admire this families strength and In spite of the exploitation, they are wonderful parents.
They were fighting for her and she deserved the right to try to live.
These people adopted SIX children from dire straights. They proved themselves.
Then again, they didn't need to. They lost their girl . The deserve to grieve their own way.
I wrote to John and chided him for his exploitation. I should have kept my mouth shut. I've never lost a child to cancer.
Why what did they do?
Go back under your rock.
I believe that her father just wanted to memorialize her. Don’t judge. Yes, my husband died and it was way worse, I didn’t film anything of course. My life is destroyed. Seeing this makes me connect with her family. There was nothing they could do and that must’ve been horrible. Don’t judge.
Joesndanuyankifan 6 days ago l believe that father just wanted mezireaz her yes my husband died it wrs worse l didn’t film anything of wanted memoirs Don judeg; Yes my husbdan died and it wigh her family There weas nothing of and that
@@amandalyubelsky5251 ??
How can you tell that it was a lot worse for your husband??
michelle wood seriously!
Amanda Lyubelsky huh?
As a person that has seen death many times over in my job. You never, never force fluids. She could have aspirated, she would have been gone sooner then later. She was in her final stage, you hold her close and tell her love her.
Likely morphine
@@albertao4074 If that is so, then they should have done a butterfly. Less invasive.
Put the video camera down and hold your dying daughter for the love of God!
I am assuming there were no hospice workers to give mom advice.
@@plantpants3746 Since she was passing away at home. There would have to be hospice nurses stopping by.
Now that I have had time to think about this, I think the reason why the hospital stopped any new treatment is because they felt she had been through enough. She knew was not going to get better, even though the parents wanted her to press on, you can see she had gone a long ways already, she was suffering, by the time they took her home she was barely eating , I think the hospital knew she had been through a lot in her well young life, and enough was enough. I have read the whole story, and I cry every time I think of what she went through, her bravery, her courage, and her willingness to keep fighting, and always with smiles, and love for all who loved her back. It is because of things like this that I question my own faith!
The hospital didn't stop new treatment. After they found that she has cancer again, they scheduled treatment for the following week. Juliana was taken home only for the weekend and should be back on Monday. But the day before she left hospital, they gave her a doubled dose of painkillers and from that on she declined rapidly. But nobody had any idea that she could die 2 days later. Nobody was prepared for the catastrophe. After she had died the hospital officials refused answering the parents' questions. The parents guessed that she could have died of an overdose of her painmeds. And in my opinion is that the most probably explanation for what's happend with Juliana that weekend when she died with her parents at home.
71 here & been thru so many loses in my lifetime & this still breaks my heart. 😰 What a brave soul this child has! She's still with us ❣
Its genocide. The medical jouranals state that chemo and radiation dont work. Doctors make direct cuts from prescribing these. High grade pure THC oil and a gallon of raw juicing a day would have cured it very easily. MD directed medicine is the NO1 leading cause of death, most of it doesnt work. GOOGLE IMAGES - ACIDOSIS CYCLE.
This poor little girl should have been in a hospice or properly medicated so she didn't experience so much stress and pain. At the 11th hour the parents dropped the ball. She smiled and played with that puppy because mom and dad desperately needed her to, not because she had it in her at that point. What a loving, selfless girl. Thank goodness she's at peace.
Be quite NPC, your drone responses go unheard, go talk to the wall.@@seer1623
Why did no one cuddle her more and die in loving arms ? 😞☹️ or not filmed??? I hope
I just said that the camera should have been on a tripod not shoved in her face. I'd record for my memories but in the corner somewhere and I'd be laid with my child as long as they'd let me. I suppose we are all Different though ❤️
They want that youtube money. 🤣
@@MrJamiez You are downright rude, ignorant & show NO empathy! I pray to God you never have to bury a child!!
@@MrJamiez this is not funny 😭
@@brendajenkins2544 shut up.
This is one lovely child!! I fear though, since, at the end of the video, the Dad blames her quick decline on a high dose of pain medication she received before they checked out of the hospital, & I don't see a hospice nurse anywhere that she wasn't receiving enough pain management meds once she got home. Pain meds get a bad reputation but they work wonders in helping dying patients transition. Ask any hospice nurse. When I first watched this I thought those syringes may have had liquid morphine or methadone but when I listened closely and heard it was just raspberry tea I was stunned. Those were obviously moans of pain coming from Juliana.
I'm certain the syringes were just to keep her hydrated. I'm sure they kept her well medicated to help with pain. Her body was tired.
Was she not getting pain meds .They lied about it that's not right .Keep her comfortable.Fly with wings beautiful one 🦋🦋🦋🌺🌸💔🙏⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐🦋🌼❤️🤍😇
It wasn’t pain medication that killed her. The cancer spread everywhere. What she’s doing at the end is similar to the death rattle.
This poor child suffered. Needlessly. She was moaning in pain. It is never recommended to give a person fluids when they are actively dying. That would just lead to aspiration. She was riddled with cancer. Her poor belly swollen with ascites and face swollen from steroids. I don’t believe for one minute they didn’t know she was dying. They were in denial. Rest easy sweet little girl. You are in heaven now. I hope you are watching over your parents and that they find peace.
@@missmew5240 I agree. Where was hospice?? Not one nurse was sent to check on her. Why wasn’t she taken back to ER ? Something just doesn’t feel right here, and I followed her story on Facebook for many years.
This is so sad :( I wouldn't want my family to video me dying :/
What’s wrong with the woman who said “they order pizza without you”?!? I am shocked 😥 poor Julie.
Really surprised I was able to make through this but just seeing her mother trying to force her to swallow that tea was making me super uncomfortable like Jesus Christ she can’t just stop and let her rest... 🤦♀️
I understand why she did it. She wasnt drinking or eating and she hadn't and wouldn't except the fact that she was dying. She is a MOTHER the need to protect and take care is hard to let go of in those final moments. She was desperate.
She just wants to protect her baby. Maybe she thought there was a chance she could’ve lived, and in that case she needed to give her fluids. Maybe she didn’t want to face the fact that her daughter was dying before her eyes.
@@belle369 agreed
at that point the body needs no food or liquids, but mom was doing what she thought was best.
I feel bad for the mother seeing your comment. She was clearly doing what she thought was best and Julianna nodded when they asked if she wanted it. Her throat was dry. Can people stop acting like they know better than the parents? Their child died and people are still criticising their choices. Can you imagine how painful that is? You weren't there.
The medication didn't make her worse. I am an ICU nurse and have seen many die from cancer. I could tell she was in the process of dying from the beginning of the video. Rest easy in knowing that and that you were all with her.
Why didn't the family know this? Very upsetting knowing they believed she was going to get better 💔
I'm not a medical professional I work in the hospital a little bit as a unit secretary but even someone like myself could tell at the very beginning that she was actively dying and going downhill. It breaks my heart
@@ella-bt8hp I think people just don't feel comfortable talking about death especially when it's a child maybe they were hoping things would change
Me too, she was starting to Cheynes Stoke before even leaving the hospital! The transfer from hospital to home would have caused her great pain, she would have needed extra meds for the journey.
@@ella-bt8hp They knew she was dying, they just chose not to accept it out of grief. Don't blame them one bit, having been there myself.
Miss Beauty Queen needs to let her sleep. She's fighting to stay awake.
Who's idea was it to have these people visit as she is medicated and wants to sleep!
she didn't die peacefully, even her death was directed
@@hopefloats6390 I agree with you. Poor angel, always on "display".
RIP sweet Juliana!
@@hopefloats6390 😞😞😞
Juliana is already in the dying process.
So sad nobody notish.
RIP beautiful girls 🦋
My god she keeps falling a sleep and they keep talking let her nap
Quel repose en paix petits choux 💓 Isabelle de France 🇫🇷
Why did they force feed her and stuff when she was dying? A little bit more....swallow it down. People aren’t hungry when they are sick and in the middle of dying. R.I.P. Angel. ♥️🙏
because they still have to eat......
Don't you realize that the nourishment probably contained her medication, pain meds etc
She was parched
Rip sweetheart
@@stephanielekas583 You obviously have zero knowledge of the dying process. This child could neither swallow or digest anything in the final stages. I fully understand that this family loved their child unconditionally. But, had no knowledge of what their were doing. I do feel that the hospice should have given them more support during her final days.
Sometimes when people are at there end emotionaly
like this poor mother was. I think she was at a loss as what to do and I think her giving the poor baby more tea was just a way of coping with the onset of
great grief.
God rest her soul
The only one who really shows empathy here is the dog. Some sit there as if they were watching football, the father is just filming. Terrible.
That is why Dog is my favorite pet
I have been watching all of the past videos. I am an RN of 32 years. I have a lot of feelings about this little girl. The biggest one being that she was beautiful and had a spirit of no other. Her smile was contagious. God bless this family. John and Tammy, how are you doing? I hope you are finding some peace and comfort as time goes on. Your little Julianna was a doll!! She was an absolute doll, and so inspiring. xoxox
This poor girl is suffering, It seems to me her pain management isn't being met, She is restless & bothered and hurting,
All those people around her when it looks to me she just wants to have some piece .
Until you have a child dying in front of you you won’t understand what’s going on. I lost my 23 year old son to cancer. He had a morphine pump and we were given liquid morphine as well. A person gets restless when they’re close to going as we were told. My son was no exception to that rule. There’s nothing like the helpless feeling a parent has watching their child die!!! All you can do is watch!!! Not a god damn thing you can do about it!!!
She was giving additional 30mg of Morphin on top of the 30 she was getting daily, prolly 2 times a day. That's 120mgs everyday for her little.broken worn out body. What do u expect? She was already at the end of her life. There was nothing else to do. Have u ever taken a 30 or a 60mg of Morphine? We're adults and if ur not use to it, u would def feel it. So yea, I'd say her pain was met. During the video, they told u her mg dosage, if u paid attention, you would have known that.
Aside from the fact that this little lady is dying from cancer, there are several quite disturbing aspects to this, some that people have already mentioned in the comments. I don’t think her final hours were particularly well handled in terms of pain control and a general misunderstanding of the physiological process of death itself. I also get the feeling that Mom resents that camera at points, which I would too. I don’t understand this obsession with filming everything and missing the moments because of it.
Ann xx I agree. I am perplexed as to why this is being shared on UA-cam. I understand documenting her last days to keep and share with loved ones, but this feels too intrusive.
For memories and to honor her
To keep her memory alive
@@katie6902 I see and understand that, I do honestly. But was this the right way to go about it? I don’t know, and I don’t have the right to judge, but it does feel extremely intrusive and rather obsessive when it gets down to the really really emotional occasions. I probably should have said in my original comment that I was meaning this particular video alone, but kind of across the board with all of the videos.
@BlewnHeadGasket you expect to post stuff like this on UA-cam and not have it discussed or criticised? Lol that’s not how social media works, fuckwit, do some research.
I followed Juliana and the worse part for me was hearing the breathing and her struggles to breath, that was heartbreaking… Juliana should have been given some morphine to help her along her way sooner than she suffered 😢😢😢
@@TubbyNutkinwhy is that out of curiosity?
I think they were worried she would die sooner. The parents seemed upset in the description because of the pain med increase that had the possibly of killing her
She actually was not struggling to breathe. That was a normal breathing pattern for a person who is actively dying.
God why?? Why were they not educated ?? Why didn't the hospital Dr's nurses someone anyone help those parents??
The beautiful dog ♥️always by her side💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
If you've followed Julianas story you'll see how John bullies his family, some sort of religious submission thing happening. I hope Juliannas sister has gotton away from him.
lana which Story? Where can I watch/read it?
I am not getting a religious vibe in this video.
@@anname7439 Facebook, angels for juleana
May Juliana rest in peace, if only her father would let her. 'REDO' video, HA!! All because John wants to blame the Hospital for her death now?!? Actually, John redid this video because he did not like the fact his true colors shined through in the original video. He was seen yelling at family members, his wife and constantly videotaping Juliana in her final moments rather than sitting by his daughter's side comforting her. Forcing her to wake up and be polite to strangers when she so clearly was in no state to entertain. People called him out on it and now the 'REDO' video has all of that edited out. He never left her in peace, all he ever did was videotape his daughter's illness but you don't see him cradling, hugging or helping his daughter. Tammy his wife did that as John only videotaped. I watched Juliana's story from the beginning until I couldn't watch him profit any longer from his daughter's illness. Yet, he is still profiting as he just posted another video just this last week.
He doesn't know when enough is enough. John, we're all still wondering where Juliana's birth mother was at the funeral? Will you ever answer that? If you watch all the videos and google John Carver, you can clearly see that all John is, is a profiteer.
Give up John, let her rest in peace.
DutchSteffi Wow! Well you nailed it about John! He is selfish, narcissistic and it's almost always about John! He claims he makes no profit from the UA-cam videos but has ads on some of them, meaning he is making money from them! He is a profiteer and relished in the things Juliana's illness gave HIM!! The MANY trips, the pool, the professional sporting events, going to the training camp and handing the head coach "Juliana's business card" which had all of HIS information for his motivational speaking on it. The REDO video is a joke! He did that because so many called him out for his disgusting behavior and for videotaping her down to showing her dead body. Running to her room "crying" about how she just died. He SHOULD have been by his dying daughters side, holding her hand. But instead he videotaped?!?! He's reaching with the claims that the hospital did something to hasten her death. In this video it shows her fairly awake and alert so anything the hospital gave her is obviously out of her system. As for where her birth mother was. She couldn't make it to the funeral and couldn't afford to fly there. Of course John didn't offer to pay for her flight cause he no longer needed her! I think if he could fly her all the way to the U.S to give bone marrow, he could have flown her in so she could attend her biological daughters funeral! Just my opinion. But just another glimpse into his many character flaws.
John has all of the narcissistic personality disorder "checks" he is definetly narcissistic. I feel so bad for the people around him.. especially his kids.
Elea I said the same thing about Juliana Father and he said How Dare You. 8 times with cancer CPAP ICU Chemo Burns. Perhaps it was to much for him to Handle. Her Mother was wonderful. One month ago I lost a friend Stage 4 8 time Cancer. I chose to celebrate her life. Why such a high dose of Morphine in the hospital. Did they tell The Carvers to take her home ??? So many questions. May she rest in Peace I never saw Hospice at The Home just a Wake before she died
Lori Graf here here!! Nail on the head!! I saw the original... pity its not on here no more! He will probably deny any of what we saw and heard...it really flawed me seeing her dead...jesus christ...we never saw him embrace...hold her hand...nothing..but mian..and castigate the family!!
lucille, You're right, having to deal with cancer 8 times and getting you're hopes up so often had to have taken a toll. I can't imagine going through it once, much less that many times.
She’s so beautiful! I bet she always made everyone smile & for sure still does!!❤️❤️
It breaks my heart to see this. It is so sad. Cancer is a nasty bit... But i need to say something. The hospital saw that the dying process started. That us why they send you home. To give Juliana the chance to die at home. I see that these parents love her intensively but a dying body needs no fluids or food. In the palliative medicine they stop giving fluids. It is very inportant to do that. As the body then produces a natural opiat to help with the pain. A dying person cannot swallow anymore. So telling her to swallow tea is, sorry to say that, not helpful at this stage. It helps to die in peace and less pain if you remove fluids.
Don't want to be rude or offensive. But this is a fact which alot of parents, families don't know. The doctors must explain it over and over again.
I hope that you can accept the situation that her health didn't decline so fast. It was cancer who ended her life. I'm 100% sure that there is no fault on hospital site. May you find the silence and strength to come over this tragic loss. RIP Juliana.
Yes I was thinking the same thing. The hospital did nothing wrong . Most times people with cancer can be good one day and go downhill the next day. More cancer treatments would not do any good at that point.
Laura Amante that in no way means the hospital is innocent. It just means they did know she was dying but they failed to tell the parents.
The medicine they gave her on the twentieth........sounds like it was the culprit.
If the hospital knew then why didn’t they fill in her family? Why not tell her family about the fluids stopping the natural pain killer? I think that may be the worst thing the hospital did, if the medicine was given in innocence.
beemaid if the hospital knew she was in the process of death they would have told her parents and arranged with hospice at her home. I have lost too many to cancer, I know the procedures. Something happened but it just could have been that her little body just gave up. The ME should be able to tell you why, I'm hoping you had requested an autopsy due to the quickness of the decline not sitting well with you. It is hard enough losing them, you shouldn't have unanswered questions.
You don't want to be hurtful? then why post? seriously, some people are twisted..
I am at a loss for words! This video is disturbing. 😢 Poor little Julia had to perform on her death bed.
Very grim, we should all count our blessings.
Facts it is
Imagine living it. I can’t even...
The parents are the most disturbing
No disrespect or anything but it’s disturbing 😢
OMG!!!😢😥😥😥😥I would hve held my daughter for days not just keep drowning her With tea! Omg omg strong mom I would hve just held her
Really ThisWorldToday
She wasn't drowning her with the tea. It wasn't going into her lungs it didn't hurt her you would have know if it was.
What you heard was the death
Rattle and it's God awful. My mom and husband both had it but I had meds to stop the sound.
I wanted to hold both my mom and husband but when I tried they winced in pain because their whole body hurt!! When your in the process of dying it like when s woman is giving birth we only have one thing in mind and that's to finish what was started.
Juliana knew she was loved by her father it was documented and she wanted everything filmed right up to her death and including her last breath.
Dying doesn't just kill the patient it also kills a little bit of all of us !!!!!!
Blessings!!!!!🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
And she wanted it
Sailor Ship
You are so right thank you.
People should walk a mile in
Our (people who have gone
Through it, like I did ) shoes
before you start to pass any
Judgement ‼️‼️
Can't you people just mourn the loss of a beautiful girl who fought this battle for 15yrs
No one killed her God said you have fought a good fight and run a good run now your job is done and it's time to come home!!!!
I believe no one leaves this world unless we finish what
Ever task we were given to do!
Juliana 's was to show children that even though it hurts God awful bad you can fight and even if you can't
See me I'm with you when you
Fighting!!! She also taught
What UNCONDITIONAL LOVE is‼️‼️
Blessings🌹🌹🌹🌹
Leave the crown, banner and fake flowers go. Just let her be.
Hello Patricia, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus??
Trevor...thanks. So far, so good. I live a block from Pgh. Children's Hospital, and hear helicopters bringing sick kids any hour of the day. I hate the loud helicopters, but they are a reminder to pray for every sick child. I don't understand why kids have to suffer and die early, but they are then at peace. We pray for kids, and dear Juliana 🙏 and that while on this side of eternity, our eyes cannot see.
@@patriciaschuster1371 Ok. I hope you’re having a nice and a wonderful day today??
Yes, thank you. And you? My heart has been broken by this young woman.
She's not swallowing that tea, she's breathing it in and even more fluid is entering her lungs. How can they not see that.
And you know that because? I barely ever comment on you tube videos. But the stuff people feel the need to post under this one is so arrogant, mean and uninformed.
@@martheberkenheide7410 thank you!! I was thinking the same thing.
marthe berkenheide I’m sure this person works in the medical field. That’s how they would know that. Let’s use some common sense.
@@Jill.McGlothlin42 You are "sure"
Its like they r killer her sooner
I just wonder at any point if she was asked if this is what she would have wanted to be filmed at the end, I feel her dignity was taken away, she was a young lady not a small child she must have expressed an opinion. Why wasn't a nurse with her to make sure she was comfortable?? She was obviously struggling to breathe poor girl. She suffered so much i personally as her mother could not have held it together camera or no camera
My god it should never have been filmed such privacy been taken away god bless her.she needed medication to ease her last moments.
She has a PCA - This is a beautiful example of loving palliative care. Don’t be so judgmental and ignorant.
@@i_kissed_a_pixie1537 THANK YOU
She didn’t mind being filmed!! You have no right to an opinion on this matter!!! People kill me judging from the outside looking in.... walk in there shoes before speaking about their situation
@texasj123 if they gave anything.
At this point.. why feed her??danger of aspirating??
While this is a very sad video, my favorite part is when you got home and Maddie jumped up on Juliana and Juliana's joy seeing her.