What Is Dating After Divorce REALLY Like?
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- Опубліковано 25 чер 2024
- After going through a divorce, it can seem impossible to get back onto the market and find love again. I want to share what my experience has been like trying to date after getting divorced as a man.
The Harsh Reality of Dating After Divorce
What No One Tells You About Dating After Divorce
The Reality of Dating After Divorce
Dating After Divorce: The Good, The Bad, And The Ugly
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0:00 Finding Stability
0:54 Dating is a Skill
2:37 Coaching
2:58 Sexual Discipline
3:42 Divorce Makes You Attractive?
4:07 Self-Improvement
4:47 Different Cultures
5:24 Interracial Relationships
6:15 Family Values
6:52 Commitment
8:24 Timing
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I was married for 20 years. I prefer not getting into another relationship again. I like the feeling of independence.
One thing that holds true after a separation or divorce is a man is always seen as the perpetrator or the offender. family and friends will always offer massive support to the woman and side with her despite being in the wrong. while men are always left wondering on their own without much support. the consensus is "you're a man, you'll get over it. man up and move on etc." but the underlying emotional turmoil that goes on in a man's head definitely needs to be address but society expects a man to isolate and deal with it on their own. and as crazy as it sounds people avoid men that are going through emotional struggles like it's something contagious, especially couples. they either don't know what to do with a man that's going through that or see it as he's going to try to hit on us etc.. so they avoid it... completely different for women.
Anyway if you get a chance check Corey Wayne's channel and his book 3%MEN which will teach you all about women, how to vet them, and how attraction works.
Bro this is deep and so true.
Yeah, divorced men don't have the same stigma attached to them. Women like men with experience and who are dependable. Men know women are a responsibility, so they go for the women with the least amount of baggage.
Nah, lots of women won’t date divorced guys.
They all start off great and end worse. I enjoy having peace of mind. I never feel the same level of peace of mind when I'm in a relationship as I do when I'm single.
I really hope you start to embrace Christ back into your life and find a good wife to make you happy
Wes I’m 10 months separated, divorce papered signed and in,
I’m moving to Nha Trang to live at 42 years old and I’m so nervous about eventually dating or even talking to women, but I’m also excited, the timing of your vid is perfect, great stuff mate 👍
why would u move to a 3rd world country?...go to columbia ...at least the woman are hot
@tednguyen7258 yeah and be drugged and kidnapped? You do know that right? Him and other like him literally covered it in their videos about how colombia is becoming more dangerous towards foreigners. Educate yourself before posting dumb comments like this.
Yeah I've been to Asia. There aren't that many hot ones and the few are taken. Latin women are hotter.
it's not all about the looks my dudes. Eastern culture in general make better wives.
lots of ladyboys in asia....you might be sucking a popsicle on accident
I just turned 25yo. I've been working on my self improvement ever since the pandemic started a few years ago. Now I feel like a completely different person. My sense of fashion has improved dramatically. My hygiene and person care wayyyy better now. My sense of having independence and being a self starter is good. I read a new book every month. Got my passport and been learning multiple languages. The money I'm making is going up. Getting better at dating women and lost my V card at 24. Once I'm oversea I see nothing but freedom...
Dating is harder at first ..because of what you previously experienced. Every woman you date after divorce has a higher bar to get over. Your defenses are up and both eyes and ears are open. And you'll immediately see and hear from the new girl, all the things you missed before. And you won't waste time dumping them from now on.
Yo this is so true, damn
@WheresWes yo Wes what's up man. I learned this while in Colombia trying to make a new future. Apparently even Colombian women are not forth coming with information. So when I asked the hard questions they get offended. That's the first Red flag. Once I had a handful of Redflags.. I moved on just like you did. Thankfully I watched your videos about marrying a Colombian woman. So thanks for that. Where are you at these days?
why are you going to ukraine dude? that's crazy. lemon is not worth the juice, bro
He can better go to Moscow. Much better than anything in Ukraine (and Colombia).
Not even crazy there is travel youtubers vlogging in Palestine and Israel just fine lool
Cheers foo 👊😃
When you go to Budapest, can you provide a thorough analysis of their mannerisms? I’m currently seeing a wonderful Hungarian woman and I want to see things in clear glasses rather than in roses. Only if my request fits your niche.
Wes, I liked the conclusions you came to in this video much more. Your ex’s church was a huge factor in your split followed by the difference in cultures. I have consumed a large swath of content on Colombia, but I come to the same conclusion that it is similar to the Hispanic culture of the Southwest US where I am from. I have not changed my mind and remain excited about meeting my Colombian girlfriend in less than two weeks who is a school teacher and doesn’t appear to have any thoughts of drugging and robbing me. If you associate with quality people, you generally receive quality results (exceptions will always apply).
"I have consumed a large swath of content on Columbia". Yet, you don't even know how to spell Colombia lol.
One thing I don't understand; why do you not think that you will meet this one girl and you'll be happy with her, build a family... I mean you don't have to date for years, that doesn't make any sense. It's an endless game. Family provides stability and requires responsibility, dating is a completely different skill.
Married 2006 to 2008. She hated the world. I traveled the world, met many great women. Did marry one in 2020, no regret. And my wife is over 10 years younger. Married a viet, built a house. Can retire and i am only 45.
I heard Budapest is underrated regarding lifestyle and nightlife. I'm currently in Europe, so I need to get myself over there soon.
As for Ukraine...in 2024....I'll let you give us a synopsis.
Wes you said you're not going to be that 45 year-old guy who chases 20 year-olds. What about the 80 year old guys who chase 20 year-olds? I'm 42 and dated a 23 year old last year. I have nothing but positive feedback from her, and would gladly provide her as a reference if anyone wishing to date me wanted to know about other women's prior experience with me. I don't have a long term romantic commitment with this one, partly because she lives in another country, but the bottom line is that she was not judgmental about my age. I wasn't deliberately seeking anyone that young, it just turned out that way
Predator
Dating in most underdeveloped countries as a foreigner from the US or an EU country is much easier in general. You need a lot of $ to have the same ease in other first world countries.
Just hit up Jimmy Zhang if you got issues with dating. Simple
Lmao bro what
@@WheresWes the youtuber. Would be a slick collab
If it ain't equally yoked, marriage is a joke!
Go to Ukraine for what? There's a war going on and Ukraine is losing the war. Why not Moscow instead?
Conquistar.
I am just looking forward to your next marriage. 2nd times the charm!
Dont go to ukraine
Is it even safe to go to Ukraine now