*lyrics* ↳ It's just a cigarette and it cannot be that bad Honey, don't you love me and you know it makes me sad? It's just a cigarette, like you always used to do I was different then, I don't need them to be cool It's just a cigarette and it harms your pretty lungs Well, it's only twice a week, so there's not much of a chance It's just a cigarette, it'll soon be only ten Honey, can't you trust me when I want to stop I can It's just a cigarette and it's just a Marlboro Light Maybe, but is it worth it if we fight? It's just a cigarette that I got from Jamie-Lee She's gonna get a smack and I'm gonna give you three It's just a cigarette and I only did it once It's only twice a week so there's not much of a chance It's just a cigarette and I'm sorry that I did it Honey, can't you trust me when I want to stop I can La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
my name is Jameelee (said the same as Jamie-Lee) and my bestfriend is named Chelsea (artist is called princess Chelsea) and we say this is our main character song 🤪🤪
the fact people call this song and the male voice “manipulative” and “abusive” is just beyond me. as someone who has been in both of these relationships (both romantic and platonic) this is really just the boyfriend/male voice trying to stop his girlfriend/female voice from smoking because it isn’t something healthy you should do!
People like that are the same who have never had to see or deal with a person destroying themself by smoking. When the male voice says she will regret it, he is literally telling the truth. I say from experience. My grandfather smoked several cigarettes for each day for years, and he ended up at age 64 with a serious heart problem and had to have surgery, and in that surgery he had a stroke. His health is horrible, full of health problems. He never went back to being the same person he was before, his mental state is badly damaged. And so I say: How can someone not regret smoking?
Ikr i still think the man is dead because of smoking and his ghost is now communicating with his partner who also started smoking to mourn him to get her to stop lol
I think the thing nobody notices is that he's been there. He knows how addicting it is because he had to get out of it himself. So everybody saying that he's being manipulative and untrusting- he knows how it goes.
@@pascualsmithvaldes9038 It's not like partners in real life don't fight at all, the guy was trying to make her stop smoking & she was like honey can't you just trust me?& they got into arguments & I believe the guy didn't actually hurt her, he was like scolding her🙂
@@TheGoreTheorists yeah they can't carry their asses in real life & suddenly they're all relationships expert here who didn't even raise their voice on their partners💀
You reallt dont have to be a relationship expert. Like dude ima not stop smoking cuz it 😢hurts my pwetty lungs 😢 or it makes you sad 😢. Dude if you srsly cared about her you would say its cuz you want her to live a long an healthy life lmaooo.
this song is so interesting at how it uses words to convey as the addiction gets worse. And a lover trying to convince the other to stop, he isn't manipulating her the "smack" line is like a light line you can say without thinking sometimes when you are worried for someone, not always abusive/manipulative in certain contexts. And as the addiction spreads and they begin talking/arguing over eachother leading to the ending, where the lines end at several "la-la-la" verses, which is a representative of when his words no longer reach her (as once addiction gets bad you stop listening to the warnings)
This song gives me father and teen daughter vibes. It's like the dad is telling his daughter to quit smoking before it comes a habit and gets lung cancer or emphysema
People keep saying how the male voice is manipulative, but really he's in the right. The girl clearly doesn't know how scarily addictive nicotine is, but he does. He doesn't want her to get tied up into that, while he may not be wording his arguments correctly (sounding manipulative).
i agree that the man has good intentions, but his methods of making her stop might be wrong, gaslighting her by saying “dont you love me” and threatening to hit her, if you want your partner to stop smoking, that is not the way you do it.
@Iman Hassani can you like stop smoking for a few weeks if you want or could you? Cuz i actually can without a problem but then i just get back my habit cuz i feel like it lmao 💀
Idk i smoke like crazy when im drunk but apart from that i dont smoke at all, when im sober its just disgusting :D therefore i have no reason to smoke and i have full control. Been like that for years now. Its not hard.
I got super grossed out by them one day because I smoked a whole pack in a few hours so o basically traumatized myself. Ever since then I was able to quit cold turkey
The way the male voice talks in the song is definitely manipulative, he threats to hit her and her friend but she seems manipulative too because it’s implied she does it despite making it sad so I definitely agree with you here
@@bellax2617 physically abusive: there is a pattern of someone hitting others or another person (ex: a bully beating up their victim) verbally/mentally abusive: there is a pattern of someone insulting/degrading others or another person (ex: someone berating their lover for being confused about something; "you're so annoying! you can't do anything right.") emotionally/manipulatively abusive (this is also called "gaslighting"): there is a pattern of someone making themself out to be the victim when something doesn't go their way (ex: a parent comparing their child to another child; "why can't you be more like [name]? they're so well-behaved and smart, yet you're so rude and dumb. i just want you to be better.") manipulative: a person using someone else or other variables around them to their advantage (ex: someone buttering up their higher-up to gain a more powerful spot; "wow, you're so smart! the way you behave is so inspiring; i wish i can be like you.") remember: being abusive and manipulative are two very different things! they can coincide, for instance gaslighting, but are not the same. manipulation is only abusive if it harms another person.
I just discovered this song and it just has such a relaxing feeling to me. Everytime I am alone and have my emotional phase I lay in my bed and play this song and think about my life about what I could've done better and where I want to improve myself. This song helps me so much relaxing and reflecting on my past.
POV: You are having this argument with your highschool sweetheart. You bring up that he used to smoka and as you argue his voice rises and rises until he slaps you three times. You sit the sobbing trying to argue while he sets the packs of cigarettes on fire.
This song hit different for me. The reason is because I was like the boyfriend in the song warning my ex girlfriend of things she should stay away from because of the harm and the path it would put her on. She had the same attitude as the girlfriend in this song. And now the very things I warned her about have consumed her. We don't tell you to stay away from things because we can't to control or take away your fun we try to warn you because we know what will happen and we want to save you from the pain and heart break we have experienced. To a point I feel like I failed her. I just wish she would have listened to me.
pov: you listen to your mom and dad argue over your mom coming back to her addiction to cigarettes after she has been to hospital for it. this may or may not be based on a real life situation
I searched for the meaning of the song: The song is about a couple who fights over the health risks of smoking. The female in the song is the smoker while the male is trying to encourage her to stop smoking. In the song, we learn the male was a previous smoker, but later quit. -Straight up copy-paste from wiki. :)
@@grump7273 no cuz people in the comments are talking about manipulation and emotional abuse and who's the victim so this explanation is very much needed for those people.
ikr it's kind of a weird feeling. it scares me and i want to run away from it but I can't because its so addicting?? and ig this is the same thing that addict people feel and it's scary-
'' Honey, you can trust me when i stop i can '' that hit me hard. The fact that its impossible to stop smoking bc of the nicotine and she doesnt know is sad
@RickProduction I hope you are still going strong! My dad stopped smoking when I was born, he was not allowed to watch while I was born, because he was smoking and that is why he stopped.
I know its not the same but ive got the same thing with soda. I drank it once a week when i was a kid and now as a 20 year old i am drinking it every day nearly. I dont even like the taste anymore. But if i dont take it i start getting angry and my hands start to shake. Dunno why.
Daughters don't call their dad's honey. though she could be using it in a mocking tone I've heard evidence of that. All in all the relationship is so vague that you can interpret it however you want
It's just a cigarette, and it cannot be that bad Honey, don't you love me and you know it makes me sad? It's just a cigarette like you always used to do I was different then, I don't need them to be cool It's just a cigarette, and it harms your pretty lungs Well, it's only twice a week, so there's not much of a chance It's just a cigarette; it'll soon be only ten Honey, can you trust me?, when I want to stop I can It's just a cigarette, and it's just a Marlboro Light Maybe, but is it worth it if we fight? It's just a cigarette that I got from Jamie-Lee She's gonna get a smack, and I'm gonna give you three It's just a cigarette and I only did it once (It's just a cigarette it'll soon be only ten) It's only twice a week, so there's not much of a chance (It'll make you sick, girl, there's not much of a chance) It's just a cigarette, and I'm sorry that I did it (It's just a cigarette, you'll be sorry that you did it) Honey, can you trust me?, when I want to stop I can La la, la la la la la la La la, la la la la la la La la, la la la la la la La la, la la la la la la La la, la la la la la la La la, la la la la la la La la, la la la la la la La la, la la la la la la Übersetzen in: Deutsch
I first imagined the scenario as her trying to convince him to smoke again while holding a cigarette to his face but I then watched the original and realised that it’s to raise awareness of couples breaking up due to smoking so.. that’s fun.
@@somethingunpredictable8412 Well, no. At the end of the official music video it states that in 2010 over 420 couples in New Zealand split up due to issues over smoking cigarettes. So with about 10 seconds of research I confirmed that-..
@@somethingunpredictable8412 And I was just saying that it’s what it was about. I know people have opinions though with how you worded your statement it sounded like trying to prove it wasn’t. I just like to encourage people to do research before saying things. (I know this is a mediocre topic but it’s always good practice.)
i hear this song every day because my father smokes at least 5 times a day for 20 YEARS and a few days ago, he got so tired that he had to go to the hospital. He couldn't even walk, i got scared thinking that i'll be orphan because my mum already died due to a car driving off a cliff and father started to smoke even more, including the drinking... ..and today he just came back. I tried telling him to stop smoking or he'll die, he agreed to stop but i didn't believe him so i kept an eye on him, plus i have to take care of him every SINGLE day and sometimes i'd cry as well. I'm glad that he stopped though.
of course y’all make the boy out to be the bad person in this situation. he’s literally trying to stop her smoking because it makes him sad and he loves her.
@@yuh309 yes but if the woman is doing something bad and the man is trying to stop her CAUSE SHE IS RISKING HER LIFE (Smoking is bad it’ll cause lung problems) then she has to listen and it’d still be the same if it was the man who was doing something bad.
*lyrics*
↳
It's just a cigarette and it cannot be that bad
Honey, don't you love me and you know it makes me sad?
It's just a cigarette, like you always used to do
I was different then, I don't need them to be cool
It's just a cigarette and it harms your pretty lungs
Well, it's only twice a week, so there's not much of a chance
It's just a cigarette, it'll soon be only ten
Honey, can't you trust me when I want to stop I can
It's just a cigarette and it's just a Marlboro Light
Maybe, but is it worth it if we fight?
It's just a cigarette that I got from Jamie-Lee
She's gonna get a smack and I'm gonna give you three
It's just a cigarette and I only did it once
It's only twice a week so there's not much of a chance
It's just a cigarette and I'm sorry that I did it
Honey, can't you trust me when I want to stop I can
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
my name is Jameelee (said the same as Jamie-Lee) and my bestfriend is named Chelsea (artist is called princess Chelsea) and we say this is our main character song 🤪🤪
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@@v0m1t_c0r3_kryp nice 🤣🤍
I’m the 1kth like 😃
@@v0m1t_c0r3_kryp omg my name is j____ and my third name is lee o.o
i really looked at this and went "Imagine how long that fucking intro will be"
well-
SAME LOL
1:03
@@courtneyherbert1893 thank u! you are a life saver! :))
lmao- it was almost a minute long in the original and this is slowed so-
this is oddly calming-
YESS
please give me your instagram
@@АлександрКлименко-ч6я the fawk
@@АлександрКлименко-ч6я wtf🤠
frR??? It makes me so uncomfy but I still like it HSJSJ
jonathan’s voice sounds even better slowed down
Yes agreed
Yea
Cech😳
I agree too
From JoJo?
the fact people call this song and the male voice “manipulative” and “abusive” is just beyond me. as someone who has been in both of these relationships (both romantic and platonic) this is really just the boyfriend/male voice trying to stop his girlfriend/female voice from smoking because it isn’t something healthy you should do!
+ it's the slowed down version.
By hitting her?
@@kulsumfatima6657 who’s hitting her??? no one.
People like that are the same who have never had to see or deal with a person destroying themself by smoking. When the male voice says she will regret it, he is literally telling the truth. I say from experience. My grandfather smoked several cigarettes for each day for years, and he ended up at age 64 with a serious heart problem and had to have surgery, and in that surgery he had a stroke. His health is horrible, full of health problems. He never went back to being the same person he was before, his mental state is badly damaged. And so I say: How can someone not regret smoking?
its more like the guy is accidentally giving threats
This song is addicting
just like those cigarettes 🙂
_cereal_is_soup_ omg lmaoo😭
@@edenblu1 good one! 😭
@@edenblu1 I was gonna say that,💀
your profile 🥺😚
Why is this song as addicting as cigarettes
How do you know that they’re addictive
Disease • 30 years ago Everyone knows they’re addictive wym? We’re taught this as children lmao. 😂😂😂
@@disease30yearsago76 ...
Yesss!
I am the 1K like lol
The song:
30% intro
40% music in between
30% actually singing
but it's damn good in my opinion
@@wannabe-werecat yes it is🙌🏻
Hella good tho
True
Yeepppp
I love how everyone has their own interpretation of this song 🧍
Ikr i still think the man is dead because of smoking and his ghost is now communicating with his partner who also started smoking to mourn him to get her to stop lol
I thought the guy was a cat 💀🦖
@@ohits. Wait... What?! 😂
@@anniesolomon4876 The song in spotify has a girl and a cat, and it gave me alice and the wonderland vibes.
@@ohits. Oh ok then
this instantly gave me like, this younger girl/woman dating an older man kinda vibe.
What the hell same
o h-
Basically a song by Lana Del Rey
@@lila809 stop bringing her into everything she's so overrated lmao
Its because the guy sound older guy sounds older cuz it was slowed down
It’s sad, creepy, and beautiful all at the same time what a masterpiece
like cigarette
More creepy tbh
And relaxing
@@Russian_spy4234 wimp haha
U mean pathetic asf?
To anyone wearing headphones, Have you guys realized the people singing switches between the headphone sides?
i noticed!
Yep
8D
it’s so cool lol
Omg right
I'm glad there aint no person rn saying that the man is an abusive manipulator, cuz most of the comments from 2 years ago are damn annoying
Both are toxic to each other, that’s the point of the song.
There is manipulation absolutely
I think the thing nobody notices is that he's been there. He knows how addicting it is because he had to get out of it himself. So everybody saying that he's being manipulative and untrusting- he knows how it goes.
Mostly the smacking part is why people say its manipulative. Not cool to hit your partner lol
@@pascualsmithvaldes9038 It's not like partners in real life don't fight at all, the guy was trying to make her stop smoking & she was like honey can't you just trust me?& they got into arguments & I believe the guy didn't actually hurt her, he was like scolding her🙂
@@boqoz5930 ^ this- people believe relationships are fairy tales lmao. But there's a line between manipulation and fairy tale.
@@TheGoreTheorists yeah they can't carry their asses in real life & suddenly they're all relationships expert here who didn't even raise their voice on their partners💀
@Some thing like the hitting?
suddenly everyone in the comments is a relationship expert.
Fax
facts bro
plss.🔫
Ong
You reallt dont have to be a relationship expert. Like dude ima not stop smoking cuz it 😢hurts my pwetty lungs 😢 or it makes you sad 😢. Dude if you srsly cared about her you would say its cuz you want her to live a long an healthy life lmaooo.
The male voice creeps me out but it relaxes me at THE SAME DAMN TIME
SAME LIKE WTF
Same🥺
It arouses me
I get Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin vibes from it
@@Yetsboy uh
It’s so calming for some reason
I just realised how manipulative the male voice is
Same bro
Ik I just realized this-
Ikr-
Also hi I didn’t expect you here-
same-
Me too
the male voice is so creepy but calming at the same time
True 😂🤣
@Violet Ferguson yeah me too
It’s Jonathan Bree
The perfect kidnapping voice. 😏
@@nottodayfolks1040 Your username I agree with to this comment
Dont mind me just:
1:00
1:42
2:24
Same😭😭
OMG TY
TY✨✨👶
Ily
Ty👍
I love this man’s voice! I could listen to his voice all day!!!
The starting lasted longer than any of my relationships
Why you hurting yourself like that fam?😂
same-
Was thinking the same thing 😂
I Started Laughing when i saw this comment
😂
Feel like a dead husband from lungs cancer trying to stop his wife from smoking
U got that from the other vid huh ??
Right
a dead husband from lungs cancer?
The lung cancer too strong.
@@windetta551 im 13
This song and cigarettes has one thing in common.
They are both addicting.
YES
YaS
The husband stoped smoking cigarettes
And that's facts 👍
this song is so interesting at how it uses words to convey as the addiction gets worse. And a lover trying to convince the other to stop, he isn't manipulating her the "smack" line is like a light line you can say without thinking sometimes when you are worried for someone, not always abusive/manipulative in certain contexts. And as the addiction spreads and they begin talking/arguing over eachother leading to the ending, where the lines end at several "la-la-la" verses, which is a representative of when his words no longer reach her (as once addiction gets bad you stop listening to the warnings)
Wow, damn, I never thought of la lala that way.
That’s not the point - it’s all one convo.
It is some manipaurkiln
man : convincing to live a healthy lifestyle
kids : that's abusive
I thought you died
What is this lol, who died?
@waifuu Luca changgretta is a character (villain) from a netflix/BBC tv show Peaky blinders who died in the season 4 final episode.
That isn't true tbh.
@@Br34dL04f huh? Brudda...... i watch the peaky blinders..... all 5 seasons wdym???
I feel like Melanie Martinez would slay a cover of this song
YEPPP
Omg yessss
True!!
Yeah 😄 I would love to see here do that
YES
“It’s just a cigarette that I got from Jamie-lee”
“She’s gonna get a smack and I’m gonna give you three”
*Well that escalated quickly*
lmfao
Freal huh I heard that and was like wait what and had to rewind
The cigarette lycırs🥰ua-cam.com/video/CquX22H2VOg/v-deo.html
Lmao
Omg hi bill
I cannot describe the vibe this songs gives me
This is haunting me in my dreams
ok
Same 😂
I like the songs rithem
lol
Ah your different
You know what this sounds like, the two conflicting voices in my head.
Facts though
(Context, I have schizophrenia and I have other voices in my head.)
Yeah, whenever I hear this song, I think of my other voices arguing.
This song gives me father and teen daughter vibes. It's like the dad is telling his daughter to quit smoking before it comes a habit and gets lung cancer or emphysema
Worse lung capacity coughing etc happens anyway form tar quickly
Trust me I opened my mouth to sing but the intro beat wont let me so I was like👁👄👁..
Same GAJHAJAGHAGA
I said o0o
LOLOLOL SAMEE
HAHAHA
BHAHBHSADSAB IT HAPPENED TO ME I AM EMBRASSEDLKSFLK
People keep saying how the male voice is manipulative, but really he's in the right. The girl clearly doesn't know how scarily addictive nicotine is, but he does. He doesn't want her to get tied up into that, while he may not be wording his arguments correctly (sounding manipulative).
@Burt Fuzz actually couldn't agree more lol, they seriously need help
@Burt Fuzz Yeah the whole point is to show how cigarettes effect relationships
@Burt Fuzz girls nowadays are so sensitive omg!
Yeah , I suppose the man was a past smoker and doesn't want her wasting her life away like he did
i agree that the man has good intentions, but his methods of making her stop might be wrong, gaslighting her by saying “dont you love me” and threatening to hit her, if you want your partner to stop smoking, that is not the way you do it.
This song is so calming but creepy
Btw- 1:02
Yes
Yeah exactly
Like Supernatural
Yes
Thank you
3:44 my favorite part ❤
The "honey dont you love me and you know its make me sad" give me abusive parents vibes
ya it seems manipulating
@@jenniferkenneally5386 yes the tone in his voice... like hes hurting us
what are you talking about??
In my perspective is seems like hes only doing it for her health.
Abusive relationships def uses those terms to manipulate
with headphones this felt like my parents are fighting about my mom smoking meanwhile i'm between them trying to stop them from arguing.
it’s oddly calming though
🥺🥺
F
but same
"If I want to stop i can" - said almost every smoker ever.
Edit: Hell no
@Iman Hassani ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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@Iman Hassani can you like stop smoking for a few weeks if you want or could you? Cuz i actually can without a problem but then i just get back my habit cuz i feel like it lmao 💀
@@not_inuse7508 yeah I can I’ve been like this for 6 years now
Idk i smoke like crazy when im drunk but apart from that i dont smoke at all, when im sober its just disgusting :D therefore i have no reason to smoke and i have full control. Been like that for years now. Its not hard.
I got super grossed out by them one day because I smoked a whole pack in a few hours so o basically traumatized myself. Ever since then I was able to quit cold turkey
The Lalala part is literally my vibe..
SCREAMS DADDY ISSUES
*mommy issues*
stfu.
@@zoetovar1564 i’m saying this song doesn’t screams daddy issues it screams mommy issues if you think i’m saying something bad 🤦🏽♀️🙄
@@Izzyuu i didnt reply to you
@@zoetovar1564 then who ?
Just so everyone knows its head canon that the man is a dead husband singing to her wife to stop bc he died of lung cancer
wait that escalated quickly
🤭
Oh shit. That makes it darker
The comment that also said this is just above this comment-
That's kinda dark
Smoking while listening to this song hits different
Ok but fr
Fr tho
Now i wanna start smoking to feel it👁️👄👁️
@@seedsofwind thanks for the advise! I willl try that when i get lil older 👀
@@easv3236 don't do cigarettes they're actually harmful to your health and extremely addictive, weed is much better.
Every version of this song is brilliant
this song is my new obsession
please give me your instagram
@@АлександрКлименко-ч6я creep
@@anupamasingh3520 nah, he a simp
this song goes well with Lucifer and Chloe
Shut up
How ?
Fuck u dude now I can't get that out of my head
Wait but how?
true omg
Jonathan's voice make me feel some kinda way and I'm not sure how to describe it
SAME 🧍🏽♀️😭🤚🏽
@@chameleonsoul9237 SAMEEEE😭👩🏼🦯
@@annabellemannino5714 like idk how to explain it but his voice is just so oh my.. 😪😭
It makes me sooo jealous like if my voice sounded like his I would be so powerful I stg
His voice is attractive slowed bye
The part “ honey don’t you love me? And you know it makes me sad” sends shivers down my spine idk why-👀👀
omg thanks for the many likes.
but I will delete the comment, as I myself have a harmful addiction to smoking
True.
Its just a cigarette, it cannot be that bad, after after all, I do much worse things than cigarettes
@@fghvvghhggvb i can’t wait to smoke cigarettes and worse 🚬🤩😏
@@eljacksongallagher994 just do it. I did it before 2 minutes. It was so good. You only life ones so yeh fuck it
@@vornamenachname7656 i wish but i only 13 and i don’t want to get caught but maybe i will soon.
giving me very 🤌
If lana del rey’s “carmen” and “lolita” were merged into one
YES
I love how she says "bad" at 1:07
Samee
Szia Lajos
😕😔
@@zsombornyari6280 szia bazdmeg, kutyáidat sétáltatod?
𝘔𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘰
this reminds me of something that never happened, a nonexistent nostalgia
@walking among the dead yeah that could definitely be possible
@@charlossen Hhahaaa
it's called anemoia
@@gummywormm oh nice, thanks!
Yeah that weird and nice felling
Damn this wakes childhood memories
Come here and kiss my hot mouth
Ummm I came here to buy some..So...some CupCakes. Yea
This song makes me think of like two toxic people in a relationship... like the husband is more physically abusive, but the wife manipulates him.
omg same
The way the male voice talks in the song is definitely manipulative, he threats to hit her and her friend but she seems manipulative too because it’s implied she does it despite making it sad so I definitely agree with you here
Can someone give me an example of someone being abusive and the other manipulating?
@@bellax2617
physically abusive: there is a pattern of someone hitting others or another person (ex: a bully beating up their victim)
verbally/mentally abusive: there is a pattern of someone insulting/degrading others or another person (ex: someone berating their lover for being confused about something; "you're so annoying! you can't do anything right.")
emotionally/manipulatively abusive (this is also called "gaslighting"): there is a pattern of someone making themself out to be the victim when something doesn't go their way (ex: a parent comparing their child to another child; "why can't you be more like [name]? they're so well-behaved and smart, yet you're so rude and dumb. i just want you to be better.")
manipulative: a person using someone else or other variables around them to their advantage (ex: someone buttering up their higher-up to gain a more powerful spot; "wow, you're so smart! the way you behave is so inspiring; i wish i can be like you.")
remember: being abusive and manipulative are two very different things! they can coincide, for instance gaslighting, but are not the same. manipulation is only abusive if it harms another person.
@@fouralot you really took your time! thank you so much^^
I just discovered this song and it just has such a relaxing feeling to me. Everytime I am alone and have my emotional phase I lay in my bed and play this song and think about my life about what I could've done better and where I want to improve myself. This song helps me so much relaxing and reflecting on my past.
you r not alone
Literally same
Ikrrr😂😂
I love how she sing without opening her mouth
that's just a pic, it's not the girl who sang the song LMFAO
@@enigmatic_being it's sarcasm
@@c_martinjuniorpandapotan2554 oh okay-
Haha
Everyone talking about how this is a relationship
Meanwhile I interpreted as a father and daughter relationship 👁👁
Lol me too I think it’s cause the mans voice is very warm like a father. He also uses very childish words
When I first heard it I thought it was between a father and daughter too
Same here
Fr I thought it was a daughter and a father 💀
Same
“Honey, can’t you trust me? When I want to stop I can.”
I CAN'T TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY WITH THAT NAME AND PFP
@@undead.angel001 😂😂😂😂😂😩 LMFAOEOAJRKWKDKDJD SHHHHHH
@@baldisbasics7961 10/10 name and pfp
"Honey don't you love me you? know that makes me sad"
@@froggo1998 agreed💀
I can tell this is about a abusive relationship..
It is, in 2010 420 couples in New Zealand broke up due to smoking.
@@willyhubblenet i'm cant tell if it was actually 420 or if youre joking because its 420
@@justasillygoofyguy idk what was the amount
@@willyhubblenet me either lol
It's an anti smoking song, it says it in the original video . 🧏
ITS JUST A CIGARETTE AND IT CANNOT BE THAT BAD.....I LOVE THIS SONG FOR REAL
POV: You are having this argument with your highschool sweetheart. You bring up that he used to smoka and as you argue his voice rises and rises until he slaps you three times. You sit the sobbing trying to argue while he sets the packs of cigarettes on fire.
wait stop why did i think this would be attractive bye i need help😀
@@user-my4zb6dp2p same, that would be hot
but three times is too much 😳
@Boop Beep I know, I got issues
@viirgofairie I- ☠️☠️☠️
This song slowed down sounds just as magical as the original!
the vibe gives me a young girl pale skin with black hair dating a vampire who lives in a huge castle and its them fighting
wish that was me
nah the video is that girl from lazy town and ted bundy fighting over smoking 😍😍
this comment gives me strong castlevania vibes and im all here for it
@@cloudyfailures1184 thanks for making me laugh im really sick
wh-
This song hit different for me. The reason is because I was like the boyfriend in the song warning my ex girlfriend of things she should stay away from because of the harm and the path it would put her on. She had the same attitude as the girlfriend in this song. And now the very things I warned her about have consumed her. We don't tell you to stay away from things because we can't to control or take away your fun we try to warn you because we know what will happen and we want to save you from the pain and heart break we have experienced. To a point I feel like I failed her. I just wish she would have listened to me.
pov: you listen to your mom and dad argue over your mom coming back to her addiction to cigarettes after she has been to hospital for it.
this may or may not be based on a real life situation
It's going to be alright sweetie. Don't lose hope❤️
@@ferribeatrice9892 thank you, we are doing better now though
@@katerinatodorova1263 I’m glad y’all are doing okay! I’ve never experienced that before, although it sounds ruff. Have a nice day! 👍
me wanting to eat sweet things: it’s just a piece of candy and it cannot be that bad
my skin: honey don’t you love me and you know it makes me sad
😂😂😂😂
Thats me with bread
*(Has a gluten allergy but family can only get normal bread and all my food involves bread)*
@@froggo1998 oh gtk jtlyk
😂
I searched for the meaning of the song:
The song is about a couple who fights over the health risks of smoking. The female in the song is the smoker while the male is trying to encourage her to stop smoking. In the song, we learn the male was a previous smoker, but later quit.
-Straight up copy-paste from wiki. :)
Good job Sherlock
Almost like you could listen to the song and analyze that
@@grump7273 well I couldn't so
@@1134xxxx thanks
@@grump7273 no cuz people in the comments are talking about manipulation and emotional abuse and who's the victim so this explanation is very much needed for those people.
"When I want to stop, I can
" Everything started with this...
The way this songs makes me feel it just hits different, like I am safe here
To be honest I feel like the melody and just the way it sounds in general would be played in a Tim burton film which I lovee ❤️❤️❤️❤️
YESSSS
I feel like the beginning could be played in euphoria like when rue is high or with jules
Yesss
I don't know why i'm scared, everytime i hear to this song.But i can't stop hearing it
ikr it's kind of a weird feeling. it scares me and i want to run away from it but I can't because its so addicting?? and ig this is the same thing that addict people feel and it's scary-
Bruh same !!!!
Yep I don't know but I can't stop hearing this song. I think maybe I'm curious about the story, beat, the voice of them.
Same
'' Honey, you can trust me when i stop i can '' that hit me hard. The fact that its impossible to stop smoking bc of the nicotine and she doesnt know is sad
@RickProduction It’s not impossible, but it’s very difficult
@RickProduction I’m so proud of you!!
@RickProduction I hope you are still going strong! My dad stopped smoking when I was born, he was not allowed to watch while I was born, because he was smoking and that is why he stopped.
I know its not the same but ive got the same thing with soda. I drank it once a week when i was a kid and now as a 20 year old i am drinking it every day nearly. I dont even like the taste anymore. But if i dont take it i start getting angry and my hands start to shake. Dunno why.
This is so aesthetically pleasing
Everyone saying it’s a manipulative boyfriend but it sounds more like a dad
Daughters don't call their dad's honey. though she could be using it in a mocking tone I've heard evidence of that. All in all the relationship is so vague that you can interpret it however you want
His voice doesnt sound manipulative...but ita is kinda scary
@AL13N FR34K❤️🔥 I said daughters she said "honey don't you trust me when I want to stop I can"
@@j3ssthealien283 bees : 🧍♀️
I think it's a husband and wifey relationship
why am I so pulled in by Jonathan’s voice 🏃🏽♀️🦋🤠
its crazy how much the tempo of the song can really change its vibe
It’s incredible what music can make you feel. I love it
1:00
(don’t mind me , just gonna come back and listen to this part ;)
1:03
@SMASH oh my god i forgot about this
haha I'm sorry! ill listen to it now
It's just a cigarette, and it cannot be that bad
Honey, don't you love me and you know it makes me sad?
It's just a cigarette like you always used to do
I was different then, I don't need them to be cool
It's just a cigarette, and it harms your pretty lungs
Well, it's only twice a week, so there's not much of a chance
It's just a cigarette; it'll soon be only ten
Honey, can you trust me?, when I want to stop I can
It's just a cigarette, and it's just a Marlboro Light
Maybe, but is it worth it if we fight?
It's just a cigarette that I got from Jamie-Lee
She's gonna get a smack, and I'm gonna give you three
It's just a cigarette and I only did it once (It's just a cigarette it'll soon be only ten)
It's only twice a week, so there's not much of a chance (It'll make you sick, girl, there's not much of a chance)
It's just a cigarette, and I'm sorry that I did it (It's just a cigarette, you'll be sorry that you did it)
Honey, can you trust me?, when I want to stop I can
La la, la la la la la la
La la, la la la la la la
La la, la la la la la la
La la, la la la la la la
La la, la la la la la la
La la, la la la la la la
La la, la la la la la la
La la, la la la la la la
Übersetzen in: Deutsch
I play this everytime I’m feeling down… helps me a lot :)
Who else listened to this song once and now addicted to it
Me
my favorite part is "when i want to stop i can" for no reason.
Feel like slow dancing with death itself listening to this
you know the true meaning behind this song
@@juniejunebug i couldn't agree more
@@juniejunebug what is it
Princess Chelsea makes me feel so good when she sings this song
intro longer than my life🤚🏻😭
this song makes me feel a way i can’t explain
I love this version so much ty for uploading it!
This hits different for people who've been through addiction
I first imagined the scenario as her trying to convince him to smoke again while holding a cigarette to his face but I then watched the original and realised that it’s to raise awareness of couples breaking up due to smoking so.. that’s fun.
More like to raise awareness of the dangers of cigarettes. The man singing is her dead husband who died from lung cancer.
@@somethingunpredictable8412 Well, no. At the end of the official music video it states that in 2010 over 420 couples in New Zealand split up due to issues over smoking cigarettes. So with about 10 seconds of research I confirmed that-..
@@watermelonmochi3441 I didn't deny it tho? I just said that I thought it had more to do with that but okay.
@@somethingunpredictable8412 And I was just saying that it’s what it was about. I know people have opinions though with how you worded your statement it sounded like trying to prove it wasn’t. I just like to encourage people to do research before saying things. (I know this is a mediocre topic but it’s always good practice.)
@@watermelonmochi3441 Oh okay, English isn't my first language so I might've sounded like that.
the tiny little gap between ‘it’s’ and ‘just’ at the start of the song is making me scream without the s
😭
This song is HAUNTING. Qhy do people like it.....ugh
@@azariabronton8821 enchanting or hypnotic more than haunting...
aYO
This song hits hard, especially when your mom is addicted to cigarettes and won’t stop even for you 😐
Yes :((
same here. try to remember that her brain has been wired to depend on cigarettes. addictions are hard, just try to love her through it
my mom got cancer and and that was the only way she stop smoking
@@cemelmas2610 i’m so sorry I hope she’s okay
My mum stopped smoking and the only way to prevent her from smoking again she now vapes
i hear this song every day because my father smokes at least 5 times a day for 20 YEARS and a few days ago, he got so tired that he had to go to the hospital. He couldn't even walk, i got scared thinking that i'll be orphan because my mum already died due to a car driving off a cliff and father started to smoke even more, including the drinking... ..and today he just came back. I tried telling him to stop smoking or he'll die, he agreed to stop but i didn't believe him so i kept an eye on him, plus i have to take care of him every SINGLE day and sometimes i'd cry as well. I'm glad that he stopped though.
When she actually starts singing 1:02 or 1:03
Thank you
People are apparently too impatient to listen to a minute of buildup lol
@Carlos Ramirez you gone get a smack
Y'all make a problem out of nothing. This guy is literally trying to make her stop smoking. It's to spread awareness smh.
fr all the girls in the comments tryna turn it into the guy is abusing the girl for tryna help his wife not get lung cancer
@@jiiiit7871 probably brought up in a middle class family with caring friends and family but want to make everything a problem for drama's sake
THIS!!!
the song isnt part of an anti smoking campaign. it’s art. the guy also mentions smacking women in one of his lines. it’s deeper than that
@@Adrieeennn have you watched the full original video? And the message at the end? I don't think so
Everyone's talking about how manipulate the male voice is but all he is doing is trying to stop a budding addiction and has her health in mind.
This gives such a sinister vibe but good vibes I don’t know how to explain it such a banger
something about this song is so comforting, like ive been through this before
it’s so ✨ v i n t a g e ✨ edit: 2/6/21 uhm no hates this song is from 9 years ago when I was born edit 2: 3/6/21 stop hating on me its frustrating
It was made 9 years ago lol
The song not this video
@@khlofie2067 no way
shut the fuck up 😐
@@oscvr6866 agreed
I know what you mean
of course y’all make the boy out to be the bad person in this situation. he’s literally trying to stop her smoking because it makes him sad and he loves her.
@@yuh309 yes but if the woman is doing something bad and the man is trying to stop her CAUSE SHE IS RISKING HER LIFE (Smoking is bad it’ll cause lung problems) then she has to listen and it’d still be the same if it was the man who was doing something bad.
Right These fucking weirdos just hate any male.
yeah but he literally hits her
but didn't he say he would hit her uhm-
@@mayam3123
Then again, what do you think is worse:
A- 3 smacks
or
B- Lifelong lung cancer
manipulation isnt always abusive. i interpret this as him manipulating her into quitting her addiction so she doesnt die