Audiobook: Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by John Gottman PhD

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @lifelessonspodcastdougspence
    @lifelessonspodcastdougspence 8 місяців тому +23

    This is better than the audible version thank you !

  • @deborahkash
    @deborahkash Рік тому +21

    1:05 is wonderful to hear, about trust. I just think I have met the love of my life and I want to do things right. I am just starting to go out with him and I want to build a good relationship based on trust.

    • @cosmovoiceversa
      @cosmovoiceversa  Рік тому +3

      That sounds like a beautiful journey you're embarking on! Best of luck, and may your relationship blossom into something truly special! 🌟💖

    • @deborahkash
      @deborahkash Рік тому

      @@cosmovoiceversa He is so nice, loves to send me big long texts as I study PhD in Spanish Literature & cultural studies. I like to read. He is 50 y'o I am 41 and He takes me out to the best restaurant in town in our first date. He says he wants a LTR and that is what I want too. I am foreigner from Brazil here for my doctorated but if I dound the love of my life Yes I want o stay in US after my studies.

    • @kseke25
      @kseke25 10 місяців тому +3

      @@deborahkashHow are things going with your new love?

  • @blueriver1604
    @blueriver1604 Рік тому +14

    30 minutes in
    Differences are the norm und
    Have a Date night
    Asking open ended questions to one another

  • @cool_dude_like_really
    @cool_dude_like_really 11 місяців тому +4

    47:20 date 1: trust and commitment

  • @nictegki
    @nictegki Рік тому +7

    @1:06:24 not to do if you want a beautiful relationship that last forever!❤

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious 9 місяців тому +4

    1:04:19 ways how trust is broken

  • @macfin4862
    @macfin4862 3 місяці тому +1

    Good date with little kids is driving around at night until they fall asleep, then having a picnic somewhere next to the car

  • @Itsrosaa
    @Itsrosaa Місяць тому

    Relationships don’t last without talk
    You cant be in a relationship and dont have conflict
    Us our
    Rituals of connection
    Deep and close friendship
    A team
    Our relationship come first find time
    Vulnerability create trust and trust is the oxygen of the relationship
    Bith of us are thinking for two we considee the cost of the desition for our partner

  • @DKMRFCBrlz
    @DKMRFCBrlz Рік тому +6

    What a lovely book, will definitely buy asap

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious 8 місяців тому

    2:01:56 John and Julie’s story

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious 11 місяців тому +1

    23:34 a couple expressing negativity

  • @deborahkash
    @deborahkash Рік тому +3

    1.15 😊

  • @ratias0
    @ratias0 Рік тому +1

    00:28:49

  • @bobomodw3158
    @bobomodw3158 11 місяців тому

    1:16:00

  • @nictegki
    @nictegki Рік тому

    @2:39:50 National Institute for play

  • @BlueMoonLady72
    @BlueMoonLady72 Рік тому +5

    I hate to disprove the “date night” experiment, but it doesn’t always work. My ex husband and I had date night and couples therapy along with him telling the therapist that divorce was not an option - all the while he was sleeping and having a relationship with a girl 20 years younger than I was while he was working out of town during the week.
    Date night means nothing if he is having it with the wife and the home wrecker.

    • @Frankiethenomad
      @Frankiethenomad Рік тому +11

      It’s not the method that doesn’t work. It’s more about the individuals readiness, willingness to venture into complete transparency and vulnerability in the process. The method is arbitrary.

    • @humble.pie.
      @humble.pie. Рік тому +1

      You can't take responsibility for your choices?

    • @ShimonFrankel
      @ShimonFrankel 11 місяців тому +1

      this is an unusual case. couples therapy won't work when somone is cheating

    • @WildBillTT
      @WildBillTT 2 місяці тому

      Well, that's certainly one side of the story.

  • @animelvr99
    @animelvr99 Рік тому +1

    25:00

  •  6 місяців тому +1

    2:12:43