I love how you explained the genetics part of addiction! Thank you for being an awesome mother who encourages her sons to feel proud of their dad's recovery!
I've been watching you for years and years and was just thinking about how out of everyone I watch you are the most genuine and grounded. I feel that you have kept it real and are always very transparent!
I'm sorry that you even have to explain yourself. I can't imagine someone could say anything negative seeing how honest and open you are. Some people just have filth living inside of them, and they have to spew it out to feel better about themselves.
Coming from someone who was married to a narcissist, emotional and mentally abusive man addicted to pain pills, I can say I commend you and I have nothing but respect for you! Next month will be 1 year since I took my boys and walked out after spending 7 years with this man. Staying gone was the hardest part for me but not this time. I remember commenting on your divorce video over a year ago, at that point I felt so helpless, I never thought I would get the courage to leave and stay gone but I DID IT and it feels amazing!!!! Watching your videos helped give me courage and made me realize there IS hope to happiness and a safe life away from the constant frustration and worry about his next blow out. So I want to personally THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!!!!!!! Shame on those hateful people with lives so miserable they have to attempt to make others feel that way. We all know the truth about you ❤️
I watched the 'Divorce, Why?' video like 40 mins ago, then saw the post date. I'm so happy your doing so well :D And feel really lucky you posted this when you did. You are SO strong. way stronger than me. From what i can tell your doing life right.
Jeni....pay absolutely NO ATTENTION to the haters. You dealt with your divorce and your ex husbands issues with a lot of dignity and class. At no point did you bad mouth your ex....even though the pain of what you and the boys went through was very evident in that video. You now have an enviable relationship with your ex's partner, and possibly some of the hate that is coming your way, is coming out of jealousy, even though the person sending the hate may not realize the real reason for it. Continue being you...you are a wonderful mother and I'm sure a fabulous partner as well....those of us who have followed you for a long time see the real you.
I'm 25, single, and childless, and I've been watching your videos for years haha. I just love them and you seem like someone who I'd be friends with. I have noticed some really hateful comments on your videos lately and I feel bad for those people. Of course there are times where a mean or negative thought might come to my head while watching someone's video, but I just move on. I don't understand internet trolls, but they are sad indeed. Best of luck to you, Jeni!
Comments like "No wonder he turned to drugs because you are..." such and such. Is just what a person addicted to something would say. Its such a sad typical thing for drug users and alcoholics to do. Always blame the people around them for the bad choices they make. Im sorry you got messages like that and other harassing comments :( you are a brave courageous woman and im glad you are happier now. And im glad he is happier and healthier.
Regarding the ugly comments. People are ALWAYS more confident behind a computer and / or phone screen. Always. They think that there's a screen to block their rude attitude. You know if you ever met them face to face, 99% of them would never say the comments. But because they can use a fake name or whatever, people feel they have the right to be down right a** holes. Sorry you have to deal with that. I personally have always enjoyed catching up with your life. Love from Michigan. 💞💞
I applaud your peace, honesty and vulnerability in this one. You don't owe anyone a single explanation, yet you gave us all a very CANDID one. I appreciate that. And I support you and your efforts 100%! ❤️
Divorcing a husband that has drug issues is EXTREMELY difficult! I'm 14 years post divorce from a drug addict and my children have grown up knowing what happened and are stronger because of it. They work on their relationships with their dad and I'm there to support and help them. Be encouraged. ..you're doing very well. Hugs
Some of the things people will say just blow my mind. I love how real you are. Thank you so much for sharing your story, you really are an inspiration to me.
I watch your videos because you are so inspirational. I'm only 23 years old, not a mother, not living in America. I just really enjoy watching how you live your life. I like how you treat the criticism/ hate comments you got by just talking about it and being a grown-up person about it.
I found your channel through that video & have been a subscriber ever since. I've loved watching your journey from that time in your life until now. Thank you for sharing :-)
I lost a live in girlfriend who secretly drank herself to death in my house. I found her in the restroom one morning. Every time I found her behavior odd she had an answer for it. She also lashed out at me a lot. As our relationship unwound I could not put her out because she was so broken she had no place to go and was unfunctional. I understand how drugs and alcohol can change all it touches. I did not understand how much emotional sadness existed in our house and clung to us as individual until after she passed. To all who have loved and lost because of drugs and alcohol I am so sorry for your loss.
I truly believe you have helped SO many people, and particularly woman who have been going through the same thing and given them someone to relate to! I'm so sorry people on here are so disrespectful! That's awful! Wishing you all the best and SO much happiness with this new chapter in your life, you absolutely deserve the best!
I am only 16 years old yet I've been watching you since I watched your "divorce" video which I came across about a year ago. Although I am not a mom, I still really enjoy watching you & your family's videos. Ever since that video, I gained a lot of respect for you. Especially knowing that your husband has gotten better and you both have found other people that you guys love. I truly respect and wish you the best Jeni !
In her divorce video she stated that she tried to give him a chance to clean up and it didn't help. Sometimes you give someone everything you can and then enough is enough. Just my opinion 😃😃
Your the best 😊 - when u were talking at the end about the 'core cool group you said we can "be moms living a messy mom life together." This pretty much sums up why I watch your videos everyday - Thank u for vlogging!
You know, you can't control what other people think, nor can you make everyone like you...that is their loss. The biggest thing is never let them rob you of your joy. No one can make you sad or bummed if you don't let them. Live well...give them something to talk about! :)
I've been shocked by the terrible comments you get on just your everyday videos. I'm glad you can ignore them and not let it get to you. I'm so happy for you!! You deserve things to be so happy!
Don't let you those words in- ALL those lies. No one is perfect but you aren't any of those things! I watch you to pick-up ideas, mom- life. . Etc You are a very strong-willed lady. Don't let anyone bash you down. :) Happy fall from Canada
Well I for one have been helped immensely by you Jeni!! My life would have never changed if I hadn't found 'THAT' video!! I am so grateful to you. There will always be haters in this world, just know they are hating because of something going on in their own lives and channeling it towards you. You rock! Keep doing what you are doing. Us diehard Candid Mommy fans are here for you. Xx
Sorry it's been so rough with the backlash after being open. I have family who use drugs and I don't have the perspective of the wife, but it was helpful even for me to see. I never thought you were doing it for attention and the sick world we live in means that there are countless other mothers and wives out there going through or who have went through what you did, or even the children of parents like you and your ex. I think what you did by sharing was brave and continuing to share the survival after the fact is brave, ESPECIALLY with the venom so many on the internet love to spew. You went through hell at home and lost everything you worked towards for more than a decade and your boys almost completely lost their father. It's AMAZING how far everything has come and MOST stories don't end up that well. Just wanted to encourage you here. 💗
You are seriously inspirational Jeni. You are just so real that I aspire to be like you. A true real mom that unconditionally loves her children and never claims to be perfect at it. Thank you for brightening my day whenever you post. I am one of those people who LOVES to see what you're buying at costco, and how the kids are doing, and what you pack in their lunches, and mom outfits. I love it all! You deserve nothing but the best.
Be extremely proud of how brave, honest and raw you have been. So many people have needed your words even if they are afraid to comment, because of others mean comments. Sharing your story has been a blessing to so many.
Bringing awareness of addiction is the best thing we need in our society nowadays! Anyone can go through this.. Whether it's a friend or family member.. So many people are struggling with addiction and become very sick and need help.. I went through what you went through (almost exactly) and had to walk away for the sake of my son. My son came first. That's so sad people are giving you such a hard time. It's so inspiring to see you are not letting the comments affect you! Stay strong girl!!
I found your channel last week. I've watched a lot of your videos and I genuinely enjoyed them. I'm sorry people are so mean. I know it's not easy reading hateful things directed towards you. For what it's worth, I think you seem like a very good hearted, honest person. I admire your energy! I hope one day to be as fit as you are! :)
Thank you so much for sharing you have no idea how much you helped me. To see your strength has helped me so much, I have watched since the beginning. I am now 6 months separated and 3 months divorced. You helped me have so much courage to do what is right for my children and I. My story is very very similar to yours. Thank you so much, keep on doing you and your best! ❤️❤️❤️
Core mom group right here! Been watching since you had deacon - and then drake bc I had 2 boys then too! Went on to have 2 more boys so 4 total ! Love you vids and always routing for you !
Your story motivated me to stay strong and keep going. I don't have a family or intend to at all, but your willingness to keep fighting inspired me. :-)
As a child of divorce with a father who struggled with addiction, I commend you on how you are dealing with this. Transparency and honesty is the best gift you can give your boys. I was lied to and at 33 I can say I'm still bitter about it. The lying hurt me more than the actions or lack thereof. Bravo Mama!
I'm a 21 year old college student, I'm not a mom and I live in the dorms (don't cook), but I keep watching all your videos anyways just because I find you so down to earth and relatable. I love everything about you and I hope you continue this channel.
I agree 100% about being open with your boys! Absolutely! Thank God their dad changed his life and there's a positive outcome. I think that's an awesome thing to teach your boys. Using drugs can ruin your life and tear apart your family, all kids should be aware of that!
I always say you can't have to many people that love your kids...God bless. This is great that you can all make things great for your kids. Your amazing....keep being you.
I'm proud of you. I'm glad you share your life, I enjoy watching your journey, I wish my mom would have left when you did. I can't imagine how horrible the comments must be...
Why can't step parents and parents get along me and my ex and my partners exs all get along. I don't get jealous also. I think this take a level of maturity.
Jealous of that! My ex is so negative and rude. My parents always fought even when we were adults with children. Won't even be in the same room with each other.
Misery needs company and you've been living the good life, found a great guy and seems to be a much happier person. I'm so sorry your getting negativity. You have been such a huge role model, a good example in my life. I don't read comments often or post much but thank you for keeping it real and sharing the store of your life.
Hi Jeni, I have been watching your videos since Drake was a baby. Him and my oldest son are very close to the same age! I haven't commented much, but I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy and appreciate you and your channel. I love how "candid" it is (lol). I watch every video you put out there, and with videos like this one, it truly feels like you could be sitting across from me in my living room chatting with a friend. And I really appreciate that! I also just wanted to applaud you on how far you've come in these last couple years. Divorce is a crazy thing for anyone to go through, but your situation was so unique to me, and I'm just so happy to see you and your family truly thriving and happy. Proud of you lady. You're a great woman and mom and I just wanted to send this comment letting ya know that :) thanks for taking the time to read this! -Ashley
I saw many of those negative comments on your div-video, and was astounded.. There you are, being genuine; opening-up and sharing about a painful experience... and then to be so harshly shamed.. those comments were indeed awful.. Anyway, with THIS video, you have shown your strength in responding (again) genuinely, and assertively.. You set an EXCELLENT example for you kids in how you have handled the divorce situation, how you can open up and share the experience in a genuine way ... in your healthy relationship with their step-mom, and how you have assertively responded to harsh criticisms BRAVO!!
My ex remarried and they had a son, later they divorced.I'm friends with my ex husbands ex wife. I know people think that's weird but we get along and all the kids know each other. That's the important thing.
I love that you are good with the stepmom :) As a divorce children myself, I wish I would be as close to my dad and his new family as you boys will be. We didn't have contact for years and I met him last year but he can't get the time back he missed and that is a problem. Your boys will have a big loving family to come back to when they are older and out of the house and they will be grateful that you and your ex worked it out. Lots of love from Austria :)
Hi Jennie! I just saw this video and decided to write you a comment. I just wanted to tell you that I think you´re videos are great. They are great because you are 100% authentic, you are not playing a role and you are just keeping things simple. That is why I watch your channel. I´m sorry to hear that you have been getting so many "hater" comments. You know, haters only "hate" to compensate their own issues. they have no other way to deal with it than trying to make someone else feel miserable too. I know that you posted the "divorce why" video to help people. and what u did is brave. too many people die inside to keep things a secret. opening up to traumatic topics and to be vulnerable is brave and i am sure you have helped so many people. i am sure you have shown so many people that they are not alone and that they can get through this if they have a similar situation. so this comment is simply to say thank you for the authentic content you put out and to continue to do so! lots of love, Melanie
Wow, you have a generous heart. You are inspirational. I wish that all divorced parents could follow your philosophy of blending new families together. Thank you for sharing.
i put a comment on a video and i was called a man hating monger... :/ i was just making an observation and it went straight to such hateful words :/ im married so clearly not a man hating monger otherwise id be a lesbian i guess? its just trolls hiding behind their keyboard... they would never say that to our faces
I've been watching your videos since Deacon was a baby and I watch because you're so calm and charismatic and I love you food/lunch videos. About the divorce, I think you handled it really well and helped a lot of people by doing that video. I know it's hard but just keep ignoring those comments, if you love making videos and most people love watching them, then you should keep doing what you love, if that makes sense... oh and just so you know, I'm from Brazil and Like I said, I love your videos! I also have two kids a boy 3ys and a girl who is 1 and I loved specially that video that you talked about how it's harder to discipline Drake... my 3 year old is a difficult case too :)
Don't worry about UA-cam comments. This is pretty much the mos eisley of the internet. Whatever you say or do, some scumbag will pipe up and pick a fight or spread their useless hate.
Thank you for creating a great UA-cam channel. I respect your work enormously. It is so good to see you in a healthy place. Sad to hear about the haters. It would be good if UA-cam stepped up to the plate and put in place consequences for hate messages.
Hi. I've been watching your videos for about a year. I normally don't comment, but I just had to after watching this video. I hate that people would leave you such awful comments. You are an amazing person, and I wish more divorced woman were like you. You set such a great example for your boys. The fact that you could put aside everything that happened, and be positive for them, and promote a healthy and good relationship for them with their dad is amazing. Your boys are so blessed to have such a great Mom. You should be proud of yourself - your doing a great job! I love your videos and your positive outlook. You are an inspiration.
I know it's one of your more popular videos, and it's how I found you actually... but do you ever get sick of talking about that video? Like, you can't move on because it's what everyone wants to talk about all.the.time?
I love your videos, Hate comments are everywhere, I have said this before you are doing the best you can for your boys, I don't like it when people make negative comments about you because they have not walked a mile in your shoes, so how would they know what you went thru, keep putting out the videos I like each and everyone of them.
Lol. I was listening to you whilst putting my makeup on ready for the day ha. I wish people weren't so mean. It genuinely boggles my mind just how mean some people can be! Sat hidden behind a computer screen or phone gives people strength. In real life they are cowards! I admire your strength and all that you share. I've been there since the beginning and l just love to follow your journey. You inspire more people than you piss off ha 😂
It's weird. It says there are 132 comments here on YT app...but none show up. I have to press the new little button for "newest first" and only 1 shows up...but there are 132 it says next to comments. "Comments (132)"
I saw a video related to the Divorce video that was all about pointing out the flaws in the video and you as a person. It was narrated by a guy who wasn't very friendly
Thanks for the background video and this new video! They were really informative. I hope you're still not a fan of alcohol, or drugs. I thought that was very attractive.
I Been with you a very long time , WOW that is crazy people leave you nasty comments. Don't let them get to you. Always seems to be Trolls out there. I am in Eugene Oregon so I loved it when you said your bf liked the Ducks. My family are big fans. Keep doing what you do ..👍🏼💚
You put your life out there and thank goodness you understand that there will be hate. Its not fair or nice but I guess when someone is typing they feel they can get away with whatever it is they want.
As people get more subscribers on UA-cam, they get more "hate", that's a fact. Zoë (from Zoella) mentioned, that now she has gotten to a point where none of the disgusting things that are being said get to her because she has heard everything. There is nothing new that people could think of because all the disgusting things have already been said at one point or another. I have always believed the theory, that people who put others down are very sad inside, but still even then I don't understand it. I am going through the worst time of my life (My mom died three months ago), and still I will not go and say mean things around. Jeni, I really, really hope that you will not ever, ever quit youtube because of mean people. Your videos are lovely and make my day. I am going to homeschool my little daughter, but, for example, your lunches give me inspiration. The fact that teacher gave you praise for your boy's lunch is just another proof of that. I follow a lot of UA-camrs, so my feed is always full of new videos, and yours are one of the first I click on, I'm being serious. Your videos are lovely, and I genuinely look forward to them. Stay strong.
There's so much hate on the Internet, it's crazy. They don't even know you and they judge you. Ignore that hate, it's sad to see people with so much hate. Hugs ❤
I love how you explained the genetics part of addiction! Thank you for being an awesome mother who encourages her sons to feel proud of their dad's recovery!
I love that your supportive of wanting them to be positive about their dad. That is an amazing thing ❤️
I've been watching you for years and years and was just thinking about how out of everyone I watch you are the most genuine and grounded. I feel that you have kept it real and are always very transparent!
I'm sorry that you even have to explain yourself. I can't imagine someone could say anything negative seeing how honest and open you are. Some people just have filth living inside of them, and they have to spew it out to feel better about themselves.
Coming from someone who was married to a narcissist, emotional and mentally abusive man addicted to pain pills, I can say I commend you and I have nothing but respect for you! Next month will be 1 year since I took my boys and walked out after spending 7 years with this man. Staying gone was the hardest part for me but not this time. I remember commenting on your divorce video over a year ago, at that point I felt so helpless, I never thought I would get the courage to leave and stay gone but I DID IT and it feels amazing!!!! Watching your videos helped give me courage and made me realize there IS hope to happiness and a safe life away from the constant frustration and worry about his next blow out. So I want to personally THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!!!!!!! Shame on those hateful people with lives so miserable they have to attempt to make others feel that way. We all know the truth about you ❤️
I watched the 'Divorce, Why?' video like 40 mins ago, then saw the post date. I'm so happy your doing so well :D And feel really lucky you posted this when you did. You are SO strong. way stronger than me. From what i can tell your doing life right.
I feel like you've made it as a youtuber when people start calling you nasty things for no reason lol
Jeni....pay absolutely NO ATTENTION to the haters. You dealt with your divorce and your ex husbands issues with a lot of dignity and class. At no point did you bad mouth your ex....even though the pain of what you and the boys went through was very evident in that video. You now have an enviable relationship with your ex's partner, and possibly some of the hate that is coming your way, is coming out of jealousy, even though the person sending the hate may not realize the real reason for it. Continue being you...you are a wonderful mother and I'm sure a fabulous partner as well....those of us who have followed you for a long time see the real you.
I'm 25, single, and childless, and I've been watching your videos for years haha. I just love them and you seem like someone who I'd be friends with. I have noticed some really hateful comments on your videos lately and I feel bad for those people. Of course there are times where a mean or negative thought might come to my head while watching someone's video, but I just move on. I don't understand internet trolls, but they are sad indeed. Best of luck to you, Jeni!
I can't imagine hating on you! You seem like the most genuine person ever!
Comments like "No wonder he turned to drugs because you are..." such and such. Is just what a person addicted to something would say. Its such a sad typical thing for drug users and alcoholics to do. Always blame the people around them for the bad choices they make. Im sorry you got messages like that and other harassing comments :( you are a brave courageous woman and im glad you are happier now. And im glad he is happier and healthier.
Regarding the ugly comments.
People are ALWAYS more confident behind a computer and / or phone screen. Always. They think that there's a screen to block their rude attitude. You know if you ever met them face to face, 99% of them would never say the comments. But because they can use a fake name or whatever, people feel they have the right to be down right a** holes.
Sorry you have to deal with that. I personally have always enjoyed catching up with your life. Love from Michigan. 💞💞
I always get a lot clean when you do videos. Love listening to them as I work. Thanks for keeping it real.
wow i found you two years ago.. that is crazy. you are such a good person. dont deserve any of those comments.
I applaud your peace, honesty and vulnerability in this one. You don't owe anyone a single explanation, yet you gave us all a very CANDID one. I appreciate that. And I support you and your efforts 100%! ❤️
Divorcing a husband that has drug issues is EXTREMELY difficult! I'm 14 years post divorce from a drug addict and my children have grown up knowing what happened and are stronger because of it. They work on their relationships with their dad and I'm there to support and help them.
Be encouraged. ..you're doing very well. Hugs
Some of the things people will say just blow my mind. I love how real you are. Thank you so much for sharing your story, you really are an inspiration to me.
The comments are just a reflection of where they're at, not you.
I am so glad that you don't let the haters stop you from making videos. I enjoy your videos so much! Thank you for sharing your life.
I watch your videos because you are so inspirational. I'm only 23 years old, not a mother, not living in America. I just really enjoy watching how you live your life. I like how you treat the criticism/ hate comments you got by just talking about it and being a grown-up person about it.
I found your channel through that video & have been a subscriber ever since. I've loved watching your journey from that time in your life until now. Thank you for sharing :-)
You are purely awesome! Thank you for your openness and honesty, I always enjoy your videos.
I lost a live in girlfriend who secretly drank herself to death in my house. I found her in the restroom one morning. Every time I found her behavior odd she had an answer for it. She also lashed out at me a lot. As our relationship unwound I could not put her out because she was so broken she had no place to go and was unfunctional. I understand how drugs and alcohol can change all it touches. I did not understand how much emotional sadness existed in our house and clung to us as individual until after she passed. To all who have loved and lost because of drugs and alcohol I am so sorry for your loss.
I truly believe you have helped SO many people, and particularly woman who have been going through the same thing and given them someone to relate to! I'm so sorry people on here are so disrespectful! That's awful! Wishing you all the best and SO much happiness with this new chapter in your life, you absolutely deserve the best!
I am only 16 years old yet I've been watching you since I watched your "divorce" video which I came across about a year ago. Although I am not a mom, I still really enjoy watching you & your family's videos. Ever since that video, I gained a lot of respect for you. Especially knowing that your husband has gotten better and you both have found other people that you guys love. I truly respect and wish you the best Jeni !
If your ex-husband would have said he would go to treatment and get clean, do you think you would have stayed with him?
In her divorce video she stated that she tried to give him a chance to clean up and it didn't help. Sometimes you give someone everything you can and then enough is enough. Just my opinion 😃😃
Your the best 😊 - when u were talking at the end about the 'core cool group you said we can "be moms living a messy mom life together." This pretty much sums up why I watch your videos everyday - Thank u for vlogging!
You know, you can't control what other people think, nor can you make everyone like you...that is their loss. The biggest thing is never let them rob you of your joy. No one can make you sad or bummed if you don't let them. Live well...give them something to talk about! :)
I've been shocked by the terrible comments you get on just your everyday videos. I'm glad you can ignore them and not let it get to you. I'm so happy for you!! You deserve things to be so happy!
Don't let you those words in- ALL those lies. No one is perfect but you aren't any of those things! I watch you to pick-up ideas, mom- life. . Etc
You are a very strong-willed lady. Don't let anyone bash you down. :)
Happy fall from Canada
Well I for one have been helped immensely by you Jeni!! My life would have never changed if I hadn't found 'THAT' video!! I am so grateful to you. There will always be haters in this world, just know they are hating because of something going on in their own lives and channeling it towards you. You rock! Keep doing what you are doing. Us diehard Candid Mommy fans are here for you. Xx
I love your videos and I think your such a strong person, I admire you!
Sorry it's been so rough with the backlash after being open. I have family who use drugs and I don't have the perspective of the wife, but it was helpful even for me to see. I never thought you were doing it for attention and the sick world we live in means that there are countless other mothers and wives out there going through or who have went through what you did, or even the children of parents like you and your ex. I think what you did by sharing was brave and continuing to share the survival after the fact is brave, ESPECIALLY with the venom so many on the internet love to spew. You went through hell at home and lost everything you worked towards for more than a decade and your boys almost completely lost their father. It's AMAZING how far everything has come and MOST stories don't end up that well. Just wanted to encourage you here. 💗
You are seriously inspirational Jeni. You are just so real that I aspire to be like you. A true real mom that unconditionally loves her children and never claims to be perfect at it. Thank you for brightening my day whenever you post. I am one of those people who LOVES to see what you're buying at costco, and how the kids are doing, and what you pack in their lunches, and mom outfits. I love it all! You deserve nothing but the best.
I love all the answers you gave. Great video!
Thank you for sharing every day. I went through some things in 2001 and 2002. Keep on keepin on!
I don't know where people get off being mean. Keep doing you're thing. The rest of us love ya! 😉
Loving your videos lately, Keep it up, :) Keep your lovely positive attitude too
Be extremely proud of how brave, honest and raw you have been. So many people have needed your words even if they are afraid to comment, because of others mean comments. Sharing your story has been a blessing to so many.
that's awesome you and his new wife get along and Co parent. you have come far. that's great things r going right for you now.
Haters gonna hate, potatoes gonna potate lol
Oh Jeni! You are far far from those things. I've watched you for years! You are SUCH a fabulous person inside and out. Never change! Xo
HUGS sweetie haters are going to hate. Keep doing you for yourself and your boys!
Bringing awareness of addiction is the best thing we need in our society nowadays! Anyone can go through this.. Whether it's a friend or family member.. So many people are struggling with addiction and become very sick and need help.. I went through what you went through (almost exactly) and had to walk away for the sake of my son. My son came first. That's so sad people are giving you such a hard time. It's so inspiring to see you are not letting the comments affect you! Stay strong girl!!
I am sorry you got harassed. I am glad that you're ok. You are not a bad person. ( no need to use the words)
I can't for the life of me figure out why someone would say something mean to her. Jenni you're amazing girl.
I found your channel last week. I've watched a lot of your videos and I genuinely enjoyed them. I'm sorry people are so mean. I know it's not easy reading hateful things directed towards you. For what it's worth, I think you seem like a very good hearted, honest person. I admire your energy! I hope one day to be as fit as you are! :)
Thank you so much for sharing you have no idea how much you helped me. To see your strength has helped me so much,
I have watched since the beginning. I am now 6 months separated and 3 months divorced. You helped me have so much courage to do what is right for my children and I. My story is very very similar to yours. Thank you so much, keep on doing you and your best! ❤️❤️❤️
Core mom group right here! Been watching since you had deacon - and then drake bc I had 2 boys then too! Went on to have 2 more boys so 4 total ! Love you vids and always routing for you !
Jeni you are inspiring to so many of us here. Ignore the haters and trolls. They don't matter - at all. wishing you loads of happiness and joy.
Where did you get your gold bar necklace? I am so obsessed with it!
Your story motivated me to stay strong and keep going. I don't have a family or intend to at all, but your willingness to keep fighting inspired me. :-)
As a child of divorce with a father who struggled with addiction, I commend you on how you are dealing with this. Transparency and honesty is the best gift you can give your boys. I was lied to and at 33 I can say I'm still bitter about it. The lying hurt me more than the actions or lack thereof. Bravo Mama!
Love you Jeni 💖
I think you're a wonderful mom & lady. You're truly inspiring. don't let the ugly comments get to you!!!
I'm a 21 year old college student, I'm not a mom and I live in the dorms (don't cook), but I keep watching all your videos anyways just because I find you so down to earth and relatable. I love everything about you and I hope you continue this channel.
where did you find the strength to leave your abusive relationship?
I agree 100% about being open with your boys! Absolutely! Thank God their dad changed his life and there's a positive outcome. I think that's an awesome thing to teach your boys. Using drugs can ruin your life and tear apart your family, all kids should be aware of that!
I always say you can't have to many people that love your kids...God bless. This is great that you can all make things great for your kids. Your amazing....keep being you.
I'm proud of you. I'm glad you share your life, I enjoy watching your journey, I wish my mom would have left when you did. I can't imagine how horrible the comments must be...
Why can't step parents and parents get along me and my ex and my partners exs all get along. I don't get jealous also. I think this take a level of maturity.
Jealous of that! My ex is so negative and rude. My parents always fought even when we were adults with children. Won't even be in the same room with each other.
Misery needs company and you've been living the good life, found a great guy and seems to be a much happier person. I'm so sorry your getting negativity. You have been such a huge role model, a good example in my life. I don't read comments often or post much but thank you for keeping it real and sharing the store of your life.
Hi Jeni, I have been watching your videos since Drake was a baby. Him and my oldest son are very close to the same age! I haven't commented much, but I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy and appreciate you and your channel. I love how "candid" it is (lol). I watch every video you put out there, and with videos like this one, it truly feels like you could be sitting across from me in my living room chatting with a friend. And I really appreciate that!
I also just wanted to applaud you on how far you've come in these last couple years. Divorce is a crazy thing for anyone to go through, but your situation was so unique to me, and I'm just so happy to see you and your family truly thriving and happy. Proud of you lady. You're a great woman and mom and I just wanted to send this comment letting ya know that :) thanks for taking the time to read this! -Ashley
I saw many of those negative comments on your div-video, and was astounded.. There you are, being genuine; opening-up and sharing about a painful experience... and then to be so harshly shamed.. those comments were indeed awful.. Anyway, with THIS video, you have shown your strength in responding (again) genuinely, and assertively.. You set an EXCELLENT example for you kids in how you have handled the divorce situation, how you can open up and share the experience in a genuine way ... in your healthy relationship with their step-mom, and how you have assertively responded to harsh criticisms BRAVO!!
My ex remarried and they had a son, later they divorced.I'm friends with my ex husbands ex wife. I know people think that's weird but we get along and all the kids know each other. That's the important thing.
I love that you are good with the stepmom :)
As a divorce children myself, I wish I would be as close to my dad and his new family as you boys will be.
We didn't have contact for years and I met him last year but he can't get the time back he missed and that is a problem.
Your boys will have a big loving family to come back to when they are older and out of the house and they will be grateful that you and your ex worked it out.
Lots of love from Austria :)
Hi Jennie! I just saw this video and decided to write you a comment. I just wanted to tell you that I think you´re videos are great. They are great because you are 100% authentic, you are not playing a role and you are just keeping things simple. That is why I watch your channel. I´m sorry to hear that you have been getting so many "hater" comments. You know, haters only "hate" to compensate their own issues. they have no other way to deal with it than trying to make someone else feel miserable too. I know that you posted the "divorce why" video to help people. and what u did is brave. too many people die inside to keep things a secret. opening up to traumatic topics and to be vulnerable is brave and i am sure you have helped so many people. i am sure you have shown so many people that they are not alone and that they can get through this if they have a similar situation. so this comment is simply to say thank you for the authentic content you put out and to continue to do so! lots of love, Melanie
Wow, you have a generous heart. You are inspirational. I wish that all divorced parents could follow your philosophy of blending new families together. Thank you for sharing.
Love you jeni 💜
I thank u for ur story. I know personally it takes strenght to share. I don't get people ugh. I love that u are just u.
i put a comment on a video and i was called a man hating monger... :/ i was just making an observation and it went straight to such hateful words :/ im married so clearly not a man hating monger otherwise id be a lesbian i guess? its just trolls hiding behind their keyboard... they would never say that to our faces
I'm a lesbian, and I don't hate men. I just think people enjoy putting others in boxes. :/
uhh.. that totally came off wrong i totally didnt mean it like that
lol it's all good.
I think it's awesome that you and your ex's wife can get along. I think it's great for your boys to see that mom and dad can get along.
I've been watching your videos since Deacon was a baby and I watch because you're so calm and charismatic and I love you food/lunch videos. About the divorce, I think you handled it really well and helped a lot of people by doing that video. I know it's hard but just keep ignoring those comments, if you love making videos and most people love watching them, then you should keep doing what you love, if that makes sense... oh and just so you know, I'm from Brazil and Like I said, I love your videos! I also have two kids a boy 3ys and a girl who is 1 and I loved specially that video that you talked about how it's harder to discipline Drake... my 3 year old is a difficult case too :)
Don't worry about UA-cam comments. This is pretty much the mos eisley of the internet. Whatever you say or do, some scumbag will pipe up and pick a fight or spread their useless hate.
Thank you for creating a great UA-cam channel. I respect your work enormously. It is so good to see you in a healthy place. Sad to hear about the haters. It would be good if UA-cam stepped up to the plate and put in place consequences for hate messages.
Jeni. U r a great person.
Good comments outweigh the bad and your an inspiration
awwww you caught me . with the sneak peek ;) and no I'm not a wall.
Hi. I've been watching your videos for about a year. I normally don't comment, but I just had to after watching this video. I hate that people would leave you such awful comments. You are an amazing person, and I wish more divorced woman were like you. You set such a great example for your boys. The fact that you could put aside everything that happened, and be positive for them, and promote a healthy and good relationship for them with their dad is amazing. Your boys are so blessed to have such a great Mom. You should be proud of yourself - your doing a great job! I love your videos and your positive outlook. You are an inspiration.
I know it's one of your more popular videos, and it's how I found you actually...
but do you ever get sick of talking about that video? Like, you can't move on because it's what everyone wants to talk about all.the.time?
awwwww you caught me , catching a look ;) and no I'm not a wall .
noticed your ex was in none of your past videos. why is that if you don't mind me asking?
I love your videos, Hate comments are everywhere, I have said this before you are doing the best you can for your boys, I don't like it when people make negative comments about you because they have not walked a mile in your shoes, so how would they know what you went thru, keep putting out the videos I like each and everyone of them.
muah girl!
I am here 4 you. Always.
Lol. I was listening to you whilst putting my makeup on ready for the day ha. I wish people weren't so mean. It genuinely boggles my mind just how mean some people can be! Sat hidden behind a computer screen or phone gives people strength. In real life they are cowards! I admire your strength and all that you share. I've been there since the beginning and l just love to follow your journey. You inspire more people than you piss off ha 😂
I think you are absolutely wonderful
been there, done that, so much easier to let them go.
It's weird. It says there are 132 comments here on YT app...but none show up. I have to press the new little button for "newest first" and only 1 shows up...but there are 132 it says next to comments. "Comments (132)"
Just wondering what's on your eyelashes a perm or what
I saw a video related to the Divorce video that was all about pointing out the flaws in the video and you as a person. It was narrated by a guy who wasn't very friendly
Thanks for the background video and this new video! They were really informative. I hope you're still not a fan of alcohol, or drugs. I thought that was very attractive.
I Been with you a very long time , WOW that is crazy people leave you nasty comments. Don't let them get to you. Always seems to be Trolls out there. I am in Eugene Oregon so I loved it when you said your bf liked the Ducks. My family are big fans. Keep doing what you do ..👍🏼💚
You put your life out there and thank goodness you understand that there will be hate. Its not fair or nice but I guess when someone is typing they feel they can get away with whatever it is they want.
As people get more subscribers on UA-cam, they get more "hate", that's a fact. Zoë (from Zoella) mentioned, that now she has gotten to a point where none of the disgusting things that are being said get to her because she has heard everything. There is nothing new that people could think of because all the disgusting things have already been said at one point or another.
I have always believed the theory, that people who put others down are very sad inside, but still even then I don't understand it. I am going through the worst time of my life (My mom died three months ago), and still I will not go and say mean things around.
Jeni, I really, really hope that you will not ever, ever quit youtube because of mean people. Your videos are lovely and make my day. I am going to homeschool my little daughter, but, for example, your lunches give me inspiration. The fact that teacher gave you praise for your boy's lunch is just another proof of that. I follow a lot of UA-camrs, so my feed is always full of new videos, and yours are one of the first I click on, I'm being serious.
Your videos are lovely, and I genuinely look forward to them. Stay strong.
😍those eyelashes
There's so much hate on the Internet, it's crazy. They don't even know you and they judge you. Ignore that hate, it's sad to see people with so much hate. Hugs ❤
Ignore the haters. You're nothing less than awesome.
well god dang you must of heard it all. some people are just plain out haters forget em and ignore them Done #staycool.
Hi jenny I've asked this question before are u planning to put Ur boyfriend in any videos