The Art of Finding Closure | Khutbah by Dr. Omar Suleiman

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  • @nassnass8545
    @nassnass8545 4 місяці тому +209

    Wallahi, EVERYTIME I listen to your khutbahs, I weep, because it's as if it is directed to me. Djazaka Allahu Khayr...la ilaha illa Allah.

    • @SAMIRA0209
      @SAMIRA0209 4 місяці тому +7

      Same ❤
      Sheikh Omar Suleiman's is my hero, may Allah reward him for this...

    • @malikaeastonAllahfirstanfamily
      @malikaeastonAllahfirstanfamily 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, heartfelt but beneficial ❤😊

    • @fatini
      @fatini 4 місяці тому +2

      I also felt that way! And that is coming from an Iman who is in our times. I can’t imagine how much more amazing Rasulullah SAW is, because his hadiths are heartfelt until today beyond generations SubhanAllah.

    • @aliyazahra8951
      @aliyazahra8951 4 місяці тому +1

      Subhanallah.. Alhamdulillah.. I I never thought of confronting my problems... Subhanallah.. I kept avoiding it.. but Alhamdulillah because of this khutbah.. my iman is back.
      Note that life is a journey that increases and lowers your iman.. oh yaallah forgive me and all of us, and have mercy on us all, and protect us from this life and the next

    • @sherene67
      @sherene67 4 місяці тому +1

      Me too

  • @zakuss
    @zakuss 4 місяці тому +36

    Subhanallah, I was actually on a video call with my wife when my UA-cam began to play this randomly on my TV. There has been tension between us for the last couple of days. Suddenly, when it reached the part where it says "confront issues," I paused talking, and I was watching. I could see my wife was also listening. Suddenly, I could feel that the tension had decreased a lot because of what we heard.

  • @jeylannure5465
    @jeylannure5465 4 місяці тому +114

    Ya Allaah make my dad among the people of jannah Wallahi he was very kind person and I had no chance to see him for more than 15 years and he left this dunya, that’s Allaah’s Qadr no body change it

    • @peaceeoutt
      @peaceeoutt 4 місяці тому +2

      Ameen

    • @fouad823
      @fouad823 4 місяці тому +5

      May Allah SWT grant him the highest level of Jannat Al firdous Allahuma Ameen

    • @jeylannure5465
      @jeylannure5465 4 місяці тому +2

      @@fouad823Allaahumma Ameen jzk

    • @maryamscholten1961
      @maryamscholten1961 4 місяці тому

      Allah razı olsun❤❤

    • @syedmaazahmed6006
      @syedmaazahmed6006 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@fouad823 اَمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِيْن

  • @HussainHussain-ck7zy
    @HussainHussain-ck7zy 4 місяці тому +15

    SHEIK OMAR SULEIMAN. A GIFT FROM ALLAH TO THIS UMMAH AND WORLD 🌎♥🙏❤💖💕🌎

  • @tehminasadiq3675
    @tehminasadiq3675 4 місяці тому +46

    Allah grant them all forgiveness and Jannat-ul-firdous. Aameen

    • @2542089861
      @2542089861 4 місяці тому

      Amiiiin Y'a RAB ❤

    • @bg5462
      @bg5462 4 місяці тому

      Ameen

  • @user-zm3no5xb6t
    @user-zm3no5xb6t 4 місяці тому +64

    -qadr. Nothing happens without the will of Allah Alhamdulillah. So shut the door to shaytaan.
    -Confront the problem whether it’s trauma etc. Do your best in dealing with the problem
    -rectify issues with parents cuz paradise under your momma feet

    • @Nishful5
      @Nishful5 4 місяці тому +2

      And the middle door to Jannah is your Dad! Sorry, had to add that. My Dad always feels bad when people forget to mention the fathers! Jazak Allahu Khayran.

    • @user-zm3no5xb6t
      @user-zm3no5xb6t 4 місяці тому

      @@Nishful5 my dad abusive

    • @Nishful5
      @Nishful5 4 місяці тому +5

      ⁠@@user-zm3no5xb6t SubhanaAllah. My mother is very abusive so I guess we’re both hoping for Jannah through our better parent! 🙂
      May Allah help all of us in this situation to fulfill both of our parents’ rights with ihsan, guide our abusive parents, forgive us and them, reward and have mercy on our parents for all of the good they have given us, and make us good parents to our own children and be a comfort and mercy to our children instead of a source of trial and suffering to them. Ameen.

    • @user-zm3no5xb6t
      @user-zm3no5xb6t 4 місяці тому

      @@Nishful5 my momma toxic

    • @tracelee7332
      @tracelee7332 3 місяці тому +1

      I hear you my friend. There are many who had the same situation growing up. Thank you for sharing here. It makes you strong and brave. Peace to you ❤🙏​@@Nishful5

  • @Styrophoamicus
    @Styrophoamicus 4 місяці тому +41

    Learning about qadr really helped ease many of my anxieties

  • @bisharoomar4726
    @bisharoomar4726 4 місяці тому +9

    May Allah Protect him Omar Suleiman

  • @saburabdul-salaam2418
    @saburabdul-salaam2418 4 місяці тому +18

    May Allah make it easy for us to keep His doors open and Shaitan's doors closed.

  • @nassnass8545
    @nassnass8545 4 місяці тому +16

    To Allah we belong and to him.we shall return. May Allah grant them paradise🤲

  • @Sz7_yt
    @Sz7_yt 4 місяці тому +65

    You will never find true closure until you change that grievance to your love for Allah. It's been 7 months and I feel like sometimes I have not even found closure yet, but Allah sees your pain and stuggles and every prayer and dua you make does not go unnoticed. Even if it is a toxic divorce, you feel like you would find closure if you have that one more interaction with your ex spouse, but you will never find closure like that, that is the Shaytan trying to trick you. Instead you lay down a prayer mat and talk to Allah, cry if you have to, because the mindset of closure should be that everything in this dunya is temporary, nothing lasts. Put your trust in Allah and move on with your life.

    • @mishaliftikhar3151
      @mishaliftikhar3151 4 місяці тому +5

      Going through the same after my separation.. been 7 months now. Still i feel like maybe it could have been fixed.. do remember me in your prayers

    • @herbertjohn2774
      @herbertjohn2774 4 місяці тому +2

      Jzk for the advice. Can i also advise two things, try and do as much istighfaar as possible (simple search of youtube will explain why), and whatever you d9, make sure to stay away from sins.

  • @muhammadtalhaali2541
    @muhammadtalhaali2541 4 місяці тому +2

    JazakAllah , I lost someone recently not death but the relation regarding death , I was always content as i knew taht is truth but this thing was new , Allah tested me with the loss of this person and now they left and I know its a test and Thankyou for this video , now I know I gave it my all and thats all I need to know , I have tawakkul in Allah's Qad'r , I know I'm going to have a better replacement for this person :)

  • @kagigirah5023
    @kagigirah5023 4 місяці тому +6

    Problems don't go away Problems are solved ❤ what a statement 👌 jazakallahu khair

  • @kazd17
    @kazd17 4 місяці тому +1

    I just started the Khutbah and you made me cry Dr. Omar.. So heart touching, Ya ALLAH, Guide us..

  • @searching1029
    @searching1029 4 місяці тому +21

    😢😢😢I’m not Muslim and I don’t know what is really happening in Gaza but my prayers for your brethren. Children of Allah. Brethren of Israel.

    • @sahersultana5370
      @sahersultana5370 4 місяці тому +12

      I know your intentions are not bad but we are the creation of God (Allah), we are His servants, not children.

    • @julibrown6984
      @julibrown6984 4 місяці тому +4

      Yes please understand the correction it’s not illegal intended we are servants of our Maker.

    • @julibrown6984
      @julibrown6984 4 місяці тому +4

      ❤❤❤❤servants not children of Allah

    • @hra2290
      @hra2290 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words. As Muslims we believe everyone is born Muslim. Your kindness and compassion are signs of God’s beauty within you. May Allah swt protect you. If you ever get a chance, read the Quran in English. It’s beautiful and starts off with a prayer and then jumps right into the beliefs very clearly in the second chapter.

  • @CognitiveRippleKalena
    @CognitiveRippleKalena 4 місяці тому +1

    Subhanallah I just made a Dua’a asking for guidance on this mater and this video found me. Allah humma barrik Sheik I’m so grateful for your words !

  • @DrMizanMD
    @DrMizanMD 4 місяці тому +2

    Qadr. Tawakkul. Ihsan. Thank you Sheikh Suleiman for your insights and knowledge during these absolutely heartwrenching times. May Allah protect and guide us and lead us to victory. Ameen.

  • @abiolamayodele7639
    @abiolamayodele7639 4 місяці тому +2

    Jazakallah khair Yah Sheikh! I know what believing in Qadr is the more I grow up 😢. May Allah make life easy for those struggling in a any way. Ameen.

  • @TheStrivingmuslim
    @TheStrivingmuslim 4 місяці тому +29

    Prophet s.a.w. said, Do not say the word "IF" because it opens...
    Certain doors:
    - procrastination
    - people and problems
    - door between you and Allah
    Don't say the word, "IF" because it opens the door to shaitaan. Shut that door to shaitaan. It destroys Tawheed. Have connection with Allah by opening the door to Allah. It gives us hope, problems goes away, resolved. Step up and remedy problems to find closure. Then say, I tried my best.

    • @WhiteGeared
      @WhiteGeared 4 місяці тому

      Wdym? If it opens door to God why wouldn't we say it more?

  • @HiraSajid-o7d
    @HiraSajid-o7d 4 місяці тому +1

    Closure.....this is what I needed to hear today.

  • @gigigha6880
    @gigigha6880 4 місяці тому +12

    اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا وحبيبنا وشفيعنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين

  • @bg5462
    @bg5462 4 місяці тому +5

    Great Kutbah Dr Omar May Allah swt reward you immensely Ameen

  • @kamrunnahar7008
    @kamrunnahar7008 2 дні тому

    Subhan allaha....ameen summa ameen ❤️

  • @smillailyas3974
    @smillailyas3974 4 місяці тому +2

    Much love and duas dear sheikh. May God protect your imaan and heart and sustain you with His love and guidance Ameen xx

  • @qaseemlloyd-trapp6268
    @qaseemlloyd-trapp6268 4 місяці тому +1

    Subhan Allah ☪️🛐 Nothing happens with out the permission of Allah 🍂

  • @shuaibraazim2606
    @shuaibraazim2606 4 місяці тому +1

    Such a beautiful lecture may allah always bless you and ur family and may allah also give you the best of this world and the hereafter ameen. U and sheikh yasir qadhi have Inspired and impacted me a lot

  • @shuaibraazim2606
    @shuaibraazim2606 4 місяці тому +1

    Alhamdulillah I have benefited a lot from sheikh may allah always bless you and ur family and may allah always give you the best of this world and the hereafter ameen

  • @nazleearend8887
    @nazleearend8887 4 місяці тому +1

    Allahu Akbar ❤ our Beloved Prophet PBUH ❤ Ya Allah grant all deceased high places in Janatoel Firdous Ameen Ya Rabbal Allameen ❤❤❤

  • @syedmaazahmed6006
    @syedmaazahmed6006 4 місяці тому +1

    اَمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِيْن

  • @sharin07arif
    @sharin07arif 4 місяці тому +1

    Alhamdulillah for this khutbah

  • @Siara259
    @Siara259 4 місяці тому +1

    SubhanAllah, I needed this rn.

  • @bisharoomar4726
    @bisharoomar4726 4 місяці тому +1

    May Allah mercy on Grant Her Jannah firus Allahuma Ameen

  • @babajara2725
    @babajara2725 4 місяці тому

    Masha'Allah, Jazaaka-Allahu Khairan Sheikh Omar Suleiman

  • @hassaanzahid6906
    @hassaanzahid6906 4 місяці тому +3

    love umer Suleiman for Allah. Hassaan from Pakistan

  • @SK-ir6ve
    @SK-ir6ve 4 місяці тому +2

    Wa-alaikum salaams wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatu. Thank you for the very timely reminders. It was a very relevant khutbah.

  • @ferozfersheikh5957
    @ferozfersheikh5957 4 місяці тому +1

    Aameen.. jazak Allahu khairan kaseeran ya Dr Omar Suleiman

  • @imnotreagan
    @imnotreagan 4 місяці тому +2

    Excellent khutba, very beneficial alhamdulillah jazak allahu khair

  • @sahra4159
    @sahra4159 4 місяці тому +1

    Masha Allah what a beautiful qutbah jazakallah khayr sheikh Omar

  • @PRINCE_7262
    @PRINCE_7262 4 місяці тому +1

    THANK YOU SK FOR RECOMMENDING THIS CHANNEL...
    I'LL WAIT FOR YOU.. FOREVER.. FOREVER... FOREVER...

  • @ayeshakunni6908
    @ayeshakunni6908 4 місяці тому +1

    JazakAllah khairan may Allah swt answer our duaa and protect and saved are brother and sister all around the world. May Allah grant them higher rank of jannah aameen❤❤

  • @Waterganz10
    @Waterganz10 4 місяці тому

    Asalaamu'alaikum... Yes, it is awkward in the beginning... However, the start of everything is always not easy, but that first initial step, insha'Allah, is the start of limitless steps towards an ease...
    Jazaakumullahu Khairaan brother for this khutbah for it's a timely reminder for me on a personal level that needed to be heard as a reminding and a reminder...though discomforting, offering positivity in a hope, alleviating doubts and offering affirmative assurances... SubhaanAllah

  • @fatimamohammed9295
    @fatimamohammed9295 4 місяці тому

    May Allah bless you and your family. Aameen.
    You say what is so important and tell us how to SHUT THE DOOR FROM satan !! May we all get the courage to recognize a d seek to open the door to goodness aameen

  • @jalisaaishakhan1411
    @jalisaaishakhan1411 4 місяці тому

    As salaam alaykum brothers and sisters.
    subhanallah ! Very excellent and peace giving khutbah.
    Jazakallah khairan

  • @NutritionDefined
    @NutritionDefined 4 місяці тому

    Incredible lecture Allahumma barik!!!! Blew my mind. May Allah swt reward you from his treasures aameen thumma aameen ❤🤲🤲🤲🤲

  • @OpheliaPG
    @OpheliaPG 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much. I needed this khutbah today. Alhamdulillah 🤲🏼❤

  • @hajatwinkles1933
    @hajatwinkles1933 4 місяці тому

    Jazakhallahukhiran for this hearttouching reminder may Allah SWT continue to reward you and grant ease for the us all especially our Ummah ,Aameen

  • @sih-f4m
    @sih-f4m Місяць тому

    you changed my whole life.

  • @VictoriousDrucilla
    @VictoriousDrucilla 4 місяці тому +2

    Ameen 🤲🏾. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. Ameen 🤲🏾

  • @anjham
    @anjham 4 місяці тому

    Salams sheikh
    I needed this lecture of “if” today!
    May SWT raise your rank in this world and the hereafter

  • @musenasaban3758
    @musenasaban3758 3 місяці тому

    Just wanted I needed to hear I appreciate all these reminders specially after loss of husband

  • @yasminiqbal2829
    @yasminiqbal2829 3 місяці тому

    Subhan Allah very enlightening
    Jazak Allah khair

  • @2542089861
    @2542089861 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for another fantastic khutba full of wisdom and advice 21:47 ❤❤❤

  • @root937
    @root937 4 місяці тому +1

    JazakAllah Khayr. May Allah bless you and preserve you

  • @catnocapivibe9171
    @catnocapivibe9171 3 місяці тому

    Much needed knowledge and a reminder, thank you, Dr Omar

  • @bluejay6801
    @bluejay6801 4 місяці тому +1

    Ma sha Allah this sure makes you cry An eye-opener

  • @shamsashahab7033
    @shamsashahab7033 4 місяці тому

    JazakMuAllah Kharin , sometimes we are hasty in confronting a problem and not use Hakima is dealing with family members this can lead you to further complications. May Allah give us Hikma in every situation and to be able to close the doors of Satan and keep the door of Allah SWT open Ameen

  • @mohamedhoque793
    @mohamedhoque793 4 місяці тому +3

    Jazak Allahu Khayran.

  • @asraazeem1023
    @asraazeem1023 4 місяці тому

    you're so right. we do need to learn and understand best example is indeed Rasulallah

  • @MariamaJabbi-z8n
    @MariamaJabbi-z8n 4 місяці тому

    Jazak Allahu Khair What a beautiful khutbah

  • @jamalabdullah4833
    @jamalabdullah4833 4 місяці тому

    May Allah reward you A'MEEN

  • @joyark
    @joyark 4 місяці тому

    Thank you, Dr. You always seem to say exactly what I need to hear.

  • @atifmalayalam4007
    @atifmalayalam4007 4 місяці тому +1

    Love the part from 8 min where he talks about the "IF SCENARIOS" we think had happened for someone not to die.

  • @MusauYasin
    @MusauYasin 4 місяці тому +1

    Always on point....may Allah grant u more life sh. No

  • @itssmomina
    @itssmomina 4 місяці тому

    Allahuma Barik♥️what an amazing reminder!

  • @souleansoul
    @souleansoul 2 місяці тому

    I love this many speakers should have sign language speakers on stage

  • @AdamAdam-t7v7r
    @AdamAdam-t7v7r 4 місяці тому

    Allah bless you respected imam..
    🤲🏻

  • @gigigha6880
    @gigigha6880 4 місяці тому +3

    اللهم اغفر لي ولوالدي وللمؤمنين والمؤمنات ولمن له حق علينا والمسلمين والمسلمات الأحياء منهم والأموات

  • @tracelee7332
    @tracelee7332 3 місяці тому

    🙏 True leadership my friend.

  • @cemaliyemustafa3249
    @cemaliyemustafa3249 4 місяці тому +1

    Great speech Alhamdulillah, thank you

  • @JALILAHLatif
    @JALILAHLatif 4 місяці тому +1

    MASH Allah tabaraka Allah shiekh great lecture 🙏 may Almighty Allah bless you and your family and yaqeen institute teams always and guide all of you always 🤲🤲🤲all the best 👌👍👌👍♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @fatimaa-q6f
    @fatimaa-q6f 4 місяці тому +2

    بارك الله فيك ورحمهم الله

  • @khalidmdimu4177
    @khalidmdimu4177 4 місяці тому +5

    Perfect timing

    • @msrashraf23
      @msrashraf23 4 місяці тому +1

      I hope you are doing okay brother.

  • @Tocanocanova
    @Tocanocanova 4 місяці тому

    Asalaamu aleykum my Allah grant them Jana that’s the reality my heart is clean now keep going brother

  • @0xjumlad
    @0xjumlad 4 дні тому

    Jazakallahu khair

  • @a.s.1951
    @a.s.1951 4 місяці тому

    Excellent advice and reminder….Mashallah and thanks from Canada.

  • @Unlocatedlegend
    @Unlocatedlegend 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you very much for your lectures 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

  • @wasilahsuid437
    @wasilahsuid437 4 місяці тому +1

    May Allah forgive us all for our short comings.

  • @sabikaahmed6575
    @sabikaahmed6575 4 місяці тому

    “Alhamdulillah”

  • @weyachan5102
    @weyachan5102 4 місяці тому

    Jazakallah khayr

  • @asraazeem1023
    @asraazeem1023 4 місяці тому

    i love this so much, this is so eye opening

  • @JubiePeck
    @JubiePeck 4 місяці тому

    I love his talks

  • @DidiDa-v9l
    @DidiDa-v9l 4 місяці тому +1

    13:58 "Your father is the middle gate between you and jannah [paradise]. If you wish, lose that door, otherwise preserve it." (Hadith)
    😮🙆😭😭😭🌹🌹🌹😉😂
    God, I am such a brat. I dont know why my parents didnt trade me for a coffee maker. I guess they loved me and I love them. Alhamdulillah. ❤❤❤

  • @bisharoomar4726
    @bisharoomar4726 4 місяці тому +2

    May Allah Make easy for him yousef allahuma ameen

  • @bibihussain1990
    @bibihussain1990 4 місяці тому

    Mashallah, thank you brother

  • @krengken4082
    @krengken4082 4 місяці тому

    Thank you and Alhamdulillah Doctor

  • @khayamahmad3435
    @khayamahmad3435 4 місяці тому

    Ameen ya Rab

  • @mohammedtoure564
    @mohammedtoure564 4 місяці тому

    Allahuma Ameen🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

  • @nuratushellemustapha6412
    @nuratushellemustapha6412 4 місяці тому

    Aameen 🤲

  • @MusauYasin
    @MusauYasin 4 місяці тому

    MASHA-ALLAH

  • @NoBorder-ue4ex
    @NoBorder-ue4ex Місяць тому

    Palestine has wiped all my grudges, all hurts. Alhamdullilah.

  • @shakespearaamina9117
    @shakespearaamina9117 4 місяці тому

    بارك الله فيك

  • @meazamedlock6134
    @meazamedlock6134 28 днів тому

    May Allah helps us to close the doors of shitan

  • @speakjustly
    @speakjustly 4 місяці тому

    Allah bless you

  • @wileedabougoush5989
    @wileedabougoush5989 4 місяці тому

    Ameen🤲

  • @D_A-G
    @D_A-G 4 місяці тому

    Agreed and well said; however, in time of problems, one must reflect on your mistakes so you DONT repeat them. A woman who divorced her husband over her ego must think twice before she ruins another marriage. A problem in Gaza is because we can’t even manage our household due to the damn feminism, etc. Spoke the truth with great advice, but people must understand Dr. Suleiman’s context. Closure is by no means walking away from your responsibilities.

  • @aymankasseba9919
    @aymankasseba9919 4 місяці тому

    Amen. Amazing kutuba

  • @meryemgulsen7539
    @meryemgulsen7539 4 місяці тому

    الحمد لله رب العالمين

  • @Meccabestplace
    @Meccabestplace 4 місяці тому +1

    Allah❤

  • @bashaparveen0
    @bashaparveen0 4 місяці тому

    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon

  • @bluejay6801
    @bluejay6801 4 місяці тому +2

    إسلام عليكم و رحمة وبركاته ,
    Does anyone know where to find a Urdu script for this lecture or if there's a Urdu dubbed version available? For this Khutba

    • @movieentertainment6591
      @movieentertainment6591 4 місяці тому

      I'm afraid there isn't but I'm gonna advise you to learn a bit of English so you would be able to understand it with the subtitles