We Got Married at 19. 6 Years & 3 Kids Later... // Relationship Q&A
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- Опубліковано 7 жов 2021
- With our 6 year wedding anniversary coming up real fast I thought it would be fitting to sit down and film another Q&A with my hubby 😘
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Delilah, I am not religious, quite frankly, I do not have a good relationship with religion. However, when I see you and your family, you are what I picture as true Christians. You are good, you are kind, you love hard. You help others, and raise your children to be good people. You do not push your beliefs onto people, you just wholeheartedly believe in what you believe in and I admire and respect that so much. I want to thank you for showing me an example of when religion can be good.
So true! And I'm not religious either but I love religious people who are just trying to be their best self and not forcing their beliefs and religions on others
Agree with this 100%
Yeh as a lesbian mother I try to not follow accounts with overly religious families as I dont feel welcome or comfortable but this account doesnt give off that feeling
I’m not religious either, but I COMPLETELY agree!
Well said!!! I'm probably the furthest from religious one could be (quite stanchly Atheist - after being raised Southern Baptist), but I've always said that the Atheists I know are more kind, more loving, and more Christ-like than most Christians I know. So it is absolutely refreshing to see people like Zach and Delilah. They are kind, they are loving, and they're just living their lives without harming others. What more could you ask for in any fellow human, religious or not. ♥
“We’re you joking?”
“Hehe no.”
Y’all crack me up.
“You can’t change anyone that’s not your responsibility”
YES MA’AM SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THW BACK 💃🏻
I love when Zach is in the Q&A’s , he’s hilarious. 🤣🤣 98% 💯
Omg Delilah you look sooo good in the blue. It really suits you ❤
Even though he doesn’t like wearing blue 😂
@@100awesomo At least she tried it 😄
Thank you ☺️
"well, we're not romantic people" - oh Delilah and Zack, you so so are. The deep love (it shines) you have for one another, is the epitome of romance - your romance. You are both truly blessed, by each other and for each other 💞
If they weren't they wouldn't cuddle every night, I don't even have kids yet but me and my partner don't cuddle EVERY night, more like four or five days out of the week
I agree 💯 hahaha...but seriously I agree. Their love just shines through their vlogs even more now as the family has grown. May God continue to bless and keep your union in Jesus' Name. Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Several questions were answered with “we don’t really have that issue/we don’t disagree on major things”
You are very blessed that you two naturally agree with each other so well! Even though my husband and I have the same core beliefs, our personalities are actually quite different and we have had many major disagreements. We have to work very hard to come together on certain things!
I love the first kiss story! How cute is that!
You should post a picture of you two when you first started dating
I already knew the story about your first kiss from an older video but it still cracks me up he had to sit down afterwards 😂 absolutely adorable
I got married at 19 and by 23 had two kids. Celebrate our 52nd anniversary. Have been through difficult situations. We lost our daughter 8 years ago. Loving each other and always having time for each other we were able to stay together. God blessed.
I love this q&a but i'm so blown by how fast William has grown- he's too adorable😭💓
If you would be willing to share, I would love to see what you and your family’s faith based disciplines look like from day to day. :):) also, I love the pop of blue today! 😊
I feel like Zack and his “that’s awesome” is me in every conversation 🙈🙈
Literally my except I rotate between “that’s interesting” and “that’s funny”
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You guys inspire me so much to be a better person, better mom and better girlfriend! Thank you so much for your videos, you don't know how much of a positive impact your videos have on other people! Much love from Austria :)
Loved this Q&A! It's so special to see you guys grow together. You have such an amazing family, sending love from Slovakia!
Loved every minute of this! You guys have such a calm and gentle vibe in your interactions with each other. As someone who is getting married in a couple months, I really loved hearing you guys speak so positively about marriage 6 years into the journey! 💗
it's so sweet to see how much more comfortable Zach is in front of the camera than he used to be haha
Loved this! Your relationship seems so sweet and it's always fun hearing Zach's perspective :)
Zack seems like he is such a helpful husband. I love that!
I love how you support each others and I love your complicity. You guys are really inspiring!!
I love how your are with each other and the kids..i am older than you, no kids, and i have learned A LOT from you 😊..I must say THANK YOU SO MUCH..beacause of you, i found the strength to make the first little step out of a 6 year long depression that i was in..i felt so lost, in a hole that i wanted to get out, but couldnt.. Thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart🙏💓🥳 Sending the best to you and your family. xo from Germany🤗
your channel brings me so much peace ☁️ thank you for being here 🤍🤍
I appreciate the fact that you both recognize it's important to talk about each other's "pet peeves" and air them out whenever possible and understand that these are things we have to accept in each other and forgive regardless because it's such a small thing in the grand scheme of things. My husband and I find that the more we talk about the little things, the little frustrations, the easier it is to talk through and manage the big and important things, such as parenting and finances. Also, recognizing when one person needs time and space is critical so that you can take it upon yourself to be the "hero" that day, knowing that your partner will be your "hero" another day. It goes to show how in tune you are with your relationship. It's refreshing.
This came at the perfect time - I’m loving all these Q+ As! We’re celebrating 6 years this weekend.
By the end of this video, I was smiling so much. Your relationship is very similar to my husband & I’s, so it makes me laugh watching you two. I feel like I’m watching a video of us and it’s so fun! Thank you for all you two do, my favorite channel by far!
Loved this q&a! so much respect for both of you. The love and respect you both have for each other it’s inspiring ✨✨
I am 51 and wish I had been as wise as the two of you are! Your really great people! I lost my husband of 27 years 3/24/18. It has been 3 almost 4 yrs without my other half. Both of our kids are on their own. Cherish these years while the children are small. When they leave, it is hard. You are a beautiful family!! God bless you always, in all ways!
This q&a is precious ♥️ also, this sweater looks really great on you!
This was so relaxing and fun! I love the way you joke and laugh with each other. Such a great dynamic.
Love you guys relationship! So excited to watch ❤️
Let me tell you, thank you. I’ve never heard anyone say the “serving heart” bit that you talked about any I cannot tell you how beautiful and relieving that is! I have struggled for the past two years with cleaning up after my husband. He’s great in many aspects and has adjusted out of respect for me but sometimes here and there I still find myself picking up his slack. I had it in my head that I should be angry about it and should feel undignified (is that the right word) bc I wasn’t put on this earth to be his maid. but changing the perspective to a serving heart rlly helps me cope with those emotions. When I look at the full picture, he does a lot for me and never says no. And while he’s not the most organized person, he will never argue with anything I ask him to do if I mention it and that’s valuable too. So all that to say, thanks for putting things into persoective
You too are so inspiring as a couple and on your own. Also, Delilah your hair is looking so lovely!
I loved this SO much. I am getting married this December and we've been dating since we were 17 (we are 22 now) and am so excited to start a family and have a secure marriage like you guys!
I'd love to hear more on the Christian perspective on relationship and marriage.
Probably depends a bit by denomination but for my hubby and I we see marriage as a form of humility, learning to put someone else before our own needs, and helping each other build a relationship with God and become better people
@@cassandrabreit5029 I agree. Biblical love is always sacrificial as demonstrated through Christ first, so we should always try to put our spouse (and this goes for both the husband and wife) before ourselves! Wives should respect their husbands, and husbands should love their wives. So much rich scripture on this topic, because God created marriage to be a wonderful blessing. ❤️
thank you so much for your wisdom 💗
Check out The Making of Biblical Womanhood. Very eye opening about the teachings of the church in regard to women and their role, which is heavily featured in the dynamic surrounding marriage.
Thank you for being so open about your relationship with God as the center! My honey and I believe in that too. We have our first kiddo on the way and we're preparing for so many changes and trying to remember that God is first, and then our relationship, because we know our kids will one day grow up and leave us. So important to keep that at the head of your marriage.
OMG that first kiss story is the cutest thing I've ever heard! You two are such couple goals.
Came across your channel.. both my husband and I got married at the age of 20. Fast forward 8 years later 3 kids and we are still happy.. your lives are similar to ours. It's so great to see young married couples, focusing on their families..
By far my most favorite q&a with you both. ❤️ I can’t tell you how many times I laughed too. Both your laughs and smiles are just so contagious. 😊
As someone who I struggling with very deep sin issues in our marriage (9yrs married, 3 kids) this video was very sweet to watch. Keep up the good work! Your marriage is very sweet and idyllic.
Oh my, guys...I laughed so hard, Zach Is so funny. The chemistry Is definetly palpable.
I just wanna cuddle lil William!! He's so adorable
Laughed so much in this video. You guys are great together. Should do more of these.
You guys are so cute. What a beautiful family. You guys are calm and full of good energy. Real. Grounded. Genuine. God bless you guys.
Y’all are perfect for each other it’s so cute!
Okay leaving clothes on the floor wouldn't bug me if the clothes weren't LITERALLY TWO INCHES from the hamper 😂😂😂😂 like you were right there. You stood right next to the hamper and CHOSE THE FLOOR 😂
Hahaha oh no that’s brutal 🙈🙈🙈
Why is this a universal thing?! Are we all living the same lives? 🤣
loved the story about the late curfew and doing chores together!
you guys are so unintentionally funny it's awesome
Listening to this has brought me so much peace today! Also, what is that cute onesie William is in?
Absolutely love this video! My husband and I have been married 35 years and would have answered most of those questions the same way. He is a pastor and will not marry people unless they do pre-marriage coaching with us, because it's so important to lay that foundation! And LOL our first kiss was the night before our wedding, because our pastor asked us if we had kissed yet, and we were like no, and he said well you might want to because tomorrow you'll be doing it in front of a whole bunch of people! We were both so nervous. ❤️. Now we have four adult children and four grandchildren and through all the changes, we are still each other's favorite person. ❤️
Zach laughing at himself at '100%' was too cute... I agree that many parent couples neglect their relationship until it's too late - many of my older colleagues and friends separated from spouses when their kids finished school. I enjoy your channel. Hi from subtropical Australia xx
Thank you for doing QNA as a young Christian couple, You inspired me so much.
My husband and did something similar for our 5th anniversary. Yes! Bring the WORD into the mix this why I love yall!
You too are so sweet I really enjoy how down to earth you are.
The scars really are soooo sensitive for a long time. I’ve had some scar tissue massage and body work after my csection and through my following pregnancy. My VBAC birth was also different because the scar tenses in a different sensation from the normal contractions. I felt most comfortable when my doula applied gentle pressure on my scar between pushes, but now 10 months pp with my vbac baby (2.5 years after csection), my scar is no longer numb or tender. ❤️
Beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing your life. You remind me of my husband and I. We are on year 13, with 6 babies, married at 20 and 21. ❤
I SO enjoyed this video :) thank you so much Delilah!
The first kiss story made me giggle. So cute x
Just sat down with my french toast to find something to watch... perfect timing!! 😋
We got married at 18 & 19 too. I hardly ever see anyone else who did what we did and who also started a family as well! By 25 we also had 3! We now are 27 & 28 with 5 children (we are done)
We deal with all of this and always have! I love seeing this!
So good to recognize needing to prioritize your marriage with having kids. Divorce rates really do go up when kids move out. 😕
Trey and Lea Morgan have an amazing podcast on marriage. 💯 recommend 🤣
You guys are the cutest and realistic couple ever
he is cool and taleted in front of camaras, because he is who he is. no thinking about what people want to hear in a specific moment. natural and pure. he seems to be a good team-member not needing to much order....
It's a very interesting video. Especially since we are about to become parents here.
❤️ You are both so inspiring. Thank you.
Oh my goodness I love you two and your love for each other!
That color sweater looks great on you 😍
I stinking love your Q&As. Always pointing toward the kingdom.
I'm literally in love with Zach. He is the perfect hubby :D
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my version of Zach's "100%" is "No, For Sure!" i say it every other sentence when im listening to someone >o
You guys are a great couple! I have been watching your channel since I got married three years ago.
I have had three c-sections 16 months apart from each other. Something you can try is messaging the scare. I got referred to a physical therapist and now my incision doesn’t hurt unless I really over do it. Sack can also message the scare. I would get nauseous if I touched that area for a long time after.
Both of you look so beautiful together in this video ❤️
Love Q&A’s and every video you do ever 🤷🏼♀️☺️
Omg you & zack are hilarious!! The 💯% was my favorite part..still cracking up here😂😂
Awww, my husband and I loved cooking and grocery shopping together when we were dating/engaged! We still do:)
okay I love you guys, I just need to say I’m giggling watching this because Zack is soo Canadian😂🙈
ooohh myyy gosh a video with Zach. love it. 😍✨💖
My husband and I got married when I was 19 and he was 21. 4 years later and still very happy together. ❤️
Please please please do more videos on the topic of Christian dating and relationship!! So helpful!
Hahaha! I remember also having to sit down after my first kiss. You are not alone, Zack!
You two are so cute! I LOVE the first kiss story!
you guys are ADORABLE I cannot
Oh man this was such a cool vid, so glad you guys have such a solid relationship. I had to laugh at your first kiss story, my husband was the same 🤣
I lost it at the 100% part 😂 I can 100% (lol) agree with having the same repeated response in uncomfortable situations!
You guys are romantic in your way. You are awesome. Love how real you guys are.
This was super fun!!!
So so early, this video came in the perfect moment.🤍
Aww so cute couple! Funny when Zak said i thought he will pass out so cute..bless you guys love watching your blogs 🙂🙂
I feel like my husband and I have a pretty similar relationship and story to you guys. We got married when when I was 19 and he was 22 and have great communication and love spending time together.
You guys are so cute!
Also, Delilah, I love that blue sweater on you. I’m sure it’s thrifted, but if not, please send me the link! Much love ❤️
It's good that you waited until marriage. It's so rare anymore, but sweet. And yes, when dating someone new, the "past" can be an awkward conversation...
I got married at 18, my husband was 19. 3 year anniversary tomorrow! ❤
It is the best Q/A ever saw. Smiled a lot and laughted :) 👍
Probably the best q&a 😄 so fresh and funny..
I'm so wish I would have seen the post for questions for this q&a... If you ever get a chance in the future... I've always wanted to as you guys... other than going to church... What's the #1 thing your parents did, instilled in you, or made a part of your life that contributed to you developing your own relationship with Jesus and continue to grow in your faith as adults?
Me and my husband got married whenever I was 18 and my husband was 20 and we don’t regret it at all, we were ready. We’ve been married 6 years and have three children as well. I’m 24 now and I have three children, a five year old boy, a three year old boy, and a one year old girl. I love watching your videos!
My C-section scar remained sore for MONTHS, it was crazy, everyone always says it's numb but mine was sensitive!
You two are so sweet and I love Zach's "100%" or "98%" hahahaha
One thing I always wanted in a relationship was to be able to be together but also to be separate but together, if that makes sense. I wanted both of us to have lives outside our marriage, friends and hobby that we could each maintain alone. And for us to be able to be present physically together but doing our own thing. So neither one of us is dependent on the other for all of our social engagements or fulfillment. I love that we can do things together and we can do things apart. I don’t have to force myself to watch sports and my husband doesn’t have to pretend to be interested in what shade of white we paint the bathroom. We have friends who fill those roles for us. But at the end of the day, we cuddle in bed at night and talk about our days and de stress and unload on that other. And we are each other’s anchor when we’re having a bad day or need support.
Oh my husband and I were talking just the other day about how we miss the whole going to rent a dvd and buy snacks experience!!!
In terms of when the kids leave, we have so many plans lol, we've been together since we were 19 and it's been 10 years with baby number 5 due soon. I think because there are things we haven't done, because we wanted to have kids and establish a home while we are young, before figuring out traveling/formal study etc there's just so much to not be bored with after the kids 🤷♀️. Also the biggest thing I think is that we're friends, we were before and now we are even more so, we actually take purposeful nterest in each other and what their interests are, we don't foresee 'growing apart' because we've made a commitment that part of the relationship, we've been through periods of adapting to each other's new hobbies/plans/wants and we will continue to do it, together, so it works for both of us, because that's what we agreed to do.
6 years later 2 kids and pregnant. I was 17 years old when I first had my daughter. My daughter adores you by the way. 🥰😍
My husband and I are expecting our first child in March next year. I would love to hear more abour how quite time works and how you discipline your children
Hi 😀
This is yours best q&a, thanks a lot, It opened my eyes in some issues.