Honestly it's just breaking familiarity you're like that because of you're familiar with all those things . Breaking the comfort zone is all it takes finding yourself.
It’s just saying you have to overcome your weaknesses and flaws that hold you back with courage, determination, temperance, integrity, so on and so forth. Life doesn’t beat you down, it’s how you react to it. In essence only you have tha power to destroy yourself, and thus to allow that is tha worse thing we could ever do to ourselves… Or something like that…..
@@BulldozerTheDon in other words: Discipline yourself. If you have bad habits you are doing those out of habit (obviously) but the point is: not out of intention. So you could say a lack of discipline. But seeing a habit as bad is relative. Some habits may be harmful, but give you joy, it is for you to decide if you intentionally do them or let it get to the point that you don't really know that you are doing them, as stated: getting "conquered by thyself".
I like the idea of letting go of parts of yourself holding you back. One big one is limiting, negative self talk instead of just owning and being honest about what my goals are. An example would be oh I just ride for fun and don't really care about my race results etc. when really I do. It always gives you an out when you don't achieve your goals. Instead of being honest and possibly failing. It's a subtle way to be mediocre at everything. I'm letting that one go and just be honest about my true goals.
This worked for me so this is my GIFT to you and anyone reading this.. These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results. 1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper. 2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life. 3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins. 4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room. 5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF. 6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post. 7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water. 8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain. 9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other. 10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma. It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results. What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too. Have a great day... and thanks for reading.
Major depression has prevented me from moving forward for 5 years. Every time I think I’m getting somewhere, I fall into flashbacks from mental abuse situations in the past. I keep being shown why I hate myself in my memories, but even knowing this all came from abusive upbringing, I still can’t change the beliefs for longer than a week or 2 at a time.
hey my experience was somewhat similar to yours. Often times when I'm in the middle of the flows learning something, the flashbacks of childhood trauma started to pop up and haunted my mind. They sometimes got too bad that I can't help but shedding tears for 30 mins-ish in the middle of my study. It felt terrible especially when you are in the public library, and people started noticing while you can't holding your tears up. A way out I figured out recently is through journaling, writing to the universe that I choose to forgive ALL of them. Forgive people (listing them all out), scene, environment, literally everything that causes, especially the PEOPLE. Jot down sincerely when I finally decided to forgive them. So every time the trauma popping up, I say it to myself: "but I forgive them already, I totally forgive them. Those images are obsolete now. I said it and mean it! I TRULY forgive them". then started to think of the note i made as sincere commitment of forgiveness, then the thought just fading away, days brighten up and I can keep on going like nothing. easy come (and less in frequency) easy go i hope this help to anyone out there suffering, wish you a live of yours.
Maybe that means facing these memories and working on healing from them with a therapist. It's not easy but it's not impossible either. Then eventually when you get to a point of making peace with the past, you can detach from the past and rebuild. Easier said than done, but still not impossible. I hope you find healing someday
I'm actually excited about letting my old self go, because I want to have a greater life and help others do the same. I'm excited to learn and live out of the comfort zone which I believe is the magic zone. I've been lucky to accept life's challenges and grow exponentially in the past so I have the experience. Now it's time to do that again!
Have been diligently watching every single one of your uploads. Read the book of five rings, currently working on Ryan holiday’s series of books too. Please continue to do what you’re doing, you’re really facilitating major life changes for many of us here. Don’t ever stop buddy, God bless and Godspeed.
Thank you for making the video! Just what I need right now. It seems to me recently that I’m getting stuck in my current version and feel sad that I’ve forgotten the old versions of myself. These versions of mine served me well. Now it’s time for me to select the characteristics I want to keep to be able to move forward, without the need of forgetting who I was completely.
This video showed up on this day for me to listen,to help me to hold firm and continue to have a strong mind in kicking an addiction ,so that i could have mental clarity and move up to a new beginning/me. Thank you.
The smart Phoenix knows that everything has it price. And in order to raise from his asheys, stronger than before , the Phoenix has to be burned down completly inside his bursting flames. Knowing that and his worth the Smart Phoenix takes that hurting fire with a big Smile in his face 🔥😁🔝☯️
I want to be silent , .. still having connections with ppl. By staying silent. , want to participate in dance competition, and badminton team still be a topper.. want to socialize also an introvert .... I want to speak on stage with out anxiety, i wAnt to to mocs, I want to speak for my self, I want to be bold , I want to be unreachable,I want to sing ,I want to be a topper of class. I want it. I want a job in MNC ..I will , and i will be.🕊️
Goddamn!! You are aspiring to become the exact epitome of what I aspire to be. I wish to go silent as I have quite a lot of friends which are sometimes quite distracting when you're focused on your studies, an aspiring singer and dancer self teaching to become better. And above all, I had been taking professional training in badminton for over an year competing at various inter school tournaments.
Wild fires dont usually burn down the forest. A healthy forest getting burned usually just clears the dead plant matter and plants that would compete with the old trees. The healthy and robust saplings will survive and grow. This is how truly ancient forests can form.
"The only thing that burns in Hell is the part of you that won't let go of life, your memories, your attachments. They burn them all away. But they're not punishing you... They're freeing your soul." -from Jacob's Ladder
There's is no unlearning, sinply walk down a new atreet consistently will being about the change you desire. Then the weeds will grow over the old tired path that was once you!
I thought I had moved on, i thought i had let it go, but unconsciously recurring every time. Now i want to be better or become the best version of myself but something is pulling me. It repeats, i am aware, now all i can do is to accept that I can't do nothing at all.
I struggle to work out how to let my old self go, rather than being scared of it I actually feel like I can't work out how to do it. I sit there struggling to let my old self go and it's frustrating, I just lack the ability to do it
Do you lack the ability or do you just not know where to start? If the latter, find one bad habit of yours and try to replace it with a good habit (eg. If you smoke, any time you step out for a smoke break do 10 push-ups instead)
You change things by changing how you see and feel about them. For example people can't stop smoking because they see themselves as smokers, but what if they started doing a sport couple of times a week and started viewing themselves as sportsman ? Does sportsman smoke ? Also connected smoking with something repulsive to you, would you still smoke if you saw smoking like that repulsive thing ?
It's usually not our old self we're scared of, but our new self. The new self is unfamiliar. Figure out what you don't like about yourself. Picture the ideal version and move realistically and consistently.
I think this is just the default way of growth. Growth always requires an inner death exchanging old worn out socks for new stronger and higher quality socks. Are you willing to born to be born again? And are you willing to endure that over and over again? Everyone grows and learns this way.
I find it idiotic how people think putting the word method infront of something makes it legit or reputable, instead of a UA-camr lacking inspiration for his monetisation.
The interesting thing is I've been doing this for years now without realizing that it's a thing. I mean at some point I considered myself a phoenix of some sort rising from the ashes. I even wrote a poem about this. Damn this is crazy. But at the same time I am glad that I am not alone in this. That I have likeminded ppl like you. It gives me hope specially these days where society has gone out of hand and out of touch with reality.
There is a demon inside of me that I distract with drinking and junk food, etc, until it goes dormant because I know that if it is awake it will destroy me....
Having tried to change or breakdown and rebuild for 60 years with nothing but failure/ Sorry, happiness is not for everyone. It's just the way it is. All the books, videos, lifestyle changes, meditationsl, yoga, retreats, will not help everyone. False hope almost seems worse for me but I get it. Give to freely. Good luck to all but I just hope for an end soon.
That's the point. Everyone is different and must change themselves in different ways, keep different parts of themselves, and grow into their own future, better, selves. It's up to you how to take on a task, how to approach each stage of the process, and only you can know if what you're doing is working for you. Much love and good luck on your journey, friend.
Thxs AI and i wish Gohan to build his path in the future ,so he stays aligned with himself and have a meaningful life,and same time i will go inside in my deepest self where i have to confronting my fears ,doubts and insecuryties thats why i have to leave my comfort zone sure its will not be easy ,i want to break the cycle that bear since my childhood and this time i want to rise up from my ashes differently,which give me new oppurtunites ,to handle it wiser,i will let go but with faith ,blessings for all of you and me in trust i believe amen
Let the phoenix fly free, then it will be accomplished! In the heavens right now the phoenix constellation is approaching the planet Pluto the very destroyer. From the ashes will become the new and shiny version becoming the best fo it. Your shadow is waiting to be heard and used for the new life to begin🌹❤️
Look into the mirror and repeat 10 times with feeling I love you so much and I forgive you , I promise do this for 30 days thanks ❤ spread love from the heart
I'm not even going to watch the video I just wanted to comment on the title. It's not about killing any aspect of yourself, it's about releasing it with love. We don't deny any part of ourselves. And if we're going to change the old patterns in the old cycles and the dysfunction within society we got to stop shaming and that begins with the self.
Trying to kill off versions of yourself doesnt work. God loves you no matter the season, and when you do the Deep Work, you will find yourself going back to reclaiming those parts of you that you subjected to demonic bondage in the spirit. Instead, give yourself in this season to the Father and ask Him to take you further into Himself so you may become more like who He truely created you to be. This is how we give ourselves rest in love and in relationship with the Lord.
@@gem4715 this was such a click bait brother I knew everything that this video told while I actually wanted to learn the process this video only told me the same old BS
@@Kingyoim I was a little disappointed too, but the video did say some key things and I'll fill in the rest for you. I barely graduated high school and afterwards put myself through my own self-development program in junior college and ended up picking up my grades from a 2.75 to a 3.75 GPA and getting accepted to an Ivy League level college, and much more. The video says the first step: 1) identify the problems, the things you don't like about yourself, the things holding you back. 2) Then figure out how to begin attacking these things, and how many you cannot attack at the same time. I identified 5 things in my life that I didn't like and some were even a little silly, like "I didn't dance when I went to clubs and parties", which sounds dumb but I was overly shy and limiting my fun in life." I remember the first time I danced at a party AND BEEN DANCING EVERY SINCE!!! One big problem was my chronic shyness, which I conquered by forcing myself to do small things that scared me, like dancing at parties and talking to pretty girls in public, sometimes just for conversation, just to become more comfortable with beautiful women. After that, I got my first "real" girlfriend, made a lot more friends, and had a lot more fun in life, even became a "party guy" for a little while lol. Third step, 3) Once I conquered those 5 things within a year or so, I made a new list of things that were even more difficult. I also had stage fright and a fear of success. But I made myself do small things that I was afraid of, and little by little I conquered them. You may not believe me, but living in California all my life I conquered my stage fright enough to be a professional actor!!! Yeah, I acted in Hollywood for about 5 years, was a member of SAG, did a few TV shows, a buuuuunch of commercials, some network promos, and a few music videos, then eventually moved to Japan and continued my career there, and have lived happily overseas in various countries every since. The key is self-analysis, identify the things you don't like about yourself and begin attacking them little by little, facing the fear or breaking the habit every chance you get. It takes courage, but start small. The fourth step 4) is to make new friends, habits, and hangout places every time you grow and conquer a part of yourself. Surround yourself with the exact kind of people and frequent places that support your new growth/habit/skill/etc., and find new places and activities that do the same. I cut out TV altogether (accept for sports, Star Trek, and a few other things lol), and became a coffee shop guy spending 3 - 4 days a week in coffee shops on my computer working, growing, studying, and meeting interesting people when possible. I had to start seeing my High school friends a lot less and started seeing my new "progressive" friends much more, but I'm still cool with everybody. You can't fight the world. You have to shape your environment around you with people, places, and activities that take you where you want to go, and then do the small things "every day" that get you there. My "Ace in the hole" was that I always believed in myself, but the more you believe in yourself the better, so I had a program to help me develop that as well. No one can do it for you - You have to do it!!! If you really want it, the you'll get it, and if you really don't, then you really won't. That's the only real secret. It's not rocket science. Good luck.
@@broq9194 yes but then if you talk about nuance, moving out is tough in americas itself and I come from a third world country so I do think my most problems will be solved with all the "new" we talked here but when I change my internal world and still feel stuck in the external circumstances it's hard to do stuff therefore needed some solution to that stuff...
@@Kingyoimhmm whatever is in ur control try changing it whatever is not in ur control accept it there's no other better way according to me at least we are born into our circumstances some we can change some we can't
Let go of everything u were everything that mattered every addiction bad habits keep only the good from ur past even though it might be hard try doing it and u will find an answer
Bad habits are our way of staying in the comfort zone, it’s makes us feel “safe” because we recognize the habit will make us feel significant or gratified or validated which our trauma-riddled bodies think is “safe,” but once you’ve done that dance enough times and you begin to realize these bad habits aren’t helping you grow that’s when you have to “burn the old self” as the video describes and start making active choices to be a new you: reaching for that Twinkie again? STOP, BREATHE, ask yourself what would be a better thing for you right now, then go do that thing. If you follow that process long enough you begin to condition new neural pathways and behaviors while the old pathways atrophy (die off) and then one day you’re running on a whole new system, a whole new you, and that’s how you burn the old self down. It’s a process and you have to make the choice for yourself, it may sound exhausting but aren’t you worth it after all?
"Zuko, you must look within yourself to save yourself from your other self. Only then will your true self reveal itself"
Zuko was spitting gold with that one.
It was General Iroh 😭
@@alessaw4077 It was Zuko imitating Iroh when Iroh wasn't there (and I believe Iroh was in prison, but I could be wrong)
@@alessaw4077 nah it was the episode where he was trying to figure out how to join the group.
Hey future viewer let me get a random like to get a reminder of this video
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Gohan, come back
Ego death doesn’t only have to happen once
Honestly it's just breaking familiarity you're like that because of you're familiar with all those things .
Breaking the comfort zone is all it takes finding yourself.
“The First & Greatest Victory is to Conquer thyself”..
“To be Conquered by thyself is of all things most Vile and Shameful”.
Plato
Explain this quote to me
It’s just saying you have to overcome your weaknesses and flaws that hold you back with courage, determination, temperance, integrity, so on and so forth. Life doesn’t beat you down, it’s how you react to it. In essence only you have tha power to destroy yourself, and thus to allow that is tha worse thing we could ever do to ourselves…
Or something like that…..
@@BulldozerTheDon in other words: Discipline yourself.
If you have bad habits you are doing those out of habit (obviously) but the point is: not out of intention. So you could say a lack of discipline. But seeing a habit as bad is relative. Some habits may be harmful, but give you joy, it is for you to decide if you intentionally do them or let it get to the point that you don't really know that you are doing them, as stated: getting "conquered by thyself".
I like the idea of letting go of parts of yourself holding you back. One big one is limiting, negative self talk instead of just owning and being honest about what my goals are. An example would be oh I just ride for fun and don't really care about my race results etc. when really I do. It always gives you an out when you don't achieve your goals. Instead of being honest and possibly failing. It's a subtle way to be mediocre at everything. I'm letting that one go and just be honest about my true goals.
This worked for me so this is my GIFT to you and anyone reading this.. These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results.
1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper.
2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life.
3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins.
4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room.
5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF.
6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post.
7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water.
8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain.
9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other.
10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma.
It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results.
What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too.
Have a great day... and thanks for reading.
Thank you‼️
I love you too, thank you
You look familiar
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Thanks a lot ❤❤
Major depression has prevented me from moving forward for 5 years. Every time I think I’m getting somewhere, I fall into flashbacks from mental abuse situations in the past. I keep being shown why I hate myself in my memories, but even knowing this all came from abusive upbringing, I still can’t change the beliefs for longer than a week or 2 at a time.
I’m in a very similar situation. Wishing you all the best.
hey my experience was somewhat similar to yours. Often times when I'm in the middle of the flows learning something, the flashbacks of childhood trauma started to pop up and haunted my mind. They sometimes got too bad that I can't help but shedding tears for 30 mins-ish in the middle of my study. It felt terrible especially when you are in the public library, and people started noticing while you can't holding your tears up. A way out I figured out recently is through journaling, writing to the universe that I choose to forgive ALL of them. Forgive people (listing them all out), scene, environment, literally everything that causes, especially the PEOPLE. Jot down sincerely when I finally decided to forgive them. So every time the trauma popping up, I say it to myself: "but I forgive them already, I totally forgive them. Those images are obsolete now. I said it and mean it! I TRULY forgive them". then started to think of the note i made as sincere commitment of forgiveness, then the thought just fading away, days brighten up and I can keep on going like nothing. easy come (and less in frequency) easy go
i hope this help to anyone out there suffering, wish you a live of yours.
I'm like you only getting worse - i push them away as if they are infront of me , only they aren't!
Maybe that means facing these memories and working on healing from them with a therapist. It's not easy but it's not impossible either. Then eventually when you get to a point of making peace with the past, you can detach from the past and rebuild. Easier said than done, but still not impossible. I hope you find healing someday
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Gracias. This is exactly what I’ve been going through. Alhamdulillah
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I'm actually excited about letting my old self go, because I want to have a greater life and help others do the same. I'm excited to learn and live out of the comfort zone which I believe is the magic zone. I've been lucky to accept life's challenges and grow exponentially in the past so I have the experience. Now it's time to do that again!
Babe wake up the thing I’m gonna talk about for the rest of the day til I get distracted just dropped
So real now I feel miserable about getting distracted 😂
@@HonoredKami I watched this video, absorbed it, applied nothing.
@@HandsomeFrogman y couldn't u apply it
@@HandsomeFrogmanmust…watch… more … videos
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Have been diligently watching every single one of your uploads. Read the book of five rings, currently working on Ryan holiday’s series of books too. Please continue to do what you’re doing, you’re really facilitating major life changes for many of us here. Don’t ever stop buddy, God bless and Godspeed.
I’m reading the book of Five rings as well, part of my Dojo’s curriculum, our dojo has direct lineage to Musashi.
Thank you for making the video! Just what I need right now. It seems to me recently that I’m getting stuck in my current version and feel sad that I’ve forgotten the old versions of myself. These versions of mine served me well. Now it’s time for me to select the characteristics I want to keep to be able to move forward, without the need of forgetting who I was completely.
This video showed up on this day for me to listen,to help me to hold firm and continue to have a strong mind in kicking an addiction ,so that i could have mental clarity and move up to a new beginning/me. Thank you.
Thank you. I needed to hear this. I just have to be love myself a little more and shame myself less.
Same man i really need help
Just like u
Its crazy how this is exactly what I'm going through
The smart Phoenix knows that everything has it price. And in order to raise from his asheys, stronger than before , the Phoenix has to be burned down completly inside his bursting flames. Knowing that and his worth the Smart Phoenix takes that hurting fire with a big Smile in his face 🔥😁🔝☯️
I want to be silent , .. still having connections with ppl. By staying silent. , want to participate in dance competition, and badminton team still be a topper.. want to socialize also an introvert .... I want to speak on stage with out anxiety, i wAnt to to mocs, I want to speak for my self, I want to be bold , I want to be unreachable,I want to sing ,I want to be a topper of class. I want it. I want a job in MNC ..I will , and i will be.🕊️
Goddamn!! You are aspiring to become the exact epitome of what I aspire to be. I wish to go silent as I have quite a lot of friends which are sometimes quite distracting when you're focused on your studies, an aspiring singer and dancer self teaching to become better. And above all, I had been taking professional training in badminton for over an year competing at various inter school tournaments.
I will let go of anxiety and things I can not control.
Great mindset my friend 🙂. Let's focus on the things that we can control.
Wild fires dont usually burn down the forest. A healthy forest getting burned usually just clears the dead plant matter and plants that would compete with the old trees. The healthy and robust saplings will survive and grow. This is how truly ancient forests can form.
This is brilliant. Thank you brother
Feels like exactly what I am going through right now.
This is truly awesome ❤
"The only thing that burns in Hell is the part of you that won't let go of life, your memories, your attachments. They burn them all away. But they're not punishing you... They're freeing your soul."
-from Jacob's Ladder
thank you its really helpd me
Liked it 👍🏻
There's is no unlearning, sinply walk down a new atreet consistently will being about the change you desire. Then the weeds will grow over the old tired path that was once you!
HEARTFULL THANK YOU
Great wisdom here. Thank you
Fr Very helpful video 😊
I thought I had moved on, i thought i had let it go, but unconsciously recurring every time. Now i want to be better or become the best version of myself but something is pulling me. It repeats, i am aware, now all i can do is to accept that I can't do nothing at all.
Same with me 😢
I cannot let it go..
@amarmohanta2516 its like a fresh wound doesn't heal. But i hope eventually, gradually it will heal, just choose the right/ good thoughts.
I struggle to work out how to let my old self go, rather than being scared of it I actually feel like I can't work out how to do it. I sit there struggling to let my old self go and it's frustrating, I just lack the ability to do it
Or perhaps it's just not time yet?
Do you lack the ability or do you just not know where to start? If the latter, find one bad habit of yours and try to replace it with a good habit (eg. If you smoke, any time you step out for a smoke break do 10 push-ups instead)
You change things by changing how you see and feel about them. For example people can't stop smoking because they see themselves as smokers, but what if they started doing a sport couple of times a week and started viewing themselves as sportsman ? Does sportsman smoke ? Also connected smoking with something repulsive to you, would you still smoke if you saw smoking like that repulsive thing ?
It's usually not our old self we're scared of, but our new self. The new self is unfamiliar. Figure out what you don't like about yourself. Picture the ideal version and move realistically and consistently.
I swear this video was made for me. Thank you Universe for sending me the Key 🔑
This felt like isagi breaking into those puzzle pieces and then rebuilding himself
thank you very much.
I see myself stuck to the will and person of Jesus. He guides me everyday and i read His word everyday. We all should.
Beautiful ♥
I think this is just the default way of growth. Growth always requires an inner death exchanging old worn out socks for new stronger and higher quality socks. Are you willing to born to be born again? And are you willing to endure that over and over again?
Everyone grows and learns this way.
11:23- every morning for 21 days
I was always told that you cant be whole without your past present and future... life unfolds as it must. Not a second faster or slower.
I told you "call no one teacher" you are no teacher. You are a sharer. Thanks for sharing :)
I find it idiotic how people think putting the word method infront of something makes it legit or reputable, instead of a UA-camr lacking inspiration for his monetisation.
The interesting thing is I've been doing this for years now without realizing that it's a thing. I mean at some point I considered myself a phoenix of some sort rising from the ashes. I even wrote a poem about this. Damn this is crazy. But at the same time I am glad that I am not alone in this. That I have likeminded ppl like you. It gives me hope specially these days where society has gone out of hand and out of touch with reality.
There is a demon inside of me that I distract with drinking and junk food, etc, until it goes dormant because I know that if it is awake it will destroy me....
Wonderful.
So were you talking about the Gohan from DBZ or am I not kept up? 😮
It's the inspiration for the character yes, but has nothing to do with him other than the name
@@statueofwisdom Ah I see, thanks for clearing me up.
Having tried to change or breakdown and rebuild for 60 years with nothing but failure/ Sorry, happiness is not for everyone. It's just the way it is. All the books, videos, lifestyle changes, meditationsl, yoga, retreats, will not help everyone. False hope almost seems worse for me but I get it. Give to freely. Good luck to all but I just hope for an end soon.
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Well i wasn't looking for metaphors but i got em
thank u
The problem with this video is that it tells you sweeping stages but no specifics on how to do anything in these steps.
That's the point. Everyone is different and must change themselves in different ways, keep different parts of themselves, and grow into their own future, better, selves. It's up to you how to take on a task, how to approach each stage of the process, and only you can know if what you're doing is working for you. Much love and good luck on your journey, friend.
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Thxs AI and i wish Gohan to build his path in the future ,so he stays aligned with himself and have a meaningful life,and same time i will go inside in my deepest self where i have to confronting my fears ,doubts and insecuryties thats why i have to leave my comfort zone sure its will not be easy ,i want to break the cycle that bear since my childhood and this time i want to rise up from my ashes differently,which give me new oppurtunites ,to handle it wiser,i will let go but with faith ,blessings for all of you and me in trust i believe amen
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Let the phoenix fly free, then it will be accomplished! In the heavens right now the phoenix constellation is approaching the planet Pluto the very destroyer. From the ashes will become the new and shiny version becoming the best fo it. Your shadow is waiting to be heard and used for the new life to begin🌹❤️
nice video with a great message but... who is Gohan...?
All of us
I did this under the Eclipse in April while tripping out on a heroic dose of mushrooms.
May not recommend to everyone.
Nobody kills themselves, ascension meant enlightenment.
Becoming a Phoenix is the toughest best thing that ever happened to me
Does anyone have any good book recommendations on this topic ?
Different type of ego death
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Managing immaturity angry behavior
She never chooses me.
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Thank you
Look into the mirror and repeat 10 times with feeling I love you so much and I forgive you , I promise do this for 30 days thanks ❤ spread love from the heart
I'm not even going to watch the video I just wanted to comment on the title. It's not about killing any aspect of yourself, it's about releasing it with love. We don't deny any part of ourselves. And if we're going to change the old patterns in the old cycles and the dysfunction within society we got to stop shaming and that begins with the self.
Which Anime is this?
can't really connect to the video. The Voice is not deep enough
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I can't help but take it personally when even youtube recommends me suicide...
Not really. Just feel stuck in a place that doesn't have many options to choose from. Landlocked without a vehicle.
Male them yourself
U scroll me here.
Dont you have to be reborn in a mear death experience?
At age 74?
I just don't understand 😭😅
Just restrain urself from following ur current habits and build n follow new ones even if it's uncomfortable.
Gohan from dragon ball or dragon ball z 😂
gohaan is goku's son.
Thank you for the video.
PLEASE try to not use AI for the art. Instead use actual clips or images or pay artists to make something for you.
Didnt work. My shirt caught on fire . instructions unclear.
Trying to kill off versions of yourself doesnt work. God loves you no matter the season, and when you do the Deep Work, you will find yourself going back to reclaiming those parts of you that you subjected to demonic bondage in the spirit. Instead, give yourself in this season to the Father and ask Him to take you further into Himself so you may become more like who He truely created you to be. This is how we give ourselves rest in love and in relationship with the Lord.
Remember me by like this comment buddy
He’s just mumbling random generic stuff it’s just he’s visuals keeping his viewers or I should say kids
You still watched the video.
Like my comment to get me rewatch this video
If you want to become a better version of yourself, you can start by not consuming AI-generated slop masquerading as practical life advice.
lmao
Suicide, eh?
Satan will save me!!!
TOTAL BS literally learnt nothing
In due you will get there. Hopefully, you stumble upon the information that you surely need for the change that you are seeking
@@gem4715 this was such a click bait brother I knew everything that this video told while I actually wanted to learn the process this video only told me the same old BS
@@Kingyoim I was a little disappointed too, but the video did say some key things and I'll fill in the rest for you. I barely graduated high school and afterwards put myself through my own self-development program in junior college and ended up picking up my grades from a 2.75 to a 3.75 GPA and getting accepted to an Ivy League level college, and much more. The video says the first step: 1) identify the problems, the things you don't like about yourself, the things holding you back. 2) Then figure out how to begin attacking these things, and how many you cannot attack at the same time. I identified 5 things in my life that I didn't like and some were even a little silly, like "I didn't dance when I went to clubs and parties", which sounds dumb but I was overly shy and limiting my fun in life." I remember the first time I danced at a party AND BEEN DANCING EVERY SINCE!!! One big problem was my chronic shyness, which I conquered by forcing myself to do small things that scared me, like dancing at parties and talking to pretty girls in public, sometimes just for conversation, just to become more comfortable with beautiful women. After that, I got my first "real" girlfriend, made a lot more friends, and had a lot more fun in life, even became a "party guy" for a little while lol. Third step, 3) Once I conquered those 5 things within a year or so, I made a new list of things that were even more difficult. I also had stage fright and a fear of success. But I made myself do small things that I was afraid of, and little by little I conquered them. You may not believe me, but living in California all my life I conquered my stage fright enough to be a professional actor!!! Yeah, I acted in Hollywood for about 5 years, was a member of SAG, did a few TV shows, a buuuuunch of commercials, some network promos, and a few music videos, then eventually moved to Japan and continued my career there, and have lived happily overseas in various countries every since. The key is self-analysis, identify the things you don't like about yourself and begin attacking them little by little, facing the fear or breaking the habit every chance you get. It takes courage, but start small. The fourth step 4) is to make new friends, habits, and hangout places every time you grow and conquer a part of yourself. Surround yourself with the exact kind of people and frequent places that support your new growth/habit/skill/etc., and find new places and activities that do the same. I cut out TV altogether (accept for sports, Star Trek, and a few other things lol), and became a coffee shop guy spending 3 - 4 days a week in coffee shops on my computer working, growing, studying, and meeting interesting people when possible. I had to start seeing my High school friends a lot less and started seeing my new "progressive" friends much more, but I'm still cool with everybody. You can't fight the world. You have to shape your environment around you with people, places, and activities that take you where you want to go, and then do the small things "every day" that get you there. My "Ace in the hole" was that I always believed in myself, but the more you believe in yourself the better, so I had a program to help me develop that as well. No one can do it for you - You have to do it!!! If you really want it, the you'll get it, and if you really don't, then you really won't. That's the only real secret. It's not rocket science. Good luck.
@@broq9194 yes but then if you talk about nuance, moving out is tough in americas itself and I come from a third world country so I do think my most problems will be solved with all the "new" we talked here but when I change my internal world and still feel stuck in the external circumstances it's hard to do stuff therefore needed some solution to that stuff...
@@Kingyoimhmm whatever is in ur control try changing it whatever is not in ur control accept it there's no other better way according to me at least we are born into our circumstances some we can change some we can't
This did not explained HOW to burn away our old selves AT ALL!
Then you have a bad sense of self awareness that needs refinement
Let go of everything u were everything that mattered every addiction bad habits keep only the good from ur past even though it might be hard try doing it and u will find an answer
Bad habits are our way of staying in the comfort zone, it’s makes us feel “safe” because we recognize the habit will make us feel significant or gratified or validated which our trauma-riddled bodies think is “safe,” but once you’ve done that dance enough times and you begin to realize these bad habits aren’t helping you grow that’s when you have to “burn the old self” as the video describes and start making active choices to be a new you: reaching for that Twinkie again? STOP, BREATHE, ask yourself what would be a better thing for you right now, then go do that thing. If you follow that process long enough you begin to condition new neural pathways and behaviors while the old pathways atrophy (die off) and then one day you’re running on a whole new system, a whole new you, and that’s how you burn the old self down. It’s a process and you have to make the choice for yourself, it may sound exhausting but aren’t you worth it after all?
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